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Title: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: el numero uno on March 12, 2012, 02:02:48 PM
Any nude pics of her?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: The Grim Lifter on March 12, 2012, 02:03:49 PM
She's keeping in touch in case things with you go south

So you should flirt with women in front of her too and make her work for your attention

Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: NeilGM on March 12, 2012, 02:06:10 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?



I would leave her, sound immature
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on March 12, 2012, 02:07:16 PM
You need to give her unlubed primal anal sex right now to show her you are the dominant one and to never keep secrets from you.  If you have  dildo in the house, DP her while analy massacaring her for total submission to you.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: apply85 on March 12, 2012, 02:07:51 PM
hmmm... so u r a cuckold

whatever woman u choose will treatu the same, i would just dive head first and ask if u can lick his come out her pussy next time she fucks him
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:09:47 PM
I just mailed the link to this post to her, cause she did nothing wrong... So she is reading this...
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dr.chimps on March 12, 2012, 02:11:41 PM
What the fark is with all these relationship questions!? This isn't Dear Abby.  ???
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:12:53 PM
This or roid rage on them both... but i would rather skip publicity... :)
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: mr.turbo on March 12, 2012, 02:14:04 PM
probably nothing to worry about.  just make sure you're getting some on the side too and it's even steven
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 12, 2012, 02:21:08 PM
1. Women love it when you ask questions like this on a forum and then mail the link to them

2. Hard to say.. it could be innocent and she didn't believe you would believe her (trust issue)

It could be she is having an affair of sorts with the ex because he supplies her with something you don't... conversation, understanding...orgasms. .who knows..

Personally, I couldn't trust her at this point and it would make for a rough relationship going forward. Even if she says she cut it off, you'll never really know..
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: AlphaM on March 12, 2012, 02:22:39 PM
You need to give her unlubed primal anal sex right now to show her you are the dominant one and to never keep secrets from you.  If you have  dildo in the house, DP her while analy massacaring her for total submission to you.

This.

Also, after you do this you should smoke a sig at her house while she's still trying to come back out of the orgazms in her bed, then dress up say "I'll call you" and leave. Obviously, you never call her ... She will contact you but this time expect her to have some anal lube with her :D so the story can be repeated with more pleasure..


Lots of betas here... Guys you need learn lots of things... And learning comes from experience and the harder the experience the better man you will end up ;) don't forget who you are - you are a MAN. The moment you act like a pussy (which you did) she will start looking around in search of stronger more stable male - its nature so be strong and know how to read woman ;)
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: V Man on March 12, 2012, 02:25:51 PM
OJ Simpson once had a problem similar to this....can't remember what his solution was though. :-\
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on March 12, 2012, 02:27:36 PM
OJ Simpson once had a problem similar to this....can't remember what his solution was though. :-\

Bought two Columbian Neck Ties.  Designer ones I think.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dustin on March 12, 2012, 02:29:42 PM
You know the drill. We need a full glute spread to be able to help.

In all seriousness though, that's not good at all. Maybe a Facebook message to say "hey, hope you're doing good". But I find that texting and talking on the phone is much too personal. She's cheating physically and/or emotionally. Drop her before you get all attached and become a sobbing vagina, begging for her love when she's actually banging him and making you meltdown.

I've seen it all too many times before. If she's a good poke, keep her around and treat her like shit. Treat a girl like shit and she'll stick to you like mud. Just don't make any emotional investments. She needs to be dead to you, otherwise YOU will be the one that'll get hurt. She's got someone on the side and you're left to wallow in emotional agony... fuck that! Take care of yourself, bro!
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: tu_holmes on March 12, 2012, 02:39:24 PM
She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Schmoff on March 12, 2012, 02:40:31 PM
sorry, bro, your dick is not satisfying her, move on, get rid of her

Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:41:12 PM
At this point I offer a naked picture of her to the person giving me the best answer... No head full body... full spread...

So go for it...
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: mr.turbo on March 12, 2012, 02:49:18 PM
real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Overload on March 12, 2012, 02:50:12 PM
You came to the best place for this kind of advice.

Dump the skank and move on.

She's obviously cheating on you.

Thank me in 3 months when you "find out she's cheating but didn't think it would happen to you".


8)
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:53:53 PM
real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch

Exactly my point, if we keep it serious... But hey she said she loves me, and she never did anything that would hurt me... Why not telling me than?

OH I JUST WOULD LOVE TO SEE HER FACE WHILE READING THESE...:))
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: V Man on March 12, 2012, 02:55:04 PM
Just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her spending time with someone she has had an intimate relationship in the past, and that if the tables were turned she would feel the same way. If she cannot respect that then tell her you are going to move on.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Rearden Metal on March 12, 2012, 02:58:08 PM
Do what I do. Contact the guy and tell him this one he doesn't get to play with without dancing with me too.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: makaveli25 on March 12, 2012, 03:01:35 PM
Kill them both
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dustin on March 12, 2012, 03:02:36 PM
Do what I do. Contact the guy and tell him this one he doesn't get to play with without dancing with me too.

Do this, but send a picture of your cock too for good measure.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: skeela on March 12, 2012, 03:03:02 PM
As a woman....(probably the only woman on gb ::))......if it was all so innocent why didn't she tell you from the beginning what's been going on,who he is and that she's been hanging out with this guy?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Earl1972 on March 12, 2012, 03:06:06 PM
it's ok

just look at jerry and elaine

E
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Nails on March 12, 2012, 03:16:48 PM
friends in this day an age means, she is sending him pics of her tits when she gets drunk or board at work.

sorry bud, i suggest you have your own "FRIENDS" on speed dial ready to fuck as well
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: da_vinci on March 12, 2012, 03:17:05 PM
She was certainly deep throating her ex's dick for quite some time already.. (tho she've done that before too.. so...)..

I'd say just shoot her str8 in the head the next time you'll announce at home.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Soul Crusher on March 12, 2012, 03:21:11 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?








Dont get attached.   
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Royalty on March 12, 2012, 03:22:26 PM
She doesnt respect you... You need to take a stand; and dump her. Let her know that she is being dumped for secretly meeting up with her ex. She needs to learn to have some respect.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Option D on March 12, 2012, 03:24:09 PM
She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.

^truth... sorry to tell ya.. but thats whats goin on for sure
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: deadz on March 12, 2012, 03:24:48 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?


F OFF
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: L.L on March 12, 2012, 03:37:27 PM
shes fucking him..not such thing as being a friend with an ex...remember he was the one who made that pussy cum a bunch of times before you...that dick ruled once there and it is doing it again, she loves it...if your dick was the one she wouldnt even give him the time of the day......get away..
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: the trainer on March 12, 2012, 03:38:00 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?



You do not have the ability to please a woman, do the following first get a dick enlargement operation then think about naked men when you are fucking her so you last longer.................. ........................ .Actually that will make you cum faster so tell her the truth you are a fag.





Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: newkid1985 on March 12, 2012, 03:38:58 PM
So your girl basically goes out to get coffee and talks all the time to her ex and you have to ask where you stand in the equation. If you have any doubts that she is faithful its already over sry bud new pussy is the best glue for a broken heart and like grandpa say find em, feel em, fuck em, free em and youll be alright. Great man he is
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: L.L on March 12, 2012, 03:39:52 PM
As a woman....(probably the only woman on gb ::))......if it was all so innocent why didn't she tell you from the beginning what's been going on,who he is and that she's been hanging out with this guy?

listen to this whore..she is right on the money. ;D
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: wes on March 12, 2012, 03:44:32 PM
shes fucking him..not such thing as being a friend with an ex...remember he was the one who made that pussy cum a bunch of times before you...that dick ruled once there and it is doing it again, she loves it...if your dick was the one she wouldnt even give him the time of the day......get away..
X 2

Don`t get played man,move on,chicks are like busses,there`s another one coming along every twenty minutes.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: skeela on March 12, 2012, 03:49:44 PM
listen to this whore..she is right on the money. ;D

charming.......
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: jbflift on March 12, 2012, 03:52:34 PM
Cut your  losses.  My ex-wife did the same thing, "we are just friends".  I wish I had more friends that would screw me.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Army of One on March 12, 2012, 03:59:48 PM
I wish I had more friends that would screw me.

Become a male IFBB Pro, you prayers will be answered
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: jbflift on March 12, 2012, 04:03:05 PM
I should have said more female friends screw me.   :)
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: K-1 on March 12, 2012, 04:06:13 PM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?



Honestly...you are wasting your time with her. She's not only "leaving doors open" while you are together..she is lying and adamant about it.

This is typical cat and mouse...while you are chasing her...she's chasing something else...in the meantime you guys are together just riding time playing house...don't fk up and have a kid or get financials too tied into one another because this is a train wreck waiting to happen.

Trust me. Mark this down as a learning experience. You will be laughing and shaking your head wondering how you even tolerated this shit years later when you are chilling with your new sexy ass piece that just wants to give you BJ's and fix you sandwiches with no drama.

Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: 240 is Back on March 12, 2012, 04:06:20 PM
She's keeping in touch in case things with you go south


agreed x 1000.

You can accept this, and know that your relationship is only a temporary thing.
Or you can realize you can't put your heart there, and leave.

Talking to him isn't great, but isn't bad.  Lying about it tells you everthing you need to know. 

Listen to this song - just takes a few minutes - and it'll open up your eyes.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Nirvana on March 12, 2012, 04:24:03 PM
I like my beer just like my violence, domestic.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: L.L on March 12, 2012, 04:40:18 PM
charming.......

  iwas just bustin your clit... ;D
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Hulkotron on March 12, 2012, 04:42:48 PM
Is the other guy black?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: skeela on March 12, 2012, 04:53:44 PM
  iwas just bustin your clit... ;D

you wish you moron
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dustin on March 12, 2012, 04:54:50 PM
you wish you moron

Woah, a girl on the internet.

Show us your tits!
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: skeela on March 12, 2012, 04:56:28 PM
Woah, a girl on the internet.

Show us your tits!

show some respect moron #2
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Hulkotron on March 12, 2012, 04:58:09 PM
Also ask yourself if you've ever done the things she's doing with this guy with a girl you weren't trying to hump.  I bet the answer is "no".
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: purenaturalstrength on March 12, 2012, 04:59:30 PM
What the fark is with all these relationship questions!? This isn't Dear Abby.  ???
it's not like he cannot answer his own question better than any of us random internet folk
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Tapeworm on March 12, 2012, 05:05:43 PM
I'll give you the headsup.  You're dating the town bike.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: tbombz on March 12, 2012, 11:30:39 PM
she most likely stilll has feelings for the dude.  if she honestly has just been friends with him though, and there was never any flirting going on between them, then i could see why she might not have told you about it. especially if you guys arent talking about staying together long term yet.   as you said, you didnt mention to her that you had slept with those women.  whats good for the goose is good for the gander.  you could cut it off if your feelings for her arent phenomenal. it will take some work to build a completely trusting relationship, and id understand not wanting to do with unless your sure you want to be with her for a while. only do this if you can get her to stop thinking about that ex of hers and just focus on you.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: outby43 on March 13, 2012, 12:08:54 AM
I'll give you the headsup.  You're dating the town bike.
;D
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: OTHstrong on March 13, 2012, 01:10:58 AM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?


Blind or gullible, either way snap out of it, she is banging him, nevermind her lying, that is the least of your worries.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Tapeworm on March 13, 2012, 06:15:17 AM
Even if you kids break up and she starts seeing some other guy, at least you know you'll still be able to fuck her 3x a week and the new guy won't have a clue.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: DK II on March 13, 2012, 06:24:05 AM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?




hahaah, how old are you, 14?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Radical Plato on March 13, 2012, 06:32:15 AM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?


Nude Pics Please!
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: mr.turbo on March 13, 2012, 06:33:37 AM
Exactly my point, if we keep it serious... But hey she said she loves me, and she never did anything that would hurt me... Why not telling me than?

OH I JUST WOULD LOVE TO SEE HER FACE WHILE READING THESE...:))

tell her you're gonna start hanging out with your ex's and see what she says. haha!

what's fair is fair...right?

she should be put on probation and monitored for improvements to her behavior if she wants to regain or retain "girlfriend" status.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dj181 on March 13, 2012, 06:39:27 AM
Is the other guy black?


 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: dj181 on March 13, 2012, 07:01:38 AM
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Marlo Stanfield on March 13, 2012, 08:45:02 AM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?



My thoughts...

1) your a pussy . for one, you need to send this link to her so she can see what some online folks have to say about this situation? its like you cant talk for yourself.

2) shes a slut. of all the men in the world, if she is having small coffees (translate:blowjob in the car) with her EX, and didnt feel the need to tell you, then thats not a girl i'd like to be with

3)You both sound immature.. her questioning you constantly about women around you, and you saying shit like "But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... " like a 5 yrd old boy trying to sound cool like you cheat behind your GF's back, but trying to sound mysterious

4)your insinuating you cheated on your gf, and your gf is meeting her ex, this is a dysfunctional relationship

5) there is no trust between you guys. trust is one thing that once its breached, it will always leave a nagging voice in the bak of your head saying " is she really with her gf, or is she meeting the ex again?"


WTF should you guys do? go your seperate ways, find new mates




Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: 240 is Back on March 13, 2012, 10:22:03 AM
Even if you kids break up and she starts seeing some other guy, at least you know you'll still be able to fuck her 3x a week and the new guy won't have a clue.

lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: coltrane on March 13, 2012, 12:46:32 PM
She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.

Probably already happening now.

Dump her pronto.  She is untrusting AND she still desires attention from her ex.

Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 13, 2012, 12:53:38 PM
Hard to sum up a complete relationship in a few words. A relationship or partner that is great in so many areas and has shortcomings in one may be worth working through it with. A partner who is a mess in so many areas and adds another one to the list ..well, probably need to cut your losses.

Her failing to tell you could be she is a total slut, playing you like a banjo and using you for everything you got while she bones her ex and anyone else with a pulse..

or.. it could just mean you are such a dick when she tells you things you might not like that she wants to avoid your drama queen ass and just doesn't tell you since it's totally innocent and you are just too insecure to understand..

Only you know for sure   
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: coltrane on March 13, 2012, 12:59:43 PM
Hard to sum up a complete relationship in a few words. A relationship or partner that is great in so many areas and has shortcomings in one may be worth working through it with. A partner who is a mess in so many areas and adds another one to the list ..well, probably need to cut your losses.

Her failing to tell you could be she is a total slut, playing you like a banjo and using you for everything you got while she bones her ex and anyone else with a pulse..

or.. it could just mean you are such a dick when she tells you things you might not like that she wants to avoid your drama queen ass and just doesn't tell you since it's totally innocent and you are just too insecure to understand..Only you know for sure   

True.

BUT, does a girlfriend NEED to have the ex SOOO much in her life as to be having coffee, etc. etc.?    That, I question.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 13, 2012, 01:04:06 PM
True.

BUT, does a girlfriend NEED to have the ex SOOO much in her life as to be having coffee, etc. etc.?    That, I question.

What I suspect is... Ex broke up with her because she is looney tunes. Probably smokin hot, but looney tunes, you know the type... He still keeps her hanging on for the sex, but doesn't want a serious relationship and it's perfect that she has a boyfriend. She... thinks she has a shot of winning him back because he is still seeing her on the side for "coffee". She talks to him about her current problems with her boyfriend, he listens and offers token advice, careful never to cross that "you should leave him" line so he isn't at risk of having to deal with her crap more often than he already does...

Anyway.. just my guess...

Yeah, I've been that ex before...
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: coltrane on March 13, 2012, 01:19:45 PM
What I suspect is... Ex broke up with her because she is looney tunes. Probably smokin hot, but looney tunes, you know the type... He still keeps her hanging on for the sex, but doesn't want a serious relationship and it's perfect that she has a boyfriend. She... thinks she has a shot of winning him back because he is still seeing her on the side for "coffee". She talks to him about her current problems with her boyfriend, he listens and offers token advice, careful never to cross that "you should leave him" line so he isn't at risk of having to deal with her crap more often than he already does...

Anyway.. just my guess...

Yeah, I've been that ex before...

This sounds completely logical and is probably the case here. 
I'd monitor the situation more, sending out one of my boys to spy. 
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Iceman1981 on March 13, 2012, 01:25:49 PM
real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch

I agree ^^^^^^^^^^^ with Mr. Ben.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Nails on March 13, 2012, 01:28:30 PM
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Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: chess315 on March 13, 2012, 10:52:03 PM
My question is why would you want to stay in this relationship. You both cheat on each other (or you are deluded and pretend to cheat because you are getting your girl's ex's left overs every week). Have fun, play the field, and once you meet that one girl you want to settle with then put your efforts there.

My advice if you want to keep her is get the guys number meet up with him. Ask him about the situation without getting mad. Then tell him he has to make it up to you. He will ask how. Tell him you want to do a three way with him and her. Once you guys are doing it make sure you perform better than he does. At that point you will regain the power. You can laugh at her, tell her she is a whore and walk away. Or you can try to tame that ass with some hardcore sexual deviance. Another option If she agrees to the 3 way is you can also leave so you dont get your panties in a bunch. Or you can discover who she likes the most. Well that is all. Good luck.
if some jack ass called or messaged me asking to meet up about his gf lol that would be fucking stupid why would you go talk to some guy about his gf talking to you I would laugh at him or ignore him
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: D.O.U.P on March 14, 2012, 07:22:45 AM
My thoughts...

1) your a pussy . for one, you need to send this link to her so she can see what some online folks have to say about this situation? its like you cant talk for yourself.

2) shes a slut. of all the men in the world, if she is having small coffees (translate:blowjob in the car) with her EX, and didnt feel the need to tell you, then thats not a girl i'd like to be with

3)You both sound immature.. her questioning you constantly about women around you, and you saying shit like "But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... " like a 5 yrd old boy trying to sound cool like you cheat behind your GF's back, but trying to sound mysterious

4)your insinuating you cheated on your gf, and your gf is meeting her ex, this is a dysfunctional relationship

5) there is no trust between you guys. trust is one thing that once its breached, it will always leave a nagging voice in the bak of your head saying " is she really with her gf, or is she meeting the ex again?"


WTF should you guys do? go your seperate ways, find new mates






Funny AND SPOT ON.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Stavios on March 14, 2012, 07:23:56 AM
OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... :)

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?



she is fucking him

no offence
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Earl1972 on March 14, 2012, 11:19:01 AM
who dumped who?

if he dumped her, doesn't sound good for you

E
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Nails on March 14, 2012, 11:26:14 AM
If you want proof positive of her faithfulless or whoreness  next time she comes home after a long night of sleeping next to a guy and not doing anything, wait til she gets in the shower and grab her used panties and give them the good ol sperm/cum test.....

But in your case, you might have to test her Toothbrush


http://www.amazon.com/Check-Infidelity-detect-Semen-private/dp/B002N2P1A2/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1331749507&sr=8-12 (http://www.amazon.com/Check-Infidelity-detect-Semen-private/dp/B002N2P1A2/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1331749507&sr=8-12)


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Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: ecto2meso on March 14, 2012, 01:59:29 PM
Leave her ass bro, or at least I would
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Henda on March 14, 2012, 02:06:45 PM
get rid of the bitch
her ex sounds like a right homo still hanging around with her in hanging onto the hope that she will get back with him.
pair of sacks of shit leave them to it
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: King Shizzo on March 14, 2012, 03:10:42 PM
Where are the pussy pics bitch?!
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Shockwave on March 14, 2012, 03:26:06 PM
She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.
Exactly this.
Women only keep in contact with their ex for 2 reasons -
1.Youre not giving her what she needs/desires
2.She's worried that youre relationship is going to go south and she needs an out. This will eventually lead back to #1, as soon she will start comparing you to her ex. Her own insecurities will run her right out of the relationship. Almost always women who need an out like that are expecting it to go south, so they subconciously do things that will cause the relationship to fail, or even try to pre-empt you by finding a reason to bail out of the relationship.

Leave her ass now, more than likely its only a matter of time.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: Anna Recksiek on March 14, 2012, 04:52:16 PM
Jealousy is weakness. He dumped her cause she's a slut and is still fucking her on
the side like someone else already stated. It seems shady because it is shady.
Move on and save yourself the anguish. No matter how much of a badass you are or
aren't its her with the drama and if you stick around long enough she will drag you into it.
If she were trustworthy and it wasn't a big deal she would have told you at the time.
Women try to play you like that to lock you down but if they do lock you in this way they
lose respect for you and set up shop with the next dude who comes along.
Don't make a scene about it just leave. If you have it out with her she will just blame it on
you being an asshole and continue to repeat the same scenario. If you cut out
without confrontation then she will be forced to look at her part of it and that shit will sting.
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: King Shizzo on March 14, 2012, 04:56:25 PM
Jealousy is weakness. He dumped her cause she's a slut and is still fucking her on
the side like someone else already stated. It seems shady because it is shady.
Move on and save yourself the anguish. No matter how much of a badass you are or
aren't its her with the drama and if you stick around long enough she will drag you into it.
If she were trustworthy and it wasn't a big deal she would have told you at the time.
Women try to play you like that to lock you down but if they do lock you in this way they
lose respect for you and set up shop with the next dude who comes along.
Don't make a scene about it just leave. If you have it out with her she will just blame it on
you being an asshole and continue to repeat the same scenario. If you cut out
without confrontation then she will be forced to look at her part of it and that shit will sting.
Pussy Pics?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: OTHstrong on March 15, 2012, 01:40:31 PM
Haha, this is getbig bro, getbig if full of ego driven, low class society, heartless, drug addicts etc etc  ;D....................

.............BUT getbig gives the most honest assessment, ALWAYS PERIOD., getbig has integrity in this manner, if you look like shit they tell you, if your fat they tell you, getbig says it how it is, no one can deny this and right now everybody on the board is telling you that she is banging him, trust me they are right, I would put everything on this, guaranteed  she is getting it from him and possibly in all 3 holes too, Is she reading this? if so, ... WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOUR FOOLING, anyone from grade 3 and can see this, cheater, low life scum, haha this guy is going to dumb your ass, just a matter of time, bro get your head straight, what is wrong with you?
Title: Re: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...
Post by: tu_holmes on March 15, 2012, 03:13:57 PM
Exactly this.
Women only keep in contact with their ex for 2 reasons -
1.Youre not giving her what she needs/desires
2.She's worried that youre relationship is going to go south and she needs an out. This will eventually lead back to #1, as soon she will start comparing you to her ex. Her own insecurities will run her right out of the relationship. Almost always women who need an out like that are expecting it to go south, so they subconciously do things that will cause the relationship to fail, or even try to pre-empt you by finding a reason to bail out of the relationship.

Leave her ass now, more than likely its only a matter of time.

I have an EX that is always trying to get me to do shit with her... I try to avoid it... She's nice enough, I've met her for lunch or something twice in the past 3 years... Just kind of to be cordial, but if she tries to get me to see her or hang out, in general, I avoid it.

She would break it off for me in a heartbeat if I wanted it, but I'm not doing that to another guy (she's married) and to quote Jack as the Joker "Never rub another man's rhubarb."