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Title: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: 5antasy on March 17, 2012, 02:26:18 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!
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Post by: LittleJ on March 17, 2012, 02:27:58 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!

what bible?

holy bible?
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Post by: mass243 on March 17, 2012, 02:28:08 PM
I can't answer this.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Your Average GymRat on March 17, 2012, 02:29:20 PM
What you've always done: steal anonymous panties from the laundremat and beat off in a parked car.
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Post by: funk51 on March 17, 2012, 02:29:51 PM
 ;D cool av...
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Post by: 240 is Back on March 17, 2012, 02:33:29 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 17, 2012, 02:38:42 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.


apply85 school of seduction  :D ;D
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Post by: Coach is Back! on March 17, 2012, 02:40:03 PM
I met my first wife in the gym :-\
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Krankenstein on March 17, 2012, 02:40:39 PM
What you've always done: steal anonymous panties from the laundremat and beat off in a parked car.

You've been getting away with it for years, but sooner or later they will catch you....be careful.....we here at GetBig worry about you.
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Post by: tom joad on March 17, 2012, 02:42:07 PM
I pulled my wife from the gym.
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Post by: Devon97 on March 17, 2012, 02:45:01 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!

True story: this time last year I finally approached a chick in the gym ( super hot) seen her on and off for the previous 14 months.

Got some advice from Quickerblade, talked to the girl on Monday at gym, got her # called her that night, we went out Wed then kissed at my place a/f date. Went to movie on Friday then went back to my place to have sex. We hung out on and off for the next 6 months and turns out she was married but separated the entire time.

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Post by: BiGHer on March 17, 2012, 02:53:02 PM
I met my first wife in the gym :-\

Coach how many times you been married?
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Post by: TrapsMcLats on March 17, 2012, 03:22:42 PM
advice from my single days:

Be nice to every (young) girl in the gym, no matter if they're ugly, hot, fat, skinny, etc... (let's say its a girl u see at the gym all the time, or a girl at the front desk...not just random girls)...All you gotta do is say "hey, how are you doing today?" smile, walk away, go about your business at the gym.  Do the same as you leave. no chit chat, no small talk, no nothing.  After a while they all see that you're a good guy, and wonder why you don't talk to them more.  Now, I know many of you are going to say "chicks don't want "good guys," but chicks at the gym are often times the ones that have been played, so a nice guy who seems disinterested is more appealing than an asshole who seems disinterested.  But beware the one "hot" girl in every gym who has been passed around like a joint.  They;ll fuck your brains out and then slash your tires.
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Post by: Your Average GymRat on March 17, 2012, 03:26:43 PM
I met my first wife in the gym :-\
She must hate your fuckin guts.
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Post by: 5antasy on March 17, 2012, 03:32:17 PM
advice from my single days:

Be nice to every (young) girl in the gym, no matter if they're ugly, hot, fat, skinny, etc... (let's say its a girl u see at the gym all the time, or a girl at the front desk...not just random girls)...All you gotta do is say "hey, how are you doing today?" smile, walk away, go about your business at the gym.  Do the same as you leave. no chit chat, no small talk, no nothing.  After a while they all see that you're a good guy, and wonder why you don't talk to them more.  Now, I know many of you are going to say "chicks don't want "good guys," but chicks at the gym are often times the ones that have been played, so a nice guy who seems disinterested is more appealing than an asshole who seems disinterested.  But beware the one "hot" girl in every gym who has been passed around like a joint.  They;ll fuck your brains out and then slash your tires.

Good post and username.

I approve.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Marty Champions on March 17, 2012, 03:33:43 PM
its always best to treat everyone good. but it is not smart to make close friends, it can be a bad idea because other people not in the know tend to talk bad about other people deseuading you from your kindness that can reap much benefit to your life and others
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: StanZoLOL on March 17, 2012, 03:33:59 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.


100% spot on, although if you don't do this naturally I can't see being able to 'act' it...
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Post by: Red Hook on March 17, 2012, 03:41:55 PM
Follow her to her car....sneak up behind her and use this technique.  100% success..quick easy date

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Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: aesthetics on March 17, 2012, 03:48:01 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.


this is bad advice.

you cannot unilaterally be a dick to every single woman, it works less and less effectively the older you get. it's also subjective and the women have to show interest in you first.

many women are there at the gym for the same reasons as anyone else and they are focused on lifting. if the woman doesn't first notice you or pay attention to you, then being a dickhead to her is only going to drive her away. i would do the complete opposite of your advice here, it would be the perfect time to strike up a repertoire, before anyone starts lifting and you would seem pathetic for approaching the woman at that point. afterwards, once you know each other you can talk to her in between sets in a jovial manner and easily score at that point if you've got game.

most guys blow the "nice guy" approach though and just come off as sexually frustrated creepers with no spine. probably why everyone just chooses to be a dick to a girl and pray it works, though, it usually won't depending on the woman.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: prophecy on March 17, 2012, 03:52:03 PM
" doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping."

lmao  ;D

ps. being a dick works every time
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Post by: Palpatine Q on March 17, 2012, 03:52:35 PM
To answer the question..no, but they sure hit on me a lot.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 17, 2012, 04:02:18 PM
this worked for me the only time i genuinely felt like i had to knew this girl:

i finished my workout, i went to her bicycle and told her "slow down i gotta tell you some" she did "look i come to the room to lift but i've seen you a couple times and i like your face looks when you smile, its sexy (it was), i'm XXX *kiss cheeks "i'm YYY" she replied. From there just regular talk nothing fancy, when does she come when do i come, how long have we both been into working out blablabla i told her i'm be having my meal right there (pointed to the bar across the street where i ate my chicken or steak sammich and my fruit juice) join me YYY it'll be fun, we'll know each other"
I went to the bar to eat and about 25mins latter she came i bough her a gatorade and we kept talk. Exchanged phones numbers and dated that same evening for a walk and dinner at Viena (good food, not expensive). Went to her place, sealed the deal and we dated for some months.

cliffs: Be genuine, if you are it'll work. If it doesn't who cares? but it will. It did for me and i'm was skinny, pale, 5,7" and dress cheap. I don't see why it wouldn't work for anyone else.
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Post by: aesthetics on March 17, 2012, 04:08:22 PM
this worked for me the only time i genuinely felt like i had to knew this girl:

i finished my workout, i went to her bicycle and told her "slow down i gotta tell you some" she did "look i come to the room to lift but i've seen you a couple times and i like your face looks when you smile, its sexy (it was), i'm XXX *kiss cheeks "i'm YYY" she replied. From there just regular talk nothing fancy, when does she come when do i come, how long have we both been into working out blablabla i told her i'm be having my meal right there (pointed to the bar across the street where i ate my chicken or steak sammich and my fruit juice) join me YYY it'll be fun, we'll know each other"
I went to the bar to eat and about 25mins latter she came i bough her a gatorade and we kept talk. Exchanged phones numbers and dated that same evening for a walk and dinner at Viena (good food, not expensive). Went to her place, sealed the deal and we dated for some months.

cliffs: Be genuine, if you are it'll work. If it doesn't who cares? but it will. It did for me and i'm was skinny, pale, 5,7" and dress cheap. I don't see why it wouldn't work for anyone else.


at what point did you shit on her chest
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 17, 2012, 04:10:53 PM

at what point did you shit on her chest

i did shit on her, latter on the relationship, she did shit plenty after an all anal session. She blushed like a peach. I kissed her in the cheek and smiled at her. I'm not an ogre. Then i smeared some in her little perky tits. Dull i know, i was young.
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Post by: MB_722 on March 17, 2012, 04:13:19 PM
I don't, Its don't shit where you eat situation. now if a girl approaches me. wtf why not :D
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Post by: Obvious Gimmick on March 17, 2012, 04:13:55 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.


truer words were never spoken!  :)
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 17, 2012, 04:17:29 PM
Be true to yourself; your mindset, your values, your humor to YOU and Don't stop believing.

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Post by: chess315 on March 17, 2012, 04:55:47 PM
I'm to old to now but yes fuck if you offend them who the fuck cares they can find another gym :D ever since the 21yo old at the desk took me to sell my blood when i was drunk the manager of the gym don't say anything to me and my friends no matter what we do lol
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Post by: 5antasy on March 17, 2012, 04:59:02 PM
I'm to old to now but yes fuck if you offend them who the fuck cares they can find another gym :D ever since the 21yo old at the desk took me to sell my blood when i was drunk the manager of the gym don't say anything to me and my friends no matter what we do lol

What?
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 05:32:59 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!

Your arms are 16 inches, you have a receding hairline, and your tattoos scream douche bag.  don't waste your time
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Post by: 5antasy on March 17, 2012, 05:35:12 PM
Your arms are 16 inches, you have a receding hairline, and your tattoos scream douche bag.  don't waste your time

They're 16.5", dickhead.
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Post by: outby43 on March 17, 2012, 05:45:51 PM
I quit talking to girls in the gym when a hottie called me "sir".  Fuck... right then I knew I was too old to be attempting to pick up young chicks at the gym.  Gotta wait till I catch them out drunk.  ;D
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 05:49:55 PM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.


You have to be realistic though...I mean dont get me wrong if I looked like Dennis Newman circa 1993 , if I was some doctor or lawyer, I would approach any woman in the gym without hesitation. I'm 19 though and broke lol.  I play it safe, go for 7/10's..."cute" is enough.  Go for the moms that are there on Monday evenings, forget about the 10/10 24 year old slut who think her shit dont stink. not worth it...
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 05:53:17 PM
I quit talking to girls in the gym when a hottie called me "sir".  Fuck... right then I knew I was too old to be attempting to pick up young chicks at the gym.  Gotta wait till I catch them out drunk.  ;D

how old are you 12? what did you expect her to call you, "young man"?
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Post by: Palpatine Q on March 17, 2012, 06:05:24 PM
I quit talking to girls in the gym when a hottie called me "sir".  Fuck... right then I knew I was too old to be attempting to pick up young chicks at the gym.  Gotta wait till I catch them out drunk.  ;D

LOL....being called "sir" brings reality to your door. As good as I look for my age or whatever, I'm not in my 20s anymore and that's a long ass time ago..people in their 20s call me sir...It stopped bothering me a decade ago...I'm old..can't do a fucking thing about it but try and stay in the best shape possible.
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Post by: outby43 on March 17, 2012, 06:31:42 PM
how old are you 12? what did you expect her to call you, "young man"?

 ::)

add 30 years.  You've got to understand, like Groink, I do not look my age and can pass for late 20's on a good day.

What is your secret?   "Hi there, I am an Elf"
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 06:53:22 PM
::)

add 30 years.  You've got to understand, like Groink, I do not look my age and can pass for late 20's on a good day.

What is your secret?   "Hi there, I am an Elf"

I'm 19  I don't need any secret lol. I've gotten more 30 year old pussy than 98% of teenagers will ever dream about being that I look so much older than I am. Women still call me sir all the time, be thankful you look like a man and not a little boy.  if I brought an old fuck like yourself out here if you looked half as good as Groink which I assume you do being you could pass for late twenties, you  could bag 18 year olds no problem. You need to get that "being old" stuff out of your head bro cause the  Bottom line is, .   The girls down south, especially the younger ones 18-20 prefer men in their thirties and forties over guys in their twenties and teens. 90% of the time. It pisses me off to no end, every 18 year old has some boyfriend that's already been married twice.  Age is sexy to women. Women  are another story, Youth is a  very important element of  beauty in the female.
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Post by: j_mtl on March 17, 2012, 07:05:52 PM
For me.... the gym is my church my get away... ill never go after pussy in the gym,last thing i want is some psycho annoying me in my training,or nagging me for some reason or another , when im training i live in my own world,put my music on and go on about my training...theres plenty of occasions where u can meet up a ladie and talk to her...for me pussy and gym dont go togeather.

If you are serious about your training you know what im talking about!!!
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 07:09:03 PM
For me.... the gym is my church my get away... ill never go after pussy in the gym,last thing i want is some psycho annoying me in my training,or nagging me for some reason or another , when im training i live in my own world,put my music on and go on about my training...theres plenty of occasions where u can meet up a ladie and talk to her...for me pussy and gym dont go togeather.

If you are serious about your training you know what im talking about!!!

nonsense.....you do what 12 sets, one bodypart 4 days a week? plenty of time for chitchat
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Post by: kh300 on March 17, 2012, 07:19:37 PM
The number one key to success in the gym is to be charismatic(as well as every environment). The last girl I was with from the gym was the hottest one every guy was going after. I did as 240 explained before. However I got to know everyone at the gym. When I walk in everyone says hello to me, I talk to the guy at the desk, I make a few stops to talk to different people, I say hello to the cleaner, I talk to one of the trainers. In between sets people come up to me..etc..

Meanwhile this chick is getting stared at by every guy, I'm too busy to notice her. In her mind she's thinking ''who is this guy?'' ''why does everyone know him?'' ''how come I don't know him?''

This is the type of man a girl wants to get to know. She then approached me one day and asked me 'don't I know you from somewhere', end of story.

If someone like Bill Clinton or Obama walked into the gym, do you think they would just walk in with their head down, stick their ipod in, and ignore everyone? no, they shake hands and say hello to everyone. That's the type of person people want to know.
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 07:22:11 PM
The number one key to success in the gym is to be charismatic(as well as every environment). The last girl I was with from the gym was the hottest one every guy was going after. I did as 240 explained before. However I got to know everyone at the gym. When I walk in everyone says hello to me, I talk to the guy at the desk, I make a few stops to talk to different people, I say hello to the cleaner, I talk to one of the trainers. In between sets people come up to me..etc..

Meanwhile this chick is getting stared at by every guy, I'm too busy to notice her. In her mind she's thinking ''who is this guy?'' ''why does everyone know him?'' ''how come I don't know him?''

This is the type of man a girl wants to get to know. She then approached me one day and asked me 'don't I know you from somewhere', end of story.

If someone like Bill Clinton or Obama walked into the gym, do you think they would just walk in with their head down, stick their ipod in, and ignore everyone? no, they shake hands and say hello to everyone. That's the type of person people want to know.

no....I hate to burst your bubble but she couldn't give two shits about who knew you or what your personality was like. She thought you were either handsome or liked your phsique from the second she saw you.
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Post by: kh300 on March 17, 2012, 07:41:03 PM
no....I hate to burst your bubble but she couldn't give two shits about who knew you or what your personality was like. She thought you were either handsome or liked your phsique from the second she saw you.

I've been going to gyms since I was 18. It wasnt until I was 26 that I got a girl from there. I used to do what I advised not to, which is walk in bust out your sets and leave. It wasnt until I moved and started going to a new gym that I learned this through observation of an ugly dude pulling all the vag from this place.

Its like that any place you go. the more people you meet and talk to THE MORE PEOPLE YOU MEET AND TALK TO
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Post by: flinstones1 on March 17, 2012, 08:29:04 PM
I've been going to gyms since I was 18. It wasnt until I was 26 that I got a girl from there. I used to do what I advised not to, which is walk in bust out your sets and leave. It wasnt until I moved and started going to a new gym that I learned this through observation of an ugly dude pulling all the vag from this place.

Its like that any place you go. the more people you meet and talk to THE MORE PEOPLE YOU MEET AND TALK TO

true. You can 6'4 and the richest handsomest man in the world, if you don't put yourself out there you will never get as much pussy as you could.
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Post by: TooMuchMuscle4U on March 17, 2012, 08:40:47 PM
No

TYhey hiton me
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Post by: Polish Power on March 17, 2012, 09:09:34 PM
Thats how I met my wife!
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Post by: L00n on March 18, 2012, 12:50:36 AM
Thats how I met my wife!

lol same here.
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Post by: Thespritz0 on March 18, 2012, 02:31:10 AM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!
^^
I haven't hit on any, BUT one female instructor has hit on me several times... problem is she has an AWESOME body/ass but a terrible face!!!
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Post by: Tapeworm on March 18, 2012, 08:01:25 AM
lol same here.

Yep, I also met Polish Power's wife in the gym.
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Post by: NineGeez on March 18, 2012, 08:30:12 AM
You need to get that "being old" stuff out of your head bro

x2. No matter how "old" you are, a womans self esteem is always lower. ;)
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Post by: Hiitsmichael on March 18, 2012, 09:18:12 AM
Be nice to everyone strike small conversation like hows your day or whatever.  Then when interest is shown be an asshole, deny them. Once or twice but don't shut them down completely . This will leave them thinking about why you didn't want them and then,they want you more, finally ask them to do something with you and make it seem like a treat for them to be ALLOWED to be seen with you. By this time they'll be willing to do whatever you want. So drop a big shit on her chest and cum in her hair.
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Post by: TooMuchMuscle4U on March 18, 2012, 09:21:11 AM
LOL....being called "sir" brings reality to your door. As good as I look for my age or whatever, I'm not in my 20s anymore and that's a long ass time ago..people in their 20s call me sir...It stopped bothering me a decade ago...I'm old..can't do a fucking thing about it but try and stay in the best shape possible.

HAHAHAHAHAH'

Thisa post reeeks insecurity  :-X :-X :-X
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Post by: Dr Dutch on March 18, 2012, 09:31:08 AM
HAHAHAHAHAH'

Thisa post reeeks insecurity  :-X :-X :-X
Reek again, YAGR/BFRS...
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Post by: quadzilla456 on March 18, 2012, 09:45:32 AM
when you see a super hot girl, you should do the opposite....

act really focused on what youre doing.
go out of your way to NOT open the door for her.
be too intense, too involved, too 'all about you'.

She'll wonder why youre so special that you didn't make flirty eyes at her like every other swinging dick in the gym.

THAT is how you win them, to be honest.  Don't put her on that pedestal.  When you do hit on her finally, come at her with chat about something relevant to the room, then 'let's get outta here'.  She'll be the one feeling stupid about refusing, even if reluctant.  Act confused if she declines.  Like you were the one doing HER the favor by taking her to your truck for 97 seconds of forgettable pumping.

Sounds like this is coming from something like...

(http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQvluz232XlKm0DYJVXOGt1gb04prUJXu5JlKVVQnpmpuwYVd0A)

Funny thing is shit like this works for picking up girls but if you want to keep the girl it won't help.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 18, 2012, 09:59:09 AM
this worked for me the only time i genuinely felt like i had to knew this girl:

i finished my workout, i went to her bicycle and told her "slow down i gotta tell you some" she did "look i come to the room to lift but i've seen you a couple times and i like your face looks when you smile, its sexy (it was), i'm XXX *kiss cheeks "i'm YYY" she replied. From there just regular talk nothing fancy, when does she come when do i come, how long have we both been into working out blablabla i told her i'm be having my meal right there (pointed to the bar across the street where i ate my chicken or steak sammich and my fruit juice) join me YYY it'll be fun, we'll know each other"
I went to the bar to eat and about 25mins latter she came i bough her a gatorade and we kept talk. Exchanged phones numbers and dated that same evening for a walk and dinner at Viena (good food, not expensive). Went to her place, sealed the deal and we dated for some months.

cliffs: Be genuine, if you are it'll work. If it doesn't who cares? but it will. It did for me and i'm was skinny, pale, 5,7" and dress cheap. I don't see why it wouldn't work for anyone else.
I am sure at 5'7" skinny and pale you are pulling a lot of hot ass
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Tapeworm on March 18, 2012, 10:31:20 AM
I don't even need to feign disinterest.  I'm genuinely foul tempered.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Schmoff on March 18, 2012, 10:32:36 AM
no, just get in the gym, finish my business, and get out

Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: che on March 18, 2012, 10:44:01 AM
this worked for me the only time i genuinely felt like i had to knew this girl:

i finished my workout, i went to her bicycle and told her "slow down i gotta tell you some" she did "look i come to the room to lift but i've seen you a couple times and i like your face looks when you smile, its sexy (it was), i'm XXX *kiss cheeks "i'm YYY" she replied. From there just regular talk nothing fancy, when does she come when do i come, how long have we both been into working out blablabla i told her i'm be having my meal right there (pointed to the bar across the street where i ate my chicken or steak sammich and my fruit juice) join me YYY it'll be fun, we'll know each other"
I went to the bar to eat and about 25mins latter she came i bough her a gatorade and we kept talk. Exchanged phones numbers and dated that same evening for a walk and dinner at Viena (good food, not expensive). Went to her place, sealed the deal and we dated for some months.

cliffs: Be genuine, if you are it'll work. If it doesn't who cares? but it will. It did for me and i'm was skinny, pale, 5,7" and dress cheap. I don't see why it wouldn't work for anyone else.




Does she still have that nagging lower back pain ?























(http://www.stomachfatisugly.net/images/cms/Image/fat_woman_on_bike%20%282%29.jpg)
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 18, 2012, 11:58:53 AM
I am sure at 5'7" skinny and pale you are pulling a lot of hot ass

I can't complain.
My personality is magnetic, i have beautiful eyes and my rhetoric is exquisite plus women love my attitude. Looks is not that important to women unless you're extremely ugly, like yourself. You gypsy accordion-player.
 8)
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Voland on March 18, 2012, 12:17:24 PM
btw last week i got laid when after dinner my date and i went to the anti-karaoke night and sung this one on stage and pulled the chick up just sing "tonight, tonight" while i did the rest on the song with my graspy, chainshawish voice and the end i kissed her and the drunk audience applauded and yelled. She blushed but love it. Took me to her place.

(btw i do like this song)


No need for looks when you have no shame and don't give a shit bout nothing.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: littlechris on March 18, 2012, 12:34:08 PM
advice from my single days:

Be nice to every (young) girl in the gym, no matter if they're ugly, hot, fat, skinny, etc... (let's say its a girl u see at the gym all the time, or a girl at the front desk...not just random girls)...All you gotta do is say "hey, how are you doing today?" smile, walk away, go about your business at the gym.  Do the same as you leave. no chit chat, no small talk, no nothing.  After a while they all see that you're a good guy, and wonder why you don't talk to them more.  Now, I know many of you are going to say "chicks don't want "good guys," but chicks at the gym are often times the ones that have been played, so a nice guy who seems disinterested is more appealing than an asshole who seems disinterested.  But beware the one "hot" girl in every gym who has been passed around like a joint.  They;ll fuck your brains out and then slash your tires.

THIS^
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Cutlet767 on March 18, 2012, 12:52:35 PM
To answer the question..no, but they sure hit on me a lot.

 :D
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: devilsmile on March 18, 2012, 01:07:07 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!

been there, done that... let me tell you, hitting on a girl in the gym when you have tanned the hell out of you in the salong, weighing monsterous 170lbs shredding soaked and being a virgin (... yeah) is just asking for the creep stamp...

long and behold I have gone forward from those days, but...
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 18, 2012, 04:38:28 PM
Be nice to everyone strike small conversation like hows your day or whatever.  Then when interest is shown be an asshole, deny them. Once or twice but don't shut them down completely . This will leave them thinking about why you didn't want them and then,they want you more, finally ask them to do something with you and make it seem like a treat for them to be ALLOWED to be seen with you. By this time they'll be willing to do whatever you want. So drop a big shit on her chest and cum in her hair.

Something like this...nothing wrong with a little chit  chat. And if you just talk like a regular person..and don't try to hit on them in any way...they will think you are different from every other asshole who tries to  pick them up the from the first second...just see what happens...if someone is interested in you...they will.let you know, make no mistake.....however subtle the signs may be
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: the trainer on March 18, 2012, 06:00:34 PM
I've never done, feels a bit like a creep. I figure girls are there to workout and get sweaty and probably don't some douchebag bothering them. But man, there's this girl I see here every now and then that's a jaw dropper. Perfect 10 body, does everything with perfect form, can't tell about the face though cause she always wears a hat low an looks pissed (must've read the bible).

What do I do?!!

Girls hit on me at the gym if i like her i will fuck her if i do not i just ignore her.
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Pet shop boys on March 21, 2012, 08:23:49 AM
Your arms are 16 inches, you have a receding hairline, and your tattoos scream douche bag.  don't waste your time

LMAO.


WOOOSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: Pet shop boys on March 21, 2012, 08:27:11 AM
advice from my single days:

Be nice to every (young) girl in the gym, no matter if they're ugly, hot, fat, skinny, etc... (let's say its a girl u see at the gym all the time, or a girl at the front desk...not just random girls)...All you gotta do is say "hey, how are you doing today?" smile, walk away, go about your business at the gym.  Do the same as you leave. no chit chat, no small talk, no nothing.  After a while they all see that you're a good guy, and wonder why you don't talk to them more.  Now, I know many of you are going to say "chicks don't want "good guys," but chicks at the gym are often times the ones that have been played, so a nice guy who seems disinterested is more appealing than an asshole who seems disinterested.  But beware the one "hot" girl in every gym who has been passed around like a joint.  They;ll fuck your brains out and then slash your tires.

Best advice so far, 99 % of chicks at the gym dont want to be "bothered" ....But if you come as a nice polite friendly guy they wont see you as a "the annoying gym stalker"



WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHH
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: bradistani on March 21, 2012, 12:14:40 PM
i serenade 'em with a nice medley of classic scifi themes  8)

Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: flinstones1 on March 21, 2012, 01:17:11 PM
serious question for anyone- have you had the chance to be with the woman of your dreams? I don't mean some random hot bitch, or even a 10/10 necessarily there are lots of hot women around and fucking a dime is not impossible, I'm talking about that ONE particular girl you always liked more than any other girl. That you found incredibly sexy when most men probably just saw her as another 7/10. That when a dime would walk by her you would be oblivious to it, all you could see was that one girl    There is this one girl she's WAY older than me, mid twenties... she's probably getting ready to settle down to some wealthy southern guy and wants nothing to do with some broke ass 19 year old. I will not be able to leave this earth without getting in those pants before I die though. It kills me knowing some other guy, or knowing there are other men out there who have fucked her.  makes me so damn angry I walk around pissed off all day. I'm coming up with a game plan though, gonna run shitloads of tren and primo when I look good enough I'll pull a alex 23 on her and stalk the shit out of her and run into her accidently :D That's the only shot I have,  and pray she's not fucking some wealthy millionare or something...cause. As far as money I wouldn't even be able to buy her a milkshake at this point
Title: Re: Do you hit on girls at the gym?
Post by: dustin on March 21, 2012, 02:47:44 PM
advice from my single days:

Be nice to every (young) girl in the gym, no matter if they're ugly, hot, fat, skinny, etc... (let's say its a girl u see at the gym all the time, or a girl at the front desk...not just random girls)...All you gotta do is say "hey, how are you doing today?" smile, walk away, go about your business at the gym.  Do the same as you leave. no chit chat, no small talk, no nothing.  After a while they all see that you're a good guy, and wonder why you don't talk to them more.  Now, I know many of you are going to say "chicks don't want "good guys," but chicks at the gym are often times the ones that have been played, so a nice guy who seems disinterested is more appealing than an asshole who seems disinterested.  But beware the one "hot" girl in every gym who has been passed around like a joint.  They;ll fuck your brains out and then slash your tires.

Best advice right there.

I'm always super baked and focused in the gym so I've never been a big talker when I work out. But I see tons of guys hitting on chicks or smiling too much at them and trying to show them how to do certain exercises and stuff. You haven't see true revulsion until you've seen a serious regular at the gym get hit on week after week by absolute losers.

Those types of chicks are usually the ones that will smile at you from a distance or make small talk when they see that you're focused on your shit too. They usually say something flirty too like how they wished you were the one trying to give them advice or that they're glad you're not a creeper like the other douchebags in the gym.

After I see a chick in the gym for a few months they normally open right up like we're best friends catching up on old times. And I never say a fucking peep either. They always approach me and open up even when I just nod at them as they talk and talk. There are a few other serious lifters at my gym with the same attitude and chicks always go up to them as well and kick things off. I hope those other fellas at the gym that get hit on are single and tearing up those sweet asses. 8)