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Title: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 09:51:47 AM
Serious question time. Damn the jokes, ok?

So we all train, well, at least 15% of the guys on this board, all use drugs, and it shows a little. We have a bit of muscle, some of us a lot. Not the point though.

Does it happen to you that on occasion, a gay dude makes a pass at you? A smile, comment, full on, etc?

Dunno how, and why the fuck it happens, but I get the occasional homo trying to grab my attention. Reason I asked is that it happened again this morning ... after it happened Saturday night. Some skinny aids-ridden twink on Saturday and a normal looking dude this morning. Now, I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality to not let this bother me, but, I do wonder you know.

Some of you got some muscle showing here, does this shit happen to you?
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: da_vinci on March 19, 2012, 09:58:36 AM
I'm often in the enviroment where plenty of open-minded/art oriented, etc.. ppl hang out (quality parties/events, etc..) and yes - plenty of times. Tho' often I can't tell whether it's a homosexual kind of attention or just a regular chit-chat initiated by random guys, based solely on the fact that you have lean muscle on your frame, that many bb'ers can relate to I'm pretty sure.
 The last time was a month ago. A funny lookin laid back fella came up to me and said a few compliments, regarding my physique, out of the blue, I thanked, joked something the we "bumped fists" and he dissapeared in the crowd.. A regular "encounter" for me I'd say lol.. A lil' weird when I think now lol, but that's what you deal with if you stand out from the crowd.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: el numero uno on March 19, 2012, 09:59:32 AM
IMO gays have very low standars and they'll flirt with anyone.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 19, 2012, 10:01:16 AM
It is happening because no man builds up big muscle to get attention from women; whether you realize it or not you do it to get attention from men.  For the most part women are not interested in artificially large muscles.  As you say, you are secure enough in your sexuality not to be bothered by it, so enjoy the attention while you can.  They day is coming, and sooner than you think, when no one will be hitting on you.  Take some good pix of yourself looking like a stud. When you’re old and spent, you’ll want proof that once upon a time, you were a hottie… like 100 year old Manohar Aich, Mr. Universe of 1952.  ;)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: da_vinci on March 19, 2012, 10:04:13 AM
It is happening because no man builds up big muscle to get attention from women; whether you realize it or not you do it to get attention from men.  For the most part women are not interested in artificially large muscles.  As you say, you are secure enough in your sexuality not to be bothered by it, so enjoy the attention while you can.  They day is coming, and sooner than you think, when no one will be hitting on you.  Take some good pix of yourself looking like a stud. When you’re old and spent, you’ll want proof that once upon a time, you were a hottie… like 100 year old Manohar Aich, Mr. Universe of 1952.  ;)

Or.....you could just take R.Robinson way, and keep taking these pics even when you are an "old fart".

(http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fwlHt9kbi10/TsXm3-yKAPI/AAAAAAAABmA/KTKTIxm_K0A/s1600/30%2BDAYS%2BOUT%2Bcopy.jpg)

Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 10:07:16 AM
Got another 15 years or so being a 'stud' since I'm 31 now. But yea, good advice. What others said here, I think men, gay or straight, admire muscles more than women does. Or at least, women are not openly interested in them. Although, on occasion I have caught them looking. But men look far more than women does. A pity really.

Or maybe women are masters at hiding that.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BigCyp on March 19, 2012, 10:16:02 AM
stop wearning assless cut down jeans and frequenting gaybars with a rainbow colored hanky in your backpocket, this should make a difference in a few weeks.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: maxkane69 on March 19, 2012, 10:20:03 AM
Serious question time. Damn the jokes, ok?

So we all train, well, at least 15% of the guys on this board, all use drugs, and it shows a little. We have a bit of muscle, some of us a lot. Not the point though.

Does it happen to you that on occasion, a gay dude makes a pass at you? A smile, comment, full on, etc?

Dunno how, and why the fuck it happens, but I get the occasional homo trying to grab my attention. Reason I asked is that it happened again this morning ... after it happened Saturday night. Some skinny aids-ridden twink on Saturday and a normal looking dude this morning. Now, I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality to not let this bother me, but, I do wonder you know.

Some of you got some muscle showing here, does this shit happen to you?

Only GAY man are attracted to bodybuilders!
Women are repulsed by bodybuilders!
I hope this helps! ;)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: mr.turbo on March 19, 2012, 10:24:54 AM
going into an environment where people are less inhibited indeed these things happen.  getting your privates grabbed, "bumped into", getting kissed by men. Who knew this was all part of living the dream?  Also being "tackled" by females, is a lot more fun.  Usually the offender is on some form of intoxicant.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 19, 2012, 10:29:20 AM
going into an environment where people are less inhibited indeed these things happen.  getting your privates grabbed, "bumped into", getting kissed by men. Who knew this was all part of living the dream?  Also being "tackled" by females, is a lot more fun.  Usually the offender is on some form of intoxicant.

The big guys have known this for years.  ;D
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: mr.turbo on March 19, 2012, 10:39:12 AM
if you're attractive at any size I think you'll get hit on but it seems to get a lot more physical if you're a "big guy" just my experience.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2012, 10:45:23 AM
Happens all the time.., Gays love me. Bays personal taste aside  ;)

And straight guys always have something to say...I went to a club with my girl for St. Patrick's day and the doorman was asking me 20 questions about training and my build.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Nomad on March 19, 2012, 11:21:40 AM
It is happening because no man builds up big muscle to get attention from women; whether you realize it or not you do it to get attention from men.  For the most part women are not interested in artificially large muscles.  As you say, you are secure enough in your sexuality not to be bothered by it, so enjoy the attention while you can.  They day is coming, and sooner than you think, when no one will be hitting on you.  Take some good pix of yourself looking like a stud. When you’re old and spent, you’ll want proof that once upon a time, you were a hottie… like 100 year old Manohar Aich, Mr. Universe of 1952.  ;)

Yea because women don't like muscle  ::)   I think all that cum leeched into your brain and warped your perception of reality.

(http://thechive.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/arnold-schwarzenegger-aging-timeline0-e1319154539438.jpg?w=500&h=375&crop=1)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: 240 is Back on March 19, 2012, 11:25:05 AM
I think it's pretty obvious if you're into dudes.   I see gay men in public from time to time.  They might look at you a second longer than they need to.  You immediately ignore it and look the hot waitress up and down.  never an issue.  I'm pretty sure it's easy for guys (who are into guys) to identify each other quickly. 


from time to time, a drunk guy will introduce himself to chat... you know that embrace where they're man hugging inappropriately.  You excuse yourself and move on outta there. 

Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: hematocritter on March 19, 2012, 11:29:49 AM
I have gotten a lot of looks from gay men, but as far as really getting hit on, that has only happened a few times.
I admit it is somewhat flattering at times, unless they are overly aggressive.
I have only had two instances where gay men aggressively hit on me, and it was a little uncomfortable.
One man began rubbing my leg at a party, he was very intoxicated, so I removed his hand and got up and walked
away, no big deal.
Another time when I was really young (19 or 20 I think), an Asian man very aggressively tried to have sexual relations
with me. Begging to give me oral, and trying to get me to have sex with him. This was in Honolulu on an empty street,
I had been asking people where a bathroom was (had to pee badly, was on GHB and had been separated from my friends).
The Asian man was standing right near the main boulevard, and when I asked him if he knew where a bathroom was, he
showed me down an alley way where the harassment began. There wasn't even a damn bathroom. I probably would have
let him blow me if I had a damn place to pee, lol. Maybe I should have peed on him, he may have liked that.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Voland on March 19, 2012, 11:31:06 AM
i've never been agresively hit by a guy. but a lot of them look at me, stare at me, some of my clients smile at my during the business lunchs...not a big deal. they know i'm not into them.
Latina trannies is another story they touch me, grab me, compliment me...i play along  8)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: AlphaMaleDawg on March 19, 2012, 11:33:23 AM
not terribly often since I don't go to many places where a lot of gay guys go to pick others up. Once in a while it happens though
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: oldtimer1 on March 19, 2012, 12:06:59 PM
If you are built; have a decent face and dress with a little thought it's impossible to not get hit on.  I use to be oblivious to it but my wife would point it out on many occasions. One time in Manhattan she got so pissed in the villiage that she demanded we take a cab to mid town. She said I'm tired of guys checking you out. No homo.  Oldtimer1 approved.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 19, 2012, 12:14:26 PM
If you are built; have a decent face and dress with a little thought it's impossible to not get hit on.  I use to be oblivious to it but my wife would point it out on many occasions. One time in Manhattan she got so pissed in the villiage that she demanded we take a cab to mid town. She said I'm tired of guys checking you out. No homo.  Oldtimer1 approved.

Your physique has not arrived until gay dudes want you. :-*
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 12:16:46 PM
Your physique has not arrived until gay dudes want you. :-*

Well if that's the case, I might as well lay off the Tren a bit.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: HTexan on March 19, 2012, 12:19:47 PM
I got hit on by a dude at the apple store last saturday. ( yes, yes apple is gay jokes coming) Was in austin for sxsw. But that is austin for you. it doesn't bother me, and shouldn't bother you. Hell, if you workout almost everyday, someone will notice. And I'm natural, some of you ped dudes are jacked.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: _bruce_ on March 19, 2012, 12:48:21 PM
All the time.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 19, 2012, 12:58:11 PM
Groink: he should have asked you about your stack: that's where the magic lies : ))))))
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 01:02:30 PM
Groink: he should have asked you about your stack: that's where the magic lies : ))))))

Dude, no disrespect, but what the fuck is with you and Groink?
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Papper on March 19, 2012, 01:15:42 PM
it has happened. i've also been in environments more prone to art/openminded crap and got hit on.

sometimes it's hard to know where straight compliments and touching of the arms ends and genuine schmoe moves begins
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: HTexan on March 19, 2012, 01:29:28 PM
Or.....you could just take R.Robinson way, and keep taking these pics even when you are an "old fart".

(http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fwlHt9kbi10/TsXm3-yKAPI/AAAAAAAABmA/KTKTIxm_K0A/s1600/30%2BDAYS%2BOUT%2Bcopy.jpg)



not bad for an old dude.
it has happened. i've also been in environments more prone to art/openminded crap and got hit on.

sometimes it's hard to know where straight compliments and touching of the arms ends and genuine schmoe moves begins
That is a different thing entirely. I don't mind getting hit on, but don't touch me. i don't care if dude is straight or gay. back the fuck off of me.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 19, 2012, 01:52:59 PM
Dude, no disrespect, but what the fuck is with you and Groink?
;D
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: wes on March 19, 2012, 01:58:20 PM
Women love my body when I`m lean and tanned.........they could care less if I was 21 or 91,I get all kind of comments,stares,and plenty of wet panties are left in my wake.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 02:34:05 PM
;D

So all this because you have better legs than him?  ???

Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 19, 2012, 02:43:26 PM
So all this because you have better legs than him?  ???


Don't worry about it. So you get hit on by guys quite a lot it seems. Are you just bicurious then?
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 02:44:56 PM
Don't worry about it. So you get hit on by guys quite a lot it seems. Are you just bicurious then?

Well, I'd probably think about doing a hot tranny a second too long. Does that count?
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Army of One on March 19, 2012, 03:26:39 PM
Happened quite a few times, I find it amusing, Ill politely let them know I dont play the skin flute and go on my way.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Radical Plato on March 19, 2012, 03:44:52 PM
Gays love me.

I think if Gays are attracted to a so called "heterosexual" Man, well then I think it's the gays who know something that the"hetero" man is unwilling or unaware to admit too.  Seems obvious to me!  The Gays know the dude is close to coming out, so they hang around waiting so they can break his arse in
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 03:46:18 PM
I think if Gays are attracted to a so called "hetrosexual" Man, well then I think it's the gays who know wsomething that that "hetro" man is unwilling  or unaware to admit too.  Seems obvious to me!  The Gays know the dude is close to coming out, so they hang around waiting so they can break his arse in

I don't believe that's entirely accurate. Unless .. projecting?
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: MAXX on March 19, 2012, 03:48:08 PM
Serious question time. Damn the jokes, ok?

So we all train, well, at least 15% of the guys on this board, all use drugs, and it shows a little. We have a bit of muscle, some of us a lot. Not the point though.

Does it happen to you that on occasion, a gay dude makes a pass at you? A smile, comment, full on, etc?

Dunno how, and why the fuck it happens, but I get the occasional homo trying to grab my attention. Reason I asked is that it happened again this morning ... after it happened Saturday night. Some skinny aids-ridden twink on Saturday and a normal looking dude this morning. Now, I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality to not let this bother me, but, I do wonder you know.

Some of you got some muscle showing here, does this shit happen to you?
try stop going to gaybars....
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Radical Plato on March 19, 2012, 03:49:50 PM
I don't believe that's entirely accurate. Unless .. projecting?
Maybe! but In Groink's case it's true!
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 03:52:11 PM
try stop going to gaybars....

If that's a joke then here, have a haha.

It happens randomly. In the street. Coffee shop. At work. (I work in a multinational. Don't know 95% of the people). Gym.

Not gay bars ..
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Marty Champions on March 19, 2012, 03:54:16 PM
I have gotten a lot of looks from gay men, but as far as really getting hit on, that has only happened a few times.
I admit it is somewhat flattering at times, unless they are overly aggressive.
I have only had two instances where gay men aggressively hit on me, and it was a little uncomfortable.
One man began rubbing my leg at a party, he was very intoxicated, so I removed his hand and got up and walked
away, no big deal.
Another time when I was really young (19 or 20 I think), an Asian man very aggressively tried to have sexual relations
with me. Begging to give me oral, and trying to get me to have sex with him. This was in Honolulu on an empty street,
I had been asking people where a bathroom was (had to pee badly, was on GHB and had been separated from my friends).
The Asian man was standing right near the main boulevard, and when I asked him if he knew where a bathroom was, he
showed me down an alley way where the harassment began. There wasn't even a damn bathroom. I probably would have
let him blow me if I had a damn place to pee, lol.
Maybe I should have peed on him, he may have liked that.
geez all that story and you wrote that
(http://img.askleomedia.com/askleo78x78.png)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Radical Plato on March 19, 2012, 03:57:40 PM
If that's a joke then here, have a haha.

It happens randomly. In the street. Coffee shop. At work. (I work in a multinational. Don't know 95% of the people). Gym.

Not gay bars ..
Maybe you need to project a more manly appearance, be a bit rougher around the edges - when I was younger and training all the time, every time I went out gays would pay me attention, sometimes even hit on me, I was always polite back then, the world hadn't beaten me up so much and I was less jaded.  Nowdays, a gay bloke walks up to me, and I'm like "Get out of my way homo, Shit to do, people to see, you know how it is" and keep walking, I haven't got time for cocksuckers.  I hate the way the GAYS would try and convince others that their Gay, it must be hard being a homo, with such a small menu to choose from.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: James28 on March 19, 2012, 03:59:10 PM
Maybe you need to project a more manly appearance, be a bit rougher around the edges - when I was younger and training all the time, every time I went out gays would pay me attention, sometimes even hit on me, I was always polite back then, the world hadn't beaten me up so much and I was less jaded.  Nowdays, a gay bloke walks up to me, and I'm like "Get out of my way homo, Shit to do, people to see, you know how it is" and keep walking, I haven't got time for cocksuckers.  I hate the way the #### would try and convince others that their Gay, it must be hard being a homo, with such a small menu to choose from.

Haha. You're quite a character sir.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 19, 2012, 11:32:11 PM
Well, I'd probably think about doing a hot tranny a second too long. Does that count?
I think you answered your own question ;)
 
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on March 20, 2012, 12:50:24 AM
Looked at everywhere but too hot for them to think they would have a chance.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Naggash on March 20, 2012, 02:30:18 AM
It is happening because no man builds up big muscle to get attention from women; whether you realize it or not you do it to get attention from men. 

Oh shut the fuck up. Plenty of women like some muscle.

Your generalizations are so pathetic and laughable.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: bigbadwolfe on March 20, 2012, 02:44:09 AM
All the time! Had a stalker calling me telling me what he wanted to do to me, was creepy at first then I would just laugh at him and hang up.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: Radical Plato on March 20, 2012, 02:56:57 AM
All the time! Had a stalker calling me telling me what he wanted to do to me, was creepy at first then I would just laugh at him and hang up.
What you actually stayed on the line long enough to hear what your stalker wanted to do to you?, first That's sick that you didn't hang up straight away and two what did that sick pervert say anyway!  ;D
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: hmontaq on March 20, 2012, 06:18:03 AM
I get way more positive comments from men, gay and straight, than I ever get from women.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: LittleJ on March 20, 2012, 06:33:15 AM
Imagine being hit on by Bay? That's scares the shit out of me.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 20, 2012, 06:43:25 AM
All the time! Had a stalker calling me telling me what he wanted to do to me, was creepy at first then I would just laugh at him and hang up.

Stop hanging up on me!  :P >:(
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 20, 2012, 06:44:58 AM
Imagine being hit on by Bay? That's scares the shit out of me.

You are safe... Don't worry.  You are not qualified. ::)
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: HTexan on March 20, 2012, 07:16:55 AM
You are safe... Don't worry.  You are not qualified. ::)
Haha owned by bay.
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: BayGBM on March 20, 2012, 01:23:05 PM
Haha owned by bay.

 ;D

Let me just add that it’s really only a compliment if the guy hitting on you is, himself, hot or otherwise in shape.  Being hit on by someone from a lower tier (doughy, fat, old, ugly, etc.) is not exactly a compliment.  :-\
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: LittleJ on March 20, 2012, 04:38:05 PM
You are safe... Don't worry.  You are not qualified. ::)

Thanks Bay :D

My ass is safe ;D
Title: Re: Being hit on by dudes. Does this happen to you?
Post by: el numero uno on March 20, 2012, 04:42:27 PM
When I started reading GB there was a thread where I guy was telling us how he was being stalked and the stalker even draw the getbigger's face in some dollar bills and he was spending the money all over the town.

Anyone remember who was the getbigger?  ???