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Title: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:28:05 AM
I've been seeing this Latina, (Mexican).  She's 25 has one kid.  She's pretty decent girl.  Cooks, cleans, happy being domesticated. We both started this relationship looking for the same thing...long term.

Her kid pisses me off...(It's just me not used to being around 4 year olds)
She keeps talking about having kids and I've known this broad for a month...up to and including going to those websites where you can take pics of the couple and it shows what your kid would look like... :o :-X :-\
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since.  I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before.  I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever.  I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again.  I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up?  And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Grape Ape on July 06, 2012, 06:31:13 AM
Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term.   Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now.  Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 06:32:03 AM
Even if she didn't have the kid you'd still not want to commit. If she wasn't moving so fast I think you wouldn't be about to run away from this chick.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: affeman on July 06, 2012, 06:32:51 AM
In b4 uberman blaming your father.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 06:33:17 AM
A. Bail now. If she already wants kids and youre already losing interest, this is already doomed to fail. She'll go psycho and start poking holes in condoms, lying about the pill, etc, and your life will go to hell.

B. Arent you still married?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:33:47 AM
I've been seeing this Latina, (Mexican).  She's 25 has one kid.  She's pretty decent girl.  Cooks, cleans, happy being domesticated. We both started this relationship looking for the same thing...long term.

Her kid pisses me off...(It's just me not used to being around 4 year olds)
She keeps talking about having kids and I've known this broad for a month...up to and including going to those websites where you can take pics of the couple and it shows what your kid would look like... :o :-X :-\
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since.  I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before.  I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever.  I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again.  I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up?  And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.


Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already :)
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:35:19 AM
A. Bail now. If she already wants kids and youre already losing interest, this is already doomed to fail. She'll go psycho and start poking holes in condoms, lying about the pill, etc, and your life will go to hell.

B. Arent you still married?

A. What condom?
B. No
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:35:34 AM
Most women want the same thing; some are smarter than others and just don't tell you bluntly their master plan. Sooner then you know, you're cuffed. She's clearly no rocket scientist so you can dump her without any remorse.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: irishdave on July 06, 2012, 06:35:57 AM

Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already :)

Why would she bother with a deadbeat when she has a kid anyway?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 06:36:34 AM
A. What condom?
B. No
Hmm. I must be out of the loop.
Anyway, the (future) condom you start strapping on because youre scared she's lying about the pill and trying to get pregnant to keep you around.  ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:37:19 AM
Even if she didn't have the kid you'd still not want to commit. If she wasn't moving so fast I think you wouldn't be about to run away from this chick.

You're correct, it's not the kid.  He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do.  Its that she's movin to fast.  I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:38:37 AM
You're correct, it's not the kid.  He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do.  Its that she's movin to fast.  I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.

So you're actually waiting for the cunning/deceiver type?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:38:59 AM

Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already :)

That would make me feel better Stark, it really would.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 06:39:27 AM
You're correct, it's not the kid.  He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do.  Its that she's movin to fast.  I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.

hahah yeah you wish  ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:40:31 AM
So you're actually waiting for the cunning/deceiver type?

No, that's why I cut it off.  I had to get some first.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:40:57 AM
That would make me feel better Stark, it really would.

Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate ;) she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:41:44 AM
hahah yeah you wish  ;D

 :D ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 06:42:37 AM
Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate ;) she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman

This.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: irishdave on July 06, 2012, 06:42:40 AM
No, that's why I cut it off.  I had to get some first.

You're black. You better take as many 5's and 6's as you can get no matter how fat they are.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: booty on July 06, 2012, 06:42:53 AM
Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away.  Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you.  Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.  
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:43:12 AM
No, that's why I cut it off.  I had to get some first.

She's no Machiavelli from what you said. Most woman will put a mask on, be nice and all, crazy in bed 'til you're mesmerized then trouble begins. Lived that and seen it too many times. After all, the one that tells you from the get-go her intentions might not be the one to fear though she might be the scariest. See what I mean?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:43:39 AM
Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate ;) she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman

Of course I imagined that...minus the barely making it part.
I do miss my white womens.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:44:14 AM
Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away.  Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you.  Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.  

You's run for any hill as long as there's a penis nearby.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Butterbean on July 06, 2012, 06:45:53 AM
Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term.   Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now.  Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.

x2

You can tell her that she seems to have a strong desire for another child but that you're not ready for that yet so at this point so you think she would be happier w/someone more on the same page as her.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 06:46:38 AM
She's no Machiavelli from what you said. Most woman will put a mask on, be nice and all, crazy in bed 'til you're mesmerized then trouble begins. Lived that and seen it too many times. After all, the one that tells you from the get-go her intentions might not be the one to fear though she might be the scariest. See what I mean?
Agree with this. Lived it too, no fun.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:47:24 AM
Of course I imagined that...minus the barely making it part.
I do miss my white womens.

I bet you do like some racial "rape" sex - come on get over there and get yourself some white pussy that will help you.

No female looks more guilty than a white woman with 3-4 black babies going completely apeshit (sorry no pun intended) and the daddy no where to be seen ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: irishdave on July 06, 2012, 06:48:47 AM
Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away.  Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you.  Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.  

Why are you still here...call Lee to shit on your chest there why don't ya?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:49:35 AM
She's no Machiavelli from what you said. Most woman will put a mask on, be nice and all, crazy in bed 'til you're mesmerized then trouble begins. Lived that and seen it too many times. After all, the one that tells you from the get-go her intentions might not be the one to fear though she might be the scariest. See what I mean?

I agree, I like her openess but I fear her intentions so early.  I already felt trapped.  No bueno. I want kids eventually but damn!  If she got preggers then there's no goin back cause there's no way in hell she's getting an abortion and then ol' Wiggs joins the band of brothers on the hook for child support...No thanks.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: flipper5470 on July 06, 2012, 06:49:57 AM
You did her and yourself..and her kid..a favor.  If it isn't happening, it isn't happening.  No sense in pretending....unless the sex is off the charts awesome, which doesn't sound like the case here.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Tito24 on July 06, 2012, 06:51:06 AM
usa legalizes gay marriage

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Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: orion on July 06, 2012, 06:51:24 AM
Kid dodged a bullet having you for a stepdad
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:52:48 AM
Kid dodged a bullet having you for a stepdad

calm down there Pedro.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:52:54 AM
Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away.  Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you.  Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.  

Thanks for the advice.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:53:47 AM
I bet you do like some racial "rape" sex - come on get over there and get yourself some white pussy that will help you.

No female looks more guilty than a white woman with 3-4 black babies going completely apeshit (sorry no pun intended) and the daddy no where to be seen ;D

Can I bang your wife bro until I find one for myself? :D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:55:02 AM
I agree, I like her openess but I fear her intentions so early.  I already felt trapped.  No bueno. I want kids eventually but damn!  If she got preggers then there's no goin back cause there's no way in hell she's getting an abortion and then ol' Wiggs joins the band of brothers on the hook for child support...No thanks.

I know what you're sayin'. For years, I feared having kids; seemed like an unbearable amount of responsibilities. But from my experience, most people find immediately the strength to raise a child and to embrace those responsibilities. Best thing that happened to me, gives me a huge drive and incredible moments. It's the impact that it has on your relationship with your woman which is terrible (and for most part, it happens in their heads- nothing else). Kids are much easier to deal with then women-specially the modern type.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:55:58 AM
Kid dodged a bullet having you for a stepdad

lol...was that supposed to hurt my feelings?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: dr.chimps on July 06, 2012, 06:56:02 AM
A Black guy with scruples!? You can bet your 40 acres and a mule that 3.14 will ignore this thread.  
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:56:05 AM
Can I bang your wife bro until I find one for myself? :D

How the hell do I respond to that lol !!!
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:56:45 AM
A Black guy with scruples!? You can bet your 40 acres and a mule that 3.14 will ignore this thread.  

Please refrain from future racist commentary in this here threat, thank you for your cooperation.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: chaos on July 06, 2012, 06:57:56 AM
Bullshit,  Wiggs only bangs trannys.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:00:27 AM
Bullshit,  Wiggs only bangs trannys.

Totally untrue, totally untrue...I've only banged biological females.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 07:02:17 AM
Totally untrue, totally untrue...I've only banged biological females.

Would you?

I mean picture this.

Phenomenal look - great ass great tits great body - he tells you he was a man but had the full job done, I mean pussy and all looks and smells the part.
Voice is a little deep but hey... would you?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 06, 2012, 07:03:55 AM
Don't start serious relationships with moms. On the long run, it won't make you a happy man  (yes serious)
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:06:29 AM
Would you?

I mean picture this.

Phenomenal look - great ass great tits great body - he tells you he was a man but had the full job done, I mean pussy and all looks and smells the part.
Voice is a little deep but hey... would you?

I've addressed this many times in the past yet Chaos, and others love to ignore what I said and twist my words...I've said and I'll say it again.  I can appreciate the hotness of a tranny, but when it comes down to it, there's no way in fuck I'm fucking it...Those words were twisted into being a tranny fucker...That's my final word on trannies.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: chaos on July 06, 2012, 07:09:09 AM
Totally untrue, totally untrue...I've only banged biological females.
Ok, serious Wiggs.....she's mexican, you're black/jew....and you had unprotected sex. Now if you were all black I'd say she's already pregnant, but hopefully for you, your jew sperms would recognize the inferior mexican egg and commit spermicide. If not you'll have a cheap ass, bike stealing, watermelon eating Wigglet on your hands soon. :)
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:09:17 AM
Don't start serious relationships with moms. On the long run, it won't make you a happy man  (yes serious)

Please expand...why is it different with moms?
I'd like a serious relationship, settle down have some kids etc..I'm a straight, black man, 33 (next week), good looking smart, educated etc...where I'm from that's called hitting the lottery.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 07:09:42 AM
I've addressed this many times in the past yet Chaos, and others love to ignore what I said and twist my words...I've said and I'll say it again.  I can appreciate the hotness of a tranny, but when it comes down to it, there's no way in fuck I'm fucking it...Those words were twisted into being a tranny fucker...That's my final word on trannies.

yeah I feel the same way - glad we cleared that once more.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 07:11:24 AM
Ok, serious Wiggs.....she's mexican, you're black/jew....and you had unprotected sex. Now if you were all black I'd say she's already pregnant, but hopefully for you, your jew sperms would recognize the inferior mexican egg and commit spermicide. If not you'll have a cheap ass, bike stealing, watermelon eating Wigglet on your hands soon. :)

lmao
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:13:13 AM
Ok, serious Wiggs.....she's mexican, you're black/jew....and you had unprotected sex. Now if you were all black I'd say she's already pregnant, but hopefully for you, your jew sperms would recognize the inferior mexican egg and commit spermicide. If not you'll have a cheap ass, bike stealing, watermelon eating Wigglet on your hands soon. :)

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 07:14:12 AM
Please expand...why is it different with moms?
I'd like a serious relationship, settle down have some kids etc..I'm a straight, black man, 33 (next week), good looking smart, educated etc...where I'm from that's called hitting the lottery.

Having a relationship with a mom with you still being without a child will result in an unbalanced relationship for the get-go. The kid will always be her priority while you'll be looking for the relationship to prime before moving to something bigger. I don't advise it.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Agnostic007 on July 06, 2012, 07:16:53 AM
The never contact them again route doesn't always end well. When I was single I dated a few women and with the exception of one very psycho hot chick, remained friends to some degree with them all. The key is being up front with them. The break up should not be simply refusing to respond. That will cause them to buy a stolen handgun and a wig and large sunglasses.

Your friend doesn't know how to date. I have a female friend with the same issue. 2 days after meeting some guy she is talking about how her family will like him, or if his last name and her first name sound good together. Ultimately she drives them away because she skips the dating part and goes right into the relationship part. She can't help it, I've counseled her on it many times, but it's ingrained in her. Sounds like your woman.  
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:18:00 AM
Having a relationship with a mom with you still being without a child will result in an unbalanced relationship for the get-go. The kid will always be her priority while you'll be looking for the relationship to prime before moving to something bigger. I don't advise it.

Ah, got it.  You are correct.  You have to go in knowing you are not the priority.  I can accept that but yes, it makes things awkward.  Well the pussy was good but not that good.  First time I've raw dogged it since December 2005. I remember pussy feeling alot better...oh well.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: quadzilla456 on July 06, 2012, 07:18:03 AM
Please expand...why is it different with moms?
I'd like a serious relationship, settle down have some kids etc..I'm a straight, black man, 33 (next week), good looking smart, educated etc...where I'm from that's called hitting the lottery.
This...

(except for the black man bit - unless you can control your flesh eating Zombie urges and stay away from the bath salts)
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:20:07 AM
This...

(except for the black man bit - unless you can control your flesh eating Zombie urges and stay away from the bath salts)

From you, this is the closest I'll ever get to a compliment, so thanks. haha
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 06, 2012, 07:26:13 AM
Please expand...why is it different with moms?
I'd like a serious relationship, settle down have some kids etc..I'm a straight, black man, 33 (next week), good looking smart, educated etc...where I'm from that's called hitting the lottery.

For several reasons. I will not mention my own -since I don't want kids myself-, but in general, being a (future) step dad can be very complicated (you're not his/her dad so, who are you to raise that kid?), you will prob see her ex hubby every now and then (not a pleasant feeling) plus it's hard to experience freedom with someone with the responsible task as a parent.
At least, take your time bro and think about the consequences, the positives, but also the negatives.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 06, 2012, 07:27:23 AM
Having a relationship with a mom with you still being without a child will result in an unbalanced relationship for the get-go. The kid will always be her priority while you'll be looking for the relationship to prime before moving to something bigger. I don't advise it.

Dang good point, I forgot this one
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:30:36 AM
For what it's worth, and I don't know you Wiggs, but that's a piece of shit move in my book.

The lady has a kid, and you knew that. Instead of keeping your distance and just seeing mom on the side, you became involved in that kid's life. That kid needs a positive fatherly figure in its life. You just reinforced that men are pieces of shit and run away. Nice job.

A lady with a kid brings baggage and responsibilities and you didn't handle it right.

If you can't handle being a father figure to a kid, and insist on dating ladies with kids, just keep it outside the home where the kid never has to see you.

She's a grown woman, and you're a grown man - you guys can handle breaking each others hearts. You can't make it right for a kid though. You're just another douche as far as he's concerned.

Don't take this as guilting you into the relationship. It's better that you're not there if you don't like the lady - neither of you should waste time if it doesn't work. Life's too short.

But her kid deserved better. Shame on the mom too, for being so flippant with her kid.

Ohh, and meltdown on my part.

You're right bro... She's not the first mom I've dated.  I've tried to keep the kid out because it's not good having men in and out of their life.  And everything we did, the kid had to be there too.  I didn't agree with it but I accepted it.  She should change her ways and in the future, I'll insist on having it that way.  Thanks for the good advice...oh yeah, meltdown. ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 07:30:41 AM
For several reasons. I will not mention my own -since I don't want kids myself-, but in general, being a (future) step dad can be very complicated (you're not his/her dad so, who are you to raise that kid?), you will prob see her ex hubby every now and then (not a pleasant feeling) plus it's hard to experience freedom with someone with the responsible task as a parent.
At least, take your time bro and think about the consequences, the positives, but also the negatives.

Well I give you another take on that story.

One of my best friends and workout partner who is Russian (and a Jew lol) is married the third time, this time a latvian woman - great girl.
Anyways, she has a daughter 19 years old and let me tell you OMFG the girl is crazy hot - I am going off topic here but damn first time I saw here I was like - shit I cannot look at her this is his step daughter lol now we laugh about it and make jokes.

But back to the story, I see Yury so many times with his step daughter and she embraces him totally as her friend/father - I mean the whole thing like snuggling up to him teasing etc. and yes okay his stepdaughter is a bit different I mean how many hot 19 year olds with smoking bodies do you know that have one dream but to visit Chernobyl and go urgan exploring.
But it can work.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Option D on July 06, 2012, 07:31:16 AM
You're black. You better take as many 5's and 6's as you can get no matter how fat they are.

lol... im black and i know ive banged more quality broards (of every race) than you could even dream of...
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Voice of Doom on July 06, 2012, 07:33:32 AM
Unless you're marrying her never raw-dog a latina.  They are the most fertile bitches on the planet and usually Catholic.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:37:22 AM
Unless you're marrying her never raw-dog a latina.  They are the most fertile bitches on the planet and usually Catholic.

My dumbass knew this going in and yet still did it anyway...funny how nature works...My brain turned off and the next thing I knew, I was leaving her house the next morning wondering what happened.

And yes, she's Catholic too...
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 07:38:54 AM
You're right bro... She's not the first mom I've dated.  I've tried to keep the kid out because it's not good having men in and out of their life.  And everything we did, the kid had to be there too.  I didn't agree with it but I accepted it.  She should change her ways and in the future, I'll insist on having it that way.  Thanks for the good advice...oh yeah, meltdown. ;D
Bro, you wouldnt have even had to raw dog her. Those bitches get pregnant walking by you in the supermarket. So it really doesnt matter either way.  :-\
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Option D on July 06, 2012, 07:41:14 AM
Wiggs my brother...

Just have fun.. dont  "go in wanting long term". And its for that reason alone. As sun as you bang her once, all of the future hopes, understanding, caring etc.. that shit goes right out the window.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 07:46:11 AM
Wiggs my brother...

Just have fun.. dont  "go in wanting long term". And its for that reason alone. As sun as you bang her once, all of the future hopes, understanding, caring etc.. that shit goes right out the window.
x2.
Going in for the long term = fail, cause you usually wind up chasing after something thats not there. The only long term relationships Ive had that worked, were ones were I went in to it with the mindset of "Hit it and see where things go". It allows the relationship to develop normally, otherwise you may wind up trying to force the relationship into a direction that its not meant to go. And those relationships always wind up miserable.

Oh, and Latina's/Mexicans are crazy.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:47:24 AM
Wiggs my brother...

Just have fun.. dont  "go in wanting long term". And its for that reason alone. As sun as you bang her once, all of the future hopes, understanding, caring etc.. that shit goes right out the window.

This never happened to me before bro.  Is this what it's like to be black?



 ;D  j/k....It's really never happened before but I think this is how it's going to be for a while.  I went in with good intentions but once I got some it was like I awoke from a spell. I've never understood guys on this point until this happened. I agree with you, I need to modify my game or feelings will be hurt and I don't like being an asshole or hurting feelings.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: chaos on July 06, 2012, 07:48:47 AM
lol... im black
Eh, you're more of a mocha.....
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Irongrip400 on July 06, 2012, 07:49:06 AM
Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term.   Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now.  Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.

This my brother. Run, most chicks wouldn't even have let you meet their kid that quick. Run.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Option D on July 06, 2012, 07:50:02 AM
Eh, you're more of a mocha.....

hahahaha... youre red... when you bench, or walk with 700+ pounds
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 07:51:18 AM
This my brother. Run, most chicks wouldn't even have let you meet their kid that quick. Run.
Dude, she's latina. She got pregnant when Wiggs kissed her. He's already fucked.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Hulkotron on July 06, 2012, 07:52:00 AM
Pics of the bitch?
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 07:53:03 AM
Dude, she's latina. She got pregnant when Wiggs kissed her. He's already fucked.

lol...well there is that chance but I doubt it...
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 07:54:41 AM
lol...well there is that chance but I doubt it...
Nothing a coathanger, some stairs, and a bottle of "Dontell's Abortion Juice" cant fix.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Raymondo on July 06, 2012, 07:54:50 AM
If you're not interested anymore tell her in person, leave the sms thing for chavs and bums. Be a gentleman... unless she's a whore ;)
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 07:55:48 AM
If you're not interested anymore tell her in person, leave the sms thing for chavs and bums. Be a gentleman... unless she's a whore ;)
If she's a whore, then he shouldn't be feeling any emotions, period.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:01:26 AM
She's not a whore and telling her I'm dumping her in person helps no one involved....If I do it.
It's more of she's moved much too fast than me losing interest.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: chaos on July 06, 2012, 08:01:38 AM
hahahaha... youre red... when you bench, or walk with 700+ pounds
When you comin back?  We'll do all strongman events next time. 8)
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 08:05:25 AM
She's not a whore and telling her I'm dumping her in person helps no one involved....If I do it.
It's more of she's moved much too fast than me losing interest.
Well, you were saying you lost almost all interest after banging her, so unless that was just you trying to justify dumping her, it sounds like its a combo of her being crazy and you losing interest.

Dude, if she was bringing the kid around on day 1, she's got problems. Sounds like she's shopping for a baby daddy to raise the kid, clearly she doesnt give a fuck about the kids mental health if she does that - most girls I know that REALLY cared about the kid would wait for a couple months to be sure its something that may go somewhere before introducing the kid.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:08:26 AM
Well, you were saying you lost almost all interest after banging her, so unless that was just you trying to justify dumping her, it sounds like its a combo of her being crazy and you losing interest.

Dude, if she was bringing the kid around on day 1, she's got problems. Sounds like she's shopping for a baby daddy to raise the kid, clearly she doesnt give a fuck about the kids mental health if she does that - most girls I know that REALLY cared about the kid would wait for a couple months to be sure its something that may go somewhere before introducing the kid.

Yes, it is a combo of her speed, and me losing interest.  More of her speed though. I'd say 60/40.  you are 100% correct on your second paragraph.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 08:11:15 AM
Yes, it is a combo of her speed, and me losing interest.  More of her speed though. I'd say 60/40.  you are 100% correct on your second paragraph.
I'd say to find yo'self a white bitch, but they seem to be just as fucked up as any of the others now days. I dont know the answer bro, other than to drop throw this one like a fucking hand grenade.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 08:13:04 AM
I'd say to find yo'self a white bitch, but they seem to be just as fucked up as any of the others now days. I dont know the answer bro, other than to drop throw this one like a fucking hand grenade.

i told him that already
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:13:10 AM
Thank you all for the advices.  I must get my day started now...
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Voice of Doom on July 06, 2012, 08:13:24 AM
Well, you were saying you lost almost all interest after banging her, so unless that was just you trying to justify dumping her, it sounds like its a combo of her being crazy and you losing interest.

Dude, if she was bringing the kid around on day 1, she's got problems. Sounds like she's shopping for a baby daddy to raise the kid, clearly she doesnt give a fuck about the kids mental health if she does that - most girls I know that REALLY cared about the kid would wait for a couple months to be sure its something that may go somewhere before introducing the kid.

x2
However, all bitchez are crazy and latinas rank near the top.  The only difference is that they tend to encourage their men to be men...not like American white women.  Also, they're propably the only women that you can bang on the door at 3am hand them a gun covered in blood, tell them to hide it...and they will.   Don't underestimate that loyalty in the coming New World Order.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 06, 2012, 08:14:17 AM
Well I give you another take on that story.

One of my best friends and workout partner who is Russian (and a Jew lol) is married the third time, this time a latvian woman - great girl.
Anyways, she has a daughter 19 years old and let me tell you OMFG the girl is crazy hot - I am going off topic here but damn first time I saw here I was like - shit I cannot look at her this is his step daughter lol now we laugh about it and make jokes.

But back to the story, I see Yury so many times with his step daughter and she embraces him totally as her friend/father - I mean the whole thing like snuggling up to him teasing etc. and yes okay his stepdaughter is a bit different I mean how many hot 19 year olds with smoking bodies do you know that have one dream but to visit Chernobyl and go urgan exploring.
But it can work.

Funny shit! My ex's daughter was a smoking brunette. She was only 13, but I joked to my ex that I would "ex-virginize" her on a legal age if she would. ;D
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:15:55 AM
x2
However, all bitchez are crazy and latinas rank near the top.  The only difference is that they tend to encourage their men to be men...not like American white women.  Also, they're propably the only women that you can bang on the door at 3am hand them a gun covered in blood, tell them to hide it...and they will.   Don't underestimate that loyalty in the coming New World Order.

lol...In that case, I may have to rethink.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 08:19:21 AM
Funny shit! My ex's daughter was a smoking brunette. She was only 13, but I joked to my ex that I would "ex-virginize" her on a legal age if she would. ;D

I tell you it was fucking awkward the first time, now its grand I know her well and there isn't a problem for me picking her up if my friend has to work longer.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Mattyh7688 on July 06, 2012, 08:19:32 AM
Dude get out now... A girl I knew was EXACTLY like this. I couldn't even lie to her where I was when she wanted to see me because she lived about 3 blocks away. 4 months after I was done with her she was MARRIED to a guy with a kid. Now she just had twins.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:22:35 AM
Dude get out now... A girl I knew was EXACTLY like this. I couldn't even lie to her where I was when she wanted to see me because she lived about 3 blocks away. 4 months after I was done with her she was MARRIED to a guy with a kid. Now she just had twins.

 :-X :-X :-X
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: che on July 06, 2012, 08:33:00 AM
First of all he's lying to you , trannies can't have kids , second of all run as fast as you can  ,he'll get over it and you'll get over it too , I hope this helps .
               

         PS:I've done it 100's times ,you'll feel guilty for a day or two until something better comes along.
                                                                                           
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 08:35:43 AM
First of all he's lying to you , trannies can't have kids , second of all run as fast as you can  ,he'll get over it and you'll get over it too , I hope this helps .
               

         PS:I've done it 100's times ,you'll feel guilty for a day or two until something better comes along.
                                                                                           
Or until you've done it enough that you dont feel those emotions anymore.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: BikiniSlut on July 06, 2012, 08:37:45 AM
You're an asshole.

You could have told her the truth and told her she was coming on to strong and moving to fast. Chicks like this keep doing that because guys don't have the balls to tell them the truth.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: che on July 06, 2012, 08:40:40 AM
Or until you've done it enough that you dont feel those emotions anymore.

True , you've  got me , when it comes to pussy  I don't have any feelings .
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:42:36 AM
You're an asshole.

You could have told her the truth and told her she was coming on to strong and moving to fast. Chicks like this keep doing that because guys don't have the balls to tell them the truth.


What's to say I still won't tell her?
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: BikiniSlut on July 06, 2012, 08:47:34 AM

What's to say I still won't tell her?

Well quit fucking around and whining to your "bros" on Getbig and be a man and get it done.

She doesn't deserve this shit. She may not have the best body but she sounds like a decent girl who doesn't deserve this.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 06, 2012, 08:48:19 AM

What's to say I still won't tell her?

Did you told her she was running too fast?

(BTW, she's clearly running too fast, let that be a warning)
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 08:48:56 AM
Well quit fucking around and whining to your "bros" on Getbig and be a man and get it done.

She doesn't deserve this shit. She may not have the best body but she sounds like a decent girl who doesn't deserve this.
How do you know what she deserves? She could be bat shit crazy for all you know. Quit projecting.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: che on July 06, 2012, 08:51:38 AM

What's to say I still won't tell her?

Does your  girlfriend let you fuck her in the ass , Wiggings?
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: BikiniSlut on July 06, 2012, 08:53:04 AM
How do you know what she deserves? She could be bat shit crazy for all you know. Quit projecting.

At 7000 some posts you damn well know that if she was bad shit crazy Wiggs would share that shit with us. He shares everything else....that's not something he would leave out.

Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 08:53:19 AM
Does your  girlfriend let you fuck her in the ass , Wiggings?

I haven't tried and I'm not into anal.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 08:55:02 AM
I haven't tried and I'm not into anal.

Finally somebody who shares my view on Anal, I haven't the faintest idea what the big deal with Anal is - maybe its great for the guys that are on the "smaller" size but anybody with normal size its fucking shit (pun intended).

Compare that to a warm moist and tight pussy doesn't even come close.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 08:57:14 AM
Finally somebody who shares my view on Anal, I haven't the faintest idea what the big deal with Anal is - maybe its great for the guys that are on the "smaller" size but anybody with normal size its fucking shit (pun intended).

Compare that to a warm moist and tight pussy doesn't even come close.
Agreed. Anal is fun to watch on porn, but was never really into the thought of analyzing some chick. Although I have changed lanes without signalling a couple times by accident.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 08:59:25 AM
Agreed. Anal is fun to watch on porn, but was never really into the thought of analyzing some chick. Although I have changed lanes without signalling a couple times by accident.

Hahah never heard that - i remember that
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Thespritz0 on July 06, 2012, 08:59:32 AM
You're right bro... She's not the first mom I've dated.  I've tried to keep the kid out because it's not good having men in and out of their life.  And everything we did, the kid had to be there too.  I didn't agree with it but I accepted it.  She should change her ways and in the future, I'll insist on having it that way.  Thanks for the good advice...oh yeah, meltdown. ;D
^^
Wiggs bro- you WILL find a better one eventually... you mentioned the pussy wasn't the best, and trust me THAT will have eventually led to worse things HAD you committed to her (cheating, and worse).  Count yourself amongst the living once again and FEEL BETTER.  When you find the "ONE" you'll know. ;)
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: che on July 06, 2012, 09:02:59 AM
Finally somebody who shares my view on Anal, I haven't the faintest idea what the big deal with Anal is - maybe its great for the guys that are on the "smaller" size but anybody with normal size its fucking shit (pun intended).

Compare that to a warm moist and tight pussy doesn't even come close.

Anal is good only when she doesn't like it or want it , I hope this helps.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 09:05:41 AM
Anal is good only when she doesn't like it or want it , I hope this helps.

Sounds like you've got some frustrations brah...Perhaps you should start beating up boxing bags again instead of women's anus.
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 09:08:18 AM
^^
Wiggs bro- you WILL find a better one eventually... you mentioned the pussy wasn't the best, and trust me THAT will have eventually led to worse things HAD you committed to her (cheating, and worse).  Count yourself amongst the living once again and FEEL BETTER.  When you find the "ONE" you'll know. ;)

Thanks bro.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: che on July 06, 2012, 09:13:57 AM
Sounds like you've got some frustrations brah...Perhaps you should start beating up boxing bags again instead of women's anus.

Haha,  the problem is that the punching  bag doesn't cry and tell you to stop .
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: HappyGorilla on July 06, 2012, 09:14:24 AM
You have to be plain fucking retarded to get involved with a 25 year old and a kid. At 21 she had a kid? Wow man, people who have kids that young can say all they want, but I would have lost the best years of my life traveling, living abroad, etc. Especially losing your freedom to another mans kid. Fuck that, I am bad shit scared of woman like that. You can white knight all you want, but I wouldn't give two shits. She's a still a kid with a kid, and imagine you get her pregnant, you got to support your kid and the other one. Some guys are ok with it, but that's my ideal nightmare
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Bgpapi23 on July 06, 2012, 09:19:16 AM
The fact that you hung around after the first date is astonishing to this female as well as you putting in time with her kid...this was the first time in a llllooonnngggg time that a guy was willing to stick around for more that one night with this female especially considering she has a kid and all, like all females with kids they are looking to be rescued by a bleeding heart,sympathetic , sucker and that's what you represented to this female...man up Wiggs call her up let her know things were moving to fast and you have to take a step back ,she'll neither be shocked or surprised by your decision cause you're not the first to decline  being in a relationship with her and you won't be the last... And no disrespect to ya but you'll be yesterday's news to her as soon as she is giving that ass to the next guy which won't take long.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 09:19:21 AM
Haha,  the problem is that the punching  bag doesn't cry and tell you to stop .

 :-X
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: wes on July 06, 2012, 09:22:52 AM
Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term.   Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now.  Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.
^THIS^
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: dr.chimps on July 06, 2012, 09:56:13 AM
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This week on a very special getbig edition of Oprah...
LOL. Nice. Do Wiggs good to get on the couch for a good heart-to-heart with America's spiritual shepherd.        ;D
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Devon97 on July 06, 2012, 10:07:37 AM
I've been seeing this Latina, (Mexican).  She's 25 has one kid.  She's pretty decent girl.  Cooks, cleans, happy being domesticated. We both started this relationship looking for the same thing...long term.

Her kid pisses me off...(It's just me not used to being around 4 year olds)
She keeps talking about having kids and I've known this broad for a month...up to and including going to those websites where you can take pics of the couple and it shows what your kid would look like... :o :-X :-\
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since.  I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before.  I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever.  I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again.  I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up?  And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.

Don't feel bad about doing her wrong Wiggsy. You're black, I don't think you can help it.  ;D
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Stark on July 06, 2012, 10:10:04 AM
Don't feel bad about doing her wrong Wiggsy. You're black, I don't think you can help it.  ;D

;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Gentleman, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud
Post by: Kim Jong Bob on July 06, 2012, 10:14:09 AM
Ok, serious Wiggs.....she's mexican, you're black/jew....and you had unprotected sex. Now if you were all black I'd say she's already pregnant, but hopefully for you, your jew sperms would recognize the inferior mexican egg and commit spermicide. If not you'll have a cheap ass, bike stealing, watermelon eating Wigglet on your hands soon. :)
Lül like adolf would have said
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Kwon_2 on July 06, 2012, 10:25:42 AM
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since.  I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before.  I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever.  I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again.  I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up?  And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.

Are you saying she's less curvy and skinnier than what you first though?

When you decide to get kids, you should do it with the one you really feel special, the one you see living together with for at least 30 something years.

If you don't feel she's perfect for you, don't get any kids with that woman, simple. It would be a mistake.
Title: Re: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud.
Post by: Samourai Pizzacat on July 06, 2012, 11:15:31 AM
Jesus, just speak up!