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Title: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: syntaxmachine on May 13, 2013, 04:40:18 PM
The outing is here:
http://coveredinbandaids.tumblr.com/post/43786458193/what-does-a-rapist-look-like-and-how-does-he-come-to

This woman claims that she was raped in a drunken fondle session with her boyfriend of two weeks. Yet she stayed with him for 700+ days and only put up this damning blog post after the relationship ended.

"My rapist’s name is Andrew Paul Bean.  He was born in Ohio and graduated from Perrysburg High School in 2009.  He currently resides in Los Angeles, California, where he studies theatre and desires to be an actor.

My name is Tucker Reed.  I was born in California, and graduated from Ashland High School in 2008.  I currently reside in Los Angeles, California.  I am a writer of young adult books.  I was sexually assaulted by Andy in the early morning hours of December 4, 2010.  I denied my victimization and remained in a relationship with him for 707 days."

A certain Mr Bean's reputation and future career prospects getting raped here, that's for sure. What say the reputed psychoanalysts/evolutionary psychologists/ministers/players of getbig?

Bodybuilding related (::): Sex (especially rape due to extra calories burned) is a good supplemental form of cardio for reaching epic leans.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: syntaxmachine on May 13, 2013, 04:43:19 PM
The woman recorded a conversation with a laptop two years after the supposed occurrence. 'Bean' is the "rapist" in question, 'Reed' the woman.

BEAN:  Am I really an all right person?  Because I –– I … I don’t know.  I’m just… .  What’re you doing?
REED:  I –– I need [the recording] for my own fucking psychological… .  I need to listen to it later.  I need to… .
BEAN:  Tucker … I don’t want you … to go to the police about it, obviously.  But at the same time, I know you have a complete right to do it.  And … I’m sorry.  I’m sorry I did that to you.  I’m sorry I didn’t know what I was doing.  And I’m sorry that I’ve hurt you in ways that nobody ever should hurt another person.  I can’t even look at you.  I am sorry that … every time I hear your name from now on, I’ll think of the bad times more than good.  But then I’ll think of the good times eventually.  I’ll get better eventually.  But … I’m –– I’m –– I’m really sorry.  I never –– I never meant to hurt you.  I really didn’t.  (breath)  And I keep on thinking –– I keep on, like, thinking, like maybe if I had done something different, you know?  And it all just comes down to… I wanted sex, and … I was drunk.  You know, I was selfish.
REED:  I told you it would ruin everything.
BEAN:  (laughs)  I don’t remember that.  I –– I couldn’t hear that.  (pause)  I don’t –– I don’t even remember that.
REED:  Well, you remembered enough to tell me why you did it.  …  That’s the thing, Andy.  You remembered enough to tell me why you did it, when I brought it up a year later.
BEAN:  What, the roses, and all that stuff?
REED:  This whole, like –– really, it was so disturbing.
BEAN:  Tucker, that was me … that was me doing to you the same thing that you did to me two days ago.  Or, on Thursday.  With just saying everything to put me down.  I was doing that because … I felt like shit.  Because if I actually looked at myself in the mirror, I couldn’t stand what was there.  And I can’t.  (sigh)  So if you’re –– if you’re talking about when I was drunk on the anniversary of it, it’s because I didn’t want to deal with it.
REED:  It was so hurtful.
BEAN:  I know.  (breath)  I’m sorry!
REED:  And that’s what happened.  That’s –– that’s really, like, the end, in my mind, like, everything that happened is just a blur of, like, unhappiness and us fighting all the time.
BEAN:  We weren’t fighting all the time.
REED:  That’s all I remember.
BEAN:  (scoffing noise)  Do ––
REED:  I just –– I just remember me going, “How –– how can I be this, like, unhappy and still be here?”  And feeling like ––
BEAN:  We’re just very different people ––
REED:  –– I just forgive, like, so much, you know?  Like –– (sigh) any other girl ––
BEAN:  Yeah.  …
REED:  I didn’t –– I did not –– I went –– I had you come in with me, and we were naked, and I was gonna give you a blow job and I thought you were going to eat me out.  That’s what I thought was gonna happen.  And then all of a sudden you were on top of me, and you had your dick in your hands, and you were putting it in me, and it hurt so much, and I was saying, “Don’t do it.”  (several sobs)  I was saying, “Don’t!  No, no!”  (sob, sniffles)  And you were on me and I was pinned like this.  (rustling, gasp)  And then I heard (gasp) those two girls come back, and I –– I –– I was so drunk, and (gasp) I thought, “No, don’t, don’t scream, don’t kick him off you –– “
BEAN:  We were –– we were both so drunk and ––
REED:  ”It will make –– it will make noise and they’ll know that you’re a slut and they’ll think that you meant to have sex” and I didn’t, I didn’t!  And I thought that it would just be better if it was just over, but you have so much fucking stamina, it went on forever.  (three gasps)
BEAN:  We –– we were both really drunk, okay?  (she wails)  We were both really drunk, and it was a stupid mistake.  It was something that was really fucking dumb.
REED:  You didn’t listen to me, you didn’t care enough to listen to me, I was just a hole.
BEAN:  I was drunk!  I didn’t mean to, you’re not a whore, okay?
REED:  Hole for you to stick ––
BEAN:  … oh.
REED:  –– your dick in.  (gasps)  I wasn’t a person, I wasn’t talking.  Ugh.
BEAN:  I’m sorry.
REED:  That –– the memory of it –– the memory of it makes me want –– (wail)
BEAN:  I don’t –– I don’t remember it.  I don’t remember anything about it.
REED:  It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a crime.  (sniffs)  Really, like if you went in to court and you said that, they’d be like, “Doesn’t matter.  It happened.”
BEAN:  (sighs twice)  I’m so sorry for hurting you.
REED:  Okay.  (sniffs)
BEAN:  And I know … it’s just words.  I just –– I fucking hate words.  (sighs)
REED:  I just wanted you to know ––
BEAN:  I know I hurt you.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: syntaxmachine on May 13, 2013, 04:49:52 PM
Regardless of the veracity of this woman's story, any crazy chick could make such a post about a man she was involved with and do lots of damage. Don't date crazies or otherwise let them down gently during a breakup.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: NarcissisticDeity on May 13, 2013, 04:56:43 PM
The good thing about these public outings is lets see if she and her claim will hold up to scurrility , she better be prepared 
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Powerlift66 on May 14, 2013, 08:10:27 AM
pics or it didnt happen...
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: 240 is Back on May 14, 2013, 08:19:53 AM
Recording it - after remaining his boyfriend for 2 years after the event?   Something is missing here. 
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: BigCyp on May 14, 2013, 08:26:44 AM
This one is clearly past the sell-by rape.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Archer77 on May 14, 2013, 08:30:08 AM
Recording it - after remaining his boyfriend for 2 years after the event?   Something is missing here. 

Yep!  I'm sensing some emotional imbalance here.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: 240 is Back on May 14, 2013, 08:30:40 AM
maybe she was building some "insurance" for a nice fck-you to him, if he decided to go breaking up with her?

Two years is a LONG time to be in a relationship.  They spent two years dating, fcking, living together, kissing and hanging out - AFTER this drunken rape - and the minute they break up, she calls police and alerts the world of the incident?

Look, if he's a rapist, you lock his ass up... but something just seems 'off' with this case.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: BigCyp on May 14, 2013, 08:34:08 AM
She had no business just wanting to suck a drunk man's penis.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Psychopath on May 14, 2013, 08:35:50 AM
Never trust a woman.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: 240 is Back on May 14, 2013, 08:37:18 AM
Guys have to be smart sometimes - The system will wreck their lives if they have a drunken sexual misunderstand with someone.

Honestly, smart man will make out with hot drunken mess girl... then go beat his dick in the bathroom and get the heck out of there.  Not kidding.  Regret in the morning is a big thing, and all it takes is for one claim of "I don't think I consented..." and the man is accused, labeled, broke, and ousted.

Getbiggers - be smart - the sex will be just as good at noon the next day.  Make out with the chick, get inspired, knock one out, and get outta there.  She'll STILL want you the next day - you'll be a hella major challenge.  Her boyfriend won't want to kick your ass, the police won't be waking you up.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: pluck on May 14, 2013, 09:18:48 AM
This sort of shit is nothing new. This is how the weaker sex gets even with men these days.

I know a guy that is now on the registered sex offender list for life after being accused of rape.

The girl posted bikini and ass shots of herself on myspace (this was about 7 years ago) and had sex with a few different guys after the incident took place. For anyone that knows, a woman who was truly raped is terrified of men for a good period of time after the event takes place and is visibly disturbed. ...yet this bitch takes half naked pics of herself and hooks up with guys after the "rape".

Dude's life is basically fucked forever.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: BigCyp on May 14, 2013, 09:21:14 AM
I know this is controversial, but I find personally that monogamy and abstaining from alcohol protects this from happening to me.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Army of One on May 14, 2013, 09:23:40 AM
REED:  You didn’t listen to me, you didn’t care enough to listen to me, I was just a hole.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Army of One on May 14, 2013, 09:24:16 AM
I know this is controversial, but I find personally that monogamy and abstaining from alcohol protects this from happening to me.

and waiting til your wedding night to have sex too
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Parker on May 14, 2013, 09:24:44 AM
maybe she was building some "insurance" for a nice fck-you to him, if he decided to go breaking up with her?

Two years is a LONG time to be in a relationship.  They spent two years dating, fcking, living together, kissing and hanging out - AFTER this drunken rape - and the minute they break up, she calls police and alerts the world of the incident?

Look, if he's a rapist, you lock his ass up... but something just seems 'off' with this case.
His crime was that he stole her heart, and then broke it.
As the saying goes, "Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned", nowadays that means legal fees and possible jail time. And being accused of being a rapist, which sticks to you for a lifetime.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: 240 is Back on May 14, 2013, 09:39:49 AM
His crime was that he stole her heart, and then broke it.
As the saying goes, "Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned", nowadays that means legal fees and possible jail time. And being accused of being a rapist, which sticks to you for a lifetime.

not only that, but the FALSE rape accusers seem to never get in that much trouble.  I know one woman with THREE false charges in the last year - all 3 dudes were publicly humiliated and spent a week in jail... and she's STILL out hanging in the bars.

Why the fck doesn't a false accuser - particularly ones caught ON VIDEO having happy public consensual sex then crying rape when the guy doesn't want to marry her - given the same sentence as the man would have gotten had he been found guilty?
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: BigCyp on May 14, 2013, 09:45:03 AM
and waiting til your wedding night to have sex too

And watching Batman Begins, while she 'freshens up' beforehand on the honeymoon night.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Rome on May 14, 2013, 09:53:14 AM
These are dark times for men, "rape" is basically whatever a woman decides it is these days and some off the wall feminist are even calling "mental rape" a real thing.

After enough lives are ruined and harsher consequences are dolled out for it, false rape allegations will eventually subside but that's a ways off.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Papper on May 14, 2013, 09:56:54 AM
not only that, but the FALSE rape accusers seem to never get in that much trouble.  I know one woman with THREE false charges in the last year - all 3 dudes were publicly humiliated and spent a week in jail... and she's STILL out hanging in the bars.

Why the fck doesn't a false accuser - particularly ones caught ON VIDEO having happy public consensual sex then crying rape when the guy doesn't want to marry her - given the same sentence as the man would have gotten had he been found guilty?

This is one of my fears, very unpleasant that women can do this. If you fuck enough women, you're bound to meet some psychos aren't you.

There should be a site for this where you can view women in your area that is totally nuts (bonkers) and has done this several times. You should post her info straight away to help bros out.

Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Nomad on May 14, 2013, 10:00:31 AM
How come its always the handsome white males who get these weird accusations of rape way past the rape date??!?!

Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Parker on May 14, 2013, 10:19:19 AM
These are dark times for men, "rape" is basically whatever a woman decides it is these days and some off the wall feminist are even calling "mental rape" a real thing.

After enough lives are ruined and harsher consequences are dolled out for it, false rape allegations will eventually subside but that's a ways off.
i was reading something about revenge sites where mainly men and a few women, put up see tapes and nudes of their Ex's. And an attorney who had represented a woman had said that it was "rape".
So basically, according to him, a chick could send a man she doesn't really know, nude pics of herself, and he posts them on Facebook, that said man "raped" her.
Whose pics are those? Who willingly took the pics, and willingly sent them to someone who she doesn't know?
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Papper on May 14, 2013, 10:31:13 AM
i was reading something about revenge sites where mainly men and a few women, put up see tapes and nudes of their Ex's. And an attorney who had represented a woman had said that it was "rape".
So basically, according to him, a chick could send a man she doesn't really know, nude pics of herself, and he posts them on Facebook, that said man "raped" her.
Whose pics are those? Who willingly took the pics, and willingly sent them to someone who she doesn't know?

That lawyer could might as well argue that a guy who is wrongfully accused of rape, is also "raped" by the accusator. Since his definition of rape is rather a breach of trust.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: bigmc on May 14, 2013, 10:39:52 AM
I know this is controversial, but I find personally that monogamy and abstaining from alcohol protects this from happening to me.

big cyp high on life in this thread
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Parker on May 14, 2013, 10:46:01 AM
That lawyer could might as well argue that a guy who is wrongfully accused of rape, is also "raped" by the accusator. Since his definition of rape is rather a breach of trust.
exactly...
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: bigmc on May 14, 2013, 10:47:25 AM
proof that people will put anything on the internet

classy stuff
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: dj181 on May 14, 2013, 11:17:54 AM
Guys have to be smart sometimes - The system will wreck their lives if they have a drunken sexual misunderstand with someone.

Honestly, smart man will make out with hot drunken mess girl... then go beat his dick in the bathroom and get the heck out of there.  Not kidding.  Regret in the morning is a big thing, and all it takes is for one claim of "I don't think I consented..." and the man is accused, labeled, broke, and ousted.

Getbiggers - be smart - the sex will be just as good at noon the next day.  Make out with the chick, get inspired, knock one out, and get outta there.  She'll STILL want you the next day - you'll be a hella major challenge.  Her boyfriend won't want to kick your ass, the police won't be waking you up.

and be sure to get her digits, and meet up with her at another time
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: dj181 on May 14, 2013, 11:33:12 AM
some off the wall feminist are even calling "mental rape" a real thing.

"our waitress is paying the price of their winking"

Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Archer77 on May 14, 2013, 12:08:20 PM
proof that people will put anything on the internet

classy stuff

She's seeking sympathy.   She can't have him so she will destroy him.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Skeletor on May 14, 2013, 12:18:31 PM
not only that, but the FALSE rape accusers seem to never get in that much trouble.  I know one woman with THREE false charges in the last year - all 3 dudes were publicly humiliated and spent a week in jail... and she's STILL out hanging in the bars.

Why the fck doesn't a false accuser - particularly ones caught ON VIDEO having happy public consensual sex then crying rape when the guy doesn't want to marry her - given the same sentence as the man would have gotten had he been found guilty?

I think if you knowingly and falsely accuse someone of a crime, you should receive the same penalties and consequences as the ones the falsely accused person would get if convicted, along with perjury and any other charges. But in the age of political correctness the focus is always on the "victim" (ie the one making the accusation) and there's no sympathy for the real victim.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: deadpan on May 14, 2013, 01:55:22 PM
starting to see more and more cases like this

gotta love when some emotionally unstable bitch stays in an abusive or unhealthy relationship and then starts making up rape charges when her ass gets dumped.

any sane person that got *genuinely* raped would report it right away. i'm sorry but this is complete bullshit. move the fuck on, skank.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: f450 on May 14, 2013, 03:52:29 PM
LOL.

A guy and a girl, both adults mind you, get drunk and have sex. = the guy raped the girl. what a fucking joke. Fuck that skanky whore and her millions of sisters. "I just wanted to give you a blowjob and then you eat me out".... and then what? what usually happens after that? Fucking bitches men >:(
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Wiggs on May 14, 2013, 04:14:32 PM
Dumb white cave bitches are good at this behavior. They feel shame over sleeping with guys that look like Shizzo so they convince themselves they were raped.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Psychopath on May 14, 2013, 04:47:29 PM
Dumb white cave bitches are good at this behavior. They feel shame over sleeping with guys that look like Shizzo so they convince themselves they were raped.


ahahahah, if shizzo's hand can file rape charges, it would.
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Archer77 on May 14, 2013, 04:48:43 PM
Dumb white cave bitches are good at this behavior. They feel shame over sleeping with guys that look like Shizzo so they convince themselves they were raped.

White people live in caves
Title: Re: Woman Outs "Rapist" Boyfriend on Blog 2 Years After Supposed Occurrence
Post by: Wiggs on May 14, 2013, 04:53:30 PM

ahahahah, if shizzo's hand can file rape charges, it would.

lolololol