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Title: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 29, 2013, 05:28:53 PM
say your woman is pissing you off and you really give it to her verbally

but you were actually right

but will not admit this anyway

how to proceed

do nothing? or try to "make up" and there by implicitely admitting defeat for the sake of the family  ???


women, how do they work? i dont really understand
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: Psychopath on June 29, 2013, 05:32:01 PM
I don't know man, from what I have observed, husbands end up becoming punching bags and learn to take shit just to keep the peace and avoid unnecessary bullshit.

Your choice, really.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: _aj_ on June 29, 2013, 05:46:46 PM
Pick the important things to stand behind. Everything else doesn't matter, let her win.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 29, 2013, 05:51:17 PM
Pick the important things to stand behind. Everything else doesn't matter, let her win.
maybe this is what i'm doing wrong


Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: tu_holmes on June 29, 2013, 05:56:32 PM
I talk to her and tell her what I have issues with, but it needs to be something worth fighting for.

Most crap is just that... Crap.

Pick your battles, most of them are pointless. It's one thing to stand your ground, it's another thing to stand your ground for something retarded.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: Dr.J on June 29, 2013, 06:07:14 PM
........I GOT..........99 PROBLEMS BUT A BITCH AINT ONE!!!!!

 ;D
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 29, 2013, 06:10:27 PM
........I GOT..........99 PROBLEMS BUT A BITCH AINT ONE!!!!!

 ;D
problem with these women is they totally ruin your relaxed time on the sofa at 10 pm after a long day

they start their shit and before you know it you go a little bit crazy (verbally)
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: biff on June 29, 2013, 07:15:22 PM
say 'im sorry' even if you're in the right and from then on be at her mercy. have fun jerking it in the shower asshole

be passive aggressive, which feels better, but is a slow burn which will lead to a huge blowout ending your relationship

shut her down (lol), which actually tends to work most of the time. no matter what they say women like a man who puts them in their place (verbally, although some really demented ones like to be hit)
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 29, 2013, 07:25:45 PM
Deny her; avoid eye contact, stay calm and silent.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 01:05:55 AM
i told her to shut up a hundred times but she wouldnt shut up

so then i said if you dont shut up right now i will cut off your head


i really didnt plan on saying that, as i spoke the words i thought "what the fuck am i saying"


then basically she started fearing for her life and breaking down psychologically


havent seen her in days now ???


Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: calfzilla on June 30, 2013, 01:13:00 AM
Maybe I'm not cut out to be married. I always hear guys say "my wife won't let me" "she wants me to go to x on that day" I say that's bullshit. I do what I want and am not interested in doing things I don't want to do such as go to a "baby shower". Seriously I just shake my head at some of the things my friends go through, and some even have cool wives for the most part.

Wonder if there is such thing as a traditional or "chill" woman? 
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 01:15:36 AM
Maybe I'm not cut out to be married. I always hear guys say "my wife won't let me" "she wants me to go to x on that day" I say that's bullshit. I do what I want and am not interested in doing things I don't want to do such as go to a "baby shower". Seriously I just shake my head at some of the things my friends go through, and some even have cool wives for the most part.

Wonder if there is such thing as a traditional or "chill" woman? 
what you want is a submissive woman but i think that doesnt rally exist

why you think women cant work in groups with other women without starting troubles
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: ukjeff on June 30, 2013, 01:15:49 AM
i told her to shut up a hundred times but she wouldnt shut up

so then i said if you dont shut up right now i will cut off your head


i really didnt plan on saying that, as i spoke the words i thought "what the fuck am i saying"


then basically she started fearing for her life and breaking down psychologically


havent seen her in days now ???




did she take the baby with her?
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 01:17:47 AM
did she take the baby with her?
no it's still in hospital

maybe thats why she is having mental problems
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: ukjeff on June 30, 2013, 01:19:42 AM
no it's still in hospital

maybe thats why she is having mental problems
"Its" still in hospital?
Have you forgot which sex you said it was?
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: calfzilla on June 30, 2013, 01:20:54 AM
Anabol is baby ok?  Long time in hospital.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: ukjeff on June 30, 2013, 01:23:50 AM
There is no baby, he made it up to start a thread.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: calfzilla on June 30, 2013, 01:24:29 AM
But he posted a pic.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: ukjeff on June 30, 2013, 01:25:54 AM
(http://cdn.sheknows.com/articles/2012/02/Sarah_Parenting/baby-names-baby-in-towel2.jpg)

like that one?
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: George Whorewell on June 30, 2013, 01:27:09 AM
The Scott Peterson method always works for me.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: calfzilla on June 30, 2013, 01:28:14 AM
(http://cdn.sheknows.com/articles/2012/02/Sarah_Parenting/baby-names-baby-in-towel2.jpg)

like that one?

No his child is a chocolate face.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: ukjeff on June 30, 2013, 01:30:18 AM
No his child is a chocolate face.
(http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTrodgQhkPInGtTJ364SUjKY6qQKy_8Uap7uPQ_iwHTN-WV4oVOFw)
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: Psychopath on June 30, 2013, 01:43:21 AM
No offence bro, but your love for ebony pussy is a big problem. Black chicks might as well have dicks they're so fucking aggressive.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: James28 on June 30, 2013, 01:59:11 AM
I bought her a hair straightener to keep at my place the last time I pissed her off. Well, that was this morning. (I went to a strip club last night with mates and didn't tell her. Some stupid c/unt of a mate put the pics on his Facebook).

It really is easier than to argue with the bitch the next few weeks. I don't see it as rolling over. It's an investment in the peace process. Other times I'll lash out verbally and put her in her place. However, this time I was caught bang to rights. This gets her off my back for the week. While I've only been seeing her for two months, I really like her. So every time I fuck up, I'll have to do something like this. Relationships cost the guy money. it's just how it is  :-\

Most 'alphas' here will call me a pussy, but you don't understand how tenacious she is in arguments. She doesn't fucking stop. You can only take this shit for so long before doing what you gotta do to make her shut up.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 06:06:43 AM
But he posted a pic.
i posted a google image search result of "premature baby" and said


"not mine but similar"
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 06:12:23 AM
I bought her a hair straightener to keep at my place the last time I pissed her off. Well, that was this morning. (I went to a strip club last night with mates and didn't tell her. Some stupid c/unt of a mate put the pics on his Facebook).

It really is easier than to argue with the bitch the next few weeks. I don't see it as rolling over. It's an investment in the peace process. Other times I'll lash out verbally and put her in her place. However, this time I was caught bang to rights. This gets her off my back for the week. While I've only been seeing her for two months, I really like her. So every time I fuck up, I'll have to do something like this. Relationships cost the guy money. it's just how it is  :-\

Most 'alphas' here will call me a pussy, but you don't understand how tenacious she is in arguments. She doesn't fucking stop. You can only take this shit for so long before doing what you gotta do to make her shut up.
fucked up but it seems women enjoy getting you really angry so angry you want to slap them around so they can confirm you are the bad guy and they are the helpless damsel


but i wouldnt do that, after all it is like the elderls said "dont shoot unless you are sure the shot will be lethal"
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: biff on June 30, 2013, 06:23:32 AM
I bought her a hair straightener to keep at my place the last time I pissed her off. Well, that was this morning. (I went to a strip club last night with mates and didn't tell her. Some stupid c/unt of a mate put the pics on his Facebook).

It really is easier than to argue with the bitch the next few weeks. I don't see it as rolling over. It's an investment in the peace process. Other times I'll lash out verbally and put her in her place. However, this time I was caught bang to rights. This gets her off my back for the week. While I've only been seeing her for two months, I really like her. So every time I fuck up, I'll have to do something like this. Relationships cost the guy money. it's just how it is  :-\

Most 'alphas' here will call me a pussy, but you don't understand how tenacious she is in arguments. She doesn't fucking stop. You can only take this shit for so long before doing what you gotta do to make her shut up.

nah, you're not a pussy. the 'shut down' doesnt work well if you are in the wrong, its more for if she is just being unreasonable about something.

but the relentless part, its sorta how they 'break' guys in military training, keep on em until they just mentally say 'fuck it' and stop thinking, they become much more pliable for their training.  sadly a lot of relationships slowly over time, just turn into some guy just saying 'fuck it' and giving in all the time so he doesnt have to listen to it anymore...so he spends hours doing yard work every weekend to get away from it, or cleaning a garage, or working on a car, etc. 
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: jodsy on June 30, 2013, 06:54:05 AM
i told her to shut up a hundred times but she wouldnt shut up

so then i said if you dont shut up right now i will cut off your head


i really didnt plan on saying that, as i spoke the words i thought "what the fuck am i saying"


then basically she started fearing for her life and breaking down psychologically


havent seen her in days now ???



start by fixing your mental problems
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2013, 06:54:42 AM
start by fixing your mental problems
it's just roid rage
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: King Shizzo on June 30, 2013, 07:33:04 AM
I bought her a hair straightener to keep at my place the last time I pissed her off. Well, that was this morning. (I went to a strip club last night with mates and didn't tell her. Some stupid c/unt of a mate put the pics on his Facebook).

It really is easier than to argue with the bitch the next few weeks. I don't see it as rolling over. It's an investment in the peace process. Other times I'll lash out verbally and put her in her place. However, this time I was caught bang to rights. This gets her off my back for the week. While I've only been seeing her for two months, I really like her. So every time I fuck up, I'll have to do something like this. Relationships cost the guy money. it's just how it is  :-\

Most 'alphas' here will call me a pussy, but you don't understand how tenacious she is in arguments. She doesn't fucking stop. You can only take this shit for so long before doing what you gotta do to make her shut up.
Pussy.
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: Childish///AMG on June 30, 2013, 07:37:11 AM
I always "Walk" away. Never been one for useless banter. No loud talk, no cursing, can't stand it
Title: Re: how do you fellas fix problems with your women? passive or active approach?
Post by: Borracho on June 30, 2013, 07:37:36 AM
(http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTrodgQhkPInGtTJ364SUjKY6qQKy_8Uap7uPQ_iwHTN-WV4oVOFw)

hhaha

So fat but so happy!