Getbig.com: American Bodybuilding, Fitness and Figure

Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: macos on October 15, 2013, 08:14:54 PM

Title: relationships and schmoes
Post by: macos on October 15, 2013, 08:14:54 PM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 15, 2013, 08:19:38 PM
In the closet
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: ESFitness on October 15, 2013, 08:27:41 PM
the marriages were shams.

how could a man maintain a healthy relationship, let alone a marriage, with a woman, when he's attracted to men?

wait... there's shmoes for women and men, I suppose.....

well, any man who wants to be dominated and worship a muscular woman, doesn't see himself as her equal... and she's not gonna see him as an equal. that's not what relationships are based on. can't have an alpha-female and beta-male.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 15, 2013, 08:34:47 PM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last

-Can't resist weighing in on this. There are those on this board who are convinced I am a schmoe (although they are mistaken) and I have a long successful marriage. My life isn't pathetic, quite the opposite. You did say most, which deserves mentioning. There are no absolutes in life.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: the trainer on October 15, 2013, 08:51:09 PM
-Can't resist weighing in on this. There are those on this board who are convinced I am a schmoe (although they are mistaken) and I have a long successful marriage. My life isn't pathetic, quite the opposite. You did say most, which deserves mentioning. There are no absolutes in life.

You are a schmoe stop bullshitting, your first love is men but your wife is like a best friend and you have being with her so long you can never see yourself without her, but sucking on a cock every now and then keeps your schmoe blood flowing.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: SF1900 on October 15, 2013, 09:20:29 PM
You are a schmoe stop bullshitting, your first love is men but your wife is like a best friend and you have being with her so long you can never see yourself without her, but sucking on a cock every now and then keeps your schmoe blood flowing.


Not to mention he condoned, and pretty much promoted tbombz posting half nude pics on his facebook. Schmoe alert going off!
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 15, 2013, 10:03:23 PM
You are a schmoe stop bullshitting, your first love is men but your wife is like a best friend and you have being with her so long you can never see yourself without her, but sucking on a cock every now and then keeps your schmoe blood flowing.

You are making me laugh. I cannot remember the last time I had a sexual experience with another guy besides myself. Ring me up about this when you are my age and we can talk.

My wife is indeed my best friend. Someday, if you are lucky enough to stay married to someone you love and who loves you for nearly fifty years you will know how great this is.

Doesn't a schmoe pay for sex? I have never once in my life paid for sex. Although, when I was younger, I had some pretty lucrative offers from so-called schmoes (they were called sugar daddies in my day) in exchange for sex. I never went there though....seemed to degrading.

What I also find amusing is that people like you post this shit like you think you are outing me in some way. Keep in mind, it is me who admits to being bisexual. I don't have any problem with this. Why you should, is something of a mystery to me.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: macos on October 15, 2013, 11:03:28 PM
-Can't resist weighing in on this. There are those on this board who are convinced I am a schmoe (although they are mistaken) and I have a long successful marriage. My life isn't pathetic, quite the opposite. You did say most, which deserves mentioning. There are no absolutes in life.
all of my friends who were/are competing bybuilders have an unsettled life.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 15, 2013, 11:10:25 PM
all of my friends who were/are competing bybuilders have an unsettled life.

Life tends to settle down when maturity sets in.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Wolfox on October 15, 2013, 11:16:47 PM
You are making me laugh. I cannot remember the last time I had a sexual experience with another guy besides myself. Ring me up about this when you are my age and we can talk.

My wife is indeed my best friend. Someday, if you are lucky enough to stay married to someone you love and who loves you for nearly fifty years you will know how great this is.

Doesn't a schmoe pay for sex? I have never once in my life paid for sex. Although, when I was younger, I had some pretty lucrative offers from so-called schmoes (they were called sugar daddies in my day) in exchange for sex. I never went there though....seemed to degrading.

What I also find amusing is that people like you post this shit like you think you are outing me in some way. Keep in mind, it is me who admits to being bisexual. I don't have any problem with this. Why you should, is something of a mystery to me.

 Not sure if serious ???
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: AbrahamG on October 15, 2013, 11:34:46 PM
You are making me laugh. I cannot remember the last time I had a sexual experience with another guy besides myself. Ring me up about this when you are my age and we can talk.

My wife is indeed my best friend. Someday, if you are lucky enough to stay married to someone you love and who loves you for nearly fifty years you will know how great this is.

Doesn't a schmoe pay for sex? I have never once in my life paid for sex. Although, when I was younger, I had some pretty lucrative offers from so-called schmoes (they were called sugar daddies in my day) in exchange for sex. I never went there though....seemed to degrading.

What I also find amusing is that people like you post this shit like you think you are outing me in some way. Keep in mind, it is me who admits to being bisexual. I don't have any problem with this. Why you should, is something of a mystery to me.

Have you sucked any cock in this millenium?
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: syntaxmachine on October 16, 2013, 02:45:02 AM
There are no absolutes in life.

I'm afraid that the notion that there are no absolutes in life is itself an absolute, making your statement self-referentially incoherent.

There are absolutes baked into the structure of nature (viz., laws of physics) including some that range across human behavior (e.g., kneegars love fried chicken).

I suggest you accept this and stop trying to sound like a sophisticated liberal with either meaningless phrases or self-referentially incoherent babble.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Wolfox on October 16, 2013, 03:09:52 AM

There are absolutes baked into the structure of nature (viz., laws of physics) as well as contingent ones that range across human behavior (e.g., kneegars love fried chicken).



And yet at the most fundamental level of the universe - that we are aware of - there is so much uncertainty.

So maybe its true there are no absolutes. Maybe one day you could be gay and the next straight. Maybe.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: syntaxmachine on October 16, 2013, 06:18:51 AM
And yet at the most fundamental level of the universe - that we are aware of - there is so much uncertainty.

In which case it'd be true absolutely that uncertainty exists -- an absolute truth.

Or, if there are multiple universes with variant structures such that some possess uncertainty and others not, it'd be true absolutely of the set of such universes that some of its members possess uncertainty, some not. (Not a very interesting truth, but an absolute one all the same.)

Anyway, this seems to be taking us far afield of the whole "I got fucked in the ass and want everyone to believe that that is perfectly normal" spiel by PrimalMoffie.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Grape Ape on October 16, 2013, 06:21:31 AM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women

Gayer than admitting coming across schmoes.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 16, 2013, 12:45:41 PM
Have you sucked any cock in this millenium?

A thousand years is a longtime. I might have sucked a dick or two in another lifetime and not even know it. I'm old, but I am not 1,000 years old.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 16, 2013, 12:47:51 PM
I'm afraid that the notion that there are no absolutes in life is itself an absolute, making your statement self-referentially incoherent.

There are absolutes baked into the structure of nature (viz., laws of physics) including some that range across human behavior (e.g., kneegars love fried chicken).

I suggest you accept this and stop trying to sound like a sophisticated liberal with either meaningless phrases or self-referentially incoherent babble.

There are very few absolutes in life. Is that better?
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 16, 2013, 12:50:17 PM
A thousand years is a longtime. I might have sucked a dick or two in another lifetime and not even know it. I'm old, but I am not 1,000 years old.
hes talking about since the year 2000, dingus.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Mr Nobody on October 16, 2013, 12:52:25 PM
A thousand years is a longtime. I might have sucked a dick or two in another lifetime and not even know it. I'm old, but I am not 1,000 years old.
Are you gay or not? Bisexual is gay, I think your wife is a a good friend and all but you still have fantasies of younger guys to get off.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 16, 2013, 12:54:45 PM
Are you gay or not? Bisexual is gay, I think your wife is a a good friend and all but you still have fantasies of younger guys to get off.
bisexual is gay? How does that make any sense?

hes either
straight - likes pussy
bi - likes pussy and cock
gay - loves only teh cock

and we knows hes not straight.....
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Mr Nobody on October 16, 2013, 12:57:03 PM
bisexual is gay? How does that make any sense?

hes either
straight - likes pussy
bi - likes pussy and cock
gay - loves only teh cock

and we knows hes not straight.....
Sorry man you stick a dick in a mans ass you are gay.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: syntaxmachine on October 16, 2013, 01:11:52 PM
There are very few absolutes in life. Is that better?

Sure.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 16, 2013, 01:13:40 PM
Sorry man you stick a dick in a mans ass you are gay.
well that would mean there is no bi then.

By definition bisexual means you like both men and women.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 16, 2013, 01:15:56 PM
Sure.

Thanks and I appreciate you calling me on this. You are absolutely right!  ;D
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Frank Clairmonte on October 16, 2013, 01:17:36 PM
Its only gay if you take thongs off.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: the trainer on October 16, 2013, 01:53:09 PM
You are making me laugh. I cannot remember the last time I had a sexual experience with another guy besides myself. Ring me up about this when you are my age and we can talk.

My wife is indeed my best friend. Someday, if you are lucky enough to stay married to someone you love and who loves you for nearly fifty years you will know how great this is.

Doesn't a schmoe pay for sex? I have never once in my life paid for sex. Although, when I was younger, I had some pretty lucrative offers from so-called schmoes (they were called sugar daddies in my day) in exchange for sex. I never went there though....seemed to degrading.

What I also find amusing is that people like you post this shit like you think you are outing me in some way. Keep in mind, it is me who admits to being bisexual. I don't have any problem with this. Why you should, is something of a mystery to me.

I am outing you in some way because you said you are not a schome while admitting to being bisexual, so i am sure you get excited looking at these oiled up men in thongs, maybe you did not pay for sex when you where young but now you are old with saggy balls so if you want to get it on with a oiled up man in thong you got to pay.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 16, 2013, 10:15:37 PM
I am outing you in some way because you said you are not a schome while admitting to being bisexual, so i am sure you get excited looking at these oiled up men in thongs, maybe you did not pay for sex when you where young but now you are old with saggy balls so if you want to get it on with a oiled up man in thong you got to pay.

You are making some assumptions which are inaccurate. I don't have sagging balls. I have one ball and one that is a prosthetic replacement for the ball that died when I had the mumps as a teenager. If I wanted to get it on with an oiled up G4P dude in a thong, I would probably have to pay for this. Fortunately, this hasn't come up.

Look, I am a realist. I admit I have had sexual experiences with other men in the past. I am also married to a woman who I adore and who is the mother of our children. By definition, this makes me a bisexual person. It doesn't, as so many of you seem to hope, define my sex life today.

Keep on living your dream or delusion. It makes no difference to me on way or the other. I am not cruising for tricks here. Like you all, I am just another fellow who is interested in bodybuilding and who spends time on a (supposedly) bodybuilding website forum. Oh wait, bodybuilding by nature is kinda gay. Oops, you caught me and yourselves.

The difference between you and me is that I am at least honest.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: booty on October 17, 2013, 12:41:44 AM
Schmoes only see you for your muscles. They cannot carry a conversation with you except to talk about your muscles and constantly praise you which gets extremely boring fast. Therefore it would be impossible for a schmoe to have a relationship with a woman when a relationship is based on deep caring feelings and substance.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: macos on October 17, 2013, 02:48:24 AM
Schmoes only see you for your muscles. They cannot carry a conversation with you except to talk about your muscles and constantly praise you which gets extremely boring fast. Therefore it would be impossible for a schmoe to have a relationship with a woman when a relationship is based on deep caring feelings and substance.
you are absolutely right. These guys are just thinking only about their body rather themselves to be more precise. Relationships are more about the other person. Women are made to be loved not understood. For this you need to break that mirror and look beyond your muscles.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: booty on October 17, 2013, 03:37:34 AM
you are absolutely right. These guys are just thinking only about their body rather themselves to be more precise. Relationships are more about the other person. Women are made to be loved not understood. For this you need to break that mirror and look beyond your muscles.
Very wise!
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: BigCyp on October 17, 2013, 03:43:30 AM
Macos and booty linking hearts and minds in this thread.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: booty on October 17, 2013, 05:42:52 AM
Macos and booty linking hearts and minds in this thread.
haha yes we are on the same wave length
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: HockeyFightFan on October 17, 2013, 07:06:48 AM
Schmoes only see you for your muscles. They cannot carry a conversation with you except to talk about your muscles and constantly praise you which gets extremely boring fast. Therefore it would be impossible for a schmoe to have a relationship with a woman when a relationship is based on deep caring feelings and substance.

Or in boot's case....As long as the credit card charges go through
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Pet shop boys on October 17, 2013, 09:59:40 AM
Schmoes only see you for your muscles. They cannot carry a conversation with you except to talk about your muscles and constantly praise you which gets extremely boring fast. Therefore it would be impossible for a schmoe to have a relationship with a woman when a relationship is based on deep caring feelings and substance.

So let me get this straight If,  I go to a strip joint and see a stripper only for her tits and ass does that mean I cant have a healthy relationship with my wife when I get back home?


WoooSSSHHHHHHH
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: macos on October 17, 2013, 10:21:35 AM
haha yes we are on the same wave length
;)



So let me get this straight If,  I go to a strip joint and see a stripper only for her tits and ass does that mean I cant have a healthy relationship with my wife when I get back home?


WoooSSSHHHHHHH

WoooSSSHHHHHHH
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 11:28:54 AM
Schmoes only see you for your muscles. They cannot carry a conversation with you except to talk about your muscles and constantly praise you which gets extremely boring fast. Therefore it would be impossible for a schmoe to have a relationship with a woman when a relationship is based on deep caring feelings and substance.

Not everyone who admires your figure or physique is a schmoe. Physical attraction is also part of a relationship, albeit it is more important at the beginning of a relationship than after you've been with someone long enough to develop those deep caring feelings and substance you mention.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 11:32:45 AM
you are absolutely right. These guys are just thinking only about their body rather themselves to be more precise. Relationships are more about the other person. Women are made to be loved not understood. For this you need to break that mirror and look beyond your muscles.

Interesting way you turned this completely around and it makes perfect sense. Many if not most bodybuilders are narcissists. As such, they are a perfect fit for a schmoe who only wants to admire them for how they look. It would be like having a talking mirror stroking your ego.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 11:35:14 AM
So let me get this straight If,  I go to a strip joint and see a stripper only for her tits and ass does that mean I cant have a healthy relationship with my wife when I get back home?


WoooSSSHHHHHHH

You tell us. I see no reason why one thing has anything to do with the other unless you go have sex with the stripper before you go home to your wife. Like my wife and I always maintain, there is no harm in looking.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Parker on October 17, 2013, 12:22:52 PM
the marriages were shams.

how could a man maintain a healthy relationship, let alone a marriage, with a woman, when he's attracted to men?

wait... there's shmoes for women and men, I suppose.....

well, any man who wants to be dominated and worship a muscular woman, doesn't see himself as her equal... and she's not gonna see him as an equal. that's not what relationships are based on. can't have an alpha-female and beta-male.
Your last statement...a member here had told me that  all of the cuckhold "clients" that he has "rustled up some fun for their wives---the men are all submissive...
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 17, 2013, 05:47:02 PM
Your last statement...a member here had told me that  all of the cuckhold "clients" that he has "rustled up some fun for their wives---the men are all submissive...
what.... the..... fuck......
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 07:50:52 PM
pretty much everyone on this board is bi......or lying.

Thank you for posting this. I am glad that I wasn't the one to state the obvious in this case.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 17, 2013, 08:24:02 PM
Thank you for posting this. I am glad that I wasn't the one to state the obvious in this case.
I seriously hope youre joking.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 08:27:37 PM
I seriously hope youre joking.

I don't know the word 'youre' but if it means what I suspect it does, I am not joking; I am dead serious.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Shockwave on October 17, 2013, 08:32:37 PM
I don't know the word 'youre' but if it means what I suspect it does, I am not joking; I am dead serious.
youre delusional as fuck.

and the fact that you got catty over an apostrophe just leads me to believe that youre much gayer than youre comfortable admitting.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Primemuscle on October 17, 2013, 11:03:10 PM
youre delusional as fuck.

and the fact that you got catty over an apostrophe just leads me to believe that youre much gayer than youre comfortable admitting.

So now it is gay to notice proper punctuation? Give me a break! Besides this, it was more of a joke than anything.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: ESFitness on October 17, 2013, 11:46:36 PM
Your last statement...a member here had told me that  all of the cuckhold "clients" that he has "rustled up some fun for their wives---the men are all submissive...


well, I suppose if it weren't for beta's, there'd be no alphas...
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: herne on December 18, 2015, 02:48:08 PM
https://femuscleblog.wordpress.com/2015/09/
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Red Hook on December 18, 2015, 03:03:55 PM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last

nothing wrong with getting married 6 times or so then coming out of the closet after being a "judge of men in thongs".   lol... excluding Howard ofcourse.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: drkaje on December 18, 2015, 03:11:15 PM
It's the same as obsessing over fitness chicks.... gay.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on December 18, 2015, 03:12:03 PM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last

mayor of bodybuilding is divorced as well.  :D    ;D
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: drkaje on December 18, 2015, 03:18:31 PM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last

Are you being sarcastic?

I'm not opposed to poking fun at schmoes but everyone knows why relationships of people don't last.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Kwon_2 on December 19, 2015, 05:37:31 AM
Caring about who wins bodybuilding-contests is gay and makes you gay (without repair) if you follow bodybuilding regularly, which is why i often try to attend Kai Greenes one-man-shows (bringing my own white towels of peace of course) to ungay it all. (No homo)
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Radical Plato on December 19, 2015, 05:40:05 AM
Why is that most of the schmoes ive come across have had a pathetic past regarding relationships with women... most of the marriages just didnt last
Most marriages fail.  Hope this helps.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: denarii on December 19, 2015, 05:57:31 AM
are there many schmoes for the bikini and fitness athletes?
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Kwon_2 on December 19, 2015, 05:58:19 AM
are there many schmoes for the bikini and fitness athletes?
Don't think so, they don't have any/much muscle.
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: drkaje on December 19, 2015, 06:06:02 AM
are there many schmoes for the bikini and fitness athletes?

There's this Jodi Miller thread.....
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Kwon_2 on December 19, 2015, 06:09:53 AM
There's this Jodi Miller thread.....
That thread is not dedicated to her for her muscles/physique but for her cute face and calm demeanor. (no promo)
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: drkaje on December 19, 2015, 06:21:11 AM
That thread is not dedicated to her for her muscles/physique but for her cute face and calm demeanor. (no promo)

My monitor must be broken, LOL!
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: Kwon_2 on December 19, 2015, 06:22:33 AM
My monitor must be broken, LOL!

Was a joke   ;)
Title: Re: relationships and schmoes
Post by: drkaje on December 19, 2015, 06:23:47 AM
Was a joke   ;)

Peaceful nubbins be upon you. :)