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I already invited her and she wants to go with me. Only thing I didn't realize...
the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money...and there is no guarantee shes putting out on the first date.
she's 30 years old...Italian and 5'0 tall. very cute
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No.
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No.
X2. Too much $ for a first date even if it is guaranteed to put out.
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A true getbigger would have HER buy HIS ticket. Then pay HIM for sex ;D
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I already invited her and she wants to go with me. Only thing I didn't realize...
the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money...and there is no guarantee shes putting out on the first date.
she's 30 years old...Italian and 5'0 tall. very cute
If you do pay you might get somewhere with her...if you don't pay for it there is no chance with her and its back to jerking off with your buddy. Simple as.
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the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money.
You must live in Africa or something, or is your $100 escort a crack hoe?
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Do you drive a flashy ride? You need to pay or she won't put out, she'll see you as a phony wankster and just cancel on you last minute
Drive a decent ride? Really like the girl think she might be material for future. Tell her you have come across some financial hardship just recently and let her know you really can't afford to pay right now had you not of had to take care of some past debt. See if she understands.
Don't give a flip? Don't pay. Think you might get laid or pick up some new chicks numbers at the party, pay.
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Yes, buy her ticket.
That money will come back you.
She will remember that date forever, and she will not be shy to pay for things things in the future: dinners, movie tickets, clothes, gifts, gasoline
you will benefit. those will total up to WAY over $100
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Omg flint, find a right woman god damn it just find a gooooooood one and start slow, sloooooooow
I mean it's ok to fuck this and that hoe
But 100$ is too much for first date (you are not Well off!!) she will think you are too despatate and looser
When money is not the issue then it's diff story ;)
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Yes, buy her ticket.
That money will come back you.
She will remember that date forever, and she will not be shy to pay for things things in the future: dinners, movie tickets, clothes, gifts, gasoline
you will benefit. those will total up to WAY over $100
Dude, he found this broad at a bar not at a church. He should just analyze the best way to fill her up not swoon her
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If you can afford then Yes, but if money is tight then No. never let a bitch put you into debt.
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I already invited her and she wants to go with me. Only thing I didn't realize...
the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money...and there is no guarantee shes putting out on the first date.
she's 30 years old...Italian and 5'0 tall. very cute
A) Take her and have fun
B) Look like a dick
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A picture of said whore would make our decision making process much, much easier.
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Dude, he found this broad at a bar not at a church. He should just analyze the best way to fill her up not swoon her
oh my bad.
I didnt see the part about meeting her at a bar.
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joke about it with her. "One of us is getting some road head, just sayin..."
Just put it out there ;) If she's a freak, and you're prepared by stopping somewhere for a drink on the way, she'll do it.
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stop being a cheap bastard and pay for the ticket....that's what a MAN does...
It will pay off in the long run if you have any game and can close the deal...
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A picture of said whore would make our decision making process much, much easier.
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Baby in pic! Run away!!!
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Any girl single in their 30s has issues or baggage.
Note baby in pic
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Would not pay 100.
looks like hit and quit type, soulless whore eyes and fuck trophy in background.
probably a great fuck, but I wouldnt buy her a 100 dollar ticket to anything.
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I wouldn't.
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Am I seeing Senor Falcon on the sofa in the background?
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Don't do it.
You're 19 for the 4th year in a row, she's 30.
She has a kid, yuck!
She looks ok, nothing special.
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How many "should I pay, should she pay?" threads have you've started? I've lost count :-\
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Don't do it.
You're 19 for the 4th year in a row, she's 30.
She has a kid, yuck!
She looks ok, nothing special.
lol "kid"? she's got 4 :-X
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Nope not worth it. Buying the ticket implies relationship. Meeting in bar / having kid with just ok looks = no deal. Might argue yes if she was really hot though.
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Honesty is the best policy: tell her that something family related came up for that night and that you can't make it. But you will take her out to before hand and brunch the next weekend.
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lol "kid"? she's got 4 :-X
Haha, good luck with that :-X
(R-U-N!!!)
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If shes Italian odds are you are not getting in there on the first date..I know my people ;D
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If shes Italian odds are you are not getting in there on the first date..I know my people ;D
You only know things about men.
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You only know things about men.
I only know about lying to other men on a message board about eating carbohydrates
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too late...she just texted me telling me shes excited and gets off work at 2
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I only know about lying to other men on a message board about eating carbohydrates
Now you're lying again...
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;D
Now you're lying again...
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too late...she just texted me telling me shes excited and gets off work at 2
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Would not pay 100.
looks like hit and quit type, soulless whore eyes and fuck trophy in background.
probably a great fuck, but I wouldnt buy her a 100 dollar ticket to anything.
Harsh words but very true
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She will get you laid eventually. But I am more concerned with your finances. A party like that is 1004 a ticket then another 200$ easily for drinks etc .. make sure you don't end up budgeting at 3AM. She's good for anal based on the pic ;D
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She will get you laid eventually. But I am more concerned with your finances. A party like that is 1004 a ticket then another 200$ easily for drinks etc .. make sure you don't end up budgeting at 3AM. She's good for anal based on the pic ;D
4 kids... She will also hit you with the "I'm on the pill I swear" and let you knock her up again cause she is looking for a daddy for them other kids. The first couple candidates gtfo of there. Truth.
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X2. Too much $ for a first date even if it is guaranteed to put out.
X3.
WoooSSSHHHHHHH
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Any girl single in their 30s has issues or baggage.
Note baby in pic
If she has no kids its actually a great catch. (If youre over 35)
WoooSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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lol "kid"? she's got 4 :-X
QUEEEEEEEEEEEEE? (Spanish for WHATTTT???)
4 kids?
Run Forest RUN !!!!!!!!!!
WoooSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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If shes Italian odds are you are not getting in there on the first date..I know my people ;D
Yeah ...Have you heard of Jersey Shore?
WoooSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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I already invited her and she wants to go with me. Only thing I didn't realize...
the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money...and there is no guarantee shes putting out on the first date.
she's 30 years old...Italian and 5'0 tall. very cute
What do you get for $100? Food, drinks, entertainment? Is it tax deductible? You made the invite. Reneging now would make you look like a jack-ass. Being totally honest by telling her you didn't realize it was $100 each and it's out of your budget would also probably make you look like a loser too. Suck it up.
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Personally, I'd probably do it since I already said I would.
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It may or may not work buying her the ticket depending on your motivation. If you think buying it for her will make her want you, you will fail. If you get her the ticket and make no mention of it you'll be fine. If she finds out somehow it was $100 act like it was no big deal.
Theres always the debate on who should buy what. It doesn't matter. If she likes you shes knows it right away, if not buying her dinner and drinks will make no difference. If you buy a girl something with the intentions of 'please like me' she will see it from across the room that your desperate and weak. If you buy a girl a drink cuz you dont care and you were going up to the bar anyways she'll think your a decent guy who isnt trying to impress her.
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Baby? Looks like coach is cheating.
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Will Flint become the next 'Anabolichalo'?
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Will Flint become the next 'Anabolichalo'?
Anabolichalo never jacked off with his friend. Show Halo some respect :D
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What do you get for $100? Food, drinks, entertainment? Is it tax deductible? You made the invite. Reneging now would make you look like a jack-ass. Being totally honest by telling her you didn't realize it was $100 each and it's out of your budget would also probably make you look like a loser too. Suck it up.
She's just a hole to him dude. He's not trying to be the perfect husband.
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What do you get for $100? Food, drinks, entertainment? Is it tax deductible? You made the invite. Reneging now would make you look like a jack-ass. Being totally honest by telling her you didn't realize it was $100 each and it's out of your budget would also probably make you look like a loser too. Suck it up.
Princess L....................
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Anabolichalo never jacked off with his friend. Show Halo some respect :D
;D
Both are hardly 'selective' and seem unable to start a 'normal' relationship, pretty sad :-\
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She doesn't look to be worth $20.
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She doesn't look to be worth $20.
Looks like she is into witchcraft. Maybe she can grow Flinstones some balls.
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She doesn't look to be worth $20 worth let alone $100.
She should pay him for touching his arms..
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What do you get for $100? Food, drinks, entertainment? Is it tax deductible? You made the invite. Reneging now would make you look like a jack-ass. Being totally honest by telling her you didn't realize it was $100 each and it's out of your budget would also probably make you look like a loser too. Suck it up.
Wow. Being honest = loser. ::)
Flin the best thing to do is be honest. She'll understand. If she doesn't she's not worth your time but maybe a skullfuck.
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She has shasha grey soulless whore eyes.
im telling you flint, that hundo should be flat out spent paying for her box.
youd be better off buying a 5th of booze, I can almost guarantee you youd get laid.
Judging from those eyes, you may pay for her ticket only to watch her disappear into the bathroom with some other dude
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This guy here punched Bob Chicks ticket
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Dude it's a sushi lunch.....if a C note has you so stressed, you need rope and sturdy girders
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Dude it's a sushi lunch.....if a C note has you so stressed, you need rope and sturdy girders
you forget what its like to be young and broke.
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Yes, buy her ticket.
That money will come back you.
She will remember that date forever, and she will not be shy to pay for things things in the future: dinners, movie tickets, clothes, gifts, gasoline
you will benefit. those will total up to WAY over $100
She is 30, things like that are a dime a dozen...to her it's "expected"...
Everything you said before gives her controlling interest in the relationship, and treating him like a kid. And will be thrown back at him in arguments...and all he can say is "I spent $100 on a ticket, remember ..."
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Real advice Flinstones..... She ain't worth 100 bucks. Tell her you have aids.
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Real advice Flinstones..... She ain't worth 100 bucks. Tell her you have aids.
Or just tell her you're unemployed. You'll get the same reaction.
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you forget what its like to be young and broke.
No, I remember.......my army paycheck stretched about an inch, so free concerts at the park and Yogi baskets were my norm ;D
And clubs for whoring....lol
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30 yr old with 4 kids? Tell her that this baby sitter is sick...
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No, I remember.......my army paycheck stretched about an inch, so free concerts at the park and Yogi baskets were my norm ;D
And clubs for whoring....lol
haha, i remember those $450 paychecks and trying to grab sluts from bars in my Alphas, hoping they'll spread their legs for the uniform cause I didnt have shit for cash.
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30 yr old with 4 kids? Tell her that this baby sitter is sick...
Oh snap! Didnt even know that she has 4 kids. Flinstones is pure retard.
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haha, i remember those $450 paychecks and trying to grab sluts from bars in my Alphas, hoping they'll spread their legs for the uniform cause I didnt have shit for cash.
The whore wives in the on base clubs with the phantom ring marks during deployments.....I use to have them buy me drinks and suck me off in the Hyundai Excel hatchback I was "Rollin" in....bwahahahahahahahah ahahahaahhaahahaha
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Oh snap! Didnt even know that she has 4 kids. Flinstones is pure retard.
That's why I came with that rhetorical question ;)
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ROTF.....
You have to have skillz to pull off ass in this.....lol
My shame for all to see....but mine was "Forrest Green" hahahahahaha
Edit: Forgot, I had a black leather bra on mine.... :-X
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Flint just be honest with her and tell her you can't make your date because you're still recovering from your dick reduction surgery.
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ROTF.....
You have to have skillz to pull off ass in this.....lol
My shame for all to see....but mine was "Forrest Green" hahahahahaha
Edit: Forgot, I had a black leather bra on mine.... :-X
its different when youre junior enlisted brah.... all the chicks know youre a broke dick... theyve alreqdy accepted it. Lol.
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no way
pay for a hooker
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No buy
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Any girl single in their 30s has issues or baggage.
Sadly, and I'm not trying to be funny, this seems to be true of the girls I dated. Think about it, at that age, given the number of guys they dated, they should have found someone decent to settle with if there wasn't something inherently wrong with them. Of course there are exceptions, someone is recently divorced (has it's own issues), was in a very limited number of long term relationships, etc
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Sadly, and I'm not trying to be funny, this seems to be true of the girls I dated. Think about it, at that age, given the number of guys they dated, they should have found someone decent to settle with if there wasn't something inherently wrong with them. Of course there are exceptions, someone is recently divorced (has it's own issues), was in a very limited number of long term relationships, etc
Especially if they have a plethora of kids from different baby daddies.... or shes just a hoe.
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I already invited her and she wants to go with me. Only thing I didn't realize...
the ticket is almost 100 bucks! I can buy an escort with the same money...and there is no guarantee shes putting out on the first date.
she's 30 years old...Italian and 5'0 tall. very cute
$100 is a lot of money to you? you may have larger issues...
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4 kids? Her box has to be a mess...
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You must live in Africa or something, or is your $100 escort a crack hoe?
Actually I think it's a Brazilian tranny.
;D
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with 4 kids she's used to putting up with shit so call it off and make other plans
E
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She is ugly as fuck hth
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Do you drive a flashy ride? You need to pay or she won't put out, she'll see you as a phony wankster and just cancel on you last minute
Drive a decent ride? Really like the girl think she might be material for future. Tell her you have come across some financial hardship just recently and let her know you really can't afford to pay right now had you not of had to take care of some past debt. See if she understands.
Don't give a flip? Don't pay. Think you might get laid or pick up some new chicks numbers at the party, pay.
he barely got his first car.. an '84 chevy celebrity.
financial hardship? how about an intellectual hardship and complete lack of social skills.
this kid's gonna hang himself of suicide-bomb a PGA womens golf event eventually.
what happened to "my daddy pays for everything I want"? why doesn't you dad pay for you to learn some social skills? like how to talk to women? or how to have a legitimate relationship (you'll be 45 yrs old before you understand what this means.... still posting on getbig).... complete...waste...of... sperm.
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tell her that you posted her pic on a "car" message board and the comments about her were just brutal, so you decided to cancel the date.
Not only will you save the hundred bucks, but she'll spend 2-3 hours that night on google searching Hyundai and Jeep and BMW message boards for a "WYHI" thread.
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lol... You've got to be trolling us
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lol... You've got to be trolling us
dude.... is that chick a low rent pornstar or something? I recognize her but I cant quite place it...
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dude.... is that chick a low rent pornstar or something? I recognize her but I cant quite place it...
I don't know, I think she does too!
That would be funny... Anyone know? bradistani?
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tell her that you posted her pic on a "car" message board and the comments about her were just brutal, so you decided to cancel the date.
Not only will you save the hundred bucks, but she'll spend 2-3 hours that night on google searching Hyundai and Jeep and BMW message boards for a "WYHI" thread.
HAhahahaha
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lol at a 30+ yr old woman wanting a 20yr old broke and clueless kid to pay for her $100 ticket to a "party".
what adult woman goes to a 'party' with a random kid?
you two sound like each others co-dependant dream match.
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CodependencyFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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Codependency is defined as a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition (typically narcissism or drug addiction); and in broader terms, it refers to the dependence on the needs of, or control of, another.[1] It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others.[2] Codependency can occur in any type of relationship, including family, work, friendship, and also romantic, peer or community relationships.[2] Codependency may also be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, excessive compliance, or control patterns.[2] Narcissists are considered to be natural magnets for the codependent.
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Development and scope of concept[edit]Historically, the concept of codependence "comes directly out of Alcoholics Anonymous, part of a dawning realization that the problem was not solely the addict, but also the family and friends who constitute a network for the alcoholic."[3] It was subsequently broadened to cover the way "that the codependent person is fixated on another person for approval, sustenance, and so on."[3] As such, the concept overlaps with, but developed in the main independently from, the older psychoanalytic concept of the 'passive dependent personality' ... attaching himself to a stronger personality."[4]
Some would retain the stricter, narrower dictionary definition of codependency, which requires one person to be physically or psychologically addicted, such as to heroin, and the second person to be psychologically dependent on that behavior.[5]
Patterns and characteristics[edit]Codependency describes behaviors, thoughts and feelings that go beyond normal kinds of self-sacrifice or caretaking. For example parenting is a role that requires a certain amount of self-sacrifice and giving a child's needs a high priority, although a parent could nevertheless still be codependent towards their own children if the caretaking or parental sacrifice reached unhealthy or destructive levels.[2] Generally a parent who takes care of their own needs (emotional and physical) in a healthy way will be a better caretaker, whereas a codependent parent may be less effective, or may even do harm to a child.[2] Another way to look at it is that the needs of an infant are necessary but temporary whereas the needs of the codependent are constant.
People who are codependent often take on the role of martyr; they constantly put others' needs before their own and in doing so forget to take care of themselves. This creates a sense that they are "needed"; they cannot stand the thought of being alone with no one needing them. Codependent people are constantly in search of acceptance. When it comes to arguments, codependent people also tend to set themselves up as the "victim". When they do stand up for themselves, they feel guilty.
Codependency does not refer to all caring behavior or feelings, but only those that are excessive to an unhealthy degree.[6] Indeed, from the standpoint of Attachment theory or Object relations theory, "to risk becoming dependent"[7] may be for the compulsively self-reliant a psychological advance, and "depending on a source outside oneself ... successful, or tolerable, dependence" [8] may be valorized accordingly.
Narcissism[edit]Main article: Narcissism
Narcissists, with their ability to "get others to buy into their vision and help them make it a reality," are natural magnets for the "'co-dependent' ... [with] the tendency to put others' need before their own".[9] Sam Vaknin considered that codependents, as "the Watsons of this world, 'provide the narcissist with an obsequious, unthreatening audience ... the perfect backdrop.'"[10] Among the reciprocally locking interactions of the pair, are the way "the narcissist has an overpowering need to feel important and special, and the co-dependent has a strong need to help others feel that way. ... The narcissist overdoes self-caring and demands it from others, while the co-dependent underdoes or may even do almost no self-caring."[11]
In psychoanalytic terms, the narcissist "who manifests such 'omnipotent' behaviour and who seems to be especially 'independent' exerts an especially fascinating effect on all ... dependent persons ... [who] struggle to participate in the 'omnipotent' narcissist's power":[12] narcissist and codependent "participate together in a form of an ego-defense system called projective identification."[13]
Alan Rappoport identifies codependents of narcissists as "co-narcissists."[14] According to Richard Rappaport, "the codependent narcissist gives up his or her own needs to feed and fuel the needs of the other."[15]
Inverted narcissists[edit]Sam Vaknin—"a self-help author who openly discusses his experiences as a person with narcissistic personality disorder"[16]—has identified a special sub-class of such codependents as "inverted narcissists."
Inverted or "covert" narcissists are people who are "intensely attuned to others' needs, but only in so far as it relates to [their] own need to perform the requisite sacrifice"—an "inverted narcissist, who ensures that with compulsive care-giving, supplies of gratitude, love and attention will always be readily available ... [pseudo-]saintly."[17] Vaknin considered that "the inverted narcissist is a person who grew up enthralled by the narcissistic parent ... the child becomes a masterful provider of Narcissistic Supply, a perfect match to the parent's personality."
In everyday life, the inverted narcissist "demands anonymity ... uncomfortable with any attention being paid to him ... [with] praise that cannot be deflected." Recovery means the ability to recognize the self-destructive elements in one's character structure, and to "develop strategies to minimize the harm to yourself."[citation needed]
Recovery[edit]There are various recovery paths for individuals who struggle with codependency.
For example, some may choose behavioral psychotherapy, sometimes accompanied by chemical therapy for accompanying depression.
There also exist support groups for codependency, such as Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA), Al-Anon/Alateen, Nar-Anon, and Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACoA), which are based on the twelve-step program model of Alcoholics Anonymous and also Celebrate Recovery a Christian, Bible-based group. Although the term codependency originated outside of twelve-step groups, it is now a common concept in many of them.[18]
Often an important result of a Family Intervention is to highlight codependent behaviors of various family members. This is sometimes a great help in encouraging the codependent person to accept help.
Many self-help guides have been written on the subject of codependency. One of the first was Codependent No More by Melody Beattie, published in 1987. Beattie has since written several other books on the subject. Other authors include Pia Mellody (Facing Co-dependence) and Shirley Smith (Set Yourself Free).
Harmful effects of unaddressed codependency[edit]Unresolved patterns of codependency can lead to more serious problems like alcoholism, drug addiction, eating disorders, sex addiction, and other self-destructive or self-defeating behaviors.[19] People with codependency are also more likely to attract further abuse from aggressive individuals, more likely to stay in stressful jobs or relationships, less likely to seek medical attention when needed and are also less likely to get promotions and tend to earn less money than those without codependency patterns.[19]
For some, the social insecurity caused by codependency can progress into full-blown social anxiety disorders like social phobia, avoidant personality disorder or painful shyness.[19] Other stress-related disorders like panic disorder, depression or PTSD may also be present.[19]
Controversies[edit]Going from one extreme to the other. Sometimes an individual can, in attempts to recover from codependency, go from being overly passive or overly giving to being overly aggressive or excessively selfish.[6] Many therapists maintain that finding a balance through healthy assertiveness (which leaves room for being a caring person and also engaging in healthy caring behavior) is true recovery from codependency and that becoming extremely selfish, a bully, or an otherwise conflict-addicted person is not.[6][20]
Victim mentality. According to this perspective, developing a permanent stance of being a victim (having a "victim mentality") would also not constitute true recovery from codependency and could be another example of going from one extreme to another.[6] A victim mentality could also be seen as a part of one's original state of codependency (lack of empowerment causing one to feel like the "subject" of events rather than being an empowered actor).[6] Someone truly recovered from codependency would feel empowered and like an author of their life and actions rather than being at the mercy of outside forces.[6] A victim mentality may also occur in combination with passive–aggressive control issues.[6] From the perspective of moving beyond victim-hood, the capacity to forgive and let go (with exception of cases of very severe abuse) could also be signs of real recovery from codependency, but the willingness to endure further abuse would not.[6]
Caring for an individual with a physical addiction is not necessarily synonymous with pathology. To name the caregiver as a co-alcoholic responsible for the endurance of their partner's alcoholism for example, pathologizes caring behavior. The caregiver may only require assertiveness skills and the ability to place responsibility for the addiction on the other.[6][20]
Not all mental health professionals agree about codependence or its standard methods of treatment.[21] It is not listed in the DSM-IV-TR. Stan Katz & Liu, in "The Codependency Conspiracy: How to Break the Recovery Habit and Take Charge of Your Life," feel that codependence is over-diagnosed, and that many people who could be helped with shorter-term treatments instead become dependent on long-term self-help programs.
Some believe that codependency is not a negative trait, and does not need to be treated, as it is more likely a healthy personality trait taken to excess. Codependency in nonclinical populations has some links with favorable characteristics of family functioning.[22]
The language of, symptoms of, and treatment for codependence derive from the medical model suggesting a disease process underlies the behavior. There is no evidence that codependence is caused by a disease process, communicable or otherwise.
Some frequent users of the codependency concept use the word as an alternative to using the concept of dysfunctional families, without statements that classify it as a disease.[23]
Not everything promoted by recovery agencies is a demonstrable scientific fact, some of it is based on fashion and faith alone.[24][25]
See also[edit]Alcoholism in family systems
Compliance (psychology)
Counterdependency
Covert incest
Dependent personality disorder
Dysfunctional family
Enabling
Fantasy bond
Folie ŕ deux
Karpman drama triangle
Misplaced loyalty
Narcissistic defence sequences
Narcissistic supply
Obedience
Personal boundaries
Schizoid personality disorder
Stockholm syndrome
Submissiveness
Sycophancy
Toxic leader
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he barely got his first car.. an '84 chevy celebrity.
financial hardship? how about an intellectual hardship and complete lack of social skills.
this kid's gonna hang himself of suicide-bomb a PGA womens golf event eventually.
what happened to "my daddy pays for everything I want"? why doesn't you dad pay for you to learn some social skills? like how to talk to women? or how to have a legitimate relationship (you'll be 45 yrs old before you understand what this means.... still posting on getbig).... complete...waste...of... sperm.
Damn bro, all this animosity over differing opinions of steroids?
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Damn bro, all this animosity over differing opinions of steroids?
nah, little fucker targets me and shows me constant disrespect... so in turn, I remind him what an immature, inexperienced, socially inept, clueless boy in a man's body he is everytime he posts a thread like this.
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Damn bro, all this animosity over differing opinions of steroids?
theyre feuding on the steroid board.
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So can we get some Tbombz photoshopped into the pic with the 30 year old?
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I don't know, I think she does too!
That would be funny... Anyone know? bradistani?
For what's worth it..
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CodependencyFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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Codependency is defined as a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition (typically narcissism or drug addiction); and in broader terms, it refers to the dependence on the needs of, or control of, another.[1] It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others.[2] Codependency can occur in any type of relationship, including family, work, friendship, and also romantic, peer or community relationships.[2] Codependency may also be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, excessive compliance, or control patterns.[2] Narcissists are considered to be natural magnets for the codependent.
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Development and scope of concept[edit]Historically, the concept of codependence "comes directly out of Alcoholics Anonymous, part of a dawning realization that the problem was not solely the addict, but also the family and friends who constitute a network for the alcoholic."[3] It was subsequently broadened to cover the way "that the codependent person is fixated on another person for approval, sustenance, and so on."[3] As such, the concept overlaps with, but developed in the main independently from, the older psychoanalytic concept of the 'passive dependent personality' ... attaching himself to a stronger personality."[4]
Some would retain the stricter, narrower dictionary definition of codependency, which requires one person to be physically or psychologically addicted, such as to heroin, and the second person to be psychologically dependent on that behavior.[5]
Patterns and characteristics[edit]Codependency describes behaviors, thoughts and feelings that go beyond normal kinds of self-sacrifice or caretaking. For example parenting is a role that requires a certain amount of self-sacrifice and giving a child's needs a high priority, although a parent could nevertheless still be codependent towards their own children if the caretaking or parental sacrifice reached unhealthy or destructive levels.[2] Generally a parent who takes care of their own needs (emotional and physical) in a healthy way will be a better caretaker, whereas a codependent parent may be less effective, or may even do harm to a child.[2] Another way to look at it is that the needs of an infant are necessary but temporary whereas the needs of the codependent are constant.
People who are codependent often take on the role of martyr; they constantly put others' needs before their own and in doing so forget to take care of themselves. This creates a sense that they are "needed"; they cannot stand the thought of being alone with no one needing them. Codependent people are constantly in search of acceptance. When it comes to arguments, codependent people also tend to set themselves up as the "victim". When they do stand up for themselves, they feel guilty.
Codependency does not refer to all caring behavior or feelings, but only those that are excessive to an unhealthy degree.[6] Indeed, from the standpoint of Attachment theory or Object relations theory, "to risk becoming dependent"[7] may be for the compulsively self-reliant a psychological advance, and "depending on a source outside oneself ... successful, or tolerable, dependence" [8] may be valorized accordingly.
Narcissism[edit]Main article: Narcissism
Narcissists, with their ability to "get others to buy into their vision and help them make it a reality," are natural magnets for the "'co-dependent' ... [with] the tendency to put others' need before their own".[9] Sam Vaknin considered that codependents, as "the Watsons of this world, 'provide the narcissist with an obsequious, unthreatening audience ... the perfect backdrop.'"[10] Among the reciprocally locking interactions of the pair, are the way "the narcissist has an overpowering need to feel important and special, and the co-dependent has a strong need to help others feel that way. ... The narcissist overdoes self-caring and demands it from others, while the co-dependent underdoes or may even do almost no self-caring."[11]
In psychoanalytic terms, the narcissist "who manifests such 'omnipotent' behaviour and who seems to be especially 'independent' exerts an especially fascinating effect on all ... dependent persons ... [who] struggle to participate in the 'omnipotent' narcissist's power":[12] narcissist and codependent "participate together in a form of an ego-defense system called projective identification."[13]
Alan Rappoport identifies codependents of narcissists as "co-narcissists."[14] According to Richard Rappaport, "the codependent narcissist gives up his or her own needs to feed and fuel the needs of the other."[15]
Inverted narcissists[edit]Sam Vaknin—"a self-help author who openly discusses his experiences as a person with narcissistic personality disorder"[16]—has identified a special sub-class of such codependents as "inverted narcissists."
Inverted or "covert" narcissists are people who are "intensely attuned to others' needs, but only in so far as it relates to [their] own need to perform the requisite sacrifice"—an "inverted narcissist, who ensures that with compulsive care-giving, supplies of gratitude, love and attention will always be readily available ... [pseudo-]saintly."[17] Vaknin considered that "the inverted narcissist is a person who grew up enthralled by the narcissistic parent ... the child becomes a masterful provider of Narcissistic Supply, a perfect match to the parent's personality."
In everyday life, the inverted narcissist "demands anonymity ... uncomfortable with any attention being paid to him ... [with] praise that cannot be deflected." Recovery means the ability to recognize the self-destructive elements in one's character structure, and to "develop strategies to minimize the harm to yourself."[citation needed]
Recovery[edit]There are various recovery paths for individuals who struggle with codependency.
For example, some may choose behavioral psychotherapy, sometimes accompanied by chemical therapy for accompanying depression.
There also exist support groups for codependency, such as Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA), Al-Anon/Alateen, Nar-Anon, and Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACoA), which are based on the twelve-step program model of Alcoholics Anonymous and also Celebrate Recovery a Christian, Bible-based group. Although the term codependency originated outside of twelve-step groups, it is now a common concept in many of them.[18]
Often an important result of a Family Intervention is to highlight codependent behaviors of various family members. This is sometimes a great help in encouraging the codependent person to accept help.
Many self-help guides have been written on the subject of codependency. One of the first was Codependent No More by Melody Beattie, published in 1987. Beattie has since written several other books on the subject. Other authors include Pia Mellody (Facing Co-dependence) and Shirley Smith (Set Yourself Free).
Harmful effects of unaddressed codependency[edit]Unresolved patterns of codependency can lead to more serious problems like alcoholism, drug addiction, eating disorders, sex addiction, and other self-destructive or self-defeating behaviors.[19] People with codependency are also more likely to attract further abuse from aggressive individuals, more likely to stay in stressful jobs or relationships, less likely to seek medical attention when needed and are also less likely to get promotions and tend to earn less money than those without codependency patterns.[19]
For some, the social insecurity caused by codependency can progress into full-blown social anxiety disorders like social phobia, avoidant personality disorder or painful shyness.[19] Other stress-related disorders like panic disorder, depression or PTSD may also be present.[19]
Controversies[edit]Going from one extreme to the other. Sometimes an individual can, in attempts to recover from codependency, go from being overly passive or overly giving to being overly aggressive or excessively selfish.[6] Many therapists maintain that finding a balance through healthy assertiveness (which leaves room for being a caring person and also engaging in healthy caring behavior) is true recovery from codependency and that becoming extremely selfish, a bully, or an otherwise conflict-addicted person is not.[6][20]
Victim mentality. According to this perspective, developing a permanent stance of being a victim (having a "victim mentality") would also not constitute true recovery from codependency and could be another example of going from one extreme to another.[6] A victim mentality could also be seen as a part of one's original state of codependency (lack of empowerment causing one to feel like the "subject" of events rather than being an empowered actor).[6] Someone truly recovered from codependency would feel empowered and like an author of their life and actions rather than being at the mercy of outside forces.[6] A victim mentality may also occur in combination with passive–aggressive control issues.[6] From the perspective of moving beyond victim-hood, the capacity to forgive and let go (with exception of cases of very severe abuse) could also be signs of real recovery from codependency, but the willingness to endure further abuse would not.[6]
Caring for an individual with a physical addiction is not necessarily synonymous with pathology. To name the caregiver as a co-alcoholic responsible for the endurance of their partner's alcoholism for example, pathologizes caring behavior. The caregiver may only require assertiveness skills and the ability to place responsibility for the addiction on the other.[6][20]
Not all mental health professionals agree about codependence or its standard methods of treatment.[21] It is not listed in the DSM-IV-TR. Stan Katz & Liu, in "The Codependency Conspiracy: How to Break the Recovery Habit and Take Charge of Your Life," feel that codependence is over-diagnosed, and that many people who could be helped with shorter-term treatments instead become dependent on long-term self-help programs.
Some believe that codependency is not a negative trait, and does not need to be treated, as it is more likely a healthy personality trait taken to excess. Codependency in nonclinical populations has some links with favorable characteristics of family functioning.[22]
The language of, symptoms of, and treatment for codependence derive from the medical model suggesting a disease process underlies the behavior. There is no evidence that codependence is caused by a disease process, communicable or otherwise.
Some frequent users of the codependency concept use the word as an alternative to using the concept of dysfunctional families, without statements that classify it as a disease.[23]
Not everything promoted by recovery agencies is a demonstrable scientific fact, some of it is based on fashion and faith alone.[24][25]
See also[edit]Alcoholism in family systems
Compliance (psychology)
Counterdependency
Covert incest
Dependent personality disorder
Dysfunctional family
Enabling
Fantasy bond
Folie ŕ deux
Karpman drama triangle
Misplaced loyalty
Narcissistic defence sequences
Narcissistic supply
Obedience
Personal boundaries
Schizoid personality disorder
Stockholm syndrome
Submissiveness
Sycophancy
Toxic leader
just curious....what exactly do you expect people to think of you when you post this shit? I didn't read the above....but anyways some advice since I know your new here poky - 5 paragraphs responses aint the way to own someone. lol...
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We need an update Flint!
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She's just a hole to him dude. He's not trying to be the perfect husband.
well thanks Klaus. I think it's funny people actually think I wanted a relationship with a mother of 4... lol.
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We need an update Flint!
I'm 50/50....I really dont want to pay for this broads ticket.
On the other hand.....my mom bought me and my cousin a ticket (without asking me) so I CANT not go to this. If I don't bring a girl with me Im going to be stuck listening to two females talk about how cute some country singer is for 5 hours.
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Well, then you're fucked.
Don't just live the life, but learn from it as well.
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Covert incest
hahaha epic diagnosis, that would be
take her flint, you only live once
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Well, then you're fucked.
Don't just live the life, but learn from it as well.
These guys don't get it.
1. sure the chick isn't anjelina jolie...but she's cute enough. I'll make a chick as cute as I want to be by hyperfocusing on her good qualities and becoming oblivious to the bad.
2. If all you do is go for 9's and 8's all the time it's going to hurt you in the long run. When you finally do get that 9 on your bed face down and you fuck like a spaztic and nut after 5 minutes you are going to feel really fucking stupid you didn't fuck more chicks. Trust me you will be way too nervous ....nervous on lots of gear is a bad combo. ..ED guaranteed. I don't want to spend the money on cialsis or Viagra...never touched ap pill and don't plan on it any time soon.
3. the most important thing...the fetish factor, the lower you date down the more you can get away with. I promise your not going to get your ass licked and rimmed by an 8 any time soon. If the girl is hot, your job is about making the chick feel good....but when your hotter than that person your fucking it's her job to make you feel good. Many tomes she knows it and will put out a good effort....it's a great fuck. Shockwave was pretty much on the money.
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I'm 50/50....I really dont want to pay for this broads ticket.
On the other hand.....my mom bought me and my cousin a ticket (without asking me) so I CANT not go to this. If I don't bring a girl with me Im going to be stuck listening to two females talk about how cute some country singer is for 5 hours.
Then don't. You don't want to...if you do it then you will rationalize your obligation of doing it.
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i wouldnt bother
chick like that you should be able to go round to her house and fuck her within five minutes
money spent zero
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for those knocking my taste in women...this was my original choice. I cant ask her out this weekend or I am trapped in a lie. (long story)
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for those knocking my taste in women...this was my original choice. I cant ask her out this weekend or I am trapped in a lie. (long story)
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I would wait and take this one out
she is in a dif league to the other one
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this thread delivers.
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Is it tax deductible?
Who says romance is dead?
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Who says romance is dead?
lmao
its always important to consider the tax benefits when arranging a date
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I would wait and take this one out
she is in a dif league to the other one
whole nother league dude
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whole nother league dude
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nice
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whole nother league dude
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What is that? ??? Did you try to draw a spoofing penis on her shoulder?
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She has shasha grey soulless whore eyes.
im telling you flint, that hundo should be flat out spent paying for her box.
youd be better off buying a 5th of booze, I can almost guarantee you youd get laid.
Judging from those eyes, you may pay for her ticket only to watch her disappear into the bathroom with some other dude
I see the eyes..dnt know what i was thinking. hmm not sure what to do. somehow i don't think "its too pricey lets go to the pumpkin patch instead" is going to work. Should of taken the broad bowling
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Suck it up, take her to the party, and move on.
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I need more details on this "party" that is costing you $100 to get a "ticket" to ???
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Suck it up, take her to the party, and move on.
Why? Call it off. Tell her you r sick or something? jeez.
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Who says romance is dead?
:D
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I need more details on this "party" that is costing you $100 to get a "ticket" to ???
its a concert
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its a concert
its a good opportunity for you to get rid of her
let her down at the last minute and she will leave you alone
then smash that blonde to pieces
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You pay for it only because you invited her. If she invited herself or if you and her were only friends, you'd have an out, but you were the inviter so you need to cover the ticket and other odds and ends. It's proper manners.
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I think flinstone already made his mind up before even asking getbig. Not sure why he bothered asking if he was set on taking 30 year whore. Maybe just drawing up attn.
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I think flinstone already made his mind up before even asking getbig. Not sure why he bothered asking if he was set on taking 30 year whore. Maybe just drawing up attn.
lol attention? about a 30 year old mom with 4 kids? how does that make me look good? If anything it makes me look like a loser. .
you missed the part where i havent texted her back. she doesnt know yet obviously
any time you have ..mixed opinions its a good thread.
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lol attention? about a 30 year old mom with 4 kids? how does that make me look good? If anything it makes me look like a loser. .
you missed the part where i havent texted her back. she doesnt know yet obviously
any time you have ..mixed opinions its a good thread.
Just go for the chick above that looks like Tbombz
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Flint, here's my foolproof method for dating respectable chicks:
1st date: coffee, something of that nature. Spend no more than $10-20. Have a "prior engagement" limiting your time to an hour. Use your charm to show her you're an interesting, funny guy. End w a peck on the cheek, maybe the lips...alternatively, kiss her hand. If you hit it off, on to the.....
2nd date: lunch/dinner at a mid-range restaurant, bowling, arcade, drinks & dancing, something of that nature. Spend $40-50 TOPS! Spend 3-4 hours together. Go for the kiss, maybe even a lil tongue even you're feeling plucky. Finally, on to the.......
3rd date: dinner at your place, followed w a movie. Have quiche, salad and wine. Why quiche? Easy, inexpensive, exotic--but not intimidating, and you can make it for vegetarians. Also you can make it ahead of time if need be. It's better to make it in front of her though. If you don't get dick wet here, it won't ever happen. Time to move on.
Of course, based on the women you seem to patronize, a couple of 40-oz would do just as well.
BOTTOM LINE: dont ever, ever, EVER spend $100 on a woman on the first date. It reeks of desperation, isn't necessary, and if things don't work out you'll just end up kicking yourself
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Hahahaha
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Take out the winking fox - love the blond/red hybrids.
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Flint, here's my foolproof method for dating respectable chicks:
1st date: coffee, something of that nature. Spend no more than $10-20. Have a "prior engagement" limiting your time to an hour. Use your charm to show her you're an interesting, funny guy. End w a peck on the cheek, maybe the lips...alternatively, kiss her hand. If you hit it off, on to the.....
2nd date: lunch/dinner at a mid-range restaurant, bowling, arcade, drinks & dancing, something of that nature. Spend $40-50 TOPS! Spend 3-4 hours together. Go for the kiss, maybe even a lil tongue even you're feeling plucky. Finally, on to the.......
3rd date: dinner at your place, followed w a movie. Have quiche, salad and wine. Why quiche? Easy, inexpensive, exotic--but not intimidating, and you can make it for vegetarians. Also you can make it ahead of time if need be. It's better to make it in front of her though. If you don't get dick wet here, it won't ever happen. Time to move on.
Of course, based on the women you seem to patronize, a couple of 40-oz would do just as well.
BOTTOM LINE: dont ever, ever, EVER spend $100 on a woman on the first date. It reeks of desperation, isn't necessary, and if things don't work out you'll just end up kicking yourself
I prefer:
1st date: Coffee at a café
2nd date: cinema
3rd date: walking in nature or similar
4th date: whatever. Dinner or something.
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1st date... 4 pack of sutter home merlot in front seat of mini van before entering local bar to nurse mountain dew and watch shitty rock band.
Return to van after 1st set to drink another 1-2 wines each. Make your move then, of course.
if you don't get laid on this date, she isn't the right girl for you.
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lol IronMeister strikes again
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1st date: show her IronMeister photoshops
2nd date: Let her post from my account
3rd date: She gives me a blowjob while looking at pictures of Johnny Falcon
4th date: the relationship becomes more stable and she makes my protein shakes and food.
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1st date: show her IronMeister photoshops
2nd date: Let her post from my account
3rd date: She gives me a blowjob while looking at pictures of Johnny Falcon
4th date: the relationship becomes more stable and she makes my protein shakes and food.
Solid advice, undoubtedly, but only recommended if you're looking for a mother for your children. Otherwise you'll just have a stage-5 clinger on your hands
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Are any of these 4 future Nobel laurates the spawn of black persons?
no
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Flint, here's my foolproof method for dating respectable chicks:
1st date: coffee, something of that nature. Spend no more than $10-20. Have a "prior engagement" limiting your time to an hour. Use your charm to show her you're an interesting, funny guy. End w a peck on the cheek, maybe the lips...alternatively, kiss her hand. If you hit it off, on to the.....
2nd date: lunch/dinner at a mid-range restaurant, bowling, arcade, drinks & dancing, something of that nature. Spend $40-50 TOPS! Spend 3-4 hours together. Go for the kiss, maybe even a lil tongue even you're feeling plucky. Finally, on to the.......
3rd date: dinner at your place, followed w a movie. Have quiche, salad and wine. Why quiche? Easy, inexpensive, exotic--but not intimidating, and you can make it for vegetarians. Also you can make it ahead of time if need be. It's better to make it in front of her though. If you don't get dick wet here, it won't ever happen. Time to move on.
Of course, based on the women you seem to patronize, a couple of 40-oz would do just as well.
BOTTOM LINE: dont ever, ever, EVER spend $100 on a woman on the first date. It reeks of desperation, isn't necessary, and if things don't work out you'll just end up kicking yourself
Make a quiche ahead of time for her? Try a peck on the cheek or kiss her hand?
WTF is this nonsense doing on Getbig??
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Make a quiche ahead of time for her? Try a peck on the cheek or kiss her hand?
WTF is this nonsense doing on Getbig??
Haha yes, this guy asks permission to pop a boner.
- Don smedium tshirt. Deflect compliments.
- Insinuate that her ex is a homosexual in 87 different ways.
- Assess her views on illuminati conspiracies and mongrelization of the races.
- Bone on unvacuumed floor. Lament loss of PS3.
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whole nother league dude
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ROFL!!!
The girl looks like Soul Crusher with makeup on
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ROFL!!!
The girl looks like Soul Crusher with makeup on
I didn't see it til now but there is a striking resemblance to Chris.
Ironmeister should morph the two faces
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ROFL!!!
The girl looks like Soul Crusher with makeup on
if you do some follicle plucking, chis will appear.....fap to that lol
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Or just tell her you're unemployed. You'll get the same reaction.
well both = death or nearing death.
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Make a quiche ahead of time for her? Try a peck on the cheek or kiss her hand?
WTF is this nonsense doing on Getbig??
Boilerplate template for our "19"-year old protege..... try it on your next date night w your mom
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Are you going to give the MLB a try? All such worries will evaporate once you become a powerful, Jewish MLB star.
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i wouldnt bother
chick like that you should be able to go round to her house and fuck her within five minutes
money spent zero
Are you trying to say that the MILF probably has a daughter who has recorded her mother's sexual encounters with random men?
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I didn't see it til now but there is a striking resemblance to Chris.
Ironmeister should morph the two faces
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Are you going to give the MLB a try? All such worries will evaporate once you become a powerful, Jewish MLB star.
My high school team had three guys enter the draft. I took the spot of a HS junior on my team as a freshmen.. a FRESHMEN....and this guy was no pansy he was drafted in the first 12 rounds.
Let that sink in for a moment.
of course its all would of could of, i never amounted to shit and am posting here with you guys....I dropped out of HS before my junior year, no telling what I could of done.
If you guys would be interested in seeing me give d1 baseball a go, then I would.
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My high school team had three guys enter the draft. I took the spot of a HS junior on my team as a freshmen.. a FRESHMEN....and this guy was no pansy he was drafted in the first 12 rounds.
Let that sink in for a moment.
of course its all would of could of, i never amounted to shit and am posting here with you guys....I dropped out of HS before my junior year, no telling what I could of done.
If you guys would be interested in seeing me give d1 baseball a go, then I would.
I was gonna say... bro nothing will sink in, no one gives a shit about anyones "man I was so great a high school athlete" stories, because high school athletics mean exactly jack and shit in the real world.
not to be a dick... but its akin to me saying I had NASCAR potential because I drove around a track and beat my friends.
it literally means nothing, and youre just asking for people to tear yoi apart for it.
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LMAO!!! On an airplane right now to Phoenix (business class, getbig standard of course) and I laughed so loud I just woke up the fat cow next to me
;D
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If you guys would be interested in seeing me give d1 baseball a go, then I would.
Yes, that sounds like a good idea.
It's certainly more productive than trying to pork contraceptives-challenged slobs day and night. You're only 19 19 19 20 and so there's a bit of time to pursue a small probability dream without permanent damage to one's prospects.
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flinstones giving some bitches the ole vitamin d this weekend
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Yes, that sounds like a good idea.
It's certainly more productive than trying to pork contraceptives-challenged slobs day and night. You're only 19 19 19 20 and so there's a bit of time to pursue a small probability dream without permanent damage to one's prospects.
ROFL!
Who's that fellow with Down Syndrome in your avatar? ???
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ROFL!
Who's that fellow with Down Syndrome in your avatar? ???
teh coach.
I think it really is Joe as well.... just a shitty pic with sweet 70s attire making him look extra downs'y
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LMAO!!! On an airplane right now to Phoenix (business class, getbig standard of course) and I laughed so loud I just woke up the fat cow next to me
;D
haha, finger bang her for me too!!
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teh coach.
I think it really is Joe as well.... just a shitty pic with sweet 70s attire making him look extra downs'y
hahahhaah holy shit it is!!
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teh coach.
I think it really is Joe as well.... just a shitty pic with sweet 70s attire making him look extra downs'y
ROFL!!!
Damn...
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ROFL!
Who's that fellow with Down Syndrome in your avatar? ???
Damn you've never seen that classic photo of Joe Loco on the legpress? Smh
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getbig at its finest.
Like a fine and aged whisky.
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Update flint.... did you bang her?
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Update flint.... did you bang her?
no bro, my friend offered me $300 for my ticket so I took it. It was country music anyways ....and my mom bought me the ticket in the first place.
The brunette is like 5 minutes away from me though... I'll try and get with her this weekend. Not cause I don't agree with what you said about her probably being a slut but I don't wanna look like I wasted everyone's time.