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Without being an NPC or above level competitor or having elite level looks and money and status?
Seems like a waste of time unless you're very good looking with very low standards and have your life together and have a car and place to bring a girl as well, or unless you're an older man with money who wants to support a single mom in the hopes of getting sex out of it.
Some days I can get 10+ awkward glances a day where girls check me out first, but I have only met one girl from the gym and we were both working at GNC on that day and I didn't see her again.
Now I just buy a membership, and stop by and hit a few poses and don't bother to make eye contact with girls first very often since I figure if they see you and like you to just let them talk to you first, but even that still goes nowhere.
Other guys I have talked to in the gym who are above average looking and in shape no homo, have the same thing happen.
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You could always try talking to them and maybe show off your stellar personality. I've heard unconfirmed reports that this method does indeed work from time to time.
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This is something that varies.
One of the best looking and built chicks I have ever seen dated this complete tool from the gym.
Dude always looked like he was going to die from jaundice from only doing orals and didn't really look like much.
A lot of the hotties hang out with rec drug dealers too.
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My last 2 "relationships" we're chicks I met at the gym. Both times I said "fuck it" and walked right up and introduced myself and talked about something pointless and random....but it worked :)
Just play the numbers game. Throw yourself out there enough and eventually you'll have a chick reciprocate the interest back.
Pro Tip: tell the girl what your post count is on here. Instant panty dropper 8)
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My last 2 "relationships" we're chicks I met at the gym. Both times I said "fuck it" and walked right up and introduced myself and talked about something pointless and random....but it worked :)
Just play the numbers game. Throw yourself out there enough and eventually you'll have a chick reciprocate the interest back.
Pro Tip: tell the girl what your post count is on here. Instant panty dropper 8)
Let me add to this that it does suck seeing my ex gf at the gym 5 nights a week when I'm there with my current girl. But oh well that's life if you choose to date hot girls from your gym.
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Let me add to this that it does suck seeing my ex gf at the gym 5 nights a week when I'm there with my current girl. But oh well that's life if you choose to date hot girls from your gym.
I'm sure that is true. I have just rarely seen the lookers with true bodybuilders or power lifters. If they need furniture moved or something maybe.
One of my friends wanting me to help this girl move.
I just laughed and said I have already worked all day trying to make commission. I am going to eat wings and go to the strip club, you fuck with that noise if you choose.
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Seems like most of the fitness chicks at my gym date 150 lb lanky twinks.
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Does anyone actually bang hot girls from the gym?
My question would be: Does anyone actually bang hot girls from in the gym?
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I'm sure that is true. I have just rarely seen the lookers with true bodybuilders or power lifters. If they need furniture moved or something maybe.
One of my friends wanting me to help this girl move.
I just laughed and said I have already worked all day trying to make commission. I am going to eat wings and go to the strip club, you fuck with that noise if you choose.
True I've never seen a power lifter pulling quality ass :D
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I've been talking to a chick at the gym. She told me she recently had her tubes tied. Does this mean she has a man or is it my invitation to go in raw?
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Yes but not at the gym. Usually it will be when I'm out and they will approach and be like "hey, don't you go to...." but at the actual gym, no.
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You could always try talking to them and maybe show off your stellar personality. I've heard unconfirmed reports that this method does indeed work from time to time.
You don't mean, approaching a girl and talking to them might help you get to know them?? :o
Lmao if you plan on sitting back and having girls approach you, well you'll probably be sitting there for a while
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lmao great thread idea :D ;D
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I've been talking to a chick at the gym. She told me she recently had her tubes tied. Does this mean she has a man or is it my invitation to go in raw?
her sofa pulls out, but she doesn't.
BMC approved
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Without being an NPC or above level competitor or having elite level looks and money and status?
Seems like a waste of time unless you're very good looking with very low standards and have your life together and have a car and place to bring a girl as well, or unless you're an older man with money who wants to support a single mom in the hopes of getting sex out of it.
Some days I can get 10+ awkward glances a day where girls check me out first, but I have only met one girl from the gym and we were both working at GNC on that day and I didn't see her again.
Now I just buy a membership, and stop by and hit a few poses and don't bother to make eye contact with girls first very often since I figure if they see you and like you to just let them talk to you first, but even that still goes nowhere.
Other guys I have talked to in the gym who are above average looking and in shape no homo, have the same thing happen.
No offense but you come off as having really low self esteem bro.
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I've been talking to a chick at the gym. She told me she recently had her tubes tied. Does this mean she has a man or is it my invitation to go in raw?
Why don't you ask her?
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Seems like most of the fitness chicks at my gym date 150 lb lanky twinks.
x2
and their bf will be walking on that treadmil for hours
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I met a lot of girls at the gym
I have to leave town to workout on sundays and I work in bars so I am upbeat on sunday morn being around women that don't smell like cigarettes, bud lights, and have that stupid ass glazed look they get when they 'pop molly' -- fckn unattractive as shit
but in a gym I feel myself so I say hello and tend to bring a water bottle I can drop or roll toward females so I can strike up convo's.....most of the time if you are polite and not a prick (dressed right, no homemade cutoff shirts) females will talk esp on a sunday or Monday when your doing legs too
but I guess it depends on your attitude and theirs, and if your gym is full with douchbags then you will be considered 'one of the bunch' until you break the mold and show them who you are, being a bodybuilder so long waiting on women to approach you is just waiting for the sluttest craziest bitch to come out of her closet of desperation and tuck her multi personalities aside for a week or so to get some kawk --- I have scars to prove this-literally :-X
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Why don't you ask her?
I plan on asking her out. I was just thrown off by her telling me about getting her tubes tied.
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I plan on asking her out. I was just thrown off by her telling me about getting her tubes tied.
Obviously some advantages to this. I would just walk away and get a slight thicky with big tits though.
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I met a lot of girls at the gym
I have to leave town to workout on sundays and I work in bars so I am upbeat on sunday morn being around women that don't smell like cigarettes, bud lights, and have that stupid ass glazed look they get when they 'pop molly' -- fckn unattractive as shit
but in a gym I feel myself so I say hello and tend to bring a water bottle I can drop or roll toward females so I can strike up convo's.....most of the time if you are polite and not a prick (dressed right, no homemade cutoff shirts) females will talk esp on a sunday or Monday when your doing legs too
but I guess it depends on your attitude and theirs, and if your gym is full with douchbags then you will be considered 'one of the bunch' until you break the mold and show them who you are, being a bodybuilder so long waiting on women to approach you is just waiting for the sluttest craziest bitch to come out of her closet of desperation and tuck her multi personalities aside for a week or so to get some kawk --- I have scars to prove this-literally :-X
It all depends on what you want. The hot bitches are always more than meets the eye.
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Lol @ being intimidated by hot bitches.
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Lol @ being intimidated by hot bitches.
seems to be a widespread problem, as it looks like everyone's busy trying to figure out online dating, instead :'(
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Lol @ being intimidated by hot bitches.
Like you have a clue. You can only get a girl as good as your post level.
6/10.
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My local 24hr fitness has a coed sauna. Never ventured there do to the fear of witnessing faggetry. To many fags like to bend over butt naked for long periods of time by the lockers...and take forever to put on their underwear. So i cant imagine the faggetry at the sauna. That and the jungle musk I heard about. But yeah I heard its the place to hook up for straights as well. Still no go because of the faggets.
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My local 24hr fitness has a coed sauna. Never ventured there do to the fear of witnessing faggetry. That and the jungle musk I heard about. But yeah I heard its the place to hook up.
Umm..... Coed means men and women.
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Girls should not be allowed in the gym.
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Girls should not be allowed in the gym.
Nominee for gayest post of 2013.
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Umm..... Coed means men and women.
yes. Admittedly while horney I've wanted to visit the sauna to go see if there were any chicks but luckily my fear of faggets got the best of me. Better safe than sorry.
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Nominee for gayest post of 2013.
Not the slightest offended by that, considering it comes from the gayest poster ever........... ::)
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Not the slightest offended by that, considering it comes from the gayest poster ever........... ::)
I will give you two words as to why women belong in the gym.
Cameltoe and spandex.
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yes. Admittedly while horney I've wanted to visit the sauna to go see if there were any chicks but luckily my fear of faggets got the best of me. Better safe than sorry.
I am not sitting in a sauna with a fag, I got this guy I train he always wants to sit in a mens sauna after training the dude is married but in the closet I suspect.
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I will give you two words as to why women belong in the gym.
Cameltoe and spandex.
Im actually there to work out, not to look or chat with girls (nor men)... Being a man, girls are a huge distraction in the gym, and just makes it harder to stay focused. I like women (and hate them), but I am more passionated about the training - so yeah fuck em...
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Im actually there to work out, not to look or chat with girls (nor men)... Being a man, girls are a huge distraction in the gym, and just makes it harder to stay focused. I like women (and hate them), but I am more passionated about the training - so yeah fuck em...
How can a poster possibly make two of the gayest posts in the same thread?
I see a closet. You should come out of it.
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I am not sitting in a sauna with a fag, I got this guy I train he always wants to sit in a mens sauna after training the dude is married but in the closet I suspect.
Honest to gods truth I have no problem with gays but at the gym these faggets advertise their bunghole like crazy. It irks me to no end. Like today I'm walking by the locker and guy is bending over butt naked tryin to put on his underwear. Looks weird but whatever I continue walking to go take a quick shower come back and low and behold the same fagget is still trying to put on his underwear. 5 minutes bent over trying to put on his underwear. Faggetry man.
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seems to be a widespread problem, as it looks like everyone's busy trying to figure out online dating, instead :'(
online dating is a farce if you ask me
she will never realize how huge your guns are if not in real life
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I did twice. One was a 40 yr old trainer and the other used to be an npc figure competitor. Both were decent looking, but not hot
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online dating is a farce if you ask me
she will never realize how huge your guns are if not in real life
Truth
pics don't equal real life up close in person most of the time.
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I'd be hesitant to date fitness chicks in fear of their protein farts. Wet leaky ones..
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Truth
pics don't equal real life up close in person most of the time.
NEVER
women also overly critisize a bb in pictures "omg that gross"
but facetoface they spontaneously go in heat
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Like you have a clue. You can only get a girl as good as your post level.
6/10.
Still 3/10 higher than you. :-*
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Still 3/10 higher than you. :-*
I cant be a 3. Come on :D
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Honest to gods truth I have no problem with gays but at the gym these faggets advertise their bunghole like crazy. It irks me to no end. Like today I'm walking by the locker and guy is bending over butt naked tryin to put on his underwear. Looks weird but whatever I continue walking to go take a quick shower come back and low and behold the same fagget is still trying to put on his underwear. 5 minutes bent over trying to put on his underwear. Faggetry man.
I wear my gym clothes to the gym and shower at home for this reason.
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Without being an NPC or above level competitor or having elite level looks and money and status?
Seems like a waste of time unless you're very good looking with very low standards and have your life together and have a car and place to bring a girl as well, or unless you're an older man with money who wants to support a single mom in the hopes of getting sex out of it.
Some days I can get 10+ awkward glances a day where girls check me out first, but I have only met one girl from the gym and we were both working at GNC on that day and I didn't see her again.
Now I just buy a membership, and stop by and hit a few poses and don't bother to make eye contact with girls first very often since I figure if they see you and like you to just let them talk to you first, but even that still goes nowhere.
Other guys I have talked to in the gym who are above average looking and in shape no homo, have the same thing happen.
im in this category and have no problem meeting girls in the gym. you gotta rmember a lot of girls who train ahrd like big guys. daddy issues, insecurites, attraction to the discipline etc
all you gotta do is say hi if shes looking at you. if shes into you you'll know it. if shes not proceed to bench 500 pounds and scream like a loon to show her whats shes missing.
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NEVER
women also overly critisize a bb in pictures "omg that gross"
but facetoface they spontaneously go in heat
It's true man. Most bitches love a big jacked dude. Some don't, but they are the minority. And they like it in pics too. If you look at pics Joey Swoll put on Instagram, he has hundreds of comments from girls just drooling over him and he is 5'9 245lbs shredded. If they saw a bb contest pic, it would look gross to them though
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happily married, not going to do this shit any more
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Im actually there to work out, not to look or chat with girls (nor men)... Being a man, girls are a huge distraction in the gym, and just makes it harder to stay focused. I like women (and hate them), but I am more passionated about the training - so yeah fuck em...
You must have one hell of a physique if you like lifting weights more than looking at girls in spandex
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You must have one hell of a physique if you like lifting weights more than looking at girls in spandex
Seems like a fag to me. can't be bothered with girls at college
can't be bothered with girls at the gym
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Seems like a fag to me. can't be bothered with girls at college
can't be bothered with girls at the gym
....... Or that ;D
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Who doesnt look at hot chicks wearing skin tight clothing?
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You must have one hell of a physique if you like lifting weights more than looking at girls in spandex
We spend more time in the gym resting between sets than actually doing sets. He must truly not be attracted to women in general if he doesn't bother to look at them in between sets of bicep curls
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Set hella PRs due to the presence of hot chicks. 8)
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We spend more time in the gym resting between sets than actually doing sets. He must truly not be attracted to women in general if he doesn't bother to look at them in between sets of bicep curls
haha are you suggesting the kind of guy who "hits the gym" with a black beanie puled tight over his metal-blaring headphones, in full black sweat gear, only to huff and puff, counting out the seconds before his next set as he paces stiffly around, staring at the floor and letting out the occasional "psych up" grunt may, in fact, also be homosexual?
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Without being an NPC or above level competitor or having elite level looks and money and status?
Seems like a waste of time unless you're very good looking with very low standards and have your life together and have a car and place to bring a girl as well, or unless you're an older man with money who wants to support a single mom in the hopes of getting sex out of it.
Some days I can get 10+ awkward glances a day where girls check me out first, but I have only met one girl from the gym and we were both working at GNC on that day and I didn't see her again.
Now I just buy a membership, and stop by and hit a few poses and don't bother to make eye contact with girls first very often since I figure if they see you and like you to just let them talk to you first, but even that still goes nowhere.
Other guys I have talked to in the gym who are above average looking and in shape no homo, have the same thing happen.
weve seen what you look like, your not a bad looking guy.. tall ...white...whats the problem?
Shit I was doing dips the other day on a platform (you know the chinup/dip combo think) and some chick is doing cable cross overs, I jump down and get behind her...explain the motion properly to her and then slowly work my way down to her hips. Puerto rican..very cute.
Its no different than dating....in dating the only thing you can do wrong to a woman is bore her. When it comes to approaching...only thing you do wrong is look creepy. When you talk with her within the first 30 seconds of the conversation wave to a distant object pretending like somebody said hi to you.
then nod her head and gaze into her eyes for a few seconds acting like your trying to convince her that your interested in what she was saying, even though you know she knows your not. Women are easy to judge but easy to impress. Impressing her can be as simply calling her the first time you contact her instead of texting her (like every other douchebag )
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Truth
pics don't equal real life up close in person most of the time.
??? in bodybuilding alot of guys look less impressive in person.
Although to be fair, Z told me you were alot bigger in person than in photos when ya'll trained in new York.
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Along with your regular gym just join a PF for 99 dollars a year. Fish is a barrel at that place especially if its a large one like the one near me!
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
re read the title of the thread bro. lol
perhaps your myopic and dont wear corrective lenses.
this would explain a lot.
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
a lot of women would think your shirt is too small
they like a huge mascular man whose hugeness oozes thru a loose comfortable shirt
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Have done. Im in a weightlifting gym though so not many girls. Sex in womens changing room hah
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
Are u going to return that shirt to your nephew? :D
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How can a poster possibly make two of the gayest posts in the same thread?
I see a closet. You should come out of it.
Fuck me, your a loser.... Go find some gimmicks or something, you fucking retard... ::)
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??? in bodybuilding alot of guys look less impressive in person.
Although to be fair, Z told me you were alot bigger in person than in photos when ya'll trained in new York.
I've never seen a pro bodybuilder in person before actually so I can't really comment. He and I trained a couple of times, he's a big guy too. I don't know how big or small I look in selfies I've posted on here but I weigh 230lbs at my height so it's hard to hide it. Lots of weight in my legs too
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haha are you suggesting the kind of guy who "hits the gym" with a black beanie puled tight over his metal-blaring headphones, in full black sweat gear, only to huff and puff, counting out the seconds before his next set as he paces stiffly around, staring at the floor and letting out the occasional "psych up" grunt may, in fact, also be homosexual?
I'll leave that up to yours and his imagination ;D
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
18 inch arms ::)
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18 inch arms ::)
he claims 18 inch arms?
Bwahahahahahaahahahaahah ahaaaaaaaa :D
ok now i know the guy is full of shit and tells stories
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18 inch arms ::)
more like 16
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I honestly wouldnt want to. My last 2 ex's were fitness chiks, one even competed. I cant remember which poster posted a summary of fitness chicks mentality/traits some time back.... but it was perfect. Theyre all fucked. It has put me off the site of them, no homo.
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he claims 18 inch arms?
Bwahahahahahaahahahaahah ahaaaaaaaa :D
ok now i know the guy is full of shit and tells stories
Not intending to offend, but I think this post should be changed to "does anyone care if somebodies arms are over 18 inches, more than banging hot girls from the gym"
Clearly there are a lot of people are more concerned with some random dudes arm size than banging hot girls.
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Not intending to offend, but I think this post should be changed to "does anyone care if somebodies arms are over 18 inches, more than banging hot girls from the gym"
Clearly there are a lot of people are more concerned with some random dudes arm size than banging hot girls.
I could care less about either. I just think its funny when a 5 foot 7 guy who weighs 160 pounds says she has 18 inch arms, which is why I laughed
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Not intending to offend, but I think this post should be changed to "does anyone care if somebodies arms are over 18 inches, more than banging hot girls from the gym"
Clearly there are a lot of people are more concerned with some random dudes arm size than banging hot girls.
your obviously new around here lol. I'm going to sum this up for you.
get2it is an attention whore who contributes absolutely nothing to gb. hes been on here 5 years, most of his posts are pictures of himsel... ......what was the need to come post a pic of a woman your on a date with in a thread where guys are shooting the shit sharing stories?
Lastly, I don't care if your brad pitt....in the real world no respectable female looks twice at a 5'7 guy.
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your obviously new around here lol. I'm going to sum this up for you.
get2it is an attention whore who contributes absolutely nothing to gb. hes been on here 5 years, most of his posts are pictures of himsel... ......what was the need to come post a pic of a woman your on a date with in a thread where guys are shooting the shit sharing stories?
Lastly, I don't care if your brad pitt....in the real world no respectable female looks twice at a 5'7 guy.
haha
brutal 8)
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more like 16
14.not joking
mine are bit over 18
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No offense but you come off as having really low self esteem bro.
I spit out my food laughing ;D
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This lady was a yoga instructor at one gym I trained at, I've picked up girls at the gym, however ive picked up more girls that I knew from the gym running into to them out in a social setting.
oh please....the only thing you picked up is her dirty sheets and morning laundry after she ran off with Juan the bus boy.
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there are only a very few doable women in my gym and they come with their husbands/boyfriends/pimps
the rest of the the gym is a ton of wannabe bodybuilders, some epic bloated permafatsos, a few fat housewifes and old ladies
only 2 bodybuilders there
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Easy
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No. I don't really look at other people in the gym. I get my sets done and leave.
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there are only a very few doable women in my gym and they come with their husbands/boyfriends/pimps
the rest of the the gym is a ton of wannabe bodybuilders, some epic bloated permafatsos, a few fat housewifes and old ladies
only 2 bodybuilders there
sounds exactly like my gym.
lately though, there is this one super hot girl (well not really, but she's "my type") and whenever i make eye contact with her it's like those bar scenes in the movie "don jon"
except, i'm in a gym and i don't know what to say. so i just go do some more sets.
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I work out in my basement. My wife won't even give me the time of day when I am down there... :-\
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No. I don't really look at other people in the gym. I get my sets done and leave.
lol
lol
Anyone who is not getting paid to do this shit is doing this as a HOBBY.
no matter how much they love it or how hardcore they think they are. Its no different than playing a musical instrument in your spare time....or being in a bike club...a nerd playing warcraft on the weekends.
Women> hobbies
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i picked and up fucked a 22 year old blonde a few years ago
wouldnt say she was stunning but around a solid 6
only happened 3x, i stopped when she said she wanted a boyfriend and not just casual sex
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No. My wife would likely object! Anyway all the hot women at the gym are way too young for me. ;D
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sounds exactly like my gym.
lately though, there is this one super hot girl (well not really, but she's "my type") and whenever i make eye contact with her it's like those bar scenes in the movie "don jon"
except, i'm in a gym and i don't know what to say. so i just go do some more sets.
Why not smile and say "hi, I'm ________"?
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i flirt with all the whores there and they see that and they still get in line
like "wow,this guy is aproachable afterall",they see their chance,after being initialy intimidated by my great looks.
be jacked, be lean, smile.
or in other words, have you ever seen a permabulker with ils getting the girls?think deeply about this
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i flirt with all the whores there and they see that and they still get in line
like "wow,this guy is aproachable afterall",they see their chance,after being initialy intimidated by my great looks.
be jacked, be lean, smile.
or in other words, have you ever seen a permabulker with ils getting the girls?think deeply about this
ironically the girl i mentioned a few posts up is, i think, dating a classic permabulker
i think to myself "what the fuck
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gal said this would never happen"
i hear her complimenting his strength and muscles too and my mind explodes
another good looking latina dates this 5'7" water buffalo ifbb hopeful. classic white bber look-of-death: no hair, high bp, manlet status, brutal bacne, waddle of peace, etc.
the only other two girls i regularly see in the gym are like these octoroon sisters of frightening mass (although still kind of sexy in a way)
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sounds exactly like my gym.
lately though, there is this one super hot girl (well not really, but she's "my type") and whenever i make eye contact with her it's like those bar scenes in the movie "don jon"
except, i'm in a gym and i don't know what to say. so i just go do some more sets.
where are you working out at? You live in seattle, right?
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where are you working out at? You live in seattle, right?
Actually, I currently live up north a bit. I'll moving down in the next couple of weeks, probably. I'm trying to decide on a gym now; it's between "Excellence Health and Fitness" and Crossfit NW @ Green Lake, at this point. I'm leaning toward Crossfit (based on location, mostly) at this point. Just waiting to see what kind of "membership" I can work out; I already explained I didn't want to do classes, and they seem cool with that, but I haven't worked out what hours I'd actually be able to use the gym.
Also both of these places are expensive as hell, but gotta do what you gotta do -- finding a Seattle gym where you're allowed to drop weights is quite a challenge...
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i flirt with all the whores there and they see that and they still get in line
like "wow,this guy is aproachable afterall",they see their chance,after being initialy intimidated by my great looks.
be jacked, be lean, smile.
or in other words, have you ever seen a permabulker with ils getting the girls?think deeply about this
have you hit on the girl in the wheel chair yet
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ironically the girl i mentioned a few posts up is, i think, dating a classic permabulker
i think to myself "what the fuck
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gal said this would never happen"
i hear her complimenting his strength and muscles too and my mind explodes
another good looking latina dates this 5'7" water buffalo ifbb hopeful. classic white bber look-of-death: no hair, high bp, manlet status, brutal bacne, waddle of peace, etc.
the only other two girls i regularly see in the gym are like these octoroon sisters of frightening mass (although still kind of sexy in a way)
Maybe she's trying to get her green card
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I'll get called a fag for this, whatever.
Women are usually just a huge pain in the ass overall, and gym girls are bad about it.
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Never hooked up with a girl from the gym. Routine:-
1. Greet everyone.
2. Kill the weights
3. Shower
4. Get the fuck out
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I'll get called a fag for this, whatever.
Women are usually just a huge pain in the ass overall, and gym girls are bad about it.
ya bro they're all fucked it's just a matter of finding one who's level of fuckedupness you can tolerate.
that being said not gym chicks persay but competitive fitness chicks have much higher levels of fucked up than the average chick.
to cephessius: don't walk up to her and say 'hi my name is...' that's so brutal it's unimaginable someone would even consider doing that. Jesus. walk by her. say how are you? that's it. break the ice. the next time will be easier. and easier. until your saying hi all the time. that'll lead to small talk if she's into you.
your trying to meet her and fuck her in the same minute. be patient. first things first - 'how are you?' then carry on abt your biz.
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I'll get called a fag for this, whatever.
Women are usually just a huge pain in the ass overall, and gym girls are bad about it.
Fag
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I'll get called a fag for this, whatever.
Women are usually just a huge pain in the ass overall, and gym girls are bad about it.
fag+homo
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the op's question...
yes, of course.
its actually easy as hell... assuming #1 you're decent looking (face & body) #2 you're not a dick.
if you're the #1 trainer in the gym or have the best physique in the gym (or at least one of the best), it's as easy as saying "hey, you should train with me"... to which 8 times out of 10 she'll reply "i can't afford you" and smile.... to which YOU reply... "no no, you should train WITH me... here's my card, shoot me a text and we'll figure something out"
40% of the time she'll text you before she leaves the parking lot, 40% of the time she'll text you that night (and keep on texting you till midnight when she falls asleep and texts you 'good morning, i'm sorry, i fell asleep')... the other 20% probably won't text you... because she's just not interested.
pretty girls want to be seen with good looking guys... that's all you gotta do to get your foot in the door... it also helps if she's/they've seen you training with OTHER pretty girls, either AS pretty or prettier than they are (or if they know your ex gf was a fitness competitor eastern European girl with huge 500cc implants)... they'll think, "wow, he chose me over the other's" or something along those lines.
bangin pretty girls at the gym is just like high school... it's a popularity thing.
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I'll get called a fag for this, whatever.
Women are usually just a huge pain in the ass overall, and gym girls are bad about it.
true this... hot single girls in the gym get hit on 24/7. High maintenance, high drama, and always flirting with 10 guys every workout.
Never give them your heart, and even with giving them the cawk, if they're crazy/drama, you're going to end up changing gyms, since they'll be trashing you and dudes will be eyeball fcking you cause "you treated her wrong bro, and I promised her I'd never let a man hurt her" or some other weak shit.
Really, to date drama chicks, it's gotta be from a club that is 20+ minutes from your house so you're not seeing them at work or the grocery store. Keep that shit separate.
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ya bro they're all fucked it's just a matter of finding one who's level of fuckedupness you can tolerate.
that being said not gym chicks persay but competitive fitness chicks have much higher levels of fucked up than the average chick.
to cephessius: don't walk up to her and say 'hi my name is...' that's so brutal it's unimaginable someone would even consider doing that. Jesus. walk by her. say how are you? that's it. break the ice. the next time will be easier. and easier. until your saying hi all the time. that'll lead to small talk if she's into you.
your trying to meet her and fuck her in the same minute. be patient. first things first - 'how are you?' then carry on abt your biz.
Lol yes, it's truly "brutal" to consider introducing oneself to someone who you keep making eye contact with. Much more natural to say "How are you? " the next five times before even entertaining the thought of talking to her. ::)
I don't get it, why the need for "games" or a plan? If I want to talk to someone who keeps looking at me, I'll walk up to her and start talking w her. Pretty simple really