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"TLDR - Before my vacation i [F24] asked my boyfriend [M25] to open our relationship temporarily. Now hes regularly having sex with some girl in our apartment and im heartbrokenIm pretty ****ing upset rigth now , Im going to do my best to explain everything thats happened.Ive had an extended holiday (3 months) planned with my best friend (Tory) for years. We have always talked about it and my boyfriend (Daniel) knew we were going to do it. She finally finished college this December and we put our plan into action.Another friend (Michelle) went on a similar trip years ago. She and her friend both had longterm boyfriends at the time, and they both ended up cheating on the trip. A while later their friendship fell apart, and they both revealed each others infidelity. It got ugly. Michelle and her boyfriend broke up, her (ex)friend stayed with her boyfriend but from the sounds of it their relationship was severely damaged.At first i thought they were absolutely horrible for doing it, but after talking to her i could see their side of things - months of no sexual contact/release, being in a party atmosphere, of course there would be temptation. She's young, attractive and gets lots of male attention. The encounter was purely sexual, she was drunk, and they used protection. The next day the boy was out of her life completely and that was it. I vehementely disagreed with doing all this behind her boyfriends back though.Talking with Michelle about a month ago, she asked what im going to do about Daniel. I honestly hadnt thought about it like that, i felt like i could easily go 3 months without having sex. And id never want to betray Daniel's trust. But Michelle made a good case for 'opening' our relationship while i was away - she said (paraphrasing): "Of course you love Daniel. But traveling is about experiencing new things, and that includes sex
" Talking with Michelle about a month ago, she asked what im going to do about Daniel. I honestly hadnt thought about it like that, i felt like i could easily go 3 months without having sex. And id never want to betray Daniel's trust. But Michelle made a good case for 'opening' our relationship while i was away - she said (paraphrasing): "Of course you love Daniel. But traveling is about experiencing new things, and that includes sex. Youll say it wont happen now, but you just have to trust me that once youre their youll feel different. Daniel is going to wonder either way if youre ****ing other guys on your trip. Just be upfront with him and see what he says."And so that night i talked to him about it. I explained that i wasnt going to be looking to **** every guy i see that im attracted to, and that my love for him was as strong as ever, but i also wanted to be able act freely and party like other girls my age. It was more contingency if anything - i dont plan on ****ing other guys, but if it happens it happens. A nigth of partying half the world away with people ill never see again shouldnt ruin what we had here. Id insist on using protection. And of course he would have the same opportunity as me, he would be able to freely see girls if he chose to. He wasnt happy, but said he understood. He said "Youve tied my hands. If i tell you i forbid it, ill still be worried if youre being true to your word. By expressing that this is what you want, theres nothing i can do to stop you".Daniels a bit of a homebody - he goes out with his friends on occassion, but most nights he spends in our apartment playing video games or watching netflix. Given his lifestyle i wasnt overly worried hed be hooking up with all these random girls.Me and Tory left on February 17. Its been eye-opening and a ton of fun. But its also been stressful. We havent done any partying, we talked to some guys one night but nothing came of it.."
Me and Tory left on February 17. Its been eye-opening and a ton of fun. But its also been stressful. We havent done any partying, we talked to some guys one night but nothing came of it. Tonight i checked my email at an internet cafe and there was a message from Kay, a sweet old lady who lives above us in our apartment complex.I have debated for days whether to send this to you and potentially ruin your vacation. But you deserve to know the truth. Daniel has been seeing another woman since you left. There is no doubt that he is seeing her, she has come over most nights and I have heard them being intimate. You deserve so much better. I'm so sorry.I thought i could handle this open relationship arrangement. I cant. This message shattered my heart into a million pieces. This isnt what i intended at all, i wanted the freedom to act in the moment. He is taking this as a free pass to regularly **** some girl. And i have a feeling i know exactly who it is, a girl from his work who was always overly flirty with him.I regret ever taking Michelles advice and opening my stupid mouth. I dont want him to **** other girls, i dont want to **** other guys. I want this slut out of my apartment NOW!!! I am a ****ing wreck and need other womens opinions. Tory has been so unhelpful, basically telling me to grow up and that i got what i asked for. No ****?! People arent allowed to change their minds or regret their decisions?!How do I go about contacting him and expressing that this needs to stop NOW without coming across like a crazy hypocritical bitch? And let him know that i will be 100% faithful on my trip? I dont even know how i am going to look at him when i get home. I am beyond hurt, this feels so wrong and so sick.I am going to bed now to try and get some sleep, i will check and respond to all comments tomorrow morning. Thank you "
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LOL.
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tl;dr
cliff notes
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Post link.
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whores
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From reddit
"TLDR - Before my vacation i [F24] asked my boyfriend [M25] to open our relationship temporarily. Now hes regularly having sex with some girl in our apartment and im heartbrokenIm pretty ****ing upset rigth now , Im going to do my best to explain everything thats happened.Ive had an extended holiday (3 months) planned with my best friend (Tory) for years. We have always talked about it and my boyfriend (Daniel) knew we were going to do it. She finally finished college this December and we put our plan into action.Another friend (Michelle) went on a similar trip years ago. She and her friend both had longterm boyfriends at the time, and they both ended up cheating on the trip. A while later their friendship fell apart, and they both revealed each others infidelity. It got ugly. Michelle and her boyfriend broke up, her (ex)friend stayed with her boyfriend but from the sounds of it their relationship was severely damaged.At first i thought they were absolutely horrible for doing it, but after talking to her i could see their side of things - months of no sexual contact/release, being in a party atmosphere, of course there would be temptation. She's young, attractive and gets lots of male attention. The encounter was purely sexual, she was drunk, and they used protection. The next day the boy was out of her life completely and that was it. I vehementely disagreed with doing all this behind her boyfriends back though.Talking with Michelle about a month ago, she asked what im going to do about Daniel. I honestly hadnt thought about it like that, i felt like i could easily go 3 months without having sex. And id never want to betray Daniel's trust. But Michelle made a good case for 'opening' our relationship while i was away - she said (paraphrasing): "Of course you love Daniel. But traveling is about experiencing new things, and that includes sex
" Talking with Michelle about a month ago, she asked what im going to do about Daniel. I honestly hadnt thought about it like that, i felt like i could easily go 3 months without having sex. And id never want to betray Daniel's trust. But Michelle made a good case for 'opening' our relationship while i was away - she said (paraphrasing): "Of course you love Daniel. But traveling is about experiencing new things, and that includes sex. Youll say it wont happen now, but you just have to trust me that once youre their youll feel different. Daniel is going to wonder either way if youre ****ing other guys on your trip. Just be upfront with him and see what he says."And so that night i talked to him about it. I explained that i wasnt going to be looking to **** every guy i see that im attracted to, and that my love for him was as strong as ever, but i also wanted to be able act freely and party like other girls my age. It was more contingency if anything - i dont plan on ****ing other guys, but if it happens it happens. A nigth of partying half the world away with people ill never see again shouldnt ruin what we had here. Id insist on using protection. And of course he would have the same opportunity as me, he would be able to freely see girls if he chose to. He wasnt happy, but said he understood. He said "Youve tied my hands. If i tell you i forbid it, ill still be worried if youre being true to your word. By expressing that this is what you want, theres nothing i can do to stop you".Daniels a bit of a homebody - he goes out with his friends on occassion, but most nights he spends in our apartment playing video games or watching netflix. Given his lifestyle i wasnt overly worried hed be hooking up with all these random girls.Me and Tory left on February 17. Its been eye-opening and a ton of fun. But its also been stressful. We havent done any partying, we talked to some guys one night but nothing came of it.."
Me and Tory left on February 17. Its been eye-opening and a ton of fun. But its also been stressful. We havent done any partying, we talked to some guys one night but nothing came of it. Tonight i checked my email at an internet cafe and there was a message from Kay, a sweet old lady who lives above us in our apartment complex.I have debated for days whether to send this to you and potentially ruin your vacation. But you deserve to know the truth. Daniel has been seeing another woman since you left. There is no doubt that he is seeing her, she has come over most nights and I have heard them being intimate. You deserve so much better. I'm so sorry.I thought i could handle this open relationship arrangement. I cant. This message shattered my heart into a million pieces. This isnt what i intended at all, i wanted the freedom to act in the moment. He is taking this as a free pass to regularly **** some girl. And i have a feeling i know exactly who it is, a girl from his work who was always overly flirty with him.I regret ever taking Michelles advice and opening my stupid mouth. I dont want him to **** other girls, i dont want to **** other guys. I want this slut out of my apartment NOW!!! I am a ****ing wreck and need other womens opinions. Tory has been so unhelpful, basically telling me to grow up and that i got what i asked for. No ****?! People arent allowed to change their minds or regret their decisions?!How do I go about contacting him and expressing that this needs to stop NOW without coming across like a crazy hypocritical bitch? And let him know that i will be 100% faithful on my trip? I dont even know how i am going to look at him when i get home. I am beyond hurt, this feels so wrong and so sick.I am going to bed now to try and get some sleep, i will check and respond to all comments tomorrow morning. Thank you "
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Case in point: STAY SINGLE!
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Post link.
She melted down and delected most of the post I put up
http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1ypfrx/i_f24_asked_my_boyfriend_m25_of_4_years_to_open/
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This is why women should not ever be in places of power. They try to think without emotion, but are unable to do so. She thought she was doing the "adult" thing by putting it out there, and then gets pissed when it backfires. It reminds me of a girl a dated off and on for a bit in college. When we broke up, she said we should be mature about it and remain "friends", I said okay. She would then get pissed when seeing me out with chicks, or when I didn't talk to her. She'd say, "I thought we were going to be friends?" I'm like, why the fuck do I want to hang out with you, we were not friends before we dated, and I have no real desire to Han out unless we're fucking no strings attached. Some women are severely messed up.
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Stupid bitch.
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How did this backfire? She wanted an open relationship and she got one.
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How did this backfire? She wanted an open relationship and she got one.
And she could have had the guy on an assault charge as well, stupid fucker.
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Is this not what she wanted????
Wadda idiot. ::)
If you can't be without sex for three months you aren't ready for a mature relationship.
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No sympathy here, either.
She wanted open, she got open.
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slut... not sloot. I know, english is very difficult to learn. Hell, I'm american and make mistakes all the time.
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Is this not what she wanted????
Wadda idiot. ::)
If you can't be without sex for three months you aren't ready for a mature relationship.
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This thread just made my day. Schadenfreude ya dumb c.u.n.t. (Can't understand normal thinking)
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Sloots will be sloots. :D
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There are very rare couples that can openly have a successful relationship.
Most people think its a good idea, then when it happens, everything falls apart.
Most peoples egos are too fragile to allow another person to sleep with their partner.
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There are very rare couples that can openly have a successful relationship.
Most people think its a good idea, then when it happens, everything falls apart.
Most peoples egos are too fragile to allow another person to sleep with their partner.
yea swinger people. i've had a few guys ask me to bang their wives in front of them. creepy crazy people
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slut... not sloot. I know, english is very difficult to learn. Hell, I'm american and make mistakes all the time.
I don't know the OP, but I know that sometimes people purposely misspell certain words to get around filters
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Sounds to me like she already suspected her man was kinda sorta cheating and the trip was just an excuse to find out whether it was true or not. And that's where the old lady and her email come in.
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yea swinger people. i've had a few guys ask me to bang their wives in front of them. creepy crazy people
Did you?
Yeah, swingers are a rare breed. I mean, most people arent swingers. I would never be able to do it.
Youre right, it is creepy!
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Did you?
Yeah, swingers are a rare breed. I mean, most people arent swingers. I would never be able to do it.
Youre right, it is creepy!
no. I did bang a married swinger woman but not in front of the husband.
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no. I did bang a married swinger woman but not in front of the husband.
Did he know, and was just in the other room or something?
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Sloots will be sloots. :D
Totally brah, sloots gonna sloot
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All whores are the same.
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she tries to play it like she's the victim, too.
" No ****?! People arent allowed to change their minds or regret their decisions?!"
You wanted some strange cawk. Don't be all surprised when you find panties all over when you get home.
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epic sloot
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In her defence, she's young, her friends are sluts, she doesn't want to be the one ruining 'fun' on the trip, and also thought she could live her life and that her boyfriend was a bit of a pushover and she could control him (reason she's with him). She probably isn't as much as a slut as her friends or even one but got swept up in their sluttiness.
The guy, what a loyal guy, could have apparently cheated on her and didn't. So she opens it up and then gets jealous he does it and does it first! Then she's pissed it's a not a one night stand thing it's regular. Yeh so why would the guy go and fuck some drunk shanky slut which would take effort anyway when he obviously has something better sitting there. She made a bad decision and fucked up, the guy will probably not go back to her hope not.
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Cliffs? I cannot listen to a woman for that long unless I know I'm going to get laid.
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Cliffs? I cannot listen to a woman for that long unless I know I'm going to get laid.
Girl has holiday plans
Girls Slutty friends went on holidays and cheated on BF's
Girl tells BF she wants open relationship while she is on holiday
While on holiday woman in next door apartment e-mails girl that her BF is banging a chick every time in their bed
Girl wants to get out of open relationship deal since it's only ok for her to fuck others
Interwebz ownings happens
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"thought she could live her life and that her boyfriend was a bit of a pushover and she could control him"
Had a gf try that shit on me once, she told me if I don`t do X I won`t be having sex, I replied no - I won`t be having sex with you. She got the hint.
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"thought she could live her life and that her boyfriend was a bit of a pushover and she could control him"
Had a gf try that shit on me once, she told me if I don`t do X I won`t be having sex, I replied no - I won`t be having sex with you. She got the hint.
;D QFT.
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Girl has holiday plans
Girls Slutty friends went on holidays and cheated on BF's
Girl tells BF she wants open relationship while she is on holiday
While on holiday woman in next door apartment e-mails girl that her BF is banging a chick every time in their bed
Girl wants to get out of open relationship deal since it's only ok for her to fuck others
Interwebz ownings happens
Thanks for synopsis.. 8)
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Totally brah, sloots gonna sloot
sloots of peace ::)