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Title: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 03:30:37 AM
When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: DroppingPlates on April 27, 2014, 03:40:27 AM
That's right, she's testing you, and you win in case you refuse to play that game.
He who cares less wins 8)
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: calfzilla on April 27, 2014, 03:42:14 AM
That's right, she's testing you, and you win in case you refuse to play that game.
He who cares less wins 8)

Yep just tell her to fuck off.  Nothing women are attracted to more than a guy not interested in them.  :D
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: MAXX on April 27, 2014, 03:46:09 AM
just show her who's boss. women are less attracted to you if you let them deicide alot of things. biological thing... their femenist programming may say the opposite to you but their biology and attraction will not magically dissapear because of a femenist skewed society.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: calfzilla on April 27, 2014, 04:01:39 AM
just show her who's boss. women are less attracted to you if you let them deicide alot of things. biological thing... their femenist programming may say the opposite to you but their biology and attraction will not magically dissapear because of a femenist skewed society.

Well put.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 04:01:58 AM
Problem is I do tell them kindly to piss off. Some like it, but some just get M-A-D with smoke coming out the ear holes. I can't resist making them melt when I feel they are insincere to me..

And it spirals downwards from there on. I get angry that they play games and they get furious that I am not compliant lol

Women... Can't live with them. Period.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: kreator on April 27, 2014, 04:02:26 AM
always be objective, never let your feelings get in the way when making important decisions, step one step back and look at the situation from somebody else's perspective.
here's an example, let's say a woman is constantly checking your phone, asking about other women, accusing u of cheating, puttong u down etc in your eyes she's probably just a tad jealous and seems normal to you because she's your girlfriend, but if that's the case with somebody else's wife or GF you probably see that woman as an over jealous annoying bitch
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: _bruce_ on April 27, 2014, 05:47:26 AM
Never play along or enter their territory.
Just be a neanderthal and ignore the drama which is more often than not as well founded as a fart bubble.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Slapper on April 27, 2014, 05:52:55 AM
When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.

If she starts bullshitting you, make the the most offensive offer: Explain to her that you're really only after her vagina and you are willing end the proceedings with a money-for-pussy exchange. That'll put her in her place.

I've never tried it but I have it from a good source some females do submit to the temptation.

Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 05:56:14 AM
If she starts bullshitting you, make the the most offensive offer: Explain to her that you're really only after her vagina and you are willing end the proceedings with a money-for-pussy exchange. That'll put her in her place.

I've never tried it but I have it from a good source some females do submit to the temptation.



I am in a pretty "deep" relationship. So that would not likely work out for the better.

I am not after her pussy, would never pay for it. Just trying to make it through the weeks man
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Mr Anabolic on April 27, 2014, 06:14:48 AM
Yep just tell her to fuck off.  Nothing women are attracted to more than a guy not interested in them.  :D

^ This
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Slapper on April 27, 2014, 08:40:53 AM
I am in a pretty "deep" relationship. So that would not likely work out for the better.

I am not after her pussy, would never pay for it. Just trying to make it through the weeks man

Oh, that's so sad! You need a hug?  ::)

She's doing that to you because she smells weakness.

I went through a similar experience and the mind-games came to an abrupt stop as soon as I put the relationship on the table (walked out and didn't come back for a week).

Unless she's a 10 looks-wise, and a 20 sex-wise, or rich, do not waste your time, let her know how quick the shit's going to end unless she starts behaving like she wants to be in the relationship.

And that goes for both sexes. I hate, despise, pussified/dicknotized people walking unloading their emotional stress on other people.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2014, 08:55:54 AM
I am in a pretty "deep" relationship. So that would not likely work out for the better.

I am not after her pussy, would never pay for it. Just trying to make it through the weeks man

No bueno.  Your relationship is already Bernie (see: Weekend At).
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: sean on April 27, 2014, 08:56:31 AM
always be objective, never let your feelings get in the way when making important decisions, step one step back and look at the situation from somebody else's perspective.
here's an example, let's say a woman is constantly checking your phone, asking about other women, accusing u of cheating, puttong u down etc in your eyes she's probably just a tad jealous and seems normal to you because she's your girlfriend, but if that's the case with somebody else's wife or GF you probably see that woman as an over jealous annoying bitch

Yeah, how are you guys handing the phone-era we're in?  
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 09:10:16 AM
Oh, that's so sad! You need a hug?  ::)

She's doing that to you because she smells weakness.

I went through a similar experience and the mind-games came to an abrupt stop as soon as I put the relationship on the table (walked out and didn't come back for a week).

Unless she's a 10 looks-wise, and a 20 sex-wise, or rich, do not waste your time, let her know how quick the shit's going to end unless she starts behaving like she wants to be in the relationship.

And that goes for both sexes. I hate, despise, pussified/dicknotized people walking unloading their emotional stress on other people.


10 looks 20 sex doesn't equal "time well spent". Often there's even more mind games and drama

Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 09:10:56 AM
No bueno.  Your relationship is already Bernie (see: Weekend At).

I know i know

Feels good to vent
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Rambone on April 27, 2014, 09:11:38 AM
That's right, she's testing you, and you win in case you refuse to play that game.
He who cares less wins 8)

Very true
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:14:33 AM
Once a woman has had your c*ck in her mouth a few dozen times, she's comfortable with you. That's when the ordering about and bossiness kick in. Conditions and whatnot.

You either rise up to the challenge and read her the riot act in such a way as to make it clear that you're the senior partner in the relationship, or you bow to her will to avoid offending her and she puts her heel on your proverbial balls for good. The moment a woman has seen your weakness, she never takes you seriously again.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:17:58 AM
Once a woman has had your c*ck in her mouth a few dozen times, she's comfortable with you. That's when the ordering about and bossiness kick in. Conditions and whatnot.

You either rise up to the challenge and read her the riot act in such a way as to make it clear that you're the senior partner in the relationship, or you bow to her will to avoid offending her and she puts her heel on your proverbial balls for good. The moment a woman has seen your weakness, she never takes you seriously again.

Do You have a girlfriend , and when is the last time you got laid.

Please try and give an honest answer.

The only reason I ask is I took a little time off from the boards. .. And you seem to have turned into some sort of expert on women in the meantime
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:19:48 AM
Do You have a girlfriend , and when is the last time you got laid.

Please try and give an honest answer.

The only reason I ask is I took a little time off from the boards. .. And you seem to have turned into some sort of expert on women in the meantime
I do, and I don't discuss my sex life here.

Yes, I saw you left. How was your vacation from the Internet?

And your last point is clearly a personal jab to try to provoke me since this is a thread where other people besides me have put in their input since it's, you know
a public forum
so singling mine out shows you have a grudge
that sucks
wb though
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 09:20:21 AM
Overall I am very content with the answers itt.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:23:08 AM
I do, and I don't discuss my sex life here.

Yes, I saw you left. How was your vacation from the Internet?

And your last point is clearly a personal jab to try to provoke me since this is a thread where other people besides me have put in their input, since it's, you know
a public forum
so singling mine out shows you have a grudge
that sucks
wb though

Grudge over what exactly ?

I noticed that on every thread that is Women related you are writing novels..
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:25:02 AM
Grudge over what exactly ?

I noticed that on every thread that is Women related you are writing novels..
I have no idea what your problem is, dude. Maybe you're still bitter we had a disagreement a month ago? (lol)

And, you clearly don't know what a novel is. But even if I did, why are you obsessed with my posts, man? Just act normal like everyone else.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: f450 on April 27, 2014, 09:25:21 AM
Grudge over what exactly ?

I noticed that on every thread that is Women related you are writing novels..

yeah, but he is making sense. Get off the personal shit and contribute to the thread. Dont derail it.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:26:47 AM
yeah, but he is making sense. Get off the personal shit and contribute to the thread. Dont derail it.
It's because I asked him about his DUI arrest and he hasn't liked me since then. Some guys can't take a joke even at 50.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:30:20 AM
yeah, but he is making sense. Get off the personal shit and contribute to the thread. Dont derail it.

LOL

anybody who thinks they have Women "figured out" Doesn't know dick about women, its that simple.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:31:27 AM
LOL

anybody who thinks they have Women "figured out" Doesn't know dick about women, its that simple.
What's your basis for saying that? Unless you're more qualified than anyone else based on academic training (for example, psychology or social studies). In that case, we might give you credit for it.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Thespritz0 on April 27, 2014, 09:42:11 AM
Yeah, how are you guys handing the phone-era we're in?  
^^
EVERY single guy I know at work who's been busted by their girlfriend it's because she checked his phone...
NO foolproof way to stay out of this!!!
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:43:59 AM
What's your basis for saying that? Unless you're more qualified than anyone else based on academic training (for example, psychology or social studies). In that case, we might give you credit for it.

Personal experience.  I know I'm right,  I don't care if you agree

Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:46:07 AM
Personal experience.  I know I'm right,  I don't care if you agree


So basically your personal experience is superior to everyone else's personal experience because you said so. Great logic there, bro.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:51:11 AM
So basically your personal experience is superior to everyone else's personal experience because you said so. Great logic there, bro.

Well yes.

You see I've been a very Good looking muscular charismatic man my entire adult life.  I guarantee  have five times more experience with  women than you.  That is you with the fat legs and disgusting hairy body, right ? You're also going  bald too.  Ha ha ha
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Slapper on April 27, 2014, 09:51:29 AM
10 looks 20 sex doesn't equal "time well spent".

Read what you said many times, take a deep breath and think about it.

That comment reeks of a guy whose emotional state is not aligned with reality.

You need to accept the fact that you are pussified. Once you do, you will be able to lay the basis of a new emotional contract that shall set you free. It will not be the same as it was before, but she will come to understand what is emotionally acceptable.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:53:20 AM
Well yes.

You see I've been a very Good looking muscular charismatic man my entire adult life.  I guarantee  have five times more experience with  women than you.  That is you with the fat legs and disgusting hairy body, right ? You're also going  bald too.  Ha ha ha
I don't think you have more experience with women than anyone else in this thread. Your clumsy way of communicating and childish personal attacks don't usually appeal to women. Unless you're completely different in real-life. But that would mean you have a split personality. Mental illness isn't appealing either.

I've never posted a photo of my legs. And yes, I'm thinning up top. And? A lot of men are. It's called DHT. I think you're still bitter I asked you why you drive drunk a month ago. Which if you recall was because you came into a thread running your mouth just like you did now. You have to let it go, man. It's eating you up inside and I'm not going to let you win this discussion. You have no clue.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:56:42 AM
I don't think you have more experience with women than anyone else in this thread. Your clumsy way of communicating and childish personal attacks don't usually appeal to women. Unless you're completely different in real-life. But that would mean you have a split personality. Mental illness isn't appealing either.

I've never posted a photo of my legs. And yes, I'm thinning. So? A lot of men are. I think you're just bitter I asked you why you drive drunk a month ago You have to let it go, man. It's eating you up inside and I'm not going to let you win this discussion. You have no clue.


Like I said. .I know I do.  Who cares what you think.

You posTed a photo of your chubby legs and sneakers. You're fat.  Ha ha ha
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 09:58:08 AM

Like I said. .I know I do.  Who cares what you think.

You posTed a photo of your chubby legs and sneakers. You're fat.  Ha ha ha
Those were my calves, and it was a thread about shoes. Now you're going to tell me my body fat level based on how I look from the knee down? Last I checked, most men grow hair. Are you telling me you shave your legs?

C'mon. You're trying too hard. And what do you have against fat people? (Assuming your theory's correct.) Why do you hate so many people? You're too old for this. It's time to grow up and act your age.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 09:59:34 AM
Those were my calves, and it was a thread about shoes. Now you're going to tell me my body fat level based on how I look from the knee down? Last I checked, most men grow hair. Are you telling me you shave your legs?

C'mon. You're trying too hard. And what do you have against fat people? (Assuming your theory's correct.) Why do you hate so many people? You're too old for this. It's time to grow up and act your age.

You're fat.
It's time for me to do whatever i want
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:00:01 AM
You're fat.
I would say post proof, but you can't. So I'm going to ask you the same question again, because you deflected. Why do you dislike fat people?
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:03:24 AM
I would say post proof, but you can't. So I'm going to ask you the same question again, because you deflected. Why do you dislike fat people?

I only associate with attractive people. When an ugly person is there it ruins everything
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:04:05 AM
I only associate with attractive people. When an ugly person is there it ruins everything
That's pretty shallow of you. But wouldn't it require you to be attractive as well? I think that's your biggest problem with that setup.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:05:51 AM
That's pretty shallow of you. But wouldn't it require you to be attractive as well? I think that's your biggest problem with that setup.

According to every Woman on this site,  I'm handsome. Try another angle fatso
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:06:56 AM
According to every Woman on this site,  I'm handsome. Try another angle fatso
I'll have to see some proof and get some references for that. I can't take your word for it because you seem dishonest. I'm not sure why think calling me fat is an insult. I like fat people. Especially the women.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Simple Simon on April 27, 2014, 10:07:54 AM
According to every Woman on this site,  I'm handsome. Try another angle fatso
and some men  :-* (huge homo)
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:10:10 AM
I'll have to see some proof and get some references for that. I can't take your word for it because you seem dishonest. I'm not sure why think calling me fat is an insult. I like fat people. Especially the women.

Fat people are disgusting.  They aren't allowed in my home
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:11:09 AM
Fat people are disgusting.  They aren't allowed in my home
You're not a very nice guy, are you? I think that's your problem. You have the exercise thing worked out. You just don't have a good personality. That needs a P90X-style makeover. You'd be a lot happier and people would like your company a lot more.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:16:09 AM
You're not a very nice guy, are you? I think that's your probthemlem. You have the exercise thing worked out. You just don't have a good personality. That needs a P90X-style makeover. You'd be a lot happier and people would like your company a lot more.

I have a great personality.  Phone never stops blowing up.

I just don't like inferior people and see no reason to be Nice to them,  unless of course they can do something for me. .. then i will make them think I like them,  And they will do anything to stay in my good graces.  It's easy being me.  Ha ha
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:17:12 AM
I have a great personality.  Phone never stops blowing up.

I just don't like inferior people and see no reason to be Nice to them,  unless of course they can do something for me. .. then i will make them think I like them,  And they will do anything to stay in my god graces.  It's easy being me.  Ha ha
I'm glad to hear that. I would hate for you to be lonely. No one should be miserable and alone at your age. But just try to be nicer on the Internet, man. It's not that hard and we all want to like you here. You just need to tone down the trolling a little.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Simple Simon on April 27, 2014, 10:17:27 AM
I have a great personality.  Phone never stops blowing up.

I just don't like inferior people and see no reason to be Nice to them,  unless of course they can do something for me. .. then i will make them think I like them,  And they will do anything to stay in my good graces.  It's easy being me.  Ha ha

 ;D
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 10:18:21 AM
Read what you said many times, take a deep breath and think about it.

That comment reeks of a guy whose emotional state is not aligned with reality.

You need to accept the fact that you are pussified. Once you do, you will be able to lay the basis of a new emotional contract that shall set you free. It will not be the same as it was before, but she will come to understand what is emotionally acceptable.

the thing that is far from reality is thinking there is a "10" or a perfect girl. or that the sex will not become less than 20 after a period of time
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:19:19 AM
I'm glad to hear that. I would hate for you to be lonely. No one should be miserable and alone at your age. But just try to be nicer on the Internet, man. It's not that hard and we all want to like you here. You just need to tone down the trolling a little.

I don't need to do anything chubby checker
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:20:14 AM
I don't need to do anything chubby checker
You disappoint me. I had hopes that you would finally learn to be a good poster and stop being a useless roided out old drunkard. Oh well. Guess we'll have to coexist uneasily.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Grape Ape on April 27, 2014, 10:20:34 AM
It's not that hard and we all want to like you here. You just need to tone down the trolling a little.

Groink is well liked here, and spot on most of the time.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:22:01 AM
Groink is well liked here, and spot on 99% of the time.
I'm skeptical.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:23:41 AM
You disappoint me. I had hopes that you would finally learn to be a good poster and stop being a useless roided out old drunkard. Oh well. Guess we'll have to coexist uneasily.


Maybe you're "uneasy" over a total stranger on the internet. .... I'm just having fun insulting you.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:24:40 AM
I'm skeptical.

And fat
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:24:40 AM

Maybe you're "uneasy" over a total stranger on the internet. .... I'm just having fun insulting you.
But don't I have to feel insulted by what you're saying for your insults to work correctly? I thought that's how it worked. I don't find anything you've said so far offensive. I just think you're really weird and lonely.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:25:30 AM
But don't I have to feel insulted by what you're saying for your insults to work correctly? I thought that's how it worked. I don't find anything you've said so far offensive. I just think you're really weird and lonely.

I don't care what you think.
YoU're fat
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:26:23 AM
I don't care what you think.
YoU're fat
I think you care a lot. Witness your posts in this thread. You clearly have an axe to grind. And I think it's affecting your quality of life.

What's wrong with being fat?
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:30:34 AM
I think you care a lot. Witness your posts in this thread. You clearly have an axe to grind. And I think it's affecting your quality of life.

What's wrong with being fat?

Witness your own posts fatass   could you try any harder ? I'm lonely,  mentally imbalanced,  a drunk, old....hahahahs

I called you fat because you are fat.  I thought it "didn't bother you".

Lololol
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:33:58 AM
Witness your own posts fatass   could you try any harder ? I'm lonely,  mentally imbalanced,  a drunk, old....hahahahs

I called you fat because you are fat.  I thought it "didn't bother you".

Lololol
Well, let's review my assertions and see whether they're valid or not based on your posts.

a) You never post pictures with anyone else. That combined with your negative attitude towards a significant portion of the population based on their appearance alone suggests you're probably not very good company. It's a fair inference.

b) You follow people around on an Internet board and provoke them continuously for your own obscure reasons. If your main reason for getting on the Internet is to troll people, at your age, you have questionable mental balance.

c) You've been, allegedly, arrested and convicted of drunk driving. I asked you about it and you declined to discuss it, which suggests there's a strong likelihood it happened. So it's fair to say you have or had alcohol abuse problems.

d) 50 is pretty old, man. C'mon.  ;)

Where did I say calling me fat bothers me? I just asked you what's wrong with it. You can't give me a simple answer.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:36:21 AM
Well, let's review my assertions and see whether they're valid or not based on your posts.

a) You never post pictures with anyone else. That combined with your negative attitude towards a significant portion of the population based on their appearance alone suggests you're probably not very good company. It's a fair inference.

b) You follow people around on an Internet board and provoke them continuously for your own obscure reasons. If your main reason for getting on the Internet is to troll people, at your age, you have questionable mental balance.

c) You've been, allegedly, arrested and convicted of drunk driving. I asked you about it and you declined to discuss it, which suggests there's a strong likelihood it happened. So it's fair to say you have or had alcohol abuse problems.

d) 50 is pretty old, man. C'mon.  ;)

You seem to know a lot about me.  Kinda creepy.

You're 0 for 4 though. Thing is I don't care what you think. .. and can't be bothered proving you wrong. You're fat
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:38:20 AM
You seem to know a lot about me.  Kinda creepy.

You're 0 for 4 though. Thing is I don't care what you think. .. and can't be bothered proving you wrong. You're fat
I don't think you know what inference means. In laymen's terms, it's deductive reasoning based on exposure to something. To go by what I've gleaned from your posts, you're lonely, aggressive to strangers, a former or current substance abuser, and prejudiced towards a large portion of the population based on appearance. If your response is that I know a lot about you, then I guess I must be right. Your continued belligerence suggests you do care quite a lot, I'm afraid.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2014, 10:39:58 AM
When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.

For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:41:35 AM
My response is I don't care what you think. .. I've only said it 5 times now.  For someone trying to come of as intelligent you really aren't doing very well...."ivan"  ;)
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:43:18 AM
My response is I don't care what you think. .. I've only said it 5 times now.  For someone trying to come of as intelligent you really aren't doing very well...."ivan"  ;)
Well, that's fine as far as it goes. You don't have to care. But your posts suggest otherwise. So I think you're being dishonest when you say that.

I'm not trying to come off as intelligent. I am intelligent. It's why I can see through your one-dimensional act on here. You're not very intimidating. But I did want to try to discern what it is that made you what you've become today. And I'm starting to think it's a mixture of smoldering resentment (at what? don't know) and an inferiority complex.

The repeated ad hominems about fatness suggests your main tool to get your point across is to attack other people on a superficial level. The thing is, when you're on the offensive you're not emotionally vulnerable. I think you're just tired of being hurt and your own way to protect your feelings is to lash out.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 10:48:10 AM
Well, that's fine as far as it goes. You don't have to care. But your posts suggest otherwise. So I think you're being dishonest when you say that.

I'm not trying to come off as intelligent. I am intelligent. It's why I can see through your one-dimensional act on here. You're not very intimidating. But I did want to try to discern what it is that made you what you've become today. And I'm starting to think it's a mixture of smoldering resentment (at what? don't know) and an inferiority complex.

The repeated ad hominems about fatness suggests your main tool to get your point across is to attack other people on a superficial level. The thing is, when you're on the offensive you're not emotionally vulnerable. I think you're just tired of being hurt and your own way to protect your feelings is to lash out.

What the fuck ever.  Monster dimestore psychoanalysis. ..you and Parker should hang out....LOL.

Jesus Christ change your tampon...hahaha
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 10:50:06 AM
What the fuck ever.  Monster dimestore psychoanalysis. ..you and Parker should hang out....LOL.

Jesus Christ change your tampon...hahaha
I'm just trying to help you out, man. You seem like a guy good in general but you have some serious issues. I'm not a fan of mainstream psychology but your case could really benefit from some professional counseling. Just for a few months, until you figure out why you're so angry. And maybe when they put you on something prescription-strength for whatever it is they find wrong with you.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2014, 10:59:34 AM
And tbh I never really understood what a 'mind game' is.  It assumes a certain level of involvement and cognition on the part of the victim.  The awesome thing about being stupid and self involved is the immunity you're afforded.  You just kinda blunder along.  Living oblivious rocks.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 11:08:26 AM
Mind games in this context is basically just being over dramatic, doing tests, causing unnecessary arguments etc.

For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.

I find it strange that in a relationship you try to argue instead of making it smooth sailing. Lose-lose.

Anyway.. Yeah. I think most are nut cases, but there are some that has treated me correct also.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Rascal full on April 27, 2014, 11:10:26 AM
I'm just trying to help you out, man. You seem like a guy good in general but you have some serious issues. I'm not a fan of mainstream psychology but your case could really benefit from some professional counseling. Just for a few months, until you figure out why you're so angry. And maybe when they put you on something prescription-strength for whatever it is they find wrong with you.

This effervescent fuck is getting a kick outta being a dick online. No big deal a lot of people do it. Particularly here.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: bigmc on April 27, 2014, 11:34:51 AM
For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.

words of wisdom right here folks

lost in the cock waving contest between the mighty groink and promising rookie  icelord
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 11:36:34 AM
words of wisdom right here folks

lost in the cock waving contest between the mighty groink and promising rookie  icelord
;D

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Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2014, 11:56:41 AM
Mind games in this context is basically just being over dramatic, doing tests, causing unnecessary arguments etc.

I find it strange that in a relationship you try to argue instead of making it smooth sailing. Lose-lose.

Anyway.. Yeah. I think most are nut cases, but there are some that has treated me correct also.

Yeah, I'm pretty indulgent and accept that everyone has bad moods and such, but harping (for months, mind you) about a topic that has already been discussed (for months, mind you!) to the point that every conversation is like navigating a mine field?  It's a terrible strategy.  I just disconnect.
 
So you say this to her.  Point blank.  Stop already with the harping about X.  We've talked about it ad nauseum, can you puh-lease give it a rest.  So she doesn't, it increases, and eventually you say that's it.  And like clockwork:

"BUT WHYYYYY?"

Because I'm not sure which one of us is stupider, sweetie.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Papper on April 27, 2014, 12:01:27 PM
Yeah, I'm pretty indulgent and accept that everyone has bad moods and such, but harping (for months, mind you) about a topic that has already been discussed (for months, mind you!) to the point that every conversation is like navigating a mine field?  It's a terrible strategy.  I just disconnect.
 
So you say this to her.  Point blank.  Stop already with the harping about X.  We've talked about it ad nauseum, can you puh-lease give it a rest.  So she doesn't, it increases, and eventually you say that's it.  And like clockwork:

"BUT WHYYYYY?"

Because I'm not sure which one of us is stupider, sweetie.

Inevitable. I wish to go solo soon.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2014, 12:15:37 PM
Inevitable. I wish to go solo soon.

Imo be point blank about your complaints and why you feel justified in them.  Give her a chance to respond in word and deed.

Love's a delicate thing tho.  Doesn't resuscitate often.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Primemuscle on April 27, 2014, 12:22:27 PM
When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.

Women actually prefer men who don't do what they want, up to a point. Most women don't like men who are pushovers.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: Wiggs on April 27, 2014, 02:24:47 PM
Groink getting slaughtered and exposed for what he is and isnt by Icelord.
Title: Re: Women and mind games
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on April 27, 2014, 02:34:11 PM
I think if you're at the point where you're asking getbig for advice on females, you might as well give up