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Title: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Army of One on July 18, 2014, 04:21:53 PM
 ;D

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Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Natural Man on July 18, 2014, 04:23:52 PM
IF IT IS REAL, which i doubt, it means he's a wimp.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Army of One on July 18, 2014, 04:25:53 PM
Here the thread

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: smoothasf on July 18, 2014, 04:35:54 PM
Turn a women down 25/28 and she what she does, I feel no sympathy for her.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Tapeworm on July 18, 2014, 04:45:27 PM
Gross, tired, & eats too much.  WNH.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: HavoX on July 18, 2014, 04:53:34 PM
6-29-14 - been there!
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 18, 2014, 04:54:47 PM
It's hurtful no matter if you are female or male. This woman needs to realise that rejection from your partner damages the relationship.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Lustral on July 18, 2014, 04:55:16 PM
Even if I can't get it up because I'm too pissed I'll give it a shot.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Hulkotron on July 18, 2014, 04:55:34 PM
Was getting railroaded by BDB on the side
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 18, 2014, 04:55:48 PM
He's 26 years old?  ???

His biggest mistake was getting married and getting married at such a young age.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Lustral on July 18, 2014, 05:05:31 PM
It's hurtful no matter if you are female or male. This woman needs to realise that rejection from your partner damages the relationship.

To be fair I want sex around 3 times a day, I settle for 1-7 times. I can't complain when she says no. Although I do...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 18, 2014, 05:13:06 PM
The guy is pathetic.

I am not saying I agree or disagree with him regarding the spreadsheet, but hes a bitter asshole who will not pick up the phone, despite her numerous calls. She obviously wants to talk things out. And he is purposely ignoring her. Is he 6 years old? I hope she dumps him.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Natural Man on July 18, 2014, 05:20:30 PM
The guy is pathetic.

I am not saying I agree or disagree with him regarding the spreadsheet, but hes a bitter asshole who will not pick up the phone, despite her numerous calls. She obviously wants to talk things out. And he is purposely ignoring her. Is he 6 years old? I hope she dumps him.
He's beta just for having been rejected 25 times out of 28 in the firstplace ... Looks like they re both losers.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: the trainer on July 18, 2014, 05:25:55 PM
there is over 3.5 billion women on the planet just date a woman for 6 months break up and move on to the next that way you will always have a horny woman available.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 18, 2014, 05:28:04 PM
He's beta just for having been rejected 25 times out of 28 in the firstplace ... Looks like they re both losers.

Their marriage will be over in a few years.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Lustral on July 18, 2014, 05:28:36 PM
The guy is pathetic.

I am not saying I agree or disagree with him regarding the spreadsheet, but hes a bitter asshole who will not pick up the phone, despite her numerous calls. She obviously wants to talk things out. And he is purposely ignoring her. Is he 6 years old? I hope she dumps him.

First black eye should have made his position clear if he wasn't such a pussy.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 18, 2014, 05:29:11 PM
The guy is pathetic.

I am not saying I agree or disagree with him regarding the spreadsheet, but hes a bitter asshole who will not pick up the phone, despite her numerous calls. She obviously wants to talk things out. And he is purposely ignoring her. Is he 6 years old? I hope she dumps him.
Its very immature of him to behave this way. I don't see it working for them.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Vince G, CSN MFT on July 18, 2014, 05:31:53 PM
;D

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Spreadsheet....what a fucking wimp.  If I wanted some ass, I didn't ask..I took
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: visualizeperfection on July 18, 2014, 05:33:52 PM

Spreadsheet....what a fucking wimp.  If I wanted some ass, I didn't ask..I took


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Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Lustral on July 18, 2014, 05:41:36 PM

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Like me every morning.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: polychronopolous on July 18, 2014, 05:42:57 PM
The simple 2 letter "No" has gotta cut the deepest.  :D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: WalterWhite on July 18, 2014, 06:31:58 PM
He's 26 years old?  ???

His biggest mistake was getting married and getting married at such a young age.

I was married around that age and the sex was the last thing to go.  If there are issues this early the marriage will collapse.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: pedro01 on July 18, 2014, 06:36:36 PM
The guy is pathetic.

I am not saying I agree or disagree with him regarding the spreadsheet, but hes a bitter asshole who will not pick up the phone, despite her numerous calls. She obviously wants to talk things out. And he is purposely ignoring her. Is he 6 years old? I hope she dumps him.

I think the whole point is he doesn't want to talk to her.

He wants to get his dick sucked. I am sure that a blow job would clear the air.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 18, 2014, 06:39:27 PM
I think the whole point is he doesn't want to talk to her.

He wants to get his dick sucked. I am sure that a blow job would clear the air.

What kind of relationship is it then if you dont want to talk to your wife because she won't give you sex? They are not in 11th grade.

Again, this guy is pathetic.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 18, 2014, 06:43:47 PM
She is with holding sex because she is not happy about something in the relationship. Women are very emotional. If you take care of her emotional side then she will want to be intimate. Because he refuses to talk to her then he will never find out why she is unhappy and doesn't want him. So unless they meet half way and want to make the marriage work then they might as well end it.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Army of One on July 18, 2014, 06:45:57 PM
She is with holding sex because she is not happy about something in the relationship. Women are very emotional. If you take care of her emotional side then she will want to be intimate. Because he refuses to talk to her then he will never find out why she is unhappy and doesn't want him. So unless they meet half way and want to make the marriage work then they might as well end it.

What was it about will grants voice and the way he appeared as pixels that made you love him?
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 18, 2014, 06:49:54 PM
She is with holding sex because she is not happy about something in the relationship. Women are very emotional. If you take care of her emotional side then she will want to be intimate. Because he refuses to talk to her then he will never find out why she is unhappy and doesn't want him. So unless they meet half way and want to make the marriage work then they might as well end it.

the fact that he is refusing to speak to her by not answering her calls and ignoring her just goes to show that he probably cannot deal with marriage conflict. I am sure there is more to this story. From the sound of it, this guy is immature. What woman would want to sleep with an immature "man?" :-\ :-\
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 18, 2014, 07:10:47 PM
the fact that he is refusing to speak to her by not answering her calls and ignoring her just goes to show that he probably cannot deal with marriage conflict. I am sure there is more to this story. From the sound of it, this guy is immature. What woman would want to sleep with an immature "man?" :-\ :-\
Agreed 100 per cent
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Purge_WTF on July 18, 2014, 07:14:03 PM
He's 26 years old?  ???

His biggest mistake was getting married and getting married at such a young age.

This.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Parker on July 18, 2014, 07:26:25 PM
He's 26 years old?  ???

His biggest mistake was getting married and getting married at such a young age.
Many folks think marriage is just "something to do"...immaturity tends to play a hand in it.
Its very immature of him to behave this way. I don't see it working for them.
Don't worry, by the time he is 32, he'll be on his 3rd marriage, and counting.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 18, 2014, 07:28:08 PM
The guy is pathetic but not because of the spreadsheet. Speadsheet will be funny when he introduces it in divorce court. He's pathetic because he married a women who goes to the gym and doesn't shower until the next day. That's fukcing gross. If it happens one time, ok, but this woman seems to not like to shower. Her puss must stink like all kinds of shit...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Voice of Doom on July 18, 2014, 07:29:07 PM
It seems pretty clear that she's having an affair but doesn't know if its going anywhere and is keeping her marriage option open "just in case".  It's probably a business co-worker that she's traveled with before.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 18, 2014, 07:30:07 PM
It seems pretty clear that she's having an affair but doesn't know if its going anywhere and is keeping her marriage option open "just in case".  It's probably a business co-worker that she's traveled with before.

Agree with this. Or she could be a closeted Lesbo...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: 240 is Back on July 18, 2014, 09:53:49 PM
Sounds like a "him" problem.

You send Brad Pitt into that bedroom, and she's blowing him til the sun rises. 

This dude needs to get lift, eat right, treat her nicely but also establish his needs must be met, just as hers do.

Sounds like he's just looking for pity - and girls don't find that attractive. 
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 18, 2014, 10:38:26 PM
It seems pretty clear that she's having an affair but doesn't know if its going anywhere and is keeping her marriage option open "just in case".  It's probably a business co-worker that she's traveled with before.

She's probably cheating on him with a getbigger.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 19, 2014, 03:06:53 AM
Their marriage will be over in a few years.

Years? More like weeks...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 19, 2014, 03:26:18 AM
They're both being very immature and both had to learn to communicate.
She's playing the victim, claiming she does so much for him - like cooking and laundry - and does not get any recognition from him. But did she ever told him she feels underappreciated? No, she rather watches her TV shows and keep on sulking about not being admired for her input. Denying him, what he wants from her (sex) as a punishment for something he did not know he was doing.

He should have told her how important a bit of sex is for him. Now, it was very childish and stupid of him to wait to give her this info on her way to the airport. Instead of saying something when it was just a bit annoying, he lets it boil to a point he's really fed up with it and drop her this bomb.

I don't think this marriage will last more than a few days after her trip. They're both angry and disappointed in each other. And I guess talking things out, is not their strong point...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Tapeworm on July 19, 2014, 05:27:33 AM
I'm immature as hell.  I think it's hilarious he tallied up vaginal access on a spreadsheet.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: wes on July 19, 2014, 05:38:55 AM
There`s another bus coming every 20 minutes........time for this cat to buy a ticket! 
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: The Grim Lifter on July 19, 2014, 06:19:58 AM
What kind of relationship is it then if you dont want to talk to your wife because she won't give you sex? They are not in 11th grade.

Again, this guy is pathetic.

How many guys do you think grow up? So many people can't communicate in person. I used to work in a small business and the guy would just send abusive e-mails he couldn't do shit in person (i was young :).

Probably why Facebook is so popular.

As for this case i don't think she has someone on the side she probably is just tired and at the end of the day wants to rest. But is ignoring her partner and he's pissed. He should realise he isn't going to change anything, just ignore her and chase other pussy. Then she'll come around.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Papper on July 19, 2014, 08:07:23 AM
Asking for sex..  ::)

Getting denied.  ::)

Getting married  ::)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Leatherneck on July 19, 2014, 08:27:14 AM
They'll be in divorce court quick, fast and in a hurry.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: MAXX on July 19, 2014, 08:55:39 AM
cheating on him. he did right in dumping
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 19, 2014, 09:00:20 AM
I have a feeling he must have found out she is cheating on him and this was all a plan (spread sheet, ignoring her calls) from the get-go.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Hulkotron on July 19, 2014, 05:51:57 PM
I have a feeling he must have found out she is cheating on him and this was all a plan (spread sheet, ignoring her calls) from the get-go.

Yes I think there is more here than meets the eye.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 19, 2014, 07:29:32 PM
She's not showering after gym to use it as an excuse to avoid sex/ intimacy. Serious issues in this relationship and all because neither one of them opened up and communicated about how they felt. If you can't communicate then you can't make a relationship work.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: polychronopolous on July 19, 2014, 07:31:08 PM
She's not showering after gym to use it as an excuse to avoid sex/ intimacy. Serious issues in this relationship and all because neither one of them opened up and communicated about how they felt. If you can't communicate then you can't make a relationship work.

You don't know that.

Some people are just lazy like that, women included.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: rocket on July 19, 2014, 07:32:33 PM

Spreadsheet....what a fucking wimp.  If I wanted some ass, I didn't ask..I took

Society doesn't care if a man rapes another man, Vince.  Different situation.

(Case in point, I laughed when I read your comment)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: rocket on July 19, 2014, 07:33:22 PM
Also, FYI, you can read her further comments, here

http://www.reddit.com/user/throwwwwaway29

Note this:

My weekday routine has been shower, go to work, get off at 4pm, go home and cook dinner, go to the gym, watch some TV, sleep. He's never up to have sex in the morning, and I never want to have sex after being all sweaty and gross from the gym.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Hulkotron on July 19, 2014, 07:51:06 PM
I bet she's a disgusting fat.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: rocket on July 19, 2014, 07:55:07 PM
The phrase "muffin top" is used in her comments.

Also, she's apparently someone who gets "sweaty and gross" from the gym, but doesn't put two and two together and take a shower until he's had to sleep next to someone feeling "sweaty and gross"

So yeah, possibly quite disgusting.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 19, 2014, 08:11:58 PM
How many guys do you think grow up? So many people can't communicate in person. I used to work in a small business and the guy would just send abusive e-mails he couldn't do shit in person (i was young :).

Probably why Facebook is so popular.

As for this case i don't think she has someone on the side she probably is just tired and at the end of the day wants to rest. But is ignoring her partner and he's pissed. He should realise he isn't going to change anything, just ignore her and chase other pussy. Then she'll come around.

Yes, FB makes it ideal for people to be aggressive to each other without confronting them face to face.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: booty on July 19, 2014, 08:35:10 PM
You don't know that.

Some people are just lazy like that, women included.
She is showering in the mornings when he is not making sexual advances towards her. So clearly she is using the shower after gym as an excuse. Also having sex straight after gym when you are both sweaty is hot. If you sit around sweaty for hours of course that will be gross. She knows this.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Palpatine Q on July 19, 2014, 08:48:53 PM
He's not talking to her because he's got nothing to say.  He wants to fuck and he's pissed  Pretty obvious.

If I had to guess, I'd say he's a pretty horny guy, loves his wife and wants to fuck her , and she would rather watch fucking television.

Seriously talking, his feelings are hurt and he thinks his wife doesn't love him anymore. She's not fucking anyone, she's just not a passionate person. Passionate people make fucking the priority


Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 19, 2014, 09:03:31 PM
He's not talking to her because he's got nothing to say.  He wants to fuck and he's pissed  Pretty obvious.

If I had to guess, I'd say he's a pretty horny guy, loves his wife and wants to fuck her , and she would rather watch fucking television.

Seriously talking, his feelings are hurt and he thinks his wife doesn't love him anymore. She's not fucking anyone, she's just not a passionate person. Passionate people make fucking the priority




Yes, it could definitely be just a difference of sexuality. Some people are more highly sexual than others. If this is the case, then they need to figure some way to work it out. Being pissed and ignoring your wife is definitely not going to make things better.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: ChopperRider on July 19, 2014, 09:19:31 PM
He's not talking to her because he's got nothing to say.  He wants to fuck and he's pissed  Pretty obvious.

If I had to guess, I'd say he's a pretty horny guy, loves his wife and wants to fuck her , and she would rather watch fucking television.

Seriously talking, his feelings are hurt and he thinks his wife doesn't love him anymore. She's not fucking anyone, she's just not a passionate person. Passionate people make fucking the priority


You know the dude got rejected many, many times before he finally broke down and made the spreadsheet. This shit has been going on for a while I'd guess.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Europe on July 19, 2014, 09:44:24 PM
He's not talking to her because he's got nothing to say.  He wants to fuck and he's pissed  Pretty obvious.

If I had to guess, I'd say he's a pretty horny guy, loves his wife and wants to fuck her , and she would rather watch fucking television.

Seriously talking, his feelings are hurt and he thinks his wife doesn't love him anymore. She's not fucking anyone, she's just not a passionate person. Passionate people make fucking the priority
this ^^

Being pissed and ignoring your wife is definitely not going to make things better.
There's a saying that arguing with women somehow you always loose, he's probably avoiding her by thinking out his future.

 In this case she's refusing him time after time and playing "DUMB" that somehow rejecting 25/28 times is normal. She knows something isn't right, then posting this on reddit to somehow gain support and that her actions where "right" from the beginning.
Yes he is immature and bitter, but only because she made him that way.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Palpatine Q on July 19, 2014, 10:33:44 PM
Yes, it could definitely be just a difference of sexuality. Some people are more highly sexual than others. If this is the case, then they need to figure some way to work it out. Being pissed and ignoring your wife is definitely not going to make things better.

Yup.  And that is a huge problem. Women dont get that.  They let emotional issues control their sexuality, and just shut off. Most anyway, the vast majority.


Men are physical. I could lose my job and total my car, and I'll still want to fuck. And it goes deeper. Women need the emotional connection and trust to be sexual, and when there are problems they  don't want to have sex.

With men, if you cut off the sex, we begin to lose the connection, and really not give a fuck about you. Thats what makes you my woman that I iove, and not just some person. The physical connection. And not just fucking.  Affection, closeness. The physical dictates the emotional

With women the emotional dictates the physical.  As usual , exactly opposite.


that's why when you first start dating someone its so fucked up

guys are ready to fuck from day one..because we don't know jack shit about you, you have no emotional bond, no history...what's the one thing we do know, is that we are physically attracted to you and we want to fuck you.

Women want shit that doesnt exist yet... love, trust, commitment.  That comes later. and if we aren't having sex I'll never have those feelings for you.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 19, 2014, 11:35:14 PM
this ^^
There's a saying that arguing with women somehow you always loose, he's probably avoiding her by thinking out his future.

 In this case she's refusing him time after time and playing "DUMB" that somehow rejecting 25/28 times is normal. She knows something isn't right, then posting this on reddit to somehow gain support and that her actions where "right" from the beginning.
Yes he is immature and bitter, but only because she made him that way.


I wish we could see the outcome to this couple.  :D :D

Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SF1900 on July 19, 2014, 11:37:09 PM
Yup.  And that is a huge problem. Women dont get that.  They let emotional issues control their sexuality, and just shut off. Most anyway, the vast majority.


Men are physical. I could lose my job and total my car, and I'll still want to fuck. And it goes deeper. Women need the emotional connection and trust to be sexual, and when there are problems they  don't want to have sex.

With men, if you cut off the sex, we begin to lose the connection, and really not give a fuck about you. Thats what makes you my woman that I iove, and not just some person. The physical connection. And not just fucking.  Affection, closeness. The physical dictates the emotional

With women the emotional dictates the physical.  As usual , exactly opposite.


that's why when you first start dating someone its so fucked up

guys are ready to fuck from day one..because we don't know jack shit about you, you have no emotional bond, no history...what's the one thing we do know, is that we are physically attracted to you and we want to fuck you.

Women want shit that doesnt exist yet... love, trust, commitment.  That comes later. and if we aren't having sex I'll never have those feelings for you.

Exactly. Most womem I have dated or been with say its all about the emotional connection. For guys, its eventually about the emotional connection, but there is definitely a strong physical component to it.

Nature definitely played a cruel joke on us!
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Palpatine Q on July 20, 2014, 01:12:11 AM
Exactly. Most womem I have dated or been with say its all about the emotional connection. For guys, its eventually about the emotional connection, but there is definitely a strong physical component to it.

Nature definitely played a cruel joke on us!

Played a cruel joke on women, in my opinion.

They get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating . Because the majority  cant just fuck a guy.  They feel like sluts , and beat themselves up. Society calls them whores. Which is bullshit because men can bang them two at a time and that's fine.

But...if they want to keep a guy around they really like, they are probably gonna have to give it up. And then he's gonna say "typical whore" and move on. They cant win.

I have a daughter, I think about this shit A LOT.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: visualizeperfection on July 20, 2014, 03:11:49 AM
Played a cruel joke on women, in my opinion.

They get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating . Because the majority  cant just fuck a guy.  They feel like sluts , and beat themselves up. Society calls them whores. Which is bullshit because men can bang them two at a time and that's fine.

But...if they want to keep a guy around they really like, they are probably gonna have to give it up. And then he's gonna say "typical whore" and move on. They cant win.

I have a daughter, I think about this shit A LOT.

Would scare me too, brother.

I have fucked over a lot of women. I have dont some filthy things to women. Etc.

As long as you realize she WILL BE sexually active. And thats fine.

Just be the best dad/father figure that you can to ensure shes not the first date kind of girl. Girls have a lot better chance of retaining a guy if they wait just long enough... I think in todays world that might translate into about 6 dates or month. Im 25 and I would respect that amount of time. I would also bail prior to that day unless I really cared.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: bigmc on July 20, 2014, 03:13:54 AM
ive got a daughter too

all you can do is show them how a decent man should go through life

hopefully they will set the bar that high when they grow up and go out to meet someone
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: visualizeperfection on July 20, 2014, 03:15:51 AM
ive got a daughter too

all you can do is show them how a decent man should go through life

hopefully they will set the bar that high when they grow up and go out to meet someone

Well said.

Dont give your daughter any daddy issues and your chances of having a self respecting daughter increase dramatically.

Let her know how a real man acts, and hopefully it doesnt backfire and she goes the way of the skinny pussy boyfriend.

Even that is a better scenario than the type of girl I usually bring home on a thursday night.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 20, 2014, 03:22:54 AM
IF IT IS REAL, which i doubt, it means he's a wimp.

He has well-documented material to ask for a divorce.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: denarii on July 20, 2014, 03:43:54 AM
one could have been 'you are wearing a second hand watch'

 ;D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: denarii on July 20, 2014, 03:48:55 AM
a getbigger:

http://rr.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b735r/me_26f_with_my_husband_49m_of_3_years_hurtful/

Me [26F] with my husband [49M] of 3 years, hurtful comment + alcoholism +emotional affairRelationships



My husband and I have been together 7 years, married for 3.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: 240 is Back on July 20, 2014, 08:23:03 AM
Also, FYI, you can read her further comments, here

http://www.reddit.com/user/throwwwwaway29

Note this:

My weekday routine has been shower, go to work, get off at 4pm, go home and cook dinner, go to the gym, watch some TV, sleep. He's never up to have sex in the morning, and I never want to have sex after being all sweaty and gross from the gym.
work, dinner, gym, and then bed?   

I see the need to take another shower.  Can't sleep with 16 hours of slime on me.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: smoothasf on July 20, 2014, 12:44:53 PM
Christ groink your post made so much sense I feel enlightened. Someone's been in a sexless relationship before.  How would you deal with the situation?
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: ChopperRider on July 20, 2014, 09:30:18 PM
Played a cruel joke on women, in my opinion.

They get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating . Because the majority  cant just fuck a guy.  They feel like sluts , and beat themselves up. Society calls them whores. Which is bullshit because men can bang them two at a time and that's fine.

But...if they want to keep a guy around they really like, they are probably gonna have to give it up. And then he's gonna say "typical whore" and move on. They cant win.

I have a daughter, I think about this shit A LOT.

If you have a son....you only have to worry about one dick during the teenage years.

If you have a daughter.....you have to worry about all the dicks on the planet.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Wolfox on July 20, 2014, 09:44:09 PM
Thats the spreadsheet of a defeated man in a defeated relationship.

Poor bastard.

Time to move on.

Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Wolfox on July 20, 2014, 09:47:58 PM
Played a cruel joke on women, in my opinion.

They get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating . Because the majority  cant just fuck a guy.  They feel like sluts , and beat themselves up. Society calls them whores. Which is bullshit because men can bang them two at a time and that's fine.

But...if they want to keep a guy around they really like, they are probably gonna have to give it up. And then he's gonna say "typical whore" and move on. They cant win.

I have a daughter, I think about this shit A LOT.

Nature got it right. A stable society is dependent upon the family unit - which you can't have with absent fathers. We NEED "good girls" and women who respect themselves. They are females who are actually marriage material.

Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 20, 2014, 09:53:41 PM
The husband should pump her full of male hormones like DLB's allegedly does. Instead of making spreadsheets this guy will have to hire Jose Raymond to come over and meet his wifes new "needs"...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Parker on July 20, 2014, 10:41:02 PM
Played a cruel joke on women, in my opinion.

They get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating . Because the majority  cant just fuck a guy.  They feel like sluts , and beat themselves up. Society calls them whores. Which is bullshit because men can bang them two at a time and that's fine.

But...if they want to keep a guy around they really like, they are probably gonna have to give it up. And then he's gonna say "typical whore" and move on. They cant win.
I have a daughter, I think about this shit A LOT.
Decent dudes don't do that.
I remember that there is a saying, "There are the women you bed, and there are the women that you wed. A woman should try to be the woman that a man beds and weds"
But, in the 21st century, people get married all the time to the tune of that last part.
Fact is, women can't (but try to do) do like men, which helps with quality of men. If women try and do what men do, men start to think just like as you said.

If a father is good father and shows his daughter by example the type of man who needs to be in her life, chances are good that is the type man that they will look for.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: HavoX on July 21, 2014, 12:33:59 PM
Lol one reply was: "my mom had a saying: never let your man leave the house hungry or horny."


Dirty pigpen smellin hoebag dirtying up all the white mans sheets
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Nails on July 21, 2014, 12:48:24 PM
i like this, makes her really see how worthless of a wife she is, and while she is away on a trip, he is getting his balls licked by the milf next door , and she can refer back to that spread sheet any times she wants to know the exact reason why he was fucking around on her
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: SCRUBS on July 21, 2014, 04:10:01 PM
She doesn`t have to put out any more, he already signed half of his shit away.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Parker on July 21, 2014, 04:13:03 PM
When in doubt, spreadsheet it out.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: 240 is Back on July 21, 2014, 07:54:31 PM
When in doubt, spreadsheet it out.

are you saying this dude excels at not getting laid?
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Natural Man on July 21, 2014, 08:08:44 PM
Exactly. Most womem I have dated or been with say its all about the emotional connection. For guys, its eventually about the emotional connection, but there is definitely a strong physical component to it.

Nature definitely played a cruel joke on us!
women look for men who will stay and take care of eventual offspring first and foremost, that's how they ve been designed by nature. They see long term. It's not good or bad, that's just the way it is. Now their sexual education, their parents, childhood, fathers, brothers, shaped their views on sexuality. If a woman isnt "that much into sex", well, she has to be taught something she s obviously completely ignoring. Many men are also "not much into sex" either, the problem is when a man who s into it is with a woman who isnt. Historically speaking women were always told in all religious communities worldwide to submit to the male urge if they want him to stay and take care of offspring, apparently in "highly evolved, advanced modern western societies" many women seem to have "forgotten" about that basic, natural fact. Mostly women who had mothers who were shitty wives themselves.
Also one of my theories is that ugly and/or fat women have and give less sex than better looking women  ::)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: HavoX on July 21, 2014, 09:43:39 PM
I wanna see how this ends
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 21, 2014, 10:06:22 PM
are you saying this dude excels at not getting laid?

 ;D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: HTexan on July 21, 2014, 10:12:12 PM
Sex is very important in a relationship. If she never? Tried to initiate sex within those 2 months, she is shitty. But he is shittier for senting her an email and not wanting to talk about it like a bitch.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: denarii on July 22, 2014, 03:40:45 AM
This is the no 2 story on telegraph website now
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Donny on July 22, 2014, 04:04:46 AM
Sex is very important in a relationship. If she never? Tried to initiate sex within those 2 months, she is shitty. But he is shittier for senting her an email and not wanting to talk about it like a bitch.
The Problem is communication. People just don´t talk enough  anymore.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 22, 2014, 04:08:18 AM
The Problem is communication. People just don´t talk enough  anymore.

You mean that a woman isn't paying attention anymore, when a man tells her what to do?
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Donny on July 22, 2014, 04:15:05 AM
You mean that a woman isn't paying attention anymore, when a man tells her what to do?
what i´m saying is if you are in a relationship you Need to be able to talk about everything and not just sex. It sounds to me like this couple do not talk much about anything.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 22, 2014, 04:40:12 AM
what i´m saying is if you are in a relationship you Need to be able to talk about everything and not just sex. It sounds to me like this couple do not talk much about anything.

True! You also have to remind her that you want your steak medium rare and that the towels need to be folded according to a specific protocol.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Grape Ape on July 22, 2014, 05:36:55 AM
ive got a daughter too

all you can do is show them how a decent man should go through life

hopefully they will set the bar that high when they grow up and go out to meet someone

Just catching up - best quote in this thread.  Groink spot on too.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 22, 2014, 06:28:38 AM
True! You also have to remind her that you want your steak medium rare and that the towels need to be folded according to a specific protocol.

No, you got it all wrong!

You have to tell him over and over again not to drop used towels om the bathroom floor, but to hang them to dry. Otherwise he can pay for new towels to replace the stinky and moldy old ones.

Besides, real men eat their stakes rare, or rather bleu.
 ;)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Skorp1o on July 22, 2014, 06:33:52 AM
This is why it's great to avoid attachment and putting all your eggs in one basket.

If I am seeing a girl and she pulls a trick like this, there's 4 waiting to fill her shoes and would do a much better job at blowin and ridin...if married and mortgaged, tough shit  :-X

Saying that, I know a married friend of mine and he barely satisfies his wife when on 750mg test, she has to get drilled regularly and he can't come off high test cos if it lol

Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Palpatine Q on July 22, 2014, 07:47:56 AM
This is why it's great to avoid attachment and putting all your eggs in one basket.

If I am seeing a girl and she pulls a trick like this, there's 4 waiting to fill her shoes and would do a much better job at blowin and ridin...if married and mortgaged, tough shit  :-X

Saying that, I know a married friend of mine and he barely satisfies his wife when on 750mg test, she has to get drilled regularly and he can't come off high test cos if it lol




Like somebody else said, communication is key.

Every girl I have ever dated seriously, including my present GF...is well aware that is unacceptable.

I'll never be "that guy"...the poor bastard that has to go eat shitty wings at Hooters to have some kind of interaction with a set of big tits. And has shitty sex 4 times a year with his crappy wife.  I refuse, I'll fuck someone else ...100% serious.

Not trying to sound like Joe Cool....its commonly accepted most women would never seriously date a guy that didnt work and had no ambition.


I would never seriously date someone who didnt enjoy sex and didnt have a healthy sex drive.  It's just as much of a reason to end things.

And its out in the open with me, I've said this to her face....LOL
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Natural Man on July 22, 2014, 07:51:00 AM
You mean that a woman isn't paying attention anymore, when a man tells her what to do?
boom, exactly. That's the problem with modern "communication".
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: phreak on July 22, 2014, 07:57:12 AM
No, you got it all wrong!

You have to tell him over and over again not to drop used towels om the bathroom floor, but to hang them to dry. Otherwise he can pay for new towels to replace the stinky and moldy old ones.

Besides, real men eat their stakes rare, or rather bleu.
 ;)

I paid for the old towels as well, so I don't really give a shit. ;D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Skorp1o on July 22, 2014, 08:12:33 AM

Like somebody else said, communication is key.

Every girl I have ever dated seriously, including my present GF...is well aware that is unacceptable.

I'll never be "that guy"...the poor bastard that has to go eat shitty wings at Hooters to have some kind of interaction with a set of big tits. And has shitty sex 4 times a year with his crappy wife.  I refuse, I'll fuck someone else ...100% serious.

Not trying to sound like Joe Cool....its commonly accepted most women would never seriously date a guy that didnt work and had no ambition.


I would never seriously date someone who didnt enjoy sex and didnt have a healthy sex drive.  It's just as much of a reason to end things.

And its out in the open with me, I've said this to her face....LOL


LOL awesome

Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Skorp1o on July 22, 2014, 08:18:27 AM
BTW Army of One

This thread is actually good, this means you're averaging ok for the day  :D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 22, 2014, 08:21:56 AM
I paid for the old towels as well, so I don't really give a shit. ;D

Your sister gave them as a gift for our new home...
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 22, 2014, 08:58:20 AM
No, you got it all wrong!

You have to tell him over and over again not to drop used towels om the bathroom floor, but to hang them to dry. Otherwise he can pay for new towels to replace the stinky and moldy old ones.

Besides, real men eat their stakes rare, or rather bleu.
 ;)

As for being a woman, you display some strong opinions here  :o :D

Your sister gave them as a gift for our new home...

Touché!
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: phreak on July 22, 2014, 09:08:10 AM
As for being a woman, you display some strong opinions here  :o :D

Touché!

She lived in with me for 5 long years, paying me nothing. So yeah, paid for those too. And her new laptop last year. :P
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Bertha Butt on July 22, 2014, 09:16:40 AM
As for being a woman, you display some strong opinions here  :o :D

A cast iron frying pan in one hand, a wooden rolling pin in the other...
 ;D
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: phreak on July 22, 2014, 09:19:42 AM
A cast iron frying pan in one hand, a wooden rolling pin in the other...
 ;D

and a cock in your mouth, so at least you're quiet. ::)


 ;)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 22, 2014, 09:31:22 AM
^^

 8)
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-f-AJ7aYvh9U/ULY9TwjfAEI/AAAAAAAAAIw/TRQ0CjtdteA/s320/eat-popcorn-3D.gif)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: tommywishbone on July 22, 2014, 03:21:12 PM
What kind of disgusting pig goes to the gym, workouts and then doesn't shower before bed?  Jesus fucking Christ what a diabolical pig.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 22, 2014, 03:55:43 PM
What kind of disgusting pig goes to the gym, workouts and then doesn't shower before bed?  Jesus fucking Christ what a diabolical pig.

Maybe you haven't discovered the power of pheromones yet...

(http://pheromoneresearchcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/homepageimage.jpg)
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Hulkotron on July 22, 2014, 03:58:17 PM
It's like when you put your finger in your butt and sniff it and get slightly aroused.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Wolfox on July 22, 2014, 04:04:28 PM

Spreadsheet....what a fucking wimp.  If I wanted some ass, I didn't ask..I took

Gotta agree with Vince.

I don't wanna sound like a caveman but I never ask.  

I simple initiate and the sex is reciprocal.

If you have to ask you're already failing.
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: HavoX on July 25, 2014, 11:27:21 AM
How did it ennd?
Title: Re: Husband sends wife spreadsheet showing she turned him down for sex 25/28 times
Post by: Papper on July 25, 2014, 12:52:11 PM
If you have a son....you only have to worry about one dick during the teenage years.

If you have a daughter.....you have to worry about all the dicks on the planet.

Hopefully not all dicks