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Title: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: Army of One on August 07, 2014, 03:06:13 PM
"As the title says, I heard from my mother and my aunt that they were sexually abused by their older brother. My mother is similar in age to my uncle (about 2 years apart) and he began raping her when she was around 11 until she was around 16, even going as far as allowing his friends to rape her while she was sleeping and he had a rowdy party. My aunt is much younger, the baby of the family, and she told me that when he was 18 he would force her to perform oral sex on him (she was four years old). I hate this man more than anyone or anything in the world. In my eyes, he is a pedophile monster that should be in jail. However, my mom and her sister are perfectly content to pretend it never happened, and treat him just like any other family member. I respect their privacy in this matter, and have not told any other family members. Up until this point I have not seen him in person since I was told about the abuse they faced. I am going to visit my mother's side of the family in a few weeks, and there is a large family reunion specifically for my Grandmother's birthday. He will be there. I honestly have no idea how to react, and I am having a great deal of anxiety just thinking about the situation.
I want to respect their wishes and privacy, but I can't pretend that he isn't a piece of shit pedophile. I have a little niece who will be there too, and the idea of him anywhere near her makes me want to vomit. Please offer me any advice, I am so lost as to what to do/how to act."

http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2cw1n8/my_uncle_sexually_abused_my_mother_and_her_sister/
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: da_vinci on August 07, 2014, 03:11:29 PM
He should arrange a foursome to even things out and get this out of his system once and for all.


That or just kill him...
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: TheShape. on August 07, 2014, 03:40:34 PM
I believe a castration is in order!
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: thegamechanger on August 07, 2014, 04:07:49 PM
blablabla more cut n paste from reddit thats got nothing to do with bodybuilding
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: Army of One on August 07, 2014, 04:09:26 PM
blablabla more cut n paste from reddit thats got nothing to do with bodybuilding


The uncle is most likely a schmoe too, so bodybuilding related
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: Lustral on August 07, 2014, 04:13:17 PM
And the tough decision is? Kill him or turn him in? I dont get it. I would beat living shit out of him.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on August 07, 2014, 04:29:19 PM
I was waiting for the ending that his Uncle who did this was his father
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: The True Adonis on August 07, 2014, 04:54:01 PM
1. Collect evidence.  Get an admission of guilt.
2. Go to Police.


Simple as that.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: Lustral on August 07, 2014, 04:57:25 PM
1. Collect evidence.  Get an admission of guilt.
2. Go to Police.


Simple as that.

Hard to get evidence for crimes like that. If you believe the accusing party and trust them take justice into your own hands.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: The True Adonis on August 07, 2014, 05:11:45 PM
Hard to get evidence for crimes like that. If you believe the accusing party and trust them take justice into your own hands.
Someone like that mentioned in the story, just doesn`t give up his perversion.  I am sure if you followed him around long enough, did some snooping, gathering evidence could easily be accomplished.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: DanielPaul on August 07, 2014, 06:25:36 PM
Pics or it didn't happen....
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: hardgainerj on August 07, 2014, 06:28:06 PM
maybe the uncle is really his father :P
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: rocket on August 08, 2014, 02:40:31 AM
It's a female, not a male.

The people who were affected have moved on from the issue and do not wish to dredge it up and getting the guy convicted will indeed dredge it.  If she does anything to this guy, it will almost certainly make life tough for those she's apparently attempting to "help" out.

Also, this person is so amoral that it may be necessary to err, expire him, if you're going to bring violence upon him.

.. And he may not be a paedophile - at 18 years old, he may have simply perceived no way to get laid and basically amorally used that which was around him, to satisfy himself.

He certainly deserves something, but I'm wondering what it could be with the parameters involved.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: kreator on August 08, 2014, 02:45:30 AM
he should tell him that he knows and hope he commits suicide
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: SF1900 on August 08, 2014, 06:09:56 AM
It's a female, not a male.

The people who were affected have moved on from the issue and do not wish to dredge it up and getting the guy convicted will indeed dredge it.  If she does anything to this guy, it will almost certainly make life tough for those she's apparently attempting to "help" out.

Also, this person is so amoral that it may be necessary to err, expire him, if you're going to bring violence upon him.

.. And he may not be a paedophile - at 18 years old, he may have simply perceived no way to get laid and basically amorally used that which was around him, to satisfy himself.

He certainly deserves something, but I'm wondering what it could be with the parameters involved.


Wrong. You don't simply "move on" from trauma experiences like sexual abuse. I can almost bet it still haunts them to this day.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: MikMaq on August 08, 2014, 06:33:08 AM
I think the best bet is just to fuck with em.

Drop insect eggs allover his house. Load fish into his mattress. Fuck up his water supply.

Just the kind of shit, thatll make em think hes been cursed.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: 240 is Back on August 08, 2014, 12:44:32 PM
Statute of limitations has run out.   Legally, nothing to do except expose him at the party in front of everyone.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: orion on August 08, 2014, 01:38:00 PM
Rent a boat and say you want to go fishing with him.. nobody needs to know anything more.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: bigmc on August 08, 2014, 01:59:22 PM
Kill him

Anything else is not justice
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on August 08, 2014, 04:29:53 PM
Very easy to take him out via a "drug overdose"...GHB in his Shirley Temple followed by healthy amount of Heroin his his arm and then just cover his mouth and nose till he can't breathe and be done with it.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: Fortress on August 09, 2014, 07:25:47 AM
Perhaps since he has found "faith".

 ::)
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: benchmstr on August 09, 2014, 07:38:01 AM
1. Collect evidence.  Get an admission of guilt.
2. Go to Police.


Simple as that.
there is no evidence except for the complaint...and the statute of limitations of when it happen would come into play...

thats why Texas is awesome...no statute of limitations on sick bastard pedos..and on top of that here in Texas even if the family didnt want to press charges it wouldnt matter...in any domestic violece, or domestic assault(and this IS sexual assault) the state of Texas would file the charges on behalf of Texas..

bench
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: FermiDirac on August 09, 2014, 09:50:17 AM
Use 'stand your ground of peace' and shoot him with a 50-cal.
Title: Re: Guy on reddit has a tough situation, what would you do?
Post by: 240 is Back on August 09, 2014, 09:54:56 AM
Use 'stand your ground of peace' and shoot him with a 50-cal.

in Florida, yes.   that'd probably work. 


Just be sure to chase him 2 blocks while on the phone with 911 before "defending yourself" lol.

Ah, florida.