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My girlfriend of 5 years used to be married to a rich man. He's in prison for 20 years for stealing. We talked about engagement rings and she was like "Don't be intimidated by what you see." (She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband who's in prison.) I was like "I can rob a bank and steal 10 million too and then give you a nice ring." She got REAL mad.
Should I even stay with this? I doubt I'll be able to buy her a 40K ring anytime soon. She obviously puts value on that. Should I bail?
It's been a good relationship, but when we start talking about jewelry/ engagement shit it goes south real fast.
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My girlfriend of 5 years used to be married to a rich man. He's in prison for 20 years for stealing. We talked about engagement rings and she was like "Don't be intimidated by what you see." (She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband who's in prison.) I was like "I can rob a bank and steal 10 million too and then give you a nice ring." She got REAL mad.
Should I even stay with this? I doubt I'll be able to buy her a 40K ring anytime soon. She obviously puts value on that. Should I bail?
It's been a good relationship, but when we start talking about jewelry/ engagement shit it goes south real fast.
Wow man ... Stay away !
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My girlfriend of 5 years used to be married to a rich man. He's in prison for 20 years for stealing. We talked about engagement rings and she was like "Don't be intimidated by what you see." (She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband who's in prison.) I was like "I can rob a bank and steal 10 million too and then give you a nice ring." She got REAL mad.
Should I even stay with this? I doubt I'll be able to buy her a 40K ring anytime soon. She obviously puts value on that. Should I bail?
It's been a good relationship, but when we start talking about jewelry/ engagement shit it goes south real fast.
If it helps, I'm willing to stop ravaging her snatch seven days a week and reduce it to six.
Please let me know.
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If it helps, I'm willing to stop ravaging her snatch seven days a week and reduce it to six.
Please let me know.
That helps. Thanks. But it doesn't resolve my initial issue.
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Sorry, but if a woman puts much emphasis on a ring (and it's value) - she's pretty superficial/driven by her instinctive mind. Here's an analogy - if you think that a little bit of extra fat on her hips is a deal breaker and she's not a fitness fanatic type of girl - you will get issues eventually. Here's the same, if she's into "lots of money", you may experience some issues in the future (if you aren't going to get seriously rich).
Anyway, if you have at least some common sense - you should know her views and values by now.
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Anyway, if you have at least some common sense - you should know her views and values by now.
Here's the thing: We've been in this weird stasis the past couple of years. I have to pay alimony -- she's in nursing school. All that's coming to a head. Now that money is being freed up, she's a diff person.
It's like I don't know her.
Her flashing those diamonds and saying "Don't be intimidated." was a clutch moment.
I wanted to throw the glass/plate/hot dog at her and say "fuck you!"
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Pictors of her butthole, and I will re assess the situation.
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Here's the thing: We've been in this weird stasis the past couple of years. I have to pay alimony -- she's in nursing school. All that's coming to a head. Now that money is being freed up, she's a diff person.
It's like I don't know her.
Her flashing those diamonds and saying "Don't be intimidated." was a clutch moment.
I wanted to throw the glass/plate/hot dog at her and say "fuck you!"
In all seriousness, you're only seeing the "tip of the iceberg." I guarantee it will get worse from here on out.
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Bail.
No contact.
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Here's the thing: We've been in this weird stasis the past couple of years. I have to pay alimony -- she's in nursing school. All that's coming to a head. Now that money is being freed up, she's a diff person.
It's like I don't know her.
Her flashing those diamonds and saying "Don't be intimidated." was a clutch moment.
I wanted to throw the glass/plate/hot dot at her and say "fuck you!"
Not good. Females who are used to "free money" (and big money) sooner or later show that side in one way or another (the issue - most males have their head in the whores butt and doesn't notice anything), but it has been five years, and she's with you, and you are not rich.. maybe that was just a badly placed spontaneous remark, it happens too...
But that would be a red flag in my book, still. Depends on other details about her behavior.
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Not good. Females who are used to "free money" (and big money) sooner or later show that side in one way or another (the issue - most males have their head in the whores butt and doesn't notice anything), but it has been five years, and she's with you, and you are not rich.. maybe that was just a badly placed spontaneous remark, it happens too...
But that would be a red flag in my book, still. Depends on other details about her behavior.
No, I'm not rich. And things were swell while she was in nursing school.
But she just finished.
Now I'm getting this "don't be intimidated" bullshit from her diamonds and Rolex.
Strikes me as curious...
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No, I'm not rich. And things were swell while she was in nursing school.
But she just finished.
Now I'm getting this "don't be intimidated" bullshit from her diamonds and Rolex.
Strikes me as curious...
The fact that she has the balls to say that to you shows that she has very little regard for your feelings. Tell het to go find another white collar criminal to bilk.
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I hear warning sirens and see flashing lights. Not sure why, because it sounds like she's a keeper.
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The revolving door that opened to let her, opens just the same to let her out.
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The fact that she has the balls to say that to you shows that she has very little regard for your feelings. Tell het to go find another white collar criminal to bilk.
Yeah, the more I think about that, the more it pisses me off.
And she got absolutely insane when I said " I could go steal 10 million an buy you a nice ring."
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The fact that she has the nerve to wear old shit that her ex bought her while being with you would be enough for me to tell her to fuck off. Have her sell that shit or keep it away. She's yours now and shouldn't be wearing things given to her by other men.
Cut the fat. Like others have said, this is the tip of the iceberg.
If they get married, he should get a prenuptial agreement.
And if they do get married, it will only get worse. He is going to be in for a rude awakening.
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Pictors of her butthole, and I will re assess the situation.
This is the only way to know what "getbiggers play" will be.
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Yeah, the more I think about that, the more it pisses me off.
And she got absolutely insane when I said " I could go steal 10 million an buy you a nice ring."
The truth often has a certain sting to it. I think what you said was epic. Bravo.
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The truth often has a certain sting to it. I think what you said was epic. Bravo.
Good call. I think that sums up the whole situation.
She's trying to play rich chick on funds that has a man rotting in prison for 20 years.
Ugly any way you look at it.
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Chat, just now:
Me: Your "don't be intimidated" comment cut right to the heart. Big time.
Her: Your I'll go steal money comment cut deeper
Too low of a blow
Fucking bullshit
Me: The truth has a tendency to sting, I've been told
Her: Fuck u I guess it does
Me: Not gonna argue. Just wanted to let you know
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She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband
The fact that she has the nerve to wear old shit that her ex bought her while being with you would be enough for me to tell her. She's yours now and shouldn't be wearing things given to her by other men.
LoL.... this - daddy8ball, you're a bitch. Grow a pair and get rid of the skank.
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Chat, just now:
Me: Your "don't be intimidated" comment cut right to the heart. Big time.
Her: Your I'll go steal money comment cut deeper
Too low of a blow
Fucking bullshit
Me: The truth has a tendency to sting, I've been told
Her: Fuck u I guess it does
Me: Not gonna argue. Just wanted to let you know
Based on that conversation its quite obvious that neither of you were really listening to what the other had to say. You were more concerned about getting your own point across. I once read a great quote, "Most people only listen to the other to offer a rebuttal." Meaning, most people are only listening to another person in order to form their own defensive stance. They aren't REALLY listening.
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Get Out. Period. That being said, if you haven't figured her out by now, you will keep her around and be abused.
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Go to therapy, someone that is neutral will give you both the opportunity to speak instead of fighting. Men often are too macho to go, but if you love her, do it. If not, take some naked pics and put them on the icloud for us to see! ;D
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She saying up front, "don't be intimidated". I read that as she doesn't expect similar gifts from you, but she is not going to be getting rid of her jewelry from an earlier life. She is keeping her old jewelry because it is a significant source of wealth.
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What are yours and hers astrology signs?
Me: Taurus
Her: Sagittarius
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Better to see her true colors now then later.
I don't know anything about your GF other than what you've told me. Maybe she's a great person. However, women's flaws(like men's) don't usually get better over time, they get worse. Putting a ring on their finger essentially gives them permission to let the evil bitch that's inside of them come out and set up shop. That evil bitch inside of them is an enemy to be feared so if you are going to marry someone you better be sure she's the one.
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Her ex should never be brought up in any conversation...even the "don't be intimidated" comments.
If she really loves you, she'll take a string wrapped around her finger...literally. I would say ring pop but once she eats it, half of it would be gone :)
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My girlfriend of 5 years used to be married to a rich man. He's in prison for 20 years for stealing. We talked about engagement rings and she was like "Don't be intimidated by what you see." (She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband who's in prison.) I was like "I can rob a bank and steal 10 million too and then give you a nice ring." She got REAL mad.
Should I even stay with this? I doubt I'll be able to buy her a 40K ring anytime soon. She obviously puts value on that. Should I bail?
It's been a good relationship, but when we start talking about jewelry/ engagement shit it goes south real fast.
does she take it up the shitter
ultimately nothing else matters
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does she take it up the shitter
ultimately nothing else matters
Now now, the wench better do a splendid Sunday roast on top of that!
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does she take it up the shitter
ultimately nothing else matters
I can confirm - she does. But that's not the main issue this time.
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Me: Taurus
Her: Sagittarius
Saggy Tittarius - very bad.
Better leave now and burn all bridges than to be caught up in something that you do not like.
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My girlfriend of 5 years used to be married to a rich man. He's in prison for 20 years for stealing. We talked about engagement rings and she was like "Don't be intimidated by what you see." (She wears all the expensive jewelry from her ex husband who's in prison.) I was like "I can rob a bank and steal 10 million too and then give you a nice ring." She got REAL mad.
Should I even stay with this? I doubt I'll be able to buy her a 40K ring anytime soon. She obviously puts value on that. Should I bail?
It's been a good relationship, but when we start talking about jewelry/ engagement shit it goes south real fast.
What did the ex husband exactly do?
What type was she spending when she was married to the guy?
Was the guy profiled on American greed?
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I can confirm - she does. But that's not the main issue this time.
but what else can matter
has she refused ATM ???
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she's 'a different person, like you don't know her'. if you met her today would you still try?
they say people never change. but money ALWAYS changes people.
ask her how she would feel if you wore shit from your ex. it's the association. the fact that she's even comfortable, is actually defensive, speaks volumes. that shit should be worth nothing to her if he's worth nothing to her. especially given she knows you don't like it.
how long has the guy been in jail? i would wonder what her long term intentions are (ie, would she be back with him once he's out) before i even consider marriage.
Good post!
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The fact that she has the nerve to wear old shit that her ex bought her while being with you would be enough for me to tell her to fuck off. Have her sell that shit or keep it away. She's yours now and shouldn't be wearing things given to her by other men.
This!
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The fact that she has the nerve to wear old shit that her ex bought her while being with you would be enough for me to tell her to fuck off. Have her sell that shit or keep it away. She's yours now and shouldn't be wearing things given to her by other men.
Cut the fat. Like others have said, this is the tip of the iceberg.
eh.....I see your point, and it's obviously a sore spot here and justifiably so, the way she's making a big deal about expensive stuff
My girl has some shit from exes, nothing spectacular but some good stuff. she wears it if it matches what she's wearing or whatever. it's her stuff. I don't care. it's not like she puts it on and starts going down memory lane, it's a fucking bracelet.
that being said, if she acted like this chick, I'd rip it off her wrist and smash it into a million pieces. LOL
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I dont see the issue.
When she says "dont be intimidated" is she not basically telling you she does not expect the same from you?
If she had nice stuff she got before you met, should she no longer wear it?
Obviously i wasnt there to hear how she said it. You sure you arent taking it the wrong way?