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Last night, my wife and I were sitting together on the couch. She reached over and started rubbing my upper arm. It took all of my strength to NOT flex while she was groping. As she started getting into it and really feeling the contours, she said to me, "you have the PERFECT amount of muscle. If you were any more ripped, it would look like you don't do anything other than work out. You are at the perfect jacked-ness"
Now, I am not sure how to take this. Because I am a man, listening to a woman, I am parsing this furiously to determine WTF this means.
Does it mean:
- Exactly what she said. That she finds my current level of muscularity to be "perfect" in her eyes. Nothing more need be done?
- She loves me, so no matter what level of muscularity I achieve (or lose), she will consider it "perfect"?
- She doesn't consider my level of muscularity perfect at all. It needs to be much higher. She is just trying to make me feel good?
I did mention after she said those words that I wasn't done working out by a long shot and I planned to get bigger and more muscular and I wanted to make sure that she was OK with that. She said, "whatever you want to do, honey."
I do know that she really likes whatever muscles that I have and tends to make a point about that often. I have noticed her interest seems to be getting higher the more jacked I get. I am not sure that there is a limit there.
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sounds like she thinks you have a problem
good
because you have one
it's called being able to fit thru doorways
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Need pics of her puckered anus to give further advices.
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but srsly
this chick
she is like the dominican
the ultimate manupilator
she playing you like a violin
we all know your muscle is not the perfect amount
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not sure
playing chess in the dark here with the little information you have provided
this is the perfect amount btw (note the lats are perfectly parallel to the forearm with only 5" space between them, now hit this shot in the mirror and take notes)
we must pursue this ideal tirelessly and relentlessly and let nothing get in our way
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She is saying that if you get any bigger people will assume that you are a meathead who does not have a job and you just lift weights all day cause that is what she thinks big bodybuilders do.
Now you need to show her a picture of ronnie coleman and tell her you are planning to be that big and if she has a problem with it then she can get the fuck out and point at the door while doing this.
This picture should do the trick.
(https://nutritionandpersonaltraining.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/ronnie.jpg)
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Halo is speaking directly to my inner demons...
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Halo is speaking directly to my inner demons...
i cant help it
your posts reads as if it were written by myself
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we must pursue this ideal tirelessly and relentlessly and let nothing get in our way
Heterosexuality is the only thing that could stop you.
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Heterosexuality is the only thing that could stop you.
are you implying ronald dean is a gay homosexual?
that is the most proposterous insane accusation i read all day
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are you implying ronald dean is a gay homosexual?
that is the most proposterous insane accusation i read all day
How long till your arms measure 18 inches?
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How long till your arms measure 18 inches?
i dont know
this job is really an obstacle
cant wait for my next period of unemployment and make sick gains
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i dont know
this job is really an obstacle
cant wait for my next period of unemployment and make sick gains
When are you planning to inject your cock so it can get thicker.
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When are you planning to inject your cock so it can get thicker.
Halos current cock size not thick enough for you?
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Halos current cock size not thick enough for you?
;D ;D ;D ;D
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Last night, my wife and I were sitting together on the couch. She reached over and started rubbing my upper arm. It took all of my strength to NOT flex while she was groping. As she started getting into it and really feeling the contours, she said to me, "you have the PERFECT amount of muscle. If you were any more ripped, it would look like you don't do anything other than work out. You are at the perfect jacked-ness"
Now, I am not sure how to take this. Because I am a man, listening to a woman, I am parsing this furiously to determine WTF this means.
Does it mean:
- Exactly what she said. That she finds my current level of muscularity to be "perfect" in her eyes. Nothing more need be done?
- She loves me, so no matter what level of muscularity I achieve (or lose), she will consider it "perfect"?
- She doesn't consider my level of muscularity perfect at all. It needs to be much higher. She is just trying to make me feel good?
I did mention after she said those words that I wasn't done working out by a long shot and I planned to get bigger and more muscular and I wanted to make sure that she was OK with that. She said, "whatever you want to do, honey."
I do know that she really likes whatever muscles that I have and tends to make a point about that often. I have noticed her interest seems to be getting higher the more jacked I get. I am not sure that there is a limit there.
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Which indicates that deep down inside she is not happy with your physique. if you get bigger, she will love it. the more jacked you get, the more she will like your body. she is hinting at you to get bigger and bigger.
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She's like deeply bothered, why this dude she has to fuck, has such a bizarre obsession.
Seriously, told a girl I was dating the other night I wish I was bigger, and she just looked at me like WTF!!!!!!
Not because I'm huge by no means, but because it's just such commoner shit to her.
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Which indicates that deep down inside she is not happy with your physique. if you get bigger, she will love it. the more jacked you get, the more she will like your body. she is hinting at you to get bigger and bigger.
I think you might be right, although she MIGHT be hinting that she has limits.
She also might be doing the old "I don't want you to be too attractive since I can't keep track of you 24x7" thing.
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She's like deeply bothered, why this dude she has to fuck, has such a bizarre obsession.
Seriously, told a girl I was dating the other night I wish I was bigger, and she just looked at me like WTF!!!!!!
Not because I'm huge by no means, but because it's just such commoner shit to her.
Her obsession with exercise exceeds mine. Today, she spent over 2 hours in the gym with hard lifting, HIIT and some cardio.
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Her obsession with exercise exceeds mine. Today, she spent over 2 hours in the gym with hard lifting, HIIT and some cardio.
ah could be passive aggressive jealousy, or she pissed you can fit through door
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I think you might be right, although she MIGHT be hinting that she has limits.
She also might be doing the old "I don't want you to be too attractive since I can't keep track of you 24x7" thing.
as long as you do not wind up looking like a freak of nature (pro bodybuilders) she will love your physique.
then again, there is a chance she may be hinting at you not to get bigger because she does not want you to be too attractive. however, if she has an awesome body then this point does not matter. if shes out of shape, then, yeah, she may become jealous.
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You are old enough to know better than to believe what a woman says. I am disappoint.
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as long as you do not wind up looking like a freak of nature (pro bodybuilders) she will love your physique.
then again, there is a chance she may be hinting at you not to get bigger because she does not want you to be too attractive. however, if she has an awesome body then this point does not matter. if shes out of shape, then, yeah, she may become jealous.
She has an awesome body, but she's a woman, so she's gonna be naturally jealous.
I think she likes size, but not too ripped. Which is great for me, because I don't have the mental toughness to get into low single digits.
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women want a beautiful tall muscular well endowed rich man with full head of hair, impeccable teeth and good skin
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I dated a girl who was probably starting on her way down, hitting 26 and starting to age...
right as I discovered weightlifting and started to look the best I'd ever looked. She hated it.
"I would break up with you if you ever became one of those super muscly guys".
No, not the case.
In your case, I dunno... She did use the word "jacked-ness", which I'd give props for. However, if she ever uses the word "swag", it's time to move on.
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women want a beautiful tall muscular well endowed rich man with full head of hair, impeccable teeth and good skin
Sounds like I am good to go then.
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Does she know you needle?
Also, I thought you just wanted to put on a few lbs? Sounds like you want more. ;)
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Does she know you needle?
Also, I thought you just wanted to put on a few lbs? Sounds like you want more. ;)
this is how it goes
first it starts with 250 mg per week
very soon, 1 gram barrier
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this is how it goes
first it starts with 250 mg per week
very soon, 1 gram barrier
I am actually thinking of going down to true TRT.
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She has an awesome body, but she's a woman, so she's gonna be naturally jealous.
I think she likes size, but not too ripped. Which is great for me, because I don't have the mental toughness to get into low single digits.
all people are jealous in a relationship, even men. jealousy is a natural, human emotion. obviously, some people are more jealous than others. but i think jealousy exists in all relationships for both men and women.
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I am actually thinking of going down to true TRT.
might as well go off completely
true trt is what
200mg per fortnight?
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Would she consider using herself? Little anavar isnt uncommon these days even with female gymrats and fitness enthusiasts.
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Would she consider using herself? Little anavar isnt uncommon these days even with female gymrats and fitness enthusiasts.
dont start this bullshit
women need to lay off the steroids goddamnit!
i ABSOLUTELY HATE WOMEN WITH RECEIDING HAIR even more than i hate my own hair
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Would she consider using herself? Little anavar isnt uncommon these days even with female gymrats and fitness enthusiasts.
LOL, no. She won't even drink a protein shake.
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we all know that anything under 18" arms leaves room for doubt with the girls
/end thread
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we all know that anything under 18" arms leaves room for doubt with the girls
/end thread
exactly anything from 16,5-17,5 is basically "his arm is muscley teehee"
but i think once i get 18" shredded not marshelonic arm
it will be like
"I WANT HIM BABIES NOW AND I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY BUT FOR THE LOVE OF JEHOVA LOOK AT THAT ARM, LOOOOKK AATTT ITTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!"
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exactly anything from 16,5-17,5 is basically "his arm is muscley teehee"
but i think once i get 18" shredded not marshelonic arm
it will be like
"I WANT HIM BABIES NOW AND I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY BUT FOR THE LOVE OF JEHOVA LOOK AT THAT ARM, LOOOOKK AATTT ITTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!"
YES 8)
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do you really think this guy can go clubbing and NOT get all the bbabess?
it is a scientific fact that he would get all the 18 years chocolate pussies super wet
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im sure you do look great to her, but its the intention behind the words, not the meaning.
women dont want you to be 'better', esp when you are theirs.
the more average they can keep you, the longer they feel they can keep you.
if he looks to good hes going to cheat on me w the hot 25 year old in spandex at the gym mentailty at play here.
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do you really think this guy can go clubbing and NOT get all the bbabess?
it is a scientific fact that he would get all the 18 years chocolate pussies super wet
all the babes?
a cute blond, a busted looking dominican, and 3 guys.
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all the babes?
a cute blond, a busted looking dominican, and 3 guys.
say that in roelly's presence and he will fuck you up
99% guaranteed
thats his sister you homo
im sure you do look great to her, but its the intention behind the words, not the meaning.
women dont want you to be 'better', esp when you are theirs.
the more average they can keep you, the longer they feel they can keep you.
if he looks to good hes going to cheat on me w the hot 25 year old in spandex at the gym mentailty at play here.
they also want you to be as miserable as humanly possible when they leave you
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they also want you to be as miserable as humanly possible when they leave you
chicks are a weird species bro.
best to be copulated with and left alone.
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chicks are a weird species bro.
best to be copulated with and left alone.
thats what youtube bodybuilding guru eliot hulse says
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im sure you do look great to her, but its the intention behind the words, not the meaning.
women dont want you to be 'better', esp when you are theirs.
the more average they can keep you, the longer they feel they can keep you.
if he looks to good hes going to cheat on me w the hot 25 year old in spandex at the gym mentailty at play here.
This.
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im sure you do look great to her, but its the intention behind the words, not the meaning.
women dont want you to be 'better', esp when you are theirs.
the more average they can keep you, the longer they feel they can keep you.
if he looks to good hes going to cheat on me w the hot 25 year old in spandex at the gym mentailty at play here.
This has the ring of truth here.
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Last night, my wife and I were sitting together on the couch. She reached over and started rubbing my upper arm. It took all of my strength to NOT flex while she was groping. As she started getting into it and really feeling the contours, she said to me, "you have the PERFECT amount of muscle. If you were any more ripped, it would look like you don't do anything other than work out. You are at the perfect jacked-ness"
Now, I am not sure how to take this. Because I am a man, listening to a woman, I am parsing this furiously to determine WTF this means.
Does it mean:
- Exactly what she said. That she finds my current level of muscularity to be "perfect" in her eyes. Nothing more need be done?
- She loves me, so no matter what level of muscularity I achieve (or lose), she will consider it "perfect"?
- She doesn't consider my level of muscularity perfect at all. It needs to be much higher. She is just trying to make me feel good?
I did mention after she said those words that I wasn't done working out by a long shot and I planned to get bigger and more muscular and I wanted to make sure that she was OK with that. She said, "whatever you want to do, honey."
I do know that she really likes whatever muscles that I have and tends to make a point about that often. I have noticed her interest seems to be getting higher the more jacked I get. I am not sure that there is a limit there.
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my wife mentioned the other day that she really likes how my arms keep getting bigger/more defined, but she wants me to make them bigger, because the bigger they get the more it turns her on.
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all people are jealous in a relationship, even men. jealousy is a natural, human emotion. obviously, some people are more jealous than others. but i think jealousy exists in all relationships for both men and women.
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yup
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I remember bulking and having a gut(endomorph problems) and her saying "I love your belly" then becoming ultra shredded for spring and her saying "I was obsessed" when actually only thing that changed was my diet and I had in fact started spending less time in the gym than before... They just don't want you to look any better. Once you start looking better then you get more attention from the other girls.. Simple woman mind tricks
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She clearly doesn't think you have it in you to get any bigger. It's obvious that deep down she is ashamed at how small you are. However, she's trying to be a good wife and act satisfied with the fact that you are currently only half a man. If I were you, I would get up right now and go to the gym, then come home and eat 10 chicken breasts.
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woman never say what they mean
she is basically saying she is starting to get insecure about the way you look
its a warning to step off that path
an insecure woman in a relationship is the devil
that insecurity will be used to punish you for the perceived wrong of putting pressure on her to look good
that's how their minds work
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woman never say what they mean
she is basically saying she is starting to get insecure about the way you look
its a warning to step off that path
an insecure woman in a relationship is the devil
that insecurity will be used to punish you for the perceived wrong of putting pressure on her to look good
that's how their minds work
one time baby mama tell me she doesnt like i'm trying to get huge
i said
but you think ronald coleman and philippe look so good?
and she said
"i like it for them, not for you"
??? ;D
it means she knows women (like her) go mad for a muscular man
and she dont want the babes to snatch me away from her
i think
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I wanted to make sure that she was OK with that.
Gayer than making sure your wife is 'OK' with something.
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Gayer than making sure your wife is 'OK' with something.
I take it you aren't married...
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I take it you aren't married...
Is your main motivation to workout to please your wife?
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Is your main motivation to workout to please your wife?
I wouldn't say that it's the main one, but I do very much like looking good for her. And her appreciation of the work that I do is very motivating.
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woman never say what they mean
she is basically saying she is starting to get insecure about the way you look
its a warning to step off that path
an insecure woman in a relationship is the devil
that insecurity will be used to punish you for the perceived wrong of putting pressure on her to look good
that's how their minds work
Bingo.
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Is your main motivation to workout to please your wife?
theres a fine line, its one thing to not let your wife walk all over you, its quite another to intentionally ignore her and piss her off. Thats a quick way to a miserable marriage.
Its important to communicate and take her wishes into consideration, even if it only LOOKS like youre trying to compromise, it makes them feel like you half ass give a shit about them.
If youre constantly going against her without talking aboug it/finding a middle ground, youll be miserable really quick.
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you me and nobody on here will ever be a prime levrone
epic muscles and movie star good looks
just work with what you got
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i cant help it
your posts reads as if it were written by myself
AJ, if this post doesn't make you break out in a cold sweat, you are in deep shit.
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AJ, if this post doesn't make you break out in a cold sweat, you are in deep shit.
Trust me...
I did LOL, though.
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bro you've been talking about wanting this for months and it's finally happening. don't read too much into it. enjoy the praises, reciprocate.
you want some clarity about what she likes, ask her to find a pic of her ideal body image for both herself and a man. you do the same for yourself and a woman. there's nothing vague about it this way.
She's a woman: nailing her down on anything like this would be almost impossible.
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Trust me...
I did LOL, though.
it was not a joke
just fyi
in b4 AJ's wife leaves him for "treating her like shit since he uses drugs from internet to get huge"
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LOL, no. She won't even drink a protein shake.
Is she aware of all the "super supplementation" in the industry even with women?
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in a survey conducted by the anabolic halo institute of bodybuilding science 99 out of 100 women said this was the ideal size for a man's muscles
(http://beastmotivation.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/10363361_798712440180736_4715126973844338440_n.jpg)
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it was not a joke
just fyi
in b4 AJ's wife leaves him for "treating her like shit since he uses drugs from internet to get huge"
If it happens, Getbig will be the first to know.
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I think 220 at 10% for a 5'10 guy is perfect.
That's my goal. Should be doable with 2 years on the super supps.
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Just curious aj, was your wife previously into fitness on her own or would you say that you inspired her?
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If it happens, Getbig will be the first to know.
it's pretty rough with ups and downs
lack of golden pussy and deliscious cooking is no joke
the upside is a lot more free time, and home is always quiet and empty (that can be negative depends)
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Just curious aj, was your wife previously into fitness on her own or would you say that you inspired her?
She was a group fitness instructor long before I met her. Working out was a "mutual interest".
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all people are jealous in a relationship, even men. jealousy is a natural, human animal emotion. obviously, some people are more jealous than others. but i think jealousy exists in all relationships for both men and women.
Fixed.
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She was a group fitness instructor long before I met her. Working out was a "mutual interest".
That's cool.
Like I said before brother, you're living the dream.
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That's cool.
Like I said before brother, you're living the dream.
she can also cook deliscous bodybuilding foods
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Rumor has it that your wife is having an affair. She's probably just trying to let you down easy.
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AJ is so much like me
always trying to get his wife to worship his arms
lol
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You can never trust what a woman says because they never say what they really mean. If they see some other woman they hate they will say it o their friend,"can you believe those awful shoes she's wearing?" Then compliment the other chicks shoes as soon as she says hello. Just be glad she was talking about your arms and not your dick.
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AJ is so much like me
always trying to get his wife to worship his arms
lol
And she keeps moving the goalposts around >:(
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You can never trust what a woman says because they never say what they really mean. If they see some other woman they hate they will say it o their friend,"can you believe those awful shoes she's wearing?" Then compliment the other chicks shoes as soon as she says hello. Just be glad she was talking about your arms and not your dick.
So proud of so many getbiggers who understand women. :)