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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Howard on January 06, 2015, 05:17:47 AM
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https://www.yahoo.com/style/shelby-swink-was-dating-her-boyfriend-for-two-107225465628.html
Look folks, I'm no woman but I'm not heartless either and can understand why she felt hurt.
But I just don't get the thinking here:
1. The guy told her he didn't love her and wanted out. Ok, so she's butt hurt, wtf, was he supposed to just marry her anyway because she bought a nice gown and made wedding plans?
2. How does trashing an expensive gown YOU purchased make you feel better?
To me, it would make MORE sense to keep it and end up getting married in it, to a guy who loved her.
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I'm guessing if she saved it for her next
wedding it would be bad luck...or if someone
sees the article they'll say ....don't worry baby
I would marry you...haha
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She's fat and ugly. No wonder the guy backed out.
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Look at the state of women we have to contend with, 4 out of 5 are certified fatties to morbidly obese.This is the ratio we have to contend with when out and about in town, I don't bother going out anymore for this, I just smoke a cigar somewhere quiet and re-cycle my whatsapp contacts.
(https://s.yimg.com/cd/resizer/2.0/FIT_TO_WIDTH-w500/56a8fab29ce51f0689b7280835b153751c9a9493.jpg)
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Look at the state of women we have to contend with, 4 out of 5 are certified fatties to morbidly obese.This is the ratio we have to contend with when out and about in town, I don't bother going out anymore for this, I just smoke a cigar somewhere quiet and re-cycle my whatsapp contacts.
(https://s.yimg.com/cd/resizer/2.0/FIT_TO_WIDTH-w500/56a8fab29ce51f0689b7280835b153751c9a9493.jpg)
Amen
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Look at the state of women we have to contend with, 4 out of 5 are certified fatties to morbidly obese.This is the ratio we have to contend with when out and about in town, I don't bother going out anymore for this, I just smoke a cigar somewhere quiet and re-cycle my whatsapp contacts.
(https://s.yimg.com/cd/resizer/2.0/FIT_TO_WIDTH-w500/56a8fab29ce51f0689b7280835b153751c9a9493.jpg)
Behind that smiling face, you can tell there is deep hurt. I bet she is talking to her friends, laughing and smiling, and saying, "Yeah, I really don't care that he broke up with me. His loss." But she can only hold up this facade for so long. She can only hold back the tears for so long. She can only be strong for so long, pretending not to care. At night, when she is alone and all is quiet, and she looks out her window at the black starry night, she looks down and realizes that she is clutching a stuffed teddy bear in her hands, and not her ex-fiance, the flood gates of tears and hurt will be open like a flood gate. Now she is "naked" for the world to see. She can no longer hide her pain and desperation.
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Why is this even a news story? Does everyone's stupid life have to be news these days? I hate myself for even typing in this thread.
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Why is this even a news story? Does everyone's stupid life have to be news these days? I hate myself for even typing in this thread.
Because women get equal time in the media now and this is the stupid shit many of them care about.
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I'm fairly sure they ate the dress after covering it in mustard and caramel syrup.
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bingo!
Plenty of hurt girls often do this kind of lashing out nonsense after a break up.
Now, imagine what her ex-fiance' thought after seeing this gown trashing debacle.
If he had any doubts about NOT getting married, her psycho behavior removed them.
That's what females don't get when a guy breaks up with them.
When they go off and act mad/crazy, he feels like he dodged the proverbial bullet.
Far better to stay under control, act classy and THEN look as hot and sexy as possible.
Then the guy will feel he may have missed out on a cool , sexy looking woman.
PLUS, she is better able to land a new guy who treats her better.
You know what she could have done which would made a lot more sense? Donate her dress to a bride who wants to get married but cant afford a nice wedding dress.
Instead, she trashes an expensive dress to try to prove that she doesn't care. ::) ::)
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You know what she could have done which would made a lot more sense? Donate her dress to a bride who wants to get married but cant afford a nice wedding dress.
Instead, she trashes an expensive dress to try to prove that she doesn't care. ::) ::)
Great idea.
What she proved is that she was so pissed off she had to trash her expensive dress.
If you don't really give a shit, you don't react with much emotion.
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Great idea.
What she proved is that she was so pissed off she had to trash her expensive dress.
If you don't really give a shit, you don't react with much emotion.
I totally understand why she would not want to keep the dress, as the dress is associated with her ex-fiance. That is perfectly understandable. However, there are so many more better things to do with it than to just trash it.
As you stated, if she truly didn't give a shit, she would not have reacted with such emotion.
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Nah, no matter how fat or ugly a chick is she can post on TINDR,POF or Match.com and within minutes have about 100 messages from dudes telling them how hot they are. A woman can rebuild her confidence in minutes on these sites.
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Nah, no matter how fat or ugly a chick is she can post on TINDR,POF or Match.com and within minutes have about 100 messages from dudes telling them how hot they are. A woman can rebuild her confidence in minutes on these sites.
Yes but it will never be lasting. That's something they've began to find out.
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Why is this even a news story? Does everyone's stupid life have to be news these days? I hate myself for even typing in this thread.
THIS
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Nah, no matter how fat or ugly a chick is she can post on TINDR,POF or Match.com and within minutes have about 100 messages from dudes telling them how hot they are. A woman can rebuild her confidence in minutes on these sites.
Internet dating has convinced everyone that they are 10's. :-\ :-\
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Look at the state of women we have to contend with, 4 out of 5 are certified fatties to morbidly obese.This is the ratio we have to contend with when out and about in town, I don't bother going out anymore for this, I just smoke a cigar somewhere quiet and re-cycle my whatsapp contacts.
(https://s.yimg.com/cd/resizer/2.0/FIT_TO_WIDTH-w500/56a8fab29ce51f0689b7280835b153751c9a9493.jpg)
It sounds like you need Boulder, Colorado.
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It might be fun to see her response if the guy comes back the day after she trashes the dress and begs her to marry him ( again).
My bet is she would be more mad at herself for trashing the dress then at him for backing out the 1st time?
The wedding is a show for the bride to get her fill of attention.
If they cared more about love/romance, they would be more worried about the honeymoon then the wedding.
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It might be fun to see her response if the guy comes back the day after she trashes the dress and begs her to marry him ( again).
My bet is she would be more mad at herself for trashing the dress then at him for backing out the 1st time?
The wedding is a show for the bride to get her fill of attention.
If they cared more about love/romance, they would be more worried about the honeymoon then the wedding.
most guys i know could give 2 shits about a wedding. they would get married anywhere. as you stated, its all for the bride.