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Title: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Slapper on January 29, 2015, 06:12:30 PM
I would.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Wiggs on January 29, 2015, 06:16:47 PM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Thong Maniac on January 29, 2015, 06:22:15 PM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.

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Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Bindare_Dundat on January 29, 2015, 06:32:12 PM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.


Fag


P.S. Youre hand wont be able to make that suggestion, so you have nothing to fear.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 29, 2015, 06:35:15 PM
Depends on if she was living with me or not and how hot she was.  Just detach emotionally and start spinning other plates. When a better one comes along  dump her
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 29, 2015, 06:45:05 PM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.


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Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Slapper on January 29, 2015, 06:46:22 PM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.

It's not me or my wife that want an open relationship.

I would not mind if it were all in equal terms: No sex in the house you live in, no sex with neighbors, always wear a condom, no drinking involved and no emotional attachment.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: SF1900 on January 29, 2015, 06:47:31 PM
Open relationships hardly ever work out. No matter how macho the guy wants to seem, he will regret it.

Remember, woman have a lot easier time getting sex than a man. While she is out having sex with 10 other dudes, you will be sitting home watching porn.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Parker on January 29, 2015, 06:47:44 PM
I would.
If she decided to get down with a cop, you wouldn't.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: polychronopolous on January 29, 2015, 06:51:10 PM
If she decided to get down with a cop, you wouldn't.

As much as slapper carries on about the police I think he's got some skeletons in the closet as far as that subject is concerned.
Title: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Slapper on January 29, 2015, 06:52:30 PM
Think about it for a second, your dick is most likely not the first, or last, that she's going to see.

From an emotional perspective it makes no sense. From a sexual perspective it's the way to go.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Slapper on January 29, 2015, 06:54:35 PM
If she decided to get down with a cop, you wouldn't.

One night? I wouldn't mind.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Dave D on January 29, 2015, 06:58:04 PM
Depends on if she was living with me or not and how hot she was.  Just detach emotionally and start spinning other plates. When a better one comes along  dump her

Come on now bro....... is this what you'd like to do? Because based on every other relationship youve been in it doesn't seem like this is your normal reaction.

Not hatin just saying..
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Parker on January 29, 2015, 06:59:49 PM
It's not me or my wife that want an open relationship.

I would not mind if it were all in equal terms: No sex in the house you live in, no sex with neighbors, always wear a condom, no drinking involved and no emotional attachment.

See, this is the thing, open relationship/swinging has all these stipulation, rules, etc.


One night? I wouldn't mind.
And it would come up anytime you rant about the police.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Slapper on January 29, 2015, 07:04:23 PM
See, this is the thing, open relationship/swinging has all these stipulation, rules, etc.

And it would come up anytime you rant about the police.

Leave the police in the police thread.

I just find it funny that most guys can't fathom their significant other being with another guy. Yet, unless you married a virgin, hate to break it to you, that's pretty much what happened.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: TheShape. on January 29, 2015, 07:05:13 PM
I'd dump her, end of story.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: polychronopolous on January 29, 2015, 07:05:49 PM
See, this is the thing, open relationship/swinging has all these stipulation, rules, etc.

And it would come up anytime you rant about the police.

I was thinking more along the lines of him being handcuffed in the corner, being told his Miranda Rights while the cop goes to town.  8)
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Erik C on January 29, 2015, 07:21:45 PM
If you let a woman sleep around, then she will, because she thinks, that if you let her sleep around, then you don't really love her. What a woman really wants is for you to be territorial, and tell her in no uncertain terms that she is your personal property, and no one else gets to touch her. She'll even forgive you for your personal polygamous tendencies, when she knows you aren't going to get rid of her, for some other woman, permanently.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 29, 2015, 07:29:35 PM
Leave the police in the police thread.

I just find it funny that most guys can't fathom their significant other being with another guy. Yet, unless you married a virgin, hate to break it to you, that's pretty much what happened.

Yes.  I can be pretty sure everyone is aware of that , adults dont hold people's PASTS against them.

You want to fuck  somebody else now, then we have a problem
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: ritch on January 29, 2015, 07:31:11 PM
Never. I don't share my lunch. The thought of kissing her if she had some other cock in her mouth that day is disgusting. I'm way too old school for that.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: The Scott on January 29, 2015, 09:08:06 PM
Being a cuckold is the last bastion of the Free Range Omega Male.  No real man shares his woman.  Only a disgusting little soft peni prevert does so.

Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Primemuscle on January 29, 2015, 09:10:45 PM
As much as this might be fun to think about sometimes, I am a traditionalist when it comes to relationships. One partner at a time is fine with me.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Mike on January 29, 2015, 09:14:08 PM
Ill answer the question with another question:

Have you ever heard of an open relationship having long term success?

Every single one is fun in the beginning but the guilt and inequality of the desires are too great
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 30, 2015, 12:22:13 AM
Come on now bro....... is this what you'd like to do? Because based on every other relationship youve been in it doesn't seem like this is your normal reaction.

Not hatin just saying..

That's because I hadn't been chewed out and eaten alive by a woman yet like my last relationship lol...every guy has to get his heart broken at least once to  be able to disconnect emotionally like Im telling the OP to do. Could I do it before my last relationship? fuck No but I can do it now.

I guess if You date enough eventually you will meet the alpha widow, she's a great actress, attractive, usually very bright and manipulative...  makes herself out to be  this little innocent girl who always gets fucked over by assholes. She  needs to be rescued and your her knight in shining armor. You feel like a million bucks because  Your too busy  playing  captainsaveahoe and actually believing the compliments  she tells you (the same compliments that she probably gave every other guy she date lol) ;D before you know it she's got you wrapped around your finger in an exclusive relationship, or worse in love .......now you really fucked.

Guys get lazy when they lock down a hot piece of ass hell I am  guilty of it, but I learned from the past and now I'm always spinning plates.I don't make women my life but I try  to make a conscious effort to approach one girl  a day.  Coffee, gym, or whatever.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: MAXX on January 30, 2015, 12:24:49 AM
Nope. That's for mental cases.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 30, 2015, 12:31:14 AM
Open relationships hardly ever work out. No matter how macho the guy wants to seem, he will regret it.

Remember, woman have a lot easier time getting sex than a man. While she is out having sex with 10 other dudes, you will be sitting home watching porn.

Club/bar girls aside....Why does every guy think all women are like this? I know alot of attractive women who will go through dry spells. Most chicks  aren't looking to fuck every guy  they find good looking  ::)  they're looking for that 1   guy that gets them really wet.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: CalvinH on January 30, 2015, 08:24:02 AM
Everybody's idea of what a ''Normal'' relationship is can be different.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Howard on January 30, 2015, 08:41:11 AM
Good for you.  I'd dump the whore on the spot and throw her shit out of the window.  I'm dead serious.  Even for suggesting it even if it were another female she wanted to bring in.  I don't have time for foolishness and if that's what's on her mind, she's not going to stop until she accomplishes it.

Last divorce was over that issue.
I ended up divorcing her and dated another woman for the  next yr.
Broke up with that one and dated my ex wife for a couple years.
It was ok for awhile. I went over there 1 night a week and we spent most weekends and vacations together.
The sex was good but it got lonely for awhile and I knew she wasn't exclusive with me so wtf.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Tapeworm on January 30, 2015, 08:42:07 AM
That's called being fuck buddies.  No interest anymore but there was a time.

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Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Natural Man on January 30, 2015, 08:49:03 AM
Club/bar girls aside....Why does every guy think all women are like this? I know alot of attractive women who will go through dry spells. Most chicks  aren't looking to fuck every guy  they find good looking  ::)  they're looking for that 1   guy that gets them really wet.
stfu with your stupid generalities: women just like men repeat what they ve been conditionned to, exposed to. Want to know where you re going? look at where you come from. It all depend of how one was raised.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Ronnie Rep on January 30, 2015, 01:02:24 PM
No fucking way. What's the point of being married?
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on January 30, 2015, 01:57:55 PM
roundhouse kick to the side of the head.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Primemuscle on January 30, 2015, 02:25:37 PM
Look its really fucking simple.

You marry your wife etc not because you want to stay monogamous for the rest of your life.....be in love....blah blah blah.....all that crock of shit the movies have fed you...only beta bitches fall for that shit before they ALL eventually get fucked etc.

You marry her so she can cook, clean the dishes, take the garbage out, do your ironing, make you steak sandwiches in the middle of the night, give your regular blowjobs, take care of your house and kids if you have them etc.

Then you fuck all your little girlfriends on the side like any normal man would and just make sure she doesn't find out about it.

No need for this open relationship bullshit.

You do what the fuck you want, she can't....that's the way a real fucking boss should roll.




Are you married?
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 30, 2015, 02:27:52 PM
Club/bar girls aside....Why does every guy think all women are like this? I know alot of attractive women who will go through dry spells. Most chicks  aren't looking to fuck every guy  they find good looking  ::)  they're looking for that 1   guy that gets them really wet.

Flint gaining knowledge.  My GF went 20 months without a date before we met. They arent all "whores"  I hate to break it to 95% of the male population who  thinks that's true
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Man of Steel on January 30, 2015, 06:20:37 PM
absolutely... would be down in a heartbeat 

 ::)
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Pray_4_War on January 30, 2015, 11:00:31 PM
I'd bang all of her hot friends and then dump her.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: rooseveltdunn on January 30, 2015, 11:23:13 PM
Ill answer the question with another question:

Have you ever heard of an open relationship having long term success?

Every single one is fun in the beginning but the guilt and inequality of the desires are too great

Usually in most open relationships one half of the couple has the real power while the other half has the illusion of it. 70% of the time its simply bisexual women getting their freak on with other women (and also men) while their husbands go along in order to get extra pussy, 25% of the time its usually a cuckold situation in which the men get off on watching their women get plowed by bulls(the common term for the guys doing the plowing); usually these are men with latent homosexual tendencies. The remaining 5% are what I call the true swingers, egalitarian full swap couples that mess around equally. Majority of the time the categories you are gonna get are the first two.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: SF1900 on January 30, 2015, 11:25:59 PM
Club/bar girls aside....Why does every guy think all women are like this? I know alot of attractive women who will go through dry spells. Most chicks  aren't looking to fuck every guy  they find good looking  ::)  they're looking for that 1   guy that gets them really wet.

Hello, genius, the point of an open relationship is to have sex with other people. My example was specifically referring to a couple with an open relationship. An open relationships means they can sleep with other people. Thus, woman will have an easier time finding other men to sleep with in an open relationship, compared to men trying to find other woman to have sex with in an open relationship.

I was not referring to a woman who wants to be in a monogamous relationship.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Pray_4_War on January 30, 2015, 11:35:08 PM
Open relationships hardly ever work out. No matter how macho the guy wants to seem, he will regret it.

Remember, woman have a lot easier time getting sex than a man. While she is out having sex with 10 other dudes, you will be sitting home watching porn.

....wanking your cock that is lubricated by your own tears.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: booty on January 30, 2015, 11:35:42 PM
I would walk away from the relationship if he wanted to fuck others.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: SF1900 on January 30, 2015, 11:41:38 PM
....wanking your cock that is lubricated by your own tears.

Typical night for a getbigger.  :D :D
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: d0nny2600 on January 31, 2015, 01:11:39 AM
Depends on if she was living with me or not and how hot she was.  Just detach emotionally and start spinning other plates. When a better one comes along  dump her
If she asks you for an open relationship it's because you can't get hard and she needs someone to fuck her.
You will probably be allowed watch though bro
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Howard on January 31, 2015, 02:32:09 PM
Look its really fucking simple.

You marry your wife etc not because you want to stay monogamous for the rest of your life.....be in love....blah blah blah.....all that crock of shit the movies have fed you...only beta bitches fall for that shit before they ALL eventually get fucked etc.

You marry her so she can cook, clean the dishes, take the garbage out, do your ironing, make you steak sandwiches in the middle of the night, give your regular blowjobs, take care of your house and kids if you have them etc.

Then you fuck all your little girlfriends on the side like any normal man would and just make sure she doesn't find out about it.

No need for this open relationship bullshit.

You do what the fuck you want, she can't....that's the way a real fucking boss should roll.




Many guys buy into what you outlined in your post.

To me marriage is about being PARTNERS .
It doesn't need to be for life if one of you changes a lot.

My current wife makes a lot more then me and doesn't need to assume the typical domestic drudgery .
We are fortunate to have the means to hire people for most of that stuff.
We prefer a monogamous relationship and don't have any silly delusions.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Pray_4_War on January 31, 2015, 04:59:11 PM
Typical night for a getbigger.  :D :D

True  :D
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: Primemuscle on February 01, 2015, 12:40:38 PM
Maybe go for it, except that I am too old for it to mean anything.
Title: Re: If your wife/significant other suggested an open relationship, would you do it?
Post by: DroppingPlates on February 01, 2015, 12:44:35 PM
I remember that Parker wrote that this is beta behavior, and I believe that he has a point.