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Title: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:07:19 PM
This thread is for the guys who DOnt have the shredded jaw line, pretty boy shit goin on... For example not for guys like palatinoQ and other guys who claim to sleep with celebs and smash tons of ass on tinder with the slighest effort. This question is for the average decent/normal lookin guy with above average muscle mass and is well kept.

I have maybe been approached by 1 girl and it was a IWNH type. Im always interested in these getbig stories of getting laid and how often its the girl actually approaching? Does it happen often? How can u tell if they want ass? I feel like i get looked at often but, never been tracked down by them.



Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: _aj_ on March 01, 2015, 04:16:00 PM
My wedding ring is like a magical talisman that keeps them away.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:16:35 PM
I get hit on by women every day. And I'm talking tens.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:17:25 PM
My wedding ring is like a magical talisman that keeps them away.

Yeah i laugh in idiots faces when i hear "rings attract women". Biggest lie Ive ever heard

But even when my ring comes off, it doesnt work either lol
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: K-1 on March 01, 2015, 04:20:58 PM
If you are a good looking dude like me che it don't matter. LOL

TBH I still get chicks talking to me at 37 and i'm "fat" by my estimates with a round face.

I don't give a fuck, I'm married, I'm a good/easy on the eyes looking bruh plus I have a hell of a personality since I was a pimp for so many years.

Increase your "mouth" game and everything else is second place imo. Take control and speak up.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: _aj_ on March 01, 2015, 04:21:34 PM
I get hit on by women every day. And I'm talking tens.

 ::)

The Trainer returns.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:22:57 PM
If you are a good looking dude like me che it don't matter. LOL

TBH I still get chicks talking to me at 37 and i'm "fat" by my estimates with a round face.

I don't give a fuck, I'm married, I'm a good/easy on the eyes looking bruh plus I have a hell of a personality since I was a pimp for so many years.

Increase your "mouth" game and everything else is second place imo. Take control and speak up.

When you say speak up what do you mean? Like project what you are saying with more confidence? I definitely speak softley because im afraid of sounding like an idiot ha
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thin Lizzy on March 01, 2015, 04:29:02 PM
If you wait for women to ask you out, you'll be watching a lot of TV on Friday and Saturday night.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Walter Sobchak on March 01, 2015, 04:31:36 PM
This thread is for the guys who DOnt have the shredded jaw line, pretty boy shit goin on... For example not for guys like palatinoQ and other guys who claim to sleep with celebs and smash tons of ass on tinder with the slighest effort. This question is for the average decent/normal lookin guy with above average muscle mass and is well kept.

I have maybe been approached by 1 girl and it was a IWNH type. Im always interested in these getbig stories of getting laid and how often its the girl actually approaching? Does it happen often? How can u tell if they want ass? I feel like i get looked at often but, never been tracked down by them.


This does not justify your homosexual lifestyle.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: K-1 on March 01, 2015, 04:32:56 PM
When you say speak up what do you mean? Like project what you are saying with more confidence? I definitely speak softley because im afraid of sounding like an idiot ha

You can speak softly and that = "speaking up".

Females usually tell you exactly what's going on in their lives. So if a female was to say "my old man sucks" "he can't even get hard" "I need somebody to fuck the shit out of me"

Your next question should be "are you sucking his dick?" "why is he not getting hard?" "do you lick his balls?" "what are you contributing to the table?"

this doesn't happen. What happens is the guys usually just says "yeah I can appease you"  when in reality she sucks in bed. She can't even suck dick.  She just lays there. She is dry as fuck. Yet you to busy trying to replace the last guy when SHE"S ACTUALLY THE PROBLEM.

SPEAK UP. Question them. Let them set themselves up instead of allowing them to LIE to you!!!!!
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Archer77 on March 01, 2015, 04:38:44 PM
I was a pretty boy back in the day and women would approach me sometimes
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: TheShape. on March 01, 2015, 04:42:05 PM
From my experience most are too shy to "start" the convo. I blame social media and cell phones, their eyes are practically glued to the damn things.
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Post by: Army of One on March 01, 2015, 04:42:22 PM
I was a pretty boy back in the day and women would approach me sometimes

How old are you now?
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Archer77 on March 01, 2015, 04:43:21 PM
How old are you now?

38 this year
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:47:43 PM
You can speak softly and that = "speaking up".

Females usually tell you exactly what's going on in their lives. So if a female was to say "my old man sucks" "he can't even get hard" "I need somebody to fuck the shit out of me"

Your next question should be "are you sucking his dick?" "why is he not getting hard?" "do you lick his balls?" "what are you contributing to the table?"

this doesn't happen. What happens is the guys usually just says "yeah I can appease you"  when in reality she sucks in bed. She can't even suck dick.  She just lays there. She is dry as fuck. Yet you to busy trying to replace the last guy when SHE"S ACTUALLY THE PROBLEM.

SPEAK UP. Question them. Let them set themselves up instead of allowing them to LIE to you!!!!!
WAY too much overthinking and analyzing it. Symptomatic of long nights spent on seduction forums comparing notes with other strike out artists. Bottom line: if you're a stud with the physique and the lifestyle the honies will flock to you.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:49:18 PM
WAY too much overthinking and analyzing it. Symptomatic of b long nights spent on seduction forums comparing notes with other strike out artists. Bottom line: if you're a stud with the physique and the lifestyle the honies will flock to you.

Obviously, but yeah i see hot guys at the airport with hot girls around and i dont see those girls approaching the guy...ever. Maybe at a club or a bar, but not in day to day life
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: K-1 on March 01, 2015, 04:50:16 PM
WAY too much overthinking and analyzing it. Symptomatic of long nights spent on seduction forums comparing notes with other strike out artists. Bottom line: if you're a stud with the physique and the lifestyle the honies will flock to you.

The point of this thread is this doesn't exist.

Fucking idiot!
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:53:16 PM
Obviously, but yeah i see hot guys at the airport with hot girls around and i dont see those girls approaching the guy...ever. Maybe at a club or a bar, but not in day to day life
First off, the guys you consider hot are probably very different than what a sexy female considers hot. That being said, I am approached by smoking chicks every day of my life.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:54:50 PM
First off, the guys you consider hot are probably very different than what a sexy female considers hot. That being said, I am approached by smoking chicks every day of my life.

I actually know what a hot guy. I work with very hot women and I know the guys they like. The hipster skinny guy with 5 oclock shadow, cool clothes and rugged jaw line with curly long hair and model good looks. Im not talking about muscle mass
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:55:17 PM
The point of this thread is this doesn't exist.

Fucking idiot!
Simmer down little man. It exists for men who have facial aesthetics, proportionate sculpted physiques and top shelf lifestyles. It's going on as we speak. Just not for you.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:56:06 PM
I actually know what a hot guy. I work with very hot women and I know the guys they like. The hipster skinny guy with 5 oclock shadow, cool clothes and rugged jaw line with curly long hair.
You're lost.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: K-1 on March 01, 2015, 04:57:30 PM
Simmer down little man. It exists for men who have facial aesthetics, proportionate sculpted physiques and top shelf lifestyles. It's going on as we speak. Just not for you.

RI Viper.......smh

Delete your account and try again you fucking idiot.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 04:59:02 PM
You're lost.

Your wrong bro, sorry. And if your mega good looking, this thread isnt about you...as i specified in the thread
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 04:59:07 PM
RI Viper.......smh

Delete your account and try again you fucking idiot.
Stop crying and man up.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: SF1900 on March 01, 2015, 04:59:11 PM
You're lost.

Another lame gimmick.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on March 01, 2015, 04:59:56 PM
Always.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 05:05:09 PM
Your wrong bro, sorry. And if your mega good looking, this thread isnt about you...as i specified in the thread
So what exactly is this about? Why chicks don't approach lame dudes? You make no sense.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: greeneyes on March 01, 2015, 05:07:38 PM
It happens but not that often. They try to start a talk, then wait for you to get their number  that's how it happens to me.
 The last time a girl did I was sitting in a tramway and two girls in front of me started to talk and laugh and I knew they gonna say something to me ( They looked at me the whole time and I know they did because I was looking through reflection in the window and saw them looking at my face while I was pretending to look at buildings on our road  ;D). Finally one of them asked me the dumb question " In which station you are going to?" so I replied and she started to ask me about different stations like she wanted some help then we got to different subjects.

Some girls approached me in really weird way, seriously, it's just fucking embarassing for everyone. One time I was at a job interview and apparently a girl was there waiting with me too. I noticed her and kind of hated how the fuck she acts like she was a classy lady or something and she said " You are here for a job interview?" I said " Apparently" and gave her a nod. I have no game/swag but I never start conversations in such dumb ways.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: kh300 on March 01, 2015, 05:19:02 PM
Girls typically just smile and acknowledge you, then hope you have the balls to approach.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: BB on March 01, 2015, 05:23:04 PM
It's happened 3-4 times over the years with girls, once with a guy :-\ (I was playing with his dog, and I guess he took it a different way).

With the girls 3 of the four would've been getbig 4-6's. 1 would've probably been a 7 1/2, but that was sort of mutual thing, that she was quicker to turn romantic.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: el numero uno on March 01, 2015, 05:23:21 PM
Only when I'm on a diet.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: SF1900 on March 01, 2015, 05:26:20 PM
It's happened 3-4 times over the years with girls, once with a guy :-\ (I was playing with his dog, and I guess he took it a different way).

With the girls 3 of the four would've been getbig 4-6's. 1 would've probably been a 7 1/2, but that was sort of mutual thing, that she was quicker to turn romantic.

Sorry, broskie. I thought you liking my dog was a ploy for something more.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: greeneyes on March 01, 2015, 05:28:45 PM
Girls typically just smile and acknowledge you, then hope you have the balls to approach.
One day a girl smiled to me but she was with her mother  :-\ The girl was like the best looking girl you see in a month  but her mom was glued to her. I started to check bluetooth on my phone, doing hopeless stuff to get in touch with her but it didn't work. I remember that I thought about writing her a paper with my number in it and something nice ( already did it to one girl with her family ;D ) but ...

I wish I could see her again in this 5 millions city I live in.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Walter Sobchak on March 01, 2015, 05:30:46 PM
Many women have approached me at the Popeye's Chicken on Hollywood Blvd.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: BB on March 01, 2015, 05:31:43 PM
Sorry, broskie. I thought you liking my dog was a ploy for something more.

It's ok, I shouldn't of looked at you dreamily when I said "awesome dog, that is an awesome dog!".
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 05:34:57 PM
Well greeneyes must be good looking...
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 05:36:29 PM
I smile at women and they smile back but i can never tell if its just being nice or they are interested in possibly more?
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 05:39:35 PM
I smile at women and they smile back but i can never tell if its just being nice or they are interested in possibly more?
Your testosterone level sounds so low they may not even be acknowledging your manhood. Women feel very comfortable smiling at a non threat. Now take a ruggedly handsome man with an air of danger about him...then the chicks are smoldering with lust.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: K-1 on March 01, 2015, 05:41:04 PM
Stop crying and man up.

Try harder bitch. Delete your account and accept the loss.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 05:41:13 PM
Your testosterone level sounds so low they may not even be acknowledging your manhood. Women feel very comfortable smiling at a non threat. Now take a ruggedly handsome man with an air of danger about him...then the chicks are smoldering with lust.

Test levels around 4k right now, but thanks for ruining this great thread
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 05:42:07 PM
Try harder bitch. Delete your account and accept the loss.
Fail.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: RI Viper on March 01, 2015, 05:43:50 PM
Test levels around 4k right now, but thanks for ruining this great thread
A thread seeking to rationalize losing was ruined before it started. Bodybuilding is for winners. Perhaps a new hobby for you?
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: greeneyes on March 01, 2015, 05:50:03 PM
Well greeneyes must be good looking...

People out here communicate more and also girls are more open to conversations than in America or Europe. Each culture has it creepiness and I think yours is creepy to talk to strangers in the bus or while waiting in a line. Probably plenty of girls find you attractive too, no homo, and wish they could be with you but they are either shy or find it's not okay to talk to you, just fucking society and it's right and wrong rules that ruins alot of things going on.

The thought that we are going on the west path scares me. We have more and more freaks that doesn't leave their eyes from their phones and angry bitches with headphones to shows their refuse to start any small talk.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: TheShape. on March 01, 2015, 05:57:56 PM
Bodybuilding is for winners.
;D
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 01, 2015, 06:01:09 PM
People out here communicate more and also girls are more open to conversations than in America or Europe. Each culture has it creepiness and I think yours is creepy to talk to strangers in the bus or while waiting in a line. Probably plenty of girls find you attractive too, no homo, and wish they could be with you but they are either shy or find it's not okay to talk to you, just fucking society and it's right and wrong rules that ruins alot of things going on.

The thought that we are going on the west path scares me. We have more and more freaks that doesn't leave their eyes from their phones and angry bitches with headphones to shows their refuse to start any small talk.

Totally agree. Smart phones are ruining how people act. It basically turns women into inapproachable assholes. They just glare into their phones
Title: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Slapper on March 01, 2015, 06:05:43 PM
When I was younger.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: _aj_ on March 01, 2015, 06:58:52 PM
Bodybuilding is for winners.

Ahhhahahaha! Outed as a moron.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: CalvinH on March 02, 2015, 07:12:13 AM
On occasion.
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Post by: El Diablo Blanco on March 02, 2015, 07:20:08 AM
yes
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Post by: thegamechanger on March 02, 2015, 07:21:58 AM
never, but then im rarely away from the keyboard so i keep telling myself thats the reason.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: gettingbetter on March 02, 2015, 07:27:41 AM
Sometimes but when it does happen, you're in for a treat... Usually it happens with milf. I hooked up with a 40 something teacher where I was working as a consultant and to tell you the truth, I never had sex that good ever again... Too bad I fucked it up!

Most of the time, when I notice they are looking at me I approach them.

It sounds like bullshit but confidence/power/charisma really works wonder even if you look really average.

Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Kwon_2 on March 02, 2015, 07:30:55 AM
This thread is for the guys who DOnt have the shredded jaw line, pretty boy shit goin on... For example not for guys like palatinoQ and other guys who claim to sleep with celebs and smash tons of ass on tinder with the slighest effort. This question is for the average decent/normal lookin guy with above average muscle mass and is well kept.

I have maybe been approached by 1 girl and it was a IWNH type. Im always interested in these getbig stories of getting laid and how often its the girl actually approaching? Does it happen often? How can u tell if they want ass? I feel like i get looked at often but, never been tracked down by them.

Happened all the time when i was 20-36.

At the University, Work, Out on the street, In the clubs, at the bar etc.

Nowadays when i'm 40+, greying/white hair at the temples and beard, wrinkles, not in the shape i was in in my 30s etc it does not happen anymore, but i have a steady relationship so i couldn't care less. :D
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: SuperTed on March 02, 2015, 07:37:25 AM
Occasionally but it's quite rare. It's happening even less now that I'm losing my hair (at the tender age of 26 :'().
The girls that approached me were 6's at best.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: falco on March 02, 2015, 08:20:48 AM
::)

The Trainer returns.

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Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: ritch on March 02, 2015, 08:44:10 AM
Totally agree. Smart phones are ruining how people act. It basically turns women into inapproachable assholes. They just glare into their phones

Everyone is glued on their f'in cells now and the whole dating sites makes everyone super easy to replace. It's just a never ending rat race.
Title: Re: Do Girls Approach You Ever?
Post by: Ronnie Rep on March 02, 2015, 03:41:39 PM
I was a pretty boy back in the day and women would approach me sometimes
Same here, not to mention guys.