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Title: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 01:34:16 PM
My wife is very hot (her body is insane. Round ass, E cup fake round tits, 12-16 percent bf, abs year round. But, if i was honest with myself, there are other girls id rather communicate with and hang with, but they are not as in shape and attractive sexually (still cute and slim, but yeah...)I always wonder if id be more happy with a woman who i could do cool shit with like hunt, fish, same intelligence level and interested in same shit and world events, loves outdoorsy stuff, doesnt need to buy designer bags and shoes every 2 weeks....or would i get over that shit fast when i wasnt interested in sex anymore?

Ive been married for 5 years now, and i think about the other side of the grass and if its any greener with a more mentally fulfilling relationship? Sexual attraction has always been huge for me but ive never really found a girl with the mentality i like, along with the tits/body. Its either one or the other. I never slept around all that much because i always needed it to be a HOT girl. I wasnt chasing fattys at 2am while my friends did that. So, maybe i did choose right, and went with the physical over the brains.
Will i grow tired of this as i age?

What do you guys think from your own experiences?
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Overload on March 03, 2015, 01:38:06 PM
Cool chick.

No matter how hot a girl is, you get used to banging them after a while.  Might as well be married to one that you can have an intelligent conversation with or that has the same interests.

Plus, sooner or later your hot wife will stop giving up the booty and you will just be stuck with a needy chick who spends all your money and complains.

Might as well just get divorced.


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Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Noel Fuller on March 03, 2015, 01:41:17 PM
Hot , you can always get a cool one, you ugly fuckers find a desperate needy hot one you hold on as long as you can, its your only chance
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: bigmc on March 03, 2015, 01:42:02 PM
Cool chick.

No matter how hot a girl is, you get used to banging them after a while.  Might as well be married to one that you can have an intelligent conversation with or that has the same interests.

Plus, sooner or later your hot wife will stop giving up the booty and you will just be stuck with a needy chick who spends all your money and complains.

Might as well just get divorced.


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great post

eventually the fucking becomes secondary to everything else

Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 01:43:03 PM
Cool chick.

No matter how hot a girl is, you get used to banging them after a while.  Might as well be married to one that you can have an intelligent conversation with or that has the same interests.

Plus, sooner or later your hot wife will stop giving up the booty and you will just be stuck with a needy chick who spends all your money and complains.

Might as well just get divorced.


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But what if the cool girl has problems cuz u dont really love or have interest in sex with her? That would create loads of stress and lead to cheating on both parties. I am pretty picky physically. Porn really ruined me
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Henda on March 03, 2015, 01:47:13 PM
To marry based on just looks would be insane.
Once the novelty wears off you are left with fuck all and stuck with someone you can't stand.

Does not have to be either or, the one you marry should tick all your boxes otherwise you Are wasting your time
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 01:49:13 PM
To marry based on just looks would be insane.
Once the novelty wears off you are left with fuck all and stuck with someone you can't stand.

Does not have to be either or, the one you marry should tick all your boxes otherwise you Are wasting your time


Shes a good nice person, just not mentally stimulating in the slightest
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Julio Ceasar on March 03, 2015, 01:51:26 PM
I cant stand bitches that dont attract me...how can u have a realtionship with someone if u dont want to have sex hug kiss or whatever...

SEX is the main thing in relationship! Getting children is the main purpose for men and woman...everything else is just bullshit!

Looks before brain, anytime anyday! She just need to be nice, thats all...



Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: thegamechanger on March 03, 2015, 01:53:10 PM
"marry"  ???
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 03, 2015, 01:53:54 PM
great post

eventually the fucking becomes secondary to everything else



but when?
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: dseiler on March 03, 2015, 02:09:36 PM
Cool chick.

No matter how hot a girl is, you get used to banging them after a while.  Might as well be married to one that you can have an intelligent conversation with or that has the same interests.

Plus, sooner or later your hot wife will stop giving up the booty and you will just be stuck with a needy chick who spends all your money and complains.

Might as well just get divorced.


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Bump for the most logical and intelligent response on GB.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: _aj_ on March 03, 2015, 02:41:53 PM
OP Translation: "My wife is hot"
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on March 03, 2015, 02:48:01 PM
Fuck, NOT marry.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Obvious Gimmick on March 03, 2015, 02:49:27 PM
OP translation:
I hope this throws them off and nobody figured out I like man ass
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on March 03, 2015, 02:55:13 PM
My wife is very hot (her body is insane. Round ass, E cup fake round tits, 12-16 percent bf, abs year round. But, if i was honest with myself, there are other girls id rather communicate with and hang with, but they are not as in shape and attractive sexually (still cute and slim, but yeah...)I always wonder if id be more happy with a woman who i could do cool shit with like hunt, fish, same intelligence level and interested in same shit and world events, loves outdoorsy stuff, doesnt need to buy designer bags and shoes every 2 weeks....or would i get over that shit fast when i wasnt interested in sex anymore?

Ive been married for 5 years now, and i think about the other side of the grass and if its any greener with a more mentally fulfilling relationship? Sexual attraction has always been huge for me but ive never really found a girl with the mentality i like, along with the tits/body. Its either one or the other. I never slept around all that much because i always needed it to be a HOT girl. I wasnt chasing fattys at 2am while my friends did that. So, maybe i did choose right, and went with the physical over the brains.
Will i grow tired of this as i age?

What do you guys think from your own experiences?

Easy there Flinstones marrying a 10.  lol.  If she was so hot you wouldn't be posting this fucking thread.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: flinstones1 on March 03, 2015, 03:07:43 PM
Let me get this straight your going to leave your wife (and probably ruin her life) because she's boring and isn't emotionally stimulating? Grow up That's the type of shit women leave men for, no real man would  give two shits about a girls personality as long as she gives good head and is loyal. Shouldn't be a woman's job  to entertain you anyways, that's what friends and hobbies are for.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: scottt on March 03, 2015, 03:09:41 PM
You made a commitment don't be like the rest of the world and puss out now. Try to not be selfish and go do shit she likes and make her do things you like. There is no perfect women for anyone.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 03:21:31 PM
Let me get this straight your going to leave your wife (and probably ruin her life) because she's boring and isn't emotionally stimulating? Grow up That's the type of shit women leave men for, no real man would  give two shits about a girls personality as long as she gives good head and is loyal. Shouldn't be a woman's job  to entertain you anyways, that's what friends and hobbies are for.

Great post bro, just wanting to hear other thoughts..and no im
Not leaving her.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Bevo on March 03, 2015, 03:28:47 PM
Cool hot chick. U can have both
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: mazrim on March 03, 2015, 03:31:13 PM
Great post bro, just wanting to hear other thoughts..and no im
Not leaving her.
Half and half. Terrible post in some ways and good in others. Good in the fact that he said not to leave as that would be devestating to her. You made the choice to marry her and committed yourself to her and she to you.

Terrible post in that a real man does not think that way. It's a part but not all of it in the slightest. Your wife should be your best friend and in your case eventually become that. Get involved in her life as scott said and have her involved in yours. As seen by flints other posts he's not exactly the most mature individual.

Not good to criticize wife in a forum like this either.

My wife is "hot" to me. Most people would prob just find her cute. What makes her hot is her personality and our closeness in thoughts/life together.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: _aj_ on March 03, 2015, 03:32:04 PM
Great post bro, just wanting to hear other thoughts..and no im
Not leaving her.

Just so we are clear...Flintstones just brought teh realz to your thread about women. Flintstones.

Think about it.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 03, 2015, 03:33:45 PM
Half and half. Terrible post in some ways and good in others. Good in the fact that he said not to leave as that would be devestating to her. You made the choice to marry her and committed yourself to her and she to you.

Terrible post in that a real man does not think that way. It's a part but not all of it in the slightest. Your wife should be your best friend and in your case eventually become that. Get involved in her life as old timer said and have her involved in yours. As seen by flints other posts he's not exactly the most mature individual.

Not good to criticize wife in a forum like this either.

He really wasn't criticizing her.  I read it as "HEY EVERYBODY I HAVE A BLONDE BIMBO HOTTIE FOR A WIFE. JUST WANTED TO GET THAT OUT THERE.... In his mind.. he hit the jackpot.. 
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Bevo on March 03, 2015, 03:36:16 PM
Just so we are clear...Flintstones just brought teh realz to your thread about women. Flintstones.

Think about it.

The "forever 21" guy
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Sokolsky on March 03, 2015, 03:44:53 PM
Looks fade. Personality doesn't.

Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 03:53:48 PM
He really wasn't criticizing her.  I read it as "HEY EVERYBODY I HAVE A BLONDE BIMBO HOTTIE FOR A WIFE. JUST WANTED TO GET THAT OUT THERE.... In his mind.. he hit the jackpot.. 

Lol nah man not really, wanted to open a real discussion about sex vs personality and which one wins. Like i said, grass is or isnt always greener...
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 03, 2015, 04:08:43 PM
Lol nah man not really, wanted to open a real discussion about sex vs personality and which one wins. Like i said, grass is or isnt always greener...

Here's what I've found to be true. What's important to you probably isn't important to me and if it is, it won't be to the same degree. For me it is a mixture of both, at about 65% looks and body and 35% personality. I've had other percentages over the years from both extremes and they never lasted. I'd be a hypocrite if I said personality was the main thing because I've known some exceptionally brilliant, bubbly, intelligent women who could hold their own in any conversation in any boardroom or black tie event in the country and I wasn't physically attracted to them. I've dated some women who by my friends account were way out of my league and they were self centered or uninteresting. I tend to be more patient and forgiving of faults if I find them really attractive hence the 65% ratio.       
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Thong Maniac on March 03, 2015, 04:18:04 PM
Here's what I've found to be true. What's important to you probably isn't important to me and if it is, it won't be to the same degree. For me it is a mixture of both, at about 65% looks and body and 35% personality. I've had other percentages over the years from both extremes and they never lasted. I'd be a hypocrite if I said personality was the main thing because I've known some exceptionally brilliant, bubbly, intelligent women who could hold their own in any conversation in any boardroom or black tie event in the country and I wasn't physically attracted to them. I've dated some women who by my friends account were way out of my league and they were self centered or uninteresting. I tend to be more patient and forgiving of faults if I find them really attractive hence the 65% ratio.       

Thanks for sharing dude. Its crazy how looks can really trump most things
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Agnostic007 on March 03, 2015, 04:26:00 PM
plus, if the woman is too intelligent, she'll start expecting to be treated as an equal and it's just a recipe for disaster..
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 03, 2015, 04:44:59 PM
I like to think i got the most I can from both worlds, realizing you can't have EVERYTHING.

my girl has a fkng ridiculous body, natural 34DDDs, trim waist and a round ass, she's pretty, but not amazingly flawlessly gorgeous, and she's a cool chick from Brooklyn...which can be a pain in the ass because sometimes she thinks she's so street smart she sees shit that isn't there, but overall she's funny, down to earth and loves the shit out of me
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: tommywishbone on March 03, 2015, 04:49:29 PM
Smart first. Smart second. Smart third.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: da_vinci on March 03, 2015, 04:55:40 PM
I can't stand "plain" girls for a long time no matter how hot they are. I'm interested in complicated stuff and my brain is usualy working on quite a high level to be able to grasp that/work/etc... If I have to "lower" myself too much to have a convo with a female it just gets uncomfortable after some time. Can't take any stupid bullshit either, and these less intelligent ones like to complain and bitch about irrelevant shit, I get very angry, literally, I just can't stand "attitude" from a female, they get scared lol and it's a downhill from there. Thanks "god" there are hot AND intelligent ones. It's usualy a naturally high IQ with some proper upbringing. A "plain" girl with great looks will probably end up stupid, a girl who was born smart with great looks and good parents is more like it.
 Sex will fade, you'll be left with a person. it's not very nice to sit and know you have not much in common. I'm witnessing such a situation of my friend currently. Sex is great, but she's a dumb bitch (I would slap her face with a passion if I could) and the end is inevitable, they are just on different levels in everything else.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: SF1900 on March 03, 2015, 04:57:27 PM
I can't stand "plain" girls for a long time no matter how hot they are. I'm interested in complicated stuff and my brain is usualy working on quite a high level to be able to grasp that/work/etc... If I have to "lower" myself too much to have a convo with a female it just gets uncomfortable after some time. Can't take any stupid bullshit either, and these less intelligent ones like to complain and bitch about irrelevant shit, I get very angry, they get get scared lol and it's a downhill from there. Thanks "god" there are hot AND intelligent ones. It's usualy a naturally high IQ with some proper upbringing. A "plain" girl with great looks will probably end up stupid, a girl who was born smart with great looks and good parents is more like it.
 Sex will fade, you'll be left with a person. it's not very nice to sit and know you have not much in common. I'm witnessing such a situation of my friend currently. Sex is great, but she's a dumb bitch (I would slap her face with a passion if I could) and the end is inevitable, they are just on different levels in everything else.

Sounds like you and your friends are bunch of handsome neurosurgeons. You should invite your friends on GB. They would fit right in.  :D :D
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: honest on March 03, 2015, 04:57:41 PM
Hot and intelligent, hard to come by, as usually when one has looks the brain doesn't develop.

If their hot without brains they usually end up gold digging a husband or a stripper or hooker or all three over a ten year period.

Better to settle a little less on looks and more on brains and character, the high maintenance types always think the grass is greener.First sign of financial trouble and their blowing someone else for their wallet if its got more coins than yours.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: da_vinci on March 03, 2015, 05:06:44 PM
Sounds like you and your friends are bunch of handsome neurosurgeons. You should invite your friends on GB. They would fit right in.  :D :D

Lol, yeah, I'll send them the invitations.


Honest> Very true, happens very often. I'll repeat myself - IF parents do a very good job with a beautiful girl - there may be a great outcome (hot and smart). It's getting more rare tho', with a current amount of single moms raising their kids. But there def are ones, it's just a mathematical possibility that hot one will be stupid more often than not for obvious reasons (why learn something when your looks can "pay").
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: SF1900 on March 03, 2015, 05:12:00 PM
Lol, yeah, I'll send them the invitations.


Honest> Very true, happens very often. I'll repeat myself - IF parents do a very good job with a beautiful girl - there may be a great outcome (hot and smart). It's getting more rare tho', with a current amount of single moms raising their kids. But there def are ones, it's just a mathematical possibility that hot one will be stupid more often than not for obvious reasons (why learn something when your looks can "pay").

I blame technology. These days:

Ipad, video games, iphone > reading a book
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: SquidVicious on March 03, 2015, 05:41:49 PM
You're headed for sure divorce once her looks start to fail. But on the lighter side, when you dump her everyone will understand.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Never1AShow on March 03, 2015, 05:54:35 PM
Let me get this straight you want a chick that's good at huntin, fishin and suckin dicks?
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: DanM on March 03, 2015, 07:36:55 PM
A cool chick would be cool with letting you sleep with hot girls/sluts from time to time, so other than not being able to show her off as a trophy to the same extent it's probably the way to go.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: el numero uno on March 03, 2015, 08:43:22 PM
Let me get this straight you want a chick that's good at huntin, fishin and suckin dicks?

Sounds like he wants a tranny.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: flinstones1 on March 04, 2015, 03:33:31 AM
Up to you OP...if you care about the well being of your  cock and could give two shits about your pride start shopping around for the better deal and  IF  that chick  comes along dump her. This is kind of  a bitch thing to do though, only women should need any kind of safety net in life.  I don't know what you look like but Im going to assume your an average guy with a smoking hot wife, any guy who could dump a chick out of his league knowing there is a good chance he won't do better will always get my respect, shows mad confidence.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: Earl1972 on March 04, 2015, 05:38:42 PM
Looks fade. Personality doesn't.



personality can get ugly just like looks, especially for women they change over time

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Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: greeneyes on March 04, 2015, 05:53:24 PM
personality can get ugly just like looks, especially for women they change over time

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Good weather is like good women- it doesn't always happen and when it does, it doesn't always last. Man is more stable: if he's bad there's more chance he'll stay that way, or if he's good he might hang on. But a woman is changed by children, age, diet, conversation, sex, the moon, the absence or presence of sun or good times. A woman must be nursed into subsistence by love where a man can become stronger by being hated.
Title: Re: Marry a cool girl or a hot girl?
Post by: D.O.A. on March 05, 2015, 03:36:55 AM
doesnt matter! It will all end in court anyway