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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: calfzilla on June 25, 2015, 01:39:01 AM
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I mean really talk about your inner feelings, frustrations, fears and deep thoughts? No just chit chat but real stuff with someone who understands you. Maybe your spouse, a therapist, a close friend, a guy at the gym etc..
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Not really no. I had to do it here in gb :/
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I don't have frustrations and fears. When your 6'3 with a full head of hair, successful career and white, life is pretty fucking good.
But yea, I have the gf to hear me vent.
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Yes vent is a good word for what I was talking about.
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Is that not what getbig is for, and PMing random members with your innermost feelings? :-\
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Keep a journal. People used to do it in the past, but for whatever reason don't do it anymore. It keeps you from having to go over the shit in your head once you try and lay down at night.
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Keep a journal. People used to do it in the past, but for whatever reason don't do it anymore. It keeps you from having to go over the shit in your head once you try and lay down at night.
Great advice.
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That really is a good idea
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My bench crew is pretty damn tight, we have had some pretty fucked up venting conversations in the office(NO HOMO) I've literally had grown men in tears sitting on my couch and women in tears. I've actually joked and told my wife I was gonna start a psychiatrist office in my gym hahaha.
But yeah our crew can pretty much talk about anything and not be judged at all, we all got problems and we all need to vent.
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Fuck me! When did this place become a festering ball of oestrogen? Please, let's get back to talking about Phil Heath's lack of width, Piana's wig or some good old racism.
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Fuck me! When did this place become a festering ball of oestrogen? Please, let's get back to talking about Phil Heath's lack of width, Piana's wig or some good old racism.
The G&O needs a tampon at the moment.
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LIving in a big city, sometimes it's harder maintaining close friends. People have problems career wise and have to get out so you lose touch. I don't see anyone from HS. There are people that i can talk to here and there, sometimes get a little personal but never too personal.
I can usually deal with things though. Haven't had to be talked off a cliff yet.
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Pray to Ray
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I have a ton of people to talk to. Now ask me if anyone actually listens ? That's the better question.
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Pray to Ray
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Solid advice.
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Wife, good friends, family. I have it all. Years of being everybody else's rock to lean on has given me a lot of IOUs to cash in on.
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Don't talk. Bottle everything. Until the point you developed physical ticks! It's the only way.
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I mean really talk about your inner feelings, frustrations, fears and deep thoughts? No just chit chat but real stuff with someone who understands you. Maybe your spouse, a therapist, a close friend, a guy at the gym etc..
I regularly talk to Basile about feelings over Skype. He is like the grandfather I never had.
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I put up posters of famous bodybuilders on my walls and they've almost become like dear friends to me.
Some days I turn to them for support and we end up talking for hours.
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I put up posters of famous bodybuilders on my walls and they've almost become like dear friends to me.
Some days I turn to them for support and we end up talking for hours.
Life goals ^^^
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I put up posters of famous bodybuilders on my walls and they've almost become like dear friends to me.
Some days I turn to them for support and we end up talking for hours.
Hmmm, ok...imagine the friends you can have now with a modern 3D printer?
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I put up posters of famous bodybuilders on my walls and they've almost become like dear friends to me.
Some days I turn to them for support and we end up talking for hours.
Hahahaha!
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Gayer than taking about feelings ::)
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I find it easier just to live in denial.
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John Wayne didn't need to express his "feelings". This is what feminism has done to this country. >:(
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I have a ton of people to talk to. Now ask me if anyone actually listens ? That's the better question.
I can relate.
I try talking to random females in the gym, and they quickly walk away.
A few older dudes seemed interested but insisted we chat naked in the sauna.
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Whats wrong with a Tasters Choice moment between guys?
Men need fellowship period. Weather at the end of a w/o or taking the bikes out for a ride, we'll stop pull the helmets off n vent
BBQ n a beer n my hand tends to loosen me up
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Whats wrong with a Tasters Choice moment between guys?
Men need fellowship period. Weather at the end of a w/o or taking the bikes out for a ride, we'll stop pull the helmets off n vent
BBQ n a beer n my hand tends to loosen me up
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I can relate.
I try talking to random females in the gym, and they quickly walk away.
A few older dudes seemed interested but insisted we chat naked in the sauna.
cheaper then therapy? ;D
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John Wayne didn't need to express his "feelings". This is what feminism has done to this country. >:(
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Is that broke back mountain? I always assumed that took place in the 1800s old west. ???
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Keep a journal. People used to do it in the past, but for whatever reason don't do it anymore. It keeps you from having to go over the shit in your head once you try and lay down at night.
people have FB now. No, I'm not defending it...
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One less then I had a few weeks ago. That one was worth a million others.
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Pray to Ray
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Why talk to anyone? Much like Ray, when life gets me down, I grab my favorite muscle book, run a warm bubble bath and sip on an ice cold Zima......heaven.
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I usually confide in Hurricane Beef but he always wants to make it sexual....kinda awkward.
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We all have problems. They will always be there. And if they get solved, there will be new ones. Your anus will always be betwen your shredded glutesno matter what...
Life is up and down. Feeling shit come and goes. Be clever, push yourself, kick yourself in the ass. Go see friends u dont want to see etc. Just do it. Activation is the key. DOnt let the stupid thoughts stop you from doing things. Just do them! Doing = things happen! Not doing = nothing happen!
We are social, we need people. Open up for people and they will like u even more. Meet new people.Bcz ou are NOT unique! Iven if u like to fuck 5 yrs old boys there are plenty more of that type u can hang with...
Avoiding behaviour is like digging your own grave!!
Imagine yourself being smarter, more clever than the rest of the people is a stupid thing to do.
If your smart enough you chould be able to arange life so u feel ok. U need to be strong. Never give up. Try to make some goals. Dont analyse to much! Stay positive! Dont spend to much time alone for reflecting life. Its pretty pathetic. Enter the gameplan insted of watching it!
Life aint easy haha! : )
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I find it easier just to live in denial.
We cant all move to Egypt
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so this is the top thread when i log on "do you have anyoen to talk to"
for a second there i though i typed getcomfort.com and not getbig.com
what the fuck is wrong with you girly man?
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I have a great wife. We trust one another and always discuss our problems and concerns. Many years ago I read the book about human relationship and the main idea is to talk and discuss everything! Don't try to hide something thus you'll find the way to prosperity and strong health because all our fears, diseases etc germinate in our mind and always affect intelligence.
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When I was a kid I put a note into a bottle. It had my name and address on it. I threw the bottle into the ocean. I never knew if anybody ever found it.
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We all have problems. They will always be there. And if they get solved, there will be new ones. Your anus will always be betwen your shredded glutesno matter what...
Life is up and down. Feeling shit come and goes. Be clever, push yourself, kick yourself in the ass. Go see friends u dont want to see etc. Just do it. Activation is the key. DOnt let the stupid thoughts stop you from doing things. Just do them! Doing = things happen! Not doing = nothing happen!
We are social, we need people. Open up for people and they will like u even more. Meet new people.Bcz ou are NOT unique! Iven if u like to fuck 5 yrs old boys there are plenty more of that type u can hang with...
Avoiding behaviour is like digging your own grave!!
Imagine yourself being smarter, more clever than the rest of the people is a stupid thing to do.
If your smart enough you chould be able to arange life so u feel ok. U need to be strong. Never give up. Try to make some goals. Dont analyse to much! Stay positive! Dont spend to much time alone for reflecting life. Its pretty pathetic. Enter the gameplan insted of watching it!
Life aint easy haha! : )
Translation: I fucking hate myself and my weaknesses and need other weak people around me so we can pick up each other's pieces. Where do you freaks hang out? I want to make sure I stay well away.
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You all know that this is you
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I mean really talk about your inner feelings, frustrations, fears and deep thoughts? No just chit chat but real stuff with someone who understands you. Maybe your spouse, a therapist, a close friend, a guy at the gym etc..
I have no inner feelings, and if I do the toilet will experience them.....
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one of the most femine threads in the history of getbig
congratulations next step for you is wearing pantyhose and paint your nails
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I talk to other men's wives.