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Trying to be progressive and open minded, or maybe I had a bout of pussification, I decided to just be friends with this attractive young woman (24). After realizing that fucking was out of the realm of possibilities, for reasons i'm not gonna get into, I was like fuck it you wanna just be friends lets do it then.
So we spent a ton of time together. Talked every single day and were practically attached at the hip to the point that everyone around us thought we were dating and thus, fucking.
Recently she suddenly went very cold on me. Stopped returning my texts and all that. We hang out all the time because we went to school together and when it was over, she disappeared on me.
Now we have a class again next week and all of a sudden she's coming around acting like I was the one acting weird.
Looking back I see it all as a waste of time. At least if I was friends with a dude we could get shit done. With a woman, unless you're fucking, or have fucked at some point, is there really a point to just being 'friends'?
I realize I made a rookie mistake here but I really thought i'd know better being much older than her.
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No there is no point being friends with a woman unless it's just someone you know at work. Allowing yourself to sit in a woman's friend zone when you obviously want it to go further is the most fucking Beta thing you can do. Other men make far better "friends" than women lol.
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Not really.
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You're looking at it all wrong. Think of it as "building a bench". You're not fucking her...now.
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I can't disagree with being called a beta here. HOWEVER, this girl knew I was with someone. I wasn't there daydreaming about us going out together one day, holding hands and having a picnic. I'm experienced enough to not make that mistake. I was always under control.
I'm butthurt because I offered her a real friendship thinking that's what she wanted but she turned out flaky as fuck.
My bad either way.
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Basile is the best example ........................ . :D
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No there is no point being friends with a woman unless it's just someone you know at work. Allowing yourself to sit in a woman's friend zone when you obviously want it to go further is the most fucking Beta thing you can do. Other men make far better "friends" than women lol.
Look whose balls dropped? I bet your arms 17 inches now. 8)
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1. The only reason your even thinking about fucking her is because you haven't fucked her. If she were to hop on your dick tomorrow you'd be done with her in a month tops.
2. I have tricked myself into thinking that I wanted to sleep with a chick, or that a girl was better than she was…just because I couldn't have her. Then I finally got in a relationship with her and realized she wash't all that.
3. Always keep attractive women as friends because you know they have hot friends
I think the hardest part as a guy with a big ego, is trying to tell the difference between true attraction and if a girl just feeds your ego. The latter is not true attraction its your mind playing tricks on you. To answer your question no though, most men can not be friends with a woman he is truly attracted to….not until they find another woman they like just as much anyways.
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Lol do any of you have a girlfriend / wife with guy friends ? Real confidence booster this thread is :D
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you hit it on the head flinstones. After a while the thrill was gone. After seeing her so often and being face to face so much, with little makeup sometimes and under bad lights at others, she wasn't that attractive anymore.
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I do have some female friends but I'm pretty sure I've slept with most of them at some point.
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I used to try and be friends with them before and after fucking them, but it never works Eventually they go cold on you or they move onto another man which just makes any friendship with them to difficult to bother with.
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I have 3 female friends who are all married. It works out fine.
Perhaps it would be different if they were single. Who knows.
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Lol do any of you have a girlfriend / wife with guy friends ? Real confidence booster this thread is :D
When you're in a relationship, at some point it should be communicated somehow what you find and don't find acceptable and what she finds and doesn't find acceptable in behaviors of the opposite gender. I'm old school. I don't subscribe to this modern western interaction with the opposite sex. As we've seen, it causes too many problems. I'm well aware my line of thinking isn't going to change anything however, this is how I choose to operate and I have yet to regret it. There's no going out with another male for drinks or any of this other nonsense today. I don't play that and I wouldn't do that. There's no hanging out or shootin the shit or any other settings that can be considered intimate. It's not an issue of trust, it's an issue of respect and that's what people have forgotten because they don't want to be looked at as insecure. No. There are rules and regulations for relationships and this is an issue seldom addressed. Not me. I make it clear what I'm cool with and what I'm not cool with. They can take it or leave it. I'm too old for the high school shit. We're either going to operate like adults in a relationship or not at all. You must get this through, not getbigger style though.
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The puerile and over-socialized nature of an attractive woman of breeding age's mind is nigh unbearable; therefore, unless a poke and revoke is in the cards, there just isn't any point.
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I find single women who don't share my desire to fuck to be largely uninteresting.
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I have 3 female friends who are all married. It works out fine.
Perhaps it would be different if they were single. Who knows.
Clearly you're waiting for the marriages to go south and when they do, bam, 3 hot delicious cocks are just a waiting for ya. Chaos 101
THE BEEF
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You're looking at it all wrong. Think of it as "building a bench". You're not fucking her...now.
This^^^ you just haven't fucked her YET bro... There's still time. Play a bit of hardball, make her suck up for going all quiet on you, then organise this Friday drinks at a club - get a bit pissed and lay it out on the line after by saying something like "look, I have to be honest, you're really fucking hot..." See how it goes down. If she runs off, who cares, sounds like the friendship don't really matter anyways - and in that case, stay at the club and try get a Wellington boot from some other skank. Plus you can always blame the booze the next day and if she's really your pal she won't care. But who knows, she may be up for it and you end up having some weekend full of fucking your desired chick. You never know...
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I haven't been following the "things" but THE BEEF is doing an admirable job taking on his new host of adversaries.
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Trying to be progressive and open minded, or maybe I had a bout of pussification, I decided to just be friends with this attractive young woman (24). After realizing that fucking was out of the realm of possibilities, for reasons i'm not gonna get into, I was like fuck it you wanna just be friends lets do it then.
So we spent a ton of time together. Talked every single day and were practically attached at the hip to the point that everyone around us thought we were dating and thus, fucking.
Recently she suddenly went very cold on me. Stopped returning my texts and all that. We hang out all the time because we went to school together and when it was over, she disappeared on me.
Now we have a class again next week and all of a sudden she's coming around acting like I was the one acting weird.
Looking back I see it all as a waste of time. At least if I was friends with a dude we could get shit done. With a woman, unless you're fucking, or have fucked at some point, is there really a point to just being 'friends'?
I realize I made a rookie mistake here but I really thought i'd know better being much older than her.
in a word.. NO!
as a consolation, i hope you have at least stole a pair of her dirty panties for sniffing and jerking purposes
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I haven't been following the "things" but THE BEEF is doing an admirable job taking on his new host of adversaries.
Thank you good friend Hulk.
THE BEEF
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Trying to be progressive and open minded, or maybe I had a bout of pussification, I decided to just be friends with this attractive young woman (24). After realizing that fucking was out of the realm of possibilities, for reasons i'm not gonna get into, I was like fuck it you wanna just be friends lets do it then.
So we spent a ton of time together. Talked every single day and were practically attached at the hip to the point that everyone around us thought we were dating and thus, fucking.
Recently she suddenly went very cold on me. Stopped returning my texts and all that. We hang out all the time because we went to school together and when it was over, she disappeared on me.
Now we have a class again next week and all of a sudden she's coming around acting like I was the one acting weird.
Looking back I see it all as a waste of time. At least if I was friends with a dude we could get shit done. With a woman, unless you're fucking, or have fucked at some point, is there really a point to just being 'friends'?
I realize I made a rookie mistake here but I really thought i'd know better being much older than her.
I can tell by the way you use your walk, you're a woman's man, no time to talk....
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I have 3 female friends who are all married. It works out fine.
Perhaps it would be different if they were single. Who knows.
Work friends or are they legitimate let's grab lunch friends. I ask because I have "work friends" who are female and they don't shut up, it can be exhausting to deal with. I'm also friends with my married friends wives but I'd never hang out with them with out their husband around.
When you're in a relationship, at some point it should be communicated somehow what you find and don't find acceptable and what she finds and doesn't find acceptable in behaviors of the opposite gender. I'm old school. I don't subscribe to this modern western interaction with the opposite sex. As we've seen, it causes too many problems. I'm well aware my line of thinking isn't going to change anything however, this is how I choose to operate and I have yet to regret it. There's no going out with another male for drinks or any of this other nonsense today. I don't play that and I wouldn't do that. There's no hanging out or shootin the shit or any other settings that can be considered intimate. It's not an issue of trust, it's an issue of respect and that's what people have forgotten because they don't want to be looked at as insecure. No. There are rules and regulations for relationships and this is an issue seldom addressed. Not me. I make it clear what I'm cool with and what I'm not cool with. They can take it or leave it. I'm too old for the high school shit. We're either going to operate like adults in a relationship or not at all. You must get this through, not getbigger style though.
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I've seen several relationships and marriages ruined because of opposite sex friendships (although I've seen some same sex friendship ruin relationships too, no homo).
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Trying to be progressive and open minded, or maybe I had a bout of pussification, I decided to just be friends with this attractive young woman (24). After realizing that fucking was out of the realm of possibilities, for reasons i'm not gonna get into, I was like fuck it you wanna just be friends lets do it then.
So we spent a ton of time together. Talked every single day and were practically attached at the hip to the point that everyone around us thought we were dating and thus, fucking.
Recently she suddenly went very cold on me. Stopped returning my texts and all that. We hang out all the time because we went to school together and when it was over, she disappeared on me.
Now we have a class again next week and all of a sudden she's coming around acting like I was the one acting weird.
Looking back I see it all as a waste of time. At least if I was friends with a dude we could get shit done. With a woman, unless you're fucking, or have fucked at some point, is there really a point to just being 'friends'?
I realize I made a rookie mistake here but I really thought i'd know better being much older than her.
You're giving up this easy? You ARE pussified.
Dude, it doesn't matter if she's a 10 and you're a 5. Find out what she likes, do what she likes and play like you're not interested.
Is she white? If so, start going out with black chicks, make sure she sees you. White chicks go ballistic when they see a white dude with a black chick.
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Of course. Bunch of oversexed savages in here.
You shouldn't view women as sexual objects. Frankly, it's offensive. Have you been to the DMV? There are some real swamp donkeys walking around out there. Total WNHs. Yuck.
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you re respected when you re feared and when you re useful. Thats our animal nature. The minute you re not feared anymore or useless, all respect is gone.
Everything else is bullshit.
All lifeforms are disposable, just like inanimate objects.
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You're giving up this easy? You ARE pussified.
Dude, it doesn't matter if she's a 10 and you're a 5. Find out what she likes, do what she likes and play like you're not interested.
Is she white? If so, start going out with black chicks, make sure she sees you. White chicks go ballistic when they see a white dude with a black chick.
What Slapper is really saying is suck her husband's cock a couple dozen times and make her really jealous.
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you re respected when you re feared and when you re useful. Thats our animal nature. The minute you re not feared anymore or useless, all respect is gone.
Everything else is bullshit.
All lifeforms are disposable, just like inanimate objects.
Fuck yeah!!!
USA!
USA!
USA!
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What Slapper is really saying is suck her husband's cock a couple dozen times and make her really jealous.
She's not married.
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If you know a chick was attracted to you, and you guys never worked out or got in a relationship for reasons out of your control (bad timing she just got out of a relationship, or she caught you talking to another girl and assumed you weren't interested etc) I don't see why it would be a blow to your ego to remain friends with her while she continues to date other guys. Why take it personally if she liked you at some point?
I think guys blow the friend zone thing way out of proportion, I've banged a lot of chicks who I thought I was in the friend zone with. When a girl cheats on her boyfriend who do you think she runs to? One of her friends lol. If a girl has ever gotten physical with you and uses the word friend with you that's how she convinces herself she's not a bad person for leading you on, while she's really keeping you around as a potential side nigga. Give it a few months and wait for that midnight phone call a few months down the line lol
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If you know a chick was attracted to you, and you guys never worked out or got in a relationship for reasons out of your control (bad timing she just got out of a relationship, or she caught you talking to another girl and assumed you weren't interested etc) I don't see why it would be a blow to your ego to remain friends with her while she continues to date other guys. Why take it personally if she liked you at some point?
I think guys blow the friend zone thing way out of proportion, I've banged a lot of chicks who I thought I was in the friend zone with. When a girl cheats on her boyfriend who do you think she runs to? One of her friends lol. If a girl has ever gotten physical with you and uses the word friend with you that's how she convinces herself she's not a bad person for leading you on, while she's really keeping you around as a potential side guy. Give it a few months and wait for that midnight phone call a few months down the line lol
x2 good post flinstones
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x2 good post flinstones
I'm getting nervous because Stones is actually offering legitimate relationship hookup advice here.
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I'm getting nervous because Stones is actually offering legitimate relationship hookup advice here.
flinstones hands out 9s and 10s a bit generously but he generally knows his stuff when it comes to whores in my experience.
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x2 good post flinstones
http://breaking911.com/man-runs-over-poodle-shoots-owner-6-times/
June 29, 2015 | 7:43 PM
Man Runs Over Poodle, Shoots Owner 6 Times
By: Grant (Breaking911 Newsroom)
June 29, 2015 | 7:43 PM
LANCASTER, California — A California man was shot dead after his small dog was run over.
22-year-old Michael Davis was shot in the parking lot of an apartment complex near the 600 block of East Avenue H 14 around 10:30 p.m. Friday.
Reportedly, the victim’s poodle was run over by the suspect in the parking lot.
The animal survived, but Davis ran after the driver, demanding that he help pay for the dog’s medical expenses.
The driver left the scene only to return and open fire on Mr. Davis.
Davis was shot at least six times, according to the Los Angeles County Sheriff Department’s Homicide Bureau.
From ABC7: — “He executed him as if they were enemies, as if they knew each other. To this day, I don’t know who the guy is. Mikey didn’t know who the guy was. This man had a family. What point did you prove?” Davis’ cousin Trayvon Samuels said.
The suspect fled the location, possibly in a black pickup truck.
Davis leaves behind a pregnant girlfriend and a son.” —
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http://breaking911.com/man-runs-over-poodle-shoots-owner-6-times/
lol ;D
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She's not married.
Substitute boyfriend for husband and hundred for dozen
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Unless she can make you money or do something for you that you would rather not do yourself, there is no reason whatsoever to be friends with broads.
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you re respected when you re feared and when you re useful. Thats our animal nature. The minute you re not feared anymore or useless, all respect is gone.
Everything else is bullshit.
All lifeforms are disposable, just like inanimate objects.
LOL please tell me how this is gonna get anybody laid? Just try to Show proof of some social status, throw in a few stories about how your a sex adonis to get her imagination going, grab her hands play with her hair. If she ever accuses you of not being relationship material which she will if your game is good enough, its the same answer as always. "SO WHAT IS IT ABOUT PLAYERS THAT YOU FIND SO ATTRACTIVE?" with a big shit eating grin. If you can't at least make out with her after that fuck her onto the next
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If they are hot, use them to help you fuck other hot bitches.
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Clearly you're waiting for the marriages to go south and when they do, bam, 3 hot delicious cocks are just a waiting for ya. Chaos 101
THE BEEF
That was a pretty lame attempt at trying to make a joke. :-\ :-\
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Work friends or are they legitimate let's grab lunch friends. I ask because I have "work friends" who are female and they don't shut up, it can be exhausting to deal with. I'm also friends with my married friends wives but I'd never hang out with them with out their husband around.
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I've seen several relationships and marriages ruined because of opposite sex friendships (although I've seen some same sex friendship ruin relationships too, no homo).
No, these are legitimate friends. Hang out with them like I hang out with my guy friends. These three friends I hang out with without their husbands because I was friends with them before I knew their husbands.
I have 4 male friends, whom Ive known practically my whole life. I consider their wives close friends, but would never hang out with them without my friends around.
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Fuck yeah!!!
USA!
USA!
USA!
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But he is Italiano :D
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None.
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I cannot understand why anyone would desire the company of a female if they aren't being compensated in the way of fucking her, they are unbearable creatures most of the time, like when I get home from work and am trying to lay on the couch and the gf keeps rabbiting on about dull uninteresting shite that nobody but her cares about and your thinking "I wish she'd shut the fuck up", having to put up with that day in day out for no other reason than being her friend when you could be out doing what ever you like with your mates just makes no sense
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you re respected when you re feared and when you re useful. Thats our animal nature. The minute you re not feared anymore or useless, all respect is gone.
Everything else is bullshit.
All lifeforms are disposable, just like inanimate objects.
I disagree with this nihilistic world view. What about a mentally disabled child? Hardly feared, or useful, but the respect show by its carer toward their health and well being is a wonder to behold.
No doubt, in your world, they simply fear losing an income stream, and the child is just a proxy for this. But I can assure you, having witnessed these relationships (Bigmc and Joon being a prime example), there is genuine love and respect involved.
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LOL please tell me how this is gonna get anybody laid?
I think it's called rape.
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I cannot understand why anyone would desire the company of a female if they aren't being compensated in the way of fucking her, they are unbearable creatures most of the time, like when I get home from work and am trying to lay on the couch and the gf keeps rabbiting on about dull uninteresting shite that nobody but her cares about and your thinking "I wish she'd shut the fuck up", having to put up with that day in day out for no other reason than being her friend when you could be out doing what ever you like with your mates just makes no sense
Whew, glad to see I'm not the only asshole.
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Whew, glad to see I'm not the only asshole.
If more people spoke honestly they would say the exact same
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yes if you enjoy her company.
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Of course. Bunch of oversexed savages in here.
You shouldn't view women as sexual objects. Frankly, it's offensive. Have you been to the DMV? There are some real swamp donkeys walking around out there. Total WNHs. Yuck.
Department of Motor Vehicles or DC/MD/Va?
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Substitute boyfriend for husband and hundred for dozen
Walter, you bring up "gay" and "blowjobs" a lot...
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Does she have hot friends?? then yes...
If you haven't fucked her yet, it's a good sign you won't.
take this as learning experience and make more female friends.. sooner or later some of them will end fucking you.
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Listen, we are animals and we re just designed to find mates to reproduce with, then we re supposed to maximize the odds of survival of offspring by helping it dominate the competition instead of being dominated by it. The healthiest, strongest, richest the partner is, the better odds of survival for the eventual offspring obtained with him/her. Thats what all animals do, they struggle daily and indefinitely to find, obtain and maintain/improve the highest odds of survival for themselves and their offsprings. Everything you do, think, is geared toward this unique goal, purpose.
Males /females relaltionships in all animal species are based on this very basic principle that motivates absolutely every single thought and action we automoatically and subconsciously produce at any given time.
We re automated war machines also known as "lifeforms" that consume resources until there are none anymore.
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Any females im good friends with ( outside of work ) , i have banged. Its just the way things are. I dont honestly see the point in hanging out with a female for company when theyre really not that interesting, unless you want in their knickers.
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Might as well ask; What is the point of being friends if you already fucked her, if that is your only goal?
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Trying to be progressive and open minded, or maybe I had a bout of pussification, I decided to just be friends with this attractive young woman (24). After realizing that fucking was out of the realm of possibilities, for reasons i'm not gonna get into, I was like fuck it you wanna just be friends lets do it then.
So we spent a ton of time together. Talked every single day and were practically attached at the hip to the point that everyone around us thought we were dating and thus, fucking.
Recently she suddenly went very cold on me. Stopped returning my texts and all that. We hang out all the time because we went to school together and when it was over, she disappeared on me.
Now we have a class again next week and all of a sudden she's coming around acting like I was the one acting weird.
Looking back I see it all as a waste of time. At least if I was friends with a dude we could get shit done. With a woman, unless you're fucking, or have fucked at some point, is there really a point to just being 'friends'?
I realize I made a rookie mistake here but I really thought i'd know better being much older than her.
I only read this OP and didn't bother reading the rest of the posts, so this may have already been posted:
1. She likes you and is hoping you will ask her out for an "official" romantic date.
2. I see no problem with being friends with a female. BUT, this one went cold when she felt frustrated by you not pulling the trigger on asking her out.
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No there is no point being friends with a woman unless it's just someone you know at work. Allowing yourself to sit in a woman's friend zone when you obviously want it to go further is the most fucking Beta thing you can do. Other men make far better "friends" than women lol.
Good pt. If you really want to nail her poontang, it's pathetic to hang on to her and ACT like her pal.
BUT...
If you really don't care about screwing the girl for whatever reason, being a real friend is cool.
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is there a point to being fiends with a man, if youre not fucking him?
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is there a point to being fiends with a man, if youre not fucking him?
Two things are different, first of all men and women are different, as well as fiends and friends.
I have many fiends (both men and women), but the only woman i have as a friend is the one i am together with.
I usually break all the other contacts with other women (meeting and on the phone) as i enter a new relationship.
I just have no time for others, nor desire to spend time with others. The woman i'm with take up too much of my time as is.
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Is the same true for males as well? Why or why not. Would love to hear your answers.
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Have all the women friends you want.
Just always remember that their brains are half the size of yours and everything they do is based on what they "feel" and not what they "think."
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Walter, you bring up "gay" and "blowjobs" a lot...
So you dont feel left out of the discussion.
Fagfucker.
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So you dont feel left out of the discussion.
Fagfucker.
Are you sure?
It's only gay if you say so.
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If the woman is very ugly and unattractive, she can still be funny and dude-like....so that's cool.
If she's hot: no way, it's gonna end up miserably.
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Two things are different, first of all men and women are different, as well as fiends and friends.
I have many fiends (both men and women), but the only woman i have as a friend is the one i am together with.
I usually break all the other contacts with other women (meeting and on the phone) as i enter a new relationship.
I just have no time for others, nor desire to spend time with others. The woman i'm with take up too much of my time as is.
no time for nothing besides getbig you mean
no time for nothing besides getbig you mean
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Two things are different, first of all men and women are different, as well as fiends and friends.
I have many fiends (both men and women), but the only woman i have as a friend is the one i am together with.
I usually break all the other contacts with other women (meeting and on the phone) as i enter a new relationship.
I just have no time for others, nor desire to spend time with others. The woman i'm with take up too much of my time as is.
Nail on head LeKwon.
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like different is a bad thing.
youre just a sad bunch of people that are unable to connect to other human beings, male or female.
grown men that cant have real relationships of any kind, with anyone.
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like different is a bad thing.
youre just a sad bunch of people that are unable to connect to other human beings, male or female.
grown men that cant have real relationships of any kind, with anyone.
No. You don't understand how the world works. And how healthy relationships work between men and women. This isn't Friends or some other liberal television show. When you're in a relationship with someone you sacrifice hanging out with women and they with men. This is how the whole earth has operated up until about 20 years ago or so in the West. You're an idealist that shit isn't practical and doesn't work in the real world. Everyone needs to stay in their lane.
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why? men and women in relationships meet the opposite sex all the time anyway, at work etc
sounds more like youre insecure, afraid that your woman might be unfaithful and wants to lock her in.
thats the attitude of someone from the middle east, not the western world.
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why? men and women in relationships meet the opposite sex all the time anyway, at work etc
sounds more like youre insecure, afraid that your woman might be unfaithful and wants to lock her in.
thats the attitude of someone from the middle east, not the western world.
the middle east is the cradle of civilization, where democracy and many inventions like running water was born. they taught the west about the religion of peace and we owe them everything.
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why? men and women in relationships meet the opposite sex all the time anyway, at work etc
sounds more like youre insecure, afraid that your woman might be unfaithful and wants to lock her in.
thats the attitude of someone from the middle east, not the western world.
Having opposite sex coworkers and hanging out with someone of the opposite sex (assuming you're hetero) when you're in a relationship is two different worlds. You're never going to stop someone from cheating. If they're going to cheat, they're going to cheat. As I stated in a post on the first page. It's not about insecurity, it's about respect.
The Middle East has it right regarding this. Should I make a list of how fucked up, sick and deplorable the western world is? You think this is paradise or even ideal? The western world is circling the toilet bowl.
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Q: Is there a point to being friends with a woman, if you're not fucking her?
A: Only if your gay..
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why? men and women in relationships meet the opposite sex all the time anyway, at work etc
sounds more like youre insecure, afraid that your woman might be unfaithful and wants to lock her in.
thats the attitude of someone from the middle east, not the western world.
Wiggs made his point about it being a respect issue.
I'm not sure what the breakdown is of the population sample we have on this site (not counting the closet schmoes and dudes that hate women) but the general consensus is that dudes try to sleep with women. This doesn't matter if the women are in relationships or "just friends". Undoubtedly women have ulterior motives at times as well.
I'm sure, like many "sterotypes", there are exceptions. SF1900 has mentioned he has friends he spends time with that are female and there is nothing more. Based on my life experiences this is rare. I've had several women friends throughout my life and despite setting boundaries someone usually develops feelings for the other, this is true even if the woman had been much older.
Maybe the next generation will be more idealistic and create a utopia where everyone treats one another with respect and love but as of now in human history it hasn't happened.
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Q: Is there a point to being friends with a woman, if you're not fucking her?
A: Only if your gay..
Or if you can use the friendship to hook up with her more open legged friends.
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Having opposite sex coworkers and hanging out with someone of the opposite sex (assuming you're hetero) when you're in a relationship is two different worlds. You're never going to stop someone from cheating. If they're going to cheat, they're going to cheat. As I stated in a post on the first page. It's not about insecurity, it's about respect.
The Middle East has it right regarding this. Should I make a list of how fucked up, sick and deplorable the western world is? You think this is paradise or even ideal? The western world is circling the toilet bowl.
That's funny.....a welfare skunk talking about "respect" in a relationship.
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no idea what youre talking about.
ill be friends with anyone i choose thank you very much, regardless of race, gender, age etc
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That's funny.....a welfare skunk talking about "respect" in a relationship.
Wally with a zinger. Oooh you got me there.
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I hear what you're saying man. She knows I'm in a relationship and was down to hang and talk through the night many a time. I even walked her through some of her dates in terms of what to say to a guy when she wasn't sure how to play it.
One time, some months after we started to hang I was coming on pretty strong, because I wanted to let her know I wasn't no homo. I would tell her when she looked good and I texted her, you looked really fucking say today. To that she said she didn't want to go there because it would make things uncomfortable.
I know for a fact she's attracted to me, but this girl is very, very conservative sexually. I've gone cold on her since she had backed off. Haven't been returning her texts and have not initiated any convos. She called me on it but I blew her off.
I dunno if I should play it off as if nothing is bothering me or try and fuck with her head and be like I don't appreciate you dropping me like a bad habit.
If you know a chick was attracted to you, and you guys never worked out or got in a relationship for reasons out of your control (bad timing she just got out of a relationship, or she caught you talking to another girl and assumed you weren't interested etc) I don't see why it would be a blow to your ego to remain friends with her while she continues to date other guys. Why take it personally if she liked you at some point?
I think guys blow the friend zone thing way out of proportion, I've banged a lot of chicks who I thought I was in the friend zone with. When a girl cheats on her boyfriend who do you think she runs to? One of her friends lol. If a girl has ever gotten physical with you and uses the word friend with you that's how she convinces herself she's not a bad person for leading you on, while she's really keeping you around as a potential side guy. Give it a few months and wait for that midnight phone call a few months down the line lol
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Just ask yourself if Vince would be friends with a woman:
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I hear what you're saying man. She knows I'm in a relationship and was down to hang and talk through the night many a time. I even walked her through some of her dates in terms of what to say to a guy when she wasn't sure how to play it.
One time, some months after we started to hang I was coming on pretty strong, because I wanted to let her know I wasn't no homo. I would tell her when she looked good and I texted her, you looked really fucking say today. To that she said she didn't want to go there because it would make things uncomfortable.
I know for a fact she's attracted to me, but this girl is very, very conservative sexually. I've gone cold on her since she had backed off. Haven't been returning her texts and have not initiated any convos. She called me on it but I blew her off.
I dunno if I should play it off as if nothing is bothering me or try and fuck with her head and be like I don't appreciate you dropping me like a bad habit.
Why did you suddenly turn into flintstones?
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Is the same true for males as well? Why or why not. Would love to hear your answers.
Not at all. I fucking love hanging out with male friends. We can talk about anything and they can meet me on an intellectual playing field. Not saying women can't but I'm around women a lot and the convo is always bullshit and gossip.
All girls in my classes were at least ten years younger than me. It's fucking painful to have any sort of deep convos with them.
I think most of you have missed my point here: I offered her a real friendship but she was too immature to handle it. She's a fucking child mentally. And she's White but not American in culture.
And you're way off Howard. Way off lol.
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I offered her a real friendship but she was too immature to handle it. She's a fucking child mentally.
Understand that women are devoid of things like logic, common sense, emotional stability; comprehension of right and wrong, reality... or even a human soul.
Once you have a foundational understanding of what a woman is, and is not, you can begin to make informed and effective decisions.
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Your dime a dozen 7/10 meets tom. Tom is 6'2, built like a linebacker, movie star good looks, has a successful business and a porn star in bed. He only has eyes for her and smothers her with love and affection. Things are great until she gets bored of her new bf after 6 months and is caught texting the unemployed drug dealer she met at the DMV. Tom breaks up with her, whatever he was a loser and too predictable,…..this new guy may have 9 felonies but at least he's exciting. Plus he owns a motorcycle and has tattoos. Clearly the better man.
After she realizes the new guy is a total loser after a few weeks, she runs back to Tom but tom doesn't want her anymore. Whatever he was an abusive asshole, how dare he call her out the time she turned her phone off the night of her slutty best friends bachelorette party! She goes on instagram bitching about how hard it is to find a guy who wants a relationship who wants to cuddle, how no man understands her. And of course she has her entire army of white knights foaming at the mouth telling her how beautiful she is and how she deserves better. It's onto the next sucker...
90% of hot women are all forever alone, attention whores who could give two fucking shits about you. if your good looking and well built man, you will get your chance, but understand no matter how special they tell you that you are, you really aren't….in fact are no more special than a toaster to these bitches. . An object to be used to impress her little girlfriends ...... There is a reason I don't wife up any of these bitches.
putting my foot down with my old gf was the best thing I ever did,..
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Ive been single almost a year now and have met some awesome women. no girl is worth being with who doesn't respect you no matter how good the pussy is