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Title: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 02, 2015, 04:51:27 AM
My wife hit me with a load of shit argument the other day. She has been on my ass making snide comments about how she likes me bigger aka chubbier, asking me how many cals i ate, tracking my food intake and giving me shit about it...all because im leaning up and looking good now. I called her out and it came out "i feel like your competing with me"... So fucked up cuz i would never in a million years think that way or even be so devious to "compete" on sex appeal with my wife. It was laughable but actually hurt to think she thought that. So insteasd of being supportive of my work ethic in gym and ability to not self destruct with binges, shes annoyed cuz i look good. Ridiculous.

And my wife is no fatty...bolt on tits, tiny waist with abs. At the beach this summer, every teen boy and man is gawking at her. Very in shape

Whats up here? Anyone else get this shit at home? Is this just pure insecurity from a woman?
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Yamcha on July 02, 2015, 04:52:44 AM
It means you aren't bring her to orgasm enough.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 02, 2015, 04:53:27 AM
It means you aren't bring her to orgasm enough.

Not sure if serious
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 02, 2015, 04:55:31 AM
Your first mistake was getting married.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: _aj_ on July 02, 2015, 04:56:47 AM
It's a woman thing. I got a little of that from my wife and called her out on it and she admitted that she was being ridiculous. Rare is the woman that is so confident that she won't feel threatened when "her man" starts looking fitter and she isn't changing. I want my woman to notice and appreciate every 1/4" gain on my arms. Is that so much to ask?

There like a billion articles on the net about this phenomenon.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 02, 2015, 04:56:51 AM
Your first mistake was getting married.

Very true
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: wikkedonez on July 02, 2015, 05:06:41 AM
Obviously she thinks your getting in shape
for someone else.   That's how most affairs
start...
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: wikkedonez on July 02, 2015, 05:10:11 AM
Then she will cheat on you first...so u don't hurt
her first.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: forillagorilla on July 02, 2015, 05:20:50 AM
Not sure if serious

No way we could know if you cum her enough - but I can promise you that if you cum her daily she will never complain about ANYTHING!
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Yamcha on July 02, 2015, 05:24:20 AM
No way we could know if you cum her enough - but I can promise you that if you cum her daily she will never complain about ANYTHING!

 :D amen!

You're probably using all of your energies towards your own selfish goals and living in a caloric deficit. She just wants you to pound her as often as you pound the weights and protein shakes.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Pet shop boys on July 02, 2015, 05:45:57 AM
Obviously she thinks your getting in shape
for someone else.   That's how most affairs
start...


Doesn't have to start an affair but the insecurity and jealousy 24/7 can really be stressing from wife.



WoooSHHHHHHHHHHH
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Marty Champions on July 02, 2015, 06:00:47 AM
Maybe she craves strongvfat junhny falcon instead of delicate men
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: muscleman-2013 on July 02, 2015, 06:06:01 AM
My wife hit me with a load of shit argument the other day. She has been on my ass making snide comments about how she likes me bigger aka chubbier, asking me how many cals i ate, tracking my food intake and giving me shit about it...all because im leaning up and looking good now. I called her out and it came out "i feel like your competing with me"... So fucked up cuz i would never in a million years think that way or even be so devious to "compete" on sex appeal with my wife. It was laughable but actually hurt to think she thought that. So insteasd of being supportive of my work ethic in gym and ability to not self destruct with binges, shes annoyed cuz i look good. Ridiculous.

And my wife is no fatty...bolt on tits, tiny waist with abs. At the beach this summer, every teen boy and man is gawking at her. Very in shape

Whats up here? Anyone else get this shit at home? Is this just pure insecurity from a woman?

She thinks you will leave her for a man in a thong
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Tapeworm on July 02, 2015, 06:14:50 AM
Maybe she doesn't have anything better to do than find new ways to fuck with you.

Not every retarded frenzy a woman works herself up into deserves sympathy and understanding.  Tell her that's idiotic and that she's either on board or overboard.  Then hit 3 mandatories.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: _aj_ on July 02, 2015, 06:22:04 AM
Maybe she doesn't have anything better to do than find new ways to fuck with you.

Not every retarded frenzy a woman works herself up into deserves sympathy and understanding.  Tell her that's idiotic and that she's either on board or overboard.  Then hit 3 mandatories.

This is -- more or less -- what I did.

I may have hit about 5 mandatories tho.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: LurkerNoMore on July 02, 2015, 06:23:44 AM
She's cheating on you obviously.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Rambone on July 02, 2015, 06:25:30 AM
Have sex with her sister. That'll show her who's boss
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Hulkotron on July 02, 2015, 06:32:57 AM
300 lbs with abs plus movie-star good looks
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on July 02, 2015, 06:45:56 AM
Women are very insecure and she believes if you look too good she'll have competition.

Imagine thinking all day there are women so much better than me who would fuck my husband in a second if he looks good enough.

That's why they marry down because they think that will stop the man finding something better if she's the best they will have. Like that fucking works.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: _aj_ on July 02, 2015, 07:03:48 AM
Women are very insecure and she believes if you look too good she'll have competition.

Imagine thinking all day there are women so much better than me who would fuck my husband in a second if he looks good enough.

That's why they marry down because they think that will stop the man finding something better if she's the best they will have. Like that fucking works.

Yup. Every woman has this thought lurking in the back of their minds. Every. Damn. One. Of. Them.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: SquidVicious on July 02, 2015, 07:07:00 AM
I realize Tito Ortiz is the exception but do regular men really marry 'hot' women who are this psychotic, controlling, insecure and pathetic? Sometimes, we get what we deserve.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: _aj_ on July 02, 2015, 07:10:02 AM
I realize Tito Ortiz is the exception but do regular men really marry 'hot' women who are this psychotic, controlling, insecure and pathetic? Sometimes, we get what we deserve.

You miss the point. They ALL have this flaw. If you marry, you have to deal with it, unless you just want to become a fat slob, in which case, she'll stop fucking you because you are "disgusting".

The only way to avoid it is not to get married, which is a perfectly valid behavior.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: SquidVicious on July 02, 2015, 07:14:06 AM
You miss the point. They ALL have this flaw. If you marry, you have to deal with it, unless you just want to become a fat slob, in which case, she'll stop fucking you because you are "disgusting".

The only way to avoid it is not to get married, which is a perfectly valid behavior.
The bolt-on tits, obsession with counting calories and endless Selfies may have been a clue. You don't marry these girls, you bang them in the posing room.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Grape Ape on July 02, 2015, 07:32:52 AM
OP leading us to believe he's in sooooo good shape his his supermodel wife can't handle it.  oh brother ::)
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 02, 2015, 08:24:46 AM
Aj thanks for keeping the thread real instead of it being overrun with arm chair comics.

Yeah she def is pretty wrapped up in her looks. I worry about my body mainly, i domt care about clothes or cars or that shit. My body is what i take care of. I can see how this would make girls not sure of themselves and insecure in a way, but i have been like this since we met, so the "getting in shape for an affair" thing is dumb on her part
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: _aj_ on July 02, 2015, 08:54:40 AM
Aj thanks for keeping the thread real instead of it being overrun with arm chair comics.

Yeah she def is pretty wrapped up in her looks. I worry about my body mainly, i domt care about clothes or cars or that shit. My body is what i take care of. I can see how this would make girls not sure of themselves and insecure in a way, but i have been like this since we met, so the "getting in shape for an affair" thing is dumb on her part


The important thing to realize is that you're never going to be able to shut that part of her brain off, so the best that you can do is both acknowledge that it is there and move on. Ask her simply: "would you prefer that I look like this (this is a good time to show her a peaked bicep) or would you prefer that I was fat with no muscle?" She will laugh and say what you know she will.

Hold her to that.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on July 02, 2015, 09:13:56 AM
I attract a lot of attention due to my physique, hair and face from both men and women. Even though my g/f is beautiful I garner most of the attention in public. She doesn't mind because I'm with her.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 02, 2015, 11:01:22 AM
I attract a lot of attention due to my physique, hair and face from both men and women. Even though my g/f is beautiful I garner most of the attention in public. She doesn't mind because I'm with her.

Must be nice man, im actually jealous.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Howard on July 02, 2015, 11:06:24 AM
Your first mistake was getting married.

Now you're talkin'  ;)
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Wiggs on July 02, 2015, 11:11:07 AM
Sounds like she may be insecure stud.  I'd ask her why she is insecure.  She's wearing it like a stinky perfume.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on July 02, 2015, 02:33:12 PM
Aj thanks for keeping the thread real instead of it being overrun with arm chair comics.

Yeah she def is pretty wrapped up in her looks. I worry about my body mainly, i domt care about clothes or cars or that shit. My body is what i take care of. I can see how this would make girls not sure of themselves and insecure in a way, but i have been like this since we met, so the "getting in shape for an affair" thing is dumb on her part


Women are always right so you should have that affair otherwise she'd be wrong....and she can't be women are always right.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: XFACTOR on July 02, 2015, 02:41:15 PM
Yup. Every woman has this thought lurking in the back of their minds. Every. Damn. One. Of. Them.

Especially after they have a baby.  They say men are supposed to gain some shit called "sympathy weight"? Instead I took the opportunity to get more shredded.  I'm currently paying the price  >:(

I'm not sure what happened but her body changed or diet regimen maybe.  She can't nail her diet like she used to or doesn't care to? I don't know
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: O.Z. on July 02, 2015, 07:49:01 PM
Obviously she thinks your getting in shape
for someone else.   That's how most affairs
start...

this might be the right answer, her insecurities can be the reason for this reaction. But she sure enjoys all those looks she gets from guys on the beach.
Make her happy and be chubby or make yourself happy, healthy, confident and keep being fit&lean. Not hard choice isn't it?
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Yamcha on July 03, 2015, 03:51:23 AM
Especially after they have a baby.  They say men are supposed to gain some shit called "sympathy weight"? Instead I took the opportunity to get more shredded.  I'm currently paying the price  >:(

I'm not sure what happened but her body changed or diet regimen maybe.  She can't nail her diet like she used to or doesn't care to? I don't know

Leave her and the baby. Or nail the immigrant maid. Those are the only two options besides killing yourself.
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: Thong Maniac on July 03, 2015, 12:17:17 PM
Lolxxx
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: funk51 on July 03, 2015, 12:28:49 PM
My wife hit me with a load of shit argument the other day. She has been on my ass making snide comments about how she likes me bigger aka chubbier, asking me how many cals i ate, tracking my food intake and giving me shit about it...all because im leaning up and looking good now. I called her out and it came out "i feel like your competing with me"... So fucked up cuz i would never in a million years think that way or even be so devious to "compete" on sex appeal with my wife. It was laughable but actually hurt to think she thought that. So insteasd of being supportive of my work ethic in gym and ability to not self destruct with binges, shes annoyed cuz i look good. Ridiculous.

And my wife is no fatty...bolt on tits, tiny waist with abs. At the beach this summer, every teen boy and man is gawking at her. Very in shape

Whats up here? Anyone else get this shit at home? Is this just pure insecurity from a woman?
simple she's looking for a permabulker...
Title: Re: Husband and wife competing on looks?
Post by: funk51 on July 03, 2015, 12:30:39 PM
simple she's looking for a permabulker...
;D better get eating these guys have a huge jump on you... break out the xxxl bikini...