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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won’t explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I’ll tell her it’s a hot story and I’m glad she had fun. It’s hot because she’s excited, and I’m glad because I’m a feminist.
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
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.....what the fuck...
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lol just lol ;D
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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
Done. What The Fuck!?
ACT LIKE A FUCK MAN!
There needs to be a reeducation camp of sorts to put betas like this back in line. >:(
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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
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I have always asked If a feminist (anti macho woman) is married with the ideal feminist "man"....
When they're having sex does she scream "fuck me like a Feminist ?"
WooOSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH CHA PO
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His fucking whore of a wife needs a few haymakers too. She's the one that ripped his balls off. Of course, he allowed it.
How long until she finds an alpha and leaves this piece of dog shit? A week? A month? She's probably already gone and he'll be stuck with the kids.
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This story is really about AJ and his wife.
Paulo = SF1900
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Shizzo is a feminist?
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His wife is a whore...he mis-diagnosed it as feminism.
I initially thought this was the beginning of a cuckolding erotic story.
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His fucking whore of a wife needs a few haymakers too. She's the one that ripped his balls off. Of course, he allowed it.
How long until she finds an alpha and leaves this piece of dog shit? A week? A month? She's probably already gone and he'll be stuck with the kids.
Correct. This whole thing started with her cheating on him.
He would lick the old semen out of her cooch when she got home if she asked him.
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This story is really about AJ and his wife.
Paulo = SF1900
:D
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Shizzo is a feminist?
Growing your own boobs is a step too far imo
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wow.. fucking degenerates
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needs to fucking man up !! ??? Darren take him for a pint and talk to him.. ;D
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The issue with open relationships, if they are 2-way (this is one isn't) is that the woman will inevitably get more men than the guys will get woman. I knew someone who tried an open relationship with his girlfriend. Both were good looking. The girl was practically going on dates whenever she wanted and was having sex like crazy. The guy, on the other hand, was not nearly going on as many dates or having as much sex as she was. What a shocker. ::) ::)
Did this guy not realize that all it took was for her to make a dating profile and receive like 50+ messages in just under 2 hours :::shaking head:: Open relationships rarely ever work out because its usually the guy who realizes that its a lot easier for his girlfriend to get a guy than vice versa.
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Yes, what wrong with this loser, he should be posting on here about how hes banging 10s and taking down 3 guys with knives or displaying his guns, maybe even taking selfies of his new watch and calling everyone betas because they dont earn as much money as him.
Guys happy, he couldnt give a single fuck about a load of macho talking fuckwits on a forum.
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The issue with open relationships, if they are 2-way (this is one isn't) is that the woman will inevitably get more men than the guys will get woman. I knew someone who tried an open relationship with his girlfriend. Both were good looking. The girl was practically going on dates whenever she wanted and was having sex like crazy. The guy, on the other hand, was not nearly going on as many dates or having as much sex as she was. What a shocker. ::) ::)
Did this guy not realize that all it took was for her to make a dating profile and receive like 50+ messages in just under 2 hours :::shaking head:: Open relationships rarely ever work out because its usually the guy who realizes that its a lot easier for his girlfriend to get a guy than vice versa.
That sucks man, did you guys end it after that?
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Yes, what wrong with this loser, he should be posting on here about how hes banging 10s and taking down 3 guys with knives or displaying his guns, maybe even taking selfies of his new watch and calling everyone betas because they dont earn as much money as him.
Guys happy, he couldnt give a single fuck about a load of macho talking fuckwits on a forum.
When I read the original post I thought of guys like you.
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When I read the original post I thought of guys like you.
Glad I occupy some space in your head.
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The issue with open relationships, if they are 2-way (this is one isn't)
It was. He says it in the article.
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i did know a guy who was into the open thing... his wife threw it around for years and then later he turned the tables round. He was working away a lot and then met another woman, started bringing her back for weekends to his Home... his wife had to accept it. They were fucked up though.
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Yes, what wrong with this loser, he should be posting on here about how hes banging 10s and taking down 3 guys with knives or displaying his guns, maybe even taking selfies of his new watch and calling everyone betas because they dont earn as much money as him.
Guys happy, he couldnt give a single fuck about a load of macho talking fuckwits on a forum.
I'm going to disagree with you here, this ain't about being macho.
That said, this dude is at least asexual and most likely gay. Just my opinion.
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Sounds like the guy isn't too happy actually. Talks a lot about stress, etc. a lot over it. What a dummy to add more issues to the "normal" issues in a marriage.
Sounds like he is trying to rationalize it in his own head to feel better.
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Löl.
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It was. He says it in the article.
Hahaha I didn't catch that either, what a dickhead. Guy's probably laying in bed PMing booty from his ipad 6000 miles away, while his wife's sucking the third cock of the week ;D ;D
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Glad I occupy some space in your head.
Lots of room for twinks like you Jeff!
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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
This cuckholding thing is spreading like wildfire. How is one to stop this menace?
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Hahaha I didn't catch that either, what a dickhead. Guy's probably laying in bed PMing booty from his ipad 6000 miles away, while his wife's sucking the third cock of the week ;D ;D
LMAO!
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Just need to send the Guy to -aj- for a day and toughen him up... Red neck Style... ;D
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I have no respect for men that let their women run things. None.
I don't want them in my presence.
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Löl.
epic foreign "lol"
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I have no respect for men that let their women run things. None.
I don't want them in my presence.
agree 100%. A Man has to be Manly and not all this weak crap. I rule the Roost ;D
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agree 100%. A Man has to be Manly and not all this weak crap. I rule the Roost ;D
This is absolutely insane to me. I'm only 36 and feel like I live in a totally different world than some of these cucks. Thankfully I have a father trained my well. He doesn't tolerate pussies either. I really want to whoop this guys ass then help him.
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I really want to whoop this guys ass then help him.
That could help and would make you feel good too. Win/win.
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I bet you Paulo is a "bad boy"...
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Just need to send the Guy to -aj- for a day and toughen him up... Red neck Style... ;D
I am pretty sure that it would just involve me beating him with a shovel all day long...
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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
DaFuq?
That can't be real.
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I am pretty sure that it would just involve me beating him with a shovel all day long...
Oh brotha. ::)
He'd probably kick the shit out of you. :D :D
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This is absolutely insane to me. I'm only 36 and feel like I live in a totally different world than some of these cucks. Thankfully I have a father trained my well. He doesn't tolerate pussies either. I really want to whoop this guys ass then help him.
don´t wanna sound like a macho dick but when i grew up you were expected to Man up and fast. Look after your family and be the Bread winner. the area was working class but no slum, still when you went for a Pint you had to be a Man and earn respect..also with your hands. To these soft new age liberal pussies this is like being a caveman. In my Day it was being a Man who could stand with other men drink a beer and shoot the shit. You never backed down from a punch up even if you got a beating..you never backed down.
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Oh brotha. ::)
He'd probably kick the shit out of you. :D :D
If that homo could take me, I would turn the shovel on myself. Hell, if my wife watched that beta homo knock me out, she'd probably shoot me to put me out to OUR misery.
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It was. He says it in the article.
Well, then, that is pretty sad.
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don´t wanna sound like a macho dick but when i grew up you were expected to Man up and fast. Look after your family and be the Bread winner. the area was working class but no slum, still when you went for a Pint you had to be a Man and earn respect..also with your hands. To these soft new age liberal pussies this is like being a caveman. In my Day it was being a Man who could stand with other men drink a beer and shoot the shit. You never backed down from a punch up even if you got a beating..you never backed down.
Agree 100% Donny. That's how my father is and he expects no less from his sons. I'll expect no less from my children if I have some Lord's will.
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Paulo The Brazilian putting it down!!!
I bet they met at "samba class".
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Agree 100% Donny. That's how my father is and he expects no less from his sons. I'll expect no less from my children if I have some Lord's will.
Wiggs, if your son was in a relationship and was allowing this to happen, what would you say to him? Would you have a heart-to-heart with him in a gentle way? Or would you scream in his face?
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Wiggs, if your son was in a relationship and was allowing this to happen, what would you say to him? Would you have a heart-to-heart with him in a gentle way? Or would you scream in his face?
This is the result of being raised to think a certain way about relationships. It wouldn't happen because my son would know how relationships work. If it did happen, I'd have a talk with him and tell him how he's acting and what will result. Then I'd let nature take it's course. Some guys have to learn the hard way. I'm not worried though. If you raise your children right, most of the time, things like this wont happen.
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Agree 100% Donny. That's how my father is and he expects no less from his sons. I'll expect no less from my children if I have some Lord's will.
yes and it´s the way it should be. My Father was proud to take me into the Masonic Lodge and say , my laddie is home for a few weeks. The old guys who were vets of Korea, Vietnam(yes we were there too) WW2 shook my hand looked you in the eye and bought you a wee Dram(whisky). My Father never said anything but he was respected in the Masonic Lodge. He never said to me i am proud of you but i knew he was and treated me like a Man. it was just the way it was.
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This is the result of being raised to think a certain way about relationships. It wouldn't happen because my son would know how relationships work. If it did happen, I'd have a talk with him and tell him how he's acting and what will result. Then I'd let nature take it's course. Some guys have to learn the hard way. I'm not worried though. If you raise your children right, most of the time, things like this wont happen.
I agree.
If I had a son and this did happen to him, Id have a talk with him. But at the end of the day, an adult is going to make their own decision, and nature will take its course.
I can almost guarantee this couple divorces.
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I can almost guarantee this couple divorces.
Yup. And somehow, she'll went end up with half of what he came into the "relationship" with. He'll get fucked some many times by so many people, he'll think that he's in prison.
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I bet you Paulo is a "bad boy"...
He's probably like 19 or something. :-\ :-\
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Yup. And somehow, she'll went end up with half of what he came into the "relationship" with. He'll get fucked some many times by so many people, he'll think that he's in prison.
She will get the kids (as long as she is fit to care for them). He will be paying child support and possibly alimony. It will not end well for this guy.
All it takes is for a guy like this to swoop her off her feet and shes gone (basically, your average getbigger).
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Yup. And somehow, she'll went end up with half of what he came into the "relationship" with. He'll get fucked some many times by so many people, he'll think that he's in prison.
and if he has as son, the son will be messed up as well. If the husband is emasculated, one can wonder what will happen to the son. And If he has a daugther, one wonders what the chances are she will be like mom?
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The article reeks of desperation. He's padding himself on the back in hopes to clearly re-establish something he claims to have never lost: self-esteem and dignity. It's pretty clear he has lost all confidence and is a total mess. Can't cope also with being married to a "5% slut". He resents her and finds a way to express this in a respectful manner. She's "challenging". Sad.
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(https://simbasays.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/muscle-model.jpg)
I can't believe that you found that old picture of me...
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I can't believe that you found that old picture of me...
Yes, it looks exactly like you, minus the face and body.
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Yes, it looks exactly like you, minus the face and body.
And the hair :-\
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A comment from the article section:
It's interesting the backlash to this article. the fear you can read in the reactions of other men. give it 10-20 years. it's the next wave.
possession is the last shoe to drop. people that can give up the idiotic binary arrangements of life are better positioned to be happier in a world where old tropes just don't seem worth the hassle.
you can't control someone else's desires. and no one is ever everything to someone. this couple at least has the courage to let go of the silly notion that those outward desires ....mean you're taking away from what you have.
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A comment from the article section:
It's interesting the backlash to this article. the fear you can read in the reactions of other men. give it 10-20 years. it's the next wave.
possession is the last shoe to drop. people that can give up the idiotic binary arrangements of life are better positioned to be happier in a world where old tropes just don't seem worth the hassle.
you can't control someone else's desires. and no one is ever everything to someone. this couple at least has the courage to let go of the silly notion that those outward desires ....mean you're taking away from what you have.
Yes, it's the old and inevitable "inevitability" argument. You can't stop "progress", so why try? Submit, it's easier.
I wonder if these women, should they ever get their wish, will ever stop being satisfied with being a cum-dumpster?
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A comment from the article section:
It's interesting the backlash to this article. the fear you can read in the reactions of other men. give it 10-20 years. it's the next wave.
possession is the last shoe to drop. people that can give up the idiotic binary arrangements of life are better positioned to be happier in a world where old tropes just don't seem worth the hassle.
you can't control someone else's desires. and no one is ever everything to someone. this couple at least has the courage to let go of the silly notion that those outward desires ....mean you're taking away from what you have.
Classic dialectic of the old vs the new. Sure, no one is ever everything to someone. So pretty much everyone is entitled to have everything they want. The new trend being the extension of "shopping" to all categories of life, relationships included. Then these people wonder why they are miserable as there's never enough things in their lives to meet that "everything" they expect. I can"t even begin to imagine what kind of education you can give a child on this basis.
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A comment from the article section:
It's interesting the backlash to this article. the fear you can read in the reactions of other men. give it 10-20 years. it's the next wave.
possession is the last shoe to drop. people that can give up the idiotic binary arrangements of life are better positioned to be happier in a world where old tropes just don't seem worth the hassle.
you can't control someone else's desires. and no one is ever everything to someone. this couple at least has the courage to let go of the silly notion that those outward desires ....mean you're taking away from what you have.
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So, give it 10-20 yrs for full on cuckholdery?
This person is saying a whole lotta nothing...
No you cannot control someone else's desires. But, the main reason why this man is in the place where he is at now, is because she lacks respect for her man, because he lacks respect for himself, and she is the dominant one, which for the most part, women do not respect a submissive man.
This woman desires a male who is not submissive (sexually), so she goes and seeks him, but keeps the husband, possibly due to financial reasons.
This whole anything goes leads down a very dangerous path.
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Imagine your wife crawling in bed next to you in the middle of the night whispering sweet nothings of her sexual acts with another man......
Guy is bi or gay.
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Imagine your wife crawling in bed next to you in the middle of the night whispering sweet nothings of her sexual acts with another man......
Guy is bi or gay.
and kissing her....
I think we can assume that as this progresses, he will be the "I like to watch" type and then full on UKGold.
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So, give it 10-20 yrs for full on cuckholdery?
This person is saying a whole lotta nothing...
No you cannot control someone else's desires. But, the main reason why this man is in the place where he is at now, is because she lacks respect for her man, because he lacks respect for himself, and she is the dominant one, which for the most part, women do not respect a submissive man.
This woman desires a male who is not submissive (sexually), so she goes and seeks him, but keeps the husband, possibly due to financial reasons.
This whole anything goes leads down a very dangerous predictable path.
I've seen it happen in more than one marriage. The man fails to assert himself in the marriage and the woman -- while not admitting to him or to herself -- loses respect and very quickly loses any sexual interest. Then it's just a matter of time before she moves on to a man that she respects and consequently finds incredibly sexually attractive.
Today's man has been societally conditioned to acquiesce to a woman's every whim and desire and also conditioned to avoid conflict at all costs. Following this advice is a complete disaster.
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I've seen it happen in more than one marriage. The man fails to assert himself in the marriage and the woman -- while not admitting to him or to herself -- loses respect and very quickly loses any sexual interest. Then it's just a matter of time before she moves on to a man that she respects and consequently finds incredibly sexually attractive.
Today's man has been societally conditioned to acquiesce to a woman's every whim and desire and also conditioned to avoid conflict at all costs. Following this advice is a complete disaster.
well said -aj- so true.
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Yes, it's the old and inevitable "inevitability" argument. You can't stop "progress", so why try? Submit, it's easier.
I wonder if these women, should they ever get their wish, will ever stop being satisfied with being a cum-dumpster?
Although I consider myself pretty progressive, and believe anyone should be able to marry each other (girl/guy, guy/guy, etc), I oppose this lifestyle.
There are some couples that engage in the swinging lifestyle. I have no problem with this, since its usually the couple going to the swinging party together, and its more of a lifestyle.
But the couple in the article is just strange. The guy is home with the kids while the wife is having sex with random guys. Thats a no-go for me. This doesnt seem like a lifestyle for them. Its more of a way for them to cheat and get their rocks off, without it actually being so.
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The issue with open relationships, if they are 2-way (this is one isn't) is that the woman will inevitably get more men than the guys will get woman. I knew someone who tried an open relationship with his girlfriend. Both were good looking. The girl was practically going on dates whenever she wanted and was having sex like crazy. The guy, on the other hand, was not nearly going on as many dates or having as much sex as she was. What a shocker. ::) ::)
Did this guy not realize that all it took was for her to make a dating profile and receive like 50+ messages in just under 2 hours :::shaking head:: Open relationships rarely ever work out because its usually the guy who realizes that its a lot easier for his girlfriend to get a guy than vice versa.
i think the only way it works is if your partner is always there. i dated a girl in my 20's and we had a semi open relationship, the caveat is it was only with other couples.
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Growing your own boobs is a step too far imo
Too bad they don't make a watch big enough to cover your hairline.
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i think the only way it works is if your partner is always there. i dated a girl in my 20's and we had a semi open relationship, the caveat is it was only with other couples.
Agreed. Read my above post about swingers.
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Although I consider myself pretty progressive, and believe anyone should be able to marry each other (girl/guy, guy/guy, etc), I oppose this lifestyle.
There are some couples that engage in the swinging lifestyle. I have no problem with this, since its usually the couple going to the swinging party together, and its more of a lifestyle.
But the couple in the article is just strange. The guy is home with the kids while the wife is having sex with random guys. Thats a no-go for me. This doesnt seem like a lifestyle for them. Its more of a way for them to cheat and get their rocks off, without it actually being so.
The problem with the swinging lifestyle, is it just a band aid for what is truly lacking in their relationship. Many start to engage due to wanting to put excitement back in there, sometimes it's this very same issue that we see in the op. Some become the "I like to watch"....ultimately, people become addicted to the lifestyle, just like those with the bodybuilding lifestyle. And then there are "the rules". I don't get the whole deal of bringing others into one's relationship has to do with rekindling the fire with your significant other, because you and your partner are with other people, who are there trying to do the same thing? It makes no sense!!!
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and kissing her....
I think we can assume that as this progresses, he will be the "I like to watch" type and then full on UKGold.
Or just breathing in your direction.
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The problem with the swinging lifestyle, is it just a band aid for what is truly lacking in their relationship. Many start to engage due to wanting to put excitement back in there, sometimes it's this very same issue that we see in the op. Some become the "I like to watch"....ultimately, people become addicted to the lifestyle, just like those with the bodybuilding lifestyle. And then there are "the rules". I don't get the whole deal of bringing others into one's relationship has to do with rekindling the fire with your significant other, because you and your partner are with other people, who are there trying to do the same thing? It makes no sense!!!
That's a blanket statement. Sure, swinging lifestyle does not always work, but its most likely still better than the arrangement in the article.
The difference between a swinging lifestyle, and the one you read about in the article, is the swinging lifestyle is more "mutual" in a sense that both parties are "together." The woman is not going out on random dates while the man sits home and vice versa. Its more of a collaboration between partners.
The relationship in the article just sounds like a "Free for all."
Its a much different dynamic.
I stand by my statement.
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That's a blanket statement. Sure, swinging lifestyle does not always work, but its most likely still better than the arrangement in the article.
The difference between a swinging lifestyle, and the one you read about in the article, is the swinging lifestyle is more "mutual" in a sense that both parties are "together." The woman is not going out on random dates while the man sits home and vice versa. Its more of a collaboration between partners.
The relationship in the article just sounds like a "Free for all."
Its a much different dynamic.
I stand by my statement.
quite true, it is mutual. But, how does one get to that point?
And then there is the whole "it's not cheating if we both know and we both are consenting and doing it"
There was a show about swingers and followed a few couples. In a few one party in the relationship introduces it, as they have done it before, in others the people have done it for a while. But in all, it seems that lack of intimacy, and a focus on the fun aspect---there here and now.
As you said, it's a different dynamic. From the one above. But, sometimes the one above, spirals into the swinging. And sometimes the swinging spirals into the one above.
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This swinging stuff......I would rather not be there seeing my wife getting pounded. Both are terrible/sickening. At least this guy doesn't have real images stuck in his head.
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quite true, it is mutual. But, how does one get to that point?
And then there is the whole "it's not cheating if we both know and we both are consenting and doing it"
There was a show about swingers and followed a few couples. In a few one party in the relationship introduces it, as they have done it before, in others the people have done it for a while. But in all, it seems that lack of intimacy, and a focus on the fun aspect---there here and now.
As you said, it's a different dynamic. From the one above. But, sometimes the one above, spirals into the swinging. And sometimes the swinging spirals into the one above.
Every time I make a statement, you seem to have this weird idea that I am generalizing to EVERY instance.
Of course there are those swinging couples where its done for the wrong reason or doesn't work out.
All-in-all, a swinging couple probably has a much better chance of having a healthy relationship, as opposed to the couple in the article. And I will say that this does not apply to EVERY single couple, but I am speaking in general terms. I have to say this because I know you will point out to a couple and say, "Well, it didnt work for this swinging couple." As stated, I am looking at the overall picture.
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http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/what-open-marriage-taught-one-man-about-feminism.html
This fucking homo needs a beat-down of epic proportions, and I elect Wiggs to deliver it.
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you not a feminist then i take it... :P
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you not a feminist then i take it... :P
On the contrary, I work with several extremely competent women and have a deep appreciation for a fit/strong woman. What I cannot abide is a man that abdicates any respect for himself. Why in heaven's name would ANY woman respect that man or find him remotely attractive?
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On the contrary, I work with several extremely competent women and have a deep appreciation for a fit/strong woman. What I cannot abide is a man that abdicates any respect for himself. Why in heaven's name would ANY woman respect that man or find him remotely attractive?
Yet, you allow your wife to lift more weight than you (when she lifted the 50 pound dumbbells).
Talk about abdicating any respect for yourself. :-\ :-\
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On the contrary, I work with several extremely competent women and have a deep appreciation for a fit/strong woman. What I cannot abide is a man that abdicates any respect for himself. Why in heaven's name would ANY woman respect that man or find him remotely attractive?
your guess is as good as mine.
ps
you might wanna stay away from those cuckold videos on xhamster :-X ;D
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Every time I make a statement, you seem to have this weird idea that I am generalizing to EVERY instance.
Of course there are those swinging couples where its done for the wrong reason or doesn't work out.
All-in-all, a swinging couple probably has a much better chance of having a healthy relationship, as opposed to the couple in the article. And I will say that this does not apply to EVERY single couple, but I am speaking in general terms. I have to say this because I know you will point out to a couple and say, "Well, it didnt work for this swinging couple." As stated, I am looking at the overall picture.
And therein lies the issue. If your relationship revolves around having other people, how is that healthy for the two in the relationship? And how does one start down this path? What is the source? Why does one or both parties develop a need to have others involved, and those others feel the need to have other people involved and so and so forth? That is what I am getting at.
The big picture comes from some "artist's" hands---from small to large.
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Yet, you allow your wife to lift more weight than you (when she lifted the 50 pound dumbbells).
Talk about abdicating any respect for yourself. :-\ :-\
Haha! Even with all that weight that she lifts, she literally worships my muscles. Nothing wrong with that at all.
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And therein lies the issue. If your relationship revolves around having other people, how is that healthy for the two in the relationship? And how does one start down this path? What is the source? Why does one or both parties develop a need to have others involved, and those others feel the need to have other people involved and so and so forth? That is what I am getting at.
The big picture comes from some "artist's" hands---from small to large.
That is not for you or me to say. It doesn't matter if the source of their happiness and healthiness is from other people. What is deemed happy and healthy is largely subjective. If two couples agree to the swinging lifestyle, and its what makes them happy and healthy, its not for me to ask, "Why does your relationship have to revolve around other people?" I don't care. There is no written rule that happiness cant be derived from people outside ones marriage. Thus, it is not an "issue" if it doesn't negatively impact their lives.
As for the couple in the article, perhaps they both derive their happiness from outside their marriage. So, be it. My problem is just the way they are going about doing it. It doesn't seem as cooperative as they are leading people to believe.
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I'm pretty sure this is a troll job by a former bb.com member who regularly writes parody articles about feminism, cuckholding and the live<laugh<love mentality and gets them published on 'serious' sites
the comments must be at least 50% trolls baiting the rabble, at least I hope so
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And therein lies the issue. If your relationship revolves around having other people, how is that healthy for the two in the relationship? And how does one start down this path? What is the source? Why does one or both parties develop a need to have others involved, and those others feel the need to have other people involved and so and so forth? That is what I am getting at.
The big picture comes from some "artist's" hands---from small to large.
what adult relationship revolves around sex anyway? when you get to the point where you have kids and mortgages sex becomes a secondary or tertiary part of the relationship
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what adult relationship revolves around sex anyway? when you get to the point where you have kids and mortgages sex becomes a secondary or tertiary part of the relationship
It's really for the best not to allow it to slide in priority. A healthy sex-life should be a marital priority.
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that way below beta
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Haha! Even with all that weight that she lifts, she literally worships my muscles. Nothing wrong with that at all.
She's not the only one that worships your muscles...
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that way below beta
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I put the author as a "Delta" based on this chart, which actually sounds complimentary given all of the baggage heaped on the word "beta"
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It's really for the best not to allow it to slide in priority. A healthy sex-life should be a marital priority.
i reckon a roof over your head and food in your kid's bellies take priority
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i reckon a roof over your head and food in your kid's bellies take priority
Yeah, OK. I will give you that on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. But the point that I am trying to make is that it's a mistake to allow for sex to be de-emphasized in a marriage and can ultimately lead down a bad path. I've seen many "good friends" marriages ultimately fail because the physiological need for sex and the connection that it brings is real. If it isn't fulfilled in the marriage it *will* be fulfilled elsewhere.
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The problem with the swinging lifestyle, is it just a band aid for what is truly lacking in their relationship.
How do you know it's not the "relationship" that was lacking from a promiscuous lifestyle? Why does it have to start with a relationship as the baseline?
I'm with SF on this one. It's not my cup of tea, and it's often a disaster, but it is a part of many successful lifestyles. To each his/her own.
But, in the case of the original story, she's still a goo infested cunt whore.