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I know three guys who've gotten married to single moms in the last year and another guy is marrying one next month. I'm not sure what's more disturbing, that there's so many single moms or guys marrying a chick to take after a kid that's not theirs.
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I know three guys who've gotten married to single moms in the last year and another guy is marrying one next month. I'm not sure what's more disturbing, that there's so many single moms or guys marrying a chick to take after a kid that's not theirs.
Lots of people seem to do it.
My girl has no kids and we aren't having any, and of course my kids live with my ex wife.
I've dated women with kids... Some dads stay around, and some disappear. My kids step-dad knows what's up and knows I'm always around.
Depends on the dad as to whether it's an issue.
Here's a hint, if the woman says my "baby daddy", run away as fast as possible.
If they say ex husband, then you're probably ok.
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I know three guys who've gotten married to single moms in the last year and another guy is marrying one next month. I'm not sure what's more disturbing, that there's so many single moms or guys marrying a chick to take after a kid that's not theirs.
Do not automatically assume that the new father will be their to take care of the kid. I know a guy who got married to a single mom, but the biological father is extremely active in the child's life. The guy I know, of course, plays a role in the kids life, since he lives with them. But he in no way "takes after" the kid. All decisions come from the biological mother and biological father. The step-father just kind of chills back. He offers support when needed, but hes not playing daddy either.
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Do not automatically assume that the new father will be their to take care of the kid. I know a guy who got married to a single mom, but the biological father is extremely active in the child's life. The guy I know, of course, plays a role in the kids life, since he lives with them. But he in no way "takes after" the kid. All decisions come from the biological mother and biological father. The step-father just kind of chills back. He offers support when needed, but hes not playing daddy either.
That's how it is with my ex-wife and I.
My decisions are still the way it's going to be.
I'll generally be cool about most things, but if I'm fundamentally opposed to something, then that shit isn't happening.
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Always funny to hear her demand more child support money over the phone to her ex while sitting at dinner and she's paying for it.
Poor bastard is getting fleeced meanwhile you are running up the tab on his dime and he is none the wiser.
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Always funny to hear her demand more child support money over the phone to her ex while sitting at dinner and she's paying for it.
Poor bastard is getting fleeced meanwhile you are running up the tab on his dime and he is none the wiser.
I never understood why guys have to provide money and women never have to provide receipts for it.
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Do not automatically assume that the new father will be their to take care of the kid. I know a guy who got married to a single mom, but the biological father is extremely active in the child's life. The guy I know, of course, plays a role in the kids life, since he lives with them. But he in no way "takes after" the kid. All decisions come from the biological mother and biological father. The step-father just kind of chills back. He offers support when needed, but hes not playing daddy either.
the english lads call this clucking
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Used to fuck a lot of single moms back when I had hair and teeth,but never entertained the idea of marrying one.
Fuck that noise!! :D
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Used to fuck a lot of single moms back when I had hair and teeth,but never entertained the idea of marrying one.
Fuck that noise!! :D
a very sound policy
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a very sound policy
No shit,who wants a ready made family ???
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No shit,who wants a ready made family ???
.. and you will be the low man on the totem pole
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Used to fuck a lot of single moms back when I had hair and teeth,but never entertained the idea of marrying one.
Fuck that noise!! :D
A lot of wisdom in this thread.
But man is it hard to find a woman in my age group without kids already...
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A lot of wisdom in this thread.
But man is it hard to find a woman in my age group without kids already...
whores
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A lot of wisdom in this thread.
But man is it hard to find a woman in my age group without kids already...
It is... I got lucky.
Date chicks in the mid 20s. Your odds will be better.
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It is... I got lucky.
Date chicks in the mid 20s. Your odds will be better.
^^^THIS
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My friend married a girl 8 years older than him with 3 ugly ass kids. Just when he was talking about moving on, bam, she gets knocked up. Total moron.
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It is... I got lucky.
Date chicks in the mid 20s. Your odds will be better.
I see your post have been approved by the ever so mighty Wes, but mid 20's can be deceiving. Most of them are just waiting to fall apart and it happens fast after mid 20's. Too much of a gamble for me.
I'd wait until 32 or so.
I once read a woman's beauty peaks when she's 10 000 days old (28) I agree with that.
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I see your post have been approved by the ever so mighty Wes, but mid 20's can be deceiving. Most of them are just waiting to fall apart and it happens fast after mid 20's. Too much of a gamble for me.
I'd wait until 32 or so.
I once read a woman's beauty peaks when she's 10 000 days old (28) I agree with that.
Every year after 24, the odds of a child rise.
It's just a way of the world now.
Like I said, I got fucking lucky. You can tell what she will end up like usually though... Just look at her mom. They ALWAYS look like their mom when they get older.
If mom looks pretty fit, she'll be good to go.
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I've had one wife, one child and one dog. After my marriage ended there was no way I would take on another woman's child.
Now I hang with a women eleven years younger who has never had kids and has a great job.
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Unfortunately, men's libidos tend to dictate their behavior.
NEVER marry anyone, especially a single mom looking for a meal ticket from a sugar daddy.
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I know three guys who've gotten married to single moms in the last year and another guy is marrying one next month. I'm not sure what's more disturbing, that there's so many single moms or guys marrying a chick to take after a kid that's not theirs.
Probably an age thing.
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Unfortunately, men's libidos tend to dictate their behavior.
NEVER marry anyone, especially a single mom looking for a meal ticket from a sugar daddy.
I agree and learned the hard way. Although nothing wrong with marrying a wealthy woman or a woman with a great career. I know a guy that just married a top Boston merger and acquisition attorney and he's living like a king. My gf is a top executive for a privately owned IT company. When it sells she's all set finically. This is her second start up with the same CEO.
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Whenever I see a woman with kid/s...my only thought...stay away and...cool, she goes raw.
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It seems the housing boom caused a lot of couples to procreate and buy a house they can't afford. Market crashed. Forclose on home which leads to hate and divorce and some chick with a kid or two with shattered dreams. Almost any hot chick I see in her 30s has a kid or two.
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Marrying a chick with a kid is cool if the biological father is around and not a complete loser. Raising someone else's kids is another thing all together.
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TuHolmes bringing the truth as usual.
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I will NEVER raise another man's children.
If the woman has kids who are, say, in their teens, or close to it, and the bio father is involved, then maybe, sure.
Otherwise, NOPE.
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I could raise a girl, if she is cute, and if I'd like her mother A LOT. Boy? No way...
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I know three guys who've gotten married to single moms in the last year and another guy is marrying one next month. I'm not sure what's more disturbing, that there's so many single moms or guys marrying a chick to take after a kid that's not theirs.
I would never do this. Could never raise another man's child. Casual friend of mine is marrying a ginger woman with 2 little red headed monsters. :-X
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That's how it is with my ex-wife and I.
My decisions are still the way it's going to be.
I'll generally be cool about most things, but if I'm fundamentally opposed to something, then that shit isn't happening.
Ditto on this. My wife's ex is a good dad so I respect my lane. Never had any drama in 8yrs
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I would never do this. Could never raise another man's child. Casual friend of mine is marrying a ginger woman with 2 little red headed monsters. :-X
Not sure which is worse.
Some little red head shits, or a bunch of little molato's running around. The molato's would make one like like a total bitch. OH hell no...
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I could raise a girl, if she is cute, and if I'd like her mother A LOT. Boy? No way...
Even if the dad was Mike O Hearn?
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A lot of those single moms still fuck the father of their child on the side. If she ever says anything like "he gross now" or "He doesn't turn me on anymore", those are red flags and she's most likely lying.
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Even if the dad was Mike O Hearn?
I'd take an extra care of that girl in that case. You don't want to upset a multiple Judo champion.
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I'd take an extra care of that girl in that case. You don't want to upset a multiple Judo champion.
You got that right!
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Not sure which is worse.
Some little red head shits, or a bunch of little molato's running around. The molato's would make one like like a total bitch. OH hell no...
Both sound horrible.
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I would never do this. Could never raise another man's child. Casual friend of mine is marrying a ginger woman with 2 little red headed monsters. :-X
Nightmare scenario right there.
Those red heads are always little hell raisers.
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My buddy is 28 years old owns a business good looking guy just married a girl with a little daughter. I think he is crazy. He had the world by the nuts and he settles for raising another man's seed.
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There are alot of single moms as things happen and people break up.People fall in love whether thay have kids oe not ao there is gonna be someone who loves them and will marry them.I dont think anyone seeks them out.
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I'll never be another man's punk and raise his kid for him. Single moms are strictly smash and dash material. And with how today's society is, single moms are almost the norm these days once you hit your mid to late 20's so get used to it. Marriage is becoming obsolete...
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I'll never be another man's punk and raise his kid for him. Single moms are strictly smash and dash material. And with how today's society is, single moms are almost the norm these days once you hit your mid to late 20's so get used to it. Marriage is becoming obsolete...
LOL!!!
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A lot of those single moms still fuck the father of their child on the side. If she ever says anything like "he gross now" or "He doesn't turn me on anymore", those are red flags and she's most likely lying.
THIS. no matter how big of a piece of shit that man is, they always have a soft spot, they always have that dick on the side, they always have that hope of a family reunion once he grows up.
and often they don't even consider it cheating... more like 'family maintenance and long-term communication'. A quick getting off when they drop off/pick up the kids aint no thing.
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THIS. no matter how big of a piece of shit that man is, they always have a soft spot, they always have that dick on the side, they always have that hope of a family reunion once he grows up.
and often they don't even consider it cheating... more like 'family maintenance and long-term communication'. A quick getting off when they drop off/pick up the kids aint no thing.
That's the crack talking bro.
They have to cheat with the dude and the dude has to want to cheat or at least bang the mom.
Maybe in the land of baby mommas and bullshit, but if someone is divorced from a Ex, the only way they'd hit it, is with a baseball bat.
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That's the crack talking bro.
They have to cheat with the dude and the dude has to want to cheat or at least bang the mom.
Maybe in the land of baby mommas and bullshit, but if someone is divorced from a Ex, the only way they'd hit it, is with a baseball bat.
its almost always that they're separated, or they were never married in the first place.
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its almost always that they're separated, or they were never married in the first place.
That is why I put that caveat in there... Divorced men do not go back to their exes... Trust me when I say this.
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There are alot of single moms as things happen and people break up.People fall in love whether thay have kids oe not ao there is gonna be someone who loves them and will marry them.I dont think anyone seeks them out.
That's all very true. You can't always help who you fall in love with.
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That's all very true. You can't always help who you fall in love with.
Sure you can. We all make choices---and many of those choices can be based off of experiences good or bad.
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This thread is pointless without endless pics of gaping milfs, very I am disapoint
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Stay away from single moms! you will ruin your fuacking life. :'(
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Stay away from single moms! you will ruin your fuacking life. :'(
Have a story to tell?
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Yes!
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Simple math, the older you get without getting married the odds are greater you'll meet women with kids.
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Simple math, the older you get without getting married the odds are greater you'll meet women with kids.
Yeah :-\
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Simple math, the older you get without getting married the odds are greater you'll meet women with kids.
That's the great thing about liking younger girls...the odds of them being single moms are nil.
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That's the great thing about liking younger girls...the odds of them being single moms are nil.
Well yeah rarely do 13yr olds have kids man. ::)
Reality is most every woman I've known has a kid by 25 at least here in the USA.
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This. I also hate when mothers especially single ones try to convince everyone including themselves that their kid is the greatest thing in the world to them. In reality the majority would rather not have had the kid if they could go back in time.