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Title: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: DanielPaul on October 15, 2015, 03:13:09 PM
Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances.  This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: HTexan on October 15, 2015, 03:25:57 PM
Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances.  This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.
i just lost a first cousin to ALS. :'(
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 03:41:38 PM
Some girl I know just lost a sister to a drug overdose.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:03:20 PM
My Daughter.
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Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 15, 2015, 04:13:58 PM
My Daughter.


:/

Sorry, my friend :/
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Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:17:16 PM
Thanks you.

Never really got over it.
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Post by: Princess L on October 15, 2015, 04:21:47 PM
Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances.  This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

Yes
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Post by: Montague on October 15, 2015, 04:26:09 PM
My Daughter.


You have my sympathies, friend.
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Post by: YngiweRhoads on October 15, 2015, 04:28:42 PM
My spouse.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 04:28:53 PM
Thanks you.

Never really got over it.

No one truly gets over losing a child. There is no such thing as "getting over it." You learn to integrate the experience, adapt, and manage the loss.

Be well.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:37:41 PM
No one truly gets over losing a child. There is no such thing as "getting over it." You learn to integrate the experience, adapt, and manage the loss.

Be well.













I didn't integrate or adapt.

Just barely managed to Keep my Anger under some sort of Control.
Did some very Bad Things.

26yrs on it Hurts.
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Post by: robcguns on October 15, 2015, 04:42:23 PM
My Daughter.

Very sorry to hear that,i couldnt imagine what that is like.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 04:43:31 PM












I didn't integrate or adapt.

Just barely managed to Keep my Anger under some sort of Control.
Did some very Bad Things.

26yrs on it Hurts.

I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: JGD on October 15, 2015, 04:43:56 PM
I lost my best friend since I was 12 years old last year. He was as much of a brother to me as my actual brother, and died at work on a boat from an undiagnosed heart defect.
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Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:50:41 PM
Very sorry to hear that,i couldnt imagine what that is like.













Thanks.
Wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Totally devastated Me.
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Post by: HarleyBreite on October 15, 2015, 04:53:59 PM
I lost my younger brother.  It forever changed my personality.
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Post by: Pray_4_War on October 15, 2015, 04:54:37 PM
Yes.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: DanielPaul on October 15, 2015, 04:56:25 PM
I lost my sister in a drunk driving accident 15 years ago, I was 20 at the time and she was just about to turn 19.  Since we were close in age we spent a lot of time together, people would often confuse us for twins lol.  She was the only person injured in the accident, three girls riding around drinking, they ran off the road and a tee post went through the windshield into the back seat and struck her in the head.  She lived for eight days then was taken off life support.  Every once in a while I dream about my family and she'll be there but she's never normal, in my dreams she is always injured and this bugs the living shit out of me.  I have these dreams maybe two or three times a year but every time it takes a while to get over.  Does anyone else experience this with there lost loved ones
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:56:28 PM
I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.
(quote]














As you replied to my post.
i presumed wrongly you were.

We are all different emotionally & how we Do or Don't deal with things.
Life can be Great at Times.  And sometimes Very Hard.

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Post by: Set It Up on October 15, 2015, 05:01:33 PM
Sorry for all the getbiggers who lost someone close. Normally I dont give a shit when someone I dont know dies, but I feel a bit for some getbiggers
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 05:09:39 PM
Sorry for all the getbiggers who lost someone close. Normally I dont give a shit when someone I dont know dies, but I feel a bit for some getbiggers













Ha. i would say that's quite a normal reaction.
As there is no emotional involvement with some one you don't know.

Here on Getbig we are more caring.
 ;)
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Post by: K-1 on October 15, 2015, 05:18:41 PM
Brother...drive by shooting
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 05:29:05 PM
I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.
(quote]














As you replied to my post.
i presumed wrongly you were.

We are all different emotionally & how we Do or Don't deal with things.
Life can be Great at Times.  And sometimes Very Hard.



Agreed
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: Kwon_2 on October 15, 2015, 05:42:57 PM
Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances.  This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

I have lost a few, several within a short timespan.
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Post by: deadz on October 15, 2015, 05:49:53 PM
My brother...car accident.
Title: Re: A serious and personal question for you guys.
Post by: The Scott on October 15, 2015, 07:43:53 PM
Youngest brother to suicide.  As my mother taught me so very long ago, it's not always "it is what it is".  Sometimes, it is what you make of it.


All the best.
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Post by: Waller on October 15, 2015, 07:50:08 PM
Yes.
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Post by: DroppingPlates on October 15, 2015, 07:52:44 PM
My Daughter.

...  :-\
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Post by: wes on October 16, 2015, 01:37:45 AM
Wow,this thread is depressing.

My condolences to everyone here that has suffered a loss.
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Post by: flinstones1 on October 16, 2015, 01:39:23 AM
My Daughter.

Sorry to hear that brother  :-\
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Post by: Yamcha on October 16, 2015, 02:43:25 AM
In all seriousness, my condolences go out to all who have suffered a tragic loss. I cannot imagine the pain/grief. I hope you all find peace.
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Post by: Raymondo on October 16, 2015, 02:47:55 AM
I haven't lost anyone in tragic circumstances but the thought of doing so is extremely frightening.

I am ill-equipped to handle something like that (but then again who isn't?) and would probably go under quickly and stay there for some time.
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Post by: falco on October 16, 2015, 03:58:35 AM
Recently my brother just got out of the closet. Yes, homo.  :'(
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Post by: 10pints on October 16, 2015, 07:34:16 AM
I do hope the first question was to setup a brilliant troll on the second question.....