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Title: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Thong Maniac on August 23, 2016, 03:40:56 PM
question for property owning adult getbiggers, with career and house...not single tough guys in their moms basement.

If you recall my neighbor thread about a month back (i tried to bump but couldnt find), alot of GBer allstars told me ways of dealing with a dick head. well, it got to the point where i had to block her number (yes, she got it from my builder), call a couple lawyers for advice, and now im just still dealing with the akwardness of a devil bitch and living next to her.

so my question is; Can you really say "hey xxxxxx, fuck off now, im busy and dont care"? i know in fairy tale world and movies this is said with no reprocussions. in the real world, when your house is 20ft from your neighbors, can you really say something like that, or is that considered "threatening", or something? legally, Can i tell someone to Fuck off? (in those exact words)?

to resident man-baby getbiggers this may be laughed at, but I am sure old and wise GBers know what I am asking and why

thanks
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: cephissus on August 23, 2016, 03:53:40 PM
There is no real world, try it and see what happens
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: youandme on August 23, 2016, 04:15:42 PM
Yeah, of course.
Your lawyer should send her a cease and desist  letter for whatever she has been doing
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Las Vegas on August 23, 2016, 04:15:51 PM
Smile and wave when you say it.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Kwon on August 23, 2016, 04:20:34 PM
Is it about those neighbours complaining about your lights again?
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Thong Maniac on August 23, 2016, 04:23:03 PM
Is it about those neighbours complaining about your lights again?

yep, just one of the many petty bullshit topics they want to harrass me about
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Thong Maniac on August 23, 2016, 04:24:34 PM
Yeah, of course.
Your lawyer should send her a cease and desist  letter for whatever she has been doing


yeah ive mentuoned this
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Obvious Gimmick on August 23, 2016, 04:49:08 PM
Depends on there you live I suppose. In California, there is nothing criminal about that. Civilly, there if she can prove that your words "inflicted emotional distress," then she could file suit. But I think that would be very hard to prove.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: BB on August 23, 2016, 04:52:31 PM
Nope, while it wouldn't polite, it wouldn't be illegal. It can't be considered a "terroristic threat", etc.... And, unless you stood around making a fool out of yourself doing it, it wouldn't be harassment or disturbing the peace.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Irongrip400 on August 23, 2016, 05:30:45 PM
Man that sucks that you live next to an asshole. You're stuck now though. Hopefully you're not the asshole though. What's her beef?

Side note, it's also not illegal to throw a sick side tricep at her when she pipes up again. Throw in a crab most muscular for good measure.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: youandme on August 23, 2016, 05:37:54 PM
Depends on there you live I suppose. In California, there is nothing criminal about that. Civilly, there if she can prove that your words "inflicted emotional distress," then she could file suit. But I think that would be very hard to prove.

Nah, has to be extreme and outrageous.

Just don't threaten her and you're fine.

Surprised your lawyers didn't write a letter and charge you.  May not be law on point but they can persuade her that her actions are ripening into illegality and that for her sake should cease or legal action will be filed.....this pushing her into a corner and when she does something after the letter it looks like retaliation.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: OlympiaGym on August 23, 2016, 05:43:34 PM
Depending on your jurisdiction you could be charged with assault almost always a misdemeanor
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: SquidVicious on August 23, 2016, 05:47:20 PM
You can definitely tell the police to fuck off if you have a friend recording it.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on August 23, 2016, 05:51:02 PM
Time to end this and ass rape her. The sexual tension has reached its max.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: chaos on August 23, 2016, 06:01:23 PM
Why wouldn't you be able to ???
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Walter Sobchak on August 23, 2016, 06:29:14 PM
Depending on your jurisdiction you could be charged with assault almost always a misdemeanor

No....how did you come up with this?
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Never1AShow on August 23, 2016, 06:46:40 PM
It doesn't matter want you say, it matters what she hears.  So you better record it so there is an actual record.  You could tell her to fuck off and she could tell the cops that you said you are going to fuck her up.  And some people are so weak and emotional,y fragile and nutso that she might actually think she's telling the truth.

Can you truly find no way to avoid this person?
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Las Vegas on August 23, 2016, 06:56:50 PM
Just say you were wishing her the LUCK OF the Irish.

But seriously... any reason you can't ignore her?  If she sees you and tries to start in, then just act as though she's invisible.  Less stress for you than telling her to fuck off, and there's no excuse for her to feel threatened.  Don't say anything to her and don't respond in any way to her presence.  She'll get the hint very quickly.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on August 23, 2016, 07:02:28 PM
if she feels threatend by what you say you can be charged with assault, just wave and ignore sounds like you in a no win situation.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Walter Sobchak on August 23, 2016, 07:37:20 PM
if she feels threatend by what you say you can be charged with assault, just wave and ignore sounds like you in a no win situation.

Being charged is not being convicted. In America anyone can charge anyone with just about anything.

Getting a conviction is a whole other story.

Tell the bitch to fuck off or you will cut her head off and mount it over your fireplace
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Simple Simon on August 24, 2016, 12:13:01 AM
If you feel the need to tell her to fuck of shes owning your mind.

You should be in a position to simply ignore her, that's when you are in a winning position.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Skeeter on August 24, 2016, 05:07:52 AM
Post their phone number and address to getbig. The situation will sort itself out after that.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Thong Maniac on August 24, 2016, 05:08:48 AM
If you feel the need to tell her to fuck of shes owning your mind.

You should be in a position to simply ignore her, that's when you are in a winning position.

good point be there. she definitly is in my head. im not gonna lie. i will take this advice.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: spiro on August 24, 2016, 05:41:10 AM
Quit being such a pussy man I know you have anxiety I have it too but there comes a point when you have to stick up for yourself. Next time she says something tell her to buzz of and to quit bothering you and walk away. Do that enough she will get the point. These people are terrorizing you time to put them in their place.  

If you get red in the face or your voice cracks or you get super nervous who fucking cares no one cares but you. Stick up for yourself. I have horrible anxiety but it has gotten better I won't ever let people push me around. Having anxiety doesn't make you weak. I can't tell you how many times I had to punch someone in the mouth.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Never1AShow on August 24, 2016, 05:43:49 AM
What is the gripe again?  You leave your lights on?  What does she care about that?  I'd buy twice as many lights.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: BodyMachine on August 24, 2016, 06:33:44 AM
You know what gets ppl more, ignoring them, as in 100%
Or the complete opposite, you are ridiculously polite in the most annoying of ways. Fuck off does nothing, think of all the relationships you had in your life in which you approached it that way. 
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: TuHolmes on August 24, 2016, 07:03:02 AM
Misdemeanors must be performed in front of an officer unless she wants to go down the "citizen's arrest" route.

You'll be fine.

I agree with the rest of the "just ignore her completely" group.

Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: LurkerNoMore on August 24, 2016, 07:34:11 AM
Post their phone number and address to getbig. The situation will sort itself out after that.

Best advice ever.  Let us take care of this for you.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Las Vegas on August 24, 2016, 07:51:00 AM
Yes, imo the problem with cursing someone is that it appears you're welcoming it to escalate.

And you don't want that.  You want it to de-escalate so you can live in peace.

Ignore her, and if she feels she has legitimate reason to make you recognize something (her complaint or whatever) it will force her to make a formal contact in writing.  If she does in fact do that, which I sincerely doubt she will, then post it up with all personal info blacked-out.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: NelsonMuntz on August 24, 2016, 09:32:35 AM
should get Commissioner One More Rep to send out the  Bat Bowtie signal over Gotham GetBig and your legal question may get answered



Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: phreak on August 24, 2016, 09:35:27 AM
What is the gripe again?  You leave your lights on?  What does she care about that?  I'd buy twice as many lights.
This! It'd be christmas all day err' day!
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: epic_alien on August 24, 2016, 10:40:03 AM
im not quite sure why your so afraid to tell this lady to leave you alone? Sometimes harsh words are needed to make people leave you alone. She cannot hurt or ruin your life by you simple;y saying to her fuck off and leave me alone. Since it seems you won't ever do this because you have asked about it several times here. i think you should take the posit route.

send her gifts. send her flowers, do nice things for her.  be so kind, and not sarcastically, and make her feel guilty for being so rude and hateful towards you.


im not sure what else you can do. you won't tell her to fuck off, we know you won't do that, so try something such as  killing her with kindness and see if you can make her change her mind about you
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: phreak on August 24, 2016, 10:50:23 AM
Most people do not have their smoke detectors properly serviced. They wouldn't notice a fire until it was too late.

Not saying anything, just a cautionary tale for fellow getbiggers.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Tapeworm on August 24, 2016, 11:11:19 AM
Nah, has to be extreme and outrageous.

Just don't threaten her and you're fine.

Surprised your lawyers didn't write a letter and charge you.  May not be law on point but they can persuade her that her actions are ripening into illegality and that for her sake should cease or legal action will be filed.....this pushing her into a corner and when she does something after the letter it looks like retaliation.

Right on.  Time to bring in an outside party to threaten legal action, then carry it out with court ordered restraint if necessary.  Only lawyers win, etc, but this could be money very well spent.  Get your lawyer's advice on how to best respond if they're on your phone or at your door.  I'd do the 'desist or a restraint motion will be filed' letter thing and then change the phone number or block calls from theirs if possible (as your lawyer recommends).  If they continue to call or come around after that, everyone will agree it's harassment, including a court.  Also consider a camera at the door and recording calls.  Might be real handy one day if lies start flying.

Never initiate contact yourself, obviously, no matter what.  They're contacting you and you want that to stop.  No petty vengeance crap, ever.  If you have done something stupid already then you'll have to make a plan with your lawyer, but your position will be severely weakened.

Document everything, with dates and description of what happened.  Keep a notebook handy and write it all down.  Hope you can find some peace, bro.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Beach Mode on August 24, 2016, 12:25:20 PM
Throwing a woman out is tricky
It's not as easy as one day throwing out all her shit on the street and changing the lock
There will be consequences and repercussions
L♡L
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Nirvana on August 24, 2016, 01:48:55 PM
People are just looking for a response. They yell shit at you, be combative, give you a hard time, pugnacious, etc.. 

The solution? Don't respond in any way. Don't talk, don't look,,,nothing. Don't give them the dignity of a response or even a second thought.
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Fortress on August 24, 2016, 05:28:55 PM
I find the following, chosen from what's been offered, as the best:

1. Threaten to cut off her head and mount it over your fireplace.

2. Forcibly insert your penis into her crapper

3. Buy and sling as many goddamn lights as possible

Might I offer these additional suggestions ...

Drop a steamy deuce into her mailbox with a letter directing her to fuck off

Impale her cat on a stick and display in her rose bushes

Drive your car into her at a high rate of speed

HTH
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: wes on August 24, 2016, 06:59:00 PM
I`d tell her to blow me!!
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: Beach Mode on August 24, 2016, 07:01:28 PM
I once consulted a bodybuilding forum on how to get rid of a woman

6-8 hours after execution of the advice the woman went absolutely MENTAL

not for the faint of heart
Title: Re: Legally, Can you tell someone to Fuck Off?
Post by: bgm on August 24, 2016, 08:50:45 PM
This is the real answer... You can tell anyone (police included) to 'fuck off', HOWEVER if you do this AND it happens to be within earshot of someone who could be offended by such language - then you run the risk of being charged with disturbing the peace.

I have personally told an officer he was a 'fucking asshole', whilst I wagged my middle finger at him. His supervisor was less than 10ft from him. Felt good to get it off my chest.