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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Howard on December 16, 2016, 02:33:21 PM
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I've known all kinds of dudes who were happy and enjoyed their single bachelor lifestyle.
At some point they start feeling guilty or something and "settle down".
They end up married and have kids which makes them feel trapped.
Then they sneak around and hope they don't get caught.
They become distant from their wife and rarely have quality sex with her.
The kids are stressful and he starts to long for his old single life.
I like being married and never wanted kids and know some guys who love being "family men".
But I've known a lot more that "settle down" and act like some invisible force is making them do it.
If a guy's happy single and makes enough $$ to pay his bills, why make such a drastic change and be Unhappy?
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There are two types of men in this world one that does what society tells him to do and the other that choose his own path and live life by his own rules.
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There are two types of men in this world one that does what society tells him to do and the other that choose his own path and live life by his own rules.
Bingo.
This is why I refuse to belong to any organized religion or only vote for one political party, etc
I took pride in competing in Untested NPC shows without using juice.
Most natural contests seemed small and poorly organized, so I did NPC contests.
I knew what most guys did to compete and I didn't care.
I always figured, if they wanted to win that badly, so be it.
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Bingo.
Well that was easy.
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pressure from their parents
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There are two types of men in this world one that does what society tells him to do and the other that choose his own path and live life by his own rules.
most peeps are followers and a select few are those who march to their own drums
be queer belongs to the former
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Marriage is financially destructive for a man, but it's financially beneficial for a woman.
Marriage is legally and financially binding... ignorance of the law is no excuse.
60% of the time, marriage leads to divorce. Divorce is hands-down the worst thing that can ever happen to a man... it is financial castration. It's even worse when kids are involved.
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pressure from their parents
I guess that can be pretty common.
I grew up with a great athlete who played Div I football (QB) back in the 1970's.
He ended up moving back to our hometown in NH and married his HS sweetheart.
A few years into the marriage and both sets of parents started pressuring them for grand kids.
He caved and they had a boy and girl.
Once I asked him how it really was being a parent and he replied ;
" Kids suck the life out of ya."
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60% of the time, marriage leads to divorce.
That little? Thought it was way more than that.
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Marriage is financially destructive for a man, but it's financially beneficial for a woman.
Marriage is legally and financially binding... ignorance of the law is no excuse.
60% of the time, marriage leads to divorce. Divorce is hands-down the worst thing that can ever happen to a man... it is financial castration. It's even worse when kids are involved.
Good post and I never got seriously involved with a woman that didn't have a good career ( make her own $).
I went thru 3 different divorces and the only thing I ever paid was the Uncontested divorce fee for the lawyer and court filing .
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I've known all kinds of dudes who were happy and enjoyed their single bachelor lifestyle.
At some point they start feeling guilty or something and "settle down".
They end up married and have kids which makes them feel trapped.
Then they sneak around and hope they don't get caught.
They become distant from their wife and rarely have quality sex with her.
The kids are stressful and he starts to long for his old single life.
I like being married and never wanted kids and know some guys who love being "family men".
But I've known a lot more that "settle down" and act like some invisible force is making them do it.
If a guy's happy single and makes enough $$ to pay his bills, why make such a drastic change and be Unhappy?
Haven't you been through all this before? Keep posting about it and your happiness with the decision(s) you made start to become suspect. Who are you trying to convince, everyone else or yourself?
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Haven't you been through all this before? Keep posting about it and your happiness with the decision(s) you made start to become suspect. Who are you trying to convince, everyone else or yourself?
I can recycle topics here but with new posters always joining getbig wtf.
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ive gone back and forth about this,
but i do enjoy taking my long trips to asia and fucking young hot asian whores. i am ruined for life !
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I can recycle topics here but with new posters always joining getbig wtf.
Yes, you can do as you choose. Perhaps you feel it is your duty to inform the youngins and newbies about the pitfalls of becoming a parent. I had not thought of that...my bad.
(wtf)? where did that come from?
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It's just the nature of things...... My intelligence has helped me hold out this long, but my biological mind is also whispering in my ear.
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ive gone back and forth about this,
but i do enjoy taking my long trips to asia and fucking young hot asian whores. i am ruined for life !
I am with you on this marriage is not for me I love to travel and fuck those hot young sluts.
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Howard, shut up.
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I guess that can be pretty common.
I grew up with a great athlete who played Div I football (QB) back in the 1970's.
He ended up moving back to our hometown in NH and married his HS sweetheart.
A few years into the marriage and both sets of parents started pressuring them for grand kids.
He caved and they had a boy and girl.
Once I asked him how it really was being a parent and he replied ;
" Kids suck the life out of ya."
You have filters which appear to make you less than open minded about certain things. Have you no stories about someone who enjoys being a parent? What did your dad think about you when you were a kid?
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It's just the nature of things...... My intelligence has helped me hold out this long, but my biological mind is also whispering in my ear.
And what is it telling you?
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And what is it telling you?
Not to test "anal gravity" aboard a spaceship >:(
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1/2 the men have bad childhoods and mate with women with bad childhoods and they're both incapable of having healthy relationships.
The other 1/2 does just fine and that's inconceivable to other unhealthy 1/2.
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Not to test "anal gravity" aboard a spaceship >:(
Yup! You sure don't want shit flying around.
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Yup! You sure don't want shit flying around.
Nor a creepy old dude. Gravity sucks.
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Let's get down to the nuts and bolts of this.
So there you are. You're married. And you're fucking your wife regularly. What kind of security measures were in place? Always condoms? Has your pecker never actually touched a vag? Or is she on pills? Implant? And you'd rely on that? Just pulling it out and jizzing on her would be kind of risky in case you get a little pre-squirt or some dribble-down onto the slit so I doubt you trusted that. Did you get snipped? How did this all work?
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pressure from their parents
X2, also I always wanted a child. Above all, tired of whores and the games, they straight are whores out there. Doesn't mean I don't miss it, sure was fun in the moment
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Let's get down to the nuts and bolts of this.
So there you are. You're married. And you're fucking your wife regularly. What kind of security measures were in place? Always condoms? Has your pecker never actually touched a vag? Or is she on pills? Implant? And you'd rely on that? Just pulling it out and jizzing on her would be kind of risky in case you get a little pre-squirt or some dribble-down onto the slit so I doubt you trusted that. Did you get snipped? How did this all work?
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Nor a creepy old dude. Gravity sucks.
You'd know.