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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Howard on April 19, 2017, 03:55:56 PM
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??? Are you happy and content with YOUR life?
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Dude, I ask this with politeness. Haven't you asked this like three times already? 😂
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??? Are you happy and content with YOUR life?
I see and hear a lot of guys out there, living lives of "quiet desperation".
Yup, I got divorced a couple times , and now I'm married to my dream girl. ::)
Unlike some men, I refused to stay with a woman that tried to pressure me into a lifestyle I'd dread.
The first one wanted kids, 2-3 years into the marriage. I never did and refused to be manipulated into having them.You really showed them. So why did you marry these women, did they trick you or change?
Now I see unhappy ,divorced men, who had kids with a woman and seem miserable.Maybe they've always been miserable.
They often meet the ex-wife, on weekends, at some Mall or fast food parking lot.
The kids get switched out with them for the weekend and she looks like a resentful bitch.
He often looks beat down and cringes as the kids are loud and obnoxious.This sounds like a satisfying weekend of creepily hunting for your next ex wife.
I don't know how or why, so many men just "take it" .
Why do so many men allow a woman to pressure them into doing things they don't want?
From having kids to taking jobs they hate, I've seen plenty of men just going along with her. WTF? This one I know you live, because many pressure you to leave getbig but you keep coming back.
At my wife's Christmas office party I met a real pathetic character.
He was a CPA with a decent income and worked out.
After a few drinks he confessed he hated his marriage and his 12 yr old son was a spoiled brat.
In fact, he last had sex with his wife 7 years ago and they slept in separate rooms.
Why he stayed married was a real mystery to me.
I know many of you have lampooned and insulted me , claiming I'm some lame cuck.
Trust me, I'm polite, but I refuse to allow any woman to pressure or manipulate me into things.
I've walked away from more than 1 woman who tried and never had any regrets. You should be a life coach. You have all the answers.
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Change the record you boring fuck.
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At my wife's Christmas office party I met a real pathetic character.
he last had sex with his wife 7 years ago and they slept in separate rooms.
he last rectum fuked ur whore wife 7 min ago, tho... whos the dummy, him or u?
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Howard, have you ever considered doing one last show?
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Howard, have you ever considered doing one last show?
LOL :D
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Change the record you boring fuck.
x2. Its the same recycled topics.
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Mods please merge this thread with the Aaron Hernandez thread because it will hopefully have the same outcome.
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Why do you feel the need to keep telling us the same thing over and over?
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Let's save some time. What answer do you seek? What do you wanna hear, man?
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These responses are gold..but staying on topic I actually look forward to having children
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I would love to Hernandez the OP
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These responses are gold..but staying on topic I actually look forward to having children
They're great. I have three and if I wasn't so old would have more.
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I felt a great disturbance in the Farce®. As if billions of sperm cried out in terror and were wiped out in a Kleenex®.
In other words. Who cares?
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OP says he refuses to let any woman manipulate him.
Spends Saturday nights down at the Oyster Bar working the glory hole and starring in bukkake videos
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Howard, you are at that point that guys get right before they become born again wackos.
I'll go out on a limb and say Pentecostal snake handling is in your future.
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At my wife's Christmas office party I met a real pathetic character.
He was a CPA with a decent income and worked out.
After a few drinks he confessed he hated his marriage and his 12 yr old son was a spoiled brat.
In fact, he last had sex with his wife 7 years ago and they slept in separate rooms.
Why he stayed married was a real mystery to me
someone call tom leykis!
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:'(
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At my wife's Christmas office party I met a real pathetic character.
He was a CPA with a decent income and worked out.
After a few drinks he confessed he hated his marriage and his 12 yr old son was a spoiled brat.
In fact, he last had sex with his wife 7 years ago and they slept in separate rooms.
Why he stayed married was a real mystery to me.
You should of invited him to bang your wife arsehole, and let him cum in your mouth!
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saw this movie many times with you Howard
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You should of invited him to bang your wife arsehole, and let him cum in your mouth!
what in the fuck is so funny about this that I can't stop laughing.
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Howard, are you doing alright? Are you OK? I fear for your health, Howard.
Please call this number, Howard, before you do something desperate: (800) 955-8887 (https://www.google.nl/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwid-onS_bTTAhXKaFAKHfcbCxUQFgglMAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ladyboyschatline.com%2Fladyboys_partylines&usg=AFQjCNEOdD1z7C5gHLeBe77WlIA8hckF1w&sig2=mqwmgPlI8YFP2V6xDaMdhQ)
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Howard, have you ever considered doing one last show?
Like jumping from a tower?
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howard has the mind of a child
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sounds like the fella is shooting blanks
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I totally agree with you Howard. The thing is, having kids changes your life completely because you are hooked on them.
If you are not into parenting, then dont do it. You and others will only suffer with that kind of bad decision.
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sounds like the fella is shooting blanks
you look rathet big
what your cycle
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Let's save some time. What answer do you seek? What do you wanna hear, man?
That it's time to kill himself.
Most pathetic sorry ass bastard on the board. Just a waste of a healthy body. Please just donate all your organs to people who can put it to good use then get yourself cremated and have your ashes flushed down the toilet.
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you look rathet big
what your cycle
yams, breadfruit and human cadaver growth hormone
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howard has the mind of a child
Or he's just a very consistent troll.
Every time he gets married, he thinks he married his "dream girl". ??? ::)
Idiot supreme.
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yams, breadfruit and human cadaver growth hormone
how big are your arms?
i want to get big like this real real big
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how big are your arms?
i want to get big like this real real big
about the same circumference as your mum's ahole.
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Thanks, dad.
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Kids are a wonderful addition and something one just doesn't understand until they have one; I was in that camp
Wife on the other hand, most women will make your life miserable. I see a few here and there that are very pleasant, well spoken, always polite, and fairly attractive but not all are this way. One thing if you do have kids with the wrong woman, you tend to make major sacrifices for the well being of your child.
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You should of invited him to bang your wife arsehole, and let him cum in your mouth!
Should HAVE (should've)
HTH
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Guy I know was with some broad for a year or two and was miserable. So he tells her he's out.
Literally a few days later, when him and his buddy are set to leave to return to their home province, the chick calls him and says she's pregnant.
So his friend jets and he stays. Now has his kid on his days off.
You can tell he hates his life.
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honestly.... kids r kinda like dogs... they eat a lot... as more intricate beings kids r probably more satisfying and rewarding to raise at times than owning a dog, maybe... but unlike dogs, a human kid will most likely turn into an asshole sooner or later... and may bash ur head in with a hammer while ur taking a nap or some shit cuz u attempted to discipline them in some way... or simply said 'no' to one of their phaggot demands.
whatever.
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honestly.... kids r kinda like dogs... they eat a lot... as more intricate beings kids r probably more satisfying and rewarding to raise at times than owning a dog, maybe... but unlike dogs, a human kid will most likely turn into an asshole sooner or later... and may bash ur head in with a hammer while ur taking a nap or some shit cuz u attempted to discipline them in some way... or simply said 'no' to one of their phaggot demands.
whatever.
Quality information.
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honestly.... kids r kinda like dogs... they eat a lot... as more intricate beings kids r probably more satisfying and rewarding to raise at times than owning a dog, maybe... but unlike dogs, a human kid will most likely turn into an asshole sooner or later... and may bash ur head in with a hammer while ur taking a nap or some shit cuz u attempted to discipline them in some way... or simply said 'no' to one of their phaggot demands.
whatever.
Please kill yourself you miserable fuck.
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Please kill yourself you miserable fuck.
look everybody... its the shizzo loving phaggot 'ronnie rep'... almost forgot about u.
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look everybody... its the shizzo loving phaggot 'ronnie rep'... almost forgot about u.
You are not worthy of getbig status. Your posts suck, lack creativity, not funny. Just boring. :-*
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You are not worthy of getbig status. Your posts suck, lack creativity, not funny. Just boring. :-*
not all of us can be as intellectually blessed as u r, now can we? some of us simply have to make do with what god gave us.... my cross to bear, obviously, but I'll do what I can.
btw... did whatshisname ever post pics of this assholes what r surely to be genetically fucked up looking offspring?
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not all of us can be as intellectually blessed as u r, now can we? some of us simply have to make do with what god gave us.... my cross to bear, obviously, but I'll do what I can.
btw... did whatshisname ever post pics of this assholes what r surely to be genetically fucked up looking offspring?
When is the last time you got laid?
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When is the last time you got laid?
is that an offer? i'm not really into freak shows.... but what the hell... post those things up and lets have a look.
btw... did whatshisname ever post pics of this assholes what r surely to be genetically fucked up looking offspring?
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is that an offer? i'm not really into freak shows.... but what the hell... post those things up and lets have a look.
You obviously have to much time on your hands. Try getting a job.
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You obviously have to much time on your hands. Try getting a job.
I've got time enough to prolapse a rectum, or two... waiting on the freak show, dipshit
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not all of us can be as intellectually blessed as u r, now can we? some of us simply have to make do with what god gave us.... my cross to bear, obviously, but I'll do what I can.
btw... did whatshisname ever post pics of this assholes what r surely to be genetically fucked up looking offspring?
No he took down the Shizzo post so I didn't post them
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No he took down the Shizzo post so I didn't post them
still... ronnie rep is the guy who campaigned to bring shizzo back to the forum... and thats probably the worst thing one could say about another poster here... he also has no problem offering up his genetic waste, or more accurately... their rectums... for discussion – how disgusting, lol.
worse still, is the fact that he likely passed along his shit genetic material and mental retardation... that really is unforgivable.
we need to be genetic realists on earth at this point.... along with becoming much more honest.
genetic deficients should not be allowed to breed, at all, and if genetically defective offspring are shit out, those kids need to be told the truth – that no matter what they do, or how hard they work.... they will not do as well as a person who is more genetically sound.
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still... ronnie rep is the guy who campaigned to bring shizzo back to the forum... and thats probably the worst thing one could say about another poster here... he also has no problem offering up his genetic waste, or more accurately... their rectums... for discussion – how disgusting, lol.
worse still, is the fact that he likely passed along his shit genetic material and mental retardation... that really is unforgivable.
On that note, there's people here called Irish travellers, in England they call them pikeys. They are burglars, beggars, scam artists and scumbags. All Of them. I had a few run ins with one family of them who moved into, in their caravans, the town I grew up in. Burglaries started happening, they were harassing people outside the grocery stores for money etc. Anyway, I'd be known to them over the clashes so bumped into two of them, about 18 or 19, a male and a female, with a handicapped child in a pram modified for spastic children. Because we were in a shop with witnesses and on camera they started their usual threatening shit, he said I'm one of the bumbee Mcdonaghs, she said I'm one of the hardy Mcdonaghs. So I just said 'youre a Mcdonagh, and you're a Mcdonagh, yes?' and they both said yes. I said no wonder your child is all fucked up its inbred. Then I burst into laughter and bought persona 5 on ps4. That girls father, Martin Mcdonagh has about 8 children and 3 of them so fucked up they can't even walk or talk.
People should need a licence to have children.
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a male and a female, with a handicapped child in a pram modified for spastic children.
hahahaha
People should need a licence to have children.
definitely.
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Change the record you boring fuck.
;D
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If you are not into parenting, then dont do it. You and others will only suffer with that kind of bad decision.
there ya go folks - you gotta know if parenting is for you
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Howard's get big personna is one big steaming piece of "performance art", sorta like Andy Kaufman or Alex Jones??? Cutting edge!
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No doubt the get big zingers alone, make it worth posting here.
As for having kids, it's a mixed bag OVERALL.
Obviously the joy of being a parent and all that involves are normal desire for most people.
NOBODY can predict how it will go .
Howard you can literally say this about EVERYTHING.
Marriage is a mixed bag. Being single is a mixed bag. Being a lawyer is a mixed bag. Being a criminal is a mixed bag. Being rich is a mixed bag. Being poor is a mixed bag. New car, old car, conservative, liberal, education, ditch digger.......
We get it you didn't want kids so you didn't have them. That's really something, because you spent your adult life surrounded by them as a teacher. So you start threads about not understanding why men have kids but you should ask yourself why you choose to spend your life instructing them.
You have a lot of conflicting interests in your life.
You obviously can't be alone, hence the multiple marriages with women who had extremely different core values or you're difficult to deal with or a poor judge of character or make emotionally charged decisions.
You loved bodybuilding and thought you had what it took to be a pro but it wasn't worth it to you, although you loved competing so much it was worth it.
What's your end goal here dude, to help, get help or troll?
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Obviously, most here think I suck and any advice I post will be viewed as sucking by default.
However, on a serious note, my current life is the happiest it's ever been.
I have no idea how all get biggers live, but I've observed plenty of other dudes.
Most hate their jobs and endure a loveless, sexless marriage.
They sneak around on their wife for random hook ups and drink to numb the pain.
I adore my wife , enjoy life with her and never needed to drink or do drugs.
And you're how old and it took how many marriages? And your best life advice is men should be happy?
What did you wait so long to get to your happiest now, why not sooner?
Can you be happier than happy?
I understand your troll game.
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This Howard guy is close to offing himself.
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Obviously, most here think I suck and any advice I post will be viewed as sucking by default.
However, on a serious note, my current life is the happiest it's ever been.
I have no idea how all get biggers live, but I've observed plenty of other dudes.
Most hate their jobs and endure a loveless, sexless marriage.
They sneak around on their wife for random hook ups and drink to numb the pain.
I adore my wife , enjoy life with her and never needed to drink or do drugs.
i've only read a handful of your posts but in all of them you're either saying how happy you or how great your life is. ime people that tend to do this are usually the complete opposite.
if you had children you'd probably have more purpose to your life. you could take pride in the role you're playing in bringing up happy, well rounded, and hopefully successful individuals.
if you don't have children you can never grasp it. yeh it can be a chore and a lot of hard work at times, but nothing in life could be more rewarding.
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This Howard guy is close to offering himself to a muscular well hung pool boy.
Fixed
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Obviously, most here think I suck ... plenty of other dudes.
Howard, you ugly woman!
Happiness and unhappiness have nothing to do with life. Your existence ought to be enough, but, no, like a gluttonous whore, you want more, a "happy life."
Consider that for about 16 billion years of cosmic history, you did not exist. Yet here you are, bored. Your boredom is proof that your existence is empty. And how do you respond? "I'm much 'happier' than those other slobs who are sooo miserable." Stop the feminine record-keeping in attempting to bolster your self-assessment. Soon, you will cease to exist. For how long? ETERNITY, infinitely more than the 16 billion years that it took for your neurotic twat to appear on the scene.
Try to find the stones to affirm your fleeting existence without having to compare it to others. Or else, please, just give in to the Wisdom of Silenus:
From Nietzsche, The Birth of Tragedy.
There is an old legend that king Midas for a long time hunted the wise Silenus, the companion of Dionysus, in the forests, without catching him. When Silenus finally fell into the king’s hands, the king asked what was the best thing of all for men, the very finest. The daemon remained silent, motionless and inflexible, until, compelled by the king, he finally broke out into shrill laughter and said these words,
"Suffering creature, born for a day, child of accident and toil, why are you forcing me to say what would give you the greatest pleasure not to hear? The very best thing for you is totally unreachable: not to have been born, not to exist, to be nothing. The second best thing for you, however, is this — to die soon."
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Soon, you will cease to exist. For how long? ETERNITY
u dont know that anymore than I know that god looks like brad pitt. do u really think that you're going to get off so easy?
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Life is pointless. Then you die.
Just find a few things that bring you happiness. Hang on to those things.
My deep loves are heavy iron and heavy metal. Without these, I'd pitch myself off a building.
Generally speaking, life's pain, heartache and struggle.
The aliens that created us as a science experiment either laugh at us or are long gone.
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Just find a few things that bring you happiness. Hang on to those things.
2 'things' immediately come to mind:
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1. I'm sorry if I offended those like you , who are dedicated fathers, that cherish raising their children.
Perhaps I'm wrong in my observations and most men with kids, feel fortunate to have them.
2. I know how I feel and what was right for me. BUT, my opinions and ideas may not be good advice for most guys.
3. I'm happy and content with my marriage and overall lifestyle, but, it took decades to get here.
The path I traveled to achieve happiness , may not work for others.
It took decades you oaf because you have a complete lack of maturity.
You talk about adult things, but you have the mind and thought process of a stunted teen.
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It took decades you oaf because you have a complete lack of maturity.
You talk about adult things, but you have the mind and thought process of a stunted teen.
Think of who he spent most of his time around.
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Think of who he spent most of his time around.
Exactly, trying to act cool for his teenage students. You can see it from a mile away. This pindick never grew up.
I'm guessing every one of his ex-wives cheated on him. They were looking for a real man to bone them hard.
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still... ronnie rep is the guy who campaigned to bring shizzo back to the forum... and thats probably the worst thing one could say about another poster here... he also has no problem offering up his genetic waste, or more accurately... their rectums... for discussion – how disgusting, lol.
worse still, is the fact that he likely passed along his shit genetic material and mental retardation... that really is unforgivable.
You are the one person on here that it would give me extreme pleasure snapping your pathetic scrawny neck.
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You are the one person on here that it would give me extreme pleasure snapping your pathetic scrawny neck.
lol... sit back and try not to snap a hip, u decrepit shizzo loving phaggot.
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Hostilities in this thread are off the hook.
Keep it up.
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lol... sit back and try not to snap a hip, u decrepit shizzo loving phaggot.
Decripit :D. I will beat you senseless you little internet pussy.
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Decripit :D. I will beat you senseless you little internet pussy.
u sound angry.
did u know that angry men have higher blood pressure than men who r able to control themselves? its true. also, u should know that frequent anger and stress can potentially lead to heart disease over time.. and may also possibly trigger an actual heart attack in the moment of tard rage.... along with a host of other health problems.
aren't u like, old?
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u sound angry.
did u know that angry men have higher blood pressure than men who r able to control themselves? its true. also, u should know that frequent anger and stress can potentially lead to heart disease over time.. and may also possibly trigger an actual heart attack in the moment of tard rage.... along with a host of other health problems.
aren't u like, old
[/quote Zerotech, how about you post a pic of your pimply face in your mom's basement.
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Obviously, most here think I suck and any advice I post will be viewed as sucking by default.
However, on a serious note, my current life is the happiest it's ever been.
I have no idea how all get biggers live, but I've observed plenty of other dudes.
Most hate their jobs and endure a loveless, sexless marriage.
They sneak around on their wife for random hook ups and drink to numb the pain.
I adore my wife , enjoy life with her and never needed to drink or do drugs.
Never fails to amuse when someone here feel the need to tell the rest of us how happy and fulfilling their lives are meanwhile spending day and night posting on this board.
No one asked or wants your advice you whiny, insipid twit.
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1. I'm sorry if I offended those like you , who are dedicated fathers, that cherish raising their children.
Perhaps I'm wrong in my observations and most men with kids, feel fortunate to have them.
2. I know how I feel and what was right for me. BUT, my opinions and ideas may not be good advice for most guys.
3. I'm happy and content with my marriage and overall lifestyle, but, it took decades to get here.
The path I traveled to achieve happiness , may not work for others.
not offended at all. was just relaying my experience and pointing out that i doubt you're really qualified to advise people against something you have no experience of.
i don't know the kind of people you know but pretty much everyone i know who has children would take a bullet for them without any hesitation, and regardless of what else is going on in their lives their kids are the one constant thing that always make them happy.
no matter how much you love your wife/partner or anyone else, the feelings you have for your children go beyond that. it's really impossible for someone who doesn't have them to understand that feeling.
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Good point.
I never had kids and don't have any first hand experience raising children.
Perhaps, my observations of men with kids (both married and divorced) are wrong.
Thanks for the thoughtful reply.
Many if not all parents have moments when the can't stand their kids....usually when the kids are in their teens.
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Mods, can this thread get "locked" ???
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Mods, can this thread get "locked" ???
Howard needs to vent... or he may harm himself. do u want that on ur conscience?
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I didn't mean to be insulting , but, can understand now why some might take it wrong.
Just because others live a different lifestyle from me doesn't mean they are unhappy.
Who said others are unhappy because they are not like you?
Not being like you is a prerequisite to being happy.
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Howard..............
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Good point.
I never had kids and don't have any first hand experience raising children.
Perhaps, my observations of men with kids (both married and divorced) are wrong.
Thanks for the thoughtful reply.
i wouldn't say your observations were "wrong" per se but you have probably misjudged the reasons why these people are unhappy with their lives.
the reason why you're probably getting such negative responses is because with 3 failed marriages(or whatever) behind you, you're hardly a shining example of someone that's enjoyed a successful personal life.
people are unlikely to take seriously someone advising them on life choices when on paper that person's life looks a bit of train wreck!
if you had started a thread advising people to not jump into marriage too quickly you would probably have a bit more credibility in that area.
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i wouldn't say your observations were "wrong" per se but you have probably misjudged the reasons why these people are unhappy with their lives.
the reason why you're probably getting such negative responses is because with 3 failed marriages(or whatever) behind you, you're hardly a shining example of someone that's enjoyed a successful personal life.
people are unlikely to take seriously someone advising them on life choices when on paper that person's life looks a bit of train wreck!
if you had started a thread advising people to not jump into marriage too quickly you would probably have a bit more credibility in that area.
The misery is more due to women,not kids... Kids keep you together tho for the majority
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The misery is more due to women,not kids... Kids keep you together tho for the majority
yeh that's true but you can always bang a few side chicks if necessary ;)
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I have a colleague who is a slovenly fat fuck with a Costanza 'do, glasses and zero muscle who has a live-in girlfriend of over a dozen years who has no job and hasn't given him any children.
The in-denial slob claims he gets action daily.
His life is board games. I'm not kidding.
Tubby sweathog is in hell.
He'll tell you his life's peaches.
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I agree , nobody else needs to be like me, to be happy.
That's what I posted.
I'm happy "as is", but others can easily be happy living a different way.
I'd be ecstatic if you drank bleach
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If you wanna be thorough you should go live alone in the woods for awhile.
Without internet.
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It would be interesting if Howard's parents had the same feelings towards children that he does.
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It would be interesting if Howard's parents had the same feelings towards children that he does.
Howard's parents committed suicide from the shame.
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Howard's parents committed suicide from the shame.
Even before he was out of the womb.
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Many if not all parents have moments when the can't stand their kids....usually when the kids are in their teens under 30.
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Howard I agree with the fact that kids can hold you down in life. Before me and my wife had kids we had all the time, money and opportunities in the world at our disposal but we did not realise it and we did not take advantage of it. We have to wait 20 years to be back at that situation. But Howard, life is not just about having a good time, freedom and doing what you want. You are a good example because you have it all but you are bored out of your mind and unfulfilled. You seem empty.
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You seem empty.
and worthless... and fat.. and other things.
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THIS real life example, may clearly illustrate my meaning on this issue:
I competed in a lot of state/regional UN-tested NPC shows in the 1990's.
It was my choice NOT to use steroids/PED's to compete.
I understood and accepted I'd be up against plenty of juiced up dudes.
Doing it "my way" placed me at a disadvantage and I accepted it.
Like everyone who competes, I had a choice to use drugs or not.
I didn't use, and I accepted the consequences of my actions with few complaints.
I simply stayed at the regional level , did ok and gave up on national or pro card glory.
That's the real point.
While we all have choices, few people want to accept and embrace the consequences of our choices.
Howard every person you've mentioned have accepted the consequences of their actions. The guy who hadn't had sex with his wife for 7 years was embracing his circumstances.
Your real point is you don't agree with their decisions. You turn the thread into a pro Howard piece about how you made the right decision.
Your example of bodybuilding is poor. Many people compete in events they won't win or have the chance of being a pro, drugs or no drugs. Was being a professional bodybuilder a goal of yours, because you reference it a lot.
Even with all the drugs available do you think you would have been a pro? Maybe you were at a disadvantage along because of genetics but you refuse to examine that prospect, instead being drug free, "doing it your way", is the reason why you didnt win.
What future pros did you compete against? Or at least top level national competitors?
Are you looking for affirmation from strangers on life lived well? Or are you upset that you're no longer a judge on the npc level and the sport has moved on without you?
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THIS real life example, may clearly illustrate my meaning on this issue:
I competed in a lot of state/regional UN-tested NPC shows in the 1990's.
It was my choice NOT to use steroids/PED's to compete.
I understood and accepted I'd be up against plenty of juiced up dudes.
Doing it "my way" placed me at a disadvantage and I accepted it.
Like everyone who competes, I had a choice to use drugs or not.
I didn't use, and I accepted the consequences of my actions with few complaints.
I simply stayed at the regional level , did ok and gave up on national or pro card glory.
That's the real point.
While we all have choices, few people want to accept and embrace the consequences of our choices.
You have admitted to using steroids in the past.
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Good post. Thanks for being honest about the lifestyle changes that go with raising kids.
Nothing worthwhile comes without a little effort, stress and strife.
I'm sure , you know the joys and unrequited love of raising a child, that I'll never experience.
My life isn't perfect and now and like everyone else I have my down moments.
BUT, for me , this is the happiest and most content I've ever been.
My wife and I embrace the simple joy from basic, wholesome activities.
For example, we just spent a "wild Saturday night", watching a couple vintage Rock Hudson movies. 100% serious .
I suspect most get-biggers would find our lifestyle rather dull and boring.
Losing most of my ambition ,led to a wonderful sense of "relaxed freedom"
It's a simple, wholesome life of: watching vintage movies, various sports, cable news and a little love making ;).
I workout in different gyms and we spend time in the Mts when are rental homes aren't booked.
THAT stuff, along with farting in my dogs face is how I roll now. ;D
That last part does sound very good Howard.
So enjoy. I wil follow your example in 20 years 8)
Got to go now, time go back to my cows.
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:'(