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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: ratherbebig on May 07, 2017, 01:40:55 AM
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whats your experience of dating sites? im not on tinder or any of those one night stand-kinda things, but im not into the lets start a family either. i guess im just wanna see whats out there for some casual company, but boy, am i picky...
here's a few things i cant stand so far:
- tattoes, bring back the tramp stamp! at least you could live with that, todays chicks got tattoes on their upper chest, whole sentences of some meaningless rambling, tattoes on their forearms right down to the the whole top of their hand... wtf is going on here?
- it used to be earrings, now it's a fucking nosering, cant stand that shit, its on every other chick i see...
- girls with dogs, cats or horses... its like they got a full farm...
- over 35, too old, they either have kids or wanna have kids - very, very soon.
- too young, dont work either, do you really wanna go back to date someone thats still in school, hardly moved out of from her parents, cant support herself etc...
- girls with kids is a no-no for me.
- smokers.
- dreamers - all these girls that tell me about how they want to have a house with a little garden bla bla... wtf
- adventurous type, sorry to say but i aint no action man, im not going skydiving, not going scubadiving, im not going to go skiing like james bond...
- girls into the wrong sports... if you dont care about basketball, you dont want a girl that for some strange reason is fanatic about it...
- anything but white girls, im sure theres an exception to the rule but i just dont dig asians or africans.
- foreheads, i dont know if the site does something to the picture but a lot of girls have giant foreheads.
- fatsos, shouldnt even need to be mentioned but i cant see myself dating anyone over 150 pounds.
well i guess now you know why im single.. :D
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Bout 124-127 girls since 2011 using pof and okcupid. Only 2 (3?) with tinder. Like fish in a barrel. Nearly 100% said "no sex thenfirst night" and i can count onn1 hand the number i didnt sleep with the first time meeting. About 70% invited me over, about 20% come to my place, & met about 10% at a restaurant or something first (then it was 50/50 my place or theirs... Very rare that dinner didnt lead to my place or theirs, whether there was sex or not).
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Buy a doll, she will fit all your requirements
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whats your experience of dating sites? im not on tinder or any of those one night stand-kinda things, but im not into the lets start a family either. i guess im just wanna see whats out there for some casual company, but boy, am i picky...
here's a few things i cant stand so far:
- tattoes, bring back the tramp stamp! at least you could live with that, todays chicks got tattoes on their upper chest, whole sentences of some meaningless rambling, tattoes on their forearms right down to the the whole top of their hand... wtf is going on here?
it's easier for them to get a tattoo than stick a knife in their demanding father's eyes or jump from a tall building to express their true feelings
- it used to be earrings, now it's a fucking nosering, cant stand that shit, its on every other chick i see...
see above
- girls with dogs, cats or horses... its like they got a full farm...
shows that eventhough they don't have a partner they need to feel loved and give love ...some even love animals more than people
- over 35, too old, they either have kids or wanna have kids - very, very soon.
she'll be pregnant within 6 months after your first successfull date, the ones with the kids and single at that age are probably worthless, after all she picked the wrong guy to knock her up and seperate from when kids are still young, poor kids
- too young, dont work either, do you really wanna go back to date someone thats still in school, hardly moved out of from her parents, cant support herself etc...
if she's too young and ready to date a much older guy then she's just hit and run material, daddy issues at least
- girls with kids is a no-no for me.
already explained
- smokers.
like making out with an ashtray
- dreamers - all these girls that tell me about how they want to have a house with a little garden bla bla... wtf
will probably get knocked up by a black guy and end up being a single moms, it's not rare with those types to go the opposite route than expected through her ''dreams'' lol
- adventurous type, sorry to say but i aint no action man, im not going skydiving, not going scubadiving, im not going to go skiing like james bond...
those kind are probably at least 28 years old and dying to find a partner, they have to releave that stress of being single through taking up some weird sports or join the gym lol, you see them smiling while climbing mountains, surfing etc, but in reality they don't know how to cope with the fact they are single and still no kids, probably cry themselves to sleep too everynight
- girls into the wrong sports... if you dont care about basketball, you dont want a girl that for some strange reason is fanatic about it...
women have no business being crazy for sports, that alone is a turn off for me
- anything but white girls, im sure theres an exception to the rule but i just dont dig asians or africans.
- foreheads, i dont know if the site does something to the picture but a lot of girls have giant foreheads.
- fatsos, shouldnt even need to be mentioned but i cant see myself dating anyone over 150 pounds.
well i guess now you know why im single.. :D
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lol....
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haha good one kreator
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Pls post pictures of the whores you crush
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So basically the OP is looking for a woman with the same autism spectrum
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So basically the OP is looking for a woman with the same autism spectrum
i dont think my demands are unreasonable
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i dont think my demands are unreasonable
You will prob find a forum for autistic people with a simple Google search
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Post screenshots of your profile
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You will prob find a forum for autistic people with a simple Google search
yeah i realize i hurt you somewhere on getbig and now you take any chance you get to "get back" at me, but i dont feel it adds anything really? am i suppose to care about you calling me autistic? why dont you share your experience of dating sites instead, im sure youve visited one or two sites over the years.
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Post screenshots of your profile
what for?
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what for?
So we can see it
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So we can see it
its not much to see, im more of a lurker. i havent even mentioned that i push 3 plates per side in the leg press in my profile.
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I would say that 95% of the women on dating websites have multiple issues:
- They have tons of baggage... ex husbands, kids, in debt, etc.
- They're 'professional daters'
- They're gold diggers.
- They're ugly/fat.
- They're whores.
Many of these dating services are scams and bait you with fake pictures and profiles.
Forget about finding a quality woman on a dating website. You're wasting your time.
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its not much to see, im more of a lurker. i havent even mentioned that i push 3 plates per side in the leg press in my profile.
This important piece of information should be the headline, or at the very least the opening sentence of your description
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maybe we can get ron to make a dating site?
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I have a female friends who is very attractive and fit (close to stage ready year round) and she made the mistake of registering on "Fitness Singles", then rocketed to #4 of their top profiles and was buried in creepy messages. She lasted less than a week and got the hell out of there. She's happily dating a childhood friend who has no idea how he managed to win the lottery without trying. YMMV.
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yeah it must be a total nightmare for girls. i see ugly chicks complaining about being stalked, where as i wonder why anyone would send them a single message.
as bad as women are, guys are far worse.
think of people like kwon stalking girls asking them for photos of their fat asses so he can upload them here.
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an unconcious analysis of your problem
with the help of getbiggers love and happiness is just around the corner
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yeah i realize i hurt you somewhere on getbig and now you take any chance you get to "get back" at me, but i dont feel it adds anything really? am i suppose to care about you calling me autistic? why dont you share your experience of dating sites instead, im sure youve visited one or two sites over the years.
No, that isn't the case. This is just my 50 cents after reading some of your posts. There's no need to feel offended, a good friend of mine who's also passionate about lifting has this diagnosis officially.
My general experience is that you can have great conversations with women online, but often during the date the chemistry simply isn't there, even when there are plenty of similarities like personal interests, opinions, etc. The advantage however is that you can filter certain women out, like those who have kids or do smoke. I had some nice dates/relationships, but often this whole dating game is a waste of time and pretty ineffective in general.
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yeah i agree. interests etc go out the window if you dont connect. best you can do is filter out the biggest dealbreakers.
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Just find a Nigerian hooker and post pictors.
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I love the whores on PoF and Tinder that post photos showing off their tits and ass then claim "no hookups". Yeah sure whore.
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yeah i agree. interests etc go out the window if you dont connect. best you can do is filter out the biggest dealbreakers.
The thing is that you can't filter out lack of chemistry. In real life you find out about this in 10-15 minutes. Often an internet date takes place after at least 1-2 weeks of mailing/texting, so how efficient is that?
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I love the whores on PoF and Tinder that post photos showing off their tits and ass then claim "no hookups". Yeah sure whore.
there seems to be an awful lot of girls with cleavage on every single picture who then complain about people commenting on their cleavage ::)
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The thing is that you can't filter out lack of chemistry. In real life you find out about this in 10-15 minutes. Often an internet date takes place after at least 1-2 weeks of mailing/texting, so how efficient is that?
maybe i should try speeddating. in theory it makes sense, just spend a few minutes with everyone, if you find someone you connect with just leave the place together, since you're both dressed and ready for a night out anyway
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maybe i should try speeddating. in theory it makes sense, just spend a few minutes with everyone, if you find someone you connect with just leave the place together, since you're both dressed and ready for a night out anyway
Never tried speeddating myself, but I don't like the concept. I believe It's best to become more social at places where people come together, just like our parents did when there was no fucking internet, Tinder or speeddating.
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Where is 8inchnotbiceps?
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You need to act fast on these sites. These women get hundreds of dudes hitting on them. Be aggressive and setup meetings right away. Increase your odds of sex.
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This important piece of information should be the headline, or at the very least the opening sentence of your description
just curious stud, what opening line would you recommend?
and yep, I opened myself up for this one lol
what I've found on tinder is that girls just want the attention and to get their fix and then once they've had it they unlike you
or maybe my conversational skills are really that bad or I really am a douche bag or both?
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avoid dating sites like the plague
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i did mention that i post on getbig quite a lot... if that doesnt impress them ill post a pic of my watch and car collection.
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just curious stud, what opening line would you recommend?
and yep, I opened myself up for this one lol
what I've found on tinder is that girls just want the attention and to get their fix and then once they've had it they unlike you
or maybe my conversational skills are really that bad or I really am a douche bag or both?
To be honest mate I haven't a clue, my single days predate internet dating and i wouldn't know where to start on a dating site, I liked the old way of going out to meet women where what you seen is what you got and same for her
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i did mention that i post on getbig quite a lot... if that doesnt impress them ill post a pic of my watch and car collection.
i waist epic amount of hours putting model airplanes (WW2 European theatre) that impresses zero chics
posting on get big will get laid you more often - muscletech research confirms this 8) plus you see how many pathetic men are out there. not much competition when you boil it down. its easy to be semi successful and attractive with so many losers out there.
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To be honest mate I haven't a clue, my single days predate internet dating and i wouldn't know where to start on a dating site, I liked the old way of going out to meet women where what you seen is what you got and same for her
kudos for the response
and yep, real life meeting is better but it's harder
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kudos for the response
and yep, real life meeting is better but it's harder
1. ecosystem - put yourself in the same environment of the type of chics you like .
2. network - the last 2 girls ive dated would not have given me the time of day (piss off kid!) if it was not for friends of friends. their bitch shield goes way down when you have the same friend and meet that way through a mutual friend
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kudos for the response
and yep, real life meeting is better but it's harder
I can imagine it's much harder to meet in real life these days with so many preferring the dating site route than it was back then when we all had no option but to meet in real life
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early 2000s online dating was legit as shit - it was the legit freaks and crazies ;D
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just curious stud, what opening line would you recommend?
and yep, I opened myself up for this one lol
what I've found on tinder is that girls just want the attention and to get their fix and then once they've had it they unlike you
or maybe my conversational skills are really that bad or I really am a douche bag or both?
Had that on tinder. Was talking to one chick. Great conversation. Was claiming I made her laugh out loud at work with a couple of jokes. She was saying all these nice things then all of a sudden she was gone and unmatched me. Some are straight to the point. Second text they want your number so you can send them more pics. Another one we had a great convo going on text. I texted her at 9:00 am mid week and she flipped out at how I woke her and why I was texting so early. Fucking crazy bitch.
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1. ecosystem - put yourself in the same environment of the type of chics you like .
2. network - the last 2 girls ive dated would not have given me the time of day (piss off kid!) if it was not for friends of friends. their bitch shield goes way down when you have the same friend and meet that way through a mutual friend
Well said!