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Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.
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not even 1% of me worries about other peoples happiness. There are maybe 5 people on this planet I would give a shit about if they bit it, but other than that nope. Now dogs on the other hand, its vital that they are happy all the time. Now thats important
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Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.
You let a woman know that last bit and she will suck your soul out through your wallet.
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You let a woman know that last bit and she will suck your soul out through your wallet.
hahahaha how true...
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Sure it's not just vanity that can't bear someone thinking bad of you? You are a thongster, after all.
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I put the happiness of my kids above anything
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Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.
With time your heart will change. Otherwise you will be eaten alive in this world.
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Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.
You are simply more evolved than most, most people see the world in a dualistic mindset, which unfortunately is the path of suffering.
Keep the big heart, keep your compassion, don't practice idiot compassion, however.
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see my thread on worrying
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Worrying is no way to live life. I put plenty of time and effort into my immediate families' happiness. Other people can deal with their own happiness.
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i dont care for happiness.
not for myself.
not for others.
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I worry about my wife and that`s it.
Me I`ve never truly been happy except for a few fleeting moments due top my mental disorders.
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I loose sleep worrying about whether or not other people train legs. I get so pissed about dudes wearing jeans in the gym and then it stays on my mind all day. Whether or not a person I don't know trains a particular body part at the gym really concerns me.
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I loose sleep worrying about whether or not other people train legs. I get so pissed about dudes wearing jeans in the gym and then it stays on my mind all day. Whether or not a person I don't know trains a particular body part at the gym really concerns me.
;D