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Title: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: NickEdge779 on June 01, 2017, 11:23:00 PM
Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Ablexia on June 01, 2017, 11:40:38 PM
not even 1% of me worries about other peoples happiness. There are maybe 5 people on this planet I would give a shit about if they bit it, but other than that nope. Now dogs on the other hand, its vital that they are happy all the time. Now thats important
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: SOMEPARTS on June 02, 2017, 12:11:09 AM
Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.


You let a woman know that last bit and she will suck your soul out through your wallet.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Simple Simon on June 02, 2017, 12:15:08 AM

You let a woman know that last bit and she will suck your soul out through your wallet.

hahahaha   how true...
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Tapeworm on June 02, 2017, 12:57:16 AM
Sure it's not just vanity that can't bear someone thinking bad of you?  You are a thongster, after all.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Henda on June 02, 2017, 01:41:23 AM
I put the happiness of my kids above anything
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: falco on June 02, 2017, 01:44:51 AM
Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.

With time your heart will change. Otherwise you will be eaten alive in this world.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Necrosis on June 02, 2017, 03:40:56 AM
Anyone else like this? I worry about my family members and friends' happiness more than my own. I worry that they are depressed or not enjoying life and I worry that its my responsibility to make them happy. Even if it's just for a few hours or a day. Because I know that we all worry about what's going to happen when we grow old and die and I want to make them as happy as I can because life can be depressing and lonely. This hits me especially hard when breaking up with old girlfriends. I would always worry that they would spiral into depression because of the breakup and it made me miserable thinking about it. I feel like we all deserve to have someone deeply care about us and I feel like it's my role to be that person who loves unconditionally.


You are simply more evolved than most, most people see the world in a dualistic mindset, which unfortunately is the path of suffering.

Keep the big heart, keep your compassion, don't practice idiot compassion, however.




Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Marty Champions on June 02, 2017, 06:01:14 AM
see my thread on worrying
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: keanu on June 02, 2017, 02:10:49 PM
Worrying is no way to live life. I put plenty of time and effort into my immediate families' happiness. Other people can deal with their own happiness.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: ratherbebig on June 02, 2017, 02:12:05 PM
i dont care for happiness.

not for myself.

not for others.

Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: wes on June 02, 2017, 03:08:57 PM
I worry about my wife and that`s it.

Me I`ve never truly been happy except for a few fleeting moments due top my mental disorders.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: Nirvana on June 02, 2017, 06:46:25 PM
I loose sleep worrying about whether or not other people train legs. I get so pissed about dudes wearing jeans in the gym and then it stays on my mind all day. Whether or not a person I don't know trains a particular body part at the gym really concerns me.
Title: Re: Worrying about other people's happiness more than your own?
Post by: R.A.M. on June 02, 2017, 07:20:29 PM
I loose sleep worrying about whether or not other people train legs. I get so pissed about dudes wearing jeans in the gym and then it stays on my mind all day. Whether or not a person I don't know trains a particular body part at the gym really concerns me.
;D