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Title: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: el numero uno on July 20, 2017, 11:46:40 AM
http://www.billboard.com/articles/columns/rock/7873783/linkin-park-chester-bennington-suicide
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 11:50:16 AM
impossible

from what ive read on getbig the only ones who die young are bodybuilders
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: SF1900 on July 20, 2017, 11:55:49 AM
Saying he hung himself.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 11:56:14 AM
Saying he hung himself.

he's not saying anything anymore
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Post by: el numero uno on July 20, 2017, 12:03:08 PM
All that money, women, recognition, fans, and they're still miserable deep inside.  :-\ :-\ :-\
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 12:04:07 PM
All that money, women, recognition, fans, and they're still miserable deep inside.  :-\ :-\ :-\

at least he cant make anyone else miserable now having to listen to his music
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Post by: Nap on July 20, 2017, 12:06:06 PM
Hybrid Theory was fucking awesome. RIP!
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Post by: residue on July 20, 2017, 12:06:41 PM
fuck him, he tried to replace scott weiland
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Post by: DroppingPlates on July 20, 2017, 01:30:37 PM
at least he cant make anyone else miserable now having to listen to his music

Should I explain you the concept of sound recordings?

Anyway, I never liked LP that much, but R.I.P.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 01:47:24 PM
Should I explain you the concept of sound recordings?

Anyway, I never liked LP that much, but R.I.P.

say a band puts out 5 albums instead of 15 that makes a difference in airplay etc dontcha think.

imagine how much better the world woudlve been if coldplay stopped after their first album, for whatever reason.

if you still dont understand this i dont think i can help any further.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: dseiler on July 20, 2017, 01:48:48 PM
Fuck him. Coward.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: HTexan on July 20, 2017, 01:56:08 PM
Fucking sucks. Loved his music growing up. Poor kids.  :'(
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 20, 2017, 02:03:48 PM
say a band puts out 5 albums instead of 15 that makes a difference in airplay etc dontcha think.

imagine how much better the world woudlve been if coldplay stopped after their first album, for whatever reason.

if you still dont understand this i dont think i can help any further.

That just depends on the hit-factor of the individual album tracks, which could vary between 1 to 5, or even more.

I've always hated Cockplay with their sensitive gay ass vocals, so we can agree on that part.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: rangerwil on July 20, 2017, 02:07:35 PM
He always seemed so upset and violent.
Sooo much rage...
sad
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Post by: NarcissisticDeity on July 20, 2017, 02:08:58 PM
Should I explain you the concept of sound recordings?

Anyway, I never liked LP that much, but R.I.P.

I'm with you , not a fan of their music
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Post by: Nether Animal on July 20, 2017, 02:41:21 PM
Their early stuff was pretty good back in my high school days, but starting with Minutes to Midnight the more recent material didn't quite cut it for me.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: el numero uno on July 20, 2017, 02:46:46 PM
at least he cant make anyone else miserable now having to listen to his music

Music records have existed for quite some time you know?
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 02:51:29 PM
Music records have existed for quite some time you know?

didnt i just respond to this question earlier in this thread?

Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Shizzo on July 20, 2017, 02:52:18 PM
Fuck him. Coward.
Why? I get that  he had a wife and 6 kids, but if he couldn't live with himself, how could he live for his family? My guess, is that his kids actually made him hold off for a few years.

He was not a coward. He was hopeless. His pain was so deep, that he would rather die than to watch his children grow up. That is not a choice a man in his right mind would make.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Azzaro on July 20, 2017, 02:53:03 PM
PIP
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 20, 2017, 03:12:32 PM
didnt i just respond to this question earlier in this thread?



Well, you failed :D
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 03:31:50 PM
Well, you failed :D

failed what? my original post was enough. my respond should have really cleared things out. yet you say i fail means you still dont get it. well thats on you.

if you dont think there's a difference between someone putting out 1 song and 100 songs then i cant explain it any further.

i know personally that any artist, that i find annoying, i rather see them quit for whatever reason, the earlier the better because if they dont there's a far greater chance they will annoy me even more over years and years to come. to anyone to not understand this, i have nothing to say. i just shake my head at the complete dumbness of getbiggers.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Simple Simon on July 20, 2017, 03:32:50 PM
never heard of him, never knowingly listened to or heard any of his songs.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 20, 2017, 03:39:22 PM
failed what? my original post was enough. my respond should have really cleared things out. yet you say i fail means you still dont get it. well thats on you.

if you dont think there's a difference between someone putting out 1 song and 100 songs then i cant explain it any further.

i know personally that any artist, that i find annoying, i rather see them quit for whatever reason, the earlier the better because if they dont there's a far greater chance they will annoy me even more over years and years to come. to anyone to not understand this, i have nothing to say. i just shake my head at the complete dumbness of getbiggers.


If that wasn't a meltdown, than I don't know what is :D
Maybe you should cancel your internet connection, it would be better for your health.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ratherbebig on July 20, 2017, 03:41:21 PM
If that wasn't a meltdown, than I don't know what is :D
Maybe you should cancel your internet connection, it would be better for your health.

there are no threats to health except for steroids.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: HTexan on July 20, 2017, 04:33:23 PM
Why? I get that  he had a wife and 6 kids, but if he couldn't live with himself, how could he live for his family? My guess, is that his kids actually made him hold off for a few years.

He was not a coward. He was hopeless. His pain was so deep, that he would rather die than to watch his children grow up. That is not a choice a man in his right mind would make.
Yes not a coward. But very selfish being that he has kids.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: dseiler on July 20, 2017, 04:39:13 PM
Why? I get that  he had a wife and 6 kids, but if he couldn't live with himself, how could he live for his family? My guess, is that his kids actually made him hold off for a few years.

He was not a coward. He was hopeless. His pain was so deep, that he would rather die than to watch his children grow up. That is not a choice a man in his right mind would make.

Yes, and he set a great example for his family on how to deal with problems. Nothing is ever completely hopeless, even more so when you have the money to get the best health care available and the time to spend working on it.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Yamcha on July 20, 2017, 04:41:36 PM
(https://i.redd.it/2e5pxl3aqsaz.jpg)
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: delta9mda on July 20, 2017, 05:00:54 PM
Linkin sucked anyways but too bad he chose to check out
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: APE907 on July 20, 2017, 06:29:04 PM
LP music was a guilty pleasure back in early 00's.

Pretty sure there were a couple Cutler posing routines set to their music

Before nu-metal became a played out genre, his band had a huge following.

Saw them in Tampa 2007 and was actually pretty great live set.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: chaos on July 20, 2017, 06:42:57 PM
(https://i.redd.it/2e5pxl3aqsaz.jpg)
Damn near choked to death laughing over this. ;D
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Rudee on July 20, 2017, 07:07:49 PM
Scott hung himself, and now Chester does the same.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Redux on July 20, 2017, 07:37:32 PM
(https://i.redd.it/2e5pxl3aqsaz.jpg)

holy fuck that is hilarious!   ;D
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: ESFitness on July 20, 2017, 08:47:19 PM
I imagine dude had enough money to bounce to the Bahamas and sit on the beach for the rest of his life or at least go to rehab and get medically derided... And THEN move to Cabo or something. MF'r choose to sit in his potty party.

On another note; always thought that rapper dude with the chin bush goatee was "Chester from link on park". Ohnwell
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Marty Champions on July 20, 2017, 09:10:08 PM
shouldve ate more lentils n lifted weights
coulda tried a high calorie day for strong erections

suprising how many cant intuitivly see a little lifting n eating more makes u feel great, u wonder if these guys ever had a single day of hard work
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: SOMEPARTS on July 20, 2017, 10:37:00 PM
I fear for the LP terrible rapper's life.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: The Ugly on July 20, 2017, 10:52:03 PM
Scott hung himself, and now Chester does the same.

No, sir. That was Cornell, Scott OD'd.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Rudee on July 20, 2017, 11:09:49 PM
No, sir. That was Cornell, Scott OD'd.

Yes, correct.  I meant to say Cornell.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Kwon on July 20, 2017, 11:50:50 PM
He had things crawling in his skin.

That's why he felt numb.

Maybe he felt like this for years?




In the end it doesn't even matter
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Powerlift66 on July 21, 2017, 02:13:23 AM
Who???
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Bulgarian_enforcer on July 21, 2017, 03:33:07 AM
at least he cant make anyone else miserable now having to listen to his music

haha this. weak c*nt killed himself. may he rot in hell.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Yamcha on July 21, 2017, 04:11:28 AM
He had things crawling in his skin.

That's why he felt numb.

Maybe he felt like this for years?


In the end it doesn't even matter

Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: WannaBePro on July 21, 2017, 04:33:26 AM
I was supposed to see Linkin Park live in Toronto on Aug 8th. Of course he offs himself now...

(http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/shit-is-fucked-up-and-stuff.jpg)
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Simple Simon on July 21, 2017, 04:35:36 AM
I was supposed to see Linkin Park live in Toronto on Aug 8th. Of course he offs himself now...

(http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/shit-is-fucked-up-and-stuff.jpg)

every cloud hey mate.....
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: dj181 on July 21, 2017, 04:58:02 AM
never heard of him, never knowingly listened to or heard any of his songs.

I'm sure your ttasteIin music sucks ass

specially since you come from the land with the best bands EVER

beatles, stones, zep,  Floyd,  elp,  yes, and the list goes on and on and on...
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Post by: falco on July 21, 2017, 05:04:41 AM
failed what? my original post was enough. my respond should have really cleared things out. yet you say i fail means you still dont get it. well thats on you.

if you dont think there's a difference between someone putting out 1 song and 100 songs then i cant explain it any further.

i know personally that any artist, that i find annoying, i rather see them quit for whatever reason, the earlier the better because if they dont there's a far greater chance they will annoy me even more over years and years to come. to anyone to not understand this, i have nothing to say. i just shake my head at the complete dumbness of getbiggers.

You sound like you are the next to commit suicide.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: falco on July 21, 2017, 05:06:21 AM
(https://i.redd.it/2e5pxl3aqsaz.jpg)
He was killed by the iluminati.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 21, 2017, 05:12:40 AM
You sound like you are the next to commit suicide.

Most of his postings have a high depression factor..
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Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 21, 2017, 08:19:15 AM
They were one of my favorite bands for a while and the only thing I listened to while working out for a long time. Songs always got me pumped up. Sad to see this shit happening.
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Post by: Rimstinger on July 21, 2017, 08:28:10 AM
I imagine dude had enough money to bounce to the Bahamas and sit on the beach for the rest of his life or at least go to rehab and get medically derided... And THEN move to Cabo or something. MF'r choose to sit in his potty party.

Goes to show, he likely suffered from a real mental illness even piles of money and what life had to offer made no difference, some people reach a dark place.

Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: el numero uno on July 21, 2017, 12:26:26 PM
Death scares the hell out of me. Not the pain involved in dying but the fact that you're gone and that's it; no more you anymore.  :'(

It's hard for me to accept that.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: el numero uno on July 21, 2017, 12:28:00 PM
I guess depression really blinds your logic.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 21, 2017, 12:51:08 PM
Maybe he finally listened to one of his records.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: DroppingPlates on July 21, 2017, 02:07:51 PM
I guess depression really blinds your logic.

Yes, and this goes for every extreme emotional state
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Post by: Earl1972 on July 21, 2017, 03:12:41 PM
i loved his music

some older sick fuck molested him all the time as a kid

it just goes to show even when some people are living their dreams, they are still stuck in the nightmare of their own mind :-\



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Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: visualizeperfection on July 21, 2017, 03:34:43 PM
He didn't even lift.


(http://img02.deviantart.net/86b7/i/2009/209/b/9/linkin_park_3_by_ponihest.jpg)


Create more shit music in the afterlife, quitter.
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Post by: Primemuscle on July 21, 2017, 04:29:37 PM
Very sad. He left behind six kids.
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Post by: Mobil on July 21, 2017, 06:07:40 PM
I was a fan after "crawling" and "shadow of the day"...too bad he crashed really hard coming of his drug and alcohol binge..they just came out with a new album that is on top of the charts..hes a pussy for leaving his kids behind..it will emotionally scar them for life knowing their father killed himsef (very selfish on his part)..i have a friend who's father killed himself when his wife (my friends mom)got a divorce ..he changed totally and refuses to talk about it
..
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Mobil on July 21, 2017, 06:21:56 PM
Goes to show, he likely suffered from a real mental illness even piles of money and what life had to offer made no difference, some people reach a dark place.



Goes to show, he likely suffered from a real mental illness even piles of money and what life had to offer made no difference, some people reach a dark place.


I read he always had a drug and alcohol problem..when they got more famous fueled it more from a interview he said those comments..guess more cash flow..and he was best friends with chris cornell  (lead singer from soundgarden)..chris hung himself 2months ago and Chester sang at his funeral
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Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 21, 2017, 06:27:42 PM
Death scares the hell out of me. Not the pain involved in dying but the fact that you're gone and that's it; no more you anymore.  :'(

It's hard for me to accept that.

I'm not afraid of death for myself.  I honestly just feel bad for the way it would affect my family and friends.  My mom would be a mess.
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Post by: wes on July 21, 2017, 06:41:10 PM
He was no Greg Allman.
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Post by: Tapeworm on July 21, 2017, 06:43:35 PM
Really faggoty name.  No one named Brick Steakgun ever killed himself.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Marty Champions on July 21, 2017, 07:12:34 PM
people who off themselves before 50 is pathetic before 60 stupid

over 80 acceptable
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: SOMEPARTS on July 21, 2017, 07:12:47 PM
(http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a141/fadedpictures13/Chester/chazyearbook-vi.jpg)
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Post by: Mobil on July 21, 2017, 08:30:23 PM
(http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a141/fadedpictures13/Chester/chazyearbook-vi.jpg)

Damn..who would know this guy would be featured on Transformer movie soundtracks...he accomplished alot...but a pussy for quitting. Media shouldn't glamorize suicide, instead put it down..you are a pussy..instead of making people think that are suicidal think it's ok and will make people who are depressedy go out with a boom..and everyone remorse their death for two weeks then you are forgotten..."oh so sad he/she killed him or herself"...my dad taught me to not give up..today sucks and is horrible..but a year down the road you are happy...i was suicidal when I was young and my dad told me that..tomorrow is another day son...you never know what's gonna happen..you may meet the woman of your dreams
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Post by: Pray_4_War on July 21, 2017, 08:32:47 PM
I wasn't a fan of his but I know some people that were tight with him.  They sad right now.  Way sad.

RIP dude.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: rocket on July 21, 2017, 10:45:07 PM
They are probably one of the chief contenders for bands I never fucking want to hear again and Chester's vocal style is the top of the list as to why.

However, his death will do nothing to solve my quest to never hear him.

Also, Brian Welch's tweet.. it's a halfwit tweet.  Nobody who is healthy, rich, famous and has 6 children and wants to kill themselves is thinking straight, so why he wants to apply "thinking straight" logic to it and determine that Chester was a coward, is beyond me.  This dude is probably thinking "nobody likes me", "everybody is against me", "I hate life" and "they are better off without me".  He isn't a coward for killing himself, he is sick in the head.  Who hasn't had a moment in their life where they fail to see the virtue in anything?
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Post by: Shizzo on July 21, 2017, 10:52:04 PM
They are probably one of the chief contenders for bands I never fucking want to hear again and Chester's vocal style is the top of the list as to why.

However, his death will do nothing to solve my quest to never hear him.

Also, Brian Welch's tweet.. it's a halfwit tweet.  Nobody who is healthy, rich, famous and has 6 children and wants to kill themselves is thinking straight, so why he wants to apply "thinking straight" logic to it and determine that Chester was a coward, is beyond me.  This dude is probably thinking "nobody likes me", "everybody is against me", "I hate life" and "they are better off without me".  He isn't a coward for killing himself, he is sick in the head.  Who hasn't had a moment in their life where they fail to see the virtue in anything?

Exactly. Go back and listen to some of his lyrics or watch a few of his interviews. They say hindsight is 20/20, but the signs were always there.

He wasn't a coward, and he wasn't a pussy. It was destiny manifest, and all of the sand ran out of his hourglass.
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Mobil on July 22, 2017, 01:29:47 AM
Exactly. Go back and listen to some of his lyrics or watch a few of his interviews. They say hindsight is 20/20, but the signs were always there.

He wasn't a coward, and he wasn't a pussy. It was destiny manifest, and all of the sand ran out of his hourglass.

He gave up..he quit....depression is genetic without a doubt..just like everything else...depends how you decide to deal with it in life...with the right guidance you can overcome it..i have...no matter what ever positive you have in your life you have this inner voice putting you down non stop..its. a no win battle...its overcoming that voice telling you are a loser and blocking that voice and overcome...most depressed people's worst enemy are themselves
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Post by: Shizzo on July 22, 2017, 01:38:14 AM
He gave up..he quit....depression is genetic without a doubt..just like everything else...depends how you decide to deal with it in life...with the right guidance you can overcome it..i have
Sounds like you have been there. But let me ask you something.....imagine being in your deepest state of depression, and multiply that by a million.

You are a normal dude. Chester was literally known world wide, and had to probably fake a smile 90% of the time. He had expectations to live up to.

Depression can strike anyone, but circumstances can certainly elevate the anxiety of the situation. For 15+ years, Linkin Park has been one of the biggest bands in the world. I think his circumstances may differ a bit from yours.
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Post by: Mobil on July 22, 2017, 01:54:07 AM
Sounds like you have been there. But let me ask you something.....imagine being in your deepest state of depression, and multiply that by a million.

You are a normal dude. Chester was literally known world wide, and had to probably fake a smile 90% of the time. He had expectations to live up to.

Depression can strike anyone, but circumstances can certainly elevate the anxiety of the situation. For 15+ years, Linkin Park has been one of the biggest bands in the world. I think his circumstances may differ a bit from yours.

Not at all.. he's rich and famous..im a average Joe working 9 to 5 with no financial help....sometimes I worked 2 jobs when I was younger to get by..used to fall asleep in my car out in parking lot to make sure I would be at work next day.....i used to be so depressed when I was younger, that I would not look at myself in the mirror...i would look down and put gel In my hair...its that negative voice in your head always putting you down...its genetic I believe 100% nobody else I know deals with it..its up to you to tell yourself it's only a voice in your head and not the truth
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Post by: luckyone on July 22, 2017, 02:33:30 AM
Just curious Mobil, how did you "beat" it and what advice to others feeling depressed and hopeless would you offer. I work in the Mental Health Field and have seen many helped by modern medicine but a lot still aren't and need something different or in addition to medication. Anyway congrats to you, and hope you will inspire others to NOT GIVE UP!!

your brother in Christ,

Lucky
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Post by: rocket on July 22, 2017, 04:36:45 AM
its genetic I believe 100% nobody else I know deals with it..its up to you to tell yourself it's only a voice in your head and not the truth

I don't think depression/that voice is always genetic.

When I was a teenager, I learned that I was not an attractive person (from other people informing me of this :)).  When I say that, I mean, I was described as the ugliest person someone had ever seen. 

Naturally, this created a negative voice in my head that discouraged me from interaction with people, where my looks will be in question and still to this day, those few moments guide my future (at least, when it comes to being around ze women).  I'm pretty sure I will get through life without ever having had a truly serious relationship because I simply do not possess the ability to see worth in my outward appearance at all - and even when I have had that worth projected on me by others, I just do not believe them and struggle to feel secure to trust in that worth.

In my case, I do not believe the negative voice is genetic.  I believe it is a combination of being someone who is very black and white about things hearing the wrong comments at the wrong time :-\

I believe those moments shaped my future.

(I'm not depressed, though - I work with what I've got, but what I won't be having is a partner again, I think)
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Spike on July 22, 2017, 06:44:44 AM
I think about my anxiety or whatever happens to me at night and when I sleep festering into something else - why I won't purchase a pistol


Mental health is what causes someone to go that route , we never know the real truth, but people being all upset and saying selfishness is a bit much - dude might have thoUght be himself was so batshit his kids would be better off without him - ur reasoning gets fckd, I've been there

Easy to commentate someone else's shit storm when ur sittin in ur nosebleed seat and never taken or will take a serious knock in ur life - mentally or physically - like some do
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Marty Champions on July 22, 2017, 06:30:32 PM
only if he had a handome face like OJ , he would not died himself
Title: Re: Another rockstar's gone - PIP Chester Bennington
Post by: Mobil on July 22, 2017, 06:54:23 PM
I don't think depression/that voice is always genetic.

When I was a teenager, I learned that I was not an attractive person (from other people informing me of this :)).  When I say that, I mean, I was described as the ugliest person someone had ever seen.  

Naturally, this created a negative voice in my head that discouraged me from interaction with people, where my looks will be in question and still to this day, those few moments guide my future (at least, when it comes to being around ze women).  I'm pretty sure I will get through life without ever having had a truly serious relationship because I simply do not possess the ability to see worth in my outward appearance at all - and even when I have had that worth projected on me by others, I just do not believe them and struggle to feel secure to trust in that worth.

In my case, I do not believe the negative voice is genetic.  I believe it is a combination of being someone who is very black and white about things hearing the wrong comments at the wrong time :-\

I believe those moments shaped my future.

(I'm not depressed, though - I work with what I've got, but what I won't be having is a partner again, I think)

I agree with you on life experiences shape your life...but anxiety/depression are linked together..and anxiety attacks are genetic...i would feel like I'm having a heart attack during my anxiety attacks and nobody I knew could understand what was happening to me....fast forward years down the road...our whole family was eating at a restaurant and my niece started freaking out (age 14) screaming and crying and just wanted to leave..she was having a anxiety attack...my brother in law looks over at me and says.." she got the gene from your family ". I'm the only one that deals with it with two older sisters ...i have known people who get made fun of how they look being fat and ugly...etc...they are the happiest people I've met....look at big black women...they are happiest people in the world..i always respect that and envious of that happy demeanor
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Post by: Mobil on July 22, 2017, 06:56:41 PM
Just curious Mobil, how did you "beat" it and what advice to others feeling depressed and hopeless would you offer. I work in the Mental Health Field and have seen many helped by modern medicine but a lot still aren't and need something different or in addition to medication. Anyway congrats to you, and hope you will inspire others to NOT GIVE UP!!

your brother in Christ,

Lucky

I've never "beat it" I just learned to control it...i know it's in my DNA and have to accept it and work with it..i wish that negative voice would disappear but it's not...im 36 and know it's not going away..i just tune it out..but sometimes it will get me...we can all agree height, eye color, skin color, muscles (keeping it bb related) are genetic correct? But the human brain is not genetic and everyone has the same brain genetics and makeup? Alot of ignorant and misinformed people...
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Post by: dj181 on July 23, 2017, 03:51:38 AM
according to AJ everything single thing about an individual is genetic

 
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Post by: Ronnie Rep on July 23, 2017, 07:44:34 AM
Goes to show, he likely suffered from a real mental illness even piles of money and what life had to offer made no difference, some people reach a dark place.


This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!