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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
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You should pork his wife ;D
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How much does your friend bench?
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Don’t let it bother you. Focus on yourself. If you go around thinking about other people’s problems like that you’ll drive yourself mad.
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How much does your friend bench?
He’s a big strong fucker. Prolly 350-375
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He’s a big strong fucker. Prolly 350-375
He's about to see how strong he really is compared to the wife's lawyer.
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
An old friend of mine from Baltimore had a wife and kids. One evening, he went out for a ride and he never went back. He had a hungry heart.
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He's about to see how strong he really is compared to the wife's lawyer.
Yep. He probably got tired of beta buxing the bitch. 50% of marriages end in divorce and 80% are initiated by the woman. He just beat her to the punch in all likelihood. Hope he enjoyed losing over half his money plus paying child support and alimony. ;D
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
Oh, and pics of this sleazy homewrecking trollup are needed to determine further.
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
Oh, and pics of your homewrecking friend are needed to determine further.
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
Doesn't sound like your friend is walking away from his kids. He is probably walking away from his (soon to be) ex wife.
Some women, SOME, become full time mothers-only when they have kids and NEVER go back to wife mode (along with being a mother).
A family member of mine (female) actually rationed vagina to her husband 12 months after having a kid and basically never told the guy that she had developed some sort of repulsive physical mental funk that she never tried to seek help for. Needless to say the guy walked away from the marriage and eventually divorced my cousin.
We never knew this shit was going on and actually got physical with the guy at one point. Until he told us the story and we confirmed it with my cousin.
Moral of the story: what happens behind closed doors is something only the husband and the wife know about.
What you get to see is the superficial stuff.
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Oh, and pics of this sleazy homewrecking trollup are needed to determine further.
Vince G was a home wrecker. He had a tryst with a married man. And announced who he was in a restaurant (by yelling “Homewrecker!”)
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Show me a beautiful woman and I’ll show you a man that’s sick of fucking her.
I can picture leaving a wife for whatever reason, but never to get instantly tied down by a new whore.
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Royalty didn't respond to my text yet to come to this thread and sort this fucker out.
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unless im kinda ripped n hoes falling at my feet it aint better than jerkin off
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Royalty didn't respond to my text yet to come to this thread and sort this fucker out.
EDB's personal life has been in the midst of a tornado the last 6 months. Its like a whirlwind has ripped through everything that has meant or potentially meant something.
That story about the herpes chick made me sympathetic towards him but it shouldnt have been that deep of a relationship (based on what he shared here). And his response was a little dramatic. I hope he pulls out of this funk or he's trolling.
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EDB's personal life has been in the midst of a tornado the last 6 months. Its like a whirlwind has ripped through everything that has meant or potentially meant something.
That story about the herpes chick made me sympathetic towards him but it shouldnt have been that deep of a relationship (based on what he shared here). And his response was a little dramatic. I hope he pulls out of this funk or he's trolling.
El Diablo Blance needs our support in times like these.
That's why the Getbig-brethren are here.
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El Diablo Blance needs our support in times like these.
That's why the Getbig-brethren are here.
He's Nether Animal.
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unless im kinda ripped n hoes falling at my feet it aint better than jerkin off
True That!!...Cheaper than Alimony!...especially with two kids! ;D
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That's the story of my life in 2016. Walked away from my wife of 15 years for another, younger woman. My marriage was shit though the last 5 years. I had to start annotating the times we had sex, it would be like 2 -3 times a year among many other bad things. We had a daughter in 2009 and she went from wife to mom and mom only like someone said in the thread. But, all in all it was for the better. I see my kid 5-6 days a week, I live about a mile from my ex and we get along just fine. I was over tonight visisting my daughter and her golden doodle doggy, with my ex right there. We still talk and text about every day, mostly for advice or just conversation. I guess we were better friends than husband and wife. My kid is well adjusted and has no real issues. And I'm still with the other woman😉
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youtube some tom leykis
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Some women, SOME, become full time mothers-only when they have kids and NEVER go back to wife mode (along with being a mother).
A family member of mine (female) actually rationed vagina to her husband 12 months after having a kid and basically never told the guy that she had developed some sort of repulsive physical mental funk that she never tried to seek help for.
This.
We get a long just fine. Weeks roll by, occasional family trips and vacations.
But no sex. Rare blowjob or consending sex. Which, at 40, ain't that great.
So, I stay, do my part of the chores, raise the kids etc.
But, if opportunity arises, I'll bang every chick that seems reasonable enough for the trouble it might cause.
Don't consider this as cheating but taking care of myself.
Best fucks for this are women in similar situation.
Both are in a place they don't wan't to leave and both are happy with just sex and bad jokes.
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As bad as the cravings for fresh pussy can be when you have been with same lass for years I couldn’t leave my kids ever even for a billionaire supermodel who fucked like a pornstar
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As bad as the cravings for fresh pussy can be when you have been with same lass for years I couldn’t leave my kids ever even for a billionaire supermodel who fucked like a pornstar
you are just scared she would keep the porcelain ducks on the wall
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you are just scared she would keep the porcelain ducks on the wall
Haha she could have the lot mate I’d be happy with just a telly and a couch
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This.
We get a long just fine. Weeks roll by, occasional family trips and vacations.
But no sex. Rare blowjob or consending sex. Which, at 40, ain't that great.
So, I stay, do my part of the chores, raise the kids etc.
But, if opportunity arises, I'll bang every chick that seems reasonable enough for the trouble it might cause.
Don't consider this as cheating but taking care of myself.
Best fucks for this are women in similar situation.
Both are in a place they don't wan't to leave and both are happy with just sex and bad jokes.
Dude, there's a bunch of useless wives out there. It's an epidemic. And then they have the audacity to bitch an moan about all these hot young women who don't waste a second jumping on a dad's dick as soon as the lame-ass wife turns around.
The nerve.
That's why I lift weights and keep in shape, just in case.
Only reason I don't walk away from the relationship is because it's cheaper to keep her and we have kids to raise. And I know I'm not the only one. My best friend is such a porn addict that even when his kids are playing Roblox or Fortnite they constantly get porn pop ups. We laugh about it but, in talking about the fucking lame-ass/vain/shallow western world women we married, we found out it's an epidemic.
I TOTALLY understand why people like Baldwin or Tommy Mottola (just to name a few) remarried non-American AND are still happily married.
American women are quickly becoming useless. It's not women, it's American women.
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That sucks.
Have you discussed the lack of sex with your wife and if so, what is her response?
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Fellas, let me tell you something, the BEST lawyer anyone can get in a divorce/custody case is this:
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-88kQz-kxpHU/UfDlFrhJM-I/AAAAAAAAAUM/hxPBQ7qmqD4/s1600/sobbing.gif)
When a judge sees this, you are immediately, subconsciously, guilty of whatever crime she decides to blame you for.
In some European countries, mothers have accumulated so much political clout that they are basically considered an endangered species. In some of these countries, if a women were to accuse you of domestic violence she will get the entire state apparatus at her disposal (free lawyer, automatic restraining order, fast pass to judicial inquiry, et cetera,) while the male is left helpless and in need to proof his innocence.
In some countries it is becoming such an issue that local governments are now rolling back legislation because they have found out that women WILL and DO take advantage of it.
In some European countries, only 5-10% of all domestic violence cases make it to court. Meaning in 95% of the remaining cases there isn't any proof at all (no disinterested neighbor, no bruises, no recordings of verbal violence, no prior restraining orders, no prior DV case, et cetera).
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That sucks.
Have you discussed the lack of sex with your wife and if so, what is her response?
"No, I'm not doing anal again".
"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".
"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).
"I'm tired".
"I have a headache".
"I have to work tomorrow".
I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.
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He's Nether Animal.
Actually no. I've only ever posted as myself in the time I've been on Getbig. No need for gimmicks. I never hide anything.
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As someone said, I don't know all the details and I'm sure she could be the biggest bitch. I know he's not happy, but he has two pre teen kids who seem real cool. Good behavior. I just feel bad for them. As another poster said he's a mile away. This dude is going to move to another city so who knows when he'll see his kids. I won't fuck his wife, I'm not that type of guy. I'm sure she'd like to ride my cock carousel if I did make an advance to her. I don't get how you can leave the kids behind. Whatever shitty commitment you had with your wife is nothing compared to what you have with your own flesh and blood. I will be the first to laugh and point when he starts bitching about his new chick.
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
So your wife ran off with your best friend huh?
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"No, I'm not doing anal again".
"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".
"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).
"I'm tired".
"I have a headache".
"I have to work tomorrow".
I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.
Your wife has a hymen?
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People are only as faithful as their options.
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People are only as faithful as their options.
Character is developed over a lifetime and can be lost in an instant.
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"No, I'm not doing anal again".
"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".
"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).
"I'm tired".
"I have a headache".
"I have to work tomorrow".
I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.
You would never hear any of these excuses if you were dating Goodrum.
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That's the story of my life in 2016. Walked away from my wife of 15 years for another, younger woman. My marriage was shit though the last 5 years. I had to start annotating the times we had sex, it would be like 2 -3 times a year among many other bad things. We had a daughter in 2009 and she went from wife to mom and mom only like someone said in the thread. But, all in all it was for the better. I see my kid 5-6 days a week, I live about a mile from my ex and we get along just fine. I was over tonight visisting my daughter and her golden doodle doggy, with my ex right there. We still talk and text about every day, mostly for advice or just conversation. I guess we were better friends than husband and wife. My kid is well adjusted and has no real issues. And I'm still with the other woman😉
Boy are we different. I would leave her first time she did anything like that to me. 15 years? Clearly you're one of those guys that loves the comfort and familiarity of living with someone you're otherwise unhappy with because you don't think you can ever find anyone else. I'm impressed that someone as beta as you never lost his mind and shot up a school or a library about it. Then again, SF1900 claims to have never been turned on by any woman at the places he worked, and he apparently is not a mass murderer, so anything's possible.
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Amazing how so many men here are not red pilled with the wealth of white information we have access to.
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Boy are we different. I would leave her first time she did anything like that to me. 15 years? Clearly you're one of those guys that loves the comfort and familiarity of living with someone you're otherwise unhappy with because you don't think you can ever find anyone else. I'm impressed that someone as beta as you never lost his mind and shot up a school or a library about it. Then again, SF1900 claims to have never been turned on by any woman at the places he worked, and he apparently is not a mass murderer, so anything's possible.
Ok douchecanoe, whatever you say. I said she changed in 2009 after our daughter was born. I didn't leave because I thought it was better to stay and be a good dad and put up with her nonsense. After so long I had enough and then decided to leave. You know what, most your posts I enjoy and agree with your political stances. You've been a real ass hat lately to various posters for no reason. Lay off the tren or meth/Coke or whatever it is you are doing. It makes your good political posts sour and you just look unhinged.
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Monogamy is unnatural. I'll agree not to fuck anyone else if you'll agree not to fuck anyone else. Then we can be two people not doing what they want, and this Disney horse shit will be a cornerstone of our relationship.
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Ok douchecanoe, whatever you say. I said she changed in 2009 after our daughter was born. I didn't leave because I thought it was better to stay and be a good dad and put up with her nonsense. After so long I had enough and then decided to leave. You know what, most your posts I enjoy and agree with your political stances. You've been a real ass hat lately to various posters for no reason. Lay off the tren or meth/Coke or whatever it is you are doing. It makes your good political posts sour and you just look unhinged.
(http://i470.photobucket.com/albums/rr61/Roid_Rager/kingk.gif)
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Monogamy is unnatural. I'll agree not to fuck anyone else if you'll agree not to fuck anyone else. Then we can be two people not doing what they want, and this Disney horse shit will be a cornerstone of our relationship.
Great post.
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1 very old get bigger was kicked out by his 'darling', about 30 years ago !
;D ;D
;D ;D
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When the only thing two people have in-common is sex, the relationship is weak.
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Monogamy is unnatural. I'll agree not to fuck anyone else if you'll agree not to fuck anyone else. Then we can be two people not doing what they want, and this Disney horse shit will be a cornerstone of our relationship.
One step away from a Priests oath, makes no sense.. but here I am
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One step away from a Priests oath, makes no sense.. but here I am
Our differences aside, I think that you are more far honorable in your vows than more than a few priests, sir. While it is an unfortunate fact that all we have to go on in a place such as this are one another's "words", I do not have to agree with everything someone says to know that they are good person in more ways than just words.
This is not an "olive branch" but rather what I truly believe.
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Our differences aside, I think that you are more far honorable in your vows than more than a few priests, sir. While it is an unfortunate fact that all we have to go on in a place such as this are one another's "words", I do not have to agree with everything someone says to know that they are good person in more ways than just words.
This is not an "olive branch" but rather what I truly believe.
This is not me asking you out for a drink, but just saying, I can respect someone who can disagree completely with another and yet still see positive attributes about that person.
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When the only thing two people have in-common is sex, the relationship is weak.
You have sucked another mans cock.
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"No, I'm not doing anal again".
"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".
"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).
"I'm tired".
"I have a headache".
"I have to work tomorrow".
I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.
Sad. Just gonna take it back to this loser's comments on how married sex life should be:
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=628930.msg8775352#msg8775352
I really did not know what a bunch of whiny-ass little pussies some of you are, complaining about your wives to perfect strangers, when the best and most practical option would be to settle discrepancies with her. Sex-wise, your wife ought to succumb to your wishes, and vice versa. It won't happen overnight, but if you have to beg or get on your knees to get a blow job or anal from her, YOU are the idiot, and bad in the sack I might add.
Seems like an idiot and a troll, but maybe you should check out the thread. That moron has a ton of advice and experience that seems to be the complete opposite of what you're going through. ::)
Meanwhile, OP, shit happens. People cheat, people get divorced. If you feel like your friend's a big enough scumbag, cut him out of your life. Otherwise, it was his marriage to leave.
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One step away from a Priests oath, makes no sense.. but here I am
I used to think there was something wrong with me, like I was the boy who couldn't love. Turns out I'm actually quite a romantic.
If I choose to choose the same woman every day when I wake up then that would be wonderful. That's passion and love. I envy those who have it but I judge it to be exceptionally rare. Failing that, the least I can do is be honest with myself and others, and the honest truth is that different women appeal to me for different reasons, not even necessarily sexual reasons but that too. I can't think of any reason that's good enough to live a lie. I don't believe in some mythical pot of gold at the end of a rainbow of misery. There's no such thing as one person being happy while the other one is miserable, so persistent drudgery isn't doing anyone any favors. If I don't want to bring her flowers and fuck her brains out then what the hell am I doing?
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Sad. Just gonna take it back to this loser's comments on how married sex life should be:
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=628930.msg8775352#msg8775352
Seems like an idiot and a troll, but maybe you should check out the thread. That moron has a ton of advice and experience that seems to be the complete opposite of what you're going through. ::)
Meanwhile, OP, shit happens. People cheat, people get divorced. If you feel like your friend's a big enough scumbag, cut him out of your life. Otherwise, it was his marriage to leave.
Holly shit dude.
You're sick.
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Holly shit dude.
You're sick.
Don't bother. He only logs on here to make personal attacks against the users here...he did it to me in about 6 threads and just doesn't quit, comes back with reply after reply until like 6 in the morning. He's absolutely insane.
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I used to think there was something wrong with me, like I was the boy who couldn't love. Turns out I'm actually quite a romantic.
If I choose to choose the same woman every day when I wake up then that would be wonderful. That's passion and love. I envy those who have it but I judge it to be exceptionally rare. Failing that, the least I can do is be honest with myself and others, and the honest truth is that different women appeal to me for different reasons, not even necessarily sexual reasons but that too. I can't think of any reason that's good enough to live a lie. I don't believe in some mythical pot of gold at the end of a rainbow of misery. There's no such thing as one person being happy while the other one is miserable, so persistent drudgery isn't doing anyone any favors. If I don't want to bring her flowers and fuck her brains out then what the hell am I doing?
Good points..
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Sometimes it just doesn't work out.
Where it gets messy is if there are kids involved.
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Holly shit dude.
You're sick.
Thanks, fuckface ;)
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Maybe the "open marriage" could be an option.
You keep the family unit together but agree to allow sex outside of marriage.
If the wife doesn't want sex anymore what reasons could she have for objecting?
She may want to stay together for financial security.
Or do the swinging lifestyle. Maybe the wife would go for it.
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Maybe the "open marriage" could be an option.
You keep the family unit together but agree to allow sex outside of marriage.
If the wife doesn't want sex anymore what reasons could she have for objecting?
She may want to stay together for financial security.
Or do the swinging lifestyle. Maybe the wife would go for it.
Just divorce. Swinging/open marriage is for cucks and no real man wants sloppy seconds let alone filthy fiftieths. Ugh. And that's "ugh" as in disgusting not Native American affirmation. ;D
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Good points..
Doesn't mean you should listen to me. I have no wife, no kids, sleep on building sites, and in all likelihood am destined to die alone in a foreign land. If the romantic ideal of never ending passion doesn't exist then maybe the second best option of tepid comfort is as good as it gets.
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Doesn't mean you should listen to me. I have no wife, no kids, sleep on building sites, and in all likelihood am destined to die alone in a foreign land. If the romantic ideal of never ending passion doesn't exist then maybe the second best option of tepid comfort is as good as it gets.
I think it is how a person is hard wired. I have friends that should not marry. They have no desire for a long term relationship, they are perfectly happy doing the dating thing and living their life. Others, marriage is custom made for them. Stable home life, building a family, etc. I think I'm that kind that would like to be married like a shift worker, 6 months on, 3 months off... but it's not an option :)
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A good friend of mine just did that and I’m pissed at him. I understand he wasn’t happy in his marriage but he had a big house, nice car and two great kids. Apparently he met this piece of ass that made him feel excited again and he walked away from his family for her. It’s the shiny toy mentality. I’m sure he’ll grow tired of her in no time but he’ll never be able to recover the broken relationship with his kids. I don’t think any new pussy is worth walking away from your kids. I’m curious who’s done it here and if you ever regretted it or maybe it worked out and you wish you’d done it sooner.
No new pussy worths walking away from your kids..... Until you're the one that does it. ( walk away )
You start a new family , and your kids from first marriage will forever hate you for seeing you doing things with your new family/kids that you never did while you were with them ......
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No new pussy worths walking away from your kids..... Until you're the one that does it. ( walk away )
You start a new family , and your kids from first marriage will forever hate you for seeing you doing things with your new family/kids that you never did while you were with them ......
Kids get over things. Or they don't. If you don't leave your wife, they will find a million other reasons to hate you. Until they stop. It really isn't that rare for broken families to work out new arrangements and live mostly cordially. Even the idea that cheating/divorcing means giving up half of everything you'll ever have isn't accurate. Pretty much everywhere in the country is trending away from that.
Not trying to convince anyone to end their marriage or cheat (or better yet, kill their spouse) , but these fairy tales about post-marriage life inevitably spiraling into some daytime soap opera need to be reigned in. Even under moderately bad circumstances, people tend to just move on, for the most part.
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Just divorce. Swinging/open marriage is for cucks and no real man wants sloppy seconds let alone filthy fiftieths. Ugh. And that's "ugh" as in disgusting not Native American affirmation. ;D
It's better for the kids staying together and just fucking others in an open marriage plus you keep the finances stable. If he's not fucking his wife anyway he's not getting sloppy seconds anyway. I've known couples who were swingers in their 20's, stayed together and then grew out of it later and are still together and monogamous today.
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Kids get over things. Or they don't. If you don't leave your wife, they will find a million other reasons to hate you. Until they stop. It really isn't that rare for broken families to work out new arrangements and live mostly cordially. Even the idea that cheating/divorcing means giving up half of everything you'll ever have isn't accurate. Pretty much everywhere in the country is trending away from that.
Not trying to convince anyone to end their marriage or cheat (or better yet, kill their spouse) , but these fairy tales about post-marriage life inevitably spiraling into some daytime soap opera need to be reigned in. Even under moderately bad circumstances, people tend to just move on, for the most part.
"Kids get over things." Really???
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Some of you guys make it sound bad that the wife turns into Mom mode once she has kids. Raising those kids should be her priority. I think human nature used to be that kids would adapt, the dad was always out hunting and taking care of the family but today unless the dad is also wearing an apron the kids grow up fucked up. When did this happen?
People think without a dad, the daughter will do porn and the son will be a wife beater.
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Kids get over things. Or they don't. If you don't leave your wife, they will find a million other reasons to hate you. Until they stop. It really isn't that rare for broken families to work out new arrangements and live mostly cordially. Even the idea that cheating/divorcing means giving up half of everything you'll ever have isn't accurate. Pretty much everywhere in the country is trending away from that.
Not trying to convince anyone to end their marriage or cheat (or better yet, kill their spouse) , but these fairy tales about post-marriage life inevitably spiraling into some daytime soap opera need to be reigned in. Even under moderately bad circumstances, people tend to just move on, for the most part.
Good post. You're propably right. In fact I know you are.
Funny thing is the smaller the kids the better they recover.
And yes, daddy leaving the family doesn't have to be what it used to be.
You just never know with the women... It might go smoothly, it might not.
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Regarding your friendship you your bud,, remember: Bros before hoes.
If he left her was because she either was a bitch, or made his life a living hell, like every good western woman does. Regarding the kids, she probably was already brainwashing them into hating their own father. Tough luck.
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This.
We get a long just fine. Weeks roll by, occasional family trips and vacations.
But no sex. Rare blowjob or consending sex. Which, at 40, ain't that great.
So, I stay, do my part of the chores, raise the kids etc.
But, if opportunity arises, I'll bang every chick that seems reasonable enough for the trouble it might cause.
Don't consider this as cheating but taking care of myself.
Best fucks for this are women in similar situation.
Both are in a place they don't wan't to leave and both are happy with just sex and bad jokes.
good man.....and this is the secret of a happy and long marriage, honestly, at least for myself
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Good post. You're propably right. In fact I know you are.
Funny thing is the smaller the kids the better they recover.
And yes, daddy leaving the family doesn't have to be what it used to be.
You just never know with the women... It might go smoothly, it might not.
The thing is, I'm not even saying "fuck everybody else in your family, just get yours". I'm just saying be mature and acknowledge the realities of the situation. I reposted a quote from another poster earlier in this thread. Even though it made me look like a "holly sick fuck", the point of the repost was that he finally dropped the pretense of what an imaginary marriage can be like and was acknowledging how real marriages frequently are. Of course it's great to work through your problems, but shit happens. Half of all marriages fail. People cheat. Couples split and move on. Parents deal with shit, kids deal with shit, nobody's life is perfect. Some cases will be more contentious than others.
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Some of you guys make it sound bad that the wife turns into Mom mode once she has kids. Raising those kids should be her priority. I think human nature used to be that kids would adapt, the dad was always out hunting and taking care of the family but today unless the dad is also wearing an apron the kids grow up fucked up. When did this happen?
People think without a dad, the daughter will do porn and the son will be a wife beater.
There is a difference between not having a father and having divorced parents. I would say most strippers and whores grew up in a single parent household.
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Some of you guys make it sound bad that the wife turns into Mom mode once she has kids. Raising those kids should be her priority. I think human nature used to be that kids would adapt, the dad was always out hunting and taking care of the family but today unless the dad is also wearing an apron the kids grow up fucked up. When did this happen?
People think without a dad, the daughter will do porn and the son will be a wife beater.
While you are breastfeeding the baby, it is your priority. I recall all my love and affection was focused on my baby. I was so focused on being a mother and all my energy went into this. I wasn’t getting my period while I was breast feeding so had no desire for my partner. Nature designed things this way for a reason. Of course this is only for a few months and then you find a balance to be a mum and lover to your partner. That is key.
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While you are breastfeeding the baby, it is your priority. I recall all my love and affection was focused on my baby. I was so focused on being a mother and all my energy went into this. I wasn’t getting my period while I was breast feeding so had no desire for my partner. Nature designed things this way for a reason. Of course this is only for a few months and then you find a balance to be a mum and lover to your partner. That is key.
Do you even have nipples anymore? I figure with how hard me and Liar Priest sucked on them, they'd be pretty chewed up or even disconnected by now.
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Here is my experience: I am a fit gym rat. Wife is not....very, very pretty and 15 years younger. Also 20 lbs overweight.
We had no sex life. I even made an excel spread sheet documenting her constant denial. However, before I left her I explained why and how we could save our marriage. We have an 11 year old son together.
First, I cleaned up my side of the street. I was fat myself, but now stay close to contest shape. I explained to my wife that she deserved someone she was attracted to and we should separate if she did not want to be with me physically. She decided she wanted to stay together and our sex life turned around.
It is not great, but I can live with it. She is a sweet, kind and giving woman, makes a shit ton of money and is generous. She does very little nagging and I do not allow us to argue. She is an excellent cook and mother.
She is still 20 lbs overweight and allergic to the gym, but also has a 10 face. I am old and ugly.
All in all I stay with her. Sure, I wish I had a fit bikini competitor for a wife, but you can't have everything. Taken as a whole, my wife simply has too many good qualities for me to leave her (which I would do BEFORE cheating).
You have to look at a marriage in its totality, weigh all the good points against the bad.
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Fail...
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Doesn't mean you should listen to me. I have no wife, no kids, sleep on building sites, and in all likelihood am destined to die alone in a foreign land. If the romantic ideal of never ending passion doesn't exist then maybe the second best option of tepid comfort is as good as it gets.
So U are Soldier of Fortune 2 ;)
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Just divorce. Swinging/open marriage is for cucks and no real man wants sloppy seconds let alone filthy fiftieths. Ugh. And that's "ugh" as in disgusting not Native American affirmation. ;D
How some guys live with a fatso wife ??? :-\
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Here is my experience: I am a fit gym rat. Wife is not....very, very pretty and 15 years younger. Also 20 lbs overweight.
We had no sex life. I even made an excel spread sheet documenting her constant denial. However, before I left her I explained why and how we could save our marriage. We have an 11 year old son together.
First, I cleaned up my side of the street. I was fat myself, but now stay close to contest shape. I explained to my wife that she deserved someone she was attracted to and we should separate if she did not want to be with me physically. She decided she wanted to stay together and our sex life turned around.
It is not great, but I can live with it. She is a sweet, kind and giving woman, makes a shit ton of money and is generous. She does very little nagging and I do not allow us to argue. She is an excellent cook and mother.
She is still 20 lbs overweight and allergic to the gym, but also has a 10 face. I am old and ugly.
All in all I stay with her. Sure, I wish I had a fit bikini competitor for a wife, but you can't have everything. Taken as a whole, my wife simply has too many good qualities for me to leave her (which I would do BEFORE cheating).
You have to look at a marriage in its totality, weigh all the good points against the bad.
I like your honesty. It must be tough to walk away, especially with a kid.
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So U are Soldier of Fortune 2 ;)
"Fortune" is overstating it a bit but it's a living.
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Give your wife orgasms and they will want to have sex.
Figure out what it takes to give them an orgasm, then do that.
A lot of them just don't get off in standard fashion and they get frustrated.
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"No, I'm not doing anal again".
"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".
"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).
"I'm tired".
"I have a headache".
"I have to work tomorrow".
I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.
Got to get HER off.
Concentrate of that. Get her off before you get yourself off.
Figure out what it takes to get her off.
Most likely she doesn't have an orgasm during the sex. Fakes it or doesn't even fake it.
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Got to get HER off.
Concentrate of that. Get her off before you get yourself off.
Figure out what it takes to get her off.
Most likely she doesn't have an orgasm during the sex. Fakes it or doesn't even fake it.
I always munch box first (lick the clit). Do that until she cums then stick it in. It doesn't matter how long you last from that point on.
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Some women are not easy to get to orgasm.
It's the way they are put together and each one is different.
They won't tell you either most of the time because often they don't know themselves so you have to figure it out.
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Give your wife orgasms and they will want to have sex.
Figure out what it takes to give them an orgasm, then do that.
A lot of them just don't get off in standard fashion and they get frustrated.
Right on. Another thing most women like is a guy who is romantic and loving during intercourse. The wham bam thank you ma'am type, not so much.
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Probably do what most unhappy married guys do, hit an Asian massage parlor a couple times a week.
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Just bonk her, spread your DNA & go ;)
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It seems it's all about sex with you guys. I think living with the same woman for a while even if you bust your load is hard to do. If there's no passion for her but you still fuck her where's the joy? Same with Asian massage parlors. I can just jerk myself off. Something about having hot passionate sex with a woman totally into you and being totally into her is what's needed but even then these things fizzle out. My buddy will soon learn that she'll get boring just like his wife did. Women just fucking change once you totally commit to them, move in together or make any sort of long term thing with them. It's almost like you need to make them think you're out the door each time to make them act all passionate before they get boring as fuck.