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Been seeing my girl for over 1.5 years now, not once have I been invited out with her and her friends. They are all women, but some of the girls bring their guys with them. I include her with all my friends, she has met 90% of them. We have talked about it and she says I would not enjoy the get-togethers or it was not her place to invite me. I have now in retaliation not invited her a few times and she was upset.
Wired situation as I have met her daughter numerous times. I think she is living a double life ?
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This wreaks of beta behavior.
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Consider yourself lucky,hanging with your girl and friends drinking whatever sucks.My wife asks me to hang with her and her friends all the time and I would never.Bunch of broads yapping about shit I couldn’t care less about.No thank you they all know I can’t stand them anyways.
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Consider yourself lucky,hanging with your girl and friends drinking whatever sucks.My wife asks me to hang with her and her friends all the time and I would never.Bunch of broads yapping about shit I couldn’t care less about.No thank you they all know I can’t stand them anyways.
Yeah true, but at least you got asked...never seen this before.
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This wreaks of beta behavior.
great help ::)
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Those are some sorry excuses. Obvious double life situation.
Whatever you do you should let her know that it's bothering you. Keep excluding her from your shit and start looking for a backup girl.
You gotta make sure that you are the man in the relationship. Don't let her be the man because she'll try to take that role and then resent you for it. Confidence pimp, confidence.
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ur whore is on the prowl
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Sounds like she is embarrassed to say to her girlfriends, "This is my boyfriend." Another scenario is that she is deceptive about what's going on when she is out with her girlfriends. They might go out on the prowl for guys. When she finds the right guy she will let you go. The last possibility is she has another guy and keeping all her options open.
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Those are some sorry excuses. Obvious double life situation.
Whatever you do you should let her know that it's bothering you. Keep excluding her from your shit and start looking for a backup girl.
You gotta make sure that you are the man in the relationship. Don't let her be the man because she's try to take that roll and then resent you for it. Confidence pimp, confidence.
yes agree. shame cause this is the longest relationship other than when I was married. I really do not like excluding her but she make me feel like shit..but always has an excuse..
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Sounds like she is embarrassed to say to her girlfriends, "This is my boyfriend." Another scenario is that she is deceptive about what's going on when she is out with her girlfriends. They might go out on the prowl for guys. When she finds the right guy she will let you go. The last possibility is she has another guy and keeping all her options open.
I know what groups of women get up to LOL, all kinds of guys coming up to them, these days NO Loyalty, nothing surprises me.
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Been seeing my girl for over 1.5 years now, not once have I been invited out with her and her friends. They are all women, but some of the girls bring their guys with them. I include her with all my friends, she has met 90% of them. We have talked about it and she says I would not enjoy the get-togethers or it was not her place to invite me. I have now in retaliation not invited her a few times and she was upset.
Wired situation as I have met her daughter numerous times. I think she is living a double life ?
Are you both same race ?
WoSHHHHHH Be ye ke
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Those are some sorry excuses. Obvious double life situation.
Whatever you do you should not let her know that it's bothering you. Keep excluding her from your shit and start looking for a backup girl.
You gotta make sure that you are the man in the relationship. Don't let her be the man because she's try to take that roll and then resent you for it. Confidence pimp, confidence.
Edited to correct error. My bad.
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Clearly you're an embarrassment.
Sucks, but look at you. It's tue. Accept it.
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Fuck other bitches, it's simple.
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Oldtimer hit the nail on the head.
Hire a private detective to find out the truth.
Jim Rockford charges $200/day + expenses.
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Here are a couple of relationship facts. You can't make a girl love or like you. If she doesn't then it's time to say next. Never give a woman you're dating the power to make you feel bad about yourself. Your worth isn't based on her perception. Know what your own worth is. If you give a girl you're dating that power she will be able to crush you. The cliche' time heals all wounds applies here. I don't know your relationship or situation. I do know a woman you want to have a relationship with and maybe leading to marriage shouldn't be a puzzle to figure out. If you are dating just to have fun then nothing I wrote matters.
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Here are a couple of relationship facts. You can't make a girl love or like you. If she doesn't then it's time to say next. Never give a woman you're dating the power to make you feel bad about yourself. Your worth isn't based on her perception. Know what your own worth is. If you give a girl you're dating that power she will be able to crush you. The cliche' time heals all wounds applies here. I don't know your relationship or situation. I do know a woman you want to have a relationship with and maybe leading to marriage shouldn't be a puzzle to figure out. If you are dating just to have fun then nothing I wrote matters.
Sometimes (rarely) is the other way around, she's embarrassed to show you her friends ... drunk slutty low class etc ... she could be seeing someone yes, but if that was the case she'd probably shown you her friends once or twice to fool you and avoid curiosity from you ..... Having bad relationship with parents can be a reason too .... but you'd probably knew by now I mean is over a year now .
WoooSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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Do you think she has a post somewhere asking if she should be dating hot dudes with dead end jobs?
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Seriously though, 18 months in you should be able to communicate your feelings with her, if you cant the relationship probably isnt as good as you think it is. :/
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Contact her friends and let them know you would like to meet them. Have sex with them, then point your fork at your gf across the dinner table and tell her it's all her fault.
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This wreaks of beta behavior.
Go4it doesn’t seem to have these problems
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Clearly you're an embarrassment.
Sucks, but look at you. It's tue. Accept it.
Damn! lol
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Those are some sorry excuses. Obvious double life situation.
Whatever you do you should let her know that it's bothering you. Keep excluding her from your shit and start looking for a backup girl.
You gotta make sure that you are the man in the relationship. Don't let her be the man because she's try to take that roll and then resent you for it. Confidence pimp, confidence.
That was good advice. Look for a side Girl or another girlfriend..
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She's ashamed of you. No being harsh, just honest. Or rather, she is ashamed of herself for being with you.
Does she nag you about little things? The way you dress, the way you comb your hair, etc... ??
Here is what you should do.... since she isn't inviting you out to what she does with her friends, (claiming it isn't her place to invite you is bullshit, you are a couple not some "plus 1"), YOU have a get together and instruct her to invite HER friends. Tell her since she claims it isn't her place to invite you, you are making it your place to extend the invitation to her friends this time and there shouldn't be a problem.
Her reaction and response will tell you everything you need to know about this girl.
I'd just go ahead and dump her. Unless you like playing the role of Invisible Man in the relationship. There when she wants you to be or when she needs something, but invisible the rest of the time.
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So it's a 1 1/2 year relationship.
She has met your friends. You include her. She gets upset if you don't include her.
You have not met her friends. She doesn't include you. You get upset but won't tell her.
Pretty clear that she wants it all to suit her and given she hasn't shown you off to her friends means she doesn't see the relationship as serious. If it was the other way around, as guys we would know you didn't take her seriously so honestly it's not hard to figure this one out.
This isn't a long term relationship in her eyes. After 1 1/2 years you won't convince her it is either. Recognise this now and save yourself heartache. She is a temporary girl, if you want a serious girl you need to look elsewhere.
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congras bro!
you been cuckolded
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It’s very rare she does but Whenever the woman asks me to do anything with her friends or family the answer is always fuck no, I refuse to even visit her family with her at Christmas.
Some of my mates do things together with their lasses in tow but I never take mine, I’m not cheating or up to anything I just prefer not to take her maybe your lass is the same?
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Consult a sex therapist?
(https://www.wibc.com/sites/g/files/exi441/f/styles/large_730/public/article-images-featured/gettyimages-615351442.jpg?itok=4JFsSa8f)
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It’s very rare she does but Whenever the woman asks me to do anything with her friends or family the answer is always fuck no, I refuse to even visit her family with her at Christmas.
Some of my mates do things together with their lasses in tow but I never take mine, I’m not cheating or up to anything I just prefer not to take her maybe your lass is the same?
A man has his own will and does what he wants to. Women respect him for that even if they don‘t always agree with him.
The OP‘s situation is a mayor red flag btw.
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Some pretty good responses from you blokes..
Im not gonna drop her - good sex is still good sex..
Gonna look for a new girl on the side, and exclude her from my shit.
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Some pretty good responses from you blokes..
Im not gonna drop her - good sex is still good sex..
Gonna look for a new girl on the side, and exclude her from my shit.
Good luck brother.
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Been seeing my girl for over 1.5 years now, not once have I been invited out with her and her friends. They are all women, but some of the girls bring their guys with them. I include her with all my friends, she has met 90% of them. We have talked about it and she says I would not enjoy the get-togethers or it was not her place to invite me. I have now in retaliation not invited her a few times and she was upset.
Wired situation as I have met her daughter numerous times. I think she is living a double life ?
She might not be particularly proud of her own behavior when she's around her friends and doesn't want you to witness it :-\ Or maybe she's afraid her friends might inadvertently reveal something about her or her past that she doesn't want you to know. ???
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She might not be particularly proud of her own behavior when she's around her friends and doesn't want you to witness it :-\ Or maybe she's afraid her friends might inadvertently reveal something about her or her past that she doesn't want you to know. ???
some of her friends are on the loser side just from hearing about them, I am sure there are dark secrets as I know a few of some very disturbing ones, most likely some really bad ones I do not know, which is scary.
Other than this "issue" we get along great..LOL...
I am over 50 now so what is out there is not very promising :(
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:'(
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just throw in some most musculars when you're out together ,
you know show her what's up and who's in charge here
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:'(
I seriously picture you as obese and disabled you boring lame fuk..
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Contact her friends and let them know you would like to meet them. Have sex with them, then point your fork at your gf across the dinner table and tell her it's all her fault.
How's that working out for you? Did you get stabbed in the neck with a fork?
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Been seeing my girl for over 1.5 years now, not once have I been invited out with her and her friends. They are all women, but some of the girls bring their guys with them. I include her with all my friends, she has met 90% of them. We have talked about it and she says I would not enjoy the get-togethers or it was not her place to invite me. I have now in retaliation not invited her a few times and she was upset.
Wired situation as I have met her daughter numerous times. I think she is living a double life ?
How old are you ?
Are You A Man ?
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How old are you ?
Are You A Man ?
we must remain perfect strangers....
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Go4it doesn’t seem to have these problems
with females...
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Consider yourself lucky,hanging with your girl and friends drinking whatever sucks.My wife asks me to hang with her and her friends all the time and I would never.Bunch of broads yapping about shit I couldn’t care less about.No thank you they all know I can’t stand them anyways.
Exactly. My wife always asks, "Would you like to go?" My response is usually, "I'd rather drag my balls through broken glass. Have a fun time!" :D
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In the famous words of Tom Leykis, it’s time to “dump that bitch”! YOU deserve better. Don’t be an idiot who throws away years of your life with some stupid broad. Go look in the mirror and be disgusted at yourself today, that you even posted this on getbig.
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we must remain perfect strangers....
In the famous words of Tom Leykis, it’s time to “dump that bitch”! YOU deserve better. Don’t be an idiot who throws away years of your life with some stupid broad. Go look in the mirror and be disgusted at yourself today, that you even posted this on getbig.
Take Heed
Man up & get rid
Plenty more out there
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So it's a 1 1/2 year relationship.
She has met your friends. You include her. She gets upset if you don't include her.
You have not met her friends. She doesn't include you. You get upset but won't tell her.
Pretty clear that she wants it all to suit her and given she hasn't shown you off to her friends means she doesn't see the relationship as serious. If it was the other way around, as guys we would know you didn't take her seriously so honestly it's not hard to figure this one out.
This isn't a long term relationship in her eyes. After 1 1/2 years you won't convince her it is either. Recognise this now and save yourself heartache. She is a temporary girl, if you want a serious girl you need to look elsewhere.
I had this happen to me. The woman was obsessed with me, and I think that was her fear. She didn't want those feelings to increase, so she didn't introduce me to many friends.
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I had this happen to me. The woman was obsessed with me, and I think that was her fear. She didn't want those feelings to increase, so she didn't introduce me to many friends.
Sure thing, champ.
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Some pretty good responses from you blokes..
Im not gonna drop her - good sex is still good sex..
Gonna look for a new girl on the side, and exclude her from my shit.
Best of luck Broham.
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I had this happen to me. The woman was obsessed with me, and I think that was her fear. She didn't want those feelings to increase, so she didn't introduce me to many friends.
PRETTY
SMART
SANE...
you get two out of three. choose wisely
Jus' Sayin'
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She's cheating on you. Obviously.
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we need pics of the OP and the lady -
or least blur your face out then
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She's cheating on you. Obviously.
To everyone but him.
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How old are you ?
Are You A Man ?
:)
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Just because we don't see eye to eye on just about everything doesn't mean I enjoy seeing you be treated like dirt. She's obviously ashamed of either you or her friends. It's possible she is cheating but maybe not. I know it's out of the question to actually sit down with her and ask her why she never includes you, that would be crazy so if the sex is good, just ride it out until she either falls for the other dude and sees it as a real relationship and can break it off with you, or you find a woman who thinks enough of you to include you once in awhile in her circle of friends.
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Sorry to hear you're going through this.
I hope your boyfriend gets his act together.
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Just the cold hard truth here:
Women ALWAYS want to show off their boyfriends. So she clearly doesn’t consider you her boyfriend. You are the side guy. She actually has a REAL boyfriend/husband she refers to as her “girlfriends”. Hope this helps.
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There is an awful lot of wisdom circulating in this thread. Dr. Phil who?
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Looks like something's fishy going on mate, but no worries - at least
You won't recover ;D
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Just the cold hard truth here:
Women ALWAYS want to show off their boyfriends. So she clearly doesn’t consider you her boyfriend. You are the side guy. She actually has a REAL boyfriend/husband she refers to as her “girlfriends”. Hope this helps.
This makes sense.
As long as you are satisfied though, don't worry about it. You're not thinking of marrying her are you?
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This makes sense.
As long as you are satisfied though, don't worry about it. You're not thinking of marrying her are you?
No more marriages for me and I would never live with a women again, I get regular sex from her, the rest I no longer even care about.
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The only advice the ol' Italian guy can give (if you may care) is to speak openly with her.
Don't start underground wars, they're pointless.
Say what you want clearly and proceed from her answer
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just throw in some most musculars when you're out together ,
you know show her what's up and who's in charge here
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do you want to marry her? if not sounds like a good deal to me, you regularly get good sex and you don't have to hang out with her annoying friends
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Oldtimer hit the nail on the head.
Hire a private detective to find out the truth.
Jim Rockford charges $200/day + expenses.
Greatest theme song ever next to Magnum PI.
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Greatest theme song ever next to Magnum PI.
Nothing beats Ultra Magnum PI though!
Was very impressed by the Ferrari and the Chopper back in the 1980!
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Been seeing my girl for over 1.5 years now, not once have I been invited out with her and her friends. They are all women, but some of the girls bring their guys with them. I include her with all my friends, she has met 90% of them. We have talked about it and she says I would not enjoy the get-togethers or it was not her place to invite me. I have now in retaliation not invited her a few times and she was upset.
Wired situation as I have met her daughter numerous times. I think she is living a double life ?
You're the guy that likes getting cucked right? She clearly has no respect for you. She clearly is embarrassed by you. Sees you as a social embarrassment. Doesn't want her peers to find out about you.
She probably takes the guy that fucks her in front of you along to these events.
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You're the guy that likes getting cucked right?
She clearly has no respect for you. She clearly is embarrassed by you. Sees you as a social embarrassment. Doesn't want her peers to find out about you.
She probably takes the guy that fucks her in front of you along to these events.
“you're the guy that likes getting cucked right ? “
:o - I believe you’re correct
So what’s he complaining about ::)
She’s just Cucking Him Some More & Treating Him
With Contempt & No Respect!!
Isn’t That what Cucks Want. ::)
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Consider yourself lucky,hanging with your girl and friends drinking whatever sucks.My wife asks me to hang with her and her friends all the time and I would never.Bunch of broads yapping about shit I couldn’t care less about.No thank you they all know I can’t stand them anyways.
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