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Title: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Wiggs on October 03, 2019, 03:29:18 PM
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Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Taffin on October 03, 2019, 03:45:42 PM
It's a cliche, but I suppose it may have saved my life - had to drop a lot of bad habits, work on a real career, spend (semi) responsibly... the usual stuff that bores the pants off the wild ones on this board  ;D

One unforeseen consequence was that because everyone looks to you in an emergency you have to act calm even if you're not.  Being in this position repeatedly for quarter of a century may have helped lead to a more mellow me - although of course that may well just be old age the onset of working age dementia and nothing to do with kids - no blind test trials available...

Also, with my offspring being adults I think I understand a little more now why most Grandparents are so laid back - they've been through it all already so are cool with it... (plus they get to hand the brats back at the end of the day LOL)
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Post by: joswift on October 03, 2019, 03:56:30 PM
didnt at all
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Marvin Martian on October 03, 2019, 04:05:43 PM
It made me a dad  ;D
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 03, 2019, 04:14:07 PM
Wigs you have to find a woman willing to fuck you before you can have kids.

Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Hypertrophy on October 03, 2019, 04:14:32 PM
The world stops revolving around you and starts revolving around your children. And that’s a great feeling.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: AbrahamG on October 03, 2019, 04:35:04 PM
Wigs you have to find a woman willing to fuck you before you can have kids.



I'm sure LV has no shortage of fat, white bitches.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Tapeworm on October 03, 2019, 04:45:26 PM
I had to change my name, phone number, and place of residence.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Skeletor on October 03, 2019, 04:47:00 PM
I had to change my name, phone number, and place of residence.

Hahaha!
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: polychronopolous on October 03, 2019, 04:49:33 PM
I had to change my name, phone number, and place of residence.

If there's a knock on the door with some kid saying "My daddy's in there" it might be true.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: wes on October 03, 2019, 05:09:27 PM
Forgot more pussy than most men dream about but never had any kids.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Randomum on October 03, 2019, 05:22:08 PM
its expensive bro, and time consuming but rewarding.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: SOMEPARTS on October 03, 2019, 05:23:17 PM
Congrats Wigginstein.  :o
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Post by: Primemuscle on October 03, 2019, 05:24:02 PM
Looking back, I believe I was more irresponsible prior to the birth of our oldest child. As the years went by and our second child was born, I'd become almost mainstream.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Marty Champions on October 03, 2019, 05:30:19 PM
I nutted in plenty of hoes
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: SF1900 on October 03, 2019, 05:35:18 PM
Glad I don’t have kids and don’t want them.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Coach is Back! on October 03, 2019, 06:05:38 PM
The world stops revolving around you and starts revolving around your children. And that’s a great feeling.

Agree 1000%. I love being a parent
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on October 03, 2019, 07:28:02 PM
It turned me into a dedicated Uber driver for my kids. Drive to school. Drive to practice. Drive drive drive drive.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Marvin Martian on October 03, 2019, 08:01:34 PM
Agree 1000%. I love being a parent

I think it’s the best contribution I have made. No amount of business success can feel as good as having raised good, happy, successful children. Obviously it’s not for everyone - SF doesn’t want them and that’s fine. It’s much better to be like him than being a total deadbeat like Eric having kids and being an absent bum.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Schmoff on October 03, 2019, 10:32:53 PM
Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.


Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Henda on October 03, 2019, 11:33:29 PM
It actually gave my life a purpose, I never wanted kids and only really cared about getting pissed every weekend with my mates, knocked up the wench and even after my son was born the whole thing took a lot of getting used to, there was no instant bond there was nothing magical about seeing him born like some people say, truth is for a bit I saw this annoying little noisy fucker who stopped me having fun in life and I dreamed of being free but stuck it out as it’s the right thing to do.

This lasted maybe a few months before something clicked and developed an immensely powerful love for the little creature especially as he grew to a toddler, when my daughter came along the love was instant and adored her, now they are 12 and 10 and I’ve realised how empty my life was beforehand, I think about them and miss them at work, seeing them happy has become the greatest pleasure in my life, family days out with them seem magical in my memories. I could never ever love anything even 1/100th of what I feel for them, I find it almost impossible to spend money on myself beyond what is a necessity as I’d feel terribly guilty that I could have spent that money on them, and now my goal in life is to set them up well in life by leaving them a decent inheritance. Hated the idea of kids but now would never be without them
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Flexacon on October 04, 2019, 12:23:20 AM
Your brain changes when you have a kid. You basically cucking yourself (making yourself the least important family member) and enjoying it.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: The Italian Lifter on October 04, 2019, 12:54:48 AM
It actually gave my life a purpose, I never wanted kids and only really cared about getting pissed every weekend with my mates, knocked up the wench and even after my son was born the whole thing took a lot of getting used to, there was no instant bond there was nothing magical about seeing him born like some people say, truth is for a bit I saw this annoying little noisy fucker who stopped me having fun in life and I dreamed of being free but stuck it out as it’s the right thing to do.

This lasted maybe a few months before something clicked and developed an immensely powerful love for the little creature especially as he grew to a toddler, when my daughter came along the love was instant and adored her, now they are 12 and 10 and I’ve realised how empty my life was beforehand, I think about them and miss them at work, seeing them happy has become the greatest pleasure in my life, family days out with them seem magical in my memories. I could never ever love anything even 1/100th of what I feel for them, I find it almost impossible to spend money on myself beyond what is a necessity as I’d feel terribly guilty that I could have spent that money on them, and now my goal in life is to set them up well in life by leaving them a decent inheritance. Hated the idea of kids but now would never be without them
Never thought I could read something like this on getbig. Beautiful. You really summarize the meaning of being a father.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Flexacon on October 04, 2019, 01:24:56 AM
Never thought I could read something like this on getbig. Beautiful. You really summarize the meaning of being a cuck.

Fixed

Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Powerlift66 on October 04, 2019, 02:52:53 AM
It hasn't. Same person, same life, with or without kids.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on October 04, 2019, 03:32:36 AM
It made me more self centered spending all my time building businesses, working out, chasing women and NOT going to a job.  That's what NOT having any kids did for me.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: SF1900 on October 05, 2019, 06:26:35 AM
I think it’s the best contribution I have made. No amount of business success can feel as good as having raised good, happy, successful children. Obviously it’s not for everyone - SF doesn’t want them and that’s fine. It’s much better to be like him than being a total deadbeat like Eric having kids and being an absent bum.

ERIC = FATHER OF THE YEAR.
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ERIC = FATHER OF THE YEAR.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: SF1900 on October 05, 2019, 06:40:40 AM
It actually gave my life a purpose, I never wanted kids and only really cared about getting pissed every weekend with my mates, knocked up the wench and even after my son was born the whole thing took a lot of getting used to, there was no instant bond there was nothing magical about seeing him born like some people say, truth is for a bit I saw this annoying little noisy fucker who stopped me having fun in life and I dreamed of being free but stuck it out as it’s the right thing to do.

This lasted maybe a few months before something clicked and developed an immensely powerful love for the little creature especially as he grew to a toddler, when my daughter came along the love was instant and adored her, now they are 12 and 10 and I’ve realised how empty my life was beforehand, I think about them and miss them at work, seeing them happy has become the greatest pleasure in my life, family days out with them seem magical in my memories. I could never ever love anything even 1/100th of what I feel for them, I find it almost impossible to spend money on myself beyond what is a necessity as I’d feel terribly guilty that I could have spent that money on them, and now my goal in life is to set them up well in life by leaving them a decent inheritance. Hated the idea of kids but now would never be without them

Lol at the “little creature!”  ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: JAGO on October 05, 2019, 06:44:09 AM
Meant Vince Basil no longer had to drive to the playground to find children to stare at while wacking off.

J
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Post by: Dokey111 on October 05, 2019, 07:30:43 AM
no kids.  was thinking about it this morning, how different I would have been. probably happier but oh well, party on ..
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Post by: Dave D on October 05, 2019, 08:00:14 AM
It actually gave my life a purpose, I never wanted kids and only really cared about getting pissed every weekend with my mates, knocked up the wench and even after my son was born the whole thing took a lot of getting used to, there was no instant bond there was nothing magical about seeing him born like some people say, truth is for a bit I saw this annoying little noisy fucker who stopped me having fun in life and I dreamed of being free but stuck it out as it’s the right thing to do.

This lasted maybe a few months before something clicked and developed an immensely powerful love for the little creature especially as he grew to a toddler, when my daughter came along the love was instant and adored her, now they are 12 and 10 and I’ve realised how empty my life was beforehand, I think about them and miss them at work, seeing them happy has become the greatest pleasure in my life, family days out with them seem magical in my memories. I could never ever love anything even 1/100th of what I feel for them, I find it almost impossible to spend money on myself beyond what is a necessity as I’d feel terribly guilty that I could have spent that money on them, and now my goal in life is to set them up well in life by leaving them a decent inheritance. Hated the idea of kids but now would never be without them

Awesome  post Henda!
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Dave D on October 05, 2019, 08:01:17 AM
I had to change my name, phone number, and place of residence.

It hasn't. Same person, same life, with or without kids.

LOL
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: sarcafago on October 05, 2019, 08:31:00 AM
I think it’s the best contribution I have made. No amount of business success can feel as good as having raised good, happy, successful children. Obviously it’s not for everyone - SF doesn’t want them and that’s fine. It’s much better to be like him than being a total deadbeat like Eric having kids and being an absent bum.

I agree with the last part a ton, but I don't have kids.  Honestly, I love old people, but the fact that when I walk my dog around the senior living complex across the parking lot and they spend an hour talking, and then thank me endlessly for stopping by; while at the same time I see all the happiness leave their body as me and my dog walk away...just tells me that life past 75 is pretty mutha fuckin pointless.  

When I can't control my bowels, move freely, drive, care for myself, or hit 75.....some combination or whichever comes first.....I'm outta this bitch. 8)
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: gmflex on October 05, 2019, 08:59:29 AM
 ;D  ;D

My son was born when I was 38 years old..
Really enjoyed the single life before that..
even though I got divorced at the beginning of this year.. My son is the best thing to ever happened to me..
If I had to do it all over again.. I would ..
It's been a blessing for me .. He just about to turn 8 .. Looking forward to seeing him grow up..

 ;D  ;D
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: chaos on October 05, 2019, 09:03:51 AM
Did Wiggs breed ???
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on October 05, 2019, 09:07:08 AM

Do any of you stop to think....

That you've done a bad thing bringing a kid into this world?


It's limited to being a globalist slave,an unhappy person.



For males,it will be even worse.

Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Dokey111 on October 05, 2019, 09:15:44 AM
Do any of you stop to think....

That you've done a bad thing bringing a kid into this world?


It's limited to being a globalist slave,an unhappy person.



For males,it will be even worse.





yeah you hate to sound like a pussy not having kids, but 1) there's enough people in the world and 2) fuck it anyway how is life going to be better going forward than it was in the past.  "the signs are not promising"
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Dave D on October 05, 2019, 10:04:53 AM
yeah you hate to sound like a pussy not having kids, but 1) there's enough people in the world and 2) fuck it anyway how is life going to be better going forward than it was in the past.  "the signs are not promising"

So what are you doing to make the world a better place?

Also how have you managed to survive through such a difficult life?
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: che on October 05, 2019, 11:20:27 AM
So what are you doing to make the world a better place?

Also how have you managed to survive through such a difficult life?
;D
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: oldtimer1 on October 05, 2019, 12:47:37 PM
Put my four kids in private school. Cost a fortune while I drove a crap car. Could have driven a nice Mercedes for the monthly price of the school. I don't regret any of it. They were great kids and  great adults. A Doctor, Intensive care nurse, Airborne soldier, and one that does something with computers no one can figure out how he makes money. With my grand daughter right now.  
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Post by: Primemuscle on October 05, 2019, 12:48:40 PM
If you don't want to be a parent don't have children. Children need parents who wanted them.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on October 05, 2019, 01:02:06 PM
If you don't want to be a parent don't have children. Children need parents who wanted them.
Agreed.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 05, 2019, 01:42:23 PM
If you don't want to be a parent don't have children. Children need parents who wanted them.

Sage wisdom here folks.

Only plan to have kids if you want to have kids.

Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Wiggs on October 05, 2019, 02:39:40 PM
Gentlemen, thanks for your responses. I appreciate it. Honda and Martian special thanks great words.

No, I have no procreated yet.
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 07, 2019, 05:32:28 PM
Gentlemen, thanks for your responses. I appreciate it. Honda and Martian special thanks great words.

No, I have no procreated yet.

What gives you the idea that you should?
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: chaos on October 07, 2019, 09:21:02 PM
What gives you the idea that you should?
;D
Title: Re: I'm curious, how did parenthood change you?
Post by: Wiggs on October 08, 2019, 01:43:01 AM
What gives you the idea that you should?

Lololol