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Why are incels becoming more and more common? You never saw many 10-20 years ago.
Answer by: Seb Moloch
Young men have no access to sex anymore
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why?
Here is the key:
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Sexual liberation and dating apps created a perfect storm. Women are flocking to the top 5% of men. These men get up to 90% of the available sex.
So it's not that there is less sex, there are fewer men getting most of it. We are back to polygamy and it's very dangerous.
This is the natural order of things. Studies show that in the past:
8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man (https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success)
We are back to those days. It's sexual Darwinism.
Back then it was fine, smaller communities were easier to control. Today however we live in a massive interconnected society. What worked then doesn't work now. Young men, filled with testosterone, that do not have access to sex are a vector of social unrest.
Why polygamy breeds civil war (https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war)
Socially enforced monogamy was not implemented out of the magnanimous hearts of the leaders of the time. They understood that without it they could not have peace. It gave young men something to lose, something to protect, something to work for and towards.
Unfortunately for us there is no way back. The cat is out of the bag, Pandoras box is already open. All we can do now is watch as marriage rates plummet, birth rates go down, the economy suffers and sooner or later western society dissolves or it is replaced by patriarchal Eastern ones. Or maybe we will find a solution. Who knows? We won't be here to see it.
Source: https://qr.ae/pTEir6
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A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.
He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.
Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.
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This has all been accepted for a few years now.like you said since the smartphone women can choose from hundreds of thirsty men, so essentially all single women are sharing the top 20% of men in the 18-30 range or so.If hundreds of women were messaging you, would you choose the top 20% in looks or the bottom 80%?They never had that choice before 2010, tinder,Instagram etc changed the game.
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I believe many incels want to be celibates.
I Have returned to college, and the only guys hitting on 20yo chicks are 40yo fuckers like me; the men their age are too busy playing video games on the cell phone. Girls are constantly trying to grab their attention, but those incels just won't comply.
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i'm just happy we can all hang around here together
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It's definitely a different time/era.
Back in my day (80s and 90s) as a young virile man we went to clubs, bars, private parties, nightclubs, festivals, even raves lol, cruises (a popular one is from Stockholm to either Åbo or Helsinki) every weekend to score chicks. Friend of mine even took pictures (polaroids) of EACH and EVERY chick he was with and it became quite the collections of photoalbums.
Still, babes was a big part of our interests when growing up back in the day. 16-19 it was the only interests or things we did, Study/College, Train, Pick up chicks/Chasing after dames.
Nowadays i think the younger generation of men do other things, maybe spend their weekends typing on forums or playing games or whatnot.
Today though in my older years, i'm just happy we can hang around together here on Getbig
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Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem.
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A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.
He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.
Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.
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Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem.
Exactly.
As Andrew Dice Clay said years ago: "A chick stays home on a Saturday night, it's the end of the world and she wants to slit her wrists. A guy is home on a Saturday night, jerks off all over himself, it's a great night."
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Lack of male hormones, physical activity, sunlight, etc. When a male doesn’t grow up staying active whether it’s sports, exercise, farm work, or about to be shipped off to war, he’s going to have a much higher testosterone level compared to the modern day overweight, estrogen-soaked slug soaking up blue light.
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Many younger men now live more solitary lives, playing video games in their rooms instead of going out.
Add that to a feeling of nihilism and easy access to all kinds of pornography and you've got a problem.
The only reason men spent 5-10 dollars/pounds on expensive drinks in bars/clubs/pubs was to have a chance to get a woman.Now that the women don't need bars/clubs/pubs, why bother?Either you are getting ass online, or you are the ultra Chad that can still turns woman's head in a club over the 200 men on her phone (top 5%).
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This has all been accepted for a few years now.like you said since the smartphone women can choose from hundreds of thirsty men, so essentially all single women are sharing the top 20% of men in the 18-30 range or so.If hundreds of women were messaging you, would you choose the top 20% in looks or the bottom 80%?They never had that choice before 2010, tinder,Instagram etc changed the game.
Spot on!
I have a good friend who I occasionally hook up with cause she brings me food and booze. She is a 6/10 on a good day mind you. One day she shows me her FB messenger, and it was fucking insane! She gets either waved at or get's the classic "Hey" by over 20 different guys every single fucking day! Mind you, I'm much better looking than she is, and I get no where near the attention from girls that she does from guys.
Facebook and dating apps have convinced every 5/10 that she should be dating a prime Brad Pitt look a like.
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I think a good % of those Incels are actually Volcels.
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Yes it is true. To get laid today a man must be Men's Health Magazine cover ready at all times. Lean face, six pack, pecs and biceps are the price of admission. From there facial aesthetics, boatloads of cash and a truly Alpha attitude are the new standards. I've got it. Wahlberg's got it. Most ain't got it.
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It's definitely a different time/era.
Back in my day (80s and 90s) as a young virile man we went to clubs, bars, private parties, nightclubs, festivals, even raves lol, cruises (a popular one is from Stockholm to either Åbo or Helsinki) every weekend to score chicks. Friend of mine even took pictures (polaroids) of EACH and EVERY chick he was with and it became quite the collections of photoalbums.
Still, babes was a big part of our interests when growing up back in the day. 16-19 it was the only interests or things we did, Study/College, Train, Pick up chicks/Chasing after dames.
Nowadays i think the younger generation of men do other things, maybe spend their weekends typing on forums or playing games or whatnot.
Today though in my older years, i'm just happy we can hang around together here on Getbig
I am so glad I grew up during that time period. It was very fun and if you had any game at all you could get laid by multiple women in college or work. If I grew up today with all the social conditioning I fear I might be some soy boy beta cuck voting democrat and marching in the women's march to show solidarity with my sisters. ::)
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I believe many incels want to be celibates.
I Have returned to college, and the only guys hitting on 20yo chicks are 40yo fuckers like me; the men their age are too busy playing video games on the cell phone. Girls are constantly trying to grab their attention, but those incels just won't comply.
What are you studying in college falco?
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want to pick up, gotta put in hard work...harder for some men, easier for a minority. Everybody excepts pussy on a silver platter now.
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Read the book Sexual Utopia in Power by Roger Devlin and you’ll have your answers. Also listen to all his podcasts on YT and Bitchute. That book should be required men’s reading.
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Further explanation here:
https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html
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Very happy I don't even know what incel means.
Or MGTOW or any other shit like that.
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Hypergamy
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https://imgur.com/r/Braincels/4Et8uAe
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A good friend of mine has slept with probably 100+ women. Good looking fella, but broke.
He once opened up his FB messenger in front of me and there were tons of women hitting on him. One of them was the wife of another friend of mine.
Number of active sexual partners (for men) probably follows a Pareto distribution, where a very, very small percentage are in the dozens, most are close to 1, and a not so small percentage is at 0.
top 10% of men fuck 90% of the women...
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Not a single man should ever give a woman free attention unless he‘s getting something in return. The problem is that guys that aren‘t getting laid still pursue and follow women on social media etc. These guys represent the 95% of the guys on SM. Pathetic. Never give a woman free attention unless you intend to approach her. Females are nothing without male attention and they know that deep down.
The SM era, especially Instagram has set new rules regarding dating and there‘s no turning back. It‘s only gonna get worse. Things are going to „normalize“ in the future sooner or later as everything balances out eventually bur we‘ll be too old or dead already.
That‘s why I‘ve decided not to play the LTR game and do what I want. Not going MGTOW but not getting myself in anything serious either. In the meanwhile I‘ll just watch the society as we know it collapse ...
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Not a single man should ever give a woman free attention unless he‘s getting something in return. The problem is that guys that aren‘t getting laid still pursue and follow women on social media etc. These guys represent the 95% of the guys on SM. Pathetic. Never give a woman free attention unless you intend to approach her. Females are nothing without male attention and they know that deep down.
The SM era, especially Instagram has set new rules regarding dating and there‘s no turning back. It‘s only gonna get worse. Things are going to „normalize“ in the future sooner or later as everything balances out eventually bur we‘ll be too old or dead already.
That‘s why I‘ve decided not to play the LTR game and do what I want. Not going MGTOW but not getting myself in anything serious either. In the meanwhile I‘ll just watch the society as we know it collapse ...
When was the last time you got laid ,Kreator ?
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I am a king on Tinder because of my physique and facial aesthetics. Then when we meet my PUA game is flawless.
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you have gay time on tindre because you only wnant men and men all day! no liftnign weigts or nothing good just men posting all men today and ohter days all men!
I am a king on Tinder because of my physique and facial aesthetics. Then when we meet my PUA game is flawless.
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i don't know i still feel like i regularly see good looking girls with physically flawed guys, maybe some of the guys look decent but they ain't no chad or slayer or whatever the meme says
short guys, fat guys, bald guys etc it is not unusual to see guys with girls that make you think he's batting out of his league
i find it really hard to believe these guys won her over on an app where looks are everything, maybe they have money i don't know but if looks matter so much for a man it's clear to me you don't have to look like you are top 5%
i think most of these girls are on dating apps like tinder for a reason, they are undateable themselves for numerous reasons like being a single mom or gross looking, or they can't find a guy in real life because no guy is good enough for them based on them saying in their profile "must be at least 6'2, handsome and rich"
the good looking stable girl that doesn't expect a guy to be perfect is not on tinder
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Men aren't men anymore. Once women are around 25- 30 they are looking for a husband, provider and a father to their children. Now we have 30 year old men living at home. They can't even provide for themselves never mind a family. You have men looking for a woman to take care of them as in dual incomes. Women have babies and that's the problem with that plan. In my retirement job the office is filled with beautiful young women. They can't find a man. They date using dating sites like tinder but nothing works out. They wear a hot dress and heels for a date and a guy shows up with his hairy feet in shower shoes/flip flops. It's really time for men to man up.
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Men aren't men anymore. Once women are around 25- 30 they are looking for a husband, provider and a father to their children. Now we have 30 year old men living at home. They can't even provide for themselves never mind a family. You have men looking for a woman to take care of them as in dual incomes. Women have babies and that's the problem with that plan. In my retirement job the office is filled with beautiful young women. They can't find a man. They date using dating sites like tinder but nothing works out. They wear a hot dress and heels for a date and a guy shows up with his hairy feet in shower shoes/flip flops. It's really time for men to man up.
if a beautiful young woman can't find a man, she's the problem
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want to pick up, gotta put in hard work...harder for some men, easier for a minority. Everybody excepts pussy on a silver platter now.
True. Most don't want to put in the time, energy, and money necessary to get a woman.
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Why are incels becoming more and more common? You never saw many 10-20 years ago.
Answer by: Seb Moloch
Young men have no access to sex anymore
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-e2ede58888a1a7b0745a134a0276e2b7)
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-d1bbf52572a65f9dd42efed19c251575)
why?
Here is the key:
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-b2032422573994c0684844895eff615a)
Sexual liberation and dating apps created a perfect storm. Women are flocking to the top 5% of men. These men get up to 90% of the available sex.
So it's not that there is less sex, there are fewer men getting most of it. We are back to polygamy and it's very dangerous.
This is the natural order of things. Studies show that in the past:
8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man (https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success)
We are back to those days. It's sexual Darwinism.
Back then it was fine, smaller communities were easier to control. Today however we live in a massive interconnected society. What worked then doesn't work now. Young men, filled with testosterone, that do not have access to sex are a vector of social unrest.
Why polygamy breeds civil war (https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war)
Socially enforced monogamy was not implemented out of the magnanimous hearts of the leaders of the time. They understood that without it they could not have peace. It gave young men something to lose, something to protect, something to work for and towards.
Unfortunately for us there is no way back. The cat is out of the bag, Pandoras box is already open. All we can do now is watch as marriage rates plummet, birth rates go down, the economy suffers and sooner or later western society dissolves or it is replaced by patriarchal Eastern ones. Or maybe we will find a solution. Who knows? We won't be here to see it.
Source: https://qr.ae/pTEir6
Because a generation of lazy, irresponsible, no-accountability spineless cuck snowflakes were raised by feminist liberal single mom females during the 8 years the gay Muslim squatted in the White House.
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I agree with the answer.... But another contributor imo, is that western females now are epic pains in the ass.
They expect everything done for them and think it's normal to treat a man like they are a joke, due to social conditioning.
That's why I think other races can present a viable option for a woman as they still know how to treat a man, but then there is the brown baby issue.
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The data isnt a surprise. Just look at the new age 'sexless marriages'.
Tinder is the downfall for females because it becomes a commodity exchange. Females want kids, not males. So they play around a while, turn 50, cant have kids........ we are seeing this already so it only gets worse.
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Not a single man should ever give a woman free attention unless he‘s getting something in return. The problem is that guys that aren‘t getting laid still pursue and follow women on social media etc. These guys represent the 95% of the guys on SM. Pathetic. Never give a woman free attention unless you intend to approach her. Females are nothing without male attention and they know that deep down.
The SM era, especially Instagram has set new rules regarding dating and there‘s no turning back. It‘s only gonna get worse. Things are going to „normalize“ in the future sooner or later as everything balances out eventually bur we‘ll be too old or dead already.
That‘s why I‘ve decided not to play the LTR game and do what I want. Not going MGTOW but not getting myself in anything serious either. In the meanwhile I‘ll just watch the society as we know it collapse ...
by definition that isnt free attention...
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Why are incels becoming more and more common? You never saw many 10-20 years ago.
Answer by: Seb Moloch
Young men have no access to sex anymore
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-e2ede58888a1a7b0745a134a0276e2b7)
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-d1bbf52572a65f9dd42efed19c251575)
why?
Here is the key:
(https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-b2032422573994c0684844895eff615a)
Sexual liberation and dating apps created a perfect storm. Women are flocking to the top 5% of men. These men get up to 90% of the available sex.
So it's not that there is less sex, there are fewer men getting most of it. We are back to polygamy and it's very dangerous.
This is the natural order of things. Studies show that in the past:
8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man (https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success)
We are back to those days. It's sexual Darwinism.
Back then it was fine, smaller communities were easier to control. Today however we live in a massive interconnected society. What worked then doesn't work now. Young men, filled with testosterone, that do not have access to sex are a vector of social unrest.
Why polygamy breeds civil war (https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war)
Socially enforced monogamy was not implemented out of the magnanimous hearts of the leaders of the time. They understood that without it they could not have peace. It gave young men something to lose, something to protect, something to work for and towards.
Unfortunately for us there is no way back. The cat is out of the bag, Pandoras box is already open. All we can do now is watch as marriage rates plummet, birth rates go down, the economy suffers and sooner or later western society dissolves or it is replaced by patriarchal Eastern ones. Or maybe we will find a solution. Who knows? We won't be here to see it.
Source: https://qr.ae/pTEir6
Interesting post and I agree with everything that was said. Females are way too empowered and their ego's have been lifted to unrealistic proportions. They want perfection in a man, yet offer nothing or very little of value. Men who they don't consider to be a 10/10 get no attention from them. Constant flow of messages in their inbox is enough to keep them satisfied and it also keeps them deluded into thinking they are worth more than they really are.
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Men aren't men anymore. Once women are around 25- 30 they are looking for a husband, provider and a father to their children. Now we have 30 year old men living at home. They can't even provide for themselves never mind a family. You have men looking for a woman to take care of them as in dual incomes. Women have babies and that's the problem with that plan. In my retirement job the office is filled with beautiful young women. They can't find a man. They date using dating sites like tinder but nothing works out. They wear a hot dress and heels for a date and a guy shows up with his hairy feet in shower shoes/flip flops. It's really time for men to man up.
Once a woman is 25-30 she has probably been run through by dozens of bad boys and lacks the ability to ever pair bond again. Why should a man want to pay new car prices for a used up beater?
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Once a woman is 25-30 she has probably been run through by dozens of bad boys and lacks the ability to ever pair bond again. Why should a man want to pay new car prices for a used up beater?
This! It‘s either a couple of serious LTRs in a woman’s younger years before starting a family and staying together or nothing at all. The more dick a woman experiences the more she‘s damaged to pair bond and the more she‘s likely to become an alpha widow. Meaning she experienced something really passionate and exciting with some dude and she can not get that out of her head thus can not be content with some average boring beta provider even if she marries him. Even older women start noticing the scale of male attention via internet and opting out of marriage to experience the joy ride. Sadly for them that‘s usually a one way ticket because most females act on impulses not logic.
It‘s pretty much like dieting. You can not eat whatever u want and expect great results. Same with relationships. Of course they will blame men for not wanting to marry them once they hit the wall.
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I am a king on Tinder because of my physique and facial aesthetics. Then when we meet my PUA game is flawless.
says the on line persona ::)
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I am a king on Tinder because of my physique and facial aesthetics. Then when we meet my PUA game is flawless.
Please give us some examples Roast Beef Pecs.
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IDK the older I get the easier it seems to get women. So many men are absolutely worthless - broke, ugly, out of shape, no interesting hobbies, etc - that putting even the tiniest amount of effort into yourself puts you ahead of 90% of men.
Articles like these affirm my suspicion that there's less competition than ever and frankly, I welcome it
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Primepervert reading this with a parsh and trying to google the location of the high school.
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Primepervert reading this with a parsh and trying to google the location of the high school.
LOL!