Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
Break it off.
She wants what you don't. Do the.right thing, don't ruin her life.
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
tell her you lost your job and you're broke
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fuck her sister, or even better her brother...
Don't ever let someone or some family members force you into making a decision this big. Just remember, if you have a good relationship with her now and don't feel like getting married, it's only going to get worse over time. As she gets older and you have kids, she is going to become more and more distant from you.
I was in a similar position but i dated the girl for almost 4 years. Her family was pushing the issue really hard. There was a point i considered getting married to her but i knew it would be great for a couple years and then go downhill once we had children. Her two sisters and mother were complete cu nts, constantly using the children against their fathers. I knew the very first time we got into a big fight, she would do the same. Looking back almost 10 years later i don't have any regrets, but i do think if i ever was going to get married she would have been the best option.
Marriage is bondage, i know very few people who are happily married. They may act like it, but deep down they are just settling for what they have. All my married friends come over to drink beer a few times a month and do nothing but talk about how horrible married life is. Other than my parents, i can't think of anyone who is happily married.
next time you two get together just "forget" your phone unlocked near her with this topic opened while you go take a dump or do something.
the universe and your fate will do the rest.
if she does not look at your phone, perhaps it is the universe showing that you have to think if you really want to lose her. Not many people will trust you in this life so much that won't spy on you given the chance.
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
Just stop bathing and grooming and start pissing the bed nightly, she will sharp fuck off
This is how it’s done
Her life?
Her life?
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
This is how it’s done
Divorced, single people giving advice on relationships. ::) ::) ::)
Divorced, single people giving advice on relationships. ::) ::) ::)
They will marry fat, fugly piles of shit, sleep with Harvey Weinsteins and worse just to have "more".
Been with a girl for 2 years, and her and her family are pressuring me hardcore to get married to her. I don't see that our relationship will be enjoyable in marriage and we don't have enough in common to go the distance. I feel like we will grow apart and we will be miserable. Divorce is not an option. She is head over heels for me and I just have that feeling that I would be making a mistake. Any advice? I am 29
You print out a photo of prime Johnny Falcon. Then sprinkle some body lotion over the image, and place some curled up tissue paper next to it. Then place it so she will find it "by accident". Problem solved! :D
Divorced, single people giving advice on relationships. ::) ::) ::)Didn’t you cheat on your dying wife at a homosexual gloryhole?
Don't harm your entire life just because you don't want to "hurt her feeeeeeeeeeeeewings". She'll get over you.
this is the best point made in the thread
if she's still in her 20's and decent looking she will meet another guy and it will be like you never existed, young decent looking women easily move on
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Don't live with a woman you're not married to.
I truly believe doing so is a mistake.
Don't live with a woman you're not married to.
I truly believe doing so is a mistake.
You rarely escape things like these "nicely"...
So with that theory, how are unmarried men and women in a relationship supposed to know what it's like to be around one another in the same residence if marriage is intended to be in their future?
I believe you should live with your partner for a while to see how they "really" are before getting married. I think living with women in general is a mistake though. ;D
I've only lived with a few girlfriends over the years, most of them a short period of a few months, but i always had my own place. We just kind of took turns staying at each others place, but they always felt more comfortable at their place. I learned that living with someone for 2-3 months is very eye opening because they can't really fake anything or hide anything. You get to see who they really are quickly. For an independent person like me it's often a difficult experience. I don't want to be connected at the hip with someone 24/7, it seems silly to me.
The thing i noticed about living together, is that it only takes one or two bad events to happen and it's never the same. Seen it happen a dozen times; you get in a fight over something marginally important and the next 5-6 weeks are just pure hell; just have to wait until someone gets over it, even if you admit defeat and settle the argument, it's still "there" for a long time. My best friend's wife thought he was cheating on her 2 years ago, no proof or anything, she just thought he was acting strange. Still to this day she won't sleep in the same bed with him and believes he cheated on her. My friend never did anything wrong, he said he came home drunk one night and she just started accusing him of things. He just blew it off and she thinks because of this he's guilty. She has no proof or evidence of anything at all, no name or time they got together, she just has a "feeling". Their daily lives suck, they live in the same house but are just friends, it's retarded.
I can go on and on, since i'm the last single guy anyone knows at my age, i'm like the one person everyone goes to with issues. I find it funny because i've never been married but all my friends say i give the best advice. I'm just logical, if it doesn't make sense to be with someone, don't bother.
My brother just got married and adopted her daughter. He fell in love and got married within 18 months, i warned him to let it play out for a while. They just bought a house together; he calls me almost every single Friday night after he's had a few beers and does nothing but complain. It's so bad i've gotten to where i'll be stressed out by the things he's telling me. People change so quickly when they get comfortable, it's both men and women. But i'll tell you the women have a way to lure you in with bait and then once your hooked they do a 180, every single time.
I'm married. I would say don't get married to her if you don't truly love her. Marriage is meant to be for life and not to be felt as a "life sentence".
In all honesty, most marriages today are nothing but a contract on the man and his worth, i.e., earning power. Women are often scum. I had three homosexual friends get divorced over the last few years, two are men and the other is a woman.
They lost nearly everything to what they felt was the "love of their life". They fell for the whole "equality to heterosexuals bullshit". This is LOVE...FTN.
Women swing from branch to branch in an effort to steal as much wealth as they can. They will marry fat, fugly piles of shit, sleep with Harvey Weinsteins and worse just to have "more".
If you don't truly love her, you already know that. Don't harm your entire life just because you don't want to "hurt her feeeeeeeeeeeeewings". She'll get over you.
Which when you think about it, is a lot better than her running over you.
If you're in your 40's and single, escorts are the way to go, fuck a relationship. I'm telling ya.
Once a month, just pay for the weekend 'girlfriend' treatment from a Russian or Ukrainian escort. Preferably one's named 'Svetlana' if possible. That one weekend by itself makes up for the other three weekends of the month where you're not getting laid.
One of my divorced friends does this now. Once or twice a month he will pay for a full day with a gorgeous escort and just have sex all day, drink and party. I've seen pictures of these women, they are 9's and 10's, top notch poontang.
He says it's still cheaper than being married to his ex wife. :D
Not my thing, i enjoy the "hunt" so to speak. Plus i'm not a fan of STD's or catching a case over it, but i know guys that do it; many are married.
This guy i used to work with had this smoking hot Latina escort come over for a hour or two every Friday night. He'd smash and then relax doing whatever he wanted the rest of the weekend. Not too bad for him i guess. I actually met her one time and she was super hot and had a good personality, i thought he was trying to date her for a while, but she moved to another state. Then after a few months she calls him needing money, she got busted with counterfeit money and needed a lawyer. Funny how things turn out i guess.
He said for the price of a fancy date night with his ex-girlfriend, he could get amazing sex with this Latina for a hour or two. Not a bad trade off to some people i think.
I tend to agree. My girl that I hire one a month is 5'7" 130 pounds, shapely round ass. Nice natural C cup tits, athletic build. Blond hair with ivory toned skin. She's a solid 8.5. The Ukrainian accent is a huge turn on. Condoms are used so I'm not too concerned with the STD aspect. There's herpes to possibly worry about but that's skin on skin contact and not a fluid transfer, so there can also be that possibility. So far, so good. I'll keep doing it for now. Sex all day and night, she'll cook for you and cook well. Watch movies with you, sit and listen to any problems you have and strangely enough, give sound advice.
It works for me. It's cost effective and very low stress. But I'm also a rare bird amongst my friends. Mid 40's, no kids by choice, and saving up for an early retirement. Like also stated earlier by someone else, my married friends tend to gravitate to me for advice or to complain about their wives. I'm just logical when it comes to doling out advice.
You never know for sure. The entire dynamic of the relationship changes with marriage. Living together unmarried is not the same There's no real commitment. If you aren't sure she's the one then move on or keep dating. Don't move in with her or let her move in with you.
Living together creates too many issues financially. Maintain your independence until you're willing to commit.
My mom and step-dad were together for over 30 years. About 3 years into the relationship, they got married in Mexico. They later adopted my two sisters and the court recognized their marriage. When my dad started collecting SS, they discovered they weren't legally married according the Social Security office. So they married for a second time. This time in Los Angeles where they lived.
If you live in a State that Does Recognize Common Law Marriage
If you live in one of the above states and you “hold yourself out to be married” (by telling the community you are married, calling each other husband and wife, using the same last name, filing joint income tax returns, etc.), you can have a common law marriage. Common law marriage makes you a legally married couple in every way, even though you never obtained a marriage license. If you choose to end your relationship, you must get a divorce, even though you never had a wedding.
If You Live in a State that Does Not Recognize Common Law Marriage
There is no way to form a common law marriage, no matter how long you live with your partner. There is one catch: if you spend time in a state that does recognize common law marriage, “hold yourself out as married,” and then return or move to a state that doesn’t recognize it, you are still married.
My neighbors separated a couple of years ago after being together for around 25 years and having 3 children (all adults now). The woman moved out. They recently sold the house they lived in. It was once her parent's house. She didn't work, so one could assume he took care of the mortgage (if there was one) and maintenance costs. It would be interesting to know how they divided the proceeds.
My mom and step-dad were together for over 30 years. About 3 years into the relationship, they got married in Mexico. They later adopted my two sisters and the court recognized their marriage. When my dad started collecting SS, they discovered they weren't legally married according the Social Security office. So they married for a second time. This time in Los Angeles where they lived.
You can try to make that sound great all you want, but you’re buying pussy because you can’t pull any.
You can try to make that sound great all you want, but you’re buying pussy because you can’t pull any.
I tend to agree. My girl that I hire one a month is 5'7" 130 pounds, shapely round ass. Nice natural C cup tits, athletic build. Blond hair with ivory toned skin. She's a solid 8.5. The Ukrainian accent is a huge turn on. Condoms are used so I'm not too concerned with the STD aspect. There's herpes to possibly worry about but that's skin on skin contact and not a fluid transfer, so there can also be that possibility. So far, so good. I'll keep doing it for now. Sex all day and night, she'll cook for you and cook well. Watch movies with you, sit and listen to any problems you have and strangely enough, give sound advice.
It works for me. It's cost effective and very low stress. But I'm also a rare bird amongst my friends. Mid 40's, no kids by choice, and saving up for an early retirement. Like also stated earlier by someone else, my married friends tend to gravitate to me for advice or to complain about their wives. I'm just logical when it comes to doling out advice.
What does she cost you per weekend? How did you find her?
Didn’t you cheat on your dying wife at a homosexual gloryhole?
Your life is on the line, run and never look back. Don't end up like me.It isn't over for you yet.
It isn't over for you yet.I think it is. I am too weak to tell her to get lost.
I don't believe for a minute AM has a wifeyou also dont believe that you are bald, yet here we are
you also dont believe that you are bald, yet here we are
I think it is. I am too weak to tell her to get lost.
Same pertinent questions I’ll ask again:
1. What is the point of being “boyfriend and girlfriend” past 23 years old, the age at which most people are done with education or professional training?
2. Why do men live with women they are not going to form a family with or who share serious life goals with?
Being a “boyfriend” is one of the lowest positions a grown man can be in.
Sounds more like you're looking for reasons to justify your marriage
You have it the wrong way round. Being a long term girlfriend is the lowest position.
A long term "boyfriend" who is in control of the relationship dynamics can have all the benefits he would get in a marriage without giving the "girlfriend" the commitments that might be expected of him in a marriage.
It's actually a pretty selfish thing to do as the boyfriend is basically having his cake and eating it.
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.
I do not seek to justification for what I do, let alone on the internet with strangers. I wanted a family, so that’s what I did. I’m inquiring about what the point of being a boyfriend is, which is investment of resources for… oh… I don’t know.
And yes, I’m aware of boyfriends in the positions of employers in the employer-employee dynamic of most boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. I do not think most boyfriends are the employers.
Same reason some men get married. They are desperate and lonely (there are 2 examples on this page of this thread)
You must live in a town or small city or something where mens choices are limited, but I know a lot of guys who are leading their "girlfriends" on and giving very little back. A lot of times they don't even let the girl tell others that they're in a relationship.
Why do you want to leave her?Fomo for younger women. I try to fight these thoughts because it's not right
Fomo for younger women. I try to fight these thoughts because it's not right
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.The only real benefit of having a wife is you no longer need to do grocery shopping, cooking, dishes, and laundry. Everything else is mostly downsides. Even sex is a chore because you are bored with the same person.
Do you have children? If not, why not just leave?we live in my home so i cannot just leave and i am not prepared to deal with the hell that will unleash when i kick her to the curb. I tried a few times in the past and it was total madness
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.
you also dont believe that you are bald, yet here we areOUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111 ;D
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.You know nothing at all about anyone's relationship with their wives or girlfriends on here Casanova......you fucking sad cornball. :(
OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111 ;Di am humbled by this token of recognition
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.hahaha less than 3 years together FFS
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.Wow you really are a broken record. This is a copy paste of what you posted a few days ago in another thread. Seems like you are coping hard about the age of your female companion. Also your pathological need for admiration is showing. Enjoy your company? Laugh at your jokes? Pathetic
Wow you really are a broken record. This is a copy paste of what you posted a few days ago in another thread. Seems like you are coping hard about the age of your female companion. Also your pathological need for admiration is showing. Enjoy your company? Laugh at your jokes? PatheticIn reality he`s a miserable prick because he got married and now has to be just a wee bit more responsible,as in paying for her kids. :D
Life is hard but it is a lot easier with a good woman. I feel bad so many of you are grown and haven't found a good partner. Or maybe you have and just don't realize it and appreciate it. My only advice is find a woman your age that laughs at your jokes and actually enjoys your company. Look for a woman that is looking for you not some bimbo half your age that barely speaks English and just sits around in awkward silence.
I lived and worked for 37 years in four of the boroughs of NYC.
I’m aware of the sort of high-status men you speak of.
Your wife makes you sleep in a different room to her..
Preferable anyway, how is a man to let rip as needed.
Preferable anyway, how is a man to let rip as needed.if you werent stuffing yourself like a thanksgiving turkey in a futile attempt to get big enough, you wouldnt be blowing out your asshole like a flatulent pig
if you werent stuffing yourself like a thanksgiving turkey in a futile attempt to get big enough, you wouldnt be blowing out your asshole like a flatulent pig
You have the word Muscle in your "name" its strange. I don't force feed, I wait for genuine hunger before eating. So you don't fart? Go and join the angels in heaven ::)
Your wife makes you sleep in a differentroomhousetown to her..
You guys also bring up previous failed relationships as if that is proof woman are bad far from it. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.