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Title: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on August 22, 2022, 01:45:45 PM
What's that like?
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Desolate on August 22, 2022, 01:48:00 PM
No.

But nowadays with Tik Tok?

I can only vomit.

The Manosphere explains this stuff well.

Social Media, in all of its forms, has wrecked young women.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Henda on August 22, 2022, 01:53:16 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Matt on August 22, 2022, 01:54:02 PM
I have two daughters. They are 13 and 5.

There's only so much I can do to prevent them from being exposed to Woke nonsense.

I simply will not allow my 5-year-old to be exposed to it. As for my older girl...she's at an age where she needs to decide for herself, basically. Or getting there.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on August 22, 2022, 02:00:18 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever

 8) 8) 8) This is what I needed and from a fucking stud. Thanks.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on August 22, 2022, 02:02:34 PM
I have two daughters. They are 13 and 5.

There's only so much I can do to prevent them from being exposed to Woke nonsense.

I simply will not allow my 5-year-old to be exposed to it. As for my older girl...she's at an age where she needs to decide for herself, basically. Or getting there.

Thanks Matt. You're doing a good job fighting the fight.  8)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Desolate on August 22, 2022, 02:03:49 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever

8) 8) 8) This is what I needed and from a fucking stud. Thanks.

It definitely sounds like a great approach. 8)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 22, 2022, 02:25:15 PM
there are no "pros" to having children...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 22, 2022, 02:41:04 PM
did you prove that to your parents

they would have had a better life without us.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: beakdoctor on August 22, 2022, 04:31:01 PM
Yes. They tend to be calmer than boys. From 0 to about 10 years old you're superman, captain america, santa claus, bugs bunny and zues all rolled into one. After that they tend to start thinking your just the dorky  old man that pays for everything.

Like Henda said id relive those first 6 years over and over with all my kids. Those are great years. Seeing how precious they can be gives you a different perspective on tge world.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: robcguns on August 22, 2022, 04:47:58 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever

Well said. I have three daughters and feel the same way.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Flexacon on August 22, 2022, 05:11:19 PM
In most cases your brain undergoes "remodelling" when you have kids. Mens testosterone levels also drop and they fill up estrogen when they're around their baby. This is to help with bonding.

If you're happy cucking yourself and becoming a soyaboy go ahead and have kids.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Irongrip400 on August 22, 2022, 05:12:09 PM
You’ve got a little girl on the way I take it?
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on August 22, 2022, 05:42:59 PM
You’ve got a little girl on the way I take it?

First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on August 22, 2022, 05:46:15 PM
Congrats Wiggs  8)

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: robcguns on August 22, 2022, 05:49:02 PM
First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.

Congrats. Enjoy it as it flys by to fast.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Bevo on August 22, 2022, 06:16:39 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever

That’s so true, miss those days already
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: DownWithTheShip on August 22, 2022, 06:19:10 PM
Congratulations. There is nothing more fulfilling.

Take lots of pictures. Days are long, but years are short.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: chaos on August 22, 2022, 06:28:22 PM
First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.
Congratulations Wigglestein! Didn't realize you had gotten married. 8)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 22, 2022, 06:29:49 PM
No snivelling brats here.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Dave D on August 22, 2022, 06:46:12 PM
Congrats Wiggs!

Fatherhood is an incredible experience, there are a lot of good perspectives here. Your whole life is going to change, when my daughter was born I never felt more helpless, hopeless, hopeful, optimistic  and alive all at once. Reading this makes no sense but once she is here it will seem perfectly logical.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: illuminati on August 22, 2022, 07:55:43 PM
First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.

Congratulations
Be a Good Dad to her & always be there for her
Enjoy every day as the days & years pass so quickly
Make a photo diary from day 1

Great times ahead.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: ElPolloSalmonello on August 22, 2022, 08:05:46 PM
I have a 12 year old girl - no problems, no dramas. My son sailed through his teens without turning into a grumpy monster. Fingers crossed for the girl!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Bevo on August 22, 2022, 08:24:59 PM
Can’t believe many getbiggers have kids, including me, fucked up concept to fathom, getbiggers and children…..

With matty c leading the way  ;D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: pamith on August 22, 2022, 09:06:54 PM
Absolutely amazing experience, with your son you hold back a bit on the affection so he don’t turn sissy but with daughter can give all the love and affection you like. I loved the early years with my daughter and wish could life in them forever
Bro...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: pamith on August 22, 2022, 09:12:04 PM
Can’t believe many getbiggers have kids, including me, fucked up concept to fathom, getbiggers and children…..

With matty c leading the way  ;D
I don't have children, yet, am I missing out?
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Dave D on August 22, 2022, 09:23:14 PM
I don't have children, yet, am I missing out?

No. You not having kids is a scenario where everyone wins.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: beakdoctor on August 22, 2022, 10:00:14 PM
Congrats Wiggs!

Hopefully the baby sleeps good. When they cry It's usually 1 of 3 things: they want to be fed, they need to be changed or they need to be burped.

If she wakes up crying and wakes you up in the middle of the night remember how tired you sre is directly proportional to how quickly the baby goes back to sleep. So just embrace the suck, be patient.

Someone else said 'long days but short years' Yep. Your life is about to hit the fast forward button. So just be patient and enjoy it.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 22, 2022, 11:06:11 PM
Two..

Ages 25 and 28.
Both hard-working, non-Karens. I would say we "lucked out" but we just raised them right.
Work hard, respect people, nothing is owed to you, etc. Both have great careers.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Henda on August 22, 2022, 11:07:35 PM
First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.

Congratulations mate you will love it and will be great father
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 22, 2022, 11:10:37 PM
Does the financial obligation of 20+ years not turn anyone off children?  ???

Something happens > you go broke > you go to prison
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Henda on August 22, 2022, 11:26:08 PM
Does the financial obligation of 20+ years not turn anyone off children?  ???

Something happens > you go broke > you go to prison

Having kids did install a deep rooted fear of being poor and did increase the stress of being self employed a bit as only having self to worry about is no big deal but having kids magnified the urgency of keeping good on table and roof over head it’s still worth it though. I

I’d fuckibg hate to be poor with kids though one of my daughters birthdays when she was young we let her have one of her gifts the night before was just some daft cheap talking bird in a cage and watching her play with it suddenly hit the sinking feeling that what If a single gift is all could afford and how bad and a failure I’d feel. I know we’re talking first world problems here but something switches when you have kids you can spend a small fortune on their birthday and Christmas and still feel like you never did enough hard to explain but those with kids will get what mean
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 22, 2022, 11:29:09 PM
Having kids did install a deep rooted fear of being poor and did increase the stress of being self employed a bit as only having self to worry about is no big deal but having kids magnified the urgency of keeping good on table and roof over head it’s still worth it though. I

I’d fuckibg hate to be poor with kids though one of my daughters birthdays when she was young we let her have one of her gifts the night before was just some daft cheap talking bird in a cage and watching her play with it suddenly hit the sinking feeling that what If a single gift is all could afford and how bad and a failure I’d feel. I know we’re talking first world problems here but something switches when you have kids you can spend a small fortune on their birthday and Christmas and still feel like you never did enough hard to explain but those with kids will get what mean

Thanks Henda.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 22, 2022, 11:29:46 PM
Does the financial obligation of 20+ years not turn anyone off children?  ???

Something happens > you go broke > you go to prison

Never crossed my mind. Back in mid-90's, we didnt have the issues we see today.
Today, i WOULD NOT have kids. World is too fucked.

Always worked and things were good technology-wise, I worked in that field. Never thought about going to Prison, I didnt commit crimes.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 22, 2022, 11:32:53 PM
Never crossed my mind. Back in mid-90's, we didnt have the issues we see today.
Today, i WOULD NOT have kids. World is too fucked.

Always worked and things were good technology-wise, I worked in that field. Never thought about going to Prison, I didnt commit crimes.

Agreed.


Oh, I meant prison for not having money for child upkeep.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 23, 2022, 12:10:34 AM
Agreed.


Oh, I meant prison for not having money for child upkeep.

Gotcha...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on August 23, 2022, 12:18:35 AM
Most Getbiggers have never had sex with a woman to have children in the first place. Good luck in the future Wiggs. It is a tough world out there.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: pamith on August 23, 2022, 07:53:40 AM
No. You not having kids is a scenario where everyone wins.
Bro...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 23, 2022, 07:58:19 AM
Most Getbiggers have never had sex with a woman to have children in the first place. Good luck in the future Wiggs. It is a tough world out there.

True.
Imagine Oak pulling out his man-clit and going after a woman? She looks like Rachel Levine Im sure...

(https://th.bing.com/th/id/OIP.B76B1H_j4rDZw97DDX-adwHaHa?pid=ImgDet&rs=1)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Hypertrophy on August 23, 2022, 08:13:41 AM
Raising my two kids was an awesome experience! One boy, one girl. Different in many ways but the same as far as how I dealt with them.


The first 10 years was amazing - the real joy of being a parent was constant. After that they start off on their own paths- girls much earlier than boys. You have to learn to step out of the way somewhat.  But I let them have a bit of rope growing up, in some things but not others. There always has been a strict "no drugs" policy, and that includes their friends. It worked.


There never was a "rebellious" phase. In fact I encouraged them to be independent but also taught them to expect consequences for their actions.


Both are now in their 20s and married- having kids of their own or about to.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Grape Ape on August 23, 2022, 08:20:19 AM
Congrats Wiggs.

Best of luck.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Soul Crusher on August 23, 2022, 08:25:05 AM
I have mine in BJJ and hockey already - not raising some worthless liberal Kunt like hillary, obama, kamala etc. 
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: falco on August 23, 2022, 08:36:07 AM
What's that like?

Yes. She is 10.
I am lucky, she is very calm and a good student. The opposite of me, an older hothead.
It's a good experience but i find it hard to understand what are her likes and how to be a good companion to her.
Bikes, beer and dumbells are not her thing.

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: pamith on August 23, 2022, 08:42:29 AM
Yes. She is 10.
I am lucky, she is very calm and a good student. The opposite of me, an older hothead.
It's a good experience but i find it hard to understand what are her likes and how to be a good companion to her.
Bikes, beer and dumbells are not her thing.
Bro...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 23, 2022, 09:17:03 AM
Joe Biden has a daughter.
He raped her in the shower when she was a little kid.
Dont be like Pedo Peter!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on August 23, 2022, 09:44:07 AM
Thanks for all the congrats gents.  8) Most importantly, thanks for all the advice. I will definitely take it to heart and do my best to raise good children. I always let God lead the way through his word (The Bible) but there's nothing wrong with getting advice from fellow fathers who have had success. Cheers 8)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: ElPolloSalmonello on August 23, 2022, 10:53:38 AM
Raising my two kids was an awesome experience! One boy, one girl. Different in many ways but the same as far as how I dealt with them.


The first 10 years was amazing - the real joy of being a parent was constant. After that they start off on their own paths- girls much earlier than boys. You have to learn to step out of the way somewhat.  But I let them have a bit of rope growing up, in some things but not others. There always has been a strict "no drugs" policy, and that includes their friends. It worked.


There never was a "rebellious" phase. In fact I encouraged them to be independent but also taught them to expect consequences for their actions.


Both are now in their 20s and married- having kids of their own or about to.

This mirrors my experience. The less 'parenting' you do, the easier they grow up.

We live in a house that was 4 and is now 3. We had a rule - "Don't be a dick to the other people in the house" and it seemed to work.

Other than stopping them jumping off a cliff, let them make their own mistakes.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Taffin on August 23, 2022, 11:15:56 AM
Four - three adults and one about to turn 16

Best thing I ever did 8)

(Apart from my 2 sons, of course! ;D)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Andy Griffin on August 23, 2022, 02:35:23 PM
Congratulations good sir.  You will be a fine father.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 23, 2022, 07:41:02 PM
What's that like?

This depends on the daughter. Overall, my experience was and still is good. Our daughter was challenging as a teenager, she questioned everything. She was independent, strong willed and sometimes argumentative. She was extremely social with a lot of friends.

As our daughter matured into adulthood, she and her mother were very close. Specially after she married. I see some of both my late wife's and my personality traits in her.

By comparison, our son was easier to raise during his teenage years. He was just as independent as his sister. He was very studious. He graduated high school with honors (magna cum laude). Was very active in sports, including; little league, high school football, and rugby in the summer. He and his friends played Dungeons and Dragons almost every weekend.

Reflectively, I think my late wife and I were lucky to have two great children who became terrific adults both of whom I admire and love very much.     
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 23, 2022, 08:06:00 PM
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Quote from: pamith on August 22, 2022, 09:12:04 PM
I don't have children, yet, am I missing out?

If you want children, you should have them. Most likely you'd be glad you did. I know people who chose not to have children and as far as I know they don't regret it.

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Quote from: Rusty Trombone on August 22, 2022, 11:10:37 PM
Does the financial obligation of 20+ years not turn anyone off children?   

Something happens > you go broke > you go to prison

If we had not had children, we would likely have wasted that money. They are definitely worth every penny we spent.
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Quote from: Gym-Rat on August 22, 2022, 11:29:46 PM
Never crossed my mind. Back in mid-90's, we didnt have the issues we see today.
Today, i WOULD NOT have kids. World is too fucked.

Always worked and things were good technology-wise, I worked in that field. Never thought about going to Prison, I didnt commit crimes.

Since the beginning of time, with each new generation, folks have said this. Looking back through history, there were much worse times than there are today.
 

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Quote from: Hypertrophy on Today at 08:13:41 AM
Raising my two kids was an awesome experience! One boy, one girl. Different in many ways but the same as far as how I dealt with them.


The first 10 years was amazing - the real joy of being a parent was constant. After that they start off on their own paths- girls much earlier than boys. You have to learn to step out of the way somewhat.  But I let them have a bit of rope growing up, in some things but not others. There always has been a strict "no drugs" policy, and that includes their friends. It worked.


There never was a "rebellious" phase. In fact I encouraged them to be independent but also taught them to expect consequences for their actions.


Both are now in their 20s and married- having kids of their own or about to.
This is something every parent should do. Too many do not and the result can be dreadful.
 

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Bevo on August 23, 2022, 08:16:54 PM
This depends on the daughter. Overall, my experience was and still is good. Our daughter was challenging as a teenager, she questioned everything. She was independent, strong willed and sometimes argumentative. She was extremely social with a lot of friends.

As our daughter matured into adulthood, she and her mother were very close. Specially after she married. I see some of both my late wife's and my personality traits in her.

By comparison, our son was easier to raise during his teenage years. He was just as independent as his sister. He was very studious. He graduated high school with honors (magna cum laude). Was very active in sports, including; little league, high school football, and rugby in the summer. He and his friends played Dungeons and Dragons almost every weekend.

Reflectively, I think my late wife and I were lucky to have two great children who became terrific adults both of whom I admire and love very much.   

Aren’t all your grown adult children and grand children living under the same house as you?
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 23, 2022, 08:45:43 PM
I'm not really a father to a daughter, but I do fuck a grown daughter of a man who is a father to his daughter.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 23, 2022, 10:17:46 PM
I'm not really a father to a daughter, but I do fuck a grown daughter of a man who is a father to his daughter.

she may see you as the daddy she wished she had
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Rusty Trombone on August 23, 2022, 11:12:51 PM
she may see you as the daddy she wished she had

LOL it may happen.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Henda on August 23, 2022, 11:48:44 PM
That must have been lonely for you son and him not knowing your queer fear

Doesn't mean I didn’t spend time with him it’s just different
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on August 24, 2022, 10:24:36 AM
First child at age 43. I have alot going through my mind good, bad and ugly. But this is what I wanted.
All the best Wiggs.....congrats buddy !!   ;)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Mayday on August 24, 2022, 01:13:00 PM
Yes. They tend to be calmer than boys. From 0 to about 10 years old you're superman, captain america, santa claus, bugs bunny and zues all rolled into one. After that they tend to start thinking your just the dorky  old man that pays for everything.

Like Henda said id relive those first 6 years over and over with all my kids. Those are great years. Seeing how precious they can be gives you a different perspective on tge world.

Yep so true. When I drop mine off at school she is mortified if I have my metal songs playing….. so I’ll switch to one of her songs and still mortified lol.

Spent loads of time doing everything with/for her when she was little. Every single day cafe then daycare or school drop off, pickup, food, sport, events. I did heaps and I was the only Dad who did that in our school. I always told people it was a privilege to do those things and a joy not a chore.

 from about 8 onwards she shifted more to her Mum and began to realise I’m a man Dad and icky lol. So yeah, do everything you can when girls are young. She will shift back to me in teenage years as she will argue with her Mum over stuff no doubt. All girls seem to do this I think because most of us guys don’t hassle them constantly in the house to do stuff.

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 24, 2022, 03:21:22 PM

Since the beginning of time, with each new generation, folks have said this. Looking back through history, there were much worse times than there are today.
 

I know youre right.
But if we were mid-20's now, thinking of kids, wife and I both say "no f'ing way".
But maybe mid-20 kids, this is all they know and its not a huge deal.
We came from a better place and time...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 26, 2022, 12:23:02 AM
I know youre right.
But if we were mid-20's now, thinking of kids, wife and I both say "no f'ing way".
But maybe mid-20 kids, this is all they know and its not a huge deal.
We came from a better place and time...

Well, as a kid growing up in Southern California, I did spend a lot of time outside, riding my bike and hanging out with friends. Sometimes I helped my friend Henry with his afternoon paper route. My parents gave me a lot of freedom to do what I wanted and go where I wanted if I didn't get into trouble.

What I didn't do was, play games or endlessly talk to my friends on a cell phone. I didn't plant myself in front of the TV for hours on end. The TV was turned on by my parents after dinner and I watched the shows they chose. Trust me, it wasn't cartoons or other kiddy shows. Mostly boring one's for a kid, like The Ed Sullivan show or the Honeymooners "POW right in the kisser" segment of the Jackie Gleason show. So, I would go to my room and build model airplanes instead.

I didn't snack on junk food all day long because there was none of that in the house... want to have a snack? Eat an apple or a banana. My mom cooked dinner almost every night and sometimes my dad did. They didn't do take out or have pizza delivered. Every so often, maybe once a month we'd eat out at a restaurant either Chinese or Italian.

Occasionally, my dad took me to a movie house on La Brea, just off Hollywood Blvd that only showed old-time silent films. That was weird but fun because it was something we did together. Sometimes he and I would watch boxing matches on the TV, and we make non-monetary bets on who would win. He'd let me watch the first round before betting. Very often I picked the winner.

Yup, a kid’s life back in the 40's - 60's was a lot different than what it is today. A lot simpler.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym-Rat on August 26, 2022, 12:28:20 AM
Well, as a kid growing up in Southern California, I did spend a lot of time outside, riding my bike and hanging out with friends. Sometimes I helped my friend Henry with his afternoon paper route. My parents gave me a lot of freedom to do what I wanted and go where I wanted if I didn't get into trouble.

What I didn't do was, play games or endlessly talk to my friends on a cell phone. I didn't plant myself in front of the TV for hours on end. The TV was turned on by my parents after dinner and I watched the shows they chose. Trust me, it wasn't cartoons or other kiddy shows. Mostly boring one's for a kid, like The Ed Sullivan show or the Honeymooners "POW right in the kisser" segment of the Jackie Gleason show. So, I would go to my room and build model airplanes instead.

I didn't snack on junk food all day long because there was none of that in the house... want to have a snack? Eat an apple or a banana. My mom cooked dinner almost every night and sometimes my dad did. They didn't do take out or have pizza delivered. Every so often, maybe once a month we'd eat out at a restaurant either Chinese or Italian.

Occasionally, my dad took me to a movie house on La Brea, just off Hollywood Blvd that only showed old-time silent films. That was weird but fun because it was something we did together. Sometimes he and I would watch boxing matches on the TV, and we make non-monetary bets on who would win. He'd let me watch the first round before betting. Very often I picked the winner.

Yup, a kid’s life back in the 40's - 60's was a lot different than what it is today. A lot simpler.

Even us in the 70's, similar. Would go out when the sun rose, come home when the street lights went on (when younger).
Parents would only see me for 10 minutes, to scoff down supper. Summer vacation used to seem like 10 months, never mind 10-weeks.
After a point (age 13) we were just staying out 'til 11 PM. Sports all day, kick the can at night, etc.
(Of course we would run around and get into a bit of trouble, minor stuff though).
Very fun days I look back on...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: illuminati on August 26, 2022, 09:29:16 AM
Well, as a kid growing up in Southern California, I did spend a lot of time outside, riding my bike and hanging out with friends. Sometimes I helped my friend Henry with his afternoon paper route. My parents gave me a lot of freedom to do what I wanted and go where I wanted if I didn't get into trouble.

What I didn't do was, play games or endlessly talk to my friends on a cell phone. I didn't plant myself in front of the TV for hours on end. The TV was turned on by my parents after dinner and I watched the shows they chose. Trust me, it wasn't cartoons or other kiddy shows. Mostly boring one's for a kid, like The Ed Sullivan show or the Honeymooners "POW right in the kisser" segment of the Jackie Gleason show. So, I would go to my room and build model airplanes instead.

I didn't snack on junk food all day long because there was none of that in the house... want to have a snack? Eat an apple or a banana. My mom cooked dinner almost every night and sometimes my dad did. They didn't do take out or have pizza delivered. Every so often, maybe once a month we'd eat out at a restaurant either Chinese or Italian.

Occasionally, my dad took me to a movie house on La Brea, just off Hollywood Blvd that only showed old-time silent films. That was weird but fun because it was something we did together. Sometimes he and I would watch boxing matches on the TV, and we make non-monetary bets on who would win. He'd let me watch the first round before betting. Very often I picked the winner.

Yup, a kid’s life back in the 40's - 60's was a lot different than what it is today. A lot simpler.


A Great way of life & to grow up,
sounds very similar to mine growing up in the 60's & 70's
early life in southern Spain & life in England

I tried best I could for my Son's to have as Similar outdoors life.

The youngsters growing up in many many places have such a limited
Electronic artificial life - yet they think it Normal & okay !!
That's the ability of Human's to adapt.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 26, 2022, 12:18:45 PM

A Great way of life & to grow up,
sounds very similar to mine growing up in the 60's & 70's
early life in southern Spain & life in England

I tried best I could for my Son's to have as Similar outdoors life.

The youngsters growing up in many many places have such a limited
Electronic artificial life - yet they think it Normal & okay !!
That's the ability of Human's to adapt regress.

fixed
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: m8 on August 26, 2022, 12:22:58 PM
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 26, 2022, 12:48:25 PM

A Great way of life & to grow up,
sounds very similar to mine growing up in the 60's & 70's
early life in southern Spain & life in England

I tried best I could for my Son's to have as Similar outdoors life.

The youngsters growing up in many many places have such a limited
Electronic artificial life - yet they think it Normal & okay !!
That's the ability of Human's to adapt.

It is not a normal life according to our standards. It is according to theirs, so it is likely most of those folks don't think about it at all.

So much of the quality of one's life depends on where they live.

My kids had all the same advantages and freedoms I did. My son's childhood was well balanced. He was into sports, he was studious, and he enjoyed spending time with his friends. He was a 'late bloomer' as far as dating goes.

This also describes my daughter's early life, but with her the order was different, socializing came first, including dating, her schoolwork second and lastly sports. She was into gymnastics in elementary school and tennis in high school. She also was the score keeper for her high school wrestling team. Funny thing is she never dated the wrestlers... who were jokingly referred to as 'mat fags'.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 26, 2022, 12:52:26 PM


fake, he never said that
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: CalvinH on August 26, 2022, 06:39:47 PM
All the best Wiggs, good luck.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: illuminati on August 26, 2022, 07:07:45 PM
It is not a normal life according to our standards. It is according to theirs, so it is likely most of those folks don't think about it at all.

So much of the quality of one's life depends on where they live.

My kids had all the same advantages and freedoms I did. My son's childhood was well balanced. He was into sports, he was studious, and he enjoyed spending time with his friends. He was a 'late bloomer' as far as dating goes.

This also describes my daughter's early life, but with her the order was different, socializing :D came first, including dating, her schoolwork second and lastly sports. She was into gymnastics in elementary school and tennis in high school. She also was the score keeper for her high school wrestling team. Funny thing is she never dated the wrestlers... who were jokingly referred to as 'mat fags'.

“Matt Fags”
Is That your New Name for the person
Who sent you a Very Suspect Video recording
Of Himself. ??

 ;D ;D :D ;D :D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: benchmstr on August 26, 2022, 08:20:23 PM
Being a dad is the easiest shit in the world..all these people told me “it’s so hard! You have to change your whole life!”

That’s absolute bullshit!

Having kids is by far the easiest and best thing I ever did..getting married is bullshit..but the kids are awesome everyday.

Bench
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on August 27, 2022, 01:28:30 PM
Being a dad is the easiest shit in the world..all these people told me “it’s so hard! You have to change your whole life!”

That’s absolute bullshit!

Having kids is by far the easiest and best thing I ever did..getting married is bullshit..but the kids are awesome everyday.

Bench
That's why so many ditch the spouse.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 27, 2022, 01:33:24 PM
“Matt Fags”
Is That your New Name for the person
Who sent you a Very Suspect Video recording
Of Himself. ??

 ;D ;D :D ;D :D

It is spelled 'mat' with only one 't' and it is laid on the gym floor. But, your post is rather clever. So, I'm gonna laugh along with you.  ;D ;D :D ;D :D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 27, 2022, 01:42:32 PM
My daughter and son-in-law are taking me on a brunch cruise for my birthday tomorrow on the Willamette River.

https://portlandspirit.com/cruise/brunch/
(https://th.bing.com/th/id/OIP.9snyL28UCSOs5i7qN9VR7AAAAA?pid=ImgDet&rs=1)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Randomum on August 27, 2022, 04:26:02 PM
Hey Wiggs, congrats. How old is the mother? Do you plan on having more kids? Are you still in Fl?
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Flexacon on August 27, 2022, 09:31:12 PM
My daughter and son-in-law are taking me on a brunch cruise for my birthday tomorrow on the Willamette River.

https://portlandspirit.com/cruise/brunch/
(https://th.bing.com/th/id/OIP.9snyL28UCSOs5i7qN9VR7AAAAA?pid=ImgDet&rs=1)

Wear a life jacket because something tells me they plan on getting you drunk in the hopes that you fall overboard.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Marvin Martian on August 27, 2022, 11:04:25 PM
Wear a life jacket because something tells me they plan on getting you drunk in the hopes that you fall overboard.

As she is pushing the nasty skin bag overboard she will yell “this is for abandoning mom while she suffered so you could go off and lick sweaty balls fcker!!”
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: benchmstr on August 28, 2022, 06:40:09 AM
That's why so many ditch the spouse.
It’s because modern women have no value..they are too career focused to be valuable to anyone who isn’t using them.

Bench
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 28, 2022, 06:38:20 PM
Wear a life jacket because something tells me they plan on getting you drunk in the hopes that you fall overboard.

I thought of that too. LOL! That's why I stopped drinking after the second mimosa. It was a difficult decision because their mimosas are good, mostly champagne with a splash or orange juice served in a flute... and they'll refill the flute as many times as you want.

The buffet wasn't bad either. It was a combination of breakfast and lunch foods. I had a slice of rare beef to top off my plate which was so full it looked almost like one of Bhank's meals except healthier. Note: any meal is healthier that the one's he eats. ;)

As for getting thrown overboard, I didn't go up to the top deck with them. The second deck's view was good enough. I paid attention to the location of the life jackets and how to put them on when the nice-looking young lady was demonstrating this for us.

There were some very interesting folks onboard. Several young women were dressed in Kardashian style clothing with lots of body parts and skin on display. Speaking to getting drunk a couple at a nearby table had countless mimosas and a few cocktails besides. This is a fair amount booze to consume in a couple of hours. I was convinced the woman was going to pass out or puke when she stood up to go to the bathroom. She was gone for a longtime, wonder why?

It's corny but several passengers were celebrating birthdays all of which were acknowledged. Also, when we boarded, a photo was taken of us and later sold to us. I'd post it, but I am sure my daughter and son-in-law would not appreciate that... and I don't wish to give anyone on Getbig a new photo of me to photoshop.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on August 29, 2022, 03:05:35 AM
It’s because modern women have no value..they are too career focused to be valuable to anyone who isn’t using them.

Bench
I agree but they say the same about us.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: illuminati on August 29, 2022, 04:46:13 AM
I thought of that too. LOL! That's why I stopped drinking after the second mimosa. It was a difficult decision because their mimosas are good, mostly champagne with a splash or orange juice served in a flute... and they'll refill the flute as many times as you want.

The buffet wasn't bad either. It was a combination of breakfast and lunch foods. I had a slice of rare beef to top off my plate which was so full it looked almost like one of Bhank's meals except healthier. Note: any meal is healthier that the one's he eats. ;)

As for getting thrown overboard, I didn't go up to the top deck with them. The second deck's view was good enough. I paid attention to the location of the life jackets and how to put them on when the nice-looking young lady was demonstrating this for us.

There were some very interesting folks onboard. Several young women were dressed in Kardashian style clothing with lots of body parts and skin on display. Speaking to getting drunk a couple at a nearby table had countless mimosas and a few cocktails besides. This is a fair amount booze to consume in a couple of hours. I was convinced the woman was going to pass out or puke when she stood up to go to the bathroom. She was gone for a longtime, wonder why?

It's corny but several passengers were celebrating birthdays all of which were acknowledged. Also, when we boarded, a photo was taken of us and later sold to us. I'd post it, but I am sure my daughter and son-in-law would not appreciate that... and I don't wish to give anyone on Getbig a new photo of me to photoshop.


A late Happy Birthday
it sounds like you had a really Good Day .
Great Good on You.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on August 29, 2022, 04:50:07 AM
Happy belated birthday Jay !!  :)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: deadz on August 29, 2022, 01:24:29 PM
I thought of that too. LOL! That's why I stopped drinking after the second mimosa. It was a difficult decision because their mimosas are good, mostly champagne with a splash or orange juice served in a flute... and they'll refill the flute as many times as you want.

The buffet wasn't bad either. It was a combination of breakfast and lunch foods. I had a slice of rare beef to top off my plate which was so full it looked almost like one of Bhank's meals except healthier. Note: any meal is healthier that the one's he eats. ;)

As for getting thrown overboard, I didn't go up to the top deck with them. The second deck's view was good enough. I paid attention to the location of the life jackets and how to put them on when the nice-looking young lady was demonstrating this for us.

There were some very interesting folks onboard. Several young women were dressed in Kardashian style clothing with lots of body parts and skin on display. Speaking to getting drunk a couple at a nearby table had countless mimosas and a few cocktails besides. This is a fair amount booze to consume in a couple of hours. I was convinced the woman was going to pass out or puke when she stood up to go to the bathroom. She was gone for a longtime, wonder why?

It's corny but several passengers were celebrating birthdays all of which were acknowledged. Also, when we boarded, a photo was taken of us and later sold to us. I'd post it, but I am sure my daughter and son-in-law would not appreciate that... and I don't wish to give anyone on Getbig a new photo of me to photoshop.
Verbal diarrhea!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 29, 2022, 02:11:21 PM

A late Happy Birthday
it sounds like you had a really Good Day .
Great Good on You.

Thanks. At my age staying alive and active until the next birthday each year is reward enough. My PC doctor told me that I'll make it to my 100th birthday, achieving centenarian status.   
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: joswift on August 29, 2022, 02:13:13 PM
Thanks. At my age staying alive and active until the next birthday each year is reward enough. My PC doctor told me that I'll make it to my 100th birthday.

Trust you to have a politically correct doctor  ;D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on August 29, 2022, 02:19:53 PM
Trust you to have a politically correct doctor  ;D

Yup. It is one reason he has been my doctor since he took over my previous doctor's practice when he retired in 2006.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: benchmstr on August 30, 2022, 07:52:08 AM
I agree but they say the same about us.
Yes they do..but they don’t have ground to stand on..women have accomplished nothing without men..and never will

Bench
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Mohammed Omari on September 02, 2022, 03:42:41 AM
TBH, I absolutely fucking hate my kids. I regret having them and would drown them all if I could. Lately I've had my faith shaken and come to the realization that I've been programmed by something with a complete indifference to my lived experience here on Earth. I am a slave to my own impulses. A heteronomous weed that's forced to propagate the planet with my progeny for reasons that are entirely beyond our comprehension.

And what the fuck do I get out of it? Chemicals in my brain change in order to make me responsive to their cries; to make me sacrifice my own wants and needs in favor of theirs. I diminish the quality of my own existence and for what? There's no guarantee of reciprocity. They'll likely leave me to rot in my old age -- resenting me for expecting them to visit once in a while.

It really makes me LOL seeing all these retards celebrating the fact that they've miraculously managed to do what every living thing on Earth is designed for. All these fat single mothers walking around like they've achieved something, ha ha ha. Congratulations on getting shagged and bringing another miserable being into a painful and short existence. Even funnier are the folks who think they’re going to pass on all their “knowledge" ha ha ha. Yeah, I’m sure you’re an intellectual giant who’s going to breed the next Newton and they’ll go on to save the world. Statistically speaking, they’ll likely be on heroin by the time they finish puberty and end up killing themselves after the burden of crippling debt consumes them.

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: ElPolloSalmonello on March 14, 2023, 04:12:25 AM
TBH, I absolutely fucking hate my kids. I regret having them and would drown them all if I could. Lately I've had my faith shaken and come to the realization that I've been programmed by something with a complete indifference to my lived experience here on Earth. I am a slave to my own impulses. A heteronomous weed that's forced to propagate the planet with my progeny for reasons that are entirely beyond our comprehension.

And what the fuck do I get out of it? Chemicals in my brain change in order to make me responsive to their cries; to make me sacrifice my own wants and needs in favor of theirs. I diminish the quality of my own existence and for what? There's no guarantee of reciprocity. They'll likely leave me to rot in my old age -- resenting me for expecting them to visit once in a while.

It really makes me LOL seeing all these retards celebrating the fact that they've miraculously managed to do what every living thing on Earth is designed for. All these fat single mothers walking around like they've achieved something, ha ha ha. Congratulations on getting shagged and bringing another miserable being into a painful and short existence. Even funnier are the folks who think they’re going to pass on all their “knowledge" ha ha ha. Yeah, I’m sure you’re an intellectual giant who’s going to breed the next Newton and they’ll go on to save the world. Statistically speaking, they’ll likely be on heroin by the time they finish puberty and end up killing themselves after the burden of crippling debt consumes them.

Fuck - tough break
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Mohammed Omari on March 14, 2023, 04:53:54 AM
Fuck - tough break

I was just having a dark night of the soul, brother. The devil tested me by making me step barefoot on an upturned plug in my kids' bedroom and one of them laughed when I burned myself with chai tea earlier. I'm ashamed of my outburst now. I think Brother Niggs will be a great dad because he's already got that feminine maternal instinct in him from being a nurse.

- Big MO, dedicated father and lover of Allah.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on March 14, 2023, 06:10:31 AM
 ;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.

Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on March 14, 2023, 06:14:20 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.


Damn the proud daddy!!

Congrats Milt.....you`ve both been blesssd my friend.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Gym Rat on March 14, 2023, 06:15:39 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.

Congrats to all of you Wiggs!!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on March 14, 2023, 06:26:45 AM
Damn the proud daddy!!

Congrats Milt.....you`ve both been blesssd my friend.

Congrats to all of you Wiggs!!

Thanks fellas! 😎
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: robcguns on March 14, 2023, 06:34:48 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.

Congrats wiggs. Enjoy it. Life blows by.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on March 14, 2023, 06:40:21 AM
Congrats wiggs. Enjoy it. Life blows by.

Thanks man, I'm cherishing every moment.  8)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Raymondo on March 14, 2023, 06:46:03 AM
Thanks man, I'm cherishing every moment.  8)

I haven't posted in a long time, but I just wanted to say congrats!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Andy Griffin on March 14, 2023, 06:49:01 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.

Well done, sir.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on March 14, 2023, 07:43:40 AM
I haven't posted in a long time, but I just wanted to say congrats!
DUDE!!!

How` ya` been?

Good to see you.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: ElPolloSalmonello on March 14, 2023, 08:24:30 AM
Enjoy Wiggs
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: BlackMetallic on March 14, 2023, 08:31:24 AM
It’s because modern women have no value..they are too career focused to be valuable to anyone who isn’t using them.

Bench

Womyn initiate divorce 70% of the time

Womyn who are college educated initiate divorce 90% of the time
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Kwon on March 14, 2023, 08:33:04 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.

Grats Wiggums!


Happy for ya!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Raymondo on March 14, 2023, 08:42:19 AM
DUDE!!!

How` ya` been?

Good to see you.

How you doing bro, good to see you too

I was in Dubai, India for a few years, they finally let me out :)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on March 14, 2023, 08:58:30 AM
How you doing bro, good to see you too

I was in Dubai, India for a few years, they finally let me out :)
I`m doing great, thanks buddy!

Too bad I didn`t bump into you in Dubia.....I`m usually on several business trips there per year! :D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Henda on March 14, 2023, 09:16:17 AM
;)
Daddy Wiggy 8)
Such an amazing feeling. She'll be 3 weeks this week.



That’s awesome wiggs congratulations mate cherish those early years they are amazing yet go by so fast mate
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: njflex on March 14, 2023, 09:29:47 AM
WIGGDADDY,,,,,CONGRATS MAN,,,,I HAVE A 17  'DADDY GIRL'AND 13 YR OLD DAUGHTER'WHO IS A TERROR'CURRENTLY...
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Dave D on March 14, 2023, 09:36:51 AM
Congratulations Wiggs!

Welcome to fatherhood!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Primemuscle on March 14, 2023, 02:58:03 PM
Maybe I am just luckier than some other folks, but my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren have enriched my life tremendously. No regrets!
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: deadz on March 14, 2023, 02:59:57 PM
Maybe I am just luckier than some other folks, but my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren have enriched my life tremendously. No regrets!
Undoubtedly, the luckiest man alive (for the moment)!
 ::) ::)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: lordantonius on March 14, 2023, 03:00:18 PM
I just got my wife pregnant we are on week 7. I will make a thread another time detailing how I got off gear to conceive, but its been a journey. Girl or boy, I am going to be blessed either way. Reading your replies were all moving.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: wes on March 14, 2023, 03:17:58 PM
I just got my wife pregnant we are on week 7. I will make a thread another time detailing how I got off gear to conceive, but its been a journey. Girl or boy, I am going to be blessed either way. Reading your replies were all moving.
Congrats brother!  :)
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: GymnJuice on March 14, 2023, 03:20:55 PM
I just got my wife pregnant we are on week 7. I will make a thread another time detailing how I got off gear to conceive, but its been a journey. Girl or boy, I am going to be blessed either way. Reading your replies were all moving.

Maybe you should up the dose bro  ;D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Raymondo on March 14, 2023, 04:18:21 PM
I`m doing great, thanks buddy!

Too bad I didn`t bump into you in Dubia.....I`m usually on several business trips there per year! :D

I saw you talking to a blonde plastic looking whore with fake big tits once. She was saying something about chillidogging, it was clearly a private matter and I didn't want to bother you  :D ;D :D
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: The Scott on March 14, 2023, 04:59:19 PM
Congratulations Wiggs!  I am so very happy for you and your wife.  The birth of a child is the greatest present a husband and wife can give one another. 

Truly, the Lord has made His face to shine upon you both.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on March 14, 2023, 08:31:26 PM
Congratulations Wiggs!  I am so very happy for you and your wife.  The birth of a child is the greatest present a husband and wife can give one another. 

Truly, the Lord has made His face to shine upon you both.

Thanks Scott and thank you all for the kind words. I am indeed blessed. I've been through one helluva journey to get to this point and I truly feel complete as I always wanted children. We're looking forward to this journey as parents and know it will be an fascinating and enlighten ride.
Title: Re: Are any of you fathers to daughters?
Post by: Wiggs on March 14, 2023, 08:32:20 PM
I haven't posted in a long time, but I just wanted to say congrats!

Thanks man, long time. Hope all is well.