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Title: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: loco on January 13, 2023, 06:27:12 AM
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: SweetDaddySiki on January 13, 2023, 06:34:40 AM
I don't get that Jordan Peterson guy. I've never read any of his stuff or listened to his Rogan podcasts. Maybe it's cause he's Canadian and has that stupid Canadian girly accent like Greg Doucette or whatever his name is. I've rather hear some goober playing the violin than listen to that accent.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: joswift on January 13, 2023, 06:36:11 AM
the reason for Jordans bouts of severe depression is he cares too much what people think about him...
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: IroNat on January 13, 2023, 07:14:14 AM
Self-help people...blah...blah...b lah...

They are the most screwed up people themselves.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Walter Sobchak on January 13, 2023, 07:32:56 AM
When you are obsessed with what people think about you…
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Tapeworm on January 13, 2023, 07:45:56 AM
It's easy to throw darts at Peterson but I can't hate on him. His resistance to the compelled speech requirements of the Canadian government, when he was an anonymous professor with his career under threat... that was courageous.

Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dave D on January 13, 2023, 07:46:40 AM
I’d listen to this but I’m afraid of what people will think if they find out I used Peterson’s advice for self help.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Tapeworm on January 13, 2023, 07:54:36 AM
I’d listen to this but I’m afraid of what people will think if they find out I used Peterson’s advice for self help.

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Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Thin Lizzy on January 13, 2023, 07:54:53 AM
It's easy to throw darts at Peterson but I can't hate on him. His resistance to the compelled speech requirements of the Canadian government, when he was an anonymous professor with his career under threat... that was courageous.

I don’t hate him. I just find that, like most Professors, he goes on and on and never knows when to STFU.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Tapeworm on January 13, 2023, 08:28:12 AM
I don’t hate him. I just find that, like most Professors, he goes on and on and never knows when to STFU.

Fair call. But unlike most academics he risked personal consequences and didn't quietly comply.

No way a majority of professors believe that making everyone use made up pronouns like xir is a good idea, and yet nobody else came forward to say no you don't get to make that a law, or it's wrong to compel speech in general, or anything.

All those brains and no fucking balls. It's why people rightly mistrust the intelligentsia. With very few exceptions, they're self serving, spineless, and not to be counted on in a pinch.

Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: residue on January 13, 2023, 08:36:07 AM
I love jordan peterson, when I have to make an argument that gender is a spectrum he's the perfect example of the sissy end. 
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Wayne Tracker on January 13, 2023, 09:31:26 AM
Apparently he's considered the hero of incels and will even get all weepy when asked about it

eature=share
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dave D on January 13, 2023, 10:02:07 AM
Apparently he's considered the hero of incels and will even get all weepy when asked about it

eature=share

Interesting.  I didnt realize he was ruined.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Wayne Tracker on January 13, 2023, 10:17:00 AM
Interesting.  I didnt realize he was ruined.

Incels haven't gotten the memo yet

I'm sure you'll receive it soon
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Matt on January 13, 2023, 10:35:24 AM
Fair call. But unlike most academics he risked personal consequences and didn't quietly comply.

No way a majority of professors believe that making everyone use made up pronouns like xir is a good idea, and yet nobody else came forward to say no you don't get to make that a law, or it's wrong to compel speech in general, or anything.

All those brains and no fucking balls. It's why people rightly mistrust the intelligentsia. With very few exceptions, they're self serving, spineless, and not to be counted on in a pinch.

Exactly. Absolute cowards. In fairness, most people are.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: pamith on January 13, 2023, 10:40:52 PM
tbh we don't gaf what people think
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Humble Narcissist on January 15, 2023, 12:37:47 AM
tbh we don't gaf what people think
True. Just being on this forum means we don't care what people think. Most modern day people would be traumatized just reading the thread titles on Getbig.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Kwon_2 on January 15, 2023, 01:08:16 AM
I think Jordan is great , always has

A good human being
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dave D on January 15, 2023, 01:58:29 AM
Incels haven't gotten the memo yet

I'm sure you'll receive it soon

Oh.

So how did you get the memo so soon?

You must really be tied into the cancel culture network.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dokey111 on January 15, 2023, 05:45:47 AM
tbh we don't gaf what people think

THIS

Jesus why worry what people think about you, NO ONE THINKS ABOUT YOU
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: wes on January 15, 2023, 05:50:35 AM
The older you get,the more you don`t give a rats about "being liked"........unless your`re Hanky, and how could anyone actually truly like him being the prick that he is?
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: CT_Muscle on January 15, 2023, 06:17:46 AM
I NEVER understood why anyone would give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of them  ??? ??? ???

Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: wes on January 15, 2023, 06:23:33 AM
I NEVER understood why anyone would give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of them  ??? ??? ???
Exactly,I don`t think I`d lose too much sleep over it.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: ROBOAK on January 15, 2023, 06:44:51 AM
Jordan Peterson is controlled opposition/pied pipper/ frog boiler,    on one hand he's anti-mrna/spike protein Inoculation then on the other he's pro gun control.....

He's a snake, he's the Canadian Ben Shapiro
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: joswift on January 15, 2023, 07:25:49 AM
I NEVER understood why anyone would give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of them  ??? ??? ???

pretty much everyone who lifts weights cares what other people thinks about them..
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on January 15, 2023, 07:47:16 AM
I don't get that Jordan Peterson guy. I've never read any of his stuff or listened to his Rogan podcasts. Maybe it's cause he's Canadian and has that stupid Canadian girly accent like Greg Doucette or whatever his name is. I've rather hear some goober playing the violin than listen to that accent.

he sounds like Kermit the Frog ;D
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Fallsview on January 15, 2023, 08:05:32 AM
Goodmorrow,

Oh how stupid the insecure are.

So, lets get this right, people get anxiety because they don't want to be judged? They want to be perfect...or they need a therapist to prescribe some SSRI's for them and zone out?

So basically you want to be a psychopath?

1. You don't care what your spouse thinks about you? Sure should.

2. You don't care what your boss thinks about you? Sure should

3. You don't care what your friends think about you? Sure should

4. You don't care what that police officer thinks about you when he pulls you over? Sure should

5. You don't care what that bum thinks about you pushing that shopping cart? Nope

6. You don't care what that cashier bagging your boneless chicken breasts thinks about you? Nope

7. You don't care what that judge in traffic court thinks about you? Sure you do.

8. You don't care about the usher who's taking your movie stub thinks about you? Nope.

The truth is, yes you should care about what certain people think about you...because IT WILL EFFECT YOUR LIFE IN SOME WAY.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dave D on January 15, 2023, 08:18:59 AM
Goodmorrow,

Oh how stupid the insecure are.

So, lets get this right, people get anxiety because they don't want to be judged? They want to be perfect...or they need a therapist to prescribe some SSRI's for them and zone out?

So basically you want to be a psychopath?

1. You don't care what your spouse thinks about you? Sure should.

2. You don't care what your boss thinks about you? Sure should

3. You don't care what your friends think about you? Sure should

4. You don't care what that police officer thinks about you when he pulls you over? Sure should

5. You don't care what that bum thinks about you pushing that shopping cart? Nope

6. You don't care what that cashier bagging your boneless chicken breasts thinks about you? Nope

7. You don't care what that judge in traffic court thinks about you? Sure you do.

8. You don't care about the usher who's taking your movie stub thinks about you? Nope.

The truth is, yes you should care about what certain people think about you...because IT WILL EFFECT YOUR LIFE IN SOME WAY.

Great insightful post! I’m 100% certain Peterson was saying a person should not care what anyone thinks of, regardless of title or position. What a dope.

pretty much everyone who lifts weights cares what other people thinks about them..

It’s a good thing most here don’t work out.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: deadz on January 15, 2023, 01:58:35 PM
pretty much everyone who lifts weights cares what other people thinks about them..
Not every lifter. I lift for me and me only.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: joswift on January 15, 2023, 02:47:52 PM
Not every lifter. I lift for me and me only.

when you get dresed in the morning do you turn out smart or scruffy

If you take pride in your appearance you care what others think about you.

Everyone cares what other people think or they would never make it in society
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: deadz on January 15, 2023, 02:56:33 PM
when you get dresed in the morning do you turn out smart or scruffy

If you take pride in your appearance you care what others think about you.

Everyone cares what other people think or they would never make it in society
Probably the case for most. I take care of myself because I care about how I look for me not others.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: joswift on January 15, 2023, 03:07:32 PM
Probably the case for most. I take care of myself because I care about how I look for me not others.

You just dont get it

Did you dress up for your dates just for you or did you think about looking nice for the girls you met so you made a good impression on them?
Did you wear deodorant, aftershave, did you shower?

Did you throw on a sweatsuit do go to a job interview?
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Dave D on January 15, 2023, 03:09:26 PM
You just dont get it

Did you dress up for your dates just for you or did you think about looking nice for the girls you met so you made a good impression on them?
Did you wear deodorant, aftershave, did you shower?

Did you throw on a sweatsuit do go to a job interview?

He does all this because he only cares what he thinks about himself. I’m sure he regularly dressses to the nines when he’s lounging around the house.

That’s just how he rolls.
Title: Re: The Simple Way to STOP Caring About What Others Think of You
Post by: Humble Narcissist on January 16, 2023, 12:53:50 AM
pretty much everyone who lifts weights cares what other people thinks about them..
Good point.