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Infidelity by a wife should result in an automatic divorce.
I don’t blame a man for not wanting to get with his wife after discovering such a betrayal.
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Touch me.. she can get the boot from me. Fuck cheating whores!
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Infidelity by a wife should result in an automatic divorce.
I don’t blame a man for not wanting to get with his wife after discovering such a betrayal.
This.
Touch me.. she can get the boot from me. Fuck cheating whores!
And this.
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Need pics.
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No self respecting man should give a second chance to a cheating whore, the moment that happens, she gets dropped like an old habit.
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that's not Xfactor's wife cheating with his best man
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No self respecting man should give a second chance to a cheating whore, the moment that happens, she gets dropped like an old habit.
No doubt.
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No doubt.
maybe she was faded?
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if he dicked her down better, she wouldnt have cheated.
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Infidelity by a wife should result in an automatic divorce.
I don’t blame a man for not wanting to get with his wife after discovering such a betrayal.
After a man is cucked, the wife must be chucked.
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Infidelity by a wife should result in an automatic divorce.
I don’t blame a man for not wanting to get with his wife after discovering such a betrayal.
You're not into sloppy seconds? Sometimes it can be hot knowing you're fucking a whore and it becomes a hate fuck.
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that's not Xfactor's wife cheating with his best man
What does it say when the best choice you have for a best man is the guy who has been screwing your bride to be for the past three years ?
CuckFactor !
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Its far worse for a partner to maintain a secret non sexual relationship from the other than a one night stand
Men tend to have a "the vagina is my property" outlook in a relationship
If you love your partner and they love you they wont stray
I also dont understand why men or women get upset when their partners stray
Fucks sake she/he doesnt think that much of you if they are willing to stray so why waste any energy over it?
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Its far worse for a partner to maintain a secret non sexual relationship from the other than a one night stand
Men tend to have a "the vagina is my property" outlook in a relationship
If you love your partner and they love you they wont stray
I also dont understand why men or women get upset when their partners stray
Fucks sake she/he doesnt think that much of you if they are willing to stray so why waste any energy over it?
People get really emotional over sex.
Free love, baby.
Everybody should swing.
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if he dicked her down better, she wouldnt have cheated.
I think this is often the case. Not always, but probably the majority of infidelity is due to the other person failing to meet their partner’s needs. Goes for women too, if they aren’t satisfying their husband what do they think is going to happen?
I also dont understand why men or women get upset when their partners stray
Fucks sake she/he doesnt think that much of you if they are willing to stray so why waste any energy over it?
They think that they are doing everything right, and that the other person has no right to complain. Successful long term relationships take work
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If you love your partner and they love you they wont stray
Probably one of the worst misconceptions about adultery EVER.
Love has as much to do with infidelity as a car radio has with the car going faster.
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No self respecting man should give a second chance to a cheating whore, the moment that happens, she gets dropped like an old habit.
Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
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Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
pssst.. she doesnt belong to you
Its not about power....
You are incredibly insecure
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Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
Seems like a lot of effort and rules. As a getbigger if she strays you can easily trade her in for a newer model so why worry about hypotheticals?
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pssst.. she doesnt belong to you
Its not about power....
You are incredibly insecure
My wife cost me 7 cattle and a 2 year commitment to provide a suitable farmhand, I have receipts for everything so I will disagree about not owning her.
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pssst.. she doesnt belong to you
Its not about power....
You are incredibly insecure
Happily married for 20+ years.
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Seems like a lot of effort and rules. As a getbigger if she strays you can easily trade her in for a newer model so why worry about hypotheticals?
It's really not. It sounds like it's a lot of effort but once you start paying attention you'll know when to drop everything and start paying attention and when not to.
Women LOVE to be chased, when you get jealous of another guy, when you tell them no once in a while, et cetera.
I don't understand the white knight behavior... letting their women go out and put themselves in positions were infidelity can and usually happens and then act like they really didn't know. It ain't even white knight-ish, it's cuckhold-ish.
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Happily married for 20+ years.
I wonder if she is
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I wonder if she is
Don't worry, I got her.
You worry about yours.
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Don't worry, I got her.
You worry about yours.
;D
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Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
Sounds like a healthy relationship filled with trust and mutual respect :-X
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My wife never cheated and I don’t let her touch me
Bench
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I think this is often the case. Not always, but probably the majority of infidelity is due to the other person failing to meet their partner’s needs. Goes for women too, if they aren’t satisfying their husband what do they think is going to happen?
They think that they are doing everything right, and that the other person has no right to complain. Successful long term relationships take work
Every 40+ woman I’ve ever fucked(who’ve all been cheating) has the same story.
Had a kid or 2, maybe put on some weight, husband stoped seeing them as desirable, stopped fucking her, started to see her only as a mom.
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Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
Geez. That’s dark.
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Exactly.
There's really not much one can do about her infidelity but there are things a man can do to minimize the possibility of it taking place: 1) she must know you are checking up on her, 2) you must check her phone once in a while without her knowledge, 3) no girl's nigh out or vacations with the girls, 4) you must visit her at work at random times, 5) you have to LISTEN to what she says to you about people (women tend to telegraph the fact that another man is in her head,) 6) you must attend work related events with her so that you can gauge any potential shenanigans, 7) any flirting from another man has to be quickly shut down by confronting the man on the side and promising real pain if the flirting continues, 8) you MUST communicate your boundaries often and what you expect of her as a wife/girlfriend and 9) try to get to know people she works with, preferably those that barely engage with her, and establish a line of communication so that if they were ever to see something weird (like her going for a coffee/lunch break or drinks after work daily ONLY with 24 year old Brad Thundercock from accounting) they would let you know immediately.
If you let your lady roam free, there is a very high probability she is going to cheat on you.
Ah, before I forget, the mere mention of her ex should elicit a very strong response from you. Bringing him up not only means that 1) he is still in her head, 2) he is trying to reconnect and 3) there's a very high probability she is sexually active with him. The % of cheating that takes place with exes is OBSCENE. Women tend to start relationships without properly letting go of their exes and the lingering feelings are seldom properly dealt with. That's why it's also a great idea to DNA the kids for paternity.
If you had wrote 10) beat the shit out of her on a regular basis
that is pretty much how hankins sees relationships
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Every 40+ woman I’ve ever fucked(who’ve all been cheating) has the same story.
Had a kid or 2, maybe put on some weight, husband stoped seeing them as desirable, stopped fucking her, started to see her only as a mom.
Glad your mom let you know about all tbat.
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Every 40+ woman I’ve ever fucked(who’ve all been cheating) has the same story.
Had a kid or 2, maybe put on some weight, husband stoped seeing them as desirable, stopped fucking her, started to see her only as a mom.
Typical scumbag behavior. No wonder you stick up for the black kids.
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Typical scumbag behavior. No wonder you stick up for the black kids.
Fuck your girl proper, or ima do it for you
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Fuck your girl proper, or ima do it for you
Well you being a pussy eventually you will get your head caved in. Once again typical scumbag. I don’t like you one bit and I will gladly put up 5k cash says I beat your ass inside 2 minutes. I will then piss on your face as well.
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Well you being a pussy eventually you will get your head caved in. Once again typical scumbag. I don’t like you one bit and I will gladly put up 5k cash says I beat your ass inside 2 minutes. I will then piss on your face as well.
gay, why you trying to give a dude a golden shower
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gay, why you trying to give a dude a golden shower
Now the fuck makes me laugh.
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After a man is cucked, the wife must be chucked.
Hahahahahahahaha!
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Well, you being a pussy, eventually you will get your head caved in. Once again typical scumbag. I don’t like you one bit and I will gladly put up 5k … says I beat your ass inside two minutes. I will then piss on your face, as well.
Now we’re talking!
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Fuck your girl proper, or ima do it for you
Yet another expression from Black Speech, just like the "y'all's time is over"
No wonder you stick up for the black kids
You ARE black
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Fuck your girl proper, or ima do it for you
You remind me of someone I once picked up and smashed into a brick wall. Everyone thanked me too.
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Fuck your girl proper, or ima do it for you
The ebonics is strong with this one. :D
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If you had wrote 10) beat the shit out of her on a regular basis
that is pretty much how hankins sees relationships
Straw man.
A man with boundaries is a strong man.
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Geez. That’s dark.
How?
So... you enter a marital contract sanctioned by the government, for which 80% of all divorces are commenced by one of the sexes (females,) out of which one gender (females) tend to come out of with 55-65% of all marital assets (even if she doesn't work,) most often due to infidelity and you and people like you recommend you enter it thinking that giving her a foot massage and letting her condescendingly treat you like a 5 year old is going to prevent her from straying? LOL, ok. You should ALWAYS enter a marital contract knowing that it can come to an end at any point, regardless of your input.
Like I said in previous post, I had the misfortune of losing someone close to me due to infidelity (he committed suicide because he found his wife in bed with two other men). That got me to go into infidelity forums and became sort of a "keyboard expert" on the subject.
What I've learned is that 1) women now commit infidelity at much higher rates than men, 2) they commence divorce proceedings 80% of the time, 3) upwards of 7% of all married females get pregnant by the ex or any other male and then dump the child on an unsuspecting man (hence it is of utmost importance that you DNA your children for paternity at all times,) 4) most female infidelity cases (estimates of upwards of 75%-80% of all cases) are NEVER found out, 5) most females keep orbiters around even during marriage and actively recruit other men during the marriage, 6) a rather large % of these orbiters get promoted to "friends with benefits" sooner or later, 7) more than 70% of all infidelity cases are found out by the other wife and reported to the husband by the other wife (because men SUCK at sensing the cheating red flags) and 8) if you married a woman with a personality within the narcissist spectrum, she WILL cheat. Sorry.
What I recommend men do is 1) set up strong boundaries, 2) NEVER walk back on a boundary, 3) enforce the boundaries at all times, 4) PAY ATTENTION. You have to start checking the phone when your gut tells you something isn't right. Don't get me wrong, you MUST treat your wife with dignity, respect and love, but once she starts doing things that directly contradict adherence to the vows, EARS OPEN/MOUTH SHUT.
If you're half smart and find out your wife is straying, knowing what to do can get you a MUCH MORE favorable divorce settlement. Cheaters hate it when you break the news to anyone, so using the cheating as settlement leverage, especially if she's in The Affair Fog, can really work in your favor because at that point the ONLY thing she wants is for the affair to continue and you to move aside. Don't get me wrong, her world violently collapses when she eventually comes to terms (the dopamine receptors shut down) with what she did (and they ALWAYS try to come back,) but that's someone else's issue at that point.
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The ebonics is strong with this one. :D
"y'all's time is over"
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How?
So... you enter a marital contract sanctioned by the government, for which 80% of all divorces are commenced by one of the sexes (females,) out of which one gender (females) tend to come out of with 55-65% of all marital assets (even if she doesn't work,) most often due to infidelity and you and people like you recommend you enter it thinking that giving her a foot massage and letting her condescendingly treat you like a 5 year old is going to prevent her from straying? LOL, ok. You should ALWAYS enter a marital contract knowing that it can come to an end at any point, regardless of your input.
Like I said in previous post, I had the misfortune of losing someone close to me due to infidelity (he committed suicide because he found his wife in bed with two other men). That got me to go into infidelity forums and became sort of a "keyboard expert" on the subject.
What I've learned is that 1) women now commit infidelity at much higher rates than men, 2) they commence divorce proceedings 80% of the time, 3) upwards of 7% of all married females get pregnant by the ex or any other male and then dump the child on an unsuspecting man (hence it is of utmost importance that you DNA your children for paternity at all times,) 4) most female infidelity cases (estimates of upwards of 75%-80% of all cases) are NEVER found out, 5) most females keep orbiters around even during marriage and actively recruit other men during the marriage, 6) a rather large % of these orbiters get promoted to "friends with benefits" sooner or later, 7) more than 70% of all infidelity cases are found out by the other wife and reported to the husband by the other wife (because men SUCK at sensing the cheating red flags) and 8) if you married a women with a personality within the narcissist spectrum, she WILL cheat. Sorry.
What I recommend men do is 1) set up strong boundaries, 2) NEVER walk back on a boundary, 3) enforce the boundaries at all times, 4) PAY ATTENTION. You have to start checking the phone when your gut tells you something isn't right. Don't get me wrong, you MUST treat your wife with dignity, respect and love, but once she starts doing things that directly contradict adherence to the vows, EARS OPEN/MOUTH SHUT.
If you're half smart and find out your wife is straying, knowing what to do can get you a MUCH favorable divorce settlement. Cheaters hate it when you break the news to anyone, so using the cheating as leverage, especially if she's in The Affair Fog, can really work in your favor because at that point the ONLY thing she wants is for the affair to continue and you to move aside. Don't get me wrong, her world violently collapses when she eventually comes to terms (the dopamine receptors shut down) with what she did (and they ALWAYS try to come back,) but that's someone else's issue at that point.
People would treat each other better if they weren't locked into a marriage with all the financial ramifications of divorce.
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People would treat each other better if they weren't locked into a marriage with all the financial ramifications of divorce.
Absolutely agree. Problem is that, with the current family court system and divorce laws, females are literally enticed to divorce their husbands because it is of supreme benefit for them to do so?
Did you know that the single female home owner % is going exponential? 13% of all home owners are females, compared to 9% who are men. It was 11%/10% back in 1981. And the numbers are getting worst: 17% of all home buyers today are single females.
Now, we also know that women, as a group, make less money than men and tend to have less disposable income for things like home buying. Where do you think the surge comes from??? Yup, divorces. The correlation between the divorce rate increase and home ownership by single females is almost 1, meaning women are marrying AND DIVORCING their husbands just so that they can get the house. All courtesy of a family court system that deserves to be nuked to small pieces.
Wanna know why the pussy dries up even before the ink on the marriage certificate dries up? Yup, she's already thinking about divorce.
Sweet deal huh?
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People would treat each other better if they weren't locked into a marriage with all the financial ramifications of divorce.
Disagree, without that there’s no “skin in the game”
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After reading all this I just want to live on the side of a mountain far far away with my beard down to my balls. Fucking hell.
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You remind me of someone I once picked up and smashed into a brick wall. Everyone thanked me too.
Was that person your husband ?
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Free yourself from monogamy!
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Free yourself from monogamy!
I have no interest in this way of life, I just desire a stable love. The thought of another man being with my woman sickens me, I would also not do the same to her. If this is not possible the life of a celibate monk is preferable than to act lower than the beasts. Life is meant to be lived for the Divine Love to incarnate not live like demons.
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I have no interest in this way of life, I just desire a stable love. The thought of another man being with my woman sickens me, I would also not do the same to her. If this is not possible the life of a celibate monk is preferable than to act lower than the beasts. Life is meant to be lived for the Divine Love to incarnate not live like demons.
Agreed.
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I have no interest in this way of life, I just desire a stable love. The thought of another man being with my woman sickens me, I would also not do the same to her. If this is not possible the life of a celibate monk is preferable than to act lower than the beasts. Life is meant to be lived for the Divine Love to incarnate not live like demons.
Ro you say you don’t want monogamous relationship but then in the same sentence you say you do. A stable committed relationship is possible, as discussed here it requires work and effort.
Don’t invest in relationships that give you reason not to.
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Ro you say you don’t want monogamous relationship but then in the same sentence you say you do. A stable committed relationship is possible, as discussed here it requires work and effort.
Don’t invest in relationships that give you reason not to.
"I have no interest in this way of life" was in reply to the above comment "free yourself from monogamy"...meaning a swingers life.
You say not to invest in relationships that give reason not to but also say they require work and effort. If all was perfect, ie no bad reasons then no work and effort would be needed :)
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Free yourself from monogamy!
it is a prison
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it is a prison
It's hell but someone has to do it.
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"I have no interest in this way of life" was in reply to the above comment "free yourself from monogamy"...meaning a swingers life.
You say not to invest in relationships that give reason not to but also say they require work and effort. If all was perfect, ie no bad reasons then no work and effort would be needed :)
I’m sorry bro I completely misunderstood you comment in context. I’m dumb.
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Was that person your husband ?
Are you really this retarded? Apparently so.
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Free yourself from monogamy!
Most men are lucky to find one woman let alone multiples.
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Most men are lucky to find one woman let alone multiples.
Getbiggers are not "most men".
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Getbiggers are not "most men".
True, I forgot.
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This thread title is somewhat ironic. Turnabout is fair play. How often do we hear 'wife won't let husband touch her' after he got caught having an illicit affair?
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How?
So... you enter a marital contract sanctioned by the government, for which 80% of all divorces are commenced by one of the sexes (females,) out of which one gender (females) tend to come out of with 55-65% of all marital assets (even if she doesn't work,) most often due to infidelity and you and people like you recommend you enter it thinking that giving her a foot massage and letting her condescendingly treat you like a 5 year old is going to prevent her from straying? LOL, ok. You should ALWAYS enter a marital contract knowing that it can come to an end at any point, regardless of your input.
Like I said in previous post, I had the misfortune of losing someone close to me due to infidelity (he committed suicide because he found his wife in bed with two other men). That got me to go into infidelity forums and became sort of a "keyboard expert" on the subject.
What I've learned is that 1) women now commit infidelity at much higher rates than men, 2) they commence divorce proceedings 80% of the time, 3) upwards of 7% of all married females get pregnant by the ex or any other male and then dump the child on an unsuspecting man (hence it is of utmost importance that you DNA your children for paternity at all times,) 4) most female infidelity cases (estimates of upwards of 75%-80% of all cases) are NEVER found out, 5) most females keep orbiters around even during marriage and actively recruit other men during the marriage, 6) a rather large % of these orbiters get promoted to "friends with benefits" sooner or later, 7) more than 70% of all infidelity cases are found out by the other wife and reported to the husband by the other wife (because men SUCK at sensing the cheating red flags) and 8) if you married a woman with a personality within the narcissist spectrum, she WILL cheat. Sorry.
What I recommend men do is 1) set up strong boundaries, 2) NEVER walk back on a boundary, 3) enforce the boundaries at all times, 4) PAY ATTENTION. You have to start checking the phone when your gut tells you something isn't right. Don't get me wrong, you MUST treat your wife with dignity, respect and love, but once she starts doing things that directly contradict adherence to the vows, EARS OPEN/MOUTH SHUT.
If you're half smart and find out your wife is straying, knowing what to do can get you a MUCH MORE favorable divorce settlement. Cheaters hate it when you break the news to anyone, so using the cheating as settlement leverage, especially if she's in The Affair Fog, can really work in your favor because at that point the ONLY thing she wants is for the affair to continue and you to move aside. Don't get me wrong, her world violently collapses when she eventually comes to terms (the dopamine receptors shut down) with what she did (and they ALWAYS try to come back,) but that's someone else's issue at that point.
Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didn't have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they interact with others for the rest of their life. They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exaggeratly for attention (Hello Goodrum), and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They're insecure because they're girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunately they can get as big as they can but it doesn't cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They're not as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they don't know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back through various manly activities (MMA, cars, weight lifting etc.).
They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males, will go the steroids route to get even "bigger", attempting to cure their insecurity, but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didn't have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
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This thread title is somewhat ironic. Turnabout is fair play. How often do we hear 'wife won't let husband touch her' after he got caught having an illicit affair?
Do tell.