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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: IroNat on July 31, 2023, 08:39:21 AM
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Yikes!
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I’m not gonna watch it, but I believe the definitive statement on the subject was made by Getbigger, Quickerblade.
“Why should I take care of someone else’s Cumshot?”
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More than half (51.2%) of African American children lived with a single parent in 2022, compared
with about one in five (21.3%) of white American children. Black women are more likely to become
single mothers and less likely to become married. 72% of black mothers are single and unwed.
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I’m not gonna watch it, but I believe the definitive statement on the subject was made by Getbigger, Quickerblade.
“Why should I take care of someone else’s Cumshot?”
Bianca bhanky is up for the job he loves being a cuckold dad.
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More than half (51.2%) of African American children lived with a single parent in 2022, compared
with about one in five (21.3%) of white American children. Black women are more likely to become
single mothers and less likely to become married. 72% of black mothers are single and unwed because they are fucking horrible
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Was just gonna ask why there was such a high number
Why arent dudes marrying them?
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Was just gonna ask why there was such a high number
Why arent dudes marrying them?
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Was just gonna ask why there was such a high number
Why arent dudes marrying them?
Black dudes can't put up with black women's shit either. That's why.
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Was just gonna ask why there was such a high number
Why arent dudes marrying them?
They are more manly than the average lib Getbigger.
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“Fathering another man’s child”
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahaha!
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Was just gonna ask why there was such a high number
Why arent dudes marrying them?
Would you ??
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Married but even if I wasn't I would never date a single mom. I'd leave those for the stragglers.
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
It depends upon how and by whom, they are raised. I have two children and they are both Conservative Christians who do their best to live both their faith and their politics. From the moment I found out my wife was pregnant I have been both thrilled and proud to be their father.
If I were some ghetto-rat I would have a shit-ton of turdlings as soon as I hit puberty and there is no doubt that given the prevailing attitude of the majority of black manlettes I probably would have wound up mating with my own offspring and passing on more retarded DNA than that of any group outside white trash hillbillies.
The advantages are that I love my children and they love me. They will in turn pass on my Teutonic DNA so that Earth has a future instead of failure.
Personally, I would think someone somewhere has discovered a chemical combination to put in the waters of states known for inbreeding and genetically code it to render the trash of many colors STERILE and IMPOTENT.
Shit, if you just tell many of these filthy fuques that you would like to give them, at no charge to them, something that will make them sterile and impotent they'll "think" they're going to get a shower and a new suit fo' free!
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Would you ??
NO!
Definitely not!
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Even men who date single moms feel ashamed deep down. It's how we are wired. Cuckoldry is for weak individuals who can not father their own children and for the sake of getting some pu55y and the feeling of "love" need to make a compromise.
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Non marital sex and general lack of morals is the downfall of west combined with contraception and killing your offspring...
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Non marital sex and general lack of morals is the downfall of west combined with contraception and killing your offspring...
True, societal needs should be prioritized over individual needs.
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
I have never regretted not having kids for even 1 second.
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The joy I get from having my kids and watching them grow is immense.
And if I'm lucky, I'll get grandchildren one day.
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
Ask your mom.
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The joy I get from having my kids and watching them grow is immense.
And if I'm lucky, I'll get grandchildren one day.
beta
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Find a nice unmarried girl under 30 with 3 kids from 3 different men and settle down.
You'll never be happier.
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I'm never having kids. Fuck that. The second I hear someone's kid crying in public, I get the hell out of there. It's impossible to find peace and quiet anywhere these days.
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I'm never having kids. Fuck that. The second I hear someone's kid crying in public, I get the hell out of there. It's impossible to find peace and quiet anywhere these days.
It's completely different when it's your own kid.
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.
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My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.
Very nice to hear your positive interactions with your son.
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It's completely different when it's your own kid.
I know. I've volunteered with the feral ones in my city before, hoping to prevent them from turning into adult monsters, and I have nephews I spend a lot of time with. I just think it's a doomed endeavour, though. Yes, biology will kick in and it might improve my life, and I could reasonably argue that if I do a good job, it might improve the lives of others. But taking everything into consideration, I'm not convinced it's really in the child's interest to be brought into this world. I'll leave mindless reproduction to the lower species.
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My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.
he sounds a fucking pain in the ass
Get him some friends his own age, you only have a year left before hes fucked for life
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I'm never having kids. Fuck that. The second I hear someone's kid crying in public, I get the hell out of there. It's impossible to find peace and quiet anywhere these days.
My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything). Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...
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My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything). Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...
My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up
Kids dont have any boundaries
My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"
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My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything). Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...
For the most part, I agree, and good parenting is vital, but you could still end up with a nutcase like Hankins or a potato like Pamith just by accident of birth. It's all one big roll of the dice. Even if successful in raising a promising young kid, unless you're rich and can afford elite private schooling, you either hide them away from the world and risk stunting their development, or you have to send them to interact with the rest of society and hope they don't end up being stabbed to death aged 13 by some fucking street rat in Nikes and a hoodie.
The enormity of the task is too much for me. I'm certainly not saying people are wrong to have kids or to want to enrich their lives in that way, but I don't think it's the right thing for me based on my own incomplete moralizing and in recognition of my personality probably not being suited to it.
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My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.
You hold your sons hand for hours while you post here?
Dude I’m sure you spend time with you son but what you think it is and what really takes place is the equivalent of your world record being set.
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For the most part, I agree, and good parenting is vital, but you could still end up with a nutcase like Hankins or a potato like Pamith just by accident of birth. It's all one big roll of the dice. Even if successful in raising a promising young kid, unless you're rich and can afford elite private schooling, you either hide them away from the world and risk stunting their development, or you have to send them to interact with the rest of society and hope they don't end up being stabbed to death aged 13 by some fucking street rat in Nikes and a hoodie.
The enormity of the task is too much for me. I'm certainly not saying people are wrong to have kids or to want to enrich their lives in that way, but I don't think it's the right thing for me based on my own incomplete moralizing and in recognition of my personality probably not being suited to it.
Yup, you never know what comes out of the "ball batter / egg concoction", roll of the dice.
Luckily we live in the 95% white suburubs of NH, not much crime around here. Basically ZERO joggers where I am..
Its lovely... And the few who live here are great and well off/hard workers... (Normal people)..
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
Happy to have a son to carry on my name and also receive what I’ve worked for when I’m dead. People with two and three children are NUTS!
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My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up
Kids dont have any boundaries
My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"
I don't have kids but I notice this with my friends' children. Like at restaurants they'll bring a fucking board game or something (probably because the kid won't leave the house without a promise of playing with something) and they invariably make a mess and a scene with it.
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It’s crazy that children don’t act like adults.
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My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.
things that never happened
I havent fallen out with my son, we just have a mutal agreement we dont hang around with each other.
You on the other hand stole your dads money and touched up your brothers kids...
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My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up
Kids dont have any boundaries
My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"
That's because our parents could slap/spank us or belt us in the 60s and 70s
Parents can't do that today (unless they are Chimpions)
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I cant stand kids
Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you
You might be happier without them, but you’ll never have as much joy as you do with them. Hard to explain.
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You might be happier without them, but you’ll never have as much joy as you do with them. Hard to explain.
I have one, I also have 2 grandchildren
Never been a big fan of Joy.
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I have one, I also have 2 grandchildren
Never been a big fan of Joy.
LMAO, alrighty then. ;D
It wasn’t two children, originally, was it?
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True, societal needs should be prioritized over individual needs.
In end, you don`t have a stable society if it is not based on family because it follows the natural order of things designed by God.
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You want kids especially a son so they can grow up to be an IFBB pro bber, nothing is more prestigious than having a pro card
My daughter will compete in bikini
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Find a nice unmarried girl under 30 with 3 kids from 3 different men and settle down.
You'll never be happier.
:D Only a real strong man would do that.
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A son who is an IFBB schmoe and a daughter who is an Only Fans star would be the ideal.
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LMAO, alrighty then. ;D
It wasn’t two children, originally, was it?
No, my wife has a son same age as mine but I dont count him...
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I've dated a single mom, I was in a unique situation, all she wanted literally was to fuck my brains out, she was fresh out of a horrible marriage, was on a rebound and was horny. I never once went to her house, I never met her kids, basically I was there to just get her MOJO back, this went on for a few months and eventually I moved to Vegas. She was there to see me off, I was with my buddy, he was at my house helping load up my uhaul trailer, I'm inside the trailer moving stuff around, I just hear him say "who the fuck is that" I peek out of the trailer door and it's her, she was smoking hot and rich by the way she pulled up in her SL 500 Mercedes convertible. She comes and hugs, me shes crying a little saying "I don't want you to go" I look over at my buddy he's just smiling shaking his head at me. Anyway that was a unique situation, but in general dating a single mom would likely be extremely difficult
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I've dated a single mom, I was in a unique situation, all she wanted literally was to fuck my brains out, she was fresh out of a horrible marriage, was on a rebound and was horny. I never once went to her house, I never met her kids, basically I was there to just get her MOJO back, this went on for a few months and eventually I moved to Vegas. She was there to see me off, I was with my buddy, he was at my house helping load up my uhaul trailer, I'm inside the trailer moving stuff around, I just hear him say "who the fuck is that" I peek out of the trailer door and it's her, she was smoking hot and rich by the way she pulled up in her SL 500 Mercedes convertible. She comes and hugs, me shes crying a little saying "I don't want you to go" I look over at my buddy he's just smiling shaking his head at me. Anyway that was a unique situation, but in general dating a single mom would likely be extremely difficult
I bet your buddy fucked her brains out
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I've dated a single mom, I was in a unique situation, all she wanted literally was to fuck my brains out, she was fresh out of a horrible marriage, was on a rebound and was horny. I never once went to her house, I never met her kids, basically I was there to just get her MOJO back, this went on for a few months and eventually I moved to Vegas. She was there to see me off, I was with my buddy, he was at my house helping load up my uhaul trailer, I'm inside the trailer moving stuff around, I just hear him say "who the fuck is that" I peek out of the trailer door and it's her, she was smoking hot and rich by the way she pulled up in her SL 500 Mercedes convertible. She comes and hugs, me shes crying a little saying "I don't want you to go" I look over at my buddy he's just smiling shaking his head at me. Anyway that was a unique situation, but in general dating a single mom would likely be extremely difficult
You DO realize you were not the only guy having sex with that woman right? There you are, thinking you're Chad Thundercock and the MILF had you and most likely 5 or 6 other dudes on her pussy regimen. You guys probably did not know of the existence of the others.
Just so that you know, a lady NEVER taking you to her home or places that she frequents means she does not want you to know of the existence of the other men. She was probably using the kids to throw you off the scent too.
I would get myself checked for STDs if I were you.
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I know of a single mother story from my old neighborhood: My buddy gets divorced from his wife but the divorce is completely amicable so they both decide to live in the same house until their last kid goes off to college. One day, out of the blue, while he's working from home, my buddy gets a visit from the cops. They're there to find out why a car that is registered under his name had just been seen leaving the scene of an attempted murder scene.
What basically happened was that the single mother of 3 (the ex wife) had turned into a sex maniac and was having sex (meanwhile, she lived a sexless marriage when married to my buddy) and dating anyone with a pulse. One day, she decides to meet guy #1 at a restaurant. At the same time, guy #2 finds out he's got an incurable STD from her and goes on a hunting expedition. Eventually he finds the restaurant and gives guy #1 the beating of his life, stabbing him multiple times with a fork (he almost bled to death). Ex wife, who's still driving her ex's car, decides to elope the scene, gets in the car and leaves, but the restaurant parking lot has a CCTV camera so she got busted.
When the dust settled, my buddy found out his ex was literally dating 5 different dudes, 3 of them in different states. And having sex with all of them, sometimes with two or three men in one day.
Moral of the story: be careful what you put your dick into.
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Excellent stories.^
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I’m married with a younger wife and I’m probably going to have kids some day soon possibly.
Both my wife and I aren’t exactly enthused to have kids, but we’re afraid we could regret it later.
I have experience helping raise kids when I was a teen and I understand it’s a bitch.
Even raising dogs can be tiring and stressful at times; a good amount of people I see actually struggle with their dogs more.
I’ve dated an older woman, but never a Mom.
The woman would have to be an absolute stunner with a personality to match for me to be okay caring for her kid.
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You DO realize you were not the only guy having sex with that woman right? There you are, thinking you're Chad Thundercock and the MILF had you and most likely 5 or 6 other dudes on her pussy regimen. You guys probably did not know of the existence of the others.
Just so that you know, a lady NEVER taking you to her home or places that she frequents means she does not want you to know of the existence of the other men. She was probably using the kids to throw you off the scent too.
I would get myself checked for STDs if I were you.
Leave the kid alone hater.
He didn’t say he went to her house wishing he wasn’t moving…..
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I bet your buddy fucked her brains out
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You DO realize you were not the only guy having sex with that woman right? There you are, thinking you're Chad Thundercock and the MILF had you and most likely 5 or 6 other dudes on her pussy regimen. You guys probably did not know of the existence of the others.
Just so that you know, a lady NEVER taking you to her home or places that she frequents means she does not want you to know of the existence of the other men. She was probably using the kids to throw you off the scent too.
I would get myself checked for STDs if I were you.
I really had zero concerns who she was banging, we'd meet up have fun, have sex that was it nothing deep. Funny story though, she was a triathlete she had amazing quads and ass, anyway she asks if I'd like to go running with her one day, I said sure, needless to say I could hang with her for about 5 minutes, her jog was literally my sprint lol. I've been checked for STDs I'm clear🙌
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have sex that was it nothing deep.
The Keto Kid admitting to packing a sub 4 incher in this thread
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The Keto Kid admitting to packing a sub 4 incher in this thread
No offense but I’ll wait for bevo to confirm after consulting with AbeG.
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;D ;D
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I know of a single mother story from my old neighborhood: My buddy gets divorced from his wife but the divorce is completely amicable so they both decide to live in the same house until their last kid goes off to college. One day, out of the blue, while he's working from home, my buddy gets a visit from the cops. They're there to find out why a car that is registered under his name had just been seen leaving the scene of an attempted murder scene.
What basically happened was that the single mother of 3 (the ex wife) had turned into a sex maniac and was having sex (meanwhile, she lived a sexless marriage when married to my buddy) and dating anyone with a pulse. One day, she decides to meet guy #1 at a restaurant. At the same time, guy #2 finds out he's got an incurable STD from her and goes on a hunting expedition. Eventually he finds the restaurant and gives guy #1 the beating of his life, stabbing him multiple times with a fork (he almost bled to death). Ex wife, who's still driving her ex's car, decides to elope the scene, gets in the car and leaves, but the restaurant parking lot has a CCTV camera so she got busted.
When the dust settled, my buddy found out his ex was literally dating 5 different dudes, 3 of them in different states. And having sex with all of them, sometimes with two or three men in one day.
Moral of the story: be careful what you put your dick into.
Classy gal.
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Classy gal.
Well, none of her kids want anything to do with her now. Her daughter's specially vicious with her... Doesn't even want to talk to her and refers to her as "that whore." My buddy tries to calm her down but the disappointment for the kids was huge. I had them all over at my house last fall for a firepit BBQ get together and one of them started crying when talking about the past. The trauma she caused she will never know, or care to know.
And my buddy is still in mental limbo, having spent tens of thousands of dollars on marital counseling while they were still married and a sex counselor to revive her "supposedly" low libido. Her mutation from zero-sex-appetite-mom to porn star in a matter of days is something to behold... and very depictive of how many females behave and how duplicitous some of them can be.
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I really had zero concerns who she was banging, we'd meet up have fun, have sex that was it nothing deep.
Well, did she ever inform you you were going to be on a rotation? These are the kinds of things you need to pay attention to, especially when you get older, because some women WILL do this to you. Some day you will meet someone you may want to have a long term relationship with so developing the capacity to spot the red flags is paramount so that you don't end up in BS situations.
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Well, none of her kids want anything to do with her now. Her daughter's specially vicious with her... Doesn't even want to talk to her and refers to her as "that whore." My buddy tries to calm her down but the disappointment for the kids was huge. I had them all over at my house last fall for a firepit BBQ get together and one of them started crying when talking about the past. The trauma she caused she will never know, or care to know.
And my buddy is still in mental limbo, having spent tens of thousands of dollars on marital counseling while they were still married and a sex counselor to revive her "supposedly" low libido. Her mutation from zero-sex-appetite-mom to porn star in a matter of days is something to behold... and very depictive of how many females behave and how duplicitous some of them can be.
Sounds like your buddy is packing a sub 4 incher like KK.
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I know of a single mother story from my old neighborhood: My buddy gets divorced from his wife but the divorce is completely amicable so they both decide to live in the same house until their last kid goes off to college. One day, out of the blue, while he's working from home, my buddy gets a visit from the cops. They're there to find out why a car that is registered under his name had just been seen leaving the scene of an attempted murder scene.
What basically happened was that the single mother of 3 (the ex wife) had turned into a sex maniac and was having sex (meanwhile, she lived a sexless marriage when married to my buddy) and dating anyone with a pulse. One day, she decides to meet guy #1 at a restaurant. At the same time, guy #2 finds out he's got an incurable STD from her and goes on a hunting expedition. Eventually he finds the restaurant and gives guy #1 the beating of his life, stabbing him multiple times with a fork (he almost bled to death). Ex wife, who's still driving her ex's car, decides to elope the scene, gets in the car and leaves, but the restaurant parking lot has a CCTV camera so she got busted.
When the dust settled, my buddy found out his ex was literally dating 5 different dudes, 3 of them in different states. And having sex with all of them, sometimes with two or three men in one day.
Moral of the story: be careful what you put your dick into.
so he pricked him with a fork and he still wasnt done?
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so he pricked him with a fork and he still wasnt done?
He cut right through the aorta.
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Sounds like your buddy is packing a sub 4 incher like KK.
Sorry, I don't think about other guy's wieners.
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He cut right through the aorta.
The earliest known use of the expression stick a fork in it was by Dizzy Dean, an American baseball player and commentator, in the 1940s when referring to a pitcher who was doing a poor job: “You can stick a fork in him folks—he's done.” Check out some others we covered: To harp on meaning.
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Sorry, I don't think about other guy's wieners.
It sounds like you’re more concerned understanding why narcissists act like narcissists.
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90% of men don't want to know about single mothers.
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I’m married with a younger wife and I’m probably going to have kids some day soon possibly.
Both my wife and I aren’t exactly enthused to have kids, but we’re afraid we could regret it later.
I have experience helping raise kids when I was a teen and I understand it’s a bitch.
Even raising dogs can be tiring and stressful at times; a good amount of people I see actually struggle with their dogs more.
Kids = Family
It’s a stage of life, a great pathway for the rest of your life as grandkids also come in.
No kids means life will get lonely as you get older.
People who don’t have kids young are less likely to get married, less likely to buy a property and have the lowest wealth.
In saying that, a kid requires good planning and teamwork. Who does the drop off/pickup from daycare? Who does the bathing, the dinner, the middle of night bottles? My wife and I had the teamwork 10/10. The couples I see struggling have a lack of teamwork because they never planned on who will do what.
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Kids = Family
It’s a stage of life, a great pathway for the rest of your life as grandkids also come in.
No kids means life will get lonely as you get older.
People who don’t have kids young are less likely to get married, less likely to buy a property and have the lowest wealth.
In saying that, a kid requires good planning and teamwork. Who does the drop off/pickup from daycare? Who does the bathing, the dinner, the middle of night bottles? My wife and I had the teamwork 10/10. The couples I see struggling have a lack of teamwork because they never planned on who will do what.
Those without children don't need to buy property or make a lot of money. Friends will prevent anyone from being lonely. Many people who have kids never see them or their grandchildren so they will not prevent loneliness.
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Those without children don't need to buy property or make a lot of money. Friends will prevent anyone from being lonely. Many people who have kids never see them or their grandchildren so they will not prevent loneliness.
My 2 kids do not want children of their own, which is great news for us.
Too much bullshit involved ;)
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My 2 kids do not want children of their own, which is great news for us.
Too much bullshit involved ;)
Boys or girls?
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Those without children don't need to buy property or make a lot of money. Friends will prevent anyone from being lonely. Many people who have kids never see them or their grandchildren so they will not prevent loneliness.
That’s how a young person thinks. Rent and holidays is great until you are 60 and realise you can’t stop working and haven’t saved a dime. The single people I know who are 45+ are also the poorest in wealth terms because they never ‘needed’ to buy a property…… at 45 reality hits they want to get married and have kids but they are wrecked financially.
I’m not judging those who don’t have kids but I am saying people’s wants and life choices change over time, generally as those around have families.
I have no friends as I am spectrum. I have a 3 bedroom self contained apartment in my house for our daughter. Also a guest suite so we can have 3 generational living if she has a family. Parents not giving their kids financial help when young is a big factor to why they don’t start a family.
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That’s how a young person thinks. Rent and holidays is great until you are 60 and realise you can’t stop working and haven’t saved a dime. The single people I know who are 45+ are also the poorest in wealth terms because they never ‘needed’ to buy a property…… at 45 reality hits they want to get married and have kids but they are wrecked financially.
I’m not judging those who don’t have kids but I am saying people’s wants and life choices change over time, generally as those around have families.
I have no friends as I am spectrum. I have a 3 bedroom self contained apartment in my house for our daughter. Also a guest suite so we can have 3 generational living if she has a family. Parents not giving their kids financial help when young is a big factor to why they don’t start a family.
This is very true. Most often they realize how bad of a decision they've made until it's too late. ESPECIALLY if they're a female.
Back in the 80s, I used to work with a non-profit that delivered food to people in need. 80-90% of the people I visited were females that had no income stream and/or were in such poor physical shape they were unable to get to a supermarket and/or cook for themselves. Sometimes I would cook for them because I felt bad for them. Some hadn't had a hot meal in years. One thing to note was how appreciative they all were. They used to tell me to get married and love that woman until the day she died, and that she should do the same.
It was clear they were VERY regretful of the life choice they had made. Here they were: about to enter the gates of heaven and no one to even talk to but their cats and dogs. That's why I smile when I hear a young woman say:"I don't need no man!" Suuuuure. I think to myself "life will teach you to STFU eventually." And just as with animals, if you can't learn from words, ye shall learn from signs.
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That’s how a young person thinks. Rent and holidays is great until you are 60 and realise you can’t stop working and haven’t saved a dime. The single people I know who are 45+ are also the poorest in wealth terms because they never ‘needed’ to buy a property…… at 45 reality hits they want to get married and have kids but they are wrecked financially.
Is your contention that they would not have these problems if they'd had a kid ???
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That’s how a young person thinks. Rent and holidays is great until you are 60 and realise you can’t stop working and haven’t saved a dime. The single people I know who are 45+ are also the poorest in wealth terms because they never ‘needed’ to buy a property…… at 45 reality hits they want to get married and have kids but they are wrecked financially.
I’m not judging those who don’t have kids but I am saying people’s wants and life choices change over time, generally as those around have families.
I have no friends as I am spectrum. I have a 3 bedroom self contained apartment in my house for our daughter. Also a guest suite so we can have 3 generational living if she has a family. Parents not giving their kids financial help when young is a big factor to why they don’t start a family.
DC or Marvel?
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People don't plan to fail, they just fail to plan.
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Is your contention that they would not have these problems if they'd had a kid ???
No. The starting point is finding a lifelong partner. It’s called family planning for a reason.
My experience is this. Being a husband and father is a completely different life than being single/dating.
Your state of mind and decision making has nothing in common with a single 22yr old. I have responsibility for 2 other lives, a single 22yr old only worries about themselves. A pet dog is not the same as a child.
In today’s market 99.9% of single people can’t afford a property with their lifestyle. They instead focus on self gratification which results in delaying finding a partner and settling down.
Age of marriage is getting older. Birth rates have plummeted. Property ownership in young people has plummeted.
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No. The starting point is finding a lifelong partner. It’s called family planning for a reason.
My experience is this. Being a husband and father is a completely different life than being single/dating.
Your state of mind and decision making has nothing in common with a single 22yr old. I have responsibility for 2 other lives, a single 22yr old only worries about themselves. A pet dog is not the same as a child.
In today’s market 99.9% of single people can’t afford a property with their lifestyle. They instead focus on self gratification which results in delaying finding a partner and settling down.
Age of marriage is getting older. Birth rates have plummeted. Property ownership in young people has plummeted.
Yep, a dog loves you unconditionally Kids love you when they get their own way
If you think your kids love you wait until you cant look after yourself.
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Yep, a dog loves you unconditionally Kids love you when they get their own way
If you think your kids love you wait until you cant look after yourself.
They'll lovingly put you in a nursing home.