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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Schadenfreude on November 23, 2023, 10:52:28 PM
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How did you pull it off? My wife's more elegant, beautiful and younger looking sister married a fat bald guy 20 years older than her. It blows my mind completely and makes me wonder how these guys do it? ???
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Confidence. The resource that comes from within and is largely independent of external factors.
Current gf is 12 years younger, we live together. Long hair, legs, great ass. Head turner.
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Usually for the money.
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Thailand Men Keep Winning!
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Confidence. The resource that comes from within and is largely independent of external factors.
Current bf is 12 years younger, we live together. Long hair, legs, great ass. Head turner.
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
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Usually for the money.
Right.
Money = security
Meanwhile she'll be fracking the pool guy.
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I’m yet to see a Getbigger brave enough to post pics of his wife/GF other than our old Canadian Chad Getbig millionaire (forgot his name).
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Money
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Money Lazy Americano whores don't want to work.
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
I am sorry to read of your impending divorce, brother. I say this without knowing the circumstances but regardless it is still hard on you.
I have pretty much always dated older women. I have more in common with them, even when I was younger because their tastes matched mine. A younger woman was constantly in need of "approval" for her looks. A mature woman, not today's whoring MILF/GILF, is more likely to enjoy your company and appreciate your attention. And then again, they may not. One of my brothers started dating awhile ago after divorcing and he pretty much said all he was interested in was a nice evening dinner date and then sex.
And to a woman his dates, all of whom were in their 50s, wanted to know if he was interested in getting married again. At this age women and even men, are often interested in finding someone that is potentially capable of "taking care of them". It can be a turn off, especially if it all they seem to care about. My advices (!) is to not make more of a potential relationship until it has proven worthy of your doing so.
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Money. Guaranteed that at 53 I could pull a 20 yr old if I wasn’t married. Married life is good though, 17 yrs and still happy.
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
Haha I hear you mate feel exactly the same can’t be fucking bothered in the slightest to start over.
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Been married 36 years.
Wife is great but if it ended I'd never get married again.
No way.
I'd get a vasectomy too.
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My wife and I met on Getbig 19 years ago, we’ll be married 17 years Dec. 7. She’s 10 years younger. But in general seems younger women (way younger) like older men because most older men are stable and established. Most women that are fit are attracted to older men that keep themselves in good shape, well groomed and along with the other attributes I’ve mentioned….so I was told
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My wife and I met on Getbig 19 years ago, we’ll be married 17 years Dec. 7. She’s 10 years younger. But in general seems younger women (way younger) like older men because most older men are stable and established. Most women that are fit are attracted to older men that keep themselves in good shape, well groomed and along with the other attributes I’ve mentioned….so I was told
Coach,
Would you recommend Getbig as an effective way to meet women?
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Coach,
Would you recommend Getbig as an effective way to meet women?
Hahahahaha…no. I got lucky. Probably not even social media. I feel like we’re one of the originators of online dating lol
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I know so many divorced guys that are broke. The wife and the kids get the house. He has to pay alimony and child support through college. Even pay for college. Their ex lives a worry filled life style dating guys that now sit in his favorite chair watching his big screen tv. He might even drink his top shelf liquor if the guy leaves it. Meanwhile the divorced guy lives in a shit hole apartment complex with little spending cash. No woman wants him because he's broke.
Women want financial security for them self and their children. A hot girl will find an older gargoyle attractive if he has a house, cars and money. Girls in their 20's will go out with younger guys till they realize they aren't getting any younger then it's time to find a guy that has a decent job. Of course they're exceptions of party skanks that are impressed with a steroid body and no real career guy. If a girl is making a decent pay checks it's seldom they date financially under them unless you are coach who lucked out.
Married 37 years. If she goes I will never marry again. I want my acquired assets to go to my kids and not to some woman I just married.
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Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.
You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.
Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.
Correct them if you want, but never more than once.
Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.
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Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.
You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.
Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.
Correct them if you want, but never more than once.
Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.
well shitty, youre alive
hows the whole sending the commando unit across the border for me going there skinless one?
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Usually for the money.
I was not rich at all but had a gf that was 20 years younger than me in 2021
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
This^
The younger ones are not worth it. I'm 48 and anybody younger than about 40 (if that) is not worth the time. Then there are the women with kids - that's like walking into a mine field.
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My retirement job is in an office of really hot young women. As much as I like looking at them I would never date them if my wife died. I think 50 is the minimum I would date and maybe even in their their 60's.
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My retirement job is in an office of really hot young women. As much as I like looking at them I would never date them if my wife died. I think 50 is the minimum I would date and maybe even in their their 60's.
But you have considered it and rejected the idea ;D
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
There is a cutoff mentally for dating younger women.
My GF is 11 years younger than me.
Once you dip below 30 the girls are a completely different breed.
Like ESF said they grew up in a completely different time than someone who is mid 40's.
Before i started seriously dating my GF 2 years ago, i was plowing younger whores on Tinder left and right. The mentality of the late 20 somethings was insane, i couldn't stand any of them, but enjoyed plowing them.
I think a lot of women like older men due to security/money and mental stability. By the time a man is 40 they typically have their life together completely or they don't, not much of an in between.
I'm sure my GF likes the fact that i'm financially secure and can take her on nice vacations 2-3 times a year. Never have to worry about money, eat at the best restaurants and enjoy the finer aspects of life. She grew up dirt poor as i did and i think those things matter. But i also know if i lost everything she would still be with me, she is absolutely crazy about me and will do anything for me.
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Hahahahaha…no. I got lucky. Probably not even social media. I feel like we’re one of the originators of online dating lol
what was her account name , does she still check her pm's ?
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But you have considered it and rejected the idea ;D
;D
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Saddened to hear of heartbroken Getbiggers
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Saddened to hear of heartbroken Getbiggers
They should have taken advices from Louie
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I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation ???) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)
Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.
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I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation ???) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)
Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.
You wont get rid of a fatty that easily
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You wont get rid of a fatty that easily
I am not unhappy but next to the sister it's like a peugeot 206 vs mercedes cls. It makes a man dream of more that is in him.
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Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.
You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.
Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.
Correct them if you want, but never more than once.
Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.
This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28. She is constantly on her phone, addicted to facebook, tiktok etc. She's very sweet honest and very sexy but I wonder if it'll be worth it in a few years. Some guys here have 40, even 50+ age gaps.
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This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28. She is constantly on her phone, addicted to facebook, tiktok etc. She's very sweet honest and very sexy but I wonder if it'll be worth it in a few years. Some guys here have 40, even 50+ age gaps.
My wife is also addicted to that stuff and much older. . .
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Money. Guaranteed that at 53 I could pull a 20 yr old if I wasn’t married. Married life is good though, 17 yrs and still happy.
It`s a well known and proven fact that the 18 year mark is when it all goes to HELL !! ;D
Just kidding brother.......congrats and many more years to you both. ;)
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They should have taken advices from Louie
Agreed!
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Thailand Men Keep Winning!
lol - that's me. Met my wife in Thailand when I was 35 and she was 23.
You shouldn't be asking us how we managed it. You should be asking how we put up with their shite for the first couple of years.
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well shitty, youre alive
hows the whole sending the commando unit across the border for me going there skinless one?
BRUTAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111111 :D
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I'm going through a divorce.
Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.
I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!
It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married. My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.
A 20 year old would be as annoying as fuck to a 50 year old. You aren't missing out IMO.
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This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28.
I NOW OFFICIALLY HATE YOU ! LOL ;D
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Half your age + 7, rounding up, has never failed me as a rule of thumb
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Half your age + 7, rounding up, has never failed me as a rule of thumb
How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman :-\
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How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman :-\
Haha thanks, its not my creation but still generally applicable I’ve found.
Anyways - sounds like you’re generally unhappy in your marriage. Consider seeking talk therapy for yourself, it might help pinpoint what it is you’re really looking for in life.
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Haha thanks, its not my creation but still generally applicable I’ve found.
Anyways - sounds like you’re generally unhappy in your marriage. Consider seeking talk therapy for yourself, it might help pinpoint what it is you’re really looking for in life.
I want simply glory, and a younger attractive and sophisticated woman is part of the package. I think all things will come in their own time. Right now I must first secure more wealth and pay my dues before glory may come to me.
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I think women are a lot like cars and so the average guy can only afford a banged up piece of garbage right out the gates. So he either takes what he can get or stays without a car for many years until he has established himself properly. The real question for me is how can you be sure you will be able to get something better? I read that nowadays, women don't care about money as much anymore and prefer to be single moms getting railed by chad and tyrone ???
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I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation ???) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)
Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.
There are your answers.
He was financially secure and willing to take on her child from another man.
Pickings are slim for women with kids. Most men don't want the problem.
There are lots of single women with kids out there looking for men to marry them.
Bhanky is an example.
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There are your answers.
Man, I didn't fully grasp it until you bolded parts of my own post. You are a sharp guy.
So I have on several occasions tried to understand why the sister is no longer with the father. Unclear answers which seemed like misinformation. I gather that the father of the boy is financially struggling.
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How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman :-\
Just tell her you have come to the realization that you are completely shallow and that you both deserve better.
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Just tell her you have come to the realization that you are completely shallow and that you both deserve better.
....then sleep in your car for a few months! ;D
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Just tell her you have come to the realization that you are completely shallow and that you both deserve better.
But do we really ???
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This is the sort of shit I had to put up with when my wife was younger....
First - I get this pic on FB Messenger - on which she liked to bug me at work 20 times a day...
So the conversation went like this...
Me: Is this a trap?
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Sending me a pic of a hot chick - what exactly do you expect me to say?
Her: I was sending you a picture of a handbag
Me: What bag?
Her: No longer speaking to me.
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This is the sort of shit I had to put up with when my wife was younger....
First - I get this pic on FB Messenger - on which she liked to bug me at work 20 times a day...
So the conversation went like this...
Me: Is this a trap?
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Sending me a pic of a hot chick - what exactly do you expect me to say?
Her: I was sending you a picture of a handbag
Me: What bag?
Her: No longer speaking to me.
Send her pics of MIT and tell her you were sending pics of posing trunks
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Send her pics of MIT and tell her you were sending pics of posing trunks
Naaaa - she already thinks I'm gay after seeing me surfing getbig
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Naaaa - she already knows I'm gay after seeing me surfing getbig
Accepting eachother's shortcomings is important. I am glad you have that.
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I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation ???) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)
Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.
I think you are overcomplicating this particular example's explanation, likely because you want to fuck the sister. See IroNat's post above for the correct answer.
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I think you are overcomplicating this particular example's explanation, likely because you want to fuck the sister. See IroNat's post above for the correct answer.
I want much more than fuck her. Trophy wife if I ever saw one.
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I have nothing to offer here because I went the other way 20 odd years ago - she's 7 years older than me but doesn't look it. And I didn't do it through logical reasoning, I just met her and wanted to be with her (ghey)
One good thing about it is that it does mean that we pretty much have a shared set of historical and cultural references that are important to conversation, which would avoid things like a younger woman saying "Who is Evel Knievel..?" "Did you all wear hats back then?" etc. ;D
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what was her account name , does she still check her pm's ?
She hasn’t been on here since we met.
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She hasn’t been on here since we met.
where you still married to your second wife when you started dating her ?
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I am sorry to read of your impending divorce, brother. I say this without knowing the circumstances but regardless it is still hard on you.
I have pretty much always dated older women. I have more in common with them, even when I was younger because their tastes matched mine. A younger woman was constantly in need of "approval" for her looks. A mature woman, not today's whoring MILF/GILF, is more likely to enjoy your company and appreciate your attention. And then again, they may not. One of my brothers started dating awhile ago after divorcing and he pretty much said all he was interested in was a nice evening dinner date and then sex.
And to a woman his dates, all of whom were in their 50s, wanted to know if he was interested in getting married again. At this age women and even men, are often interested in finding someone that is potentially capable of "taking care of them". It can be a turn off, especially if it all they seem to care about. My advices (!) is to not make more of a potential relationship until it has proven worthy of your doing so.
Thanks Scott I appreciate the advices.
Me and my ex are cool. We have to be since we have 3 kids and youngest is 7. So , one way or another we're going to have to deal with each other for a long time so I just decided to be cool and not bitter.
For the most part it's working out well for me. I actually have more money for myself now with a fixed child support payment than I did when we were married. She'd blow through my paycheck before I could even have lunch. Living check to check, she was/is horrible with money. Now I pay her child support and it's far less than she was helping herself to.
It's taken alot longer than expected to get back into dating. It's crazy though how the norms have changed. It's like ESF said in his post: these younger girls are just so casual about sex. You don't even need game. Just asking for it gives you a 50/50 chance. If you can talk at all and have even a little money, it's a done deal.
But it's also lame. Like others have said, younger women are glued to their phones, very shallow, banal, insipid, sophomoric. And older women.....if they're in their 40's or 50's and in good shape and single then you can guarantee they are crazy as fuck. Any woman I know that's worth a shit is married.
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I have nothing to offer here because I went the other way 20 odd years ago - she's 7 years older than me but doesn't look it. And I didn't do it through logical reasoning, I just met her and wanted to be with her (ghey)
One good thing about it is that it does mean that we pretty much have a shared set of historical and cultural references that are important to conversation, which would avoid things like a younger woman saying "Who is Evel Knievel..?" "Did you all wear hats back then?" etc. ;D
My wife is also a little older than me (4.5 years). Glad to hear I'm in the illustrious company of a Golden Thong winner.
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How did you pull it off? My wife's more elegant, beautiful and younger looking sister married a fat bald guy 20 years older than her. It blows my mind completely and makes me wonder how these guys do it? ???
Have a big fat wallet. That's beer googles for women.
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I want much more than fuck her. Trophy wife if I ever saw one.
Damn dude, you’re miserable in your marriage. Do you even sleep in the same room? Probably time to consult a divorce attorney. If you’re thinking like this here, so is she.
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How did you pull it off? My wife's more elegant, beautiful and younger looking sister married a fat bald guy 20 years older than her. It blows my mind completely and makes me wonder how these guys do it? ???
Bro...
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My wife is also a little older than me (4.5 years). Glad to hear I'm in the illustrious company of a Golden Thong winner.
Oh stoppit you...
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The non pursuit of pussy turned out to be the single most important thing that led me to a peaceful calm life. I have no sex drive. None zip zero nada. Fact--I have not had sex in 10 years--yes thats true. I have no desire, like 0%, and despise anyone touching me. This has led me to be happier, have more money, do what I want when I want and just have an overall stress free life. I wouldnt change it for the world. If I ever wanted sex I would just go to a hot 25 year old escort instead of some used up broad my age who is bitter. I know no one will understand my ways, but sex is the most over rated thing in the world. Being alone with the ability to do what you want when you want with ZERO issues is golden,........but again, this is just my way. Plus I fucking hate kids, and by hate I mean FUCKING HATE KIDS, so that was a non factor in my life
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The non pursuit of pussy turned out to be the single most important thing that led me to a peaceful calm life. I have no sex drive. None zip zero nada. Fact--I have not had sex in 10 years--yes thats true. I have no desire, like 0%, and despise anyone touching me. This has led me to be happier, have more money, do what I want when I want and just have an overall stress free life. I wouldnt change it for the world. If I ever wanted sex I would just go to a hot 25 year old escort instead of some used up broad my age who is bitter. I know no one will understand my ways, but sex is the most over rated thing in the world. Being alone with the ability to do what you want when you want with ZERO issues is golden,........but again, this is just my way. Plus I fucking hate kids, and by hate I mean FUCKING HATE KIDS, so that was a non factor in my life
Probably the best way to be mate, I wish I’d never gotten so used to living/being with someone would be happier right now and far better off financially haha
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The non pursuit of pussy turned out to be the single most important thing that led me to a peaceful calm life. I have no sex drive. None zip zero nada. Fact--I have not had sex in 10 years--yes thats true. I have no desire, like 0%, and despise anyone touching me. This has led me to be happier, have more money, do what I want when I want and just have an overall stress free life. I wouldnt change it for the world. If I ever wanted sex I would just go to a hot 25 year old escort instead of some used up broad my age who is bitter. I know no one will understand my ways, but sex is the most over rated thing in the world. Being alone with the ability to do what you want when you want with ZERO issues is golden,........but again, this is just my way. Plus I fucking hate kids, and by hate I mean FUCKING HATE KIDS, so that was a non factor in my life
Do you live in a monastery in Tibet? ;D A lot of truth in your post. 90% of all a man's problems are caused directly or indirectly by women.
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The non pursuit of pussy turned out to be the single most important thing that led me to a peaceful calm life. I have no sex drive. None zip zero nada. Fact--I have not had sex in 10 years--yes thats true. I have no desire, like 0%, and despise anyone touching me. This has led me to be happier, have more money, do what I want when I want and just have an overall stress free life. I wouldnt change it for the world. If I ever wanted sex I would just go to a hot 25 year old escort instead of some used up broad my age who is bitter. I know no one will understand my ways, but sex is the most over rated thing in the world. Being alone with the ability to do what you want when you want with ZERO issues is golden,........but again, this is just my way. Plus I fucking hate kids, and by hate I mean FUCKING HATE KIDS, so that was a non factor in my life
Would you say this is due to the meds and if so is there particular med that does it?
I need to take a break from my libido, thinking of cunt all the time is terribly distracting.
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Do you live in a monastery in Tibet? ;D A lot of truth in your post. 90% of all a man's problems are caused directly or indirectly by women.
He lives in Canada, but since his interest in that cunty fishy smell is lowered, he doesn't think about them when out and about
Due to Women, we have done some stupid illogical choices during the years
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The non pursuit of pussy turned out to be the single most important thing that led me to a peaceful calm life. I have no sex drive. None zip zero nada. Fact--I have not had sex in 10 years--yes thats true. I have no desire, like 0%, and despise anyone touching me. This has led me to be happier, have more money, do what I want when I want and just have an overall stress free life. I wouldnt change it for the world. If I ever wanted sex I would just go to a hot 25 year old escort instead of some used up broad my age who is bitter. I know no one will understand my ways, but sex is the most over rated thing in the world. Being alone with the ability to do what you want when you want with ZERO issues is golden,........but again, this is just my way. Plus I fucking hate kids, and by hate I mean FUCKING HATE KIDS, so that was a non factor in my life
Nice. But how did you overcome the desire to smash and multiply?
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Damn dude, you’re miserable in your marriage. Do you even sleep in the same room? Probably time to consult a divorce attorney. If you’re thinking like this here, so is she.
Calm down, no need to be dramatic.
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Calm down, no need to be dramatic.
Lol, dude, read back through your posts in this thread. I’m just trying to help with some advice as you may be blinded. No harm meant.
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Lol, dude, read back through your posts in this thread. I’m just trying to help with some advice as you may be blinded. No harm meant.
I am just idealizing other people's lives. It will pass.
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I felt a weakening of the flesh when seeing this photo.
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I think women are a lot like cars and so the average guy can only afford a banged up piece of garbage right out the gates. So he either takes what he can get or stays without a car for many years until he has established himself properly. The real question for me is how can you be sure you will be able to get something better? I read that nowadays, women don't care about money as much anymore and prefer to be single moms getting railed by chad and tyrone ???
You see - that's the problem most men don't understand. You need to think outside the box. If you get a banged up car - it's just aa banged up car. IF you get a banged up VAN - you're a man with a van! Everyone needs a man with a van at some point to help them do something/move something. You're instantly no longer just a broke loser in a broke car: you're MEN WITH VEN!!! Money goes out of the window. The rest is down to personality and confidence when you're helping them with the task.
I'm actually serious: I've never had much need for cars due to always needing vans growing up and in my 20's. Plenty of people phoning me up.
On another note: I've had trouble finding decent women as I don't like anyone to know anything about me and these girls these days love to look you up on social media and what you do for a living, etc. It's hard to get an established relationship because I don't know if they're clouded by my rusty banger vans or want me for me....
Another problem I've encountered is that when I get invited to 'networking' type events; it's always with cultured types with backgrounds in civil engineering, CILT professionals, and the like. Some nice professional, established women - but I'm kind of not in their league. I don't speak the Queen's English, being a Brummie. I'm trying to rectify my 'rough' edges through elocution lessons and doing mature studies now that I have time to do my own thing for the first time in my life... I'd love to meet a refined person from a good background where I wouldn't feel subservient and lower in terms of intellect. I've also tried other events through my solicitors, for example, where I do get invited to their events; and I met a lovely girl that worked in London on Intellectual Property law, but she wanted kids and I didn't. That went south quickly and I messed that up one drunken night. I've been single for a long time, now. I do get lonely - but I wouldn't date some slag or materialistic twerp: they get so upset when you don't want them knowing your full name right away. Nosey twats. :)
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Agree with you about vans. Very useful. Better than pickups trucks in my opinion since you can lock it up.
Also station wagons are good.
Sedans are worthless for carrying stuff.
As far as women go, if you want a family get a quality moral woman to raise the kids.
Otherwise get a vascectomy and date a woman who likes sex. Don't get married.
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Agree with you about vans. Very useful. Better than pickups trucks in my opinion since you can lock it up.
Also station wagons are good.
Sedans are worthless for carrying stuff.
As far as women go, if you want a family get a quality moral woman to raise the kids.
Otherwise get a vascectomy and date a woman who likes sex. Don't get married.
This is all true. Well said, my brother!
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This is all true. Well said, my brother!
You honor me, my friend.