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Title: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: affeman on June 06, 2024, 08:38:21 AM
True or false? ???

Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Royalty on June 06, 2024, 08:50:41 AM
Speaking of self improvement, can beakdoctor increase his hand size?
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: oldtimer1 on June 06, 2024, 08:54:56 AM
Speaking of self improvement, can beakdoctor increase his hand size?

Reminds me when my friend got getbig cream from China. He waited months for it to arrive. Everyday for a month he slathered it all over his dick. It cream smelled horrific. It didn't work but now he's walking around with these big hands.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: MajorDomo on June 06, 2024, 09:10:53 AM
Self improvement is based on a comparison with others or a standard you aspire to- and that can always change. I am a bigger fan of self satisfaction.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: BigRo on June 06, 2024, 09:15:54 AM
Notes while listening;

* No one has access to unlimited pleasure, even Dan Blizzballs. Pleasure by its nature is limited.

* Meaningful connections, well this can be a burden too because they are hard to find and it is not always ones own fault. People tend to let us down, and relationships too are limited and transient. Having children, well many have children in to dysfunctional conflict ridden relationships. Better to stay single and without children than bring them in to a war zone surely.

* Dread and hopelessness, well a family should not be a cover for those feelings, what if the relationship with ones wife becomes intolerable, one will have to face those feelings that the relationship was keeping at bay. One has to face all ones dread and hopelessness in deep meditation and surrender it to the Divine. Otherwise one will always live in fear.

* He talks about not having accomplished what one was born to do and not wishing one was here. Is this not also self improvement? Not being happy in the here and now unless...you made babies?

* I hope he finds a woman who he can live in peace and harmony with and make babies but the expectation of ones happiness or sense of fulfilment should be transcendent of everything because everything is passing, passing, passing.

Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Royalty on June 06, 2024, 09:47:06 AM
Can Biden work on his improving his bowel control?
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: beakdoctor on June 06, 2024, 01:24:19 PM
Speaking of self improvement, can I increase my penis size?

No Royalty, unfortunately, you can't. The good news is It doesn't matter: you're never going to get laid anyway.

The best self improvement for you would be a lobotomy.

HTH.

Sincerely,

Beakdoctor
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Van_Bilderass on June 06, 2024, 02:19:52 PM
Notes while listening;

* No one has access to unlimited pleasure, even Dan Blizzballs. Pleasure by its nature is limited.

* Meaningful connections, well this can be a burden too because they are hard to find and it is not always ones own fault. People tend to let us down, and relationships too are limited and transient. Having children, well many have children in to dysfunctional conflict ridden relationships. Better to stay single and without children than bring them in to a war zone surely.

* Dread and hopelessness, well a family should not be a cover for those feelings, what if the relationship with ones wife becomes intolerable, one will have to face those feelings that the relationship was keeping at bay. One has to face all ones dread and hopelessness in deep meditation and surrender it to the Divine. Otherwise one will always live in fear.

* He talks about not having accomplished what one was born to do and not wishing one was here. Is this not also self improvement? Not being happy in the here and now unless...you made babies?

* I hope he finds a woman who he can live in peace and harmony with and make babies but the expectation of ones happiness or sense of fulfilment should be transcendent of everything because everything is passing, passing, passing.

Very good points
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: IroNat on June 06, 2024, 05:05:55 PM
Reminds me when my friend got getbig cream from China. He waited months for it to arrive. Everyday for a month he slathered it all over his dick. It cream smelled horrific. It didn't work but now he's walking around with these big hands.

 :D
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: MAXX on June 06, 2024, 10:36:47 PM
Self improvement is based on a comparison with others or a standard you aspire to- and that can always change. I am a bigger fan of self satisfaction.
It's to be competetive to other guys....

In the sexual marketplace really, for most guys. Also can be to be competetive in a career or some sport I guess.

I see nothing wrong with it as long itvs not interfering with your main goals and ambition.. We all compete to survive and to pass the best possible genes on and to spred our seed wide and far.

Family.. Yeah if you choose the right/perfekt woman. Then again with most relations after while the sex wheens off and one or the other gets unhappy
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Humble Narcissist on June 07, 2024, 12:09:08 AM
Everyone who lifts weight is into self improvement.  Same with going to school, doing cardio, dating, learning anything, etc, etc.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: falco on June 07, 2024, 02:15:05 AM
I believe he is putting family on a pedestal.
In todays day and age, having a healthy family is too often a pipe dream, mostly because people want it too fast.
It takes years to get to know a woman, and no woman can keep a façade for 3-4 years. Then marry her, and if things are working out, then think about having children.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Humble Narcissist on June 08, 2024, 12:35:04 AM
I believe he is putting family on a pedestal.
In todays day and age, having a healthy family is too often a pipe dream, mostly because people want it too fast.
It takes years to get to know a woman, and no woman can keep a façade for 3-4 years. Then marry her, and if things are working out, then think about having children.
It really doesn't take long at all to know a woman. The reason people divorce today is simply because of options.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Mayday on June 08, 2024, 12:57:28 AM
It really doesn't take long at all to know a woman. The reason people divorce today is simply because of options.

Probably right.

Internet/social media made it super easy to meet people. Now we are at Tinder where you simply swipe and it’s on.

And people wonder why birth rates fell 😂
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: Humble Narcissist on June 08, 2024, 12:59:20 AM
Probably right.

Internet/social media made it super easy to meet people. Now we are at Tinder where you simply swipe and it’s on.

And people wonder why birth rates fell 😂
We will lose population which is a good thing but it will pick back up after the population decline.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: falco on June 08, 2024, 11:52:37 AM
Probably right.

Internet/social media made it super easy to meet people. Now we are at Tinder where you simply swipe and it’s on.

And people wonder why birth rates fell 😂
Tinder is a place to meet bottom feeders.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: JustPlaneJane on June 08, 2024, 12:24:57 PM
Tinder is a place to meet bottom feeders.

No need to bring Shitzo’s failed online dating into this.
Title: Re: Self improvement is one of the worst mental illnesses somebody can have...
Post by: King Shizzo on June 08, 2024, 02:05:22 PM
No need to bring Shitzo’s failed online dating into this.