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Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?
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I once posted on a bodybuilding board with a guy named Brian Hankins.
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Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=644927.0
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This thread really died 😂
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Humble or Deity?
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The only time that Patrick1 see’s Danimal77 is when he looks in the mirror 😆
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This was a serious honest question
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The only time that Patrick1 see’s Danimal77 is when he looks in the mirror 😆
Little confession to you.My gimmick account is IroNat and I love eggs.
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I once posted on a bodybuilding board with a guy named Brian Hankins.
Hahahaha.
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No I have not. I can’t imagine being around a woman who was a narcissist. You did it for 10 years? As she sex out of this world? What kept you?
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Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?
No, I worked for one, and that was bad... but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind
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Most modern women are narcissists while accusing all of their exes of being so.
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I don't know. I have felt a lack of empathy.
But what I have seen is couples where both accuse each other of being a narcissist. And also a psychopath of course ;D
It's the classic amateur diagnosis I guess. And hey, maybe there are traits of those and maybe there are many cases where one would also get that diagnosis from an expert but these accusations are common from what I've seen. People do cold things to each other seemingly without a care.
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
I'm not sure that's how it works, but maybe...
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I'm not sure that's how it works, but maybe...
The majority of people are very ugly, only a very small percentage are incredibly good looking, of course these people will eventually become narcissist, it's their looks, the attention they get, etc, it gets to their head
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The majority of people are very ugly, only a very small percentage are incredibly good looking, of course these people will eventually become narcissist, it's their looks, the attention they get, etc, it gets to their head
I know what you mean, but I'm talking about "true" narcissists, which I think is related to psychopathy aka antisocial personality disorder. Beautiful people can get away with acting like a jackass, for a while, ugly people may have to emphasize other characteristics to get by, they could be fake in the other direction, but I'm pretty sure true psychos are pretty much born like that. They also can't be humbled enough to shed the trait. They can't ever be cured, which is the tragedy about it. At least that's how I understand it, but I'm far from an expert...
I do know psychiatrists always caution common folks from diagnosing others by looking at internet check lists. But like I said, I know what you mean for sure 8)
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I know what you mean, but I'm talking about "true" narcissists, which I think is related to psychopathy aka antisocial personality disorder. Beautiful people can get away with acting like a jackass, for a while, ugly people may have to emphasize other characteristics to get by, but I'm pretty sure true psychos are pretty much born like that. They also can't be humbled enough to shed the trait. They can't ever be cured, which is the tragedy about it. At least that's how I understand it, but I'm far from an expert...
I do know psychiatrists always caution common folks from diagnosing others by looking at internet check lists. But like I said, I know what you mean for sure 8)
This may sound crazy to you, but I have the theory that a large, very large percentage of the human population is in fact a narcissist, (NPD, narcissistic personality disorder), this is due to genetics, and the way they were brought up when they were little. Yes, people who have NPD are pretty much psychopaths
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This may sound crazy to you, but I have the theory that a large, very large percentage of the human population is in fact a narcissist, (NPD, narcissistic personality disorder), this is due to genetics, and the way they were brought up when they were little. Yes, people who have NPD are pretty much psychopaths
I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.
"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."
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"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."
IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.
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I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.
"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."
And
"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."
IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.
The percentage of psychopathy is debatable, there is a female psychologist who believes 1 out of 2 men is actually a psychopath. No one knows the exact percentage, also a true psychopath is usually the person that you meet and you are thinking ''what a charming, great guy he is'' not knowing that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing
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The percentage of psychopathy is debatable, there is a female psychologist who believes 1 out of 2 men is actually a psychopath. No one knows the exact percentage, also a true psychopath is usually the person that you meet and you are thinking ''what a charming, great guy he is'' not knowing that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing
Yes I know about the charming psychopath. Also great at love bombing at the start of relationships. The apparent emotions are just learned imitation. Very high casual sex partners, longer relationships harder.
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The only time that Patrick1 see’s Danimal77 is when he looks in the mirror 😆
LOL... WTF do you know about dating anyone? Bwahahaha lololololol.
Holy Shit :D trying to imagine you on a date... with a woman... who's still alive. Oh brother
What a maroon ::)
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I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.
"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."
And
"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."
IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.
lack of empathy and psychopathy are desireable traits for politicians
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No, I worked for one, and that was bad... but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind
And Thankfully both times they were beaten by Trump.
Tough luck Khvntmala & Killery & all the Loony lefties who wasted their
vote on them. Were you one of Them ??
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Yes I know about the charming psychopath. Also great at love bombing at the start of relationships. The apparent emotions are just learned imitation. Very high casual sex partners, longer relationships harder.
Yes - so do I - Great to start with - Just got worse & worse as time
went on.
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"narcissist" oh brother ::)
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The percentage of psychopathy is debatable, there is a female psychologist who believes 1 out of 2 men is actually a psychopath. No one knows the exact percentage, also a true psychopath is usually the person that you meet and you are thinking ''what a charming, great guy he is'' not knowing that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing
I definitely have psychopathic tendencies.
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
You’re not fooling anyone, you are for dicks.
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
The question you should be asking yourself is why those dogs are attracted to you.
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LOL... WTF do you know about dating anyone? Bwahahaha lololololol.
Holy Shit :D trying to imagine you on a date... with a woman... who's still alive. Oh brother
What a maroon ::)
First date at the burger joint:
“ Hey girl so what’s your thoughts on Olympia ‘81 and Mike Mentzer placing so low?”
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I have. She was gorgeous - definitely a 10 by any standards. She looked a lot like Angie Harmon. No matter where we went she got stares.
Eventually I really got sick of the bitch. It was always about her. That makes the most beautiful woman become ugly in a flash. I regret the time I wasted with her.
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No I have not. I can’t imagine being around a woman who was a narcissist. You did it for 10 years? As she sex out of this world? What kept you?
well I got really close to her kids the son especially I pretty much raised them about 3 years into our relationship he killed himself so I kinda stuck around for the kids and I didn’t wanna make them feel like they were abandoned. Especially the baby she was two years old when I came into her life. She’s now 12.
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
LMAO. What a surprise all the smoking-hot supermodels are lining up to fuck the chubby autist with the pepperoni tits. What's your secret, Pamith? Do you whisk them back to the cockroach-infested playboy palace and leap out in some stupid Halloween costume?
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I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is
LMAO. What a surprise all the smoking-hot supermodels are lining up to fuck the chubby autist with the pepperoni tits. What's your secret, Pamith? Do you whisk them back to the cockroach-infested playboy palace and leap out in some stupid Halloween costume?
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Sounds like a match made in heaven
I admit it, my current gf is 26 (I'm 48) she's drop dead gorgeous, skinny, blonde with blue eyes, I think I'm in love
I'm 5'7'', bald and handsome in the face
Sometimes some women in the gym looked at me like I was a sex object and it didn't bother me, at all
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Sounds like a match made in heaven
I'm 5'7'', bald and handsome in the face
Haha, yeah, he's a real stunner. I mistook him for Dolph Lundgren for a second.
(https://i.postimg.cc/GhkFSpmx/homo.jpg)
(https://www.ironmagazineforums.com/media/more-pics.8837/full)
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Pamith is clearly loaded that's how he scores the 26 year old stunners despite his age, height and hair-related challenges
The irony is this thread is wrong, women simply do not care about looks, they care about money, you can be a 4 and if you are rich women want you and you can be a 9 and broke and women don't want your loser broke ass
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Haha, yeah, he's a real stunner. I mistook him for Dolph Lundgren Dolphin in Garden
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Brutal guido face.
pamith go jump off the GW, man.
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(https://i.postimg.cc/GhkFSpmx/homo.jpg)
(https://media.tenor.com/jHbG7rw5tL4AAAAM/creepy-smile.gif)
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LMAO. What a surprise all the smoking-hot supermodels are lining up to fuck the chubby autist with the pepperoni tits. What's your secret, Pamith? Do you whisk them back to the cockroach-infested playboy palace and leap out in some stupid Halloween costume?
Bro...
LOL most everyone online "gets" a lot of chicks. Sometimes they don't have time for them though, or don't like their personalities.
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(https://i.postimg.cc/GhkFSpmx/homo.jpg)
(https://media.tenor.com/jHbG7rw5tL4AAAAM/creepy-smile.gif)
This person has a very low intellect look to their face,. Low brow, dim-witted, possibly inbred.
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I've dated a few annoying women but I am not qualified to distinguish between them being a narcissist or a bitch.
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This person has a very low intellect look to their face,. Low brow, dim-witted, possibly inbred.
Apparently he's LEO
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I`ve gone out with total psychos when I was in my cups.
ln fact my first wife was an Italian beauty from the streets of the South Bronx that could fight like a man......we got married on the stage of a strip joint a she was as stripper herself, so I was a tad nutty myself......guns were drawn,fistfights, and I got my forehead smashed against a Trojan machine while my back was turned, and mind you I rented the bar and all who attended we`re invited.
A good time was had by all. ;)
Don`t judge me,unless you want to,I was once crazier than I am today,and I`m nuttier than squirrel shit. :D
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Flip phone ,psycho stare,Ginnii t shirt,Pamith has it all
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ln fact my first wife was an Italian beauty from the streets of the South Bronx that could fight like a man......we got married on the stage of a strip joint a she was a stripper herself, so I was a tad nutty myself......
Hahaha, at first I read it as, 'I was a stripper myself, so I was a tad nutty too.'
I hereby retract my judgment:
Don`t judge me,unless you want to,I was once crazier than I am today,and I`m nuttier than squirrel shit. :D
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Hahaha, at first I read it as, 'I was a stripper myself, so I was a tad nutty too.'
I hereby retract my judgment:
If you were a hot 20 year old broad, like most who ask me to strip weekly,I would have no problem brother.......BUT YEAH......NO HOMO !! LOL ;D
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I once posted on a bodybuilding board with a guy named Brian Hankins.
You mean (blank)?
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Little confession to you.My gimmick account is IroNat and I love eggs.
Good post, me.
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Good post, me.
Royalty is that you? :D
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Royalty is that you? :D
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Bro...
LOL most everyone online "gets" a lot of chicks. Sometimes they don't have time for them though, or don't like their personalities.
Yeah, I doubt Pamith has much time for anything other than no-strings hookups with his busy schedule! I'm a huge fan of the guy, though. He cracks me up. The pictures of him raiding his fancy-dress box are hilarious.
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I have. She was gorgeous - definitely a 10 by any standards. She looked a lot like Angie Harmon. No matter where we went she got stares.
Eventually I really got sick of the bitch. It was always about her. That makes the most beautiful woman become ugly in a flash. I regret the time I wasted with her.
My ex from my 20’s looked like Angie Harmon with lighter hair.
I don’t remember ever seeing anyone else that looked like them.
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oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"
basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf
and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them".... "soulmate".. "never felt this way" ::)
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oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"
basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf
and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them"... "never felt this way" ::)
Don't forget the typical, 'I'm healing now, and I'll never let anyone steal my light in a toxic relationship ever again'
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oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"
basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf
and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them".... "soulmate".. "never felt this way" ::)
For being masters of psychology women somehow get fooled a lot.
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Yes I know about the charming psychopath. Also great at love bombing at the start of relationships. The apparent emotions are just learned imitation. Very high casual sex partners, longer relationships harder.
Like for example, you appear to be nice and charming, but in reality, maybe you are a psychopath?
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You’re not fooling anyone, you are for dicks.
Bro...
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Apparently he's LEO
Some security guards have excessively ornamental uniforms.
Then again, some psychopaths get their victims by impersonating cops.
The only people who know the answer are Pamith and the bodies under his porch.
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Some security guards have excessively ornamental uniforms.
Then again, some psychopaths get their victims by impersonating cops.
The only people who know the answer are Pamith and the bodies under his porch.
Oh if only I could be a roach on one of his kitchen walls!! ;D
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I`ve gone out with total psychos when I was in my cups.
ln fact my first wife was an Italian beauty from the streets of the South Bronx that could fight like a man......we got married on the stage of a strip joint a she was as stripper herself, so I was a tad nutty myself......guns were drawn,fistfights, and I got my forehead smashed against a Trojan machine while my back was turned, and mind you I rented the bar and all who attended we`re invited.
A good time was had by all. ;)
Don`t judge me,unless you want to,I was once crazier than I am today,and I`m nuttier than squirrel shit. :D
I'm feeling a bit emotional tonight as I've just had yet another bereavement, so I hope GetBig can forgive me. But at this point in my life I literally and honestly can only think of one regret I have at this time - I absolutely fucking KNOW that me and you would have partied the fuck out of wherever. Your war-stories are so similar to mine....
Dammit... maybe in the next life dude... :'(
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Like for example, you appear to be nice and charming, but in reality, maybe you are a psychopath?
It never crossed my mind when younger but later I was trying on all sorts of diagnoses, still do. I don't know but probably not, lots of other issues for sure. Could take those tests to see if I have few or many of those traits, or ask others, but I'm not sure if I want to know :-\ I think there are some diagnoses that I read psychs are reluctant to label their patients with because the label is stigmatizing, as well as not good for the patient to dwell on :D
As I and MAXX said those labels are always thrown around after breakups.
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I'm feeling a bit emotional tonight as I've just had yet another bereavement, so I hope GetBig can forgive me. But at this point in my life I literally and honestly can only think of one regret I have at this time - I absolutely fucking KNOW that me and you would have partied the fuck out of wherever. Your war-stories are so similar to mine....
Dammit... maybe in the next life dude... :'(
We would have had crazy fun,and ended up arrested a lot also. :D
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We would have had crazy fun,and ended up arrested a lot also. :D
why bro?
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why bro?
Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously - and from Wes' stories he definitely did!
But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
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Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously - and from Wes' stories he definitely did!
But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
Exactly.........I lived on the edge bigtime.
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well I got really close to her kids the son especially I pretty much raised them about 3 years into our relationship he killed himself so I kinda stuck around for the kids and I didn’t wanna make them feel like they were abandoned. Especially the baby she was two years old when I came into her life. She’s now 12.
10 years together and you never married her?
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Nope
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After we broke up, she came clean, admitted to having a drug problem. I suspected it for sure, but had trust in her just thought she was mentally unstable which she was, but the drugs, which is cocaine added to it obviously, I had my blinders on.
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But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
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Most modern women are narcissists while accusing all of their exes of being so.
So true. I see it all the time.
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Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously
What like playing with your Masters of the Universe action figures in public when you were 17 years old at the opening night of the MOTU movie?
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No, I worked for one, and that was bad... but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind
LMFAO. How'd I miss this red meat?
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What like playing with your Masters of the Universe action figures in public when you were 17 years old at the opening night of the MOTU movie?
Haha I remember the Dolph movie post
Signed,
Fellow MOTU Alumni
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Some security guards have excessively ornamental uniforms.
Then again, some psychopaths get their victims by impersonating cops.
The only people who know the answer are Pamith and the bodies under his porch.
what does this have to do with the topic? ;D
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This would make a good bumper sticker:
"There's two kinds of people in the world:
Narcissists, and Fucking Losers"
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Haha I remember the Dolph movie post
Signed,
Fellow MOTU Alumni
Holy shit I like you even more now!!! No homo I swear
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3 traits of people with narcissistic personality disorder:
1) Due to low self self image, they “copycat” other people (It’s really sad to see. Zero originality.)
2) Because of their poor self worth, they tell lies to make themselves seem “more interesting” (pitiful)
3) They desperately seek attention (pathetic, especially if the person is boring)
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Holy shit I like you even more now!!! No homo I swear
Ha there is bound to be a few on a board full of middle aged lifters
Pros too
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Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?
In a sense they are children that never mature into adulthood, hence the childish behaviour and mannerisms, selfishness and the such. Trauma halted the development of their limbic system forever.
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Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?
Uhm...no.
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In a sense they are children that never mature into adulthood, hence the childish behaviour and mannerisms, selfishness and the such. Trauma alted the development of their limbic system forever.
That is women in general today.