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Why is it when there’s trouble in paradise? They feel entitled to the home that you share together and forced you to leave when in fact they don’t like the situation or aren’t happy they themselves get out why do men get fucked? I guess we should ask Bhanky this question. Lol I guess the real question is why do they feel they have superiority?
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Why is it when there’s trouble in paradise? They feel entitled to the home that you share together and forced you to leave when in fact they don’t like the situation or aren’t happy they themselves get out why do men get fucked? I guess we should ask Bhanky this question. Lol I guess the real question is why do they feel they have superiority?
Because they know the law is heavily biased towards them and will overwhelmingly favour them in almost every situation in a divorce or separation.
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Because they know the law is heavily biased towards them and will overwhelming favour them in almost every situation in a divorce or separation.
yeah I totally agree with you. That is such fucked up and bullshit. The system is broken.
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yeah I totally agree with you. That is such fucked up and bullshit. The system is broken.
Get a life.
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Get a life.
I do it’s called getbig cumstain
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Get a life.
Are there things 'Royalty'? ???
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Are there things 'Royalty'? ???
he seems angry for no reason
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Marriage is the leading cause of divorce
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Marriage is the leading cause of divorce
my last act of 10 years, accused me of having commitment issues fuck that I’m not giving up half my business to be married. Good thing I kept my condo because I knew this wasn’t gonna work out. I wasn’t gonna put myself in a fucked up position, women are bat shit and overly entitled I was watching a movie last night where the women told the husband he needed to leave his house that’s what brought me into this question. Why do women feel the right that the man has to leave and not them?
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my last act of 10 years, accused me of having commitment issues fuck that I’m not giving up half my business to be married. Good thing I kept my condo because I knew this wasn’t gonna work out. I wasn’t gonna put myself in a fucked up position, women are bat shit and overly entitled I was watching a movie last night where the women told the husband he needed to leave his house that’s what brought me into this question. Why do women feel the right that the man has to leave and not them?
Go cry somewhere else
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Go cry somewhere else
this thread is not for you
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Women enjoy feeling superior these days it's a trip, they expect you to chivalrously leave your home because even though her mouth be spewing shit she still expects to be sitting there feeding her fat ass.
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Women enjoy feeling superior these days it's a trip, they expect you to chivalrously leave your home because even though her mouth be spewing shit she still expects to be sitting there feeding her fat ass.
Yes - sadly thats very true of many of them.
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Women enjoy feeling superior these days it's a trip, they expect you to chivalrously leave your home because even though her mouth be spewing shit she still expects to be sitting there feeding her fat ass.
it’s an illness
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it’s an illness
Some men have no conscience but on the whole I think we are more self critical of our behaviors and try to iron out our characters to be more understanding of the opposite sex but with women these days they glorify their own chaos messing with mens minds like its a sport they get off of.
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Sean knew the score :D
"You're going to get mail over this "
Sean...Fe-mail :D
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My wife once asked me a few years ago if I would contest a divorce. I told her I don't want to talk about it right now and went on with my business. Still married - and I love my wife! ;D
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Some men have no conscience but on the whole I think we are more self critical of our behaviors and try to iron out our characters to be more understanding of the opposite sex but with women these days they glorify their own chaos messing with mens minds like its a sport they get off of.
It depends on the person. My wife and I have arguments, but if she’s stressed and taking it out on me, I just walk away. She usually comes back later and apologizes. Arguing back only escalates petty stuff. Often, giving space lets her realize she was wrong and apologize.
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It depends on the person. My wife and I have arguments, but if she’s stressed and taking it out on me, I just walk away. She usually comes back later and apologizes. Arguing back only escalates petty stuff. Often, giving space lets her realize she was wrong and apologize.
I agree.
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My wife once asked me a few years ago if I would contest a divorce. I told her I don't want to talk about it right now and went on with my business. Still married - and I love my wife! ;D
Hmmm...can you be sure she hasn't fucked another man?
Sounds like you didn't want to address such a blatant statement.
Some men do this & just ignore the signs, seen it happen to guys.
Maybe deep down you need her more than she needs you
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Hmmm...can you be sure she hasn't fucked another man?
Sounds like you didn't want to address such a blatant statement.
Some men do this & just ignore the signs, seen it happen to guys.
Maybe deep down you need her more than she needs you
I would definitely want to sit down with her when in a good frame of mind and ask why exactly she wanted a divorce not just ignore it.
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Hmmm...can you be sure she hasn't fucked another man?
Sounds like you didn't want to address such a blatant statement.
Some men do this & just ignore the signs, seen it happen to guys.
Maybe deep down you need her more than she needs you
No she has not. She brought that up after a big argument. If we do argue she'll bring up shit from many years ago. Women are emotional and if you engage in an argument it can escalate. The King on the Hill does not get involved in petty arguments. It's for women and children. I should have followed my own advice years ago and would have avoided a lot of BS drama. I’m not saying it’s easy — she’s tested me a few times, and I still slip occasionally — but I’m just not interested in conflict. Why bother?
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Everyone should get married with a prenup. Let the women make their own money; don't let them hold that financial hammer over your head that they get 50% in a divorce.
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Everyone should get married with a prenup. Let the women make their own money; don't let them hold that financial hammer over your head that they get 50% in a divorce.
and if you have a child you should get a paternity test
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I do it’s called getbig cumstain
Listen up Danimal....you've been warned
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It depends on the person. My wife and I have arguments, but if she’s stressed and taking it out on me, I just walk away. She usually comes back later and apologizes. Arguing back only escalates petty stuff. Often, giving space lets her realize she was wrong and apologize.
I will say...nothing leaves them guessing more than CALMLY saying "Nope, not engaging like this" then grabbing your keys and leaving/ hanging up the phone / etc
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Don't leave the house, be neutral 24/7 and treat her like a roommate from now
until something better for you becomes available
WoooooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Oh Tany
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Don't leave the house, be neutral 24/7 and treat her like a roommate from now
until something better for you becomes available
WoooooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Oh Tany
that my friend is textbook narcissism lol and that’s what my old ex lady was
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Everyone should get married with a prenup. Let the women make their own money; don't let them hold that financial hammer over your head that they get 50% in a divorce.
I work with someone who's wife divorced him. She got the main house and he had to pay $8,000 per month alimony. But he kept his business and all his other homes. Her alimony payments will be drying up in a few years.
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I will say...nothing leaves them guessing more than CALMLY saying "Nope, not engaging like this" then grabbing your keys and leaving/ hanging up the phone / etc
Exactly. That’s how you deal with drama — shut it down and get on with your life. She didn’t marry a girlfriend to bicker with; she wants a man who leads. Arguing over petty crap is beneath a man.
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Why is it when there’s trouble in paradise? They feel entitled to the home that you share together and forced you to leave when in fact they don’t like the situation or aren’t happy they themselves get out why do men get fucked? I guess we should ask Bhanky this question. Lol I guess the real question is why do they feel they have superiority?
Because they are totally helpless and can't do for themselves at all without the support of a man, without a man providing the basics of shelter and money, and they're so hysterical and emmotional yet weak and stupid that they certainly wouldn't be able to achieve any kind of financial security on their own, and the courts have recognized this, which is why the law is biased.... when it suits them.
All other times women are fed a steady diet of empowerment bullshit that they eat up. A woman wears a new dress and takes a selfie and she "slays" lol or she thinks she's a "boss bitch" , another adjective they love to use to describe themselves and each other is "fierce" , yes when the chips are in their favor they get to thinking they are super heros, there's nothing they can't do, they don't need men, they are not just equal to men, they are superior. Men become more toxic the more manly they become. This thought process is used also when it suits them.. when it doesn't suit them, the first paragraph starts all over again. Its a cycle of utterly helpless and dangerously arrogant. That just repeats depending on whether its to their benefit.
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All other times women are fed a steady diet of empowerment bullshit that they eat up. A woman wears a new dress and takes a selfie and she "slays" lol or she thinks she's a "boss bitch" , another adjective they love to use to describe themselves and each other is "fierce" , yes when the chips are in their favor they get to thinking they are super heros, there's nothing they can't do, they don't need men, they are not just equal to men, they are superior. Men become more toxic the more manly they become. This thought process is used also when it suits them.. when it doesn't suit them, the first paragraph starts all over again. Its a cycle of utterly helpless and dangerously arrogant. That just repeats depending on whether its to their benefit.
Average girls these days get DMs with hundreds of guys wanting to fuck them, this makes them think they are 10s.
Young women in modernity never get to hear "No" and when they eventually do their world implodes.
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Average girls these days get DMs with hundreds of guys wanting to fuck them, this makes them think they are 10s.
Young women in modernity never get to hear "No" and when they eventually do their world implodes.
This will change with AI and robotics improvements. You'll have sexbots that don't take a shit or have periods, and look like a 10 or even 12. And they will never say no or argue.
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This will change with AI and robotics improvements. You'll have sexbots that don't take a shit or have periods, and look like a 10 or even 12. And they will never say no or argue.
who the fuck wants sex bot to look 10 or 12 years old. That’s just weird. Having a sex button in general is weird.
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Because they are totally helpless and can't do for themselves at all without the support of a man, without a man providing the basics of shelter and money, and they're so hysterical and emmotional yet weak and stupid that they certainly wouldn't be able to achieve any kind of financial security on their own, and the courts have recognized this, which is why the law is biased.... when it suits them.
All other times women are fed a steady diet of empowerment bullshit that they eat up. A woman wears a new dress and takes a selfie and she "slays" lol or she thinks she's a "boss bitch" , another adjective they love to use to describe themselves and each other is "fierce" , yes when the chips are in their favor they get to thinking they are super heros, there's nothing they can't do, they don't need men, they are not just equal to men, they are superior. Men become more toxic the more manly they become. This thought process is used also when it suits them.. when it doesn't suit them, the first paragraph starts all over again. Its a cycle of utterly helpless and dangerously arrogant. That just repeats depending on whether its to their benefit.
Men don't become more toxic the more manly they become unless the ideal of "manly" becomes out of balance or the woman just frames them that way. It is not feminine for a woman to cheat and vice versa for example.
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Men do don't become more toxic the more manly they become unless the ideal of "manly" becomes out of balance or the woman just frames them that way. It is not feminine for a woman to cheat and vice versa for example.
exactly
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who the fuck wants sex bot to look 10 or 12 years old. That’s just weird. Having a sex button in general is weird.
I was talking about a 10/10 on the hotness scale — and then jokingly cranked it up to an “off-the-charts” 12/10. LMAO!
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Lots of proper responses in here. Bottom line, lower your expectations and do not engage in their trivial emotional nonsense. After a few years they figure out they are in the wrong for acting this way.
Women should not be placed on a pedestal, treat them like your best friend and avoid this whole treating them like a queen nonsense. Never walk on eggshells around them and let them know when they are out of line. You just need to deliver it calmly and without be an asshole, women are very good listeners and hang on to those words.
Very few women can elevate to a man's level in an emotional situation. They just aren't built the same way. Many men are like this too, like our resident retard hanky. Having a calm and cool head takes a lot of mental toughness and maturity. I've learned to let shit go and focus on logic over emotion.
My wife is a very independent and strong Mexican woman. And I can ruin her entire day by doing a handful of things. I obviously avoid doing these things, but this just reminds me of how fragile she is. She sees things that I do or say in a very different way than I do.
She could go totally retard on me and I'd be frustrated for about 30 minutes and move on to something else. The best thing is to not engage and just leave the situation. And I don't mean leaving the house or whatever, just walk into your office and go about your day, etc. Arguing with them brings you down to their level and gives them a mental boost that they are right, it's just the same as arguing with people at work, etc.
Hold yourself to a higher standard and be a gentleman. Carry yourself as a proper man and don't engage in all their shit. It will only get worse if you do.
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Lots of proper responses in here. Bottom line, lower your expectations and do not engage in their trivial emotional nonsense. After a few years they figure out they are in the wrong for acting this way.
Women should not be placed on a pedestal, treat them like your best friend and avoid this whole treating them like a queen nonsense. Never walk on eggshells around them and let them know when they are out of line. You just need to deliver it calmly and without be an asshole, women are very good listeners and hang on to those words.
Very few women can elevate to a man's level in an emotional situation. They just aren't built the same way. Many men are like this too, like our resident retard hanky. Having a calm and cool head takes a lot of mental toughness and maturity. I've learned to let shit go and focus on logic over emotion.
My wife is a very independent and strong Mexican woman. And I can ruin her entire day by doing a handful of things. I obviously avoid doing these things, but this just reminds me of how fragile she is. She sees things that I do or say in a very different way than I do.
She could go totally retard on me and I'd be frustrated for about 30 minutes and move on to something else. The best thing is to not engage and just leave the situation. And I don't mean leaving the house or whatever, just walk into your office and go about your day, etc. Arguing with them brings you down to their level and gives them a mental boost that they are right, it's just the same as arguing with people at work, etc.
Hold yourself to a higher standard and be a gentleman. Carry yourself as a proper man and don't engage in all their shit. It will only get worse if you do.
Good post.
Unrelated to your post, but here’s a truth: young men can get easily flustered around women and become weak and meek. High testosterone makes them horny, and when they see someone they like, they often act awkward — stumbling over words, nervous, incoherent.
The trick is to do the opposite: stay composed, confident, and in control. Women want to feel comfortable around someone, not unsafe or uncertain. Give off a creepy or weak vibe, and she’ll naturally pull away; show calm confidence, and interactions become much easier.
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Lots of proper responses in here. Bottom line, lower your expectations and do not engage in their trivial emotional nonsense. After a few years they figure out they are in the wrong for acting this way.
Women should not be placed on a pedestal, treat them like your best friend and avoid this whole treating them like a queen nonsense. Never walk on eggshells around them and let them know when they are out of line. You just need to deliver it calmly and without be an asshole, women are very good listeners and hang on to those words.
Very few women can elevate to a man's level in an emotional situation. They just aren't built the same way. Many men are like this too, like our resident retard hanky. Having a calm and cool head takes a lot of mental toughness and maturity. I've learned to let shit go and focus on logic over emotion.
My wife is a very independent and strong Mexican woman. And I can ruin her entire day by doing a handful of things. I obviously avoid doing these things, but this just reminds me of how fragile she is. She sees things that I do or say in a very different way than I do.
She could go totally retard on me and I'd be frustrated for about 30 minutes and move on to something else. The best thing is to not engage and just leave the situation. And I don't mean leaving the house or whatever, just walk into your office and go about your day, etc. Arguing with them brings you down to their level and gives them a mental boost that they are right, it's just the same as arguing with people at work, etc.
Hold yourself to a higher standard and be a gentleman. Carry yourself as a proper man and don't engage in all their shit. It will only get worse if you do.
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Woah, when did this happen? Congrats, man. I remember you were always very similar to me with regards to relationships and travelling. I'm tying the knot soon, too.
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Lots of proper responses in here. Bottom line, lower your expectations and do not engage in their trivial emotional nonsense. After a few years they figure out they are in the wrong for acting this way.
Women should not be placed on a pedestal, treat them like your best friend and avoid this whole treating them like a queen nonsense. Never walk on eggshells around them and let them know when they are out of line. You just need to deliver it calmly and without be an asshole, women are very good listeners and hang on to those words.
Very few women can elevate to a man's level in an emotional situation. They just aren't built the same way. Many men are like this too, like our resident retard hanky. Having a calm and cool head takes a lot of mental toughness and maturity. I've learned to let shit go and focus on logic over emotion.
My wife is a very independent and strong Mexican woman. And I can ruin her entire day by doing a handful of things. I obviously avoid doing these things, but this just reminds me of how fragile she is. She sees things that I do or say in a very different way than I do.
She could go totally retard on me and I'd be frustrated for about 30 minutes and move on to something else. The best thing is to not engage and just leave the situation. And I don't mean leaving the house or whatever, just walk into your office and go about your day, etc. Arguing with them brings you down to their level and gives them a mental boost that they are right, it's just the same as arguing with people at work, etc.
Hold yourself to a higher standard and be a gentleman. Carry yourself as a proper man and don't engage in all their shit. It will only get worse if you do.
“Dear Diary: it’s fantasy time again. This time I will offer unwanted advice to anonymous men who just want this thread to go away.”
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If you marry a woman with a decent paying career who saves and invests, you won’t lose your ass as long as you don’t commingle your pre-marital assets. The problem is that’s pretty rare nowadays. If you make all of the money, then you’re fucked without a prenup.
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Women are not great listeners at all, that is why they walk away or the man feels like doing so, they love chaos and drama and can even become evil to get revenge against problems they created, short sighted impulsive and selfish creatures they can be.
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Women are not great listeners at all, that is why they walk away or the man feels like doing so, they love chaos and drama and can even become evil to get revenge against problems they created, short sighted impulsive and selfish creatures they can be.
bigtime
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No she has not. She brought that up after a big argument. If we do argue she'll bring up shit from many years ago. Women are emotional and if you engage in an argument it can escalate. The King on the Hill does not get involved in petty arguments. It's for women and children. I should have followed my own advice years ago and would have avoided a lot of BS drama. I’m not saying it’s easy — she’s tested me a few times, and I still slip occasionally — but I’m just not interested in conflict. Why bother?
You actually sound very submissive & I think your wife wears the trousers at home.
You're trying to pass this off as being "mature" & in control of the woman in your recent posts but you're lying to yourself
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I've heard a number of women say they love to argue and fight with their spouse and some even say it's healthy and necessary. In very heated arguments it's easy to say things you can't take back, maybe they can be forgiven but it's not forgotten if it's hurtful enough. I haven't had many serious relationships but I seem to give off a vibe that I won't fight so they don't happen even if it's a woman who is the fighting type. This might not be all positive, if things are never aired out, I don't know... The crazy arguments and fights I've seen others have with their partners are something I would never engage in, especially repeatedly over many years like many do. Often both parties see them as normal in a way. I'm witnessing one in my family now, high chance it will end in tragedy one day with someone dead, both might kill the other. I could never live that way.
Everything ends one day :'( :D
"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away… Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality"
"Love Is a Dog from Hell"
"Human relationships were strange. I mean, you were with one person a while, eating and sleeping and living with them, loving them, talking to them, going places together, and then it stopped."
“god, love is more strange than numerals more strange than grass on fire more strange than the dead body of a child drowned in the bottom of a tub, we know so little, we know so much, we don’t know enough.”
- Bukowski
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I've heard a number of women say they love to argue and fight with their spouse and some even say it's healthy and necessary. In very heated arguments it's easy to say things you can't take back, maybe they can be forgiven but it's not forgotten if it's hurtful enough. I haven't had many serious relationships but I seem to give off a vibe that I won't fight so they don't happen even if it's a woman who is the fighting type. This might not be all positive, if things are never aired out, I don't know... The crazy arguments and fights I've seen others have with their partners are something I would never engage in, especially repeatedly over many years like many do. Often both parties see them as normal in a way. I'm witnessing one in my family now, high chance it will end in tragedy one day with someone dead, both might kill the other. I could never live that way.
Everything ends one day :'( :D
"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away… Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality"
"Love Is a Dog from Hell"
"Human relationships were strange. I mean, you were with one person a while, eating and sleeping and living with them, loving them, talking to them, going places together, and then it stopped."
- Bukowski
What they really want out of the drama is the hard makeup sex and strong orgasms. They give their man an opportunity to assert himself, take charge and use them hard in bed.
Yes, these can be healthy reset points in a relationship.
I noticed you like Bukowski, I read quite a lot from him this summer. Included a biography and his autobiography. Most of his relationships were with extremely crazy women and under the fog of alcohol, I think this may have influenced his views on love somewhat.
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I noticed you like Bukowski, I read quite a lot from him this summer. Included a biography and his autobiography. Most of his relationships were with extremely crazy women and under the fog of alcohol, I think this may have influenced his views on love somewhat.
I've loved Bukowski throughout my life. "Van Bilderass" comes from a Bukowski story. Alcohol was a major theme in his work for sure.
"She called me "Mr. Van Bilderass" for some reason I couldn't figure. She'd get drunk and keep saying, "You think you're hot stuff, you think you're Mr. Van Bilderass!"
8)
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I've loved Bukowski throughout my life. "Van Bilderass" comes from a Bukowski story. Alcohol was a major theme in his work for sure.
"She called me "Mr. Van Bilderass" for some reason I couldn't figure. She'd get drunk and keep saying, "You think you're hot stuff, you think you're Mr. Van Bilderass!"
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There is a forum full of Bukowski maniacs are you there?
A few years ago one of them went and found (https://bukowskiforum.com/threads/the-mystery-of-jane-c-cooney-baker.11444/page-3) the unmarked grave of his great love, Jane Cooney Baker... crazy
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I've heard a number of women say they love to argue and fight with their spouse and some even say it's healthy and necessary. In very heated arguments it's easy to say things you can't take back, maybe they can be forgiven but it's not forgotten if it's hurtful enough. I haven't had many serious relationships but I seem to give off a vibe that I won't fight so they don't happen even if it's a woman who is the fighting type. This might not be all positive, if things are never aired out, I don't know... The crazy arguments and fights I've seen others have with their partners are something I would never engage in, especially repeatedly over many years like many do. Often both parties see them as normal in a way. I'm witnessing one in my family now, high chance it will end in tragedy one day with someone dead, both might kill the other. I could never live that way.
Everything ends one day :'( :D
"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away… Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality"
"Love Is a Dog from Hell"
"Human relationships were strange. I mean, you were with one person a while, eating and sleeping and living with them, loving them, talking to them, going places together, and then it stopped."
“god, love is more strange than numerals more strange than grass on fire more strange than the dead body of a child drowned in the bottom of a tub, we know so little, we know so much, we don’t know enough.”
- Bukowski
But inside do you want to "fight" if a woman is starting saying ugly things? If a man don't fight back calmy the woman feels she is the one with the power who has the right to speak out whereas the man is expected then just to keep quite to prove his "manliness".
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There is a forum full of Bukowski maniacs are you there?
A few years ago one of them went and found (https://bukowskiforum.com/threads/the-mystery-of-jane-c-cooney-baker.11444/page-3) the unmarked grave of his great love, Jane Cooney Baker... crazy
No I haven't looked at the forums. It's hip to like Bukowski but I try to keep away from other fans because I will probably not like them LOL. Of course some feel they are too sophisticated to like the brutish and perhaps undisciplined Bukowski... snobs. Don't care what anyone else thinks, he's brightened my days and nights many times :D He's recommended other poets and writers with different styles which I've loved s well. Robinson Jeffers and Ezra Pound for poetry, some Russians for novels, John Fante and so on.
Haha, the phrase "Don't Try" that I've had under my username here for the longest time is from Bukowski's grave stone and it was a theme in his writing.
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But inside do you want to "fight" if a woman is starting saying ugly things? If a man don't fight back calmy the woman feels she is the one with the power who has the right to speak out whereas the man is expected then just to keep quite to prove his "manliness".
I know exactly what you mean but my experience has been that women don't start fighting with me in the first place, somehow they intuit that I won't tolerate any shouting matches and such. It's probably a fault since other problems result when you "can't" fight and air grievances. It's genetic I believe as my mother is the same; withdrawing instead of fighting. If a friend loses his cool and starts berating me I then think "ok, then there's no reason for us to be friends" and the friendship ends right there.