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Title: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: the shadow on December 14, 2006, 11:26:23 AM
in my country girls chase men with big cars and lots of money.these guys tend to have the worst looks,the worst bodies and the lamest attitude..this trend has been going on for ever..so what happens in your countries??
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Playboy on December 14, 2006, 12:28:03 PM
in my country girls chase men with big cars and lots of money.these guys tend to have the worst looks,the worst bodies and the lamest attitude..this trend has been going on for ever..so what happens in your countries??
Thats why they're attracted to $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

PB
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Mydavid on December 14, 2006, 12:41:01 PM
in my country girls chase men with big cars and lots of money.these guys tend to have the worst looks,the worst bodies and the lamest attitude..this trend has been going on for ever..so what happens in your countries??

I'd rather be with a guy that may have financial security but does not show it...you know, dresses average (but cute) and drives just a mediocore TRUCK with big wheels, stable job and a decent home (whether he owns or rents)...that's all, not much.

Lisa
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Blockhead on December 14, 2006, 01:13:44 PM

 All a bunch of b.s.ing going on in here...

 Women like men they feel are 'bad' and like when these 'bad edgy kind of out there' men treat them like dirt.

 Want to chase a woman away? Treat them with respect and treat them like an equal.

 Thank you.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Mydavid on December 14, 2006, 01:17:17 PM
All a bunch of b.s.ing going on in here...

 Women like men they feel are 'bad' and like when these 'bad edgy kind of out there' men treat them like dirt.

 Want to chase a woman away? Treat them with respect and treat them like an equal.

 Thank you.

Let's go spoon :-*

Lisa
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Lord Humungous on December 14, 2006, 02:25:48 PM
What attracts a girl? thats easy, me  :)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 03:31:25 PM
$$$$$$
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Parker on December 14, 2006, 04:03:36 PM
money seems to do it. Plus looks, which means that she "looking" at your money

but if you really have to ask, "what attracts a woman?", and you haven't figure it out on your own. There might not be any hope.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 14, 2006, 04:48:50 PM
You have to perk their curiosity.....they aren't attracted to what they aren't interested in.....in my HUMBLE opinion. 
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 04:50:35 PM
What happens if you don't need money and you're too sensitive to be with a bad boy ???
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 14, 2006, 04:51:41 PM
What happens if you don't need money and you're too sensitive to be with a bad boy ???

A prime example of a hottie being with a dork.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 04:53:05 PM
What happens if you don't need money and you're too sensitive to be with a bad boy ???
Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett. 8)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 04:57:19 PM
ROFLMAO to both of you! Although, Lyle Lovett is going wayyyyyy too far.  :P
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 04:58:19 PM
ROFLMAO to both of you! Although, Lyle Lovett is going wayyyyyy too far.  :P
Maybe he is hung like a horse and the joke is on us?  ???
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: az on December 14, 2006, 05:01:53 PM
Maybe he is hung like a horse and the joke is on us?  ???

I agree!

(see Cap, we can get along)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 05:03:28 PM
I agree!

(see Cap, we can get along)
Yes, we can.  8)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: az on December 14, 2006, 05:09:29 PM
I think that blue collar men are the best. They are sexy, strong, hard workers, can fix things and are easy going down to earth kinda guys.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 14, 2006, 05:11:58 PM
I think that blue collar men are the best. They are sexy, strong, hard workers, can fix things and are easy going down to earth kinda guys.

Easy going down?????   ???

 ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Bast000 on December 14, 2006, 05:13:21 PM
I think that blue collar men are the best. They are sexy, strong, hard workers, can fix things and are easy going down to earth kinda guys.

most 'blue collar' men are fat slobs, no?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 05:16:12 PM
Firemen...  :)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 05:19:19 PM
I think confidence, humor, some material wealth and moderate looks will do wonders....i still think not giving a shit if the girl wants you works alot but that is a matter of opinion
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Bast000 on December 14, 2006, 05:19:31 PM
Firemen...  :)

I have a few firemen friends.  both work out as well.   Even were juicing as teenagers, lol.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Bast000 on December 14, 2006, 05:21:24 PM
Girls like guys who don't care what girls are attracted to (to go with cap's point)    ..what is your country anyway Shadow?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 05:23:55 PM
Girls like guys who don't care what girls are attracted to (to go with cap's point)    ..what is your country anyway Shadow?
India
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: 24KT on December 14, 2006, 05:24:09 PM
What is sooo cracking me up is the fact that this questions of 'what really attracts a GIRL' has been asked on the girly board, ...and out of 22 responses so far, ...only 2 respondents were 'WOMEN'. {ROTFLMAO}
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 05:26:28 PM
Girls like guys who don't care what girls are attracted to (to go with cap's point)    ..what is your country anyway Shadow?

Dinner always tastes better when you're really hungry.  ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 05:44:17 PM
something has to interest me about the person before I am attracted to them. If i am interested/intrigued then everything else kinda follows.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 05:58:12 PM
Women like to be treated like shit. Anyone denying it is a liar.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:01:30 PM
Women like to be treated like shit. Anyone denying it is a liar.

We LIKE to be treated like shit?? LMAO....
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:02:05 PM
Well I felt obliged to respond cause I got women figured out....

 ;D

No babe, you THINK you have women figured out, there's a difference.  ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:04:03 PM
We LIKE to be treated like shit?? LMAO....
Subconsciously, women want a man who is bad because they are natural nuturers so naturally they think they can change the bad boy into what they want.  They want a civilized bad boy but it never works.  It usually ends in divorce or spousal abuse...

I still stand by my belief that a woman can't know how much you like her or she owns you...I like women to work for my attention and I think they like to work for our attention as well
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:08:01 PM
I still stand by my belief that a woman can't know how much you like her or she owns you...I like women to work for my attention and I think they like to work for our attention as well

I dont (ever) work for someones attention, nor do I chase men....sometimes it happens, but its rare. If a guy is interested in me, then he needs to show it, before I will do anything. Shrugs...thats just me.

Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:10:43 PM
I dont (ever) work for someones attention, nor do I chase men....sometimes it happens, but its rare. If a guy is interested in me, then he needs to show it, before I will do anything. Shrugs...thats just me.


Maybe at an older age, but younger women do chase men esp if you give them some attention and then take it away...i essentially liken it to giving them a taste of their own medicine.  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:17:22 PM
Maybe at an older age, but younger women do chase men esp if you give them some attention and then take it away...i essentially liken it to giving them a taste of their own medicine.  ;D

Im old??  :o Im 20...lol

Ahh, giving attention then taking it away is different...thats teasing, doesnt always mean they are chasing or interested.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:18:32 PM
Im old??  :o Im 20...lol

Ahh, giving attention then taking it away is different...thats teasing, doesnt always mean they are chasing or interested.
are you?  Lol.  Well in my experience I have been chased more than chase and they have chased with what you call "teasing".  I guess I got lucky... 8)

I generally don't believe any woman who says they don't chase men, unless they look like a super model and even then it can happen...
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 06:21:04 PM
Im old??  :o Im 20...lol

Ahh, giving attention then taking it away is different...thats teasing, doesnt always mean they are chasing or interested.

I'm 20, too. We can be going somewhere with this. How about me, you, McDonald's a bottle of $4 wine. We could have one helluva time.  ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:21:19 PM
are you?  Lol.  Well in my experience I have been chased more than chase and they have chased with what you call "teasing".  I guess I got lucky... 8)

Why are you so shocked at my age? *wonders if my avatar makes me look old*  ;D

Im only talking on my opinion and experience here. Other women may be different.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:22:02 PM
coughsBScoughs

 ;)

 >:( shush!!
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:22:26 PM
Why are you so shocked at my age? *wonders if my avatar makes me look old*  ;D

Im only talking on my opinion and experience here. Other women may be different.
For some reason your posts made me think you were older, maybe more intelligent than women I know.  *Shrugs his shoulders*
I only speak of opinion as well.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:25:24 PM
For some reason your posts made me think you were older, maybe more intelligent than women I know.  *Shrugs his shoulders*
I only speak of opinion as well.

Lol...its all that knowledge and intelligence I have  ???...maybe not....

But thank you, i'll take it as a compliment. :D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 06:25:45 PM
My offer's on the table Diamond. I wasn't planning on paying but we could work something out.  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 06:28:43 PM
Her taste is a lil more.....exquisite......   ;)

McDonald's and cheap wine is as good as it gets.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:29:36 PM
Her taste is a lil more.....exquisit......   ;)
speaking from experience or did you have a McDonlad's date go bad?  ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:29:58 PM
I'm 20, too. We can be going somewhere with this. How about me, you, McDonald's a bottle of $4 wine. We could have one helluva time.  ;)

Wow...I'm impressed...

Macca's and wine. Dont eat McDonalds....and $4 wine?? ummm...
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:36:30 PM
speaking from experience or did you have a McDonlad's date go bad?  ;)

He is speaking from experience  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:36:58 PM
He is speaking from experience  ;D
Lol. 
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 06:39:55 PM
Sigh, I guess I could settle for Flower. She seems like's wooed easily.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:41:08 PM
Sigh, I guess I could settle for Flower. She seems like's wooed easily.
If you want to play with saline, go to a medical office.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Fury on December 14, 2006, 06:44:47 PM
If you want to play with saline, go to a medical office.

hahahahahahahaha yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was great!
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:50:26 PM
I prefer.....firm....perky .....and natural....... ;D

Im lost....what?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 14, 2006, 06:51:46 PM
WTF Bast?  OMG........ya know there is a gay thread on the sex board......
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 06:53:32 PM
Well I am admittedly really slow on this one but I am guessing GetB and Diamond are a couple?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 06:54:47 PM
Dont worry babe, you have nothing to worry about......   ;)

I meet all those requirements then I take it?  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:00:01 PM
I think guys have to be strategically distant and knock the girl down a peg, esp when they are young.  Flattery will only take you so far with a woman. 
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 07:04:10 PM
Well I am admittedly really slow on this one but I am guessing GetB and Diamond are a couple?

Correct! ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 07:04:34 PM
My offer's on the table Diamond. I wasn't planning on paying but we could work something out.  ;D

She's not going anywhere with you until you read the sticky at the top of the thread and agree to the rules. Please do so. You know what to do. Since when did I have to become the chaperone?   ;)

And BASSSSTTTT!!!!! What the...??? Nice pic... but bad, bad boy!!!  >:(
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 07:05:31 PM
I think guys have to be strategically distant and knock the girl down a peg, esp when they are young.  Flattery will only take you so far with a woman. 

 :o Are you trying to imply something there? lmao
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:07:55 PM
:o Are you trying to imply something there? lmao
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:13:32 PM
women are attracted to:

1) $$$$$$$$$
2) your house
3) your car
4) your social status

Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:14:22 PM
women are attracted to:

1) $$$$$$$$$
2) your house
3) your car
4) your social status


My gf said my butt was a big initial turn on?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:16:24 PM
let me guess, you keep your wallet in your BACK pocket.  it wasn't your butt she was looking at.  She zero'd in on the wallet.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:17:05 PM
let me guess, you keep your wallet in your BACK pocket.  it wasn't your butt she was looking at.  She zero'd in on the wallet.
Haha...no my can of dip (chew) sits back there.  Nice try.  ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 14, 2006, 07:18:52 PM
Chances are she was attracted to your butt. Miggy needs to be beaten about the head and shoulders with the romance paddle.  
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:19:50 PM
Chances are she was attracted to your butt. Miggy needs to beaten about the head and shoulders with the romance paddle. 
Lol.  She said she really liked my face and smile, but the butt was a big turn on as well.  Kinda funny.  Never thought of that as a big deal for girls.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:22:21 PM
Haha...no my can of dip (chew) sits back there.  Nice try.  ;)

she probably mistook your can for a trendy wallet
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:23:47 PM
she probably mistook your can for a trendy wallet
Haha.  I should market that to Chanel or Gucci or something...
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:32:24 PM
yup.  I get half!
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 07:35:06 PM
yup.  I get half!
Sounds good.  I bet they could go for like 200 bucks.  Women... ::)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:36:03 PM
they'll buy anything  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 14, 2006, 07:37:35 PM
they'll buy anything  ;D

Anything??  ;D

Actually...thats probably true...
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Migs on December 14, 2006, 07:39:27 PM
see told ya!  lol
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 14, 2006, 08:48:14 PM
Get Bigger, what a stud!    :D

(http://img1.putfile.com/thumb/12/34421043047.jpg)
We should get a face pic of diamond to compare.  How old are you GB?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 15, 2006, 07:20:57 AM
Get Bigger, what a stud!    :D



Now you know why I get all the chicks Bast......  ;) 

And no Im not gay so quite sending me those PM's
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 15, 2006, 07:33:15 AM
Get Bigger, what a stud!    :D

Thats why I love him  ;) ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 15, 2006, 07:35:16 AM
We should get a face pic of diamond to compare.  How old are you GB?

Uhhhh....compare me to what??   ???
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 15, 2006, 08:06:58 AM
Uhhhh....compare me to what??   ???
Well based on the comment Bast, I was just saying to compare looks.  8)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 15, 2006, 08:16:28 AM
Well based on the comment Bast, I was just saying to compare looks.  8)

Riiiiiight..... :-\

....lmao....
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 15, 2006, 08:20:59 AM
Riiiiiight..... :-\

....lmao....
Yea, that's it I want your picture to treasure *rolls his eyes*
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 15, 2006, 08:23:22 AM
Yea, that's it I want your picture to treasure *rolls his eyes*

WTF?? lmao!

Where did that come from? lmao
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 15, 2006, 08:24:20 AM
WTF?? lmao!

Where did that come from? lmao
Sarcasm for sarcasm...lol
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: diamond on December 15, 2006, 08:28:12 AM
I wasn't sarcastic  ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Cap on December 15, 2006, 08:35:41 AM
I wasn't sarcastic  ;D
?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Bast000 on December 15, 2006, 02:53:33 PM
Now you know why I get all the chicks Bast......  ;) 

And no Im not gay so quite sending me those PM's

yes all you need is the leather hat and you have the typical gay bar goer look down.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 15, 2006, 05:42:50 PM
in my country girls chase men with big cars and lots of money.these guys tend to have the worst looks,the worst bodies and the lamest attitude..this trend has been going on for ever..so what happens in your countries??


if i were ugly..i'd be REALLY motivated also!


but in a word..

confidence mate! :)



Watch movie "tao of steve"
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 15, 2006, 05:44:25 PM
I'd rather be with a guy that may have financial security but does not show it...you know, dresses average (but cute) and drives just a mediocore TRUCK with big wheels, stable job and a decent home (whether he owns or rents)...that's all, not much.

Lisa


i'm almost practically a millionaire and i drive a POS civic...and have no sence of fashion...


wanna elope?



$ dosen't matter shit..i've seen it tear my extended famioly apart... :-\
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 15, 2006, 05:45:42 PM
What happens if you don't need money and you're too sensitive to be with a bad boy ???


ya really shoulda been living closer to me :(
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: BuffGoddess on December 15, 2006, 06:21:48 PM
in my country girls chase men with big cars and lots of money.these guys tend to have the worst looks,the worst bodies and the lamest attitude..this trend has been going on for ever..so what happens in your countries??
Here's an answer from a real woman on what women find attractive. Guys, it's not about the stuff you have. Personally, I don't give a crap about a guys paycheck, where he lives, what he drives, or whether he has a Rolex. Who cares??? Stuff does not make the man. A guy that is willing to put me before his friends, (for the most part) has a great sense of humor, is financially stable (so I'm not expected to pay for dates), cares about his looks (i.e. goes to the gym)
doesn't mind doing things for/with me, (which I don't ask very often) and treats me with love/respect at all times, that looks really good to me. I have found that guy, but if I post who he is all the girls are gonna be after him. Luv ya Sugar Bear!
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: proschic on December 15, 2006, 06:41:51 PM
Here's an answer from a real woman on what women find attractive. Guys, it's not about the stuff you have. Personally, I don't give a crap about a guys paycheck, where he lives, what he drives, or whether he has a Rolex. Who cares??? Stuff does not make the man. A guy that is willing to put me before his friends, (for the most part) has a great sense of humor, is financially stable (so I'm not expected to pay for dates), cares about his looks (i.e. goes to the gym)
doesn't mind doing things for/with me, (which I don't ask very often) and treats me with love/respect at all times, that looks really good to me. I have found that guy, but if I post who he is all the girls are gonna be after him. Luv ya Sugar Bear!

I'll second that Buff! 

Real women will care more about love and honesty than a fat wallet.  When a woman can look into her man's eyes and feel security and trust...and feel like she is the most important thing to him....a billionaire would not be able to take her away!!! 

Notice I say "REAL WOMAN"...there is a difference between these women and the vain, materialistic types that could care less about love or emotion.  Those are the ones who fall for the bad boys or rich old men.  Their lives revolve around what they have instead of what they feel.  One superseeds the other.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: GET_BIGGER on December 16, 2006, 12:19:16 AM
yes all you need is the leather hat and you have the typical gay bar goer look down.

Sweet Bast, thanks for the input....i will have to try that look out.  Can I borrow your leather hat?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: freespirit on December 16, 2006, 03:16:30 AM
Here's an answer from a real woman on what women find attractive. Guys, it's not about the stuff you have. Personally, I don't give a crap about a guys paycheck, where he lives, what he drives, or whether he has a Rolex. Who cares??? Stuff does not make the man. A guy that is willing to put me before his friends, (for the most part) has a great sense of humor, is financially stable (so I'm not expected to pay for dates), cares about his looks (i.e. goes to the gym)
doesn't mind doing things for/with me, (which I don't ask very often) and treats me with love/respect at all times, that looks really good to me. I have found that guy, but if I post who he is all the girls are gonna be after him. Luv ya Sugar Bear!

You're a woman with confidence. I like that.

But, Sugar Bear is a strange name for a dude...   ;)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Parker on December 16, 2006, 04:58:13 AM
I'll second that Buff! 

Real women will care more about love and honesty than a fat wallet.  When a woman can look into her man's eyes and feel security and trust...and feel like she is the most important thing to him....a billionaire would not be able to take her away!!! 

Notice I say "REAL WOMAN"...there is a difference between these women and the vain, materialistic types that could care less about love or emotion.  Those are the ones who fall for the bad boys or rich old men.  Their lives revolve around what they have instead of what they feel.  One superseeds the other.

Very few real women out there. Many women say this...but are really telling themselves this out loud. They don't follow this mantra. Its been said that what a woman says and what a woman does are tow diff things entirely.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: proschic on December 16, 2006, 08:36:11 AM
Very few real women out there. Many women say this...but are really telling themselves this out loud. They don't follow this mantra. Its been said that what a woman says and what a woman does are tow diff things entirely.

I can believe that..

But again...sometimes you find a woman who talks the talk but has other intentions.  I'm saying a real, genuine woman who has a solid self esteem, and knows what she wants will follow her heart! 

I've known both types...and it is an even split as to who is materialistic and who is genuine.  Genuine women aren't hard to find...just hard to keep.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Butterbean on December 16, 2006, 08:41:14 AM



i'm almost practically a millionaire and i drive a POS civic...and have no sence of fashion...


wanna elope?



$ dosen't matter shit..i've seen it tear my extended famioly apart... :-\
Toxy I don't get it.  Earlier you indicated you couldn't afford laser.  Maybe your money is all tied-up right now?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 16, 2006, 09:31:27 AM
Toxy I don't get it.  Earlier you indicated you couldn't afford laser.  Maybe your money is all tied-up right now?



well i can afford lazer but then i wouldn't be able to go to FL come may with 2 of my friends whom i'm paying for :-\   (thats like a lot of party and juice $ stells!)


pluz most of my $ is in real estate...tied up....and i own some land ..and actually a poultry farm in karachi (seriously..a friggin poultry farm :D)..the rest is in bonds


dad does stuff with it...its my inheritance...but i need to be married to see it (thats mums way ot pressuring me >:(   )

its just family stuff...also if i liquidate mine and take it..then my brother is gonna want his share also..and he's gonna want it NOW...and u think I party 2 much...my brother started partying 7 yrs ago and still going strong..if he gets his share he is gonna blow it within 1 yr and then come crying...i'm happy as i am right now and in all honesty i'll be making plenty of $ by june prolly trying to set up my own consulting firm..

i wont be touching the inheritance till my late 40s..and even then i'll invest it...

you keep the $ in the family by being smart with it...not buying flashy cars etc etc....u see what i mean right>?
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: proschic on December 16, 2006, 10:15:58 AM

dad does stuff with it...its my inheritance...but i need to be married to see it (thats mums way ot pressuring me >:(   )

its just family stuff...also if i liquidate mine and take it..then my brother is gonna want his share also..and he's gonna want it NOW...and u think I party 2 much...my brother started partying 7 yrs ago and still going strong..if he gets his share he is gonna blow it within 1 yr and then come crying...i'm happy as i am right now and in all honesty i'll be making plenty of $ by june prolly trying to set up my own consulting firm..

i wont be touching the inheritance till my late 40s..and even then i'll invest it...

you keep the $ in the family by being smart with it...not buying flashy cars etc etc....u see what i mean right>?

better to learn responsibility now so that it will be there when you ARE 40!  Plus, its always nice to know its there for a rainy day. 
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 16, 2006, 10:31:47 AM
better to learn responsibility now so that it will be there when you ARE 40!  Plus, its always nice to know its there for a rainy day. 

exactly...you DONT touch the principal <sp?>...you just take vacations and enjoy with what you make using the principal...

besides...i wanna retire early..plus my kids one day will expect $ like i myself do...its been working like that for generations now...
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: G o a t b o y on December 16, 2006, 12:38:25 PM
Personally, I think women are attracted by an overdeveloped sense of justice.  :)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Al-Gebra on December 16, 2006, 01:16:54 PM
Personally, I think women are attracted by an overdeveloped sense of justice.  :)

now that's one i haven't heard before
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: G o a t b o y on December 16, 2006, 01:18:04 PM
now that's one i haven't heard before


Deedee came up with it... I just repeated it.  :)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Al-Gebra on December 16, 2006, 01:27:03 PM

Deedee is the last romantic. 
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 16, 2006, 01:44:28 PM

Well, if you're a veterinarian, marine biologist, and/or have an overdeveloped sense of justice, it's pretty much a shoo-in with me.  So far, have only met those with the latter attribute, but... works for me.  :)
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Al-Gebra on December 16, 2006, 01:46:55 PM


you need to date social workers or pro bono lawyers . . .  maybe I should get some to post on here.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 16, 2006, 01:50:54 PM
Lol, it usually helps to date people living within driving distance.  And, I've dated enough lawyers.  :-X
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Al-Gebra on December 16, 2006, 01:53:03 PM
Lol, it usually helps to date people living within driving distance.  And, I've dated enough lawyers.  :-X

i know people in the northeast . . . you probably dated the typical "big firm" asshole who thinks he's god's gift to the world b/c he aced a couple of exams.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 16, 2006, 01:56:51 PM
i know people in the northeast . . . you probably dated the typical "big firm" asshole who thinks he's god's gift to the world b/c he aced a couple of exams.

Yes, that was him... my ex, lol.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Al-Gebra on December 16, 2006, 02:02:42 PM
Yes, that was him... my ex, lol.

so why did you date him in the first place? did you think he was the one who broke the mold?

I'm half kidding . . . I know some decent people who work for big firms, but they got married before they got there.

hope you got him to buy you some nice stuff at least.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: Deedee on December 16, 2006, 02:12:05 PM
Well you know lawyers when they want something.  He did his due diligence and persevered. Plus, he had intelligent eyes.  :)

I'm only half-kidding too... he's the ex so obviously I wouldn't be going on about his fineness as a human being.

I never "got" him to buy me anything... but won't say I wasn't spoiled. In many ways. Most of them non-fiscal in nature.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: 24KT on December 16, 2006, 04:01:19 PM

you keep the $ in the family by being smart with it...not buying flashy cars etc etc....u see what i mean right>?

You should do what Lisa Marie Presley did, she kept pushing back the age when she inherited her trust or something like that. This way no one would be able to their hands on it.
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: 24KT on December 16, 2006, 04:03:33 PM

I never "got" him to buy me anything... but won't say I wasn't spoiled. In many ways. Most of them non-fiscal in nature.

 ;D
Title: Re: what really attracts a GIRL?
Post by: BuffGoddess on December 16, 2006, 06:34:22 PM
You're a woman with confidence. I like that.

But, Sugar Bear is a strange name for a dude...   ;)
My name for him because he's big like a bear, but sweet to me...pay attention to posts, you'll figure it out.. ;D