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Would any of you have a problem with an ex's name being tattoed on your mate?
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I think that would bug any one.
You have to be carefull whose name you tat on to your self.
Look at Lee Priest he put AGs name on his delt and they broke up shortly afterwards..... what now?
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Would any of you have a problem with an ex's name being tattoed on your mate?
I don't have an issue with it because it's in the past, but it would look silly after the fact.
That's why I don't do tattoos........
People are so superficial sometimes.
Look at me, I only go for pale white women.
Talk about superficial. :-X
DIV
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What if it were an old boyfriend's name tattooed on the butt?
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It would have to go. Not negotiable.
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i wouldn't date a chick with her ex's name tatooed on herself...
IQs (within certain parameters (nurture)) dont change...
if i ever breed..i'll accept ugly children...
i wont forgive dumb ones..
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What if it were an old boyfriend's name tattooed on the butt?
I dated a girl that had that, even posted pics of it on here. I did not care at all.
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What if it were an old boyfriend's name tattooed on the butt?
Not going to happen, Jake.
You know me better than that, nugg.
DIV
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Not going to happen, Jake.
You know me better than that, nugg.
DIV
Was looking at a pic of a beautiful, thick neopolitan, booty and wondered hw much a tattoo there would bother me. :)
I definately couldn't date a girl with another dude's name tattooed on her booty. Wouldn't even care if me and the dude had the same name, LOL!
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I often wonder if my limits are too lmiting.
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I often wonder if my limits are too lmiting.
Only you can make that call, Jake.
My limits keep me happy......
I don't accept what I don't want.
Life is too short to settle.
DIV
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I often wonder if my limits are too lmiting.
Your ovethinking it ;)
Sometimes, limited intelligence is a asset. ;D
Now,.. go ahead and tell me Im richer'n Billy Gates....
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No biggie, their are several girls in the Pittsburgh area with my name tatooed on them. :D
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Would any of you have a problem with an ex's name being tattoed on your mate?
For me tattoos were never my thing.
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No biggie, their are several girls in the Pittsburgh area with my name tatooed on them. :D
Like Squad allways says... Pictures! Pictures! ;)
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After reading this thread I have to laugh. You are pretty shallow if you chose not to date someone because the cared enough or loved someone enough to put their name on their body. Yes, 90% are mistakes, but when they were done it was out of love for that person, not because they thought it would be fun for the day. ::)
And also is this something you ask someone prior to dating or are you saying that you could be dating someone for weeks or months and then finally see this name tatoo (as most are hidden beneath clothing) you would break up with them. Which seems even more shallow and probably best for the person you dumped. Who would want someone so shallow anyway? >:(
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After reading this thread I have to laugh. You are pretty shallow if you chose not to date someone because the cared enough or loved someone enough to put their name on their body. Yes, 90% are mistakes, but when they were done it was out of love for that person, not because they thought it would be fun for the day. ::)
And also is this something you ask someone prior to dating or are you saying that you could be dating someone for weeks or months and then finally see this name tattoo (as most are hidden beneath clothing) you would break up with them. Which seems even more shallow and probably best for the person you dumped. Who would want someone so shallow anyway? >:(
I wouldn't want someone to tattoo my name on their person, LOL!
It's not a matter of being shallow, per se, there are just some things people won't tolerate. true, I'm more vocal/honest about it than most but very few people would actually deal with it.
I'd have some fun with a person tattooed like that but if we were dating... the tattoo would have to go. And i know what you're thinking... NO, I wouldn't pay to have it removed, LOL!
None of us are perfect. We all have shallow points in our personalities.
I probably should have chosen a shorter name. :)
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For Me?
3cc of TEnanthate and Cialis wouldnt help, if there was another dudes name inked on her ;D.
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Sorry, LL
Didn't see your second question.
Like I'd wait months to see a woman naked, LOL!
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Sorry, LL
Didn't see your second question.
Like I'd wait months to see a woman naked, LOL!
(http://www.jaguarenterprises.net/images/rotflmao.gif)
Thanks Jake, ...I needed a good laugh right now!
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Thanks Jake, ...I needed a good laugh right now!
I kind of figured she was joking, considering her odd sense of humor, but decided to answer anyways.
Glad to have given you a giggle. :)
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That Heather got Bret's name tattooed on her neck on Rock of Love.
Now THAT is stupid no matter how you look at it.
I think that is pretty low of him to not even attempt to stop her (he went with her and was there when she did it). They are not even dating!! Is he going to send her home after she did that?!
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That Heather got Bret's name tattooed on her neck on Rock of Love.
Now THAT is stupid no matter how you look at it.
I think that is pretty low of him to not even attempt to stop her (he went with her and was there when she did it). They are not even dating!! Is he going to send her home after she did that?!
That was crazy, LOL!
Imagine what would have happened if they did this show when Poison was popular.
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That was crazy, LOL!
Imagine what would have happened if they did this show when Poison was popular.
Who are the guys in that group? One of them was pretty hot.
I ran into him at Frank Zappa's recording studio. I was walking out, and he was walking him.
I did a doublle-take that darn near gave me whiplash. There was a raw masculinity oozing out of him. :D
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laura lee,
Nice editing job, LOL!
You couldn't bear to think of it but I'm shallow. :)
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laura lee,
Nice editing job, LOL!
You couldn't bear to think of it but I'm shallow. :)
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Someone removed a paragraph from my post which included no profanity.
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Someone removed a paragraph from my post which included no profanity.
Wasn't me.
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Wasn't me.
Hmmm,
My question was pretty suggestive and specifically for you.
In a nutshell, I asked what if your man had a tattoo in a sensitive area and you had to see another woman's name every time or have her name make intimate contact with you? Essentially asked if you could really deal with that or would find a way to ignore it. I just couldn't.
Of course I wouldn't ask someone about an intimate tattoo on a first date, LOL! That would be too personal and suggest I only want to get in her pants.
I would, however, ask about pets on a first date.
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Hmmm,
My question was pretty suggestive and specifically for you.
In a nutshell, I asked what if your man had a tattoo in a sensitive area and you had to see another woman's name every time or have her name make intimate contact with you? Essentially asked if you could really deal with that or would find a way to ignore it. I just couldn't.
Of course I wouldn't ask someone about an intimate tattoo on a first date, LOL! That would be too personal and suggest I only want to get in her pants.
I would, however, ask about pets on a first date.
Funny you should ask me that. Michael has a tattoo of another girls name located in an area that is lets just say hidden with underwear. It was of someone he cared enough about to mark his body with her name. He was also very young at the time. I see it all the time. Does it bother me? No, not really because I'm secure with where we are in our relationship and I know it is something from the past and not a threat to my future with him.
I at one time had initials (not a name) on me. They too were of a person I cared very much about. Some things change and due to that change I chose to cover them over. But it took me many years to do so.
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Funny you should ask me that. Michael has a tattoo of another girls name located in an area that is lets just say hidden with underwear. It was of someone he cared enough about to mark his body with her name. He was also very young at the time. I see it all the time. Does it bother me? No, not really because I'm secure with where we are in our relationship and I know it is something from the past and not a threat to my future with him.
I at one time had initials (not a name) on me. They too were of a person I cared very much about. Some things change and due to that change I chose to cover them over. But it took me many years to do so.
You both coming into the relationship similarly marked alters your perspective quite a bit. Maybe you're more flexible in areas like that than most.
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You both coming into the relationship similarly marked alters your perspective quite a bit. Maybe you're more flexible in areas like that than most.
Or maybe we just realize that a little ink doesn't change a person. ;)
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It comes down to this: maybe the person didn't know what they were doing when they put someone's name on their body...maybe they did, but what right does one have to tell someone else that they must remove something off of their own body. It's like telling them to remove a piece of their past or history. If they choose to do it, as I did, that's one thing, but if I didn't want to remove it or cover it...no one could ever make me do so. I have never asked or nor would I expect Michael to alter or remove his tattoo if he didn't want to. It reminds him of his past and where he's been.
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It comes down to this: maybe the person didn't know what they were doing when they put someone's name on their body...maybe they did, but what right does one have to tell someone else that they must remove something off of their own body. It's like telling them to remove a piece of their past or history. If they choose to do it, as I did, that's one thing, but if I didn't want to remove it or cover it...no one could ever make me do so. I have never asked or nor would I expect Michael to alter or remove his tattoo if he didn't want to. It reminds him of his past and where he's been.
I'm not saying people don't have the right to carry around a piece of their past. Merely that I reserve the same right to not deal with a visual reminder of their past on a daily basis. That would be like wearing the wedding ring from a previous marriage, to me.
In the grander scheme... a tattoo is probably insignificant in comparison to the amount of emotional baggage most people carry around.
I still wonder who edited my post. ::)
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I'm not saying people don't have the right to carry around a piece of their past. Merely that I reserve the same right to not deal with a visual reminder of their past on a daily basis. That would be like wearing the wedding ring from a previous marriage, to me.
In the grander scheme... a tattoo is probably insignificant in comparison to the amount of emotional baggage most people carry around.
I still wonder who edited my post. ::)
Very true regarding baggage, but if you "choose" to not see someone based on the fact that they have a tattoo with someone else's name on it...then you could be "choosing" to lose someone very special, the person who could be the love of your life.
As far as the edited post, again it was not me. As you can see, I had no problem answering your question.
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The world has a lot of people in it.
I'm honest enough with myself to know it would remain an issue. Not suggesting that level of inflexibility is a good thing but knowing your boundaries (in advance) saves a lot of headaches. That's why I ask about pets.
In general, I believe toleration leads to resentment. :)
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The world has a lot of people in it.
I'm honest enough with myself to know it would remain an issue. Not suggesting that level of inflexibility is a good thing but knowing your boundaries (in advance) saves a lot of headaches. That's why I ask about pets.
In general, I believe toleration leads to resentment. :)
Hmmm, you better never have children, get married or take care of your parent because there is a LOT of thing you have to adjust to and tolerate with them.
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After reading this thread I have to laugh. You are pretty shallow if you chose not to date someone because the cared enough or loved someone enough to put their name on their body. Yes, 90% are mistakes, but when they were done it was out of love for that person, not because they thought it would be fun for the day. ::)
And also is this something you ask someone prior to dating or are you saying that you could be dating someone for weeks or months and then finally see this name tatoo (as most are hidden beneath clothing) you would break up with them. Which seems even more shallow and probably best for the person you dumped. Who would want someone so shallow anyway? >:(
Shallow or just discriminating?
I wouldn't even consider dating you Laura, simply because you're too dark, blonde and have light eyes.
Shallow?
Maybe.......but that's my prerogative.
I'm not really one to apologize for my provisions, but I'm also up front and honest when it comes to what I want.
No games......and I would have asked about tattoos/piercings ahead of time.
It's not something I'd find out about by accident (unless she lied).
DIV
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Hmmm, you better never have children, get married or take care of your parent because there is a LOT of thing you have to adjust to and tolerate with them.
There are only two things I have to do, for sure: Stay black and die, LOL! All other things are optional.
I'm fortunate that my kids are younger (and generally well behaved)... there's a little more time for me to loosen up 'till they're teenagers. :)
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There are only two things I have to do, for sure: Stay black and die, LOL! All other things are optional.
I'm fortunate that my kids are younger (and generally well behaved)... there's a little more time for me to loosen up 'till they're teenagers. :)
I'm sure there's nothing that can be done to change those two things drk ;)
And yes, wait until those little ones start having a mind of their own. Wooooweee they can be handful. Lot's of patience and tolerance there.
And DIV, saying that I'm too light haired and eyed or too dark in complexion is a matter of taste as you are not attracted to those things. They are not saying they are not attracted to girls with tattoos, they are saying they would not date a girl with a name tattooed on her. There is a difference.
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Looks are a little less important to me than Div. I really don't have a preference set in stone but do love me a thick booty, LOL! Ironically my gf doesn't have one so it's not a must have for a relationship I'm in.
After you get over the initial attraction looks aren't really that important.
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I would have a problem. I like tat's...have celtic done all over but hideable for business. On the ladies I dated pre wife I didn't mind certain ones but even then I was kinda erked. I like em classy...sexy, but classy.
Face / Neck / Ex Dudes / gang / racial are out. No exceptions. Hell, I don't even think that shit looks right on anyone.
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There are only two things I have to do, for sure: Stay black and die, LOL! All other things are optional.
I'm fortunate that my kids are younger (and generally well behaved)... there's a little more time for me to loosen up 'till they're teenagers. :)
I'm sure there's a way to turn you white, Jake...
Michael Jackson, notwithstanding.
[quote author=Laura Lee link=topic=167310.msg2362510#msg2362510 And DIV, saying that I'm too light haired and eyed or too dark in complexion is a matter of taste as you are not attracted to those things. They are not saying they are not attracted to girls with tattoos, they are saying they would not date a girl with a name tattooed on her. There is a difference.
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A difference, sure, but I don't like tattos on pale girls anyway.....
I could take a small one, but not a name of an ex.
I would have a problem. I like tat's...have celtic done all over but hideable for business. On the ladies I dated pre wife I didn't mind certain ones but even then I was kinda erked. I like em classy...sexy, but classy.
Face / Neck / Ex Dudes / gang / racial are out. No exceptions. Hell, I don't even think that shit looks right on anyone.
I'm down with baby Samoan.
No trashy tatts! >:(
DIV
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I'm sure there's a way to turn you white, Jake...
Michael Jackson, notwithstanding.
I'm down with baby Samoan.
No trashy tatts! >:(
DIV
So if Rose McGowan came up to you and said DIV...I'm all your baby. You started exploring her pale body ... oops a tattoo that says "MM" or "Marilyn" or "Manson" or what ever his name is on her body, you would toss her aside and say "Beat it Rose. I have no interest with girls carrying ex's names on their bodies"?
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So if Rose McGowan came up to you and said DIV...I'm all your baby. You started exploring her pale body ... oops a tattoo that says "MM" or "Marilyn" or "Manson" or what ever his name is on her body, you would toss her aside and say "Beat it Rose. I have no interest with girls carrying ex's names on their bodies"?
After he was done with her. :)
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After he was done with her. :)
rofllmao
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rofllmao
If the chance came up and I was single... what the heck? If I were going to pick a figure just for fun it would probably be someone shaped like Vida.
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So if Rose McGowan came up to you and said DIV...I'm all your baby. You started exploring her pale body ... oops a tattoo that says "MM" or "Marilyn" or "Manson" or what ever his name is on her body, you would toss her aside and say "Beat it Rose. I have no interest with girls carrying ex's names on their bodies"?
.......honestly, I'm not sure Rose is all that intelligent enough for me to be attracted to her. She is my aesthetic ideal, but to say I'd find her attractive after I met her and had a conversation with her is very premature. Assuming she was there mentally, things might progress........
But if she was trashy enough to have a MM tatt, I doubt she'd be my type intellectually anyway.
Things go hand in hand, Laura.
You don't find many intellectuals with trashy bodyart, nor piercings..........they aren't as fascinated with the physical because it's just one aspect of sexuality.
DIV
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.......honestly, I'm not sure Rose is all that intelligent enough for me to be attracted to her. She is my aesthetic ideal, but to say I'd find her attractive after I met her and had a conversation with her is very premature. Assuming she was there mentally, things might progress........
But if she was trashy enough to have a MM tatt, I doubt she'd be my type intellectually anyway.
Things go hand in hand, Laura.
You don't find many intellectuals with trashy bodyart, nor piercings..........they aren't as fascinated with the physical because it's just one aspect of sexuality.
DIV
How old are you DIV?
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.......honestly, I'm not sure Rose is all that intelligent enough for me to be attracted to her. She is my aesthetic ideal, but to say I'd find her attractive after I met her and had a conversation with her is very premature. Assuming she was there mentally, things might progress........
But if she was trashy enough to have a MM tatt, I doubt she'd be my type intellectually anyway.
Things go hand in hand, Laura.
You don't find many intellectuals with trashy bodyart, nor piercings..........they aren't as fascinated with the physical because it's just one aspect of sexuality.
DIV
Div,
Toxy is a bad influence on you.
That read pretty romantic, Bro.
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On a purely visual level... this is what proportions really float my boat. She's in a bathing suit so it should be fine. Standing side by side I wouldn't even see McGowan.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=167821.0;attach=194672;image)
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Got me thinking..living here in the Pac NW there are loads of tattoo'd pale women..some hot. I think I've only seen a couple that were hot. Like the tattoo artist chick that has her own show now..named "Kat" I think..
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I still wonder who edited my post. ::)
It was me :)
And you know why lol :)
drkaje, if you have a moment would you please look at and comment on this I would value your input thanks:
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=167538.0
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You have me confused. There was no profanity or personal attacks.
Perhaps your imagination ran wild. :)
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You don't find many intellectuals with trashy bodyart, nor piercings..........they aren't as fascinated with the physical because it's just one aspect of sexuality.
DIV
In 90% of the cases you are correct. Only time I've seen a very intellectual person with tattoo's is when it was cultural...like mine for example.
I get tattoo's cause in my culture they are used to tell the story of you. Your family history, past, present experiences, rites of passage ect... done tastefully they look really well.
The most famous of tattoo's in Polynesia is the Samoan Pe'a..shown here. It's something my family is pressuring me to get being the oldest male child of all the children.
http://www.janeresture.com/oceania_tattoos/index2.htm (http://www.janeresture.com/oceania_tattoos/index2.htm)
Right now I have my arm sleeves 50% complete.
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In 90% of the cases you are correct. Only time I've seen a very intellectual person with tattoo's is when it was cultural...like mine for example.
I get tattoo's cause in my culture they are used to tell the story of you. Your family history, past, present experiences, rites of passage ect... done tastefully they look really well.
The most famous of tattoo's in Polynesia is the Samoan Pe'a..shown here. It's something my family is pressuring me to get being the oldest male child of all the children.
http://www.janeresture.com/oceania_tattoos/index2.htm (http://www.janeresture.com/oceania_tattoos/index2.htm)
Right now I have my arm sleeves 50% complete.
Do you have a picture of your arm SamoanIrishman?
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Not yet...I just got the designs done and JUST started shading...so it doesn't look quite right yet. It'll be done before the first of the year though. The Celtic stuff I have done locally but anything Samoan I have done when I fly back. It's done old school with the bone and tap stick...no automatic needles
My (kaulima) bicep band was done the old school way. 2" wide around the entire arm...took 6hrs...it sucked :'(. Though the Kava was an awesome trip! It's hard to describe but the colors were prettier, smells stronger and I swear a gecko up on the wall was trying to talk to me. ;D
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Not yet...I just got the designs done and JUST started shading...so it doesn't look quite right yet. It'll be done before the first of the year though. The Celtic stuff I have done locally but anything Samoan I have done when I fly back. It's done old school with the bone and tap stick...no automatic needles
My (kaulima) bicep band was done the old school way. 2" wide around the entire arm...took 6hrs...it sucked :'(. Though the Kava was an awesome trip! It's hard to describe but the colors were prettier, smells stronger and I swear a gecko up on the wall was trying to talk to me. ;D
Hmmm strong smells, pretty colors, gecko talking to you...I'd say you had a little smokey smokey before hitting the bone and tap shop. :)
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Not yet...I just got the designs done and JUST started shading...so it doesn't look quite right yet. It'll be done before the first of the year though. The Celtic stuff I have done locally but anything Samoan I have done when I fly back. It's done old school with the bone and tap stick...no automatic needles
My (kaulima) bicep band was done the old school way. 2" wide around the entire arm...took 6hrs...it sucked :'(. Though the Kava was an awesome trip! It's hard to describe but the colors were prettier, smells stronger and I swear a gecko up on the wall was trying to talk to me. ;D
Them Geckos are kind-a Like watch dogs when ya get to know 'em ;)
Big difference between looking at the kind of art your wearin',,, and ah.... Lets say blue/green prison tats?
Is, I think most ppl smart enough to "Get The Picture" these days.
Body ink's become so common today, the origanal rebels would be appalled.
Hell, a Guy needs to be a CPA to AFFORD a Harley today! Then comes an Obligatory H.D. Tat? ;D
Getting a little comical IMO. Counterfit Badasse's.
But if someone likes bodyart, its their Biz. Nobody else.
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Hmmm strong smells, pretty colors, gecko talking to you...I'd say you had a little smokey smokey before hitting the bone and tap shop. :)
Nah...the Kava root will make you trip hard. But relaxes and numbs you a bit. It's used more by women to ease PMS symptoms...just at lower dosages ;D
Trab - True, especially here in the NW. Tat's and piercing's everywhere..
The Hardly Davidson thing is funny, we (sportbikers) tease the posers all the time. Easy to spot with the new $20,000+ Hardly, Hardly Helmet, Jacket, Chaps, boots, shoe laces, gloves, saddlebags and the occational Hardly 1"x1" tattoo on the upper right delt ;D...
..almost as bad as the Sportbike Yuppies with their nice helmets, wife beater, khaki shorts, sandles / flip flops that drive somewhere (usually really fast and attempting "stunts" on a busy freeway where families are driving) just to park it, lean on it while sipping on their venti, double shot mocha frappachino w/ cinnamon sprinkles and whip cream as they hit / eye f*ck every girl that walks by.
Though I've seen a lot of hardly riders do the same.
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Nah...the Kava root will make you trip hard. But relaxes and numbs you a bit. It's used more by women to ease PMS symptoms...just at lower dosages ;D
Trab - True, especially here in the NW. Tat's and piercing's everywhere..
The Hardly Davidson thing is funny, we (sportbikers) tease the posers all the time. Easy to spot with the new $20,000+ Hardly, Hardly Helmet, Jacket, Chaps, boots, shoe laces, gloves, saddlebags and the occational Hardly 1"x1" tattoo on the upper right delt ;D...
..almost as bad as the Sportbike Yuppies with their nice helmets, wife beater, khaki shorts, sandles / flip flops that drive somewhere (usually really fast and attempting "stunts" on a busy freeway where families are driving) just to park it, lean on it while sipping on their venti, double shot mocha frappachino w/ cinnamon sprinkles and whip cream as they hit / eye f*ck every girl that walks by.
Though I've seen a lot of hardly riders do the same.
One look @ the Sidewalls of a crotch-Rockets rubber tells you everything there is to know about the pilot. ;)
I wear sidewalls out FIRST! Save the center tread for a final smoke-fest.
I loved to powerslide my GSXR1100. NOthing else like it.
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Perhaps your imagination ran wild. :)
Uh huh....yeah that's it.
BTW, I gave that woman in the pic your #. You better get your pass quickly ;D
(thanks again :) )
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Uh huh....yeah that's it.
BTW, I gave that woman in the pic your #. You better get your pass quickly ;D
(thanks again :) )
That was my guess aas your imagination seems quite vivid.
No worries, LOL! Saying someone dating me for over two years is very understanding would be an understatement and redundant. She's probably say it was OK as long as it was just fun and nothing more.
No problem, feel free to catch me after 9. This stuff I'm studying is hurting my brain. :'(
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Thirty.
I've got basic principles, Jake.
If nothing else, I've got to keep it gangsta..........for the kids. :-*
;D..for the kids...LOL
Cultural tatts, as in the case of the Pacific Islanders is expected.
I think there's a fine line between decent body art and trashy billboard art.
Spot on with that statement
The combination of pale skin and bodyart just looks sordid and sleazy. I agree.
DIV
Div freaking cracks me up on the daily...freaking spot on.
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Nah...the Kava root will make you trip hard. But relaxes and numbs you a bit. It's used more by women to ease PMS symptoms...just at lower dosages ;D
If I gave you my addy... could you send me some? Pleeeeeeeeeeeease?
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Funniest bumper sticker I ever saw, On a red Camaro. I have PMS - And a Handgun! ;D
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Ok, a little late on a reply as this thread has gone here there and everywhere, BUT...my first husband had my name tattooed on his back...LISA inside of a heart...when he left us, within a week i had this weird feeling he had done something to it (actually i knew the girl he was leaving us for would have never tolerated it being there) and he had...He had someone connect the L and the I together so then he had USA in a heart...NICE. Since then he's covered it up with something else. He also at the same time (not the sharpest tool in the shed at that time) had her name put on his chest, SOL and now has a big grizzley bear covering that one. Although i love his wife now, he's learned and she's not on him!!!!
Lisa
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PS. I have my first daughters name on my ankle with a chain of flowers...had that one for some years. This hubbie can have our other daughters name on him, as i'm done.
Lisa