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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: nzmusclemonster on May 23, 2008, 05:00:10 PM
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I took a girl out that I met at a club the previous weekend and didn't bring my A game to the date. I gave her a txt and a call the next day and got nothing back :( Admittadly she was going back home for the weekend, but should I assume that it is now a lost cause or should I do something to salvage the situation?
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I took a girl out that I met at a club the previous weekend and didn't bring my A game to the date. I gave her a txt and a call the next day and got nothing back :( Admittadly she was going back home for the weekend, but should I assume that it is now a lost cause or should I do something to salvage the situation?
Fail! move on.
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Fail! move on.
Shes super hot tho :(, I know that bombarding her with txts and bein a stalker aint gonna work.... I'm outa ideas, theres gotta be something :'(
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Last weekend NZMM? And she has not called you back?
Try once more maybe, but really I would, um not hold out hope.
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Shes super hot tho :(, I know that bombarding her with txts and bein a stalker aint gonna work.... I'm outa ideas, theres gotta be something :'(
thats the problem, you put her on a pedestal, you placed her above you..move on man, dont text, dont call, move on, if you text her shes gonna think "fuck, what a loser" if you call her and she does not answer you wont sleep...come on man.. man up theres a million hot girls out there..you got "oneitis" google it
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Last weekend NZMM? And she has not called you back?
Try once more maybe, but really I would, um not hold out hope.
I met her last weekend, but took her out Thursday night... It's Saturday morning where I am now..
thats the problem, you put her on a pedestal, you placed her above you..move on man, dont text, dont call, move on, if you text her shes gonna think "fuck, what a loser" if you call her and she does not answer you wont sleep...come on man.. man up theres a million hot girls out there..you got "oneitis" google it
I hear ya... Its so easy with the girls that I just want to bone and nothing else, but when a girl comes along that I like it all goes out the window...
I guess the smart thing is to move on... just sux, I've gone out with about 15 girls this year and this one was the first I actually liked. A good lesson learned I guess.
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well as you get older you learn how to manage emotions, just take it date by date, dont project things in your mind, cause when it dont happen it hurts..dont dwell on it either, you can think all you like and it will amount to nothing..as CQ said try calling her, if she answers say hi, and all that, but dont ask her out, if she dont answer then leave it..
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Good call... You are very wise in the ways of the dating world 8)
You could make a good living being an advisor...
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Good call... You are very wise in the ways of the dating world 8)
You could make a good living being an advisor...
the best thing to do is take it easy, hey im a guy too, sometimes were to excited that we are with a hot girl and say some silly shit, the trick is dont talk to much, if shes out with you she is attracted to you, just relax, let it flow, if you force things it just looks like your desperate...and yes all guys are desperate but dont be like them, dont talk bout urself to much..and be nice to your dates, it may not work out but if your a prick she can blacklist you from her friends...i should write a book
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I'd wait til after the weekend. Maybe she's in an area where she's not getting your text (you said she was going home or traveling). If you text her again after the long weekend and she doesn't reply or call...forget about her. She may be hot, but she is also being rude and you don't need that. ;)
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i reckon call her, no text, be a man, you think bill gates text messages paul allen, you think Scott alexander txt's his girls..calling up is more charming
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lol, maybe I should have read the whole thread. I didn't realize he hadn't tried calling her yet.
NZ...definitely try calling. If she doesn't answer, leave a message stating you had fun and would like to see her again, you understand she's traveling, bla bla bla...and to give you a call back when she returns. If she doesn't call you back...move on to the next hottie. ;)
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Haha right on....
OK so the plan is ill wait it out for a couple days and then get on the phone to her...
Best case scenario is that she went back home and forgot her cell phone :)
Worst case... shes not keen :(
I'll let you guys know if there are any more developments!
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lol, maybe I should have read the whole thread. I didn't realize he hadn't tried calling her yet.
NZ...definitely try calling. If she doesn't answer, leave a message stating you had fun and would like to see her again, you understand she's traveling, bla bla bla...and to give you a call back when she returns. If she doesn't call you back...move on to the next hottie. ;)
Laura, if you didnt know already im a dating guru!
he tried calling and texting, no reply on each..you got to move on, his just infatuated by her, the more she doesnt call or reply he will keep falling deeper, pull out now, move in to the next girl..i go on many dates, sometimes i adore the girl, sometimes i dont, the ones i adore i call them a few days later thanking them for a good time, thats if they havent called me to thank me first, which is most cases your in like flynn.
you got to flip the script, if a girl called me and i cant stand her i dont answer, if she msgs, im polite enough to reply to her, but show no interest in my reply..
Guys should follow interest indicators, girls use body language alot, i can read it easily, i seriously only go out with girls that show interest.
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Laura, if you didnt know already im a dating guru!
he tried calling and texting, no reply on each..you got to move on, his just infatuated by her, the more she doesnt call or reply he will keep falling deeper, pull out now, move in to the next girl..i go on many dates, sometimes i adore the girl, sometimes i dont, the ones i adore i call them a few days later thanking them for a good time, thats if they havent called me to thank me first, which is most cases your in like flynn.
you got to flip the script, if a girl called me and i cant stand her i dont answer, if she msgs, im polite enough to reply to her, but show no interest in my reply..
Guys should follow interest indicators, girls use body language alot, i can read it easily, i seriously only go out with girls that show interest.
Keep the faith brother!
She was keen, i just had nothing....
If there is nothing from after the game plan then I will accept and move on...
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Keep the faith brother!
She was keen, i just had nothing....
If there is nothing from after the game plan then I will accept and move on...
move on, and pass me her number, i want to ..um..comfort her.
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move on, and pass me her number, i want to ..um..comfort her.
lol ;D
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I took a girl out that I met at a club the previous weekend and didn't bring my A game to the date. I gave her a txt and a call the next day and got nothing back :( Admittadly she was going back home for the weekend, but should I assume that it is now a lost cause or should I do something to salvage the situation?
You gave her a CALL and a TEXT, are you some kind of stalker? Let her breathe man, your probably really annoying to her.
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You gave her a CALL and a TEXT, are you some kind of stalker? Let her breathe man, your probably really annoying to her.
if he steps back and look's at what his doing he will know he is over-doing it, its all good , my man will learn from this.
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You should pay some kid $20 to call her incessantly until she picks up. Then you tell her that she has to give you a second chance.
If she doesn't give you a second chance, find out where she lives and hang out there until she does.
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You gave her a CALL and a TEXT, are you some kind of stalker? Let her breathe man, your probably really annoying to her.
Surprisingly, I agree with you. ;D :P
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did you date a kid? :(
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I never called her again...
I'm taking this one on the chin and moving on.
And under the tutelage of a certain guru on here I'm going to have game thats gonna be unstoppable and I will be irresistible to all females 8)
I've already got another date with a chick this Friday 8)
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You pussed out. You should have accosted her outside her condo/apartment/house and found out what was going on. To keep you going you should have listened to "Every Breath You Take" repeatedly.
Maybe you should have even played it for her "Say Anything" style. Chicks love that shit.
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I took a girl out that I met at a club the previous weekend and didn't bring my A game to the date. I gave her a txt and a call the next day and got nothing back :( Admittadly she was going back home for the weekend, but should I assume that it is now a lost cause or should I do something to salvage the situation?
If she's 20, she might be playing games or have her head up her ass.
if she's 40, she isn't interested.
If she's 30, well, you figure that out.
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This case has been thrown out of court, I hereby order this case dismissed.
Judge Quickerblade