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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: benchmstr on March 21, 2010, 07:00:53 PM
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I am on one right now..and by blind date I mean that I was invited to eat with a friend and his wife, and upon arrival they had a date planned for me with one of her friends...
Should I..
A)leave
B)eat, pay, and leave
C)take my friend into the parking lot and stomp his ass into a puddle
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Bench
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does said friend have a bad history of setting ya up with basketcases?
in such a case...stomp his ass >:(
otherwise..take her out...might turn out good
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You could put your really really dark sunglasses on and pretend you are in fact blind...
But whatever you do, don't be rude. Try being funny.
xxxL
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I drank half a beer said I was going to the restroom...paid for my beer at the bar........and ESCAPED...
Bench
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Be polite and talk to them tomorrow about it whether you enjoy it or not. People must know their line.
Was she/it that bad? Details, man!
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I drank half a beer said I was going to the restroom...paid for my beer at the bar........and ESCAPED...
Bench
aHAHAA LMAO was she that bad?
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I drank half a beer said I was going to the restroom...paid for my beer at the bar........and ESCAPED...
Bench
...omg...lmao! ;D
wanna hear one worse?
i actually told a chick i had a flat and to get out and check my read tire...and i hauled ass as soon as she got out..but i ws only 21
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It wasn't bad...its just some of my friends haven't accepted the fact that I am done with dating, and relationships...
I am now safely at my man cave...drinking a corona, and about to watch point break...
Bench
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I am now safely at my man cave...drinking a corona, and about to watch point break...
Bench
i sorta envy you
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You should....I'm kind of a big deal...
Bench
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...omg...lmao! ;D
wanna hear one worse?
i actually told a chick i had a flat and to get out and check my read tire...and i hauled ass as soon as she got out..but i ws only 21
LOL was once at a mall I worked at in high school with a chick walking around after work told her I had to go to rest room and bolted out the truck delivery platform and took off...I was only a teenager though...
this probably isnt the place to discuss how weve ditched ladies in the past
sorry to those who are offended ;D
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I drank half a beer said I was going to the restroom...paid for my beer at the bar........and ESCAPED...
Bench
You couldn't hold out for another hour ???
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Hell no...I had to send a message...that message is....leave me alone with that shit...
Bench
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Hell no...I had to send a message...that message is....leave me alone with that shit...
Bench
That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
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That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
My thoughts exactly. All because of the well-intentioned meddling of others and the repercussions. Hopefully, everyone has learned something.
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Yes..hopefully she learned that I am a hatefull, evil, shitty human being that would rather die alone than miserable....and yes I am hella drunk......
Bench
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That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
He could explain his quick exit was due to explosive diarrhea
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That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
omg that is putting it mildly
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That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
don't they all have complexes?
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That poor woman will probably have a complex now :-[
are womens self esteem really that fragile?
come on now...
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are womens self esteem really that fragile?
come on now...
It depends on the woman.
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It doesn't depend on the woman...all women are fragil as hell....some just hide it better...
Bench
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Who can tell, I've known some who had ice water for blood. ::)
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It depends on the woman.
question:
In most of the minds of the women I know the men are supposed to be the aggressor, the person who approaches and makes the first move. Obviously we tend to get shot down from time to time so this takes a good amount of self esteem to do over and over again.
So is it really a suprise to women that some men tend to be ass holes?
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It wasn't bad...its just some of my friends haven't accepted the fact that I am done with dating, and relationships...
I am now safely at my man cave...drinking a corona, and about to watch point break...
Bench
Prostitutes?
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Yes..hopefully she learned that I am a hatefull, evil, shitty human being that would rather die alone than miserable....and yes I am hella drunk......
Bench
ahjahahhaa
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question:
In most of the minds of the women I know the men are supposed to be the aggressor, the person who approaches and makes the first move. Obviously we tend to get shot down from time to time so this takes a good amount of self esteem to do over and over again.
So is it really a suprise to women that some men tend to be ass holes?
See, I dont see why the men has to be the agressor, but god forbid if a woman approaches a man, they usually would think, she is pushy or needy
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Prostitutes?
no...i would just rather be alone......behind every successful man there is NO ONE.....he has to do it all alone...nobody else can help them....
plus...the whole act of a spouse has just been a waste of time for me since i was a little guy......i should have done this sooner..
guy....if you want to actually do something with your life....STAY SINGLE!!!!!!!!
bench
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See, I dont see why the men has to be the agressor, but god forbid if a woman approaches a man, they usually would think, she is pushy or needy
i agree with this......i used to always like it better when the women approached me......why is the man always suppose to look like the desperate one???
bench
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i agree with this......i used to always like it better when the women approached me......why is the man always suppose to look like the desperate one???
bench
Either way, because you approach someone isnt desperation, if you have the confidence and someone catches your eye, approach them..what's the worse that can happen..wait never mind answering that one benchmstr ;D
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Hell no...I had to send a message...that message is....leave me alone with that shit...
Bench
Perhaps that was your intended message, but that's probably not how it was received :-\
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Either way, because you approach someone isnt desperation, if you have the confidence and someone catches your eye, approach them..what's the worse that can happen..wait never mind answering that one benchmstr ;D
hey now....i just took myself out of the game 8-12 months ago, its not like i gave up at birth ;D .........i know what you mean...but i always thought it was way hotter when the girl approached me...
bench
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hey now....i just took myself out of the game 8-12 months ago, its not like i gave up at birth ;D .........i know what you mean...but i always thought it was way hotter when the girl approached me...
bench
I think your in the minority
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Perhaps that was your intended message, but that's probably not how it was received :-\
not my problem...
bench
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I think your in the minority
as a guy.....i am telling you now i am not a minority.........me and some friends actually discussed this at length the other day...and all parties came to the conclusion that it was way hotter when the women approached us...but we all agreed that it was a case by case basis...and not every encounter could be judged equally......
bench
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See, I dont see why the men has to be the agressor, but god forbid if a woman approaches a man, they usually would think, she is pushy or needy
I agree with the first comment, why does the guy always have to be the aggressor? but you have to know that the majority of women feel they should be for whatever reason...
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Dont date blind people.
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I agree with the first comment, why does the guy always have to be the aggressor? but you have to know that the majority of women feel they should be for whatever reason...
There is no written law that says the man has to always pay nor be the aggressor. It's how confident and secure a woman is if you ask me.
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as a guy.....i am telling you now i am not a minority.........me and some friends actually discussed this at length the other day...and all parties came to the conclusion that it was way hotter when the women approached us...but we all agreed that it was a case by case basis...and not every encounter could be judged equally......
bench
Mom bench is certainly not in the minority...I agree its on a case by case basis to me depending on how they approach the situation dont go throw yourself at them(unless thats what you want) but there is nothing pushy or needy about a girl who simply comes up and wants to have a conversation with you.
Think about it thats basically what guys do, start conversations if they see an oppurtunity they act on it...if you go up to a guy and present an oppurtunity chances are you wont even need to ask him out b/c he will.
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There is no written law that says the man has to always pay nor be the aggressor. It's how confident and secure a woman is if you ask me.
agreed but in our society its not secret that there is an unwritten law about it...ask around to your female friends mom...
ask them whether they think the man or woman should be the person to ask the other out?
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Mom bench is certainly not in the minority...I agree its on a case by case basis to me depending on how they approach the situation dont go throw yourself at them(unless thats what you want) but there is nothing pushy or needy about a girl who simply comes up and wants to have a conversation with you.
Think about it thats basically what guys do, start conversations if they see an oppurtunity they act on it...if you go up to a guy and present an oppurtunity chances are you wont even need to ask him out b/c he will.
I dont mean you, you just women in general
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There is no written law that says the man has to always pay nor be the aggressor. It's how confident and secure a woman is if you ask me.
When you taking me to dinner and paying new? ;D
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I know what you meant TonyMctones. Don't get me wrong though, I still feel strongly a man should hold a door open for a female though.
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I think a woman should hold the door for me....equal rights after all...
Bench
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I think a woman should hold the door for me....equal rights after all...
Bench
If he opens my car door, a woman should reach over and open his..ABSOLUTELY
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I know what you meant TonyMctones. Don't get me wrong though, I still feel strongly a man should hold a door open for a female though.
I agree always have...I dont like the whole men are supposed to be this thing and women are supposed to be this thing. Like I said there is no shortage of women who think that men should be the "man" type deal which I understand but when I tell them that they shouldnt be offended when they want them to be the "woman" i.e. cook meals, take care of the kids etc....they seem to get upset.
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I agree always have...I dont like the whole men are supposed to be this thing and women are supposed to be this thing. Like I said there is no shortage of women who think that men should be the "man" type deal which I understand but when I tell them that they shouldnt be offended when they want them to be the "woman" i.e. cook meals, take care of the kids etc....they seem to get upset.
true indeed. But I'm a dork I like to cook and clean
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That's all I do is cook and clean anymore.....I am cooking right now!!!!
Bench
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That's all I do is cook and clean anymore.....I am cooking right now!!!!
Bench
whatcha cooking, anything good
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23 racks of ribs....and 8 briskets.....its a all nighter...
Bench
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23 racks of ribs....and 8 briskets.....its a all nighter...
Bench
gooooooooooddddddddddddd god that is alot of meat
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as a guy.....i am telling you now i am not a minority.........me and some friends actually discussed this at length the other day...and all parties came to the conclusion that it was way hotter when the women approached us...but we all agreed that it was a case by case basis...and not every encounter could be judged equally......
bench
very true
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To newmom...
That's what she said...
damn blackberry that doesn't have qoute functions!!!
Bench
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To newmom...
That's what she said...
Goddamn blackberry that doesn't have qoute functions!!!
Bench
oh god your on a crackberry...I still dont get why such bitterness and hate for the dating world. Don't let a few bad bitches spoil it
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It isn't really that at all....I just rather make money, and have fun....something I could not do in a relationship...
Bench
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It isn't really that at all....I just rather make money, and have fun....something I could not do in a relationship...
Bench
are you kidding me..jesus you can have both
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And hell yeah I'm on my blackberry....my wireless modem doesn't work this far out in my backyard next to my BBQ pit....which my friend just told me was about the size up a single wide trailer...
Bench
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And hell yeah I'm on my blackberry....my wireless modem doesn't work this far out in my backyard next to my BBQ pit....which my friend just told me was about the size up a single wide trailer...
Bench
pics or it didn't happen
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And no...I can't have both....I have never been able to have both....
Bench
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My dog just stole my damn lawnchair....and I fell into the damn creek.....I must now change clothes..cause I am freezing my nuts off!!!
Bench
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And no...I can't have both....I have never been able to have both....
Bench
just cause you haven't yet does not mean you cant have it..
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But it does give me a reason to give up....and yes..I am naked right now!!!!
Bench
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And Apollo creed is a jive turkey....sucka!!!!!
Bench
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23 racks of ribs....and 8 briskets.....its a all nighter...
Bench
damn you having a feast?
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damn you having a feast?
nah....my neighbor is (who is my boss).....so my neighbor, my friend, and myself are cooking it all in my backyard....i just got out of the shower after my creek incident.....and i am returning to the backyard....were me and my friend shall have a boxing match to determin who has to buy breakfast tacos in the morning......ITS TRADITION DAMNIT, AND I WONT BE THE ONE TO BREAK TRADITION!!!!!!....
;D ;D ;D
bench
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nah....my neighbor is (who is my boss).....so my neighbor, my friend, and myself are cooking it all in my backyard....i just got out of the shower after my creek incident.....and i am returning to the backyard....were me and my friend shall have a boxing match to determin who has to buy breakfast tacos in the morning......ITS TRADITION DAMNIT, AND I WONT BE THE ONE TO BREAK TRADITION!!!!!!....
;D ;D ;D
bench
LOL ahhhh traditions, where would we be without them?
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Ok..nobody really one the fight...when we started fighting my dog attacked us(she hates to see people fight)..so I put her inside....then we fought a little more and he gassed out...declaring me the winner....my lawn chair, and yards tables fell victim to the fight though...
Bench
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are you kidding me..jesus you can have both
You can make more money or more fun, but when a woman (relationship) comes into play, it becomes some money and some fun. Certainly not more women. :)
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The breakfast taco tasted like ...........VICTORY!!!!
Bench
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The breakfast taco tasted like ...........VICTORY!!!!
Bench
;D
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Do I dare ask what the hell a breakfast taco is
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Do I dare ask what the hell a breakfast taco is
I wont tell maybe bench will ;D
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...when we started fighting my dog attacked us..
Bahahaha!
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You people honestly don't know what a breakfast taco is?????.....
Texas is the only place for me....
Bench
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Do I dare ask what the hell a breakfast taco is
OMG YOU POOR POOR THING :o
bench if youre ever in houston try a little place called Texas taco off of west little york and windfern looks like a run down trailer but the best breakfast tacos hands down.
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You people honestly don't know what a breakfast taco is?????.....
Texas is the only place for me....
Bench
Stay out of the emergency room this time
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Stay out of the emergency room this time
my tattoo artist(courtney) was called last night to remove a very long splinter from my back.....that got me whenever my fight went to the ground on top of our BBQ pit wood...
but no ER this time!!!!!!!
bench
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OMG YOU POOR POOR THING :o
bench if youre ever in houston try a little place called Texas taco off of west little york and windfern looks like a run down trailer but the best breakfast tacos hands down.
i think i used to go there when i was in college.......i worked at landmark chevrolet .....is that anywhere near where landmark was?
bench
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so i will ASSUME a breakfast taco is aka tuna taco
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so i will ASSUME a breakfast taco is aka tuna taco
your WAY off base.........
just look at the menu from here....i used to go here a lot when i lived in houston... http://www.taqueriasarandas.com/
bench
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great now im craving mexican food
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For all you ladies the house and man you always wanted.
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great now im craving mexican food
i have eaten mexican food 3 times today......and it looks like i will be eating more mexican food here in a few hours...
bench
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see I make kick ass mexican food, but miss living in san diego where its everywhere. That is all i ate last month when i was there
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see I make kick ass mexican food, but miss living in san diego where its everywhere. That is all i ate last month when i was there
hot sauce will burn you while taking a dump.
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see I make kick ass mexican food, but miss living in san diego where its everywhere. That is all i ate last month when i was there
ahhh san Diego....a place that i hate just as bad as Colorado, and Austin....
bench
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hot sauce will burn you while taking a dump.
nope...and i use hot sauce not salsa
bench why the hate for san diego, does an ex live there or something
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nope...and i use hot sauce not salsa
bench why the hate for san diego, does an ex live there or something
i would never date anybody from san diego...colorado....or Austin!!!!!!what do you think i am gay????
i dont like any of the three places listed....cause they are loaded with fake...asshole....tre hugging...hippie guys....
bench
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i think i used to go there when i was in college.......i worked at landmark chevrolet .....is that anywhere near where landmark was?
bench
There are a couple of them around town that go by Texas Taco actually if you went to the taqueria arandas in jersey village then you were right down the street from it...I actually went to high school at JV small world
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There are a couple of them around town that go by Texas Taco actually if you went to the taqueria arandas in jersey village then you were right down the street from it...I actually went to high school at JV small world
i went to highschool in brazoria county......but most of my post highschool life was lived every else...
bench
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See, I dont see why the men has to be the agressor, but god forbid if a woman approaches a man, they usually would think, she is pushy or needy
Not me.most of the girls I meet talk to me first.I like that and it shows the girl has confidence.
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Calvin like I said before, I think Most would think a woman is pushy or needy
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Not me.most of the girls I meet talk to me first.I like that and it shows the girl has confidence.
Where is the Gene appreciation thread now it got moved?
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Calvin like I said before, I think Most would think a woman is pushy or needy
Maybe,but not in my eyes.
...haha,if you know me you might tell me I talk to much,BUT I suck at walking up to a girl and introducing myself so I'm much happier when a girl comes up to me.
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Where is the Gene appreciation thread now it got moved?
What thread ??? never saw it.
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Maybe,but not in my eyes.
...haha,if you know me you might tell me I talk to much,BUT I suck at walking up to a girl and introducing myself so I'm much happier when a girl comes up to me.
I don't know ya from a hole in the wall but you don't seem like a shy type. Okay why do you suck at walking up to a girl? Nerves perhaps
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I don't know ya from a hole in the wall but you don't seem like a shy type. Okay why do you suck at walking up to a girl? Nerves perhaps
Not shy and good to go after the "Hey how are you" is outta the way.not really nerves just not a good starter.
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Calvin nothing wrong with starting out with hey how are you..
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Calvin nothing wrong with starting out with hey how are you..
''So a,hey how are you" ;)
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as a guy.....i am telling you now i am not a minority.........me and some friends actually discussed this at length the other day...and all parties came to the conclusion that it was way hotter when the women approached us...but we all agreed that it was a case by case basis...and not every encounter could be judged equally......
bench
I brought this up around a mixed group of men and women to see what they'd say
they basically say it depends on the person doing the coming up
and they all agreed having old and or ugly ones you wouldn't want is worse when they come up to you
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I brought this up around a mixed group of men and women to see what they'd say
they basically say it depends on the person doing the coming up
and they all agreed having old and or ugly ones you wouldn't want is worse when they come up to you
Yes agreed.
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okay I'll bite..what do you do if someone you were not attracted to approaches you
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okay I'll bite..what do you do if someone you were not attracted to approaches you
Just say give me your number I'll call you later and get another drink ;D
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Just say give me your number I'll call you later and get another drink ;D
why the hell would you ask for someone's number when your not attracted to them
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why the hell would you ask for someone's number when your not attracted to them
Just to get them off your back, never give them your number just ask for their number, then never call a simple process new. Now we are only talking face to face meetings this doesnt work on the phone or interent it will have to be revised.
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see I don't get it..why play the game what happend to honesty. You can be honest without being rude.
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see I don't get it..why play the game what happend to honesty. You can be honest without being rude.
I'm not that tough new, I dont like to hurt feelings of people.
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oh goodness, how is honesty rude. It's rude if you say no way your hideous or the alike. So is it wrong to say I don't think so and perhaps chit chat over a bud select.
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oh goodness, how is honesty rude. It's rude if you say no way your hideous or the alike. So is it wrong to say I don't think so and perhaps chit chat over a bud select.
Not wrong to be honest but honesty hurts sometimes. So like if this ugly fat chick came up to me somewhere asking me out I would just say give me your number rather than deflating he self image even further get my drift?
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okay so when you dont call isnt that doing the same thing
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okay so when you dont call isnt that doing the same thing
Yep but not has brutal.
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Not wrong to be honest but honesty hurts sometimes. So like if this ugly fat chick came up to me somewhere asking me out I would just say give me your number rather than deflating he self image even further get my drift?
Has it ever happened where an ugly girl has come up to you or a friend and it's became a joke after ?
One of the guys I spoke with said his friends wouldn't stop making fun of him for an Ugly Betty coming on to him and he hates it . She actually keeps trying to flirt when they run into each other and he hasn't been rude to stop her .
So I think unless you are clear with some people they won't leave you alone if you aren't rude about not being interested . Some girls take a few sentences to mean they are liked by the guy .
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Has it ever happened where an ugly girl has come up to you or a friend and it's became a joke after ?
One of the guys I spoke with said his friends wouldn't stop making fun if him for an Ugly Betty coming on to him and he hates it . She actually keeps trying to flirt when they run into each other and he hasn't been rude to stop her .
So I think unless you are clear with some people they won't leave you alone if you aren't rude about not being interested . Some girls take a few sentences to mean they are liked by the guy .
Yes, but never made fun of them most cant help with the way they look. I have been stalked before by a ugly fat chick when it gets to that then I have to be mean and honest. I just try to preserve a persons feelings if I can without being mean most of these types are already "down" on themselves, however what suprises me is the guts they have to come on to a attractive guy it could be delusion I dont know.
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I brought this up around a mixed group of men and women to see what they'd say
they basically say it depends on the person doing the coming up
and they all agreed having old and or ugly ones you wouldn't want is worse when they come up to you
LOL is that really a suprise?
of course its not good when an ugly or old person comes up and hits on you...
Like mom said there is nothing wrong with saying "how are your?" thats basically all we are saying I believe
thing is its nice to be approached by a girl you dont have to jump our bones but being the conversation starter is a refreshing change.
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I am on one right now..and by blind date I mean that I was invited to eat with a friend and his wife, and upon arrival they had a date planned for me with one of her friends...
Should I..
A)leave
B)eat, pay, and leave
C)take my friend into the parking lot and stomp his ass into a puddle
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Bench
"Have a Seeing Eye Dog Available"! Sorry I could not resist! ;)
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I'm not that tough new, I dont like to hurt feelings of people.
I used to work w/a guy who told me that years before he was at a bar and asked a girl to dance. He said she looked him up and down and made a face and said, "No."
He was still upset about it years later! :(
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I used to work w/a guy who told me that years before he was at a bar and asked a girl to dance. He said she looked him up and down and made a face and said, "No."
He was still upset about it years later! :(
There go good example.
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I used to work w/a guy who told me that years before he was at a bar and asked a girl to dance. He said she looked him up and down and made a face and said, "No."
He was still upset about it years later! :(
Know what I always think about that kind of stuff ? People sometimes do that crap to show off in front of others and don't give a care about what it makes someone feel like >:(
I wonder if SHE remembers making him feel that way ? :(
common sense ain't so common