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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much.
Grocery store - try a Friday nite
Wine tasting event
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Rehab
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
You really should try church, Migs. They put out quick.
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
Anywhere. Not every person is "bad". its luck of the draw.
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Book store.
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Rehab
You may find Lindsay Lohan in there. ;D
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Women have always been pretty easy for me to find, Migs.
Live in a bad area, doing something wrong (eg. telling chicks about the cat), hard to date, etc... ? There has to be a reason for your cooter shortage.
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Women have always been pretty easy for me to find, Migs.
Live in a bad area, doing something wrong (eg. telling chicks about the cat), hard to date, etc... ? There has to be a reason for your cooter shortage.
Gotta agree with you there. It's not really hard at all if one has his game on.
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
"Well, that's where you messed up, son, you can't go to no bar to find a nice woman. You gotta go to a nice place, a quiet place like a library, there's good women there and 'erm, church, they're good girls." ;D
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
match.com
i know i know.....BUT i actually know a fewpeople that have met that way and r prertty happy
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I'm not really a fan of on-line dating.
It's cynical but I have a hard time believing someone unable to find companionship locally is single because they're so great a catch no one in their area is able to appreciate it.
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just haven't had the time to go look i guess. i was thinking about a sex addicts meeting...
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just haven't had the time to go look i guess. i was thinking about a sex addicts meeting...
You're looking, that's is one of the problems.
Just do you in a good way and someone coming from the right place will turn up. Just don't tell her about the cat.
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leave the cat outta this.
i might troll craigslist lol
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leave the cat outta this.
i might troll craigslist lol
Exactly!!!! Don't tell them.
Go outside you lazy bastard! Good women aren't looking for a shut-in. :)
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Lol @ the posts in this thread
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Lol @ the posts in this thread
True.
I can't believe the horrible advice some of these people gave.
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I'm not really a fan of on-line dating.
It's cynical but I have a hard time believing someone unable to find companionship locally is single because they're so great a catch no one in their area is able to appreciate it.
its worked for a few friends.....
if i ws single...i'd try it....
thankfully....i have me my sweetie :)
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its worked for a few friends.....
if i ws single...i'd try it....
thankfully....i have me my sweetie :)
I won't write "never" because that's a long time but it's highly unlikely for someone with my personality to do the on-line thing.
Women actually like me a little too much and there are times I really envy chronically single people. Peace and quiet, no one's stuff to hear about, no family members or friends to navigate, fewer dates and stuff to remember, cheaper... I could go on but have to work out. :)
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Women actually like me a little too much
anyone else i'd rip them a new 1 for saying something like thaT
BUT
i saw how that girl ws talking to you when we had luncheon at cheesecake factory in b-more...she ws at the next table and kept trying to barge into our convo...yeah jake i'll give ya that 8)
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anyone else i'd rip them a new 1 for saying something like thaT
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i saw how that girl ws talking to you when we had luncheon at cheesecake factory in b-more...she ws at the next table and kept trying to barge into our convo...yeah jake i'll give ya that 8)
It's the oddest thing and always pisses off my girl. Especially when she feels they're rude or too obvious about it.
For your own sake, never ask her about it. There are more stories than you'd want to hear, LOL!
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For your own sake, never ask her about it. There are more stories than you'd want to hear, LOL!
enough....THATS WHEN I'LL STOP U.........I REEEEEEEEELY wanna hear this ::)
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enough....THATS WHEN I'LL STOP U.........I REEEEEEEEELY wanna hear this ::)
You really don't. :)
Remember... you don't drink much anymore. There'll be nothing to dull the pain, LOL!
I'm really not the type of dude to mess around. That'll have to be good enough because I don't have any control over what random chicks, and the occasional dude, say or do. Some creepy old dude pulled a heel kicked last month while I was peeing!! I was like WTF?! That, of course, she found amusing as all hell. :)
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Exactly!!!! Don't tell them.
Go outside you lazy bastard! Good women aren't looking for a shut-in. :)
i go out sorta. Especially on fight nights, but the chicks all have bf's. I work so damn much it's hard to find the time
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find a good gal? Any ideas? I work a ton and don't hang out much. No church, sorry STella. I need a puttin' out woman that won't get hung up in church mantra. ;D
you can find a hooker in your area on craigslist...
bench
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yeah, but that's gonna be at least $150
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yeah, but that's gonna be at least $150
Sounds like a good price.
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but I want to be the "why buy a cow, when you can get the milk for free" kinda guy.
:'(
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but I want to be the "why buy a cow, when you can get the milk for free" kinda guy.
:'(
Your cereal has been dry a while, man. :)
Just sayin'.
I've never really been a fan of the cow/milk analogy. Just seems like a decent chick should be appreciated for more than milk, LOL!
Maybe you should try speed dating or have some friends make girl recommendations.
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milk is good! it gives life, calcium, strong bones...cheese. It's appreciated! lol
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Get a dog and hang out at the doggie park :D
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Get a dog and hang out at the doggie park :D
Princess,
He already has a girl repellant at home, FFS! Walking a dog around hoping to hook up is bordering on fanny pack level gayness. :)
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so much hatred
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Princess,
He already has a girl repellant at home, FFS! Walking a dog around hoping to hook up is bordering on fanny pack level gayness. :)
I thought the puppet was his mom's cat ???
A DOG is not gay >:(
Migs,
Maybe you could borrow a dog :D
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I thought the puppet was his mom's cat ???
A DOG is not gay >:(
Migs,
Maybe you could borrow a dog :D
You already know what the cat tells women, LOL!
Thinking a dog will help an awkward dude get some is extra gay, P. He's still got to talk to the girl. :) A desperate chick might buy " I borrow a friend's dog because the walking helps me get in shape", but only a retard would fall for the puppy trick.
Migs should also tell any chicks who ask about status "I'm taking a break from dating to work on my career". That's always the best answer because guys seem less desperate and the time/attention of a busy person means more to women.
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I thought the puppet was his mom's cat ???
;D
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You already know what the cat tells women, LOL!
Thinking a dog will help an awkward dude get some is extra gay, P. He's still got to talk to the girl. :) A desperate chick might buy " I borrow a friend's dog because the walking helps me get in shape", but only a retard would fall for the puppy trick.
Migs should also tell any chicks who ask about status "I'm taking a break from dating to work on my career". That's always the best answer because guys seem less desperate and the time/attention of a busy person means more to women.
LOL how about being relaxed and just having fun?
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LOL how about being relaxed and just having fun?
That response makes some chicks believe you're a pothead, bi, or live with mom. :)
Right or wrong, everyone reaches a magic age where they need a valid reason for being single. Someone who's 20 can "relax and have fun", even "chill", LOL!
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That response makes some chicks believe you're a pothead, bi, or live with mom. :)
Right or wrong, everyone reaches a magic age where they need a valid reason for being single. Someone who's 20 can "relax and have fun", even "chill", LOL!
LOL you sound somewhat jaded doc, I agree he needs to know how to talk to a woman but if you relax and have fun that will naturally come as part of the situation.
if that person is going to judge you like that is that really a person you want to associate with? probably not, so why even wonder what they think?
just be yourself and have a good damn time with it the rest will follow.
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LOL you sound somewhat jaded doc, I agree he needs to know how to talk to a woman but if you relax and have fun that will naturally come as part of the situation.
if that person is going to judge you like that is that really a person you want to associate with? probably not, so why even wonder what they think?
just be yourself and have a good damn time with it the rest will follow.
Great post tonymc
LMAO at princess L
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LOL you sound somewhat jaded doc, I agree he needs to know how to talk to a woman but if you relax and have fun that will naturally come as part of the situation.
if that person is going to judge you like that is that really a person you want to associate with? probably not, so why even wonder what they think?
just be yourself and have a good damn time with it the rest will follow.
Great post tonymc
LMAO at princess L
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LOL you sound somewhat jaded doc, I agree he needs to know how to talk to a woman but if you relax and have fun that will naturally come as part of the situation.
if that person is going to judge you like that is that really a person you want to associate with? probably not, so why even wonder what they think?
just be yourself and have a good damn time with it the rest will follow.
People are going to jump at conclusions, no point helping them, LOL!
It's essentially impossible to not be judged on some level. I'm simply arguing people should be putting significant negatives out there in a less harmful light. :) For example: "Taking time to work on my career" can at least start a conversation about work, education, dreams, goals, and other good crap women are looking for. "Hanging out and having a good time" makes them wonder if you've got Peter Pan syndrome, LOL! "Looking for Miss Right" is probably worse than saying "I just want to have sex". :)
Had you written "Be good company to yourself and the rest will follow", I would have agreed. People who consistently stay in a good place, on the inside, never have too much trouble finding anyone to hang with.
I still don't see how/why people think a dog or puppy will be a good enough conversation starter for the shy. Just walk up to the chick and introduce yourself. if you get shot down keep repeating the process.
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People are going to jump at conclusions, no point helping them, LOL!
It's essentially impossible to not be judged on some level. I'm simply arguing people should be putting significant negatives out there in a less harmful light. :) For example: "Taking time to work on my career" can at least start a conversation about work, education, dreams, goals, and other good crap women are looking for. "Hanging out and having a good time" makes them wonder if you've got Peter Pan syndrome, LOL! "Looking for Miss Right" is probably worse than saying "I just want to have sex". :)
Had you written "Be good company to yourself and the rest will follow", I would have agreed. People who consistently stay in a good place, on the inside, never have too much trouble finding anyone to hang with.
I still don't see how/why people think a dog or puppy will be a good enough conversation starter for the shy. Just walk up to the chick and introduce yourself. if you get shot down keep repeating the process.
LMAO ok I think we are actually saying the same thing to a certain extent by "relax and have a good time" i mean actions wise not actually saying "im just having a good time" LOL that seems a tad aloof and probably would not go over well with someone in their 30's or 40's
I mean when youre out in public just have a good damn time and dont worry about being judged...like you said its going to happen so just let it happen. A girl having a good time regardless of whether she is being a dork or whatever is alot more attractive than one who is trying to be something she isnt and obviously is uncomfortable.
like I said you do have to know how to carry on a conversation but its alot easier if both of you are laid back having a good time...
the dog thing goes to that point if it gets her or even him to relax than it has done its job.
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so much love
Fixed!! :)
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Fixed!! :)
Yes! We loves you mIgs!
Migs is a National Treasure :)
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really stella, the pic again, lol. Ok for the record I can talk to women, after all i have had reationships and not just the craigslist kind m'kay. Just saying I hate the entire dating scene and the time wasted on shallow women. I want a good quality chick that people think are way outta my league. Is that so hard? lol
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really stella, the pic again, lol. Ok for the record I can talk to women, after all i have had reationships and not just the craigslist kind m'kay. Just saying I hate the entire dating scene and the time wasted on shallow women. I want a good quality chick that people think are way outta my league. Is that so hard? lol
Fine!!
I'm gonna regret giving you this advice but here it is........ Only ask out hot, overqualified chicks you privately think are way out of your league. Why? The prettier or more together a chick is, the more likely her self-esteem is low. And you know what?! The act of your asking them out will only serve to reenforce those feelings of inadequacy. Ignore any fat or average looking chick the rest of your life and things will be fine. :)
I love women, wouldn't choose someone on looks alone, and it's always been easy getting them so my perspective probably comes off a little jaded. I also know damn well you can't follow my advice because it would be an admission of being wrong, LOL!
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but I want to be the "why buy a cow, when you can get the milk for free" kinda guy.
:'(
Maybe you're meeting too many women who say:
"There's no need to buy the entire pig just for a little piece of sausage" ;)
Migs, if you're always working, you can find nice women on the job. That's what my brother-in-law did.
My sister went to buy a house, ...and she came back with a husband. He really closed that deal! :o
...and on the plus side... you can get all her financial info up front and run a credit check.
you can learn alot about a person by the property they choose to call home. Give it a try.
ps: about that other thing we discussed, let's do a 3-way with your friend.
I'm up for a few hours before i go down for a nap. :)
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yeah, but that's gonna be at least $150
Cheaper than a regular gf and you aint' gotta put up with all the bullshit! ::)
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true
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Cheaper than a regular gf and you aint' gotta put up with all the bullshit! ::)
You ain't gottaput up with bullshit from anybody. That's a choice men make. We need to stop blaming women for our own weakness. :)
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You ain't gottaput up with bullshit from anybody. That's a choice men make. We need to stop blaming women for our own weakness. :)
everybody needs to stop blaming other ppl and take responsibilty for their actions...thats the choice we all make when we make those actions...
your starting to sound conservative doc, will have you advocating a pro life stance in a little while ;)
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everybody needs to stop blaming other ppl and take responsibilty for their actions...thats the choice we all make when we make those actions...
your starting to sound conservative doc, will have you advocating a pro life stance in a little while ;)
This ain't the politics board, LOL!
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You're looking, that's is one of the problems.
Just do you in a good way and someone coming from the right place will turn up. Just don't tell her about the cat.
I agree with this.....don't look too hard..women can smell desperation a mile away....nothing turns them off more....just sit back and let things happen..
three months ago I was thinking the same as you Migs...needed to find a woman to replace my ex who was giving me grief....I was on the train thinking about how miserable I was and how I needed to find another woman....but I promised myself that I would not be desperate and look around for a woman because of the reason I gave above...I asked the universe to take care of it for me and send a woman my way...
That same day I walked into an office building to attend a seminar..I walked in and there was a nice -looking receptionist there who seemed nice...we did some small talk and I said to her "how come there's no ring on that finger"?...she replied "there used to be"...and it went from there..now she's my girlfriend and we are really HOT together....
oh by the way, I am a Buddhist..which is why I asked the universe to help me....we believe that things will work themselves out...that you can't reach out for stuff that you want beause it leads to poor choices and then to trouble later on..you have to make yourself happy..look within
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I agree with this.....don't look too hard..women can smell desperation a mile away....nothing turns them off more....just sit back and let things happen..
three months ago I was thinking the same as you Migs...needed to find a woman to replace my ex who was giving me grief....I was on the train thinking about how miserable I was and how I needed to find another woman....but I promised myself that I would not be desperate and look around for a woman because of the reason I gave above...I asked the universe to take care of it for me and send a woman my way...
That same day I walked into an office building to attend a seminar..I walked in and there was a nice -looking receptionist there who seemed nice...we did some small talk and I said to her "how come there's no ring on that finger"?...she replied "there used to be"...and it went from there..now she's my girlfriend and we are really HOT together....
oh by the way, I am a Buddhist..which is why I asked the universe to help me....we believe that things will work themselves out...that you can't reach out for stuff that you want beause it leads to poor choices and then to trouble later on..you have to make yourself happy..look within
do you get to wear the robe and beads?
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do you get to wear the robe and beads?
He uses the beads for other things. :)
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cue a toxie poop statement
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I agree with this.....don't look too hard..women can smell desperation a mile away....nothing turns them off more....just sit back and let things happen..
That, and cheapness and hairy backs.
three months ago I was thinking the same as you Migs...needed to find a woman to replace my ex who was giving me grief....I was on the train thinking about how miserable I was and how I needed to find another woman....but I promised myself that I would not be desperate and look around for a woman because of the reason I gave above...I asked the universe to take care of it for me and send a woman my way...
That same day I walked into an office building to attend a seminar..I walked in and there was a nice -looking receptionist there who seemed nice...we did some small talk and I said to her "how come there's no ring on that finger"?...she replied "there used to be"...and it went from there..now she's my girlfriend and we are really HOT together....
oh by the way, I am a Buddhist..which is why I asked the universe to help me....we believe that things will work themselves out...that you can't reach out for stuff that you want beause it leads to poor choices and then to trouble later on..you have to make yourself happy..look within
Great advice André! I used to adopt the same attitude to keep my sanity in the film industry.
I figured, as an actor, my job was to audition... not necessarily to get the part, but to audition, do the best I could at the audition and simply give it up to the universe. Not getting the part can drive an actor crazy if they allow it to, when in reality, often not landing the gig had nothing to do with you or your performance, ...they simply chose to go another way with the character / script / or storyline. But as long as you do a great audition, you are forefront in their minds for every project.
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That, and cheapness and hairy backs.
Great advice André! I used to adopt the same attitude to keep my sanity in the film industry.
I figured, as an actor, my job was to audition... not necessarily to get the part, but to audition, do the best I could at the audition and simply give it up to the universe. Not getting the part can drive an actor crazy if they allow it to, when in reality, often not landing the gig had nothing to do with you or your performance, ...they simply chose to go another way with the character / script / or storyline. But as long as you do a great audition, you are forefront in their minds for every project.
Thanks for the thumbs up!...I like your approach to life Jag....it keeps you from going crazy and becoming depressed when things don't work out...and it gives you the motivation to keep going and stay prepared....which is applicable to men like Migs who are looking for women...just stay prepared for the opportunities out there and stay the course....some men become depressed and desperate and they give off a vibe which turns women off...maintain an inner calm, keep a sense of humor and always look your best for the opportunities that come your way..
But I also learned you have to seize the opportunity when the universe presents it....if you see a woman looking at you and she makes eye contact, you gotta get over there and make your move..I also believe that if you randomly bump into a woman more than once, thats the universe bringing the two of you together for a reason....again..take advantage and get your game on....
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let's do a 3-way with your friend.
I'm up for a few hours before i go down for a nap. :)
migs ... migs ... migs .... you let this slip away ???
;D
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migs ... migs ... migs .... you let this slip away ???
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nope I was going to say something, but afraid stella would have censored me...like she has before. Trust me i'm in for a migwich