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Title: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2011, 09:34:58 AM
No. Yes. Hell Yes!  :P


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Post by: newmom on February 19, 2011, 09:35:38 AM
um names PLEASE :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No...
Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2011, 09:41:16 AM
No, no maybe, yes, no, yes, no.


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Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2011, 09:47:05 AM
um names PLEASE :P

You don't recognize Dereke Poundstone?  Woman, leave the room!  ::)


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Post by: newmom on February 19, 2011, 09:48:37 AM
You don't recognize Dereke Poundstone?  Woman, leave the room!  ::)

dude I just came in from a long run in 40mph winds..still trying to unfreeze...awwwwwwwww Derek..actually I'm very good friends with one of his training partners


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No...
Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2011, 09:54:34 AM
dude I just came in from a long run in 40mph winds..still trying to unfreeze...awwwwwwwww Derek..actually I'm very good friends with one of his training partners

I'd give anything to pound his stone.  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No...
Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2011, 09:55:07 AM
No. Yes. Yes.


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Post by: newmom on February 19, 2011, 04:03:35 PM
No. Yes. Yes.


^This


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 20, 2011, 08:12:30 AM
Probably not, yes, no, no, no, no, no, maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 21, 2011, 06:43:45 PM
Sure, why not?  No.  Maybe


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on February 21, 2011, 06:45:40 PM
Sure, why not?  No.  Maybe


ewwwww to all..


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 21, 2011, 07:56:31 PM
No. Yes. No. Probably. Yes. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 22, 2011, 09:15:05 PM
Yes. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on February 23, 2011, 07:21:09 AM
Yes. No. No.

this


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 23, 2011, 07:57:00 AM
Sure, why not?  No.  Yes!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 02, 2011, 10:27:03 AM
No, Yes, No, No, Yes, Maybe, Maybe, No, No, Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on March 02, 2011, 10:39:37 AM
No, Yes, No, No, Yes, Maybe, Maybe, No, No, Maybe.

um are you doing left to right beginning in the first row?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 02, 2011, 10:45:47 AM
Left to right irrespective of row.  That should be obvious if you have good taste!  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on March 02, 2011, 10:47:58 AM
Left to right irrespective of row.  That should be obvious if you have good taste!  :P

well only one I'd give a yes to, the rest um NO


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 02, 2011, 10:49:49 AM
well only one I'd give a yes to, the rest um NO

Meow! You didn't even want Derek Poundstone!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 03, 2011, 09:19:17 AM
No. No. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 04, 2011, 08:16:50 AM
Yes. Yes. No. Maybe


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 05, 2011, 07:35:25 AM
No. No. Sure, why not? Probably not.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 06, 2011, 07:57:10 AM
No. No. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: FLEX N FREAK on March 08, 2011, 01:17:20 PM
this is HILARIOUS BAY,  KEEP GOING BAY...

obvious you like um big and not too hairy....


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 08, 2011, 02:26:26 PM
Yes! Sure, why not?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 08, 2011, 02:27:29 PM
this is HILARIOUS BAY,  KEEP GOING BAY...

obvious you like um big and not too hairy....

Funny you should say that.  Some here say I specifically like men that are too hairy.  ::)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 09, 2011, 08:57:49 AM
Yes. Ok. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 10, 2011, 07:28:11 AM
No. No. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 11, 2011, 08:57:16 AM
Yes. Yes. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 12, 2011, 11:13:01 AM
No. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 17, 2011, 06:49:15 AM
Not sure (take your clothes off first).  Sure.  Yes!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: theonlyone on March 17, 2011, 12:31:43 PM
 I know Denis Cyplenkov personally lol. You're a gay fucker. Denis better not to know this... You're an american fucker....Yes no yes no..... Rest in peace fucker....


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 21, 2011, 06:47:24 AM
Yes, No, No, Yes, Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 12, 2011, 06:42:39 AM
No. Yes! No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No. (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on April 15, 2011, 03:03:21 PM
this is HILARIOUS BAY,  KEEP GOING BAY...

obvious you like um big and not too hairy....
Bay is a slut. He would fuck anything with a dick.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 05, 2011, 06:32:00 AM
Yes. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 07, 2011, 06:31:23 AM
Maybe. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 08, 2011, 07:12:40 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 09, 2011, 07:00:57 AM
No. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 10, 2011, 06:15:57 AM
No. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 05, 2011, 07:54:10 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 06, 2011, 06:19:31 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on June 06, 2011, 09:33:33 AM
haha all the guys that women would like get a no

E


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 07, 2011, 06:03:56 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 15, 2011, 08:25:07 AM
Yes. Yes.  Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on June 15, 2011, 03:47:29 PM
Yes. No.

why no?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 15, 2011, 05:12:19 PM
I don't like that guy's look: face or body.  You can have him.
I'll take Frank.  :)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 17, 2011, 07:20:01 AM
No. Maybe.  
But merge them into one person and then I'd say "Yes"  :D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 20, 2011, 06:33:27 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 25, 2011, 05:56:46 AM
Yes.  Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on June 25, 2011, 08:52:11 AM
Yes.  Yes.

who is that one the left :P :P :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 25, 2011, 08:59:29 AM
who is that one the left :P :P :P

Get your own; they are both mine!  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on June 25, 2011, 08:59:57 AM
Get your own; they are both mine!  :P

 >:( >:( >:( >:( >:(


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 26, 2011, 05:45:05 AM
No.  Probably.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 27, 2011, 06:20:01 AM
Yes. Yes.

Could you pick just one?  Which one?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 27, 2011, 01:58:26 PM
Bay, you are shallow! LOL!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 27, 2011, 06:34:09 PM
Bay, you are shallow! LOL!

Sue me; I like muscle!  :P  ;D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 28, 2011, 05:24:19 AM
Yes (risky since we can't see his face). Yes! No.  :D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 01, 2011, 06:52:57 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on July 01, 2011, 08:28:20 PM
Yes. Yes.

Why do one of  these two dudes look so familiar? Bay, you do have a type, don't you?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 01, 2011, 10:09:56 PM
Why do one of  these two dudes look so familiar? Bay, you do have a type, don't you?

It is easy to conclude that based on some of my postings, I know, but you may be surprised to learn that I have been attracted to, and dated, many kinds of men: tall, short, muscled, average, chunky, black, white, young (22) old (60), hairy, smooth, etc...  Over the years, I have learned to find many different kinds of men attractive.  I am bemused when I hear people say "I only find X men (or women) attractive" where X is a hair color, eye color, body type, nationality, bust size, dick size, etc... Of course, this is a bodybuilding board so muscle is what I tend to focus on here... but I see men every day who are not bodybuilders whom I think are attractive.

Anywhow who among us here doesn't like big dumb (looking) men!  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on July 01, 2011, 10:46:18 PM
I agree with the big dumb, puppy dog, men melting one's heart and sometimes their zipper. There was this fellow in high school that I was so hot for. He was something of a hood....but an incredibly hunky, cute, and dumb, hood. I figured he was as straight as an arrow. Wrong! A couple of years out of high school, I ran into this fellow in a gay bar on Melrose in So. Cal (we both are from the L.A. area). I freak out! Never being the shy one, I go right up to him and ask him WTF?

Now here's the weird part. I took him home with me that night to my apartment off the strip. He wanted me to turn him out and instead I turned him down. We became friends. A while later, I married my girlfriend. A year after that he invited us to his wedding at Big Bear. We couldn't go. We'd moved to Oregon and had our son. We couldn't afford the trip to attend the wedding. After that, I lost touch with him. I've tried to find him over the years. But no luck. It was like he was my little brother and I wanted to protect him.

Okay, you got me! I am a hopeless romantic.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 04, 2011, 05:10:26 PM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on July 05, 2011, 06:13:00 AM
subscribing for a longer, better look....


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 19, 2011, 05:41:37 PM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on July 20, 2011, 06:06:35 AM
Yes. Yes.
COLT Studios, get on the phone and offer a contract !!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 20, 2011, 06:16:17 AM
COLT Studios, get on the phone and offer a contract !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you seen what Colt has become over the last several years?  They would never feature guys like Jeff and Seth now.  :'(

You're thinking of Colt circa 1970-1980s


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on July 20, 2011, 10:54:46 AM
Have you seen what Colt has become over the last several years?  They would never feature guys like Jeff and Seth now.  :'(

You're thinking of Colt circa 1970-1980s
oops
showing my age.
Chris Wide was my last favorite of theirs.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 27, 2011, 06:01:01 PM
Probably. No. No. Maybe. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 30, 2011, 06:05:59 PM
Yes. Yes. Yes. :P :P :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 31, 2011, 07:21:21 AM
Yes. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on August 01, 2011, 06:29:50 AM
Yes.  Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on August 02, 2011, 06:14:35 AM
No. Maybe. No. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on August 08, 2011, 06:35:54 AM
No. No. Maybe. No. No. No. No. No. No


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on August 08, 2011, 01:11:52 PM
i'd blow them all.
and fuck a few, too.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 19, 2011, 07:47:34 PM
No. Yes. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on October 20, 2011, 10:17:46 AM
bay definitely likes them rugged, not pretty

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Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 07, 2011, 07:52:41 PM
No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 08, 2011, 07:29:18 AM
Maybe. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 09, 2011, 07:34:08 AM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 10, 2011, 09:29:00 AM
Yes. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 11, 2011, 08:47:22 AM
No.  Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 12, 2011, 07:55:16 AM
Yes. No. No. Yes. Yes. Probably.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 13, 2011, 09:30:27 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 15, 2011, 07:10:20 AM
No. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on November 15, 2011, 07:11:09 AM
No. No. Yes.

NO, FUCK YES and HELL YES


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 17, 2011, 08:20:46 AM
Not now.  Maybe. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 18, 2011, 07:19:30 AM
No. Not yet.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 19, 2011, 05:29:54 PM
Maybe. No. No. Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 20, 2011, 08:11:59 AM
No. Yes. No. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 22, 2011, 08:18:50 AM
No. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: newmom on November 22, 2011, 03:17:45 PM
no to Kamali ??? ??? more for me..weeeeeeeeeeeeee


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Kwon_2 on November 23, 2011, 06:02:05 AM
I know Denis Cyplenkov personally lol. You're a gay fucker. Denis better not to know this... You're an american fucker....Yes no yes no..... Rest in peace fucker....


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 24, 2011, 09:36:01 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 25, 2011, 09:48:15 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 01, 2011, 08:34:29 PM
Maybe. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 02, 2011, 08:59:56 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: howardroark on December 02, 2011, 11:25:47 PM
I'm trying to figure out your taste in men... and I just don't understand!  ??? I thought gay men would fall into some preconceived notions of what they like, similar to straight men and women? Like how some guys like petite girls, others like curvy girls, or blondes, etc. But your choices don't seem to follow any rule, besides being muscular!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 03, 2011, 09:31:26 AM
I'm trying to figure out your taste in men... and I just don't understand!  ??? I thought gay men would fall into some preconceived notions of what they like, similar to straight men and women? Like how some guys like petite girls, others like curvy girls, or blondes, etc. But your choices don't seem to follow any rule, besides being muscular!

You are correct; I do not necessarily follow preconceived patterns or rules.  I have never understood why anyone would limit themselves in this way.  Let’s say you grew up on--and loved--Mexican food.  So much so that you decided to eat it exclusively for the rest of your life.  You might do so and think yourself perfectly happy, but ultimately you are the one losing out because you have cut yourself off from Thai, Italian, Vietnamese, French, Brazilian, Chinese, Japanese, and every other kind of delectable cuisine in the world.  People who limit themselves to petite, curvy, or blondes are doing the same thing and ultimately they the are the ones losing out.  Not surprisingly,  people who do this will often turn around and then complain that they can’t find a man/woman.  It is difficult to admit, but we are often the authors of our own misery.  People often say “I can’t help what I’m attracted to.”  That is patently false!  As with foods and beverages, we can all acquire a taste for many physical traits that we were once indifferent to or even loathed!  If I had to eat Mexican food for the rest of my life I would be very unhappy.

For me, male beauty/attraction can take many forms.  In fact, there are plenty of men who are not muscular at all that I also find appealing though I would not post them here because this is a body building forum.

Now let me ask you a question: why you trying to figure out my taste in men?  If it is any consolation I get asked about my taste in men here a lot (mostly via PM).  You are obviously not the only one visiting these schmoe threads.  In fact, when taken together they have easily been visited by more getbiggers than any other thread.   8)



Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: io856 on December 03, 2011, 06:20:56 PM
You are correct; I do not necessarily follow preconceived patterns or rules.  I have never understood why anyone would limit themselves in this way.  Let’s say you grew up on--and loved--Mexican food.  So much so that you decided to eat it exclusively for the rest of your life.  You might do so and think yourself perfectly happy, but ultimately you are the one losing out because you have cut yourself off from Thai, Italian, Vietnamese, French, Brazilian, Chinese, Japanese, and every other kind of delectable cuisine in the world.  People who limit themselves to petite, curvy, or blondes are doing the same thing and ultimately they the are the ones losing out.  Not surprisingly,  people who do this will often turn around and then complain that they can’t find a man/woman.  It is difficult to admit, but we are often the authors of our own misery.  People often say “I can’t help what I’m attracted to.”  That is patently false!  As with foods and beverages, we can all acquire a taste for many physical traits that we were once indifferent to or even loathed!  If I had to eat Mexican food for the rest of my life I would be very unhappy.

For me, male beauty/attraction can take many forms.  In fact, there are plenty of men who are not muscular at all that I also find appealing though I would not post them here because this is a body building forum.

Now let me ask you a question: why you trying to figure out my taste in men?  If it is any consolation I get asked about my taste in men here a lot (mostly via PM).  You are obviously not the only one visiting these schmoe threads.  In fact, when taken together they have easily been visited by more getbiggers than any other thread.   8)


But I mean there is a certain innate differences in what we are attracted to would you not agree?
I agree with you here and your analogy. I think as much as we can  "experiment" with others it doesn't change...


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: howardroark on December 03, 2011, 09:35:12 PM
You are correct; I do not necessarily follow preconceived patterns or rules.  I have never understood why anyone would limit themselves in this way.  Let’s say you grew up on--and loved--Mexican food.  So much so that you decided to eat it exclusively for the rest of your life.  You might do so and think yourself perfectly happy, but ultimately you are the one losing out because you have cut yourself off from Thai, Italian, Vietnamese, French, Brazilian, Chinese, Japanese, and every other kind of delectable cuisine in the world.  People who limit themselves to petite, curvy, or blondes are doing the same thing and ultimately they the are the ones losing out.  Not surprisingly,  people who do this will often turn around and then complain that they can’t find a man/woman.  It is difficult to admit, but we are often the authors of our own misery.  People often say “I can’t help what I’m attracted to.”  That is patently false!  As with foods and beverages, we can all acquire a taste for many physical traits that we were once indifferent to or even loathed!  If I had to eat Mexican food for the rest of my life I would be very unhappy.

For me, male beauty/attraction can take many forms.  In fact, there are plenty of men who are not muscular at all that I also find appealing though I would not post them here because this is a body building forum.

Now let me ask you a question: why you trying to figure out my taste in men?  If it is any consolation I get asked about my taste in men here a lot (mostly via PM).  You are obviously not the only one visiting these schmoe threads.  In fact, when taken together they have easily been visited by more getbiggers than any other thread.   8)



Haha, well, that is an excellent way of explaining yourself.

At first I thought you were a straight guy who was just trolling the forum... then I realized you were gay and I thought that this thread was hilarious! But then I couldn't figure out your taste and it just bothered me.  >:( I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to not know something.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 03, 2011, 09:49:53 PM
Haha, well, that is an excellent way of explaining yourself.

At first I thought you were a straight guy who was just trolling the forum... then I realized you were gay and I thought that this thread was hilarious! But then I couldn't figure out your taste and it just bothered me.  >:( I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to not know something.

It is good that you explained yourself. I thought you were trying to find out if you were his type....which on second thought, is fine too.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: howardroark on December 03, 2011, 09:52:38 PM
It is good that you explained yourself. I thought you were trying to find out if you were his type....which on second thought, is fine too.

LOL.  ;D Unfortunately I don't think I'm his type.  :'(


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 03, 2011, 10:09:41 PM
LOL.  ;D Unfortunately I don't think I'm his type.  :'(

Wait....I thought I read in Bay's post that he really doesn't have a type. Well, I guess you'd have to be a guy at least.

Just kidding you! I'm probably not Bay's type either. Or then, maybe he isn't my type, whatever that is.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 04, 2011, 08:22:33 AM
But I mean there is a certain innate differences in what we are attracted to would you not agree?
I agree with you here and your analogy. I think as much as we can  "experiment" with others it doesn't change...

I'm not sure we are talking about the same thing.  Perhaps an example of what you mean would be useful.  Do I think there are innate desires for the kinds of foods that we like?  No.  I would expand that to different kinds of people.  I think we learn to like different physical types and attributes based on what we are exposed to... even at very young ages: pictures, images on television, advertising, sports, porn, bodybuilding, etc.  Are the appetites we indulge in as adults innate?  No. I do not believe so.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 04, 2011, 08:40:00 AM
Wait....I thought I read in Bay's post that he really doesn't have a type. Well, I guess you'd have to be a guy at least.

Just kidding you! I'm probably not Bay's type either. Or then, maybe he isn't my type, whatever that is.

Are these guys the same "type"?  I like all of them.  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 04, 2011, 09:17:07 PM
Are these guys the same "type"?  I like all of them.  :P

Can't say for sure. I will say you have good taste in men. They are all hot!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 12, 2011, 08:16:28 AM
No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 08, 2012, 12:45:46 PM
Maybe. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 10, 2012, 08:05:56 AM
Yes. Once upon a time.  Probably.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 14, 2012, 10:10:40 AM
Maybe. Maybe. No.  Probably. No. No. No. Probably.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 15, 2012, 09:24:06 AM
No. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 16, 2012, 11:42:11 AM
No. Yes. Yes. Maybe. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 17, 2012, 08:00:56 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes.  :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: io856 on January 18, 2012, 06:38:01 PM
Yes. Yes. Yes.  :P
wohhhh thats a weird looking torso


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 18, 2012, 06:53:12 PM
wohhhh thats a weird looking torso

I agree, but I bet it's fine when he's not flexed.  :)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 22, 2012, 11:38:07 AM
Yes.  No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 24, 2012, 08:29:29 AM
Yes. No. Yes. No. No. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on January 24, 2012, 02:52:42 PM
Yes. No. Yes. No. No. Yes. No.
so you wouldn't have sex with charles glass?  ???


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 24, 2012, 06:14:11 PM
so you wouldn't have sex with charles glass?  ???

You can have him.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on January 24, 2012, 08:10:03 PM
You can have him.
no thanks, im straight my little gay friend . 


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: io856 on January 24, 2012, 08:21:21 PM
no thanks, im straight my little gay friend . 
haha yes your straight but you checked and posted in this gay orientated thread at least twice today


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on January 24, 2012, 08:28:14 PM
haha yes your straight but you checked and posted in this gay orientated thread at least twice today
and your point?  ???


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 24, 2012, 08:31:43 PM
haha yes your straight but you checked and posted in this gay orientated thread at least twice today

Now, now, let's not jump to conclusions.  I bet he has been clicking on this thread again and again because he wants to learn how to get in shape and pull mad pussy.   ::)

By the way, HTexan, that's not Charles Glass.  It's Robby Robinson.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on January 25, 2012, 08:39:17 PM
Yes. No. Yes. No. No. Yes. No.

you said yes to Mr. Levrone before and now you give a no to the best looking guys in this pic ???

E


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on January 25, 2012, 09:47:49 PM
Now, now, let's not jump to conclusions.  I bet he has been clicking on this thread again and again because he wants to learn how to get in shape and pull mad pussy.   ::)

By the way, HTexan, that's not Charles Glass.  It's Robby Robinson.
I have no problem with gay people like you. Or getting pussy, And i don't need any help getting it, just like you don't need any help getting cocks in your mouth. Help that helps ;)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 26, 2012, 08:29:53 AM
you said yes to Mr. Levrone before and now you give a no to the best looking guys in this pic ???

E

Best looking to you maybe.  Go for it.  :-*


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on January 26, 2012, 01:09:30 PM
Best looking to you maybe.  Go for it.  :-*

best looking to everybody else

why did you say yes to Mr. Levrone before and not now?

E


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on January 27, 2012, 08:57:24 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 02, 2012, 08:17:44 AM
No. No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 06, 2012, 08:24:24 AM
Yes! Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 07, 2012, 07:24:23 AM
Yes. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 08, 2012, 08:12:26 AM
Yes. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 18, 2012, 08:06:17 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on February 19, 2012, 04:05:18 PM
No. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 03, 2012, 09:28:13 AM
No. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 06, 2012, 07:53:40 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 24, 2012, 07:26:20 AM
Yes. Yes. Maybe (legs are puny).



Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 25, 2012, 11:57:18 AM
Maybe. Maybe. No. No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on March 31, 2012, 07:50:17 AM
No. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 01, 2012, 07:17:56 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 03, 2012, 07:08:37 AM
No. No. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 07, 2012, 09:21:51 AM
             No. No.
Maybe. No. Yes! No. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 08, 2012, 10:53:53 AM
Yes. No. No. Yes
Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 09, 2012, 07:08:38 AM
No. Maybe. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 10, 2012, 07:39:59 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 13, 2012, 07:12:27 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on April 26, 2012, 06:47:54 AM
No. No. Maybe. Yes. Maybe. No. No


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 24, 2012, 05:49:05 PM
No. No. Probably.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 03, 2012, 12:47:19 PM
Maybe. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 05, 2012, 08:20:19 AM
Maybe. Maybe. Maybe.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: io856 on June 05, 2012, 04:52:25 PM
Maybe. Maybe. Maybe.

What with that tank top on the third

haha


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 06, 2012, 09:44:55 AM
What with that tank top on the third

haha

Very gay "shirt."  Not that there is anything wrong with that; some muscle guys really like to show off, advertise, or otherwise peddle themselves.  This is the kind of shirt I expect to see in a gay bar, street fair, cruise, or at a muscle expo; well, same difference.  ::)

If you have the physique to pull it off it's fine (the guy above does).  The trouble is a number of gym rats or muscle wannabes like to wear tank tops like this when they simply do not have the muscle mass to pull it off.  That is objectionable.  :(


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 06, 2012, 03:30:05 PM
Very gay "shirt."  Not that there is anything wrong with that; some muscle guys really like to show off, advertise, or otherwise peddle themselves.  This is the kind of shirt I expect to see in a gay bar, street fair, cruise, or at a muscle expo; well, same difference.  ::)

If you have the physique to pull it off it's fine (the guy above does).  The trouble is a number of gym rats or muscle wannabes like to wear tank tops like this when they simply do not have the muscle mass to pull it off.  That is objectionable.  :(

I have that very same shirt style in black somewhere in a drawer. It is really comfortable to wear when working out. I've seen very lean guys wearing that shirt and it looks good on them as well. It probably wouldn't do much for a fat dude though.

Why is it a gay shirt? I don't get that at all.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 07, 2012, 06:34:16 AM
I have that very same shirt style in black somewhere in a drawer. It is really comfortable to wear when working out. I've seen very lean guys wearing that shirt and it looks good on them as well. It probably wouldn't do much for a fat dude though.

Why is it a gay shirt? I don't get that at all.

If you understand why these images are gay http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=248135.0 then you understand why that shirt is gay.  If you don't understand why those pix are gay... then you are right... you don't get it.

No one wears a shirt like that for "comfort" any more than a woman wears a backless dress or a plunging neckline that exposes her cleavage for comfort.  Working out shirtless  or in tiny shorts would be comfortable too, but one does not often see that.  Do women wear 6 inch heels for comfort?  No.  This is not that complicated.  I think you well understand why that shirt is gay... but perhaps there is a part of you that does not want to understand. So be it. :-[


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 07, 2012, 08:47:49 AM
If you understand why these images are gay http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=248135.0 then you understand why that shirt is gay.  If you don't understand why those pix are gay... then you are right... you don't get it.

No one wears a shirt like that for "comfort" any more than a woman wears a backless dress or a plunging neckline that exposes her cleavage for comfort.  Working out shirtless  or in tiny shorts would be comfortable too, but one does not often see that.  Do women wear 6 inch heels for comfort?  No.  This is not that complicated.  I think you well understand why that shirt is gay... but perhaps there is a part of you that does not want to understand. So be it. :-[

What is gay is in the eye of the beholder, me thinks. Maybe Oregon is unique in that straight folks sometimes wear "gay clothes" and don't even know it. Personally, I think it depends on whether what one wears is appropriate for where they are more than whether the clothing item is itself is gay. If I were, for example, to wear said shirt to a nightclub or a party, then it would probably look out of place. No doubt some folks would think I was showing off. However, I have seen lots of guys at the gym wearing tank tops who are more than likely not gay men. I doubt they believe wearing a tank top to workout in is gay or they'd never wear it.

This might seem like a rather straight attitude, but to me a woman's exposed cleavage is a lot more sexually provocative than a man's shoulders and upper chest. Most of the fellows who workout where I do, wear really big baggy shorts. Occasionally someone wears running shorts, but that is pretty rare. They are really out of fashion at the gym these days and heaven knows, most gay guys wouldn't wear something no longer in style. In fact around here, one more often sees runners wearing leggings than they do short running shorts. However, you are right that sometimes it might be more comfortable to work out shirtless. At the gym were I work out, that is not allowed for hygiene reasons (most folks don't want to get other folks sweat on them).

When I was in high school, anyone who wore pink or green on Thursdays was supposedly gay. Believing a particular shirt style is gay is about as ridiculous, in my opinion. If it were that easy to figure out who is gay and who is not, folks would never accidentally hit on the wrong person.

 


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 07, 2012, 12:14:36 PM
What is gay is in the eye of the beholder, me thinks. Maybe Oregon is unique in that straight folks sometimes wear "gay clothes" and don't even know it. Personally, I think it depends on whether what one wears is appropriate for where they are more than whether the clothing item is itself is gay. If I were, for example, to wear said shirt to a nightclub or a party, then it would probably look out of place. No doubt some folks would think I was showing off. However, I have seen lots of guys at the gym wearing tank tops who are more than likely not gay men. I doubt they believe wearing a tank top to workout in is gay or they'd never wear it.

This might seem like a rather straight attitude, but to me a woman's exposed cleavage is a lot more sexually provocative than a man's shoulders and upper chest. Most of the fellows who workout where I do, wear really big baggy shorts. Occasionally someone wears running shorts, but that is pretty rare. They are really out of fashion at the gym these days and heaven knows, most gay guys wouldn't wear something no longer in style. In fact around here, one more often sees runners wearing leggings than they do short running shorts. However, you are right that sometimes it might be more comfortable to work out shirtless. At the gym were I work out, that is not allowed for hygiene reasons (most folks don't want to get other folks sweat on them).

When I was in high school, anyone who wore pink or green on Thursdays was supposedly gay. Believing a particular shirt style is gay is about as ridiculous, in my opinion. If it were that easy to figure out who is gay and who is not, folks would never accidentally hit on the wrong person.


That is one way to think of it.  A version of this conversation was had in several threads before and in the Connect… the… dots… thread.  Several people can look a photo (Wolf and the tires, Dorian and the sword) and notice exactly why it’s gay and provocative while others can look at the same photos and say, “Please explain because, I don’t see anything gay about it.”  The fact is not everyone is equally perceptive.  So be it.

There is nothing wrong with wearing a normal tank top to work out, but the tank top in the pic above is not a typical tank top—which is why io856 posed the question “What’s with that tank top on the third?  Ha ha”  He perceived what you do not.  Ridiculous?  Perhaps.  So be it.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 07, 2012, 12:41:27 PM

That is one way to think of it.  A version of this conversation was had in several threads before and in the Connect… the… dots… thread.  Several people can look a photo (Wolf and the tires, Dorian and the sword) and notice exactly why it’s gay and provocative while others can look at the same photos and say, “Please explain because, I don’t see anything gay about it.”  The fact is not everyone is equally perceptive.  So be it.

There is nothing wrong with wearing a normal tank top to work out, but the tank top in the pic above is not a typical tank top—which is why io856 posed the question “What’s with that tank top on the third?  Ha ha”  He perceived what you do not.  Ridiculous?  Perhaps.  So be it.


Not to belabor the tank top issue, but the one I have, I bought in the men's underwear section of Target. There were racks of them. Following the logic that the shirt is gay which suggests the wearer actually is, there must be whole lot of gay men shopping for their underwear at Target.

The way you use the word perception suggests to me that you believe those folks who don't see something like the examples you provided as gay are lacking in perception. The fact is that their perception is simply different than other people's are and not necessarily lacking at all. Now had you said similarly perceptive, you'd have probably be right, because that allows for the fact that different folks have different perceptions based on their experiences.  This helps explain why many gay folks see these things as being gay while some straight folks may not.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 07, 2012, 01:46:45 PM
This thread is going off topic so this will be my last post on the subject. Do you think that pic of Dorian bent over the sword is gay?  

Another, even better, example is the pic of Haney standing on the sewer grate shirtless in jeans with puffs of seam coming out under him.  Do you think that pic is gay?  I remember when it was first posted here several years ago many people disparaged the Haney pic as decidedly gay.  The guys doing so were presumably straight.  They were right: the pic is very gay; still quite a few people did not get it--and still don't.  But the pic is not explicit so what exactly makes it gay?  Why were several straight posters able to espy the gay aesthetic?  Why were some other posters unable to see it?  It is not simply a matter of having a "different perception."  It has to do with ability.  The fact is some people ARE more perceptive than others (just as some are better at mathematics).  If you have spent time studying philosophy, literature, photography, film, or art history, for example--or even just spent a lot of time in museums looking at paintings, sculptures, etc.--you learn to connect dots (historical, cultural, aesthetic) and see a bigger picture or arrive at noteworthy conclusions. I am willing to wager that you do not have a lot of study in these areas or you would readily know this.

Let me try to explain it another way: remember that old TV game show Name That Tune?  We have all played a version of it alone or with others.  You begin to hear a song on the radio; you don't recognize it, but it sounds familiar.  You might need to hear the song for 45 seconds before you can fully recognize it.  Your wife sitting next to you may recognize the song in 5 seconds yet neither of you have heard the song in, say, 15 years.  She connected the dots--not differently, just more quickly than you did.

One does not have to be gay to see why some of these images are gay, but you do have to be able to connect... the... dots.  Some people can readily do this.  Some people can do it quickly.  Some cannot do it at all... even when you explain it to them, they shrug, looking dumbfounded, and say something like, "I still don't see it."


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: B_B_C on June 07, 2012, 02:58:48 PM
This thread is going off topic so this will be my last post on the subject.

are you always right?
sounds like you are saying the subject is off topic because someone has the temerity to put a cogent argument to you


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 07, 2012, 03:13:24 PM
This thread is going off topic so this will be my last post on the subject. Do you think that pic of Dorian bent over the sword is gay?  

Another, even better, example is the pic of Haney standing on the sewer grate shirtless in jeans with puffs of seam coming out under him.  Do you think that pic is gay?  I remember when it was first posted here several years ago many people disparaged the Haney pic as decidedly gay.  The guys doing so were presumably straight.  They were right: the pic is very gay; still quite a few people did not get it--and still don't.  But the pic is not explicit so what exactly makes it gay?  Why were several straight posters able to espy the gay aesthetic?  Why were some other posters unable to see it?  It is not simply a matter of having a "different perception."  It has to do with ability.  The fact is some people ARE more perceptive than others (just as some are better at mathematics).  If you have spent time studying philosophy, literature, photography, film, or art history, for example--or even just spent a lot of time in museums looking at paintings, sculptures, etc.--you learn to connect dots (historical, cultural, aesthetic) and see a bigger picture or arrive at noteworthy conclusions. I am willing to wager that you do not have a lot of study in these areas or you would readily know this.


Let me try to explain it another way: remember that old TV game show Name That Tune?  We have all played a version of it alone or with others.  You begin to hear a song on the radio; you don't recognize it, but it sounds familiar.  You might need to hear the song for 45 seconds before you can fully recognize it.  Your wife sitting next to you may recognize the song in 5 seconds yet neither of you have heard the song in, say, 15 years.  She connected the dots--not differently, just more quickly than you did.

One does not have to be gay to see why some of these images are gay, but you do have to be able to connect... the... dots.  Some people can readily do this.  Some people can do it quickly.  Some cannot do it at all... even when you explain it to them, they shrug, looking dumbfounded, and say something like, "I still don't see it."

It is bad form to propose to end the discussion and then proceed to continue arguing your point. You either wish to end the discussion or you don't. Since you spoke further, this would suggest that you feel you must have the last word. However, this is your thread. Do with it as you will.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 07, 2012, 04:00:58 PM
are you always right?
sounds like you are saying the subject is off topic because someone has the temerity to put a cogent argument to you

Don't be simple (if you can help it).  This conversation should very well continue in the Connect... the... dots... thread where it belongs.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: B_B_C on June 07, 2012, 04:03:55 PM
if its that important to you
then of course you are right and you may as well have the last word


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 08, 2012, 05:57:03 AM
Yep. Yep. Yep.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 11, 2012, 06:31:59 AM
Probably. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 18, 2012, 06:51:51 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on June 25, 2012, 08:04:46 PM
No. Probably not. No. Yes. No. Yes (but only for the hair).  :-*


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 09, 2012, 07:30:51 AM
No. Maybe. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 10, 2012, 06:47:18 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 21, 2012, 06:34:55 AM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on July 23, 2012, 04:38:08 PM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 16, 2012, 07:16:23 PM
Yes. Yes. Yes. No. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 17, 2012, 06:50:38 AM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 18, 2012, 07:26:10 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 19, 2012, 06:05:04 PM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 22, 2012, 05:33:58 PM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 24, 2012, 06:23:49 AM
No. No. No. No. Maybe. Yes. Yes. :P


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 25, 2012, 07:52:29 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: io856 on September 26, 2012, 08:09:14 AM
No. No. No. No. Maybe. Yes. Yes. :P
Its the personality that counts  ;D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on September 30, 2012, 07:57:22 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 01, 2012, 06:32:24 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 13, 2012, 06:58:41 AM
No. No. Maybe someday.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 19, 2012, 07:55:43 AM
Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 20, 2012, 07:36:51 AM
No. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Moen on October 31, 2012, 04:07:33 AM
Yes. Yes.

Picture name "clothed.jpg"... does this mean that you also have an "unclothed.jpg" of Jose?  :o


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 09, 2012, 09:27:21 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 11, 2012, 09:32:09 AM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 01, 2012, 11:46:10 AM
Yes. Yes. Yes


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 04, 2012, 11:02:27 PM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 05, 2012, 08:37:28 PM
Yes. Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on August 16, 2015, 09:05:45 AM
Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on August 16, 2015, 12:37:10 PM
Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes.
separately and as much of a group as they would like to do!!!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on August 16, 2015, 07:05:25 PM
separately and as much of a group as they would like to do!!!

Ha ha!  None of those guys are ones I would go for (too young and boyish looking) but they are in shape so I will give them a "yes" credit.  :D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on August 17, 2015, 05:15:33 AM
Ha ha!  None of those guys are ones I would go for (too young and boyish looking) but they are in shape so I will give them a "yes" credit.  :D
i like that 'boyish quality as their muscled butt is up in the air and their face is buried into the pillows, whining about how it hurts. but then dont ask me to stop.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on October 26, 2015, 04:16:29 AM
No, No, No, No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on October 27, 2015, 11:26:58 AM
No, No, No, No.

This clarifies what you don't like.  ;D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 01, 2015, 05:30:40 AM
This clarifies what you don't like.  ;D

You knew!   ;)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 01, 2015, 05:34:08 AM
No, No, No,
     No,   No,
             No


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 02, 2015, 05:36:50 AM
Yes, No, No, Yes, Yes.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on November 02, 2015, 06:27:14 AM
Yes, No, No, Yes, Yes.
again, i'd get a suite at the local Ritz Carlton and hire them all for an afternoon's worth of play.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on November 05, 2015, 11:12:03 AM
This clarifies what you don't like.  ;D

yes he hates good looking guys

the uglier the better

E


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 10, 2015, 06:07:38 AM
No, No, No, No, No, No, No, Yes


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on November 10, 2015, 03:44:48 PM
and I'd be happy doing them all..
or just one.
or in groups; however they feel comfortable.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on November 10, 2015, 07:27:07 PM
and I'd be happy doing them all..
or just one.
or in groups; however they feel comfortable.

Do you mean just one at a time? If you mean just one, than which one? Bay only chose one....the obvious choice for him.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 11, 2015, 05:51:50 AM
Do you mean just one at a time? If you mean just one, than which one? Bay only chose one....the obvious choice for him.

Which one would you choose? :D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on November 11, 2015, 04:20:04 PM
Which one would you choose? :D
I would start left to right. and blow them all.
fuck those that were open to the idea.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on November 11, 2015, 05:50:39 PM
Are you in a relationship bay? How would you fell about making Melvin your cum bitch? :D


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on November 12, 2015, 11:44:29 AM
Which one would you choose? :D

Probably the one that was up for it, which may be none of them.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 19, 2015, 04:01:09 PM
Yes, Yes, Yes


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on November 23, 2015, 05:00:00 PM
Maybe (after few drinks), Probably not (more drinks needed), No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 01, 2015, 07:50:46 AM
No, No, No, No, Maybe
    No, No, No


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 01, 2015, 10:03:50 AM
The fellow on the far left in the photo below takes time to color coordinate his gym wear. Time for me to buy some joggers to wear at the gym now that it is colder than a witch's tit. Can't go shirtless though, the gym doesn't allow it.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on December 01, 2015, 01:06:17 PM
i'd do them all :)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 01, 2015, 01:53:30 PM
i'd do them all :)

You always say that. You must be a busy fellow.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on December 02, 2015, 12:59:36 PM
You always say that. You must be a busy fellow.

lol; just because I'd do them doesn't mean they would let me!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on December 02, 2015, 03:59:04 PM
lol; just because I'd do them doesn't mean they would let me!

Very true.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on December 03, 2015, 03:47:49 PM
Maybe, No, No, No, No


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on December 04, 2015, 04:34:35 AM
id make them all stars in Titanmen videos


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Earl1972 on December 04, 2015, 12:25:56 PM
i wonder if these guys would say "yes" to you bay

E


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on December 04, 2015, 02:05:41 PM
i wonder if these guys would say "yes" to you bay

E
Nope, they call bay a creepy queen, and walk off. As bay jacks off to pics of them.  :-X


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: BayGBM on May 29, 2016, 06:25:29 AM
Maybe, Maybe, No, Maybe, No.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on June 03, 2016, 08:50:07 AM
yes, yes, maybe, maybe, YES!


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 03, 2016, 02:48:34 PM
yes, yes, maybe, maybe, YES!

You prefer younger dudes, I see.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on June 06, 2016, 02:52:15 PM
You prefer younger dudes, I see.
i didn't want to appear as a slut if I said yes to all of them ;)


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on June 06, 2016, 03:30:07 PM
i didn't want to appear as a slut if I said yes to all of them ;)
You're a slut. Bay is just thirsty and creepy.  :-\


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 07, 2016, 06:27:00 PM
i didn't want to appear as a slut if I said yes to all of them ;)

What's a slut? Fuck as many as you can. It's all good.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on June 10, 2016, 05:42:29 AM
You're a slut. Bay is just thirsty and creepy.  :-\
Be the best you can be
My motto


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on June 10, 2016, 10:42:53 AM
Be the best you can be
My motto
bay is so thirsty, are you willing to give him a pity fuck?


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 13, 2016, 05:15:40 PM
bay is so thirsty, are you willing to give him a pretty fuck?

What's a pretty fuck?  ??? ???


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: HTexan on June 13, 2016, 06:01:09 PM
What's a pretty fuck?  ??? ???
Pity fuck. Auto correct sucks.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 14, 2016, 12:09:02 AM
Pity fuck. Auto correct sucks.

Yes it does.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: chadstallion on June 15, 2016, 09:33:33 AM
What's a pretty fuck?  ??? ???
a pretty fuck?
usually something from the Colt, Falcon or Titanmen studios.


Title: Re: Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, No, Yes, (schmoe)
Post by: Primemuscle on June 16, 2016, 01:54:57 PM
a pretty fuck?
usually something from the Colt, Falcon or Titanmen studios.

Those men are supposed to look rough, not pretty. They appear to be the antithesis of pretty.